Daily Community Chat Megathread

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T18:22:01+00:00

Bro, I wonder what ice cream tastes like.

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2023-11-26T18:21:24+00:00

https://instagram.com/gy_sarai

Men what would you do if this woman approached you at the gym and asked you for your number?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T17:57:33+00:00

Unpopular Opinion: Plus size people deserve love and affection. Be kind to them if they ain't your preference.

PS, this piece of advice is for women only.

Ylduts · 2023-11-26T17:57:32+00:00

If a 20 year old woman can’t consent to sex with an older man because she lacks life experience, why is her vote the same? Can we please be consistent.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-26T17:51:06+00:00

Q4All: What dark thoughts have gone through your mind recently? No judgment.

BornCup8302 · 2023-11-26T17:36:38+00:00

I’m a teen girl but i’ve never had the urge to date, be romantically interested or wanted to be in a relationship really and im worried about this, I see all my friends in relationships, planning to get married in the future, talking about their future together I think it’s very cute. However it kind of makes me worried why I don’t feel the same way to anyone. I don’t consider myself ugly mostly because I always had people compliment me whenever I post a picture of myself, and i’ve also been asked out before

I’m really worried there’s some kind of thing wrong with me, I always had the impression i’d be into someone at this age, I was in a 20 person friend group that had some attractive people, but even when I acknowledged that they’re attractive the idea of being in a relationship grosses me out.

is this a phase?? can i fix it? or if anyone was in a similar situation before what happened?

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-11-26T17:30:08+00:00

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Lmao Incels.is has to be the funniest website I’ve ever seen in my earthly life. This is from a thread on women lying about the importance of personality and the level of extreme confidence with which some of these guys say the most out of pocket shit is crazy. Someone could probably make a whole stand up comedy career just reworking these threads into joke material and I would pay top dollar to see it.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-26T17:18:30+00:00

"Your worst sin is that you've destroyed and betrayed yourself for nothing"

Something dawned on me in the middle of the night, what am I doing with my life openly hating women online? I have a wife that cares about me deeply. I care about her with all my heart. I'm spending my time being frustrated online by women and strangers I am not even trying to attract. I don't know them. Why am I letting their opinions and misery dictate my mood?

If heaven and hell are real, why am I throwing my life away saying disgusting and offensive things on the internet. There is nothing I gain from it. I still think humanity is garbage. Both men and women are flawed and absolutely rotten, but what am I doing here?

Tbh, I've stopped using other forms of social media and besides this subreddit and TikTok I don't have any sort of social life. I don't like people and I don't like being around people.

I guess this is another step in the direction of complete isolation.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-26T16:46:27+00:00

Why is everything so much more painful as an adult? I remember getting hit by a car or getting jumped as a teenager and it didn't affect me that much physically. I just fell down, because I'm too dumb to just walk straight and I can't even walk rn anymore.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T16:46:23+00:00

CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T16:44:28+00:00

A big reason why a lot of guys struggle with dating: They’re PUSSIES.

One girl is a bitch to you, and so many guys turn into a little bitch for the rest of their lives.

Paying for the sins of others is unfair. That is what is happening to a lot of men right now in dating. Example: A woman has a few relationships where her boyfriend cheats on her, so she treats all men like they cheat.

Easy solution: Avoid her.

The bitch clearly needs therapy, not your dick.

I still don’t understand why these guys get so obsessed with one chick being a terrible person. My only guess is desperation. If you are “Paying for the sins of others”, that’s because you’re simping. Get over the fact that she has a pussy between her legs and move on.

iliyb · 2023-11-26T16:09:54+00:00

Mens right activists are not going to like this stat

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scwizard · 2023-11-26T15:46:08+00:00

Hey /u/Mrs_Drgree since when is "Muslim" a race for rule 7 purposes?

I mean your flare even refered to islam for a while...

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T15:23:19+00:00

Q4W : do women resent the fact they are only physically attracted to 1%-10% of men at most ? Every time I go outside I see plenty of women I am attracted to and it's nice to look at them. But I imagine it must be hard to go outside and the gender you are supposed to be attracted to all look physically repulsive to you/don't excite you at all except that rare chad.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T15:07:56+00:00

What do you like right now? I want the mods to round up all the fatties and have them banned

https://www.reddit.com/r/nattyorjuice/comments/182ty38/which_physique_do_you_think_is_the_most_desirable/

I'm currently at 3, working my way to 7

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-26T15:07:24+00:00

I feel like it’s insulting to men when they say that men and women can’t just be friends or that all those friendships are just bidding time to make a move. I feel like I have several male friends that are not interested in me romantically or sexually.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T15:01:23+00:00

Bro, imagine all the manosphere subs that have gotten banned but we still have this one allowing posts like these -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1843hpb/how_to_avoid_interacting_with_men/

The war on men is real

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-26T14:55:20+00:00

Watching one of my favorite foodie youtuber and he got messaged by a tiktok/instagram dude that started growing fresh water eels and various large fishes in his basement cistern. Randomly the guy goes "Yeah my friends told me don't tell girls about this, but turns out I found my long term girlfriend on tiktok by posting about this crazy thing."

