Daily Community Chat Megathread

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-13T19:49:08+00:00

Just made this dressing: https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/218337/our-favorite-balsamic-vinaigrette/

It's pretty good. I omitted the salt entirely, I put some of it on a handful of arugula along with some shaved parmigiano reggiano and it's a really delicious, healthy, and simple recipe.

EulenWatcher · 2023-12-13T18:58:57+00:00

u/topplingtyranny, so I checked the links and it doesn't seem there's the source for this claim. I doubt it mostly because I'm not sure how women controlling more than half of personal wealth correlates with women also having higher poverty rates and making less on average.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-13T18:56:02+00:00

The guy from Bald & Bankrupt is one brave dude

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-13T18:36:05+00:00

Survived my first work party yesterday. Drank way too much and the guy I’m talking to is concerned for me, though. Oops

itzReborn · 2023-12-13T18:29:07+00:00

Being a late bloomer in terms of dating sucks man…like I’m at a point were I rather had a bad experience then having none at all. This plus a lot of FOMO plus my mind is always thinking about sex…it’s just a horrible combination of events…or lack of events

Slipthe · 2023-12-13T18:23:30+00:00

Do you think it's important to feel pride in what you do? Or is satisfaction and contentment enough?

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-12-13T18:18:22+00:00

I should have been a dancer, but I like financial stability too much. :(

Fair_Use_9604 · 2023-12-13T18:08:59+00:00

"Just be social man, sign up for some hobbies"

sign up for tennis

go there, there's no one there and the gates are locked

send an email to my club asking for more info

never get a response

Every time...

K_Wilson54 · 2023-12-13T17:54:35+00:00

Study Number: 301925-UT

Exemption Granted: 11/20/2023

My name is Kenneth Wilson, and I am an undergraduate student in the Anthropology Department at The University of Toledo. I am conducting a research study examining emotion, revitalization movements, Andrew Tate, the Red Pill and you are invited to participate in the study. If you agree, you are invited to participate in the following survey and if you would be interested, an interview. The survey is anticipated to take no more than 15 minutes and the interview is anticipated to take no more than an hour. Participation in this study is voluntary. Your identity as a participant will remain anonymous and confidential during and after the study. Your identity will remain protected because at no point in either the survey or the interview will I be collecting any information that could be used to identify you. If any reference would be made to responses in either the survey or the interview, a simple label will be used to refer to the response (ex. Reddit User 1, Reddit User 2, etc.). If you have questions or would like to participate in an interview, please contact me at [email protected].

Thank you for your participation,

Kenneth Wilson

Survey Link: https://toledouw.iad1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_6L6eopd9bii875A

odd_cloud · 2023-12-13T17:52:23+00:00

Reason dating is harder for men #1: women expect more achievements than they have themselves. When young, a guy is better to be a captain of a team, a musician in a band, or have his own place and car paid by parents. When older, being 2-3 steps ahead on career path helps too. Women are not expected to be as accomplished to easy get dates.

Fair_Use_9604 · 2023-12-13T17:43:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/18h7k9g/how_heterosexual_couples_met_oc/

I was unironically born in the wrong generation. Had I been born 20 years earlier my life would be very different today

Slipthe · 2023-12-13T17:36:35+00:00

Do you think homeless people should be allowed to sleep on benches?

slackforce · 2023-12-13T17:32:52+00:00

I'm taking a 2-week trip to [an East Asian country] next year and when people find out, they inevitably ask me if I'm doing it to meet a girl.

No, I'm going because I want to experience their culture and history firsthand. Isn't that why people travel?

Then I have to remind them that East Asian women are just as obsessed about height as they are in the west, and my pasty pink skin isn't going to make them just forget that I'm short.

I'm really excited for the trip, though. I've only been outside of Canada a few times, and both of those times was to Vegas...

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-13T16:56:38+00:00

What do you think of the YouTube channel 'PsycHacks'?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-13T16:53:08+00:00

Why do married women want to be friendly with other men without their husband's knowledge?

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18glyke/my_guy_gym_friend_asked_to_add_me_on_snapchat_i/

Bro, married couples should follow the 'Pence rule'

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-12-13T16:49:36+00:00

Any pathetic excuse of a man who says retarded shit like "Believe Women" deserves to be falsely accused of sexual assault. No exceptions. It's always fun seeing them squirm when the retardation backfires and affects them.

And women who say shit like that deserve to be falsely accused of crimes as well. Frankly they need it to hopefully develop something called "empathy".

