Daily Community Chat Megathread

simeneta_two · 2022-03-07T23:18:46+00:00

There's a rat that lives in our backyard now and I'm tempted to let our highly prey driven animals have a go at it. My husband named him Randall though and I can't kill something with a name.

philomexa · 2022-03-07T23:17:35+00:00

I don't understand how some women can post such aggressive ass shots on the internet, the whole thing mortifies me (especially when they do it in the gym!). I don't mind posing for a full body shot, but posing like I'm taking a dump or suffering from severe anterior pelvic tilt just seem so god damn cringe.

Honestly I think the whole thirst trap phenomena is beyond me.

lulll · 2022-03-07T22:57:47+00:00

women cannot handle the energy of a coked out boozed up joe walsh

if cocaethylene had a theme song that would be it

throwaway213091345 · 2022-03-07T22:54:38+00:00

Another day, more friend drama. Found out one of my former ex friends blocked me on Instagram, even though I didn't follow her at all or know she had one.

She had more red flags than China. She would spend hours talking about all incels in her past who had crushes on her, talked about all the friend groups that cut her off because she was "too beautiful," gaslight me whenever I brought up something she did that hurt me, tried to steal another woman's man, etc. Thank god I got therapy for my mommy issues. 😔 The friends I made after 2018 are so much better.

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-03-07T22:34:50+00:00

This is the perfect physique btw

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-07T22:31:59+00:00

Look up Danielle Cooper. Is that a real ass or fake?

scwizard · 2022-03-07T22:21:58+00:00

How come guys that like thiccer girls totally understand that guys who like thinner girls just have different tastes.

But guys that like thinner girls are like "wtf what's wrong with you for thinking such a disgusting fat pig is sexy'

livs4dietdrpepper · 2022-03-07T22:19:08+00:00

Lmao I can feel another ban coming on

A mod said I was trolling because I said “lol yikes” I can’t handle it lmao

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-07T22:19:08+00:00

An interesting thing I see on Reddit is how people will preach that sex is not a big deal, but then on the sex focused subs, they mention that dry spells leave them feeling angry, frustrated, depressed, undesirable etc. Another post from a guy stated that he didn’t realize the mental health benefits to having sex.

I’m like damn, seems like a big deal to me 😂.

buzzing_cicadas · 2022-03-07T22:16:25+00:00

Q for 100% straight men: Does this femboy hack your heterosexual brain? Use a throw-away acct to answer if it makes you comfortable.

https://twitter.com/_10kujo/status/1392239891145269257/photo/1

https://twitter.com/_10kujo/status/1256767124602851328/photo/2

https://twitter.com/_10kujo/status/1481026627475812352

nessaea-blue · 2022-03-07T22:10:35+00:00

Q4W

when you were growing up (like middle and high school) were you ever exposed to the idea that many men actually want traditional women?

idk about y'all, but thinking back, i 100% thought that the way to attract men was to be attractive and sexual. In retrospect, it's almost crazy how my entire childhood was so modern feminist without me even realizing it. Highschool was like, the more hoish you were, the higher your "social rank" was, so all girls raced to it.

It was really only 2-3 years ago (when i left high school) that i discovered that many men didn't like modern women, and that you didn't have to be hoeish to be desirable

biggestuzifanea · 2022-03-07T22:10:03+00:00

Women don't want old men... oh

https://nypost.com/article/who-is-dana-blumberg-robert-kraft/?utm_medium=browser_notifications&utm_source=pushly&utm_campaign=1937911

ThisBoringLife · 2022-03-07T21:56:18+00:00

A bit late, but anybody participating in Lent?

If so, what are you planning to give up during this period?

whyte_lotus · 2022-03-07T21:35:16+00:00

If there is a civil war between liberal vs conservatives, who do you think would win?

scwizard · 2022-03-07T21:23:19+00:00

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cruciod · 2022-03-07T21:19:59+00:00

Q4M: hips or butt?