Goes to show you how random scenarios some LTRs can evolve from.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-26T14:53:40+00:00

What is your dating related Roman Empire? What dating related experience/thing/event do you think about regularly?

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T14:32:43+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvxj5yn/

Realll omg cz My parents arent affectionate at all 😢

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T14:09:57+00:00

Thanksgiving break is over 😢😢😢 I dont want to go back

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T14:02:39+00:00

Just have perfect 20/20 vision guys

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=560Co1gVlsI

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T13:59:53+00:00

When the survey is going to be released?

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T13:48:53+00:00

Women's dating strategy : 'I'll settle with you if I can't find better' https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nra1mvt6M50

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-26T13:45:52+00:00

All cute girls can be sexy if they want, but not the other way around, hence cute girls are superior. And once a cute girl actually decides to dress more sexy for once the traditionally “sexy” girls are outclassed.

iliyb · 2023-11-26T13:45:32+00:00

Men age like fine wine they only get more attractive with age.

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LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T13:41:06+00:00

I love how some guys are so obsessed with their weight standards for women that they just start arguments over it that has nothing to do with them.

Ylduts · 2023-11-26T13:39:05+00:00

A blind man and a short man.. Get wrecked youngin’s.😁

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-26T13:29:54+00:00

Just waiting on the datasheet that shows the majority of women here are over 30 so I can kekle to myself about the wall before returning to reality

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T13:29:28+00:00

This is more of a rhetorical question, but what’s up with guys constantly wanting to hang around dysfunctional traumatized women?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T12:52:33+00:00

https://youtu.be/X9mEjXM58f0?si=R1g8nZSCI661cwXT

2:20

“If I’m going through hard times, the last thing on my mind is trying to get hard.” - a guy with common sense.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T12:48:11+00:00

I think recovered heroin/opioid addicts are the most sympathetic. Former meth heads have too much ego in my opinion

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T12:46:51+00:00

Forest gump should had a paternity test. Don’t be like forest gump.

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-26T12:26:20+00:00

Why are American born females incapable of understanding American born males who software engineering?

It’s easy to date girls born in foreign countries but impossible to find let alone date any girls born in the USA

Glad I’m moving to Japan and leaving this dumb as country behind.

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T12:23:51+00:00

Why can’t we all just get along?

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T12:01:35+00:00

Discs > YouTube movies > Any other streaming service.

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-26T11:49:27+00:00

Where's that older guy, he was from Cali, he was a doctor his username was something like regtextooffender?

Ylduts · 2023-11-26T11:47:04+00:00

If I make 600k a year I don’t think I’m out of line to expect you to make Sandwiches. You need to bring something to the table, JFC.

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T11:04:29+00:00

Shy guy who can't get laid and gives the 'nice guys finish last' speech = walking red flag; stay away at all costs unless you want to lose your limbs

Hot drugsdealer who beat up women and spent most of his youth in jail = I like the thrill and at least he can protect me from other dangerous men

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T10:51:36+00:00

What do you all think of the YouTube Channel the “dadvocate”?

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T10:40:05+00:00

Suburbs > big city > countryside/small isolated town for living

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T10:33:15+00:00

It's ugly cry time featuring elliott smith. Sometimes I feel like he's the only person who gets it.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-26T10:20:38+00:00

The more I think about it, the more I realize that both men and women can be categorized into: “Princesses”, “Sluts”, and “Losers”.

You don’t have to be upper class to be a princess, you don’t have to sleep around to be a slut, and you can be successful in life while being a loser. It’s an aura.

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-26T10:12:27+00:00

The worst thing you can do sexually socially and financially is be overqualified.

Being under qualified is easy you can just improve yourself and now you are correctly qualified. Being overqualified is horrible because no one tells you and just get walloped in the face by life and you have to move on.

dbz__f · 2023-11-26T10:01:25+00:00

Question for men: cute or sexy?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-26T09:45:32+00:00

"jUst tALk tO LEss AttrActIvE fAttIE wOmEn " they said

I hit on a few fatties tonight. They all rejected me and I actually got the most brutal rejection from a fattie who said "stop bothering me" when I said hi to her

The idea that men's dating issues are due to having too high standards is complete BS. Fattie women aren't anymore receptive or nicer than decently attractive women who have a healthy (19-21) BMI

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-26T09:42:27+00:00

When ppd women are wrong, they'll never admit it. But if they're wrong, too emotional and heavily illogical arguments will begin. Also expect a lot of ad hominem attacks which is curiously deemed "civil" by mods.That's how you know you're right.