DarayRaven · 2023-12-13T16:49:22+00:00

God l've always hated my sister's laugh, seriously it's fuckin unbearable if you hear it

Dusttyy · 2023-12-13T16:44:30+00:00

Just read an article about how some influencer/podcast chick brags about asking to see guys’ bank account on the first date. Her ignorance is hilarious. Any wealthy person with half a brain doesn’t keep a lot in their bank account, outside of maybe an emergency fund (which should be in a HY savings account anyways).

DarayRaven · 2023-12-13T16:23:18+00:00

I thought this nurture vs nature debate was over once they released the four genetic behavioral laws

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T16:21:18+00:00

I Love getting walked to class honestly thats my love language

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T16:13:57+00:00

took a big five test. my results are unsurprising. it also breaks down all the categories which is interesting

<image>

saulbasedman · 2023-12-13T16:11:23+00:00

I don't understand how online criminals even exist. I'm talking about the fact that you need to give so much personal information to payment processors and banks to accept money. Even for Bitcoin you need to show your ID/passport for a wallet. How do they avoid this?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-13T16:05:07+00:00

Not a Tate fan at all but I think this dude handled the interrogation from the feminist quite well

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18h7qim/i_follow_him_but_i_dont_support_him/

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-12-13T15:29:35+00:00

Fair play to those who can manage a FWB/Booty call but I've very rarely seen it ever work out well, almost always seems to end with one person catching feelings or the eroding of a pre-existing friendship.

I became FWB with a pre-existing friend, we told ourselves things wouldn't get weird or awkward, but of course they did. I got a GF and it became pretty clear that it's almost impossible to say "here's my friend, X! We fucked for a while but dw, everything's a-ok 👍", so of course the friendship naturally ended.

I know a guy who had plenty of FWBs and he became sick of it. He's a great looking guy, really charming and does a great job of avoiding fuckboy tendencies, so of course those women were going to catch feelings. He'd make it very clear at the start what the arrangement was, was completely honest and open, with every woman saying "yea of course that's fine". Almost every single one ended catching up feelings. Some were very respectful of it, saying that they wanted more and knew he didn't so wished him all the best. However, some were fucking awful about it and would harass him for many weeks and months after it became clear they had feelings.

Just seems like a minefield where you can do everything right and it'll still blow up in your face.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-13T15:22:34+00:00

if men could score a hookup at least once a week would there still be a male loneliness epidemic

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T14:59:59+00:00

apparently some women are spending hundreds even thousands of dollars on “beauty maintenance” every month. i actually feel bad for them because i seen some of them say that they are ugly so they need to spend all this money to even look presentable. but girl, you don’t need hair done, nails done, eyelash extensions, and botox to look presentable

itzReborn · 2023-12-13T14:51:53+00:00

When you think about it it’s kind of insane how many beautiful(non famous people) have 10k plus followers.

Alert_Koala_7458 · 2023-12-13T14:49:39+00:00

From this point onward, I should never have to hear “well I felt pressured into going”, “I didn’t know how expensive it would be”, “no one explained to me how loans and interest worked, “how did someone let me as a 17 year old pull out these loans”, etc. from any person taking out student loans. I’m not even in college and I feel like everyone has been drilling that into young people’s heads for years.

purplish_possum · 2023-12-13T14:44:03+00:00

Looks like the Mods shut down last nights dating fat women thread. Another thread that was getting good traction with quite a few insightful comments.

The idea that you can have meaning discussions about dating without talking about physical aspects is ridiculous. The no looks rule is ruining this sub.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-13T14:36:05+00:00

<image>

dishonouronmycow · 2023-12-13T14:33:39+00:00

Every day I read something that convinces me to stay single forever (later tonight I will forget and feel lonely)

Willow-girl · 2023-12-13T14:18:06+00:00

I cleaned a different section of the school last night, filling in for a co-worker who was out sick. It was weird. The German teacher had a poster of der Teufel on her wall; another teacher had a skeleton set high on a pillar, almost near the ceiling like an alterpiece, swathed in a black lace gown. In the teacher's lounge, body parts of a dismembered doll were strewn on the table.

The death cult vibe was really strong and I got the hell out of there as fast as I could.

I don't think those teachers have accepted Christ as their personal savior, lol.

SurelyWoo · 2023-12-13T14:09:28+00:00

A ChatGPT haiku about men and women arguing:

Words clash like thunder, Men and women in debate, Storm of discord roars.

