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SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-06T20:15:23+00:00

I think my recent musical taste can be adequately described as 'look at these fucking clowns'.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-06T19:55:46+00:00

you only know the extent that someone cares for you when the times get tough. doesn't matter how many gifts, affirmations, and gestures they shower you with beforehand, you'll know who they are at your lowest

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-06T19:52:22+00:00

My boyfriend is coming today!!! I made a cheeseburger casserole with a hashbrown/cheddar topping

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-09-06T19:49:45+00:00

You know who you are...

https://youtube.com/shorts/7WagJHOWpUE?si=jdYiQvZ9lhem5DDH

meteorness123 · 2023-09-06T19:38:52+00:00

Pick up had some valuable psychological advice and insight back in the day. Moreso than TRP.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-06T19:17:20+00:00

What did I miss

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-05T19:04:14+00:00

Kylie Jenner and Travis Scott date other people and have a famous on again/off again situation but apparently according to people close to them they have this agreement to only have kids with each other. I have talked to women who have said straight up I will never have multiple baby daddies, if it doesn’t work out with my child’s father I’m will date but that new person has to understand that you aren’t getting any kids out of me

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-09-05T19:16:36+00:00

I find hilarious how the modteam have a one-sided enforcement of rules, make me want to use the script posted in the allpilldebate

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-05T19:20:16+00:00

Because it should be said at least a dozen times a day: average men are not struggling and failing to get any romantic interest from women.

I keep seeing takes like “for an average man, you can expect 0 dates in 5 years.” No. Just no.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-05T19:20:20+00:00

The beginning of up will never not make me cry. I want to grow old with someone and then die for him to fly our house to South America and make friends with a talking dog

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-05T19:22:01+00:00

Waiting 2 weeks for sex is all it takes to weed out bad men.

Who knew it was so simple and easy.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-05T19:41:06+00:00

It took me a lot of time to put this feeling into words.

So the thing which really annoys me is when people are looking at their relationships in a very pragmatic way, and at the same time expect their partners to be romantic, to not care about earthly possessions.

And I see men and women doing this, reducing their potential partners to a bunch of numbers, how much they earn, how big their house is, how many sexual partners they had... but their partner is supposed to fall in love with their charming personality, and not care about anything else.

It's like those fat acceptance posters show fat woman and a fit muscular guy... superficial preferences for me, but not for te ... tehehehe.

It's so fucking anoying.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-05T19:41:32+00:00

As a RPer I agree with this post -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/169z6a1/if_you_want_to_catch_a_lot_of_fish_you_dont/

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-09-05T19:56:56+00:00

Just an alarm to every straight woman or woman in a straight relationship here. A certain female user has openly stated that you lot are idiots for being with men and gain a net negative from being in relationships with them, effectively insulting your competence, sexuality and your lover because their past experiences with men have been lacking themselves. Woe of me to call this female behavior, but I just thought you ladies should be aware of the kind of awful sentiments some users you would assume are “on your side” hold for you.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-05T20:02:08+00:00

Dating for both genders is a little bit like playing nintendogs. Cute at first but then it gets annoying, it won’t leave you alone anf one of you is always covered in shit.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T20:02:54+00:00

Because it should be said at least a dozen times a day: average women are not being sexually assaulted/raped.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-05T20:05:27+00:00

Popular/unpopular take: I don’t see anything wrong with men pursuing women. Especially if it maximizes their odds of success. Expecting a woman to step out of her feminine frame is a losing endeavor.

In addition, what you won’t do, another man will. I rather compete than sit on the sidelines.

Maffioze · 2023-09-05T20:22:33+00:00

Why do some people feel uncomfortable with harsh truths?

I tried to tell someone that I think most people follow moral rules mainly because of the social pressure and the negative consequences they face from breaking them, you know the idea of being held accountable, and suddenly I find myself being accused of being sociopathic.

This has nothing to do with me, but simply what I have concluded observing human beings. The majority of people will do immoral things if most people around them accept them. The people who go against them regardless of consequences, and who make morality evolve is usually a minority of people who dared to do right thing, after which the majority eventually followed them.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-05T20:24:33+00:00

43 yo lady on tinder posted her swipe data and the usual breakdown from men in the comments about women swiping on the top 1/5/20% of men.

these are the men she dated. Thoughts? Are they top 1/5/20%?

People also complaining about how selective women are on dating apps. She went on 7 dates in less than 2 months (and slept with 3 of them). How many people should women date so we’re not seen as too picky?

janedoebreakin · 2023-09-05T20:41:19+00:00

I don’t like hearing people say bad things about my fiancé because I’m worried there is truth to their statements. To others, he’s a loser because his first home is a double wide that he bought at age 41. He’s never been married, and has no kids yet. He worked on a ranch for a long time and just got his first decent job. He used to drink a lot but now he’s sober.

To me, he’s everything. I love him so much. I’m impressed that he bought a lovely little home for us, stopped drinking, and got a better job. I don’t think he’s a loser but other people try to convince me he is and I’m worried I’m starting to believe them on a subconscious level. Other 40 year olds near us have huge houses and new cars and big families. We’re planning on trying for our first baby soon. I feel very hurt when people talk poorly or down on him, because it feels like they’re insulting me. I know my ramblings probably don’t make sense but I’m just venting.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-05T21:14:41+00:00

Because some men don’t believe women are capable of romancing their partners, another question for the ladies!

What do you do to romance your man?

potoricco · 2023-09-05T21:14:53+00:00

Why is it so embarrassing walking past a guy you like and his girlfriend? I have never even talked to this guy nor do I have a crush on him but I can acknowledge he’s attractive, but everytime I see them I feel overwhelming shame and embarrassment

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-05T21:17:31+00:00

I often find myself wondering how many of my friends/acquaintances in relationships have cheated at some point. Of the guys/girls who I know for a fact have been unfaithful, there’s no real pattern- some of them I probably could have guessed, but I never would have expected it from some of the others.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-09-05T21:32:37+00:00

Unpopular opinion: I think women having a lot of (genuine) guy friends is a green flag.