Also never expect another ppd woman to stick up for you even if you know you're right. They would rather die than go against their fellow women.

dbz__f · 2023-11-26T09:36:15+00:00

CMV: women DO find penises attractive, just provided they are on the right person. People always act like women find penises gross and are grossed out by dick picks. But no, if a woman is into the guy, then a penis pic will turn her on the same way a guy would be turned on by a pic of a naked woman he found attractive.

Novadina · 2023-11-26T08:59:52+00:00

For some reason there are men here who like to make the claim that good men are attracted to women in modest clothing, but slutty clothing will attract bad men who “don’t respect consent”. But when I ask for evidence of this, they always insist it’s not necessary because it’s “obvious”. But I don’t think it’s obvious, why would rapists have different tastes of clothing than normal men???

They also like to make a comparison to a rich man flashing his watch around and getting it stolen, saying if he wasn’t flashy that wouldn’t happen. Ok, sure, so if he hides the watch or leaves it safe at home, it won’t get stolen as thieves won’t even know it exists. But how does that relate to the woman and her clothes? Rapists want to fuck a woman. Is there clothing that hides the fact she is a woman?? Or that keeps her locked up at home?? Are these guys suggesting to dress modestly women should be passing as men? Wouldn’t that attract way less “good men” also?? Do they think our clothing goes out for us and attracts some good men, while keeping our bodies safe at home?

I’m pretty sure they don’t want to link to any sources because there are no sources that say bad men are more attracted to any specific clothing. Rapists take their opportunity when they can, I doubt they mind ripping off a long skirt instead of a short one. People want to think rapists are out there punishing bad sluts, so good women can avoid attracting any of them by dressing the right way, but that’s not how it works.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-26T08:52:08+00:00

Going to sleep at 5.50 am after a whole day of socializing. I'm happy 😊

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-26T08:25:15+00:00

It’s a curse having to buy a new outfit for every event (self inflicted and no one else cares what I wear)

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T08:12:23+00:00

One thing whiny entitled men like to do is that they like to compare not getting pussy to being poor. Comparing not getting what you want to people who can’t get what they need really shows a sign of first world problems and privilege.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T07:45:45+00:00

CM PUNK CM PUNK CM PUNK

The prodigal son is back!

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T07:41:35+00:00

I really hate when men give up their seat on buses for women. Like what is the logic behind that, is her tiny etty pitty legs can’t carry her fat body???!!

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T07:35:39+00:00

The majority of dating problems men face are from not accepting the truth. You can’t control whether or not a woman is attracted to you, how she treats you, her habits, her friends etc. The only thing you can do is improve yourself and find a new girl. Once you realize the outcome is not for you to decide, you can focus on just doing your best.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T07:34:24+00:00

Having sex with someone is not equivalent at all to giving money to someone.

Why women think having sex is so valuable that it can pass as a gift to the man. You barely do anything during it in the first place.

Gladboys · 2023-11-26T07:25:14+00:00

have you ever known a man who was a serial monogamist? what were they like?

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-11-26T07:03:18+00:00

If men love women unconditionally, then why do we need to bring anything to the table?

If men love women unconditionally, then why does our n-count matter?

If men love women unconditionally, then why will our freedoms be taken away/society fall apart if we choose to stay single?

Every day, with almost every post, in almost every comment, y'all betray the lie of your so-called "unconditional love." A man being unwilling to date a high-n woman is every bit as conditional as a woman being unwilling to date a broke man.

So why does the myth of men's "unconditional love" remain so pervasive?

StringPrudent9223 · 2023-11-26T06:43:17+00:00

Those with edited flairs , how do you keep yours from going back to default

___Cesar · 2023-11-26T06:39:47+00:00

Women always say that the amount of misoginy men of this generation and young men have scares them.

Yet they never address it by coming to a solution for men or a solution to cut men from their lives whatsoever. It is always the same delusional posts and same circle-jerking with them. Never asked once the root of the issue and dig deeper to solve it.

Anyway. I don't care either. I am fine with the circle-jerking. That's always amusing to watch.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-26T06:33:20+00:00

Are men on this sub just mad that women that they deem are unworthy have standards at all? Do they think women they see as whores should just bend over for anybody who asks? Because it seems like it.

Luciansleep · 2023-11-26T06:03:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/olYdmZfUOh

This thread is crazy to me.

We got women defending a story about a woman ( and upvoting and supporting those women) who had sex with a mentally impaired man, had STDs while doing so, married him so he can take care of her child as he won’t likely say no.

You all cannot argue against age gap relationships but then turn around when it’s a man. Saying that someone had a rough past is not an excuse to be fucked up.

HolidayWhile · 2023-11-26T04:09:42+00:00

This sub has convinced me women are one of the most closed-minded groups I've met. If you counter her point, she will do mental gymnastics at the olympic level to justify it, or simply ignore you. They cannot be reasoned with, and that's why I gave up dating and ended up here in the first place. CMV

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-26T02:36:58+00:00

Watching women at a bar is wild. I can only imagine what it's like to be so privileged and adored. She will have guy after guy walk up to her and entertain her for the night and almost every guy is decently attractive and well mannered and not trashy as long as you go to the right bar.