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T14:00:13+00:00

Guys my teacher said i was a beautiful presenter

saulbasedman · 2023-12-13T13:59:52+00:00

USA salaries are so crazy. Browsing r/financialcareers and nearly every grad makes atleast 70k, a lot make 100k+. These are 22 year olds with zero years of experience. When someone posts that they make 50k, everyone is quick to say they're underpaid. Now I get why rents and housing prices are so crazy in big cities there.

Why is the financial industry so well developed in the US compared to Europe? You'd think since banking started in Europe that it'd give them a headstart or something.

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-13T13:46:43+00:00

Matched a girl on tinder (she was 21) who is from poland visiting the states with her flight attendant friend

Met up with her the next day in her hotel room. Fucked her RAW, came in her and she took a flight back home that same night

Obviously this is not all women but anyone who says women, especially younger women, do not love to travel and fuck guys, in different countries, discreetly are lying to you

It absolutely happens

TigerRude4 · 2023-12-13T13:43:18+00:00

"Women generally do this/that"

"Well I'm a woman and I don't do it"

No one gives a shit what you do. When we're speaking in generalities, one individual doing something differently doesn't mean shit.

Example: People in US generally either don't vote, or vote for Republicans or Democrats

"Well I voted for Green Party" (or insert some other miniscule party)

"I voted for Green party" is not a smart counter argument

Do you see now how dumb you sound when you say this?

mechanical_fish_81 · 2023-12-13T13:32:14+00:00

A4ALL: Is becoming religious just because you want to find a partner deceitful? As a guy, I knew a guy who tried be a Morman for a while for this purpose. I stopped hanging around with him, it just struck me as the lowest possible level of simping. He ended up leavingthe Mormons because he met someone else elsewhere so it was defo him being inauthentic to find a wife.

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-13T13:22:22+00:00

This woman’s brain has been so corrupted by feminism that she feels that taking a man on a date makes her a “pick me”

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-12-13T13:09:22+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/OBLZTcuGHh

When "you are too nice" guy get into a relationship.😂

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T13:08:52+00:00

i really liked this video. it’s really relevant to some of the discussions we’ve had here recently

jay813x · 2023-12-13T12:56:02+00:00

Some normie women found our sub and they're losing it, shitting up threads with reaction gifs

More PPD news at 11

happy_discus · 2023-12-13T12:55:52+00:00

If true, this graph could be a significant argument against "people meet offline all the time".

Graph taken from Dataisbeautiful

Edit: Apparently I got no idea how graphs work or how to read them. ^{^}

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-13T12:53:36+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/ForeverAlone/comments/18cu8e0/i_did_it_31_years_old_i_finally_did_it/

Happy for my man. I remember how magical it was meeting my gf at 27 after a decade of loneliness.

OutdatedBoy104 · 2023-12-13T12:39:32+00:00

Not being able to find a virgin gf is making my depression come back.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-12-13T12:15:26+00:00

It really is sad how any amount of time reading women’s opinions on dating and relationships completely drains me of any will to respect women.

I would give away my genitals to meet a single woman who actually gets it, without having to push male experiences through their sheltered female worldview.

This is in response to the lying about things to get sex thread. It’s very easy for women to say they don’t have to lie because they are oh so wonderful, when in reality they didn’t really do anything but say yes to the right guy.

I wouldn’t personally do it, but so much relationships are built on lies and clearly the ladies eat that shit up or there wouldn’t be so much complaining about “the reveal”

This is before getting into the multitude of ways women lie to manipulate men, or rather omission of truth to present themselves as someone they wholly aren’t.

And no Matt how you try to argue it or rationalize it, women will always somehow pidgeonhole the debate so that “you aren’t entitled to sex” is the only response they need to give.

No and you girl who only shows her face looking up to hide you 3 chins, aren’t entitled to a relationship. You there woman hoping to spring the idea of step fatherhood only after having sex, you madam who goes out to get her innards rearranged every Saturday “just hanging with the girls”

Can we stop pretending only men are liars and cheats please

I think the phrase “you aren’t entitled to sex “should be banned, since it’s use is solely to throw shade on a man’s character and end the current discussion to go on a dog pile tirade of women shitting on a guy “for being entitled to sex” when the post had 3 other sentences, and another 3 paragraphs after the fact

Either that or all the guys here to only respond to women’s dating woes (of which there are very few) with “you aren’t entitled to a relationship” (even though god knows they ALL are)

Absolute meme gender, barely tolerable even when it’s just fucking pixels jfc

chilikettlechips · 2023-12-13T08:15:59+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/18h7k9g/how_heterosexual_couples_met_oc/

Nooooooo OLD data is useless!!!! NOT ALL WOMEN every woman is unique and special and different. Only incls use OLD which is not real life!!!!!!!!!

