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the blame from the abusive partner,

blame is a matter of choice. Whatever works for you you can decide. The truth is there are two parties here. Both play a role. We can choose to track the causal chains back and decide when we stop.

The reason I am focusing on the "victim" is because that is what we all are trying to avoid becoming, I don't want to be hurt, neither do I want anyone I care about to be hurt.

For that we need the right incentives. It is never as easy. Right now we are both seperated by thousands of kms. All we have are words to discuss. These words are not the final solution but they can play a role.

I never said should have known. I laid out clear actionable steps - time is measurable. We can have norms in society where we expect the people we date to introduce us to their friends and family before we get serious.

If it is just casual sex and nothing serious then both parties have no reason to ask for more than that and have expectations.

If I know anyone I care about is being abusive, not respecting consent, gaslighting, etc I am equally quick to call it out. I make sure they are transparent and honest. In our lives we need to push for improvement on both sides - supply and demand of the problem.

The idea of a victim just being powerless and things just happen to them is not healthy. There is no sense of control. Nothing they can do to avoid it in the future. There are things we can all do. Arm ourselves, learn martial arts, prepare, plan, anticipate. That is on us. That does not mean we don't shame, punish criminals. We can do both you know. This is a false dichotomy. I can blame everyone.

I blame people who have power, I blame victims because I believe they have the ability to be better and do better. When you treat adults like kids, don't expect them to take responsibility for their actions then soon after you will take away freedoms from them. When you want self determination, the right to pick your sexual partners, the right to take loans, etc. You need to shoulder the consequences of those decisions, given the kind of the world we have right now.

We can all work together to make the world kinder, less cruel and the kind of world where it is harder to fuck up these decisions. But until then since you have the power to make decisions, you are responsible to consider the possible consequences.

Finally I think there is an interesting fallacy called "The attacking the motive fallacy" which occurs when one person argues that another person's position is invalid solely due to motives that could affect the claim. So I think your instinct is to try to understand "why does this person believe this", "what is his motive for wanting to blame the victim, blaming the victim is wrong and he is trying hard to do this".

But my arguments stand on its own merit. I am not arguing based on some authority or certification I have. Talking about my motives is making it personal and avoiding the issue at hand. I am calling this out because it is a step in the right direction when you can pause and acknowledge yes I am uncomfortable with this line of discussion.

I am avoiding directly grappling with this emotive issue, I am using fallacies.

See it is normal. If I was a victim I would feel attacked too. Whenever shit has happened to me in life I hate it if people come and tell me what I could have done better. I mean that is not the right time to do a postmortem analysis.

I would never take a person who had his home stolen from and lecture him about his security practices right after the shock, it has to handled with tact. But that does not mean we should lie to him and say he did all he could have when he did not do all that he could.

The point of a debate sub is that we can be more direct and honest. By being here people are ready to handle the truth, debates.

Anyway I am really not "interested" in blaming anyone. I rarely blame people. I struggle to... I go deeper and beyond their "free will", I see the true causes of any event to be rooted in their genes, upbringing, social incentives, cultural norms, circumstances, etc. So the truth is that no one is to blame. But that is the least useful intepretation most of the time.

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I'm trying extremely hard not to be rude, but it is my nature so apologies if I can't keep a lid on it.

Your huge wall of text is lovely, hopeful, and the words of a fantasist. To me, they come across as someone who reads a lot and is social little. I have no idea about your life but I feel like you deliberately keep your empathy and compassion at arms length, like you believe that this will make you a better person. It's a completely incorrect idea.

The idea that victims should be blamed because they do better is simply the cry of someone with deep self loathing, who has been the victim (of bullying, of neglect, of general rudeness) and has decided to internalise those thoughts. Of course nobody is blameless but the fact they are the victim means they are the aggrieved party. When you say 'pick sexual partners' again you put it on (predominantly) the woman, acting like she deliberately decided to be risky. There are many cases where this is not the situation - coercion, fear, and worse can have played a large role.

Pretending that the solution to rape is doing cool kung fu moves is the hopeless delusion of someone who lies in bed at night and pretends they're the hero, swatting away a faceless villain that isn't their family, their friend, their employer.