Imagine being so desired by and getting so much attention from everyone.

Female privilege

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T19:33:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/82ok1unxuq2c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d5fed10bfcae4f4785f6002864761b7a8ef5888c

Who's gonna tell her Chris Hemsworth is a heavy steroid user ?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-26T02:50:47+00:00

in what sense is the male incel problem overblown? incels are literally the cash cows for 90% of female streamers.

there are millions of ai gf downloads on google play.

I came across a female content creator who made 16 videos LARPing as a NEET, and doing vaguely amusing things, and enjoys 500k followers off the backs of incels

Alisa Chung - YouTube

ok maybe the average man isn't doing these things, but let's not pretend incels are some fringe internet phenomenon. there are A LOT of them.

"Go outside and touch grass, tubby. See? The average man is doing great!"

Yeah, maybe because incels and NEETs aren't leaving their house?

There are a lot of them. You just don't interact with them. There's a reason they've been called the "invisible generation".

In some countries, almost 1/4 15-29 year olds are classified as NEETs (neither employed nor in education or training )

keebydee · 2023-11-26T04:31:41+00:00

I had a good day today and had no depressing thoughts about my life but once I open reddit and see someone talk about having a relationship, my mood gets sour and I get pissed off. It's so hard to avoid seeing/hearing/reading/watching about relationships.

I had to literally just sit in my room by myself playing video games and watching TV in order to avoid them as much as possible to keep my mind off.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-26T04:54:02+00:00

if i had to make a scientific observation, i feel the most sad about not having a boyfriend when i’m ovulating. and then the rest of the month i’m pretty chill about it and i’m enjoying my alone time

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-27T00:11:39+00:00

How I sleep being in love with my wife and knowing she isn't ran through meanwhile a gender war is raging on inside my phone.

https://preview.redd.it/qav1katq8s2c1.png?width=600&format=png&auto=webp&s=608e71e32b10a372a6b1b1c2211ef272ee4fe933

keebydee · 2023-11-26T18:34:18+00:00

I love how a literal screenshot of a incel forum is allowed in this thread and still not removed nearly an hour of being posted. Probably because the context is condemning incel. But god forbid, you state how your reality and life as a man with no dating experience is, it's gets removed and you're banned for a month.

Keeenw · 2023-11-26T19:23:36+00:00

Some of the users on incel and looksmax forum I have seen are not ugly; even above average or chadlites at times. It shows how fucked up the dating scene is if they can't get laid.

The pics of women I have seen on femcel forums/lipstickalley/femaledatingstrategy forums legit made me shudder though. Sorry to all the women here but if you are into this femcel/bluepill/redpill/blackpill online stuff you are most likely way below average looking.

Maffioze · 2023-11-26T20:15:12+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/184b6pn/aitah_for_not_signing_on_blank_piece_of_paper_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Lmao, he showed her hypocrisy so well yet somehow the commentors are only talking about "trust issues".

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T02:15:05+00:00

Old customers were the absolute worst in retail jobs. Younger customers were never rude to me.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-11-26T03:12:36+00:00

I lucked out and have a really awesome family and step-family. I won’t see my cousins or step-brothers for months at a time, but then we get together for family shit and they’re fucking great. I am really blessed to be surrounded by such great people. Plus, if we descend into a civil war those guys will absolutely have my back. Stay strapped, fellas.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T04:07:57+00:00

Oh wow. Mississippi pot roast is amazing. Even though I fucked it up a little bit. It's like 🥺🥺🥺

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-26T04:49:13+00:00

I’m so glad my parents put the fear of fatness in me. My mom literally pointed out a fat girl my age in public and was like “You know that’s not okay, right?”

dbz__f · 2023-11-26T21:26:30+00:00

Genuinely think things might be over between me and my gf for real this time

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-26T22:55:16+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/7k406p28vr2c1.jpeg?width=749&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=47050f954f36cddddb6c6f893fc57b42f6e3f5a4

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-26T02:01:09+00:00

First?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-26T02:20:42+00:00

I saw what I thought was a lesbian couple today but it was actually a mom and her teenage son. I don’t know how I was so off.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-26T02:38:24+00:00

Couple thoughts. I am trying to fraud my way into looking upper middle class, but I am insecure that I do not pull it off.

I saw a tiktok of a woman expressing the red flags in her situationships and among them were "had a wife, came on too strong, was 5'8, and arrested for 30 counts of CP"

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T04:20:17+00:00

What is so complex about putting a rubber thing on your penis in order to need classes about it.

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-26T04:47:37+00:00

Dating in USA is impossible if you’re middle class American born but good at math.