I've got a decent waist to hips ratio but no butt and tbh I don't want to put in the work for one because maintaining a flat stomach is already annoying enough. Why can't walking make butts bigger 😔

TooHornyToFap · 2022-03-07T20:58:46+00:00

ngl, I'm not against the idea of height filters in OLD

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T20:47:21+00:00

I just found an interesting subreddit called r/deadbedrooms. One of the interesting things I noticed was a lot of women were horny, and it was their husbands who didn’t want to sleep with them. I thought it would be the reverse. How do men stop being horny? I’m trying to learn this superpower.

Euphoric_Ad_4972 · 2022-03-07T20:43:54+00:00

This thought of mine seems r-worded but don't care.

CMV: Developing a dark triad personality increases the likelihood of getting casual sex exponentially for AFC. Women after some exposure to chads start associating dark triad traits with chads. When billy beta comes and shows dark triad traits the women's lizard brain goes I know this kind of personality , it belongs to chad so this guy must be a chad.

Bandit174 · 2022-03-07T20:30:59+00:00

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Mimoxs · 2022-03-07T20:17:41+00:00

We need to start shaming male leg/armpit/pube hair like we do women's

It is so easy to keep your legs and armpits shaved. It is so off-putting and jarring to see but we just accept it from men. We literally socially enforce it on women from puberty onwards but we just allow men to walk around looking like that. Being hairless is incredibly easy and should be the standard for non-shithole societies. It is literally just a few minutes to get it off your armpits and legs and pubes.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-07T19:53:57+00:00

My really good friend from high school asked me to hang out this week. It feels weird and somewhat sad to be looking forward this much to it. We had a really good friendship in high school, and I’ve struggled to form friendships in college, so I’m just happy to reconnect right now.

MisterFlipside · 2022-03-07T19:52:01+00:00

Q4M: If you got a woman pregnant who you dont want to be with at all, and she decides to keep the child, what do you do?

Slipthe · 2022-03-07T19:41:24+00:00

Sometimes new slang makes me feel dumber for having read it.

The newest emphatic response is:

This show is everything!!

And it's one of those phrases that feels like you're saying nothing at all.

purplish_possum · 2022-03-07T19:30:31+00:00

6 of the 11 people booked into the local county jail last night are women.

Equality achieved.

scwizard · 2022-03-07T19:15:34+00:00

This "women want to be treated like garbage" thing is so silly.

TRP seems to conflate behavior that women will reward with sex, with behavior that'll make women happy.

If you're not a psychopath and you actually care about how the woman you have sex with feels, then the whole TRP stuff falls apart.

pooseehunter · 2022-03-07T18:53:15+00:00

When people say that social media is bad because people are only on it for validation, they sometimes ignore that society is much willing to give validation in real life these days, which may cause this.

Many people feel like they can’t be happy with their success because everyone ends up going off on you for “bragging” and being privileged in the first place. There seems to be a lot more critique these days of people’s background when you can’t control that.

Of course this would depend though on wether social media caused people to be less validating in real life, or if people being less validating in real life led to people trying harder on social media.

Bandit174 · 2022-03-07T18:53:09+00:00

FDS ripping on the standards calculator again

Bandit174 · 2022-03-07T05:11:13+00:00

90% of women ik think dating is easier for men

i’m starting to think most women are just delusional (at best) or liars (at worst)

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-03-07T02:53:27+00:00

Wake up, remember modern women exist, day ruined.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-03-07T16:00:47+00:00

Crazy height filter statistic from bumble.

These ho’s are wild

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/t8r7jo/had_no_idea_it_was_this_bad_insane/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Incoming “height doesn’t matter to me” lol

Creation_Soul · 2022-03-07T10:55:40+00:00

the workplace resident Covid conspiracy theorist said that within 1 year of getting the vaccine, 60% of people will die. That was in march last year when started becoming available here.

In a surprise twist to nobody, nobody actually died until now (and 90% of people working in the company got vaccinated) and everybody is making fun of him for his ridiculous claims.