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-12T18:32:05+00:00

Kid at my school today: “SHUT UP OR ILL SEND YOU TO EPSTEINS ISLAND”

saulbasedman · 2023-12-12T21:56:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18gj4tz/so_tired_of_boys_telling_me_women_only_want_to/

Lmao at the comments. Women are so excellent at gaslighting omfg. Always amazes me.

Imagine me saying that most men don't really care about the boob/ass size of a woman. That'd be a complete utter lie. So why do women feel the need to do it?

Just say you like tall men and go on with your day. You don't need to repress your sexuality on an anonymous forum. There is no priest who will shun you.

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-12-12T22:41:18+00:00

The difference is I’ll date a girl with a weird butt or small boobs, but a lot of women WOULD Not date a man below 5’9”

Men care about ass and boobs much less feast or famine than women care about height and build

WilliamWyattD · 2023-12-13T00:01:39+00:00

It still baffles me that so many otherwise intelligent and sensible women simply refuse to even talk about the 'big picture' when it comes to mating and gender dynamics. Or when they do, they do it so poorly, as if they were trying to be bad at it in order to just make that level of analysis 'go away'.
Maybe it has to do with a worry that talking about the big picture on mating tends to lead to big picture solutions, which in the past have always been about (at least to many women's type of thinking) men controlling female sexuality at scale for male advantage.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-12T18:40:57+00:00

Lillth getting banned from PPD.

https://preview.redd.it/p7lra48dsw5c1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=d6642b27920d7ee9ef5999b245b4175504a53235

saulbasedman · 2023-12-12T21:38:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18gm2tm/the_absolute_bare_minimum_men_can_do_is_protect/

I thought no one was entitled to anything

keebydee · 2023-12-12T21:39:38+00:00

I feel like I would be a mess if I got a relationship. I can imagine myself constantly thinking that the woman is just gonna leave out of nowhere one day because I'm not interesting enough and the concept of a woman possibly wanting to stay with me for a long time seems too good to be true.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T20:35:35+00:00

I think what most guys don't realize is the relationship will always work best when the woman loves the guy more than vice-versa, because women craze an emotional experience from the relationship while for guys it's usually the physical part

keebydee · 2023-12-12T22:47:36+00:00

I don't think a woman's boob/ass size has ever been a factor in why I found her attractive now that I think about it. 🤔

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-13T03:13:07+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ba3riabobz5c1.png?width=1348&format=png&auto=webp&s=93c334e5cd20a3fdc57119c6ca8ad306e9e58830

chilikettlechips · 2023-12-13T11:26:22+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18glyke/my_guy_gym_friend_asked_to_add_me_on_snapchat_i/

Guy asks a woman for Snapchat. Gets shut down. DAE all men?????

200 comments of congratulations, commiserating, validation and indignation.

webernicke · 2023-12-12T19:27:09+00:00

Seems like we need a substitute lilith. RPers just pining after her lmao

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-12-12T19:39:17+00:00

I truly cannot imagine my life without my moisturizing products. I can’t go one day without lip balm, facial moisturizer, body lotion, foot lotion, and hand lotion. When I imagine the collapse of civilization, I think I’d miss my lotions the most.

OutdatedBoy104 · 2023-12-12T19:49:18+00:00

I have no motivation to attend places and events on which i can't meet virgin women

Gladboys · 2023-12-12T20:34:13+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18gm2tm/the_absolute_bare_minimum_men_can_do_is_protect/

lol this subreddit is so dogshit man do these people really expect random civilians to do the job of law enforcement. was that guy getting stabbed to death in front of his fiance in new york not a wake up call that you are not in fact a super hero?

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-12-12T18:29:31+00:00

Days without Lilith: 7. I'm starting to get worried, where are you?

0DarkFlirty · 2023-12-12T18:49:59+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoHotTakes/comments/18ga2yu/my_36f_daughter_12f_now_thinks_her_dad_50m/

This entire thread is dumb. This is a 12 year old child who spends too much time on the internet, specifically tiktok most likely. If she's asking this question it probably has less to do with having a nuanced understanding of relationships or critical thinking and more so just memeing stuff from the internet.