We can all work together to make the world kinder, less cruel, and the kind of world where it is harder to fuck up these decisions. I agree. I think that the part of this is a robust social welfare net and support for those brave enough to leave an abusive relationship.

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social little.

used to be me. I read a low growing up. Now I am really social. Tons of friends and activies outside.

I managed to learn a lot by reading... but the kind of learning you get by travelling, meeting people, experiencing life is qualitatively different.

nature so apologies if I can't keep a lid on it.

tis fine, crocker rules apply. For now it does not seem like you are debating in bad faith.

keep your empathy and compassion at arms length

I knew this was coming that is why I editted and made my large text larger lol. You can psychoanalyze me, I can do the same to me. The truth is we don't know each other. It does no good to enter this territory. But sure since you bring it up, I have to lodge my disagreement. I am highly empathetic and compassionate.

make you a better person

define better. These are subjective ideas. I am better at certain tasks if I can be empathic and worse at others. These things depend on context. It is harder to be a general if you focus on each soldier's life. You have larger things, a different perspective, wider context.

the cry of someone with deep self loathing, who has been the victim

but yeah I don't want to waste words trying to justify and explain the cause of my beliefs. It is ad hominem to try and make it about the kind of person who holds such beliefs.

it is so tiring to see people play status games online. I don't think we can contribute value to each other at this point. I wish you all the best in finding the answers you seek.

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I’m somewhat of an expert 🤓🥸 not really red pilled per se. it’s a tool, a framework which I’m considering, testing and understanding.

Lol but yeah I’d bet most red pill guys will see transwomen as actually men. It doesn’t affect them, since they don’t want to date them. So it’s not relevant to the discussion prevalent in the manosphere.

It’s like asking what trp men think of grannies, I guess most would be like let her do her. To be polite I’ll use her pronouns. I don’t actually think she is a “women” socially. I believe she feels like a women and would like to be treated as a women.

To be a women in society has many facets. One of which would be sexual attraction. It’s an important part. So I think it’s sus if people say “I think transwomen are real women but I won’t date them”. The truth is they have a new category… transwomen aren’t a type of women, it’s a new category. People who wish they were women and would be more comfortable if everyone gave them what they wanted.

Anyway so trp spends all the time focused on young hot girls, how relationships work, what girls find attractive in men. So it’s not like they have a lack of topics to think about. Trans women don’t really come into discussion. I’m sure there are a group of trp men who wouldn’t mind dating trans women.

For them I think they would apply whatever trp principles that worked. The way I understand it, transwomen have a female brain. Prenatal exposure to hormones. So they think like women do so if trp is right, it should work….

But who knows, imo the trp principles are already very low accuracy, adding transwomen, I bet most won’t stand.

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For some it's to find a partner, a sex buddy, to maintain relationships, to get over breakups, to find answers....

For me it's mostly answers. It's the result of searching for the truth. Trp is the ugliest truth I've seen. It's not useful for most people imo.

It's one of the classic examples of that which is true isn't necessarily useful or healthy. Or that many myths or lies can be very useful for humans to function.

It's an area of study, I think it's a subculture that has potential to mutate into something that will go mainstream.

Haha sure to some people transgirls are also hot young women. But I don't have enough transgirl friends who are close enough for me to confirm that they are internally the same. The way they were raised, how others treat them, hormones etc will affect the way they think. So I'd not be surprised if there was significant differences.

I'm not sure they are bad differences. most hot young girls aren't exactly super interesting.

Hmmm I don't know if "hard to consider" is correct. Lots of things are hard but that's not why we do them. There is a lack of motivation to want to try to consider transgirls as possibly datable girls.

It's a lot of biology, so once medical science can give you functionally indistinguishable body parts, soft skin, etc then everything will fall in place.

If you go to left bubbles I think you would be. Within a community where they see transwomen are real women, you are women.

This is not a fact about the objective reality but a fact about the intersubjective reality. The shared myths that a group of people agree on. It's in our heads.

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Haha so it started with trying to understand what is "vibe" spark, chemistry. People seemed obfuscate the reasons why you like or dislike someone romantically. Part of it was to ignore the transactional aspect of all relationships. How unconditional are feelings anyway.