Willow-girl · 2022-03-07T02:21:16+00:00

The upside to working two 55-hour weeks in a row is that I barely had time to eat and lost 8 lbs. without even trying.

I look like hell, though. I know this is true, because usually when I say, "I look like hell," my man says, "You look beautiful," but today, he just said, "I love you anyway."

GAHHH!

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-07T02:01:03+00:00

CMV: Wrestling is essentially a sport about who can better rape the other man

afkawayrn · 2022-03-07T01:02:49+00:00

Daily reminder to touch grass Reddit, stop OLD

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-07T01:06:27+00:00

Just wanted to say that no word gets on my nerves more than "tummy." I genuinely hate that word with a passion, especially when an adult uses it because it's such a childish word, I am understand a young kid using it but a grown adult? I don't know it just gives me the heebie jeebies.

Just say stomach or belly.

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T07:46:03+00:00

One thing I am constantly noticing, whenever people talk about average on this sub is that women overestimates average women, and men overestimates average men.

We simply cannot decide on what average is.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-07T14:53:10+00:00

I was reading an article (about testosterone or some shit like that) and every instance of man/male was replaced with "person with a penis"

Every instance of woman/female was replaced with "person with a vulva"

Has this always been some medical thing? Or is this just stupid progressive bullshit?

decoy88 · 2022-03-07T07:41:42+00:00

You can have “baggage” even if you’ve never been in a relationship or had sex.

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-07T15:08:41+00:00

When im on youtube if I see something im interested in then click on it and find out a woman is going to be the primary speaker I immediately choose a different video.

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2022-03-07T16:27:09+00:00

Something I noticed anecdotally in OLD: The older you set your age range the more demanding they seem to get.

Girls in the 19-early 20s range mostly just have jokes and shit in their bio.

Set it to like 29+ though and all I see is a bio that's a list of demands. Oh yeah and I know it's a cliche but these women have not taken care of themselves.

As bad as it is for young guys I dont know how older guys are supposed to find anyone. It's basically "you have to love me for me, I get to reject you for any superficial reason I like."

scwizard · 2022-03-07T17:42:29+00:00

Oh no...

I looked at dead bedrooms, it's really a sub that'll make you never want to have a relationship...

Told my partner I was going to sometimes masturbate and she started crying. Now I feel like an asshole.

Like no porn is one thing. But if you're not ok with your partner masterbating you have issues.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-03-07T06:22:28+00:00

CMV: the people saying American men won't get laid or get lots of girls overseas are right. Not because they don't like Americans or anything. But because they don't like fat people or weirdos who love anime and video games.

Attractiveness is pretty dang consistent among all genders cultures and races -- a 2/10 American ain't getting a 6/10 viet or pole or rumanian

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-03-07T15:29:46+00:00

Never fails to make me laugh whenever a guy complains that girls don't have hobbies, yet their only "hobby" is playing video games for hours on end 😂

CFinCanada · 2022-03-07T16:49:59+00:00

And the award for Best Hypergamy goes to..

TALIA BALSAM!!

Married George Clooney at age 29 and John Slattery from Mad Men at age 38.

applause

Bravo.. so well-done it brings a tear to my eye. Hands her the gold-plated vagina trophy

Runner-up goes to Meghan Markle for "celebrity chef? I can do better than that."

HOLYREGIME · 2022-03-07T03:59:03+00:00

Why do women post break-up quotes when they're not breaking up? (better yet why do women publicize their break-ups at all?)

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-07T07:05:06+00:00

Just spent the last two hours cleaning out our shed before it gets demolished and found some great stuff, really bringing the old memories flooding back.

Also have to say was looking pretty fine while doing it if I do say so myself. Putting these guns to good use 💪

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T08:29:44+00:00

Q4M: What’s the Chaddest thing you’ve ever done?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-03-07T15:29:01+00:00

Ok I’m now bored with this subreddit. All the topics have been recycled to death

2022-03-07T15:53:51+00:00

Man, everytime there is an abortion/alimony/childsupport thread on here, I'm stunned by how absolute dogshit the pro-abortion arguments are, and I'm saying that as someone who's pro-abortion.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-03-07T17:16:56+00:00

Whenever the discussion about child support comes up, men always have all these ways to navigate around the fact that they have options to not get a woman pregnant.