GltyUntlPrvnInncnt · 2023-12-12T19:01:11+00:00

So I'm a pretty new in this sub. I thought I would hate it here, but alas there are so many cool people here. I may not not agree with everyone all the time, but I'm learning new stuff. Kudos to all of you regulars that make this place interesting.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-12-12T22:20:53+00:00

Getting into this reverse-negging thing (I'd think to call it pozzing but that means something already, and it's fucked up). I just really hype up women I'm friends only with.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-13T01:41:15+00:00

The easiest way to filter out men who want to use you for sex is to withhold sex until commitment has been established, a serious relationship has been established, engagement or marriage.

Yea instant red flag 🚩

I'm not signing a business contract aka marriage just to get laid

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-12-13T02:02:57+00:00

Yay I graduated college. Now that I don’t have school to worry about I can finally start focusing on solely raising my SMV. Def gonna hit the gym and up my wardrobe. Maybe even try out OLD so I can get humbled.

Gladboys · 2023-12-13T02:06:12+00:00

man bojack horseman is such a good show i thought i was gonna hate it cuz of the first episodes but its honestly good

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T04:57:57+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRcJ1JHd/

Guys never support small online businesses i know a guy that got scammed out of $200 TWO TIMES because he bought clothes from some random instagram page then they deactivated as soon as he paid for it bru😹 Im like ur really that gullible

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-13T10:07:51+00:00

It’s always interesting to see celebrity couples that are hyped up by women on social media as “Goals” breakup. You don’t know anything about these people and what goes on in their homes aside from them looking cute on IG LOL

Luciansleep · 2023-12-12T18:14:41+00:00

I think I might be permanently done after the last two relationships I’ve had.

I haven’t felt a want for anything romantic and honestly just feel numb when I think about getting into another one or sometimes legit fear.

Is this normal?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-12T18:29:14+00:00

Listening to that Kate Bush album. I am not embarrassed to admit I first heard the song on TikTok.

saraimarsena · 2023-12-12T19:23:45+00:00

dropped a new powder on the floor and it shattered into pieces within the case

PAIN

meteorness123 · 2023-12-12T21:03:27+00:00

Rate Kanye West (recent picture) :

https://preview.redd.it/6gieq8obiv5c1.jpg?width=914&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca7b5e9ed1a2af7697179745af7b2eb56fc9d568

Maffioze · 2023-12-12T21:17:34+00:00

Having a high sex drive can be really annoying. I wish I didn't have it.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T22:28:22+00:00

So a more accurate statement would be: money is more important than looks, if you already look normal

At that point it's Game more than money

Good mouthpiece always does wonders even more than good-looking guys

meteorness123 · 2023-12-12T22:48:31+00:00

I'm beginning to grey little bit, especially around my sides and I'm really liking it. It gives an appearance of wisdom, courage and experience.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T23:33:55+00:00

Whats with the hatred of “simps?” I dont mean the unrequited love type, i mean the dotes on their gf like a princess type. Is at least some of this hatred reflexive? Simped too hard for a girl and it didnt work out?

Nothing against simps but this is how guys get killed or psychologically warped which is why l always say kill the bluepill spirit before it kills you

Gladboys · 2023-12-12T23:47:47+00:00

cmv: a world with 100% honesty is just a fantasy of the socially incompetent or very neurodivergent. telling white lies is so engrained in how we interact with each other that literally every neurotypical person has done it. the amount of lies said that intend to hurt or fuck you over is sub 1%, the vast majority of them are for keeping the peace and building eachother up.

i disagree with the notion that building other people up inflates their standards btw. people who are short, fat, ugly etc. know these things already, being cruel in the pursuit of "honesty" comes off as maladjusted

saulbasedman · 2023-12-13T00:32:37+00:00

Pleaseeee god let this girl be interested in me I'd finally be freed from the chains of the daily chat

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T00:39:12+00:00

Omgggg is it that the average mannequin or whatever they test clothes on is now built like spongebob or howww is it that i almost dont have ah single pair of jeans thats actually fits at the waist even if it fits everywhere else its 100%%%% always way too big at the waist even leggings like its acc really annoying like im going to self destruct

Thats why i gravitate to low rise jeans like i cant like normal jeans just arent for me at ALL

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T01:12:36+00:00

not my brother who is only 21 months younger than me, calling me old

keebydee · 2023-12-13T01:15:59+00:00

I remember when I signed up to be in the robotics club when I was 12, I would just sit, not do anything and watch everyone else build their stuff because I had no clue how to socialize. I kept going even though no one talked or included me in their stuff because I wanted to learn how to be like everyone else.

It hurt but I've rather been treated that way more than the fake inclusion people did to make it seem like they cared about me when they actually didn't.