I had already understood what politeness was, what humor was to a degree. But then the domain of romance was pretty hard to decipher.

I seemed to see patterns of behaviour which hinted at larger truths. Like how we are all more shallow than we like to admit.

So I wanted to know what archetypes of men are women are broadly attractive. How much overlap is there. Is there any measure by which beauty can be considered objective. As a transwomen you must know there are clear standards of feminity... Voice, posture, appearance.

So specifically questions about why relationships actually fail. I've seen friends break up. People keep starting relationships with oblivious optimism. They seem to pick people who don't suit them.

It didn't seem like people were thinking about long term health of a relationship when falling in love. I'm not saying those traits - communication or empathy didn't matter but the priority wasn't right. Didn't seem right.

I was also struggling to date, flirt, vet, etc. So this topic took me in. I read about attachment theories, love languages, personality types, replication crisis in this field. How shit most research is...

So yeah all of that... A reason why I'm failing is step 1 to fix it. Understand the problem and then solve it. Knowledge is power. The power to improve your life.

But years later I don't think that approach works in relationships. Understanding is logical, rational and is useful as a scientist trying to study humans, as a policy maker, law maker, etc. But in personal relationships, it's more about intuition, feeling, emotions. Understanding can sometimes hurt your happiness badly.

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It depends on the type of therapy.

Reddit is majority American, and it's funny as a non-American to see such high levels of support for Freudian-style talk therapy. There's no evidence that this style of treatment can cure any mental disorders, despite its popularity in the US. Yes, it is essentially paying for someone to validate your feelings. However, I suppose this can be important if you feel lonely, ignored, or repressed in day to day life.

Other types of therapy have mountains of medical evidence proving their efficacy; cognitive behavioural therapy and metacognitive interpersonal therapy, for example, are very effective techniques to retrain the brain's neural pathways to overcome mental disorders and personality disorders. The jist is that these problems are essentially "mental habits", and by following a proscribed set of practices, you can break those habits.

The latter isn't the type of therapy that most people on here are recommending though.

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Most people aren't in therapy to rattle on about themselves for feels and validation. They're there for the safe space to tell the truth about their experiences without feelings judged or for people that don't have actual support in their lives. People that have been abused talking about their experience and not hearing well you should have picked better. Get over it already. Ffs you were 14, let it go. Trauma doesn't disappear on a timeline. Those are the people in therapy for more than a few sessions. Or people with mental illness that are learning coping skills to deal with their emotions and the effects of their illness on their lives. Very little of therapy is hey, let's talk about me for a while in that sense. There's work given to help the patient correct thought patterns and a plan to not be overwhelmed.

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I believe that most women are very aware that trying to get with a guy who appears to be an interesting option and who is way above her station isn't worth the break-up with her current partner. I also believe in attachment and pair-bonding. People really grow attached to each other and become reluctant to break up. Take a couple who are in their late twenties. Both want kids . The idea to go on the hunt for a better partner would be detrimental to the woman's goal and values . And going backcon the market at that age is dreadful.

I also believe nost regular women don't cheat unless they are incredibly unsatisfied in the relationship. There has to be some real shit to be going on for that to happen.

And lastly, I think college-educated people seem to engage far less in these type of behaviors. All the drama relationship stories are likely more to be found in lower classes, I've found.

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I think bluepillers on here underestimate how high a man’s N-count can get if he has looks, fame, or clout. Wilt Chamberlain had 20k partners. Genghis Khan and Castro are in the 40k range.

In my circle of friends, the attractive guys are usually in the 75-125 range. Some outliers are in the 200 range. I am tall and decent looking (unfortunately balding and ethnic) and am considered a normie to them (they give me dating advice) and I’m in the 50-60 range.

The gap between these guys and an normie or incel is huge.

Also they somehow keep women coming back. Whenever a previous girl breaks up with a bf and wants a rebound, she’s usually calling Chad first before looking for a new guy.

You might not personally know a Chad, but he’s out there and he probably fucked your girl in a club bathroom at some point.

