if you ask some redpill bro about attracting women he will usually say that you better hit the gym, get ripped and hold frame, but if you ask women here she will say this advice is for the "male gaze" and what women really want is a caring, sensitive man, who helps in the animal shelter rather than some gymbro. But tell me honestly who has more appeal to the average woman out there: the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapy and opens up about his growth journey or the cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life? Women seem to be in love with the idea of liking the "improover", but on a lizard brain level the idgaf dude wins as he is the one who comes across as being comfortable in his own skin rather than someone stressing over becoming a better version of himself. Being yourself just beats becoming yourself lol.