Hear me out.

You know the dynamic of how women hate it when their guy friends have a crush on them? And then they get offended if the guy grows distant after rejection? I see this on Instagram pages all the time.

On internet forums, BP say it's dehumanizing because men only see women as sexual objects. But the retort from RP is that women aren't entitled to friendships.

I think there's truth to both. But feelings aside, the cold analysis is that if you remove sex from the equation the power balance changes. (Most) Men are fine with being friends with women without the potential of sex, but then the criteria becomes a lot harsher since sex potential is worth a lot. Men start evaluating women like they do guys. What hobbies does she have? What's her career? How does she spend her free time? etc. etc.

Women who can offer value in these fields will eventually have a lot of genuine guy friends. They're great women to have around when the initial high of sex wears down.

I think a lot of women, whether intentionally or unintentionally, accrue a lot of male friends who really are just romantically interested in her. 'Orbiters' as the manosphere would say. This is the red flag.

But all else equal, I'll take the woman in a gender-mixed friend group vs one who only has her girl friends.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T21:42:30+00:00

One of the biggest and most outrageous lies that many feminists like to peddle is the idea that "being nice is the minimum". When you take a glance at reality you can see that this isn't true- Chris Brown beat Rhianna to a pulp, I have a friend who has multiple girlfriends who he emotionally/physically abuses, etc. So clearly that idea that nice is the minimum is not true- the minimum is giving her the tingles.

baresquad · 2023-09-05T21:43:55+00:00

If you’re a young man chasing fuck boy dreams, I advise that you work on being emotionally stable and mentally tough because in reality you’re going to:

Be disposable: No matter what, you will sometimes develop emotional attachment. Those women will have options. They won’t put their dating lives on pause for you. You will be disposable. It may not affect you the same every single time but you’re delusional if you think you can navigate this without being affected by natural human emotion.
Have your reputation ruined: The world is smaller than you think. Word travels. People will hear about the shit you pull. You’re not gonna make it if “are we dating the same guy” Facebook groups scare you.
Be approaching your 30s single: If you sacrifice dating in your 20s for fucking around, don’t be surprised when you’re nearing 30 and still single. You gotta weigh whether that risk outweighs the benefits of fucking around.

The grass always sounds greener. But often times it’s not and if you come up short, you’re gonna end up sad, alone, and miserable. They’ll tell you being a fuck boy is the way to go but they ignore the reality of it. A lot, it’s best to pursue being boyfriend material.

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-09-05T22:16:20+00:00

Don't You guys keep saying reproduction is a woman's choice. You know their body their choice.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16apm03/i_dont_blame_deadbeat_fathers_as_much_as_women/

So how isn't the responsibility not on the women?

potoricco · 2023-09-05T22:16:51+00:00

When you were a little kid did your family member, when feeding you meat, chew it in their mouth for a few seconds then give it to you? Or is my family weird

meteorness123 · 2023-09-05T22:18:22+00:00

Couple months earlier, I kind of lost a bit of interest in a girl. She was smart and fit and interested in me but I was kind of bored

potoricco · 2023-09-05T22:20:40+00:00

Having a laptop - Smart

Having a phone - Smart

Having an iPad or tablet in 2023 - Ultra stupid (even more if you bought a keyboard for it Lmaooo)

If youre above the age of 10, you have no excuse, everything you can do on a tablet you can do on a laptop or phone, AND more. And guys that have tablets are betas

thetruthishere_ · 2023-09-05T22:23:01+00:00

I go in tomorrow for my post hospital stay ortho checkup. My hand/wrist is still a mess. I really hope I dont need surgery but I have a feeling I will. Ugh.

I have so much to get done but cant do many things one handed specially as a righty and thats the bad hand! LOL

On that note did anyone do anything fun for the holiday?

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-05T22:24:59+00:00

The fact that women are breaking up with their boyfriends because of the Barbie movie shows how far cultural Marxism has gone

meteorness123 · 2023-09-05T22:26:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/16ayz1a/joe_jonas_files_for_divorce_from_sophie_turner/

Wow, thats crazy loads of copium in the cpmments

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-05T22:31:43+00:00

Would you rather:

- abort a clump of cells inside you

- pay money for 18 years

Which one's the greater inconvenience?

Odd-Diet6704 · 2023-09-05T22:34:14+00:00

Why do women act here act like women don't reject men for being virgins past 30? I have seen on this site alone not to mention real life women saying they wouldn't date men in this situation. They also have the nerve to complain about the way men express preferences, but everything they reject inexperienced men they say there must be something wrong with him. How is that not the same?

blebbyroo · 2023-09-05T22:38:13+00:00

Third day in a row I got up early to go for a walk along the beach ached dropping baby off daycare. I feel so good when I get movement in the morning.

So thankful to live in such a beautiful place. Love seeing all the attractive men and women running and walking too gives me motivation to keep moving.

So close to feeling confident in my body again, most the baby weight is gone, I’m looking good in a Bikini again, just gotta start going to the gym again to get everything toned and shaped

Bring on summer!!

gabejohn · 2023-09-05T22:39:15+00:00

I wonder if weak and smaller lions and gorillas who struggle to mate are told "Bro it's your personality! I know this really small Gorilla who mated 6 times." Oh and stuff like: "Do lioncels even understand that we female lions aren't ALWAYS attracted to the winner of the fight? Like, it's uh totally personality 'kay?"

demedermidimi · 2023-09-05T23:13:02+00:00

so many ppd posts are just different ways of saying men will fuck almost anything and women won't, my favorites are the ones that try to paint men as good and women as bad because of it

potoricco · 2023-09-05T23:15:12+00:00

How to stop caring about people

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-05T23:29:15+00:00

Joe Jonas has been trash. Sophie is better off without being attached to his pettiness.