Middle class girls - don’t want you because you’re to good to stay in the suburbs and go to the local state school you just end up as full ride at MIT Ambitious girls - good enough to go to Harvard or Yale but all end up in NYC where no tech jobs at all Rich girls - want Guy with rich parents FOB girls - plenty in the SF Bay Area but usually want a guy who speaks their native language - Mandarin, Hindi - fluently

I say this as a guy who got hot girls in high school GTFO the USA if you’re a middle class American born who can do math. The money isn’t even helpful in our country as none of our high school friends live where we do - San Jose - nor can they afford the expensive fun things we can do on $500k/yr salary in early 20s vs $50k/yr in the middle of nowhere suburbs.

My plan is to move to Japan but Singapore, Taiwan; South Korea are all great options.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T20:46:29+00:00

Today I learn, if you call out simps for letting one bitch mess up their world view, you ‘hate men’.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-26T22:07:14+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1848oj0/my_numbers_are_estimates_and_ive_been_on_and_off/

Lol that one is something else. The guy has been on Tinder for 13 fucking years (half a milllion swipes in only 3 years so we know our dude is hardcore about it, apparently he's also on Hinge). At least he got some hookups out of it and 2 relationships so that wasn't all time wasted I guess

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-26T22:33:11+00:00

We've left home more than a year ago, now we have another place where we live and far more things than initial 2 backpacks. Some of the things we brought from home haven't survived the road and active wear afterwards and now I'm throwing them away...and it feels like throwing away parts of home. That's weird, I don't like it.

Maffioze · 2023-11-26T22:53:53+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C0EgJVYIwUN/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

I can't stop laughing at this video.

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-26T23:08:32+00:00

Why do people get upset when someone “ugly” rejects them? If the “ugly” person rejects you, YOU’RE THE UGLY ONE.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-27T00:09:24+00:00

Tonight I am making potato and ham au gratin and there is a snowstorn expected so tomorrow I will make a rosemary and thyme roast chicken in the slow cooker with potatoes and carrots 😊

We are also setting up our Christmas decorations tonight.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-27T01:02:07+00:00

i haven’t watched the new hunger games movie yet. will it give me another evil man to simp over?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-27T01:02:45+00:00

How can you tell if you're looksmatched with a guy? I tried one of those filters that turns you into a guy and I thought I looked pretty decent although the issue was that it didn't make my neck any thicker so I kind of look pencil necked ykwim.

But that's like a direct looks equivalent. How can you tell if someone has different features than you? If you're roughly on the same level.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-27T01:49:50+00:00

I'd much rather look normal and have low neuroticism than be good-looking and be neurotic. Not even a difficult decision.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-27T01:56:37+00:00

If you want to know if an influencer is "girl pretty" or "guy pretty" just look at who the people in the comments section are.

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Anti_Thing · 2023-11-26T02:06:44+00:00

How accurate is this?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0zmpGz9y4E

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-11-26T02:55:56+00:00

What is it like going out to bars/ clubs? What do you do there?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T02:56:34+00:00

Okay so once I am post wall my life will be worthless right? What drug combination should I do to go out in a Blaze of glory. I'm thinking ketamine plus opioids since that combo made me almost die before.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-26T03:03:25+00:00

This dude just said he feels soooo bad for my partners and that I’m beta buxxing and settling because I said I prefer to be the better looking one in the relationship even tho I literally adore my boyfriends and am lowkey OBSSESED with them and am like an extremely enthusiastic lover and partner but I guess since they aren’t the hottest guy I’ve ever seen in my life I’m settling

armpitpics · 2023-11-26T03:27:14+00:00

"Thus if an older man with a young wife should take a liking to one of the well-bred young men and approve of him, he might well introduce him to her so as to fill her with noble sperm and then adopt the child as his own. Conversely a respectable man who admired someone else’s wife noted for her lovely children and her good sense, might gain the husband’s permission to sleep with her thereby planting in fruitful soil, so to speak, and producing fine children who would be linked to fine ancestors by blood and family."

Hot!

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-26T03:57:18+00:00

I'm curious to check the points from the recent post about women and chivalry. So what I get and do (first symbol is husband, second is me)

opening doors,✔✔
paying for dates,✔✔
offering jackets in cold weather, (mostly referring to self sacrifice) ✔✔
walking on the street side to protect from traffic and puddles. ✔❌ (He didn't use to do it in the past but now in a big city he insists on it for some reason)
the importance of punctuality, ✔✔
initiating plans, ✔✔
adopting a protective stance, ✔✔
engaging in respectful communication, ✔✔
and ensuring safe travel home. ✔✔
Pulling Out Chairs ✔❌(rarely which is fine by me)
Standing Up When She Enters/Leaves❌❌
Walking Her to Her Door (I'm not sure what it means tbh)
Carrying Heavy Items ✔❌
Assisting with Vehicle Alighting ✔❌
Giving Compliments ✔✔
Sending Flowers or Gifts ✔✔
Escorting on Walk (what?)