Personally I believe the burden of protection lies on the individual, man or woman, who is more concerned about getting pregnant. The reality is though, people don’t want to be accountable for their own lives.

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-03-07T23:56:33+00:00

It seems to me that the more a country gives women freedom, the more masculine the women act. The less freedom the women have, the more feminine they act. Does this mean that women's natural propensity is to act very masculine, if given the freedom to do so?

2022-03-07T01:28:54+00:00

Finally painting this damn room.

Been like six weeks of avoidance. Almost done after a few hours on a Sunday.

Next project!

Shelves maybe? I dunno.

Hegemon1984 · 2022-03-07T01:40:03+00:00

Can't wait to start my freelance writing business!

Goal is to save up $$$ before dipping off to Eastern Europe. I'm excited to see how the dating market operates over there compared to the States.

Bandit174 · 2022-03-07T04:34:43+00:00

Male abundance mentality strikes again

How many dudes here have the balls to admit that half of their dating struggles are because they feel they don’t have the variety and choices of chad or the ones they think they deserve?

Anardus · 2022-03-07T04:54:09+00:00

Wish I was less pink pilled on men, it sucks knowing their #1 priority is always looks. An ugly guy can get hot women by having money/status, what can an ugly woman even do to get hot men realistically?

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T08:34:08+00:00

One of the things I’ve noticed in my personal life is that dark skin men and!! women tend to be very colourist. I only thought that this pertained to the men since they are more open about it, but the dark skin women are the same way. Additionally the lighter your skin becomes the less it seems you care about the skin complexion (personal observation).

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T14:30:20+00:00

Redpilled men makes the best music hands down.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-07T15:00:50+00:00

My friend was set to make an extension for his log cabin this month but apparently New York just passed a law where the outside can be pure log but it has to be insulated on the inside. So now it’s been delayed literally just as they were about to start 😂.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-07T16:20:26+00:00

gonna try approaching men just to see the hype. so give me average girl tips. best places. best lines. types of guys i should go for. and some breakdowns of how i should do this, and then i’ll report my findings here.

scwizard · 2022-03-07T16:35:49+00:00

Tallying the results from my thread, trying not to count the males who can't into sub rules:

No porn: 16

Initial_Chemical7121, kittenated, clitorophagy, lonely_mixtape, quiturbitchn, houstongradengineer, januaryphilosopher, SilentDawnn, totential_rigger, Ironicseagull, silveryspoons, KekeSmall, 87AudreyHorne, greedyleopard42, Hjelmert, Flightlessbirbz,

Porn fine on certain conditions but no spending money: 16

funlightmandarin, -ShesACarnival-, Orange_Paisley, kissmetilyouredrunk, Mimoxs, IcarusKiki, Shany1315, HentaiQueen0w0, KikiYuyu, Pastelitomaracucho, krischens, xXBloodRavenXx, flapperfemmefatale, nessaea-blue, livs4dietdrpepper

Spending money is fine: 5

Stunning-Potato-1984, Cuculocos, Federal_Bat_5355, stickyapplejuice, gimpgirl555

MalePsychopath · 2022-03-07T17:37:21+00:00

lmao I stay giving out random awards to people because people always gift me reddit coins and I have no idea what else to do with them

hdksndiisn · 2022-03-07T23:34:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/hingeapp/comments/t8z1bz/whats_the_most_respectful_way_to_reject_this/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

What do ya’ll think in this scenario? Guys:Would you be pissed if you found out the date you both said you liked each other to fucked a different guy the next day on a first date? Gals: what do you think is the right thing to do here?

tiposk · 2022-03-07T01:03:04+00:00

First

edgyny · 2022-03-07T01:06:23+00:00

This gave me a chuckle

In 2008, Russian newspaper the Moskovsky Korrespondent ran a story reporting that Putin had divorced his wife and was set to marry Kabaeva. The story was denied by the Kremlin and the newspaper was shut down.