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T02:26:42+00:00

q4all: do you feel like you get angry a lot?

i feel like i don’t experience anger a lot. i mean i get annoyed but not angry

keebydee · 2023-12-13T03:11:48+00:00

Does anyone else not like stickers? Like as you don't ever want to touch them? I use a paper towel whenever I have to get it off a piece of fruit like a banana or orange. Not an apple though because I'm not putting my mouth where a sticker has been. I have absolutely no clue how people love stickers. I accidentally touch one and go straight to washing my hands with hot water.

keebydee · 2023-12-13T03:46:21+00:00

Tbh, I wish everyone's profile pic was their reddit avatar. I fucking hate that same people have a picture crammed and cropped into their pic. It just makes so uncomfortable seeing so much detail inside a tiny circle. Just whyyy?

OtPayOkerSmay · 2023-12-13T04:19:35+00:00

A fairly common phrase is: you can either love women, or understand them. I believe this was first coined by Oscar Wilde.

A lot of women report that they dated some guy who became an asshole over time, but he was very nice at first. There are two possible scenarios: women like assholes, or successful men have to hide their misogyny to get with women.

While I won't disqualify the idea that women like jerks, I think there is a bit more at play here...

I suspect highly sexually successful men have to put up a non-misogynistic front as a means to get with the women they do, otherwise they wouldn't be successful; but when the mask drops they reveal less than nice undertones.

These men don't love women, they understand them.

Thoughts?

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-12-13T06:07:42+00:00

can evopsyche explain why some men wanna put their dick in the poop hole

keebydee · 2023-12-13T07:26:57+00:00

Something that's actually super embarrassing I did in high school was that I started dressing like Steve Urkel from Family Matters with the suspenders, glasses, everything because I knew he was an extremely loved character irl and I wanted the same reputation and treatment as I struggling hard with socializing. 😭

Also apparently doing something like this is common in autistic people. If that's true then I feel even more like a weirdo 😞

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-12-13T07:41:49+00:00

Are there ppd posts/thread/comments that have really stuck with you? Anything that you still think about, thought made a good point, insight or actually helped you or anything else that you still remember

Coffee-n-Xanax · 2023-12-13T11:55:12+00:00

I almost got robbed. I'm a few weeks in a new city (Saskatoon) and I guess spending time in Winnipeg without incident, a city that's supposed to be dangerous, made me overconfident because I went to get fucking milk, on foot, an hour round trip, at 2 AM through what I have since learned is one of the highest crime neighborhoods/sections of the city here. Three children, thankfully they were children, three 16-17 year old kids walked towards me on a quiet street and started saying things like "you good?" and "what you got". I tried to keep walking but obviously they started following me. I carry an extendable baton so when they started following after me I got to have that cool moment of extending the baton like down and to the side (click) and telling them to fuck off. They immediately get worried, I started moving towards them, they're kids so they suck at standing down the charge and start running away, stopping, turning back to talk more shit. I wasn't approaching to hit them, I just knew I had to go offensive, basically, and intimidate them. After one more time pointing the baton at them they fucked off. First time in my life that ever happened. I found a cop a few minutes later and reported it, got the milk and went home. I will not be going out at 2 AM again. This city has a bad vibe just walking around but everyone I've engaged with has been surprisingly alright.

This is why dealing with kids is odd. That was blatantly predatory and antisocial behaviour but when they got scared, they acted like wounded people dealing with the unfair nature of life. It was like "aww come on" type energy. It's almost what you would expect from a kid getting mistreated except they're criminal. I found that odd.

AutoModerator · 2023-12-12T18:00:17+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "Debate" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

hungrychick404 · 2023-12-12T18:01:54+00:00

First

keebydee · 2023-12-12T18:02:08+00:00

First 👁👁

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-12T18:11:08+00:00

First (Male)

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-12-12T18:34:59+00:00

I have a question for our resident Gen Z poster. When does she get out of school?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-12-12T19:00:08+00:00

Face>Height

Gladboys · 2023-12-12T19:28:31+00:00

man i wish i could play piano https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtkhB0BO_Uk

beautiful instrument

Ohmaygahh · 2023-12-12T19:35:42+00:00

I literally woke up thinking about this topic this morning, and wondering women's endless complaints about men who "lovebomb" them and then start pulling back and fading away from initial levels of high interest.