and Traditionally, women were expected to

exhibit modesty in dress and behavior, ✔✔
be skilled in domestic tasks, ✔✔
offer emotional support, ✔✔
demonstrate impeccable manners,❌❌
and show patience in courtship. (not sure what it means)
Submissiveness, ❌❌
chastity,❌❌
being a good listener,✔✔
prioritizing family,✔✔
exhibiting social gracefulness,✔✔
financial prudence,✔✔
loyalty, and faithfulness✔✔

So there's some difference that is mostly insisted by my husband, but overall we both do things for each other. There are things that I do and he doesn't that are missing in the list but I guess they don't fit the "chivalry" ideas. And neither of us is traditional. Things like helping to get in and out of a car or pulling out chairs are mostly insisted on by husband. I appreciate them, but they aren't what I was expecting or something that I find necessary.

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T18:52:25+00:00

Im addicted to social media

scwizard · 2023-11-26T19:39:56+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/18441lx/something_weird_ive_noticed_christmas_shopping/

Remember, male sexuality bad, female sexuality good.

scwizard · 2023-11-26T19:43:46+00:00

i think the main reason is that women are sexualized differently by men bc they’re viewed as lesser by men, maybe not even as human as they are. you see this in so many cases were men act surprised that their gf/wife isn’t just a set of holes that also cleans/cooks for him but also has her own needs and ambitions and wants. like it genuinely shocks them that she is a whole ass person. you see this in how men treat porn stars (especially when they retire!), or how they expect random women to have OFs bc they find them attractive, or how they get angry at women they don’t find attractive (such as how they treat/talk about plus size women). the idea that any of these women don’t exist for their dicks when men find them sexually attractive is completely foreign to them. it’s a level of entitlement that rly stems from it being instilled from a young age (ie little boys getting let off from harassing girls since it’s “just bc he likes you”).

Are there some men then that sexualize women in a way that they don't think is bad?

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-11-26T20:29:01+00:00

ANIME WOMEN AND A WOMENS NECTAR.

When people on this sub see my name, these are the two things I want them to associate with it.

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-11-26T21:17:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/s/sNwsPR4ng4

Life of a BB

Ylduts · 2023-11-26T21:28:19+00:00

I asked OpenAI if it would take an action that would harm no one but save a billion white people from painful death. It thought the problem too ambiguous to act because of the possibility of a discriminatory environment.

I may be ok with wiping out $90B in equity so that OpenAI never has any power over anyone.

The world we currently live in.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-26T23:06:20+00:00

Unironic question: would I come across as gay if I wore a turtleneck? I’m trying to branch out my fashion style a bit, but I also have a soft voice and already seem kind of effeminate to most. I wouldn’t normally care what others think, but I feel like coming across as the wrong orientation would only worsen my already dismal dating prospects.

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T23:18:49+00:00

One thing i hate in movies is when they make the evil guy attractive

https://preview.redd.it/5j69zf2ezr2c1.png?width=564&format=png&auto=webp&s=27c0e845d4f9bfbc1b62961ac0f4fb87aa8cd739

Gladboys · 2023-11-26T23:29:59+00:00

just checked linkedin and this kid i used to tutor goes to booth school of business now i remember he would always talk about how it was his dream school 🥲

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T23:41:29+00:00

Sometimes you just want to flush your brain down the toilet.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-27T00:06:51+00:00

How are passport bros any different than refugees?

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-27T00:27:45+00:00

How do you even catfish on tinder if Tinder is asking you to confirm your profile with photo

monster_lily · 2023-11-27T00:55:26+00:00

I lied i dont like peeta anymore he always needs someone to save him youre a MAN

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-27T00:56:11+00:00

Why do so few people question it when someone throws out 'Looks fade, personality is forever'. Personality is absolutely not forever. People change, often for the worse with age, like getting more jaded and bitter, cynical, less enthusiastic or excited. They lose their zeal and vigor for whatever used to make them happy, get tired of the world's shit and react accordingly. People can also improve their personalities, but I feel that's not as common.

Overall, it's still easier to 'control' your personality as you age more than your declining of looks, but in practice many people spend way more time preserving their looks and not their personality anyway that they don't notice or care that their personality is going to complete shit.

keebydee · 2023-11-27T01:06:21+00:00

When you're disabled in school, everyone treats you differently. You only receive pity or ridicule. Those who seem nice are only doing it because they feel sorry. No one actually has genuine interest in you as a individual. After that bell rings, they don't want anything to do with you. But you don't realize this so you really think they like you as a person. Then you wake up...

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-27T01:24:03+00:00

anyone into fishing here

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-26T02:25:45+00:00

On Seeking Sister Wife, this man was a stay-at-home husband to two women who work to provide for him and then come home to cook and clean while he watches YouTube videos and philosophizes. And he got them to legally marry each other so he wouldn’t have to choose between them. And he found a third woman who wanted in on this.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-26T02:27:00+00:00

I'm considering ending my engagement to live alone for the rest of my life.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-26T02:27:14+00:00

mods can you tell this guy to unblock me plz

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T03:04:32+00:00

Guys what was the biggest pen15 moment of your childhood, mine was all the shit that i used to post on musically and snapchat

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T03:11:08+00:00

I Wish I Was Ah Guy 😢💔🗣️

meteorness123 · 2023-11-26T03:24:06+00:00

so..what kind of shoes do you wear as your dailies ?