Page Six: Vladimir Putin hiding lover Alina Kabaeva and their kids in Switzerland. https://pagesix.com/2022/03/06/vladimir-putin-hiding-alina-kabaeva-kids-in-switzerland/

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-07T01:16:44+00:00

Today is my cheat day, and while I didn’t overdue it or anything, I still feel gross

I hate diet-induced guilt

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-03-07T02:26:09+00:00

Another word that I hate is "fart", it's such a gross word.

-angels-fan- · 2022-03-07T05:47:41+00:00

Whelp, I'm downloading Eldenring.

Wish me luck

scwizard · 2022-03-07T06:00:22+00:00

Q4M: do you think girls are being unreasonable when they say they don't want their man to look at porn while they're in a relationship?

Q4A: what's the opposite gender equivalent of telling your boyfriend he can't look at porn? Telling your girlfriend she can't ___

KickAss2021 · 2022-03-07T06:03:37+00:00

Does anyone else have ____ fatigue?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-QTIwoqgp0

scwizard · 2022-03-07T06:20:02+00:00

Are there any guys here that are loyal and faithful to their women, and never look at porn?

Or do men of such high value avoid ppd and maybe Reddit as a whole?

scwizard · 2022-03-07T06:37:56+00:00

It's just so trippy that once upon a time there was a woman's movement against equal rights: https://media.npr.org/assets/img/2016/09/05/ap_16249860663322-6908a77933bfa925ba7436ccd6339e0617cc2eb2-s1200.jpg

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-03-07T08:57:18+00:00

Is it really possible for a Rockets girl and a Thunder boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a Catholic girl and a Protestant boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a tumblr girl and a 4chan boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a Tinder girl and a Bumble boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a tall girl and a short boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a white girl and a black boy to be in a relationship

Is it really possible for a girl and a boy to be in a relationship

hornyjailer1 · 2022-03-07T14:05:28+00:00

What is with all these brain dead bisexual women? https://www.reddit.com/r/fourthwavewomen/comments/t73bna/i_dont_feel_any_attraction_for_most_men

So why dont they date women then? or they just want to constantly bitch about men

FilmStew · 2022-03-07T14:20:03+00:00

Some guy on tiktok made a video asking “How many women actually have hobbies?”.

He’s getting stitched and made fun of by girls who are overselling his point acting as if they are retarded without actually even showing their hobbies. Don’t get me wrong, a lot of the responses are funny, however, this is something my friends and I have definitely noticed over time.

It seems like a lot of girls just don’t have any hobbies….

lulll · 2022-03-07T15:05:29+00:00

now this is the good type of crazy

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-07T15:10:45+00:00

How do you guys reconcile modern cultures insistence on confirming verbal consent with body language cues?

How is "yes means yes" congruent with the fact that 93% of human communication is non verbal?

relish5k · 2022-03-07T15:38:13+00:00

Love is blind hot takes? Also how would you rate them?

Mine (spoilers):

Danielle is crazy but is fucking nick good so he's ok with it.
Mallory made a mistake - she should have gone with Jarrett and his strong masculine energy, was never attracted to Sal because of his limp nothing personality and spent the whole time trying to get him to break up with her
Shayne would have been happier with Shaina. Natalie is too smart for him and he is too hot for her. She saw he was too hot for her and tried to bring him down a few pegs. That plus him being generally somewhat unhinged made things go downhill
poor Iyanna. I think the fact hat her parents adopted her at 22 and are maybe 5 years older than her is hiding a treasure trove of abuse. She is lovely but Jarrett is absolutely not going to stay faithful to her. All of the squeaking is also kind of off putting.
Kyle is a dummy who could not read the very obvious cues that Shania was giving off. Shania figured she would accept in case Kyle was super hot. He's not
I'm honestly not even made at Shake. Sure he's shallow but he knows what he likes and there's nothing wrong with that. What was he supposed to grin and bear it to fuck Deepti?