And this is why age gap marriages are sus.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-05T23:45:24+00:00

Y'all got any tips for making work less shitty? All I've got going for me right now is mumbling "Hotel, Motel, Holiday inn" to myself on repeat because I don't know the rest of the words

dbz__f · 2023-09-05T23:47:00+00:00

Taking a massive dump at work rn

potoricco · 2023-09-05T23:50:21+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/redditonwiki/s/4iSCAtMPzK

Why do men seem so inconsiderate

potoricco · 2023-09-05T23:56:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/lcci4w7azimb1.jpeg?width=438&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b82b144794bb0f1207db134080d583e59053e7ad

I miss this cat sooo much

I need a cat

You cant be a true feminist if you dont have a cat

adelaidemonkie · 2023-09-06T00:02:46+00:00

For some reason I find myself more attracted to losers of situations than the winners. When I imagine a guy who loses a fight or a big game, I want to be there and comfort them. I want to tell them it will be okay. They’re still great men and worthy of love. I want to make them feel better. Their ego needs to be stroked and I can do that.

Maybe this says more about me. Maybe on a deeper level I want a loser because winners get to pick the prettiest girl they want, but a loser will take any girl who will show him love. I could finally be special to someone.

potoricco · 2023-09-06T00:15:33+00:00

Why do things only go missing when I need them, and when I know I haven’t moved them? Frustrating

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-09-06T00:15:56+00:00

peep at all the alpha widows in this post

OPs fiancé wants to know if he’s the best sex she’s had when he isn’t, all the ho’s are telling her to just lie lol

It shows you how common it is for women to experience their best sex outside of their best relationships.

This is basically unheard of for men, their long term partners are there for many reasons one big one is the quality of the sex.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-06T00:20:28+00:00

Men need to apologize less

potoricco · 2023-09-06T00:27:26+00:00

I feel like I just physically don’t have enough time in the day to do what I need

I get back at 6, say I take 30 minutes to eat and orient my self, then I have 3 hours to do work or anything before i start getting ready to sleep. Then I have to shower, get prepared and everything else. I even started work as soon as I got home today and I STILL do not have enough time. Like how are people living like this

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-06T01:24:27+00:00

I'm officially a cripple

I went to BJJ because I knew wrestling would be too much with how bad my knee hurts and BJJ is super low impact

Even BJJ was too much

Ooof ouch

owwie

my knee

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-06T01:24:29+00:00

The Margot Robbie being mid discussion in that other thread last week had me dying cause it reminded me of a convo I had like 10 years ago over Jennifer Lawrence during the height of Jennifer mania. This is when she won the Oscar was everywhere and the new Hollywood it girl. This girl got mad at me and another dude for saying that we thought she was cute but not drop dead gorgeous and that we see girls similar or better at clubs/bars. Homegirls was calling us all sorts of names like “hater” like Jlaw was her sister lol

Then my best friend who is Hatian American chimes in when she asks him what he thinks. My friend says something like Jennifer seems like a nice girl but she’s not my type, I don’t think she’s hot. I only date black women, I love black womens, skin, bodies, lips, that’s all I date. Then he started naming black female celebs that he’d take over Jennifer. The girl who roasted us had a dumb ass look on her face and was silent. You ever see someone be silent but deep down you know exactly what they are thinking? This is what her face told me

“Hmm, am I really about to tell this black man that he’s lying or needs to find this blonde hair blue eyes white women attractive? This is very problematic. Imma shut the fuck up before I get myself in trouble”😝

She never said anything to my best friend after that and then went back to questioning us

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-09-06T01:39:25+00:00

Reminder that you're not entitled to platonic friendships

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-06T01:48:03+00:00

Men really have to date down on apps

social_mules_alt · 2023-09-06T01:50:31+00:00

Female Covert Narcissism

The female covert narcissist needs to know and control everything you do. She criticizes, questions and tries not only to control what you do but how you do it. How you eat, drive, dress. And she acts as though you can't do anything right. Eventually you're treated as completely incompetent and will likely find yourself starting to doubt and second guess yourself on almost everything. Checking with her and getting her permission as though you've completely lost your free will and no longer have a mind of your own. You may become afraid of making simple decisions because you don't want to deal with the negative consequences and reactions. You don't want to deal with the guilt trips, silent treatment and all that other stuff that makes you feel like you're walking on eggshells.

If you're in a romantic relationship with a female covert narcissist you will undoubtedly feel her need for control. Her scornful attitude, blame, rejection, disappointment, anger and the constant tension at every turn. Not to mention her insatiable need to always be right, her antagonistic approach, impulsive behavior, false judgement and relentless criticism. Occasionally you may still share some nice moments that remind you of why you fell in love with her but these moments are fleeting, lasting maybe a day, an hour, only a few minutes before she goes back to devaluing you. And what makes this whole thing even worse is all the denial of any wrongdoing. The complete absence of remorse and the inability to show any empathy.

potoricco · 2023-09-06T02:30:07+00:00

Can i get an A in a class if I have an 80 currently and the quarter ends in november

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-06T02:35:50+00:00

I've never understood the people who get mad at Red Pill guys for learning dating and the likes online purely because "Most people learnt it in reality, why did you need to learn it in this community?"

Who cares how they learnt it? As long as they're fine now that's all that matters.

social_mules_alt · 2023-09-06T02:41:20+00:00

This was removed as a top level discussion for "low effort". I guess I should have posted the 67th n-count or autism post for this week.