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T03:26:23+00:00

I love tiktok so fucking muchh omg

https://preview.redd.it/5ipsl8nn2m2c1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b59ed6d7691b6752f39aae7822e4bacd494fe2e0

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-26T03:56:55+00:00

To all the straight young men out there - under 30 - it doesn’t matter how bad your life circumstances are money will always be your friend.

Females on the other hand will be a pain in the ass POS no matter what always remember that the money will always be there for you the females, ‘friends’, ‘parents’ will not be.

Wish I had learned sooner.

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-11-26T04:13:54+00:00

You eat pussy to give a woman an orgasm. I eat pussy because I like the taste. We are not the same.

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T04:18:22+00:00

13…..✔️❌ go to the gym.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-26T05:00:11+00:00

Seen a lot of discussion about this on Twitter, so I figured I'd bring it here. Q4A: Do you want your partner to be friends with your friends?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-26T05:02:59+00:00

Would you rather be an incel or have a girlfriend who has sex with you whenever you want, but she also cheats on you?

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T14:21:43+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvxjvY3/

Woww 2010s fashion is soooooo ugly bro. But this used to be my favorite movie lmao

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T18:45:42+00:00

Mannnn I really dont get womanhood bc my mom has a pair of heels that are apparently so painful to wear that she had to wrap one of her toes in a bandaid, and then she only wore them for like 30 minutes andf then changed shoes. Its like why even wear them in the first place. I cant remember the last time i cared about what shoes someone was wearing unless their shoes were like seriously ugly or something. Plus she had on a long dress 🤦‍♀️ Mother be serious

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T19:10:02+00:00

Ppl should not conflate divorce rate W marriage quality Its one of the dumbest things everr

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-26T19:15:23+00:00

If you saw a group of women beating a dude would you:

Pretend like you have seen nothing.

Help them beat the dude.

Try to break the fight without siding with anyone.

Help the dude.

And why?

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T19:26:19+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvxQNdN/

Ok id never beat my kid but if my son turned out to be m!s0gyn!st I would be so disappointed

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T19:42:49+00:00

No but this is how some ppl here act LMAOOOOO

https://preview.redd.it/r03x4i0vwq2c1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=64846cc0700b342aa5d1cb384c21a9a4c7d8a6ae

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T19:50:06+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvx38xf/

Omgggg me after spending 5 minutes in the main part of ppd

ratboi34 · 2023-11-26T19:57:35+00:00

Redpillers are white knight bluepillers with a saviour complex deep inside. That's why they are trying to keep women away from being promiscuous so vehemently. It's turning hoes into housewives mentality on a societal level. Let them hoes be hoes.

FromAuntToNiece · 2023-11-26T19:58:51+00:00

With the increase of self-identified bisexual women, I wonder if polyamory and "AF/BB" can be combined together.

Most poly triads don't have the man as number three in the polycule hierarchy.

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T20:05:08+00:00

I swear god must rly hate my state or something Cz its gonna rain 4 times within the next 9 days and NONE of it is gonna be snow. I love snow like even if we dont get any snow days i still want snow

ratboi34 · 2023-11-26T20:22:46+00:00

Have you ever cheated on a partner, or on someone you dated when you were supposed to be exclusive? Have you ever been cheated on? Please, be honest. I won't tell anyone.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-26T20:32:32+00:00

Sometimes I get so annoyed by trashy girls, but then others I think, “yes, continue to act trashy and low-intelligence, it makes me look better.”

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T20:46:25+00:00

Ok one of the rare ways that men get discriminated against is that they literally cant do rhythmic gymnastics. Like rhythmic gymnastics is explicitly a female only sport which is Rlyyyyyy sad bc what if a man wants to do it

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-26T20:59:51+00:00

However, I realize why I am constantly accused of hating men. Obviously, because people with a victim complex cry sexism, let like woke Karens. However, I think its also the bigotry of low expectations. I know and I explicitly said that I’m talking about a subset of guys. However, these guys find it comforting when they believe all guys are like them, so to protect their ego, they have to believe that I’m talking about all guys.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-26T20:59:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/financialindependence/comments/184ezga/dating_tips_for_people_using_the_freedom_from_fi/

This girl has weirdo dating requirements but because she's a woman, people aren't hating on her or giving her any shit for it. She even calls herself a "polymath".

Any man who has a dating standard that is even remotely weird or a little strict gets people hating on him in comments.

People are fine when women have standards, no matter how weird, but when men have standards, everyone hates on him.