This is not a value judgment, I think women should have all the fun they want. But let’s not stick our head in the sand and pretend Chad doesn’t exist or he doesn’t affect the dating market.

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Guy killed 40 million people, but you think he drew the line at rape? Why? He was positively famous among his lieutenants for taking the prettiest daughters of his enemies as “wives”— how much free choice do honestly you think these women had in refusing to fuck the man who left all her family members bleeding to death on the ground? GK tended to not have a lot of problems spilling peoples blood for defying his orders.

Like, I’m really curious how you even picture these women as all consenting… if everyone you know was brutally murdered, you’d know you’d be killed if you said “no”. How is having the option of either letting it happen or having your head removed consensual in your mind?

You can be a Chad and still get cheated on. AWALT and whatnot.

You didn’t read did you? Borte was kidnapped and raped repeatedly by enemies… do you not think rape is a real thing or something?

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Look at this list just in 6 months

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_mass_shootings_in_the_United_States_in_2022

The biggest reason by far is single mother homes. Dads who aren't present. I blame men for giving women too many rights to allow this to happen.

CMV

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Did, someone order a troll off Amazon? Possibly while high?

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My thoughts lol. Too bad I've been feeding this troll

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Female empathy does not naturally flow towards men, whereas the other way around is standard. This is regardless of sexual desire or attractiveness. Males are able to take on the mental burden of female difficulties without having experienced most of the unique challenges.

Almost all females are biologically incapable of feeling empathy for males, even ones in their family.

One day neuro science will prove this and doubters will eat my shorts.

CMV

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It's not really that women don't feel empathy towards men so much as women have a built in hierarchy of empathy that always prioritizes themselves and other women. You break your leg, they'll feel bad for you. You get your home foreclosed on, they'll feel bad for you.
Get stood up on a date, they'll say you must have done something to make her feel creeped out or threatened. You get cheated on by your girlfriend, they'll ask what you did to drive her to another man. Your wife physically attacks you, they'll tell you you see if you can get her a therapist because she must being going through something.

How concerned or sympathetic a woman is depends heavily on how related the issue is to her or another woman. The premise of this sub is about the relationship between the genders, for that reason alone women here will automatically feel defensiveness and disdain for any man pointing out unique issues or disadvantages regarding his gender. They can't fight the instinct and they don't want to.

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Depends on who the stranger is. I mean generally as a society. Mothers feel sympathy but not empathy.

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Sympathy, not empathy.

Boys are different from men.

I assume it's to do with brain structure, men can simulate in their brain the woman's struggle and this was necessary as they had to protect and be "responsible" for them. No this applies to way more than dating problems.

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I have body dysmorphia so I can’t. I also will pick apart my body and can’t see it holistically.

There are also individual preferences.

I’m I guess 5’4-5’5, slim, ”trim hourglass” (I have a good WHR at 0.65 but my hips are medium I just have a small waist”) and largeish boobs but not huge. I think my butt isn’t good enough but it’s I guess proportional to my body. If someone is into an extreme hourglass juicy look I’m not for them.

Face is… kind of ”harmonious” in the sense that no feature really sticks out relative to the other. Dark blonde hair, brown eyes.

I think I have hip dips, I have a good fat distribution but it goes on my arms too (well, low testosterone?), and I think my eyes aren’t very big. My nose is straight not upturned. My colouring is boring. I would want a more pointy chin etc. I have a more ”elegant” face rather than hyperfeminine i.e. not some chubby cheeks or round face, and that’s not peak sexual dimorphism. My legs are not long.

I don’t know really? I guess I’m objectively not ugly.

Makeup often disrupts the harmony in my face so I don’t wear that much ever.

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I've only had positive experiences on LSD, did it a ton in college, now do it about once a year. It's the best drug on the planet and nothing else even comes close imo. I have seen some folks have bad trips so it makes me weary suggesting it to anyone, but almost everyone will have a great time on a low dose (one tab, or 100ug or under). Low doses are much more euphoric, laughy trips, whereas medium to high doses are much closer to the Fear and Loathing breathing walls psychedelia trips.