Anyhow, here it is in the main chat:

FEMALE COVERT NARCISSISM

The female covert narcissist has her own signature style. She is different from the overt grandiose narcissist in many ways and does not display some of those classic NPD traits that most people associate with narcissistic personality disorder such as that boastful, conceited grandiosity. The female covert narcissist is much more subtle and passive aggressive in her symptom presentation. The eye rolls, dismissive tone, disgusted look, disappointment, the disdain. The female covert narcissist has a pattern of always being the victim. She may come across as shy or even humble. She will very, very, very sensitive to criticism and she is a lot more pessimistic than the overt narcissist.

The female covert narcissist needs to know and control everything you do. She criticizes, questions and tries not only to control what you do but how you do it. How you eat, drive, dress. And she acts as though you can't do anything right. Eventually you're treated as completely incompetent and will likely find yourself starting to doubt and second guess yourself on almost everything. Checking with her and getting her permission as though you've completely lost your free will and no longer have a mind of your own. You may become afraid of making simple decisions because you don't want to deal with the negative consequences and reactions. You don't want to deal with the guilt trips, silent treatment and all that other stuff that makes you feel like you're walking on eggshells.

If you're in a romantic relationship with a female covert narcissist you will undoubtedly feel her need for control. Her scornful attitude, blame, rejection, disappointment, anger and the constant tension at every turn. Not to mention her insatiable need to always be right, her antagonistic approach, impulsive behavior, false judgement and relentless criticism. Occasionally you may still share some nice moments that remind you of why you fell in love with her but these moments are fleeting, lasting maybe a day, an hour, only a few minutes before she goes back to devaluing you. And what makes this whole thing even worse is all the denial of any wrongdoing. The complete absence of remorse and the inability to show any empathy.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-06T02:46:22+00:00

Seeing some couples in real life makes you understand why some men are so strong about going MGTOW or just have a rather...negative attitude towards LTRs/marriage. Some couples just don't really work together and it's hard to pinpoint the root issue. Both partners are snippy, nagging and rude, both lack communication skills and both seem to be uncaring towards each other.

Men tend to side with a man in this situation - he brings in more money, but he doesn't get basic respect and gets nagged all the time. While women tend to see the other side of it - a woman has less free time because she works + takes care of the kid and house, then husband comes home and nags her about undone chores or sex. Both are shitty towards each other really.

I wonder whether it would help if at least one put more efforts in or these couples just aren't compatible in the long run.

potoricco · 2023-09-06T03:37:53+00:00

Female postpartum bodies = 🤮🤮🤮

“Dad bods” = 😍😍😍

Double standards

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-06T03:55:23+00:00

The early-mid 2000s were pretty incredible.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-06T04:14:56+00:00

Is monogamy a high standard?

Are someone else's standards high a problem if you're not interested in them?

Realistic_Sound_4995 · 2023-09-06T04:19:20+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16b45mv/bullying_women_to_lower_their_standards/

Threads like this and posts that state “Men are telling women to lower their standard.”

Stems from emotionalism.

When men talk about women high standard, they are coming from a place of discussion and state how things are. That is logical discussion.

Women emotionally interpret this “Men are telling women to lower their standards.”

We talk about body count a lot, but you don’t see men creating threads or post how “women are telling men to be attracted to promiscuous and sluts.“

Serene_Trine · 2023-09-06T05:42:56+00:00

I think most misogyny and misandry is a combination of selection and monolith bias; people get exposed to a few bad apples, and due to our nature to remember bad events over the better ones we develop a bitter attitude towards the opposite gender.

This is further exasperated by our tendency to avoid self-criticism; we would like to remember the faults in the opposite gender more than that of our own, and this preserves our ego leading to an unfair assessment of the opposite gender.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-09-06T05:59:39+00:00

In my twenties I wanted excitement, looks that boosted my ego to be with, intelligence that was borderline but not quite intimidating, artistic creativity, and social polish.

In my early thirties I wanted stability, and to be honest a "fixer" of the aftermath of all that twenty-something excitement.

Eww 🤢

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-09-06T05:59:48+00:00

I’m 26 now and still a virgin, never even kissed. It’s finally starting to sink in that there’s a decent chance I’ll die alone. Wish I could just give up, but I still cling to foolish hope.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-06T06:28:27+00:00

“It’s okay to divorce your husband even if he’s a great guy”

This is why I encourage men to either not enter into relationships or to not emotionally invest (just enjoy the facade). It’s even worse if you are someone who’s generally perceived as a kind, decent etc guy.

They seem to get the worst of it for whatever reason. Like women lose feelings quicker for them.

I fall into that category. I had this discussion with a woman recently. I basically told her to go for the tallest, richest, most handsome man that she can find. You can always develop a nice personality if you really want to.

TheBluePillRipper · 2023-09-06T06:32:31+00:00

Question for men

Did you guys turn from being a male feminist or an ally to redpill or manosphere-adjacent?

I know I did, just seeing all the toxicity from woke “progressive” liberals who agree with me on policy, except when it comes to double standards on men and women. Just look at the disgusting sexist bile that is produced on the sub TwoXChromosomes nearly every day, for example. Not to mention all the nasty shit women say about men and their issues. I was already disillusioned with how needlessly cruel and nasty my supposed ideological “allies” were towards issues even I faced, that the camel that broke the straw’s back for me was seeing a comment on Twitter, “I remember the days when men stopped whining and just kicked the bucket” (i.e committed suicided). Like holy fucking shit, fuck these people they are literally rooting for the misery of people like myself.

I don’t know, what was your moment that made you say, fuck these people?

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-09-06T06:48:43+00:00

Would you fault a man for being a deadbeat dad and avoiding child support if he made it clear from the start that he wasn't interested in being a father, but the BM chose to keep it anyways?