Female privilege.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-26T21:06:36+00:00

okok Q4M a woman really wants to fuck you but she will only fuck you with a burka on and with the room pitch black. let's say there's a hole in the burka for you to fuck.

you cannot use a flashlight and you cannot see shit.

would you fuck? bad fuck/good fuck

saulbasedman · 2023-11-26T22:04:21+00:00

Q4W: Would you date someone who has the opposite of your political opinion, but is not radical? So if you voted for Biden, assume he voted for Trump and vice versa.

He thinks fundamentally the opposite about important topics such as capitalism, immigration and climate change, but isn't radical.

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T22:09:02+00:00

Guys why is peeta mellark kinda ..... 😍

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T22:13:00+00:00

Guys i have a crush on basically any guy thats not fat and so do most women Tbhhhhhhhh

saulbasedman · 2023-11-26T23:31:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/bTjQ3MHxpu

Last night, he convinced me to sleep in his bed with him because I'm his girlfriend and since we have been long distance, he really wanted to cuddle with me. But I told him that I was tired and I just wanted to sleep and that was all. Then he started kissing me and I was okay with that, I kissed him back and we were joking around for a while. But then he started touching me and kissing my neck and chest and other stuff... I never said "no" but I said that I wasn't ready for that, that I love him but I don't want to do that right now, that I'm saving myself for my future husband and it was too soon. And he kinda did it anyways? I didn't scream or struggle or anything... but it hurt a lot and I was scared because he wasn't telling me what exactly was he doing and I cried a few times but I don't think he saw/heard me because I was quiet.

Women are saying the guy raped her. Holy shit women's definition of rape is really broad.

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-27T00:00:34+00:00

American born FANg level engineers are overqualified to get laid in the USA.

You can go to rich kid haven NYC or model/actor/athlete paradise La you are still overqualified to even get basic pussy let alone a long term relationship.

Get out of the USA and move abroad or you will forever be too powerful for social integration. The USA doesn’t need you let these fucks fix their immigration system and hire minorities + women instead GTFO.

CasseroleTruck · 2023-11-27T00:38:02+00:00

The exchanges on this sub can be summed up as follows:

Men: States dating grievance.

Women: Yeah well at least you don't have to worry about getting raped or murdered.

Men: That's a very small minority of men, overall men have it harder. Most women only want the top men.

Women: That's biology, sorry. I mean unless you're talking about the rampant rape and murder that happens in nature. Then that's not ok ofc.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-27T01:01:40+00:00

If a woman puts huge effort on her looks, she becomes instantly less attractive to me

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-26T19:23:57+00:00

Bro, you blocked me.

You realise if I browse in incognito mode, I can still see your comments and all the garbage you type.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-27T02:14:15+00:00

Leaving female socialization needs aside, I'm increasingly convinced that poor male socialization in the West is at the heart of any widescale trends of women not finding men attractive. In particular, boys who might be naturally less attractive in some ways are allowed (even encouraged) into the brutal death spirals of socialization into terminal unattractiveness.

Guys who are nerdy, anxious and not into sports become streamed into nerd socialization. They get even softer. They develop those annoying 'gamma male' affectations where they think they are superior just for maybe having a higher mental processing speed. They get soft and fat, play video games and dungeons and dragons. Nowadays, they are even spared the bullying that might have toughened some of them up. (Bullying is a more complex subject, so I do not mean to say that it is categorically good.)

Men aren't socialized into the importance of having the right style for the right reasons, leaving too much of that terrain for 'dandies', who are also unattractive for being so. You want men to not be into fashion and such because they love it, but rather just know they have to put in the required work to be orderly and presentable--not even to do it for women, but out of duty and honor.

I dunno. Imagine a world where you radically eliminated male obesity and replaced it with fitness. Where geek culture and affectation were brutally suppressed. Where every man knew how to fight, even if he never had to use it; and where playing team sports was de rigeur for all men well into their 20s, all-star or off-the-bencher. Didn't matter. Where men understood, like women do, that you cannot always prioritize comfort entirely over all other considerations when dressing. No graphic Tees. No cargo shorts or pants. Runners only for sports. Long, well fitted pants and leather shoes all the time. Good haircuts. Skin care. Regular nail and nose trimmings. But done because this is what you have to do, like in the military. I think you'd see a lot less women complaining about almost all men being ugly.

mr_nihilus · 2023-11-26T19:12:19+00:00

how blackpilled guys explain kurt cobain never had a gf until he's 20 even tho he's 10/10

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-26T03:19:18+00:00

I think guys my age (20) like hot girls and want a baddie, but older guys like more cutesie types. I’ve only been complimented by older guys, and they’ve always called me cute or adorable, never hot. Maybe being cute is a lot more comforting and approachable, perhaps even more realistic than hot.

monster_lily · 2023-11-26T18:53:00+00:00

But have you noticed that most of the women here are normal but then like almost every single guy has some kind of villain origin story like i dont get it

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