And as if youtube was reading my mind, it answered it in the most compelling way yet by Dr. Taraban.

scwizard · 2023-12-12T19:45:41+00:00

This girl at work had some work related issue with me and went to my boss directly and now my anxiety is sky high.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-12-12T19:52:32+00:00

Are we allowed to talk about eugenics if it’s not racially charged or about looks? Are we allowed to talk about both positive and negative eugenics?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-12-12T20:05:21+00:00

Bro, a good personality will never make up for poor looks.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/18g3hf0/not_attracted_enough_to_my_partner/

Don't waste time with therapy, get your fat ass in the gym instead

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T20:35:18+00:00

I think what most guys don't realize is the relationship will always work best when the woman loves the guy more than vice-versa, because women craze an emotional experience from the relationship while usually the physical part

meteorness123 · 2023-12-12T20:45:50+00:00

Rate this line

"She's kind of famous and I'm sorry Nicki Minaj when I say this ..but I wanna stick my panus in your anus!"

keebydee · 2023-12-12T21:00:21+00:00

Watching videos covering posts from r/ relationships made me realize how crazy it is that your relationship can just blow up spontaneously out of nowhere because of some outside influence that had nothing to do with you. Particularly friends. Like I saw a story where a friend of the GF said to her that her BF was hitting on her and that was enough for the relationship to turn to shit because she believed her even though she was blatantly lying.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-12-12T21:08:25+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/18gu9q6/neighbour_stole_my_package_full_of_dirty_diapers/

The fact that people like this exist is both hilarious and kinda frightening to me lmao

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-12-12T21:11:23+00:00

Anyone seen the second season of White Lotus? What did you think of it?

monster_lily · 2023-12-12T21:17:33+00:00

My mom said she would give me money so i could buy what i want for christmas but Im like... thats not a gift...U have to buy it for me thats what makes it special

Why does nobody get it

monster_lily · 2023-12-12T21:19:17+00:00

I think i have conditioned myself Bc whenever a teacher just starts yapping or plays a long youtube video i go to sleep but then when i acc have free time in school i cant.... Whats up with that

meteorness123 · 2023-12-12T21:34:33+00:00

When did you realize how much more important money is than looks ?

grillopie · 2023-12-12T21:34:50+00:00

For anyone who likes to go after women who arent popular because less competition, did none of you ever fantasize about dating a famous person when you were younger? Iunno maybe like a certain french pop star, and youd be on her arm at certain events, shed go out with you in a “disguise” to dodge the paparazzi, and interviewers would flirt with her but she would come home to you?

No one? Just me?

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T21:42:13+00:00

Again don't do nor care about Christmas presents

But c'mon, l need that walter white sound

DarayRaven · 2023-12-12T23:08:22+00:00

I keep seeing this tradcons and stoic guys saying shit like "control your sexual urges as a man"

And l keep asking my, are the guys who are getting thrown casual sex everyday controlling their urges ?

Honestly this is just a shaming-stragety among low-status unattractive guys

No_Mammoth8801 · 2023-12-12T23:30:01+00:00

One of my previous accounts got banned for admitting that yes, I have found the shape of a woman's boobs unattractive before (in my defense there's legitimate medical terminology for the breast deformity). Didn't matter. Banned.

I don't know why these questions and claims regarding women's bodies are brought up when everyone knows answers that don't affirm or validate women are censored.

meteorness123 · 2023-12-12T23:40:18+00:00

So honestly.. the reason why I don't like dating women significantly more younger than me because I feel like I can instantly see their story. Daddy issues. I don't want her to indulge in that, I want her to fix her issues and date somebody her own age. That kind of thing.

Thots ?

Dizzirron · 2023-12-12T23:42:44+00:00

“Is it just me, or is it getting crazier out there?”

baiser_vole · 2023-12-12T23:50:11+00:00

Some people love to put words in my mouth.

No_Mammoth8801 · 2023-12-13T00:02:32+00:00

Q4W: Is Aziz Ansari a rapist?

itzReborn · 2023-12-13T00:16:26+00:00

What do y’all think about those articles that say people with higher intelligence struggle when it comes to dating?

grillopie · 2023-12-13T00:49:47+00:00

i know the red pill advises you to channel some of your sexual frustration into gym time, but what if you hard grinded the self improvement angle? got off reddit, got off red pill pods, got off incel forums and pulled a legally blonde and got yourself into harvard law or some equivalent? then when you write the book about your life, you can credit not having girls as your recipe for success. doesnt that sound like the ultimate revenge fantasy?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-12-13T00:57:26+00:00

It might be a what came first the chicken or the egg situation but the amount of time I spend on ppd is directly proportional to how bad my mental health is.