I wouldn't.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-06T06:51:35+00:00

Have you ever tried to speak to a woman and she completely ignored you and you said something like "She must be deaf or something" just within earshot of her just to see her reaction?

bad_throwing_away · 2023-09-06T07:16:54+00:00

Q4 horny people: Do you accept and adjust your preferences based on your looks level to the person you’re checking out or thinking of approaching?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-06T08:17:12+00:00

The most recent "oh shit I'm getting old" moment, watching people call Joe Jonas old when I still remember him, his brothers and demi Lovato in camp rock on the Disney channel

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-06T08:32:19+00:00

Mia Kalifa - Maybe it’s not Leo dumping his girls as soon as they turn 25, maybe his girl’s outgrow him when their brain fully forms at 25 and they realize they don’t want to be with a 47 year old manchild 📷

She spent her 20's doing porn for $1000 per scene...

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-06T09:12:00+00:00

I really like the idea and theory of a time loop in the universe, once this universe inevitably comes to an end, a new big bang creates it all over again and we start fresh. We essentially just live the same life over and over again.

Although for me that means being born multiple times in 2002 for the rest of my life. And it means going through the death of my Dad at the age of 6 multiple times, so be it though.

Maffioze · 2023-09-06T09:20:36+00:00

Wtf is wrong with people in Australia?

https://preview.redd.it/v7ekccpzrlmb1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=cc8c33cc3d419549dc5404544ebf4fea25adddc0

Maffioze · 2023-09-06T09:37:09+00:00

u/Katatonicsnake Have you ever taking a train from Helsinki to Lapland?

dbz__f · 2023-09-06T10:25:49+00:00

Women enjoy cooking more then men do

UneastAji · 2023-09-06T12:02:36+00:00

Apparently an unpopular opinion: Sex is a marital duty.

You're supposed to sexually satisfy your partner, for life. If you stop having sex with your marriage partner, you should get your ass divorced or you should not expect faithfulness. It's pretty simple and easy. A lot of people when ageing kinda accept that people grow older and get different needs, get their needs elsewhere, ect... As loong as it is discreet.

But somehow, blue pillers (or women in general) can both be against cheating when intimacy drops off the marriage, and be against men who divorce their wives to go for younger women.

Let's speak of that as well, how much of men's upgrade for younger women is actually not a "looks upgrade" but a "having sex upgrade"?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-06T12:49:08+00:00

Nobody is shaming or "bullying" women's standards

That's quite the funniest thing l had, we live in the most gynocentric society in all of human history

Both men and women are cheering women for whatever standard they've

While you got all this tradcons coming after redpill guys for pointing out this such as saying women are hypergamous or whatever even though it's the truth

Interesting enough whenever a guy here says he wants a traditional or low n-count woman, first and only response his gonna receive is "ARE YOU A TRADITIONAL OR LOW N-COUNT PERSON YOURSELF"

While if a woman says she wants a tall,rich guy then all of sudden everyone keeps quiet and doesn't come after her, that's the society we are currently living

potoricco · 2023-09-06T13:06:51+00:00

For every 1 unhinged female here there are 10 male ones. Thats why im not mad at certain people. They have every right to piss you off

hannahg000 · 2023-09-06T13:24:14+00:00

after all this talk of marriage, i’m wondering when the topic should come up within dating or relationships. much like children, it is a make or break thing within a long term relationship.

i’m thinking both topics should be discussed early on in a serious relationship so that both parties can move if there is a mismatch.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-06T13:26:30+00:00

A thread for all the men who say women don't need an education or income

I have to say I agree. I am college educated and I would strongly prefer someone else who is college educated and inhabits the same circles as me or the same circles I aspire to. Perhaps the meme about being able to fall in love with the cashier at McDonalds simply because she is attractive is more reflective of the NPC nature of the men who gravitate to the red pill due to a lack of identity as opposed to a reflection of women being hypergamous.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-06T13:35:03+00:00

What’s your thoughts on subway surfing? https://gothamist.com/news/social-media-companies-to-take-down-nyc-subway-surfing-videos-after-rush-of-teen-deaths

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-06T13:35:37+00:00

The "Man goes to work. Woman raises the kids, cleans and cooks" worked a lot better when work meant doing extremely physically taxing jobs or dangerous work. "I just came home from work" doesn't go down as well when you've been sitting in an office all day and she's looking at you like "fine, let's trade places"

Workaholiconew · 2023-09-06T13:42:27+00:00

I am starting to see a pattern here...

Women who say that women still treat their partners well and that they will do things for family, lovers and children are usually from small villages, rural areas and/or non western/westernized areas.

Women who say they will not under any circunstance want to help their family, lovers or children are usually from big urbanized megalopolises in more westernized and/or western areas. Or at least were raised there...

Interesting...

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-06T13:42:52+00:00

Does this seem like a reasonable skincare routine? I am trying to reduce rosacea redness and just generally have better looking skin so I am new to a lot of this stuff.

AM:

ice bath facial if my face is excessively puffy

Gentle facial cleanser

Azeleic acid on redness a few times a week if moisturizer alone doesn't work

Cetaphil redness relief daily moisturizer

Rosemary oil on eyebrows, beard and thinning spot on crown

If thinning gets worse, will dermaroll every 2 - 3 days

And use topical minoxidil daily

Sunscreen if I am going outside

PM:

Gentle facial cleanser

Azeleic acid

Either Redness relief moisturizer or jojoba oil if it doesn't bother my skin

Under eye serum to reduce bags under eyes

Rosemary oil on eyebrows, beard, and crown

Topical minoxidil if rosemary oil isn't enough

AS NEEDED:

Ice cube on face if face is excessively hot (this feels so good)

Reduce sodium to under 2,000 mg a day

Aim to drink 2 - 3 liters of water a day

Have a clean washcloth for skincare each day

Change pillow cases every couple days

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-06T14:00:01+00:00

This is how you pick up chicks!!!

mummydontknow · 2023-09-06T14:08:36+00:00

Why do you think societies hugely emphasized women's loyalty throughout history?