Shaina and Shayne are 9s. Mallory and Iyanna are 8s. Natalie is a 7. Shake is a 7 or 8.

The rest are 4-6 territory.

Except for Danielle's mom who is a 10!

Do-it-for-you · 2022-03-07T15:43:19+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/t861v1/was_told_to_post_here_i_talked_to_this_guy_from/

Which one of you?

tempaccc2022 · 2022-03-07T16:25:32+00:00

Baby Fever - Those who want kids and can't have them. What solutions are there?

Even though I am only 26, Baby fever has been inflicting me for the past 3 years or so. I want to be a Father. Now untill Apr 2021 I was still in school so sorta unrealistic. But anyway the real issue right now is that I have never been in a relationship and the pain is getting too much to bear. But a big reaosn it hurts is that I want a family. A wife and kids. Sure sex and love and all are a part of it; but the baby fever is I'd say the core issue why being single hurts.

Anyone have any solutions? I have babysat before but I am in a new town and sexism against Men re: interacting with kids is unfortunately too strong in the modern era. What exactly could a young Man do in such a situation. My heart aches whever I see young kids, whenver I see parents and kids. Seeing a couple doesn't phase me, despite me wanting a relationship. But seeing a couple with kids - that hurts.

Not too long ago; people my age would be Fathers. But changing economic circumstances, lowering real wages, and lack of suitable partners due to hook up culture have created this pain and that does not seem to have a solution

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-03-07T16:40:32+00:00

Sad to see the approaching wall affect one of my coworkers.

She’s a thicc white bitch with a fat ass (that thang be movin like a movie) kind of cute natural blonde with blue eyes.

But she is so desperate it’s awful.

One time an X-ray tech came onto our floor and he was a good lookin guy. 6ft tall blue eyes strong jawline, etc.

I shit you not my coworker put her number on a notecard and since she was too shy to actually talk to him (terrified of rejection) she followed him after work and put the notecard with her number on it on his car and just ran away.

Needless to say she ain’t get a call.

She laughed and felt embarrassed but whenever any of the married coworkers try to set her up with anyone she’s like “Please give them my number I’ll accept anything at the point” but then that flip flops to “I went on a tinder date last night and it was nice but I didn’t like his beard” 😂

I feel lowkey sorry for her but hey at least she ain’t a single mama yet that’s a victory within itself

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-08T01:05:22+00:00

How genetic do you think aggression is?

Random question I had while thinking about my family

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annabeelongx · 2022-03-07T01:27:12+00:00

For people who lost a loved one, how long did it take you to get over the grief? Or how long did it take to stop hurting?

Habil13 · 2022-03-07T02:01:32+00:00

I think it’s funny how r/short is always first in the related communities when you click PPD ☠️☠️

Yukbghhjj · 2022-03-07T03:12:59+00:00

If my balding starts to get bad I’m just gonna get MSP and pretend like it’s natural 😤

hdksndiisn · 2022-03-07T03:27:06+00:00

Check out www.realitycalc.com

I got 3%

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-03-07T04:26:41+00:00

I will die on this hill

If your fight song has to state that it's a fight song, then it's not a fight song, just a song trying so hard to be a fight song but failing to be a fight song.

I can name like 10 songs off the top of my head that would make a better fight song than that garbage

gogo_boy35 · 2022-03-07T04:43:55+00:00

I’m struggling with lust. Please help

So I’m talking to 3 different women.

One is a single mother and due to her views on certain things we might not be compatible long term but she is very attractive and the sex and her body were amazing. She knows I’m speaking to other women and that I don’t want to get tempted by her but she insists on us meeting again even if it’s just to talk. Problem is I will probably get tempted and sleep with her again this time becoming addicted in the process. She’s fun to chill with. She likes me as well

I have not slept with the next woman. She is awesome to be around. I’ve been taking her around on dates. She has admitted that she really likes me. We have not had sex yet as I insisted on waiting. She was upset at first but now understands fully and will even deny me from having sex using my own words.