I think the mile-a-minute thinking is what people miss most during trip reports -- LSD makes you think weirdly and quickly. Your thoughts will be going a mile a minute and they will be strange. It's almost like it neurochemically unlocks some kind of hidden lateral thought mechanism. Expect to do some abstract, deep thinking. It will happen whether you want it to or not.

It hugely impacted my life, but not in an "oh my god I figured out the secrets of the universe" or "I saw God" stereotypical kind of way. Mainly it was mind expanding, extremely fun (and funny) and bonded me closer to an already tight knit friend group. Also makes good music sound like heaven.

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LSD made me realize there were layers to human consciousness that can only be "unlocked" by taking a drug. I mean, look, on LSD, things that ought not be a certain color are, things that ought not move do, patterns emerge when they were just boring geometry before. On LSD, your brain unconsciously makes metaphors and symbolizes everything around it (which is where you get a lot of the hokey 'I saw God' or 'I figured out the universe' shit). A paisley rug becomes a trail to the stars, in other words.

Empirically, we know LSD basically makes sweet sweet love to your serotonin receptors (and lots of other receptors) which boosts and hugely induces "primary process thinking". PPT is exactly what it sounds like, instinctual primal thoughts that just arise out of nowhere. It's what your brain is doing while you're asleep, processing thoughts without much input from your id (ego). This kind of thinking is uninhibited by, well, inhibition, on higher doses especially you can kind of just think freely. It's like all your usual, built-in mental blocks melt away and your brain goes "hey, this is what you're supposed to be thinking, and these are the things you're supposed to be seeing." That's really the only way I can describe it to someone who hasn't done it themselves.

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Alright, let’s see what we can come up with.

Aiming at your science and technology, take her to a museum. Preferably something that you’re also interested and in. It’ll go over well if you can show you’re passionate about it. This one’s a little risky, though. You have to make sure she’s really into that kind of thing. A more normie pick along this line would be something like an art gallery.

More straightforwardly, plan what you might call a 3-part date. You basically want to pick 3 things, they don’t have to be huge things, but you ideally want them to be within talking distance. This lets you do stuff together but then have plenty of time to chat between events. An example of one I’ve done is grab dinner at a local market, go see live music at a nearby venue, and then go grab ice cream afterwards. You can improv as you go as well if it see something fun along the way.

Comedy clubs are always a huge hit. Not much to say here.

If none of these hit right, lemme know and I’ll throw out more.

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That gap mostly disappears when women see the negotiation as being on behalf of other people.

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All successful relationships are where the woman wants the man more than vice versa.

CMV

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If he loves her and has committed long term then she is not.

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That sounds good on paper but doesn't work in real life relationships and will continue to be proven wrong even in egalitarian societies. These relationships will break apart.

Doesn't bother me, I just feel for the kids who have to deal with possibly abusive step parents or a void in their parental education.

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I never said the guy should be open about about. Just stay cool. He'll probably only admit this to his friends who already understand this

It benefits both hence why these relationships actually succeed on every metric and last a lifetime.

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Correct that is called hypogamy.

When a man is actually looking to get in a lifelong relationship and not just sex. He will usually get someone just below his perceived and agreed league.

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You are still wanted. Just not as much

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Only for a fling. Nothing more.

Humans evolved to have one long term partner and occasional side partners

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Reality is hurtful. What works best is sometimes hurtful

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All men who aren't domesticated and are in successful relationships that will end at death .. have said the same thing

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Considering most women have reactive desire, I highly doubt that.

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I gave the caveat in a reply comment (: its more to do with action than want though

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The only caveat is the man has to initiate and lead especially in the start, dating phase.

If you mean this caveat, I don't think a man has a lot of reasons to initiate and stay if he's not deeply into her from the beginning.

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Nah he just understands what he has to do.

Now we're getting into psychology and philosophy. You can do things with outcome independence

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I argue it has to stay that way through from meeting to dying.

The only caveat is the man has to initiate and lead especially in the start, dating phase.

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But how badly do they want each other, what are they willing to put up with? What are they willing to change?

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Wow I feel so attacked right now😭😭 you perfectly described the kind of vulnerability I want from a man and the kind I don't want. I know it's bad that I don't want to see too much of a man's emotional side. But I also