Are women more likely to trade their man when a better offer comes along?

Maffioze · 2023-09-06T14:12:26+00:00

https://youtu.be/EqVxt-PReGE?si=yneRvncqvYdDFUiT

This song is lyrically amazing. I wish more of them would rap about real stuff instead of money and cars.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-06T14:24:05+00:00

Truth be told, the feminist movement has completely failed to disrupt the growth of the TRP. No amount of incel shaming or hit pieces in MSM can shake TRP. If anything, these attacks only accelerate the growth of its message.

TRP is inevitable.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-06T14:32:06+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/2zemkumlbnmb1.jpeg?width=456&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=443ed4382c4817f5fb8cc57fb4831613bf1b1105

How to impress a woman Step 1:

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-06T14:58:58+00:00

Not caring about body count doesn't mean a man is secure, neither does a man caring about body count mean that he's insecure.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-06T15:05:24+00:00

FINALLY got my health insurance! Card came in the mail yesterday and I have my first doctor's appointment set up for the 16th! It has been many, many years since I've had any healthcare (at least since 2014, which is when I went on ACA insurance that doesn't actually cover anything, lol). I'm almost scared to go and find out what might be wrong with me! :-o

tumblr_throwaway78 · 2023-09-06T15:05:39+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/16b7bdq/aitah_for_wanting_to_get_a_paternity_test

Remember fellas, do the paternity test anyway. Better to lose a relationship than to unknowingly raise a kid that's not yours 👍

md8716 · 2023-09-06T15:07:03+00:00

Funny story, my wife said she was kind of a feminist before meeting me. She had strong vocal opinions, and her friends and family actually thought her hard confrontational personality held her back from getting a man, and that she'd end up old and alone. I had no idea, she was always cute and sweet around me.

Turns out, it was just a defense mechanism against a world she perceived to be harsh and unforgiving, and once she found a dude that she wanted to simp for, she turned into a big ol' softie doting suzy mommy homemaker.

I learned so much more about female nature from that conversation than I ever had before.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-06T15:08:25+00:00

Where's u/lulll? this place was more fun with him here

There should be some ideas thrown around of how to make this place more interesting. I'm losing my interest. It peaked for me during the whole dietdrpepper era (I came here just after what's her name that starts with a g got banned)

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-06T15:11:18+00:00

I didn’t realize the rural vs suburban vs urban thinking was still alive. Seems a bit childish.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-06T15:16:25+00:00

PPD women are right about everything!

Women can do no wrong. Everything that goes wrong in a marriage, relationship etc is a man’s fault. It’s always men’s fault. Men just suck. Women are the closest thing we have to perfection. If they do something wrong (which is impossible) it’s only because men and the patriarchy forced their hand. Men here should do better.

If you aren’t tall, making mid+ 6 figures, in shape, age appropriate etc then just forget about dating. Also if you’re short, ethnic, ugly etc it’s still your fault. Stop being pessimistic. Women can sense your misogyny from a mile away. They can’t sense the handsome guy because he’s a good manipulator.

That is all.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-06T15:28:21+00:00

Can you define BEST SEX?

Do you expect every sexual encounter with your long-term partner to be BEST SEX every time?

potoricco · 2023-09-06T15:30:11+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/s/6gEf2QmoBt

Lmao this is what awaits you Younger wife fetishizers. Having a husband significantly older than you, is basically just robbing your youth like a vampire and All women know this even if they dont admit it or even if they love you

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-06T15:31:22+00:00

QFW

Do you believe that absolutely all Red pillers are misogynists and women haters?

potoricco · 2023-09-06T15:35:42+00:00

Yayyyyyyyy the little mermaid is on Disney plus I hope my mom will watch it with me 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-06T15:36:36+00:00

It's cuffing season.

I need a boo so he can get me a spooky basket with Halloween themed goodies. And we can dress up as Barbie and Ken. And do some Halloween crafts together.

And of course, rinse repeat for November and December. Holiday Barbie!

DrCornSyrup · 2023-09-06T19:57:25+00:00

My BF (26M) won't open up to me (27F)

He is always kind and loving to me. He always treats me right and remembers my favorite candy and he is always remembering things I mentioned so he can buy me gifts. Not big expensive things, but he remembers my favorite animals and gets me stuffed toys of those and I love it so much. He is always there for me to vent or talk to and I love him so much

I was thinking about it the other day and I realized that it is almost always me talking and him listening. This is partially my fault because I talk about myself so much. He doesn't have a problem with this and is usually very willing to talk to me. We have super deep and lengthy conversations and he is a great listener and always knows just what to say

But while I am always telling him about my mental state and mental health, he never talks about his to me. When he is upset usually he just looks off into the distance or takes a walk by himself. He is definitely an introvert while I am a big extrovert but I do not think that is the real cause

I try to ask him about himself but he always gives a very brief answer and then switches the conversation to me. Like he will say "I guess I get a little sad sometimes. What about you? How are you feeling?". It is like he is allergic to talking about himself. I can get him to talk about the things he likes such as cars or sports or chess or lifting weights. He will talk about these but ONLY when I bring them up first. When I ask questions about his emotional or mental state he becomes reticent. The most he has ever revealed about his inner thoughts is that he was afraid to ask me out and was very nervous to talk to me. But I never saw that on his face, he seemed very sure of himself as he always does

The more I think about it the more I realize I do not actually know much about him despite spending so much time around him. It kind of hurts me that he doesn't open up to me. Is there any way to encourage this? I just want to understand him and give him the same kind of love he gives me

tl;dr my BF is very sweet and I love him but he never opens up about his thoughts or emotional state

Peacesquad · 2023-09-06T19:17:14+00:00

Joe Jonas and that game of thrones chick are divorced now. Red pill gonna have a field day with that shit lmao

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-06T19:14:44+00:00

Man,why i always attract women i ain't interested at?