Like I’m never here when I’m feeling good lmao

thetruthishere_ · 2023-12-13T01:12:48+00:00

Good golly the spam on my website is insane. So annoying even with blockers.

CringeButCorrect · 2023-12-13T01:19:58+00:00

Q4W: What kinds of discrimination have you personally seen women face in Tech/STEM? I have always heard about it, but I've never seem it happen. I assume it has to be a thing, since you hear about it a lot. What should I as a male be on the lookout for?

meteorness123 · 2023-12-13T01:49:56+00:00

Seriously, random hook ups and casual sex are so pointless and empty

BackToTheMoon_ · 2023-12-13T01:57:25+00:00

The new tinder update was awful

hannahg000 · 2023-12-13T01:59:36+00:00

people here talk about all the time feeling like they missed out on dating while they were in school. what i feel i missed out on the most is having a really close female friend. i always wanted a friendship like i saw in tv shows. having someone to share all your secrets with and do fun girly things with.

DarayRaven · 2023-12-13T02:00:05+00:00

I did not know this existed. It made me wonder if I am demisexual. I thought experiencing sexual attraction after a close emotional relationship was normal

It's not normal especially for guys since they watch porn and porn has no emotional strings attached

Women too since there's hypergamy(AF/BB)

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T02:02:13+00:00

Guysss bridgerton s3 is coming out next yearrrr

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T02:09:03+00:00

Guys my dad said he would vote for niki haley

--EndLessOrochi-- · 2023-12-13T02:09:42+00:00

Did they remove the CMV flair?

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T02:13:44+00:00

Anyone else like cant be consistently energetic Like u have days where youre superrr productive then days when u cant barely do anything cuz I do likeee

monster_lily · 2023-12-13T02:15:58+00:00

Proof that i can speak the kings english

https://preview.redd.it/xq1lxg8l1z5c1.png?width=1392&format=png&auto=webp&s=a2925086a6e52695abd5f46c31433d9513235487

meteorness123 · 2023-12-13T02:50:27+00:00

I don't find Melina, Destiny's (ex)-wife attractive

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-12-13T02:59:32+00:00

I hate how nightlife recommendations are on Tiktok now.

Facebook and yelp are full of boomers and people who don't really go to bars/clubs. Same with reddit.

Tiktok is the only place where healthy bodied young women post about what bars and clubs they go to. And it's so inefficient to try to extract info from a video of a dumb girl going through an entire pointless story to start her review of a place.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-12-13T03:13:17+00:00

A little humor for the day

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-13T03:33:10+00:00

When you were in middle or high school did kids roast other kids over their clothes? Like sneakers shirts etc

meteorness123 · 2023-12-13T03:35:31+00:00

Friend of mine is with a girl he does not find physically attractive. She doesn't seem to care either.

Absolute legends. I envy that.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-12-13T04:48:57+00:00

I finally met a boomer aged older guy last night that I really enjoyed talking to. He just moved here to live with his son who’s been here for a while. It only took a year to find one who is interesting, smart and normal.

Gladboys · 2023-12-13T05:34:27+00:00

i just had a dumbass idea for a hookup app where u have all the info about a person except their name, i think i could make the execution of it work if only serial killers and shit didnt exist it kinda ruins my idea

it was gonna be called Backshots tho which is a top tier name for a hookup app

baiser_vole · 2023-12-13T06:19:52+00:00

Q4A: Does celebrity crush mean that you'd have sex with the person or go on a date with the person? What kind of attraction are we talking about here?

WilliamWyattD · 2023-12-13T08:52:52+00:00

I wonder if there were those in the Feminist movement that saw that feminizing men would make them less attractive sexually, but felt this was a necessary cost to make them less dangerous and more manageable?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-12-13T10:08:08+00:00

I don’t like people staying at peoples home(and vice versa lol) barring emergencies and exigent circumstances of course. For example I’ve had close friends and family members stay a night at my home no problem, like for example 2 years ago when I hosted Fourth of July one of my best friends and his girl were super hammered and they spent the night in my guest room. Left the next morning no problem, but a week and up?

I bring this up cause people will go to another state or country and say I’m gonna stay at my aunt or cousins house for 2 weeks and I’m like nah. I’d rather get a hotel then stay in your basement.

ThisTimeForRealYo · 2023-12-14T16:11:55+00:00

Any drum and bass enjoyers here? Drop me a banger

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	7
Comments	1510
Date	December 12, 2023 6:00 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/18gs12a/daily_community_chat_megathread/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/daily-community-chat-megathread.1240604 https://theredarchive.com/post/1240604

Comments