The third woman is ok with just being friends. I have. Not shown any intent towards her. I can however see her potentially falling for me. She’s eager to go to the beach with me because she does not get a chance to go often and has just moved into town. The truth is I want her to go the beach so I can check out more of her amazing body. She doesn’t have a costume so she’s even allowed me to bring whatever I want her to wear which means I can bring my shortest shorts or barely anything. I can also see her already falling for me. I’m using plausible deniability because I’m technically not asking her out or will touch her but I will be lusting after her swimming in whatever bathing suit of my choice. She has already admitted that many men bother her or approach her because of her body and she finds it annoying but she seems to be giving me free reign to do whatever.

I quit porn but now I’m in this situation where I’m lusting after real. I managed to get rid of one woman by calling her and letting her know that I can’t continue to talk to her. I need some wise words or a change of perspective. I haven’t committed to any of them but I would feel like I’m cheating on the second one because she takes relationships seriously and I’m thinking of committing to her.

scwizard · 2022-03-07T05:36:50+00:00

Q4M: is it acceptable for your girl to post pictures on Instagram and have guys telling her she looks hot?

scwizard · 2022-03-07T05:40:48+00:00

The female equivalent of talking to girls on onlyfans is talking to guys on tinder "just for validation I swear."

Right?

techr0nin · 2022-03-07T07:12:08+00:00

Q4A: Should legally enforced monogamy exist? Both philosophically speaking and practically speaking.

I think as a society that values personal freedom, people ought to be able to do what they want if they are not directly harming others. And practically speaking it would solve the musical chair situation where there are not enough chads to go around. It might even solve wealth inequality over time if men with huge amounts of wealth can have more children to split that wealth between over multiple generations.

Of course women would be able to have multiple husbands as well, although evolutionarily speaking it’s less obvious what the benefits would be.

account892 · 2022-03-07T10:10:43+00:00

Question for men, do you prefer to hold a woman’s hand or have her hold your arm? Particularly in the early stages, is holding the bicep weird????

januaryphilosopher · 2022-03-07T13:00:31+00:00

Women, were you ever caught looking at a guys dick through his pants? Men, do you ever catch a girl doing this?

What are your dick peeping experiences?

tempaccc2022 · 2022-03-07T16:21:31+00:00

q4m: if you were bi, would you date men or women?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-07T16:26:47+00:00

Whenever we drive home and My mom wants to follow me, I tell her that I am not going to sit in the right lane on the highway doing 45 mph, and that if I get far ahead of her, then oh well. But then when it happens she acts shocked and angry all the time. I don't even get why it was necessary to follow me yesterday when we both knew how to get home from the current location.

2022-03-07T17:58:11+00:00

Hey nazi mods why do you keep deleting my post?

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-03-07T18:07:19+00:00

Not today, Satan

Spacechicken1998 · 2022-03-07T18:28:53+00:00

Day three gym, legs are Ded.

Also goddamit ppl should learn to spoiler properly. It's easy af don't be a dumb c

purplish_possum · 2022-03-07T23:28:23+00:00

Would you rather have a son or a daughter ?

The-Antihero- · 2022-03-07T23:34:44+00:00

Q4A: How would you rate Julia Galef?

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-03-08T00:02:52+00:00

This season, While hunting in my stand my friend took forever to come pick me up with his car, which I was not expecting, so I was forced to climb down and trek through the woods at night. I was scared shitless of running into a black bear and had no visibility in front of me.

figuringMylife · 2022-03-08T00:39:18+00:00

do men hate casual sex?

figuringMylife · 2022-03-08T01:30:36+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/t90gc0/my_boyfriends_mom_didnt_realize_she_was_on/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

some positivity to offset that last post 🥺

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-03-08T15:23:02+00:00

Q4W but men feel free to answer too I guess

Can you smell what The Rock is cookin?