Also, nearly all of them tend to be in the more shy/meek kinda type of Women, and i don't like that at all in a romantic partner.

relish5k · 2023-09-06T19:05:37+00:00

PPD unpopular opinion: big expensive weddings are awesome. No one should go into debt on a wedding but if you have cash to spend, and especially if parents are willing to help out, then a big wedding is great. You’re not taking it with you to the grave after all.

Life is drab and monotonous. Weddings are a time for friends and family to get together and celebrate. When you’re the one getting married, that is probably the only time you will have all, or almost all, your closest friends and family in the room with you at once. It’s also fun to dress up in fancy clothes and play at being royalty for the day.

My BIL got married over the weekend and it was a blast. My favorite part was how we all got to celebrate him and his now wife and gush over how much we love them and how proud we are of them. The speeches were so heartfelt and funny and loving. There aren’t really many other times in life where you can just no-holds-bar on how great someone is, and to do it with others as members of a community is extra nice.

I know some people have shitty families that ruin things and that sucks. And some people just care about having a fancy wedding to impress people and that also sucks. But life is worth celebrating as are the people who are close to you.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-06T19:05:08+00:00

Husband wants to go to gym more often. Why does this happen to every guy at some point?

potoricco · 2023-09-06T18:59:13+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/aXvSEiw6Jc

Ngl This losing value stuff hurts

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-09-06T18:50:09+00:00

I love reddit so much, so many people here are so nice and helpful

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-06T18:30:08+00:00

Things I empathize with relating to men since people think feminists can’t be empathetic towards men’s issues!

The male average lifespan was decreasing in my country even before COVID. I empathize with the fear and frustration an underfunded, overlooked health crisis must cause in the afflicted population. I empathize because the maternal mortality rate is also rising in my country and I’m a person who could give birth. [EDITED because I meant “the male lifespan is decreasing” rather than what I wrote, which was, “male mortality rate increasing” but forgot the word lifespan for a bit]
The male loneliness epidemic is a real phenomenon. As a person who has been deeply, deeply lonely (related to being deeply depressed at the time), I can begin to understand how it must feel — and that it must seem that other people don’t care about it. I empathize.
Young boys have less success and greater academic difficulty in elementary school. Feeling like you’re not “as smart” or “on top of everything” compared to your peers is a horrible thing! Schools are not calibrated well to handle the needs of young boys, who have a harder time sitting still to listen, for example (this is not their fault and nothing is wrong with that). I absolutely can empathize with feeling like the world is against you as a child.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-06T18:27:18+00:00

Everybody looks like shit, provided the right angle of the selfie

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-06T18:21:23+00:00

In Matrix 4 Trinity husband is called Chad, and he is kinda of an asshole.

Coincidence or writers taking a jab at TRP?

Infammo · 2023-09-06T18:19:06+00:00

I hate getting Reddit awards. I have to refresh the page like six times before it finally acknowledges the notification has been read.

md8716 · 2023-09-06T18:12:35+00:00

Before I say this, this is simply an sociological observation, and not any kind of endorsement of this action, but it amazes me how women so consistently pass up on rich nerdy simps just to be with a hot dude that gives them the tingles, but have to struggle financially. I mean let's be real, most women are not universally 6 figure earning boss bitches, and I constantly hear young people talking how we're in this awful economic environment with record college debt, insane housing prices, and crazy high inflation. Like it's this hopeless situation. So.... what am I missing here?

I'm not saying they should do it all, but it just floors me how there's just so few takers. Like, casual sex with hot dudes over just some average rich nerd worth that much? I'd expect a 30-something IT virgin would be beating off girls with a stick because it's like the most harmless, beneficial slam dunk life situation to marry into. Not like you're shacking up with an abusive drug dealer or an aggressive finance bro, and clearly staying alone for life is unsustainable given the economic environment.

Like ok you take all the golddiggers, manipulators, prostitutes, sugar babies, etc., that will obviously do all kinds of suspect shit for finances, and you'd figure some of them would take that deal. Or even women that grew up in poverty, abusive situations, etc.

Idk, it just defies logic to me.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-06T18:10:44+00:00

Consider the following: I am shitposting on PPD making probably 130 dollars an hour (I haven't converted my salary into hourly) while high as fuck

These are the things western society allows you to do as long as you study in school, graduate top of your class, and get a work from home job

redheadtingz · 2023-09-06T17:57:46+00:00

I’m not a cuckquean or anything but it’s kinda hot when the young waitress calls my fiancé “sweetheart.”

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-06T17:53:57+00:00

Peope here need to understand the difference between loving and caring for someone and empathizing with someone. They are very different.

For example, my mother loves and cares for me and I know she always will. However, in the topic of dating, she heavily struggles to empathize with me. She’s a female baby boomer who grew up in a different time for romance, and struggles to understand how it can be so much different today.

My mother loves and cares for me, but does not empathize with me. Is she a bad person? No. Lack of empathy is not inherently bad.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-09-06T17:28:05+00:00

The ideas of the enlightenment failed. John Locke and his gang of merry philosophers had a lot to say about monarchies and the previous eras.

But today I think we’re all grown up to come to the conclusion that those ideas inherently don’t work.

Everything from the budget deficit, climate change, and to the birth rate decline. All these are more or less proofs.

I have a longer post for this but as this becomes more clear I think the inevitable switch back to traditional highly monarchical patriarchal systems is going to more or less end the whole pill debates.

