Men hold onto rejection for YEARS and build up resentment to us. So many of the stories are men being rejected in middle school and high school. It doesn’t matter the reason you give them, married, just wanting to be friends, not interested; they will hold it against you. One brave women brought up that women who face rejection are murdered and men started mocking her. It was just a giant circle jerk that women need to be nicer to men. Reading these threads is like self harm and makes me one step closer to deleting Reddit.

Edit: I just wanted to add that there are some experiences shared in the thread that show women can be as cruel as men, but instead of upvoted to the top they are buried. Men upvote what they can relate to and with that mindset; the majority of the worse rejection men face does not come from long term relationships and consequences, but by a stranger at a bar or a classmate.