houstongradengineer · 2022-03-07T01:07:47+00:00

So a few years ago, it came out that my husband was flirting with another girl while we were getting to know each other. He was a horn dog, he admits it, but it wasn't a sex thing he actually wanted love which is why he fits with me. She encouraged him to pursue me more. She told me this herself. She'a a total PickMe at times, but she pretty much says I should accept him and we should be together. She doesn't judge him for this at all, but I wanted him to choose me for me. I mean, yeah it was him who got my phone number the day of meeting me, but it was me who started the convo- even if I didn't mean to. Women: how should I take this? Any way I can address this besides just forgetting about it? Men, you may answer/respond, but tread carefully or else my wrath will be unleashed

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-07T02:44:06+00:00

Very interesting PPD bait

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-03-07T15:28:46+00:00

How do you make it right after you realize you’ve been leading someone on? If it’s even possible

Yo_Mamas_azz · 2022-03-07T15:57:56+00:00

Time for another sexy time story. (Nsfw obvs)

First off, why I am counting this encounter as legit.

Seeking is now explicitly a non sugar dating site (hey. Its true 🤷‍♂️) + me and the girl never discussed an arrangement.

Preface: Two night ago upon entering my room, I cracked the card to my door, rendering it unusable and making it so I could not leave my room without either locking myself out or risking someone stealing my shit. They couldnt bring me a new key as they dont have workers here on the weekends.

So I have this girl I was talking to for about a week, we had planned to meet at a resturant just to discuss things, see if we are compatible etc. I told her I could no longer meet at the resturant because of my key situation, but if she wanted to come to my room she could.

She says okay, then a few hours later tells me she is a little drunk, but asks me to send her an uber to my place. Already in the back of my mind im thinking 😏.

She arrives and I put a chair infront of my door to stop it from locking me out, go down and get her and bring her to my room. Now I was actually completely okay with us just talking. We sit down and talk for about a minute while im trying to order us food. I can tell by the way shes looking at me that food is the last thing on her mind. After about a minute of us talking with her looking at me like id be looking at a nice steak she just cuts me off and says "okay I kiss you now".

Soon after we are naked on my couch with her riding on top of me. We had talked earlier in text about how she wasnt using birth control. After about 30 minutes of sex in a bunch of different positions shes just like "Do it baby, cum in me" "I want, do it". I say in spanish "do you want a kid?" she didn't respond. So I get back to it and in a little bit she starts saying it again, and I ask her the same question, to which she again doesnt respond. So I just go back to fucking, she cums a little bit later and I stop. To be honest if she woulda said yes I prob woulda did it 🤣. Was super hot.

After that I started ordering food, and she was riding me while I was on uber eats. Definitely not easy to concentrate. She kept wanting to fuck, she was getting a bit insecure because I wasnt cumming, and kept asking me if I liked her. Im thinking like "yes, but not enough to get you pregnant on the first meet". Lol.

Anyways I sent her home after we ate and she took a nap on my lap. Prob will see her again.

The day before this I met two sbs on the same day, if one person here comments saying theyd like to hear about it ill type it up in response.

dysonRing · 2022-03-07T23:49:20+00:00

After that playboy documentary aired I started listening to Holly Madison's narration of her time at the mansion, this is the relevant PPD stuff.

Women in their 20s can indeed fall in love with 75+ year olds, her reasoning for initiating the relationship was completely self serving, that said she clearly developed feelings after the rest of the viper's nest had it in for her. She stayed for half a decade until her big break started and stayed half a decade after that. The fucking still disgusted her but mostly because the sex sucked.

Hefner was a dick but it clearly was behavior molded by associating with viper girlfriends that were hustling him (something I can relate), like always who was the abuser and who was abused was murky. If Holly really was the perfect girlfriend as her unreliable narration stated, then he really fucked up by lumping her with the rest and playing a hardcore dread game.

SmurfESmurferson · 2022-03-08T00:19:14+00:00

Best workouts for a flat tummy?

figuringMylife · 2022-03-08T01:27:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/t93jlz/this_is_one_of_the_most_horrific_stories_i_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

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