Cause everything that’s argued here is from the premise of the enlightenment ideas being correct.

But if their all incorrect. Then these debates all run on faulty ground.

Hookup culture wouldn’t exist because the idea of bodily autonomy to be able to sleep around regardless of what your family and your community thinks would be out the window.

It’ll be a return to family honor and not wanting to bring shame to the family name.

And we’re already seeing that switch happen.

All these body count discussions and the whole Jake Paul’s wife past stuff is proof of it.

If you don’t see the slow shift back to tradition then you’ll start to see more and more.

And it’s not something that can be avoided. Korea’s birth rate is 0.7. They will go extinct as a country if they don’t fix things. And one of them will be that overly capitalistic work hour culture.

Which is again based on enlightenment ideas of work being essential.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-06T17:21:41+00:00

Some of you seem to believe that women are incapable of loving, caring for, empathizing with, or understanding men in any way.

Sad.

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-06T17:20:46+00:00

bro Florida man is something else.

Florida man arrested by Coast Guard for trying to cross Atlantic in human-sized hamster wheel

NerveComfortable8954 · 2023-09-06T16:44:11+00:00

This sub used to have some interesting discussion regarding nature vs nurture. Now it's predominantly filled with: "I spent my youth sat on the sofa playing Call of Duty 43, whilst the popular, good looking guys were doing 10+ hours of physical activity per week, maximising their endocrine systems during puberty, building self-esteem, and building social status. Why can't I sleep with good looking women?"

The brutal reality is that a woman can fuck around during her youth and still end up reasonably attractive for a time because of the nature of female sex hormones and favourable body fat deposits.

Men can't.

AnotherStandUser23 · 2023-09-06T16:43:59+00:00

Also last thing for my little woe is me post in the DT but man I wish my sexual market value wasn't negative 1 so I could talk to women at my college. Sure most of the girls in my major are freaks and geeks but I like dat tbh.

dela_man10 · 2023-09-06T16:36:27+00:00

Women don’t take getting rejected for sex very well.

I’ve literally had 2 women try and physically overpower me when I denied them sex. They were small women even. Literally try and force me into sex. Luckily I workout and as I said earlier they were small but I was shocked. Another tried to lie and manipulate me into going home with her. Another wouldn’t accept that I was tired and kept fiddling with my dick including sucking me off.

It’s also happened to a friend of mine.

mummydontknow · 2023-09-06T16:30:20+00:00

Women refusing to mute trolls online and expecting me to "protect" by arguing with every online troll are such a red flag.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-06T16:27:54+00:00

After all the ladders and mountain climbing Lebron had to do this past 20 years, his closed a significant gap between him and Jordan and that's his greatest achievement

People saying he needs to win at least one or two championships in order for him to catch up to Michael are wrong, people have been on the goat conversation since 2017 when Lebron only had 3 championships

Because people knew we've never seen a player like Lebron, scoring just as many points as Jordan but still having a bit of magic in him, his just the best all-around player and nobody knows more about the game than Lebron intellectually and this isn't a bad slide on Jordan

eye_fuck · 2023-09-06T16:27:21+00:00

How often do you guys completely change all your accounts and devices, wiping your digital footprint and manufacturing different personality, name, hobbies and backstory to present yourself online with? I thought every 3-4 years was ideal for me, but I wonder how often other people do it. This personality was kinda tiring to maintain for so long, I plan to be feminist bookworm girl who loves forest and bugs next time

AnotherStandUser23 · 2023-09-06T16:26:45+00:00

I think one of the biggest discrepancies between men and women is that women do not feel any empathy or pity for men who don't get sex. Instead of extending an olive branch of actual useful and solid advice to help them or even just lending an ear they get offended. "You can't get laid? It's your personality you need to work on yourself", "oh you must be a andrew tate incel redpill goober" are my fav responses.

Not being able to attract women, get a girlfriend or have sex is absolute torture for most men. Having sexual urges and being gatekept by women, excluding you and making you unable to act on them is torture. Women tho are so oblivious to men's struggles since they can balance multiple men at the same time just for shits and giggles.

Don't even get me started on some of the women on reddit. This sub is fair women here will just make you more blackpilled/redpilled through interactions, but I swear TwoXChromosmes is the most vile and hateful sub on this site.

Willow-girl · 2023-09-06T16:15:22+00:00

I've been giving my man more opportunities than usual to rescue me lately! First it was blowing a brake line on our red Ranger while trying to avoid plowing into a herd of deer. So until he can get around to replacing the brake line, I started driving our gray Ranger instead, somehow overlooking his warning that its gas gauge doesn't work. Miraculously, it showed half-a-tank for a full week ... until I ran out last night coming home (in almost the same spot I had coasted to a stop after missing the deer).

HALP!

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-06T16:14:45+00:00

Basically every male feminist -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/12qxy43/how_can_feminism_survive_if_it_keeps_driving_away/

baresquad · 2023-09-06T15:59:32+00:00

Are you really a bad person if you abandon the kid after finding out it’s not yours?

I think so but I also would do it. People are entitled to their judgment but I don’t think being a perfect and mistake free person really matters. I’d own being called a coward, bad person, etc. but at least I’m not raising a kid that’s not mine and stuck with a cheater.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-06T15:44:01+00:00

Back from being banned, reddit jannies can drink my piss

hannahg000 · 2023-09-06T15:41:41+00:00

do guys make assumptions on women based on their number of insta followers? i never use it anymore (maybe 1 post a year and i barely scroll on it) but i have 336 followers. most of them are from when i had a minecraft youtuber fan account when i was 11

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-06T15:38:58+00:00

I wish I was able to reach out to my partner/friends/family on days like this. Abysmal low mental health today, can't bring myself to do anything, hating myself and my body and being on my period.

Sorry, just needed to get it off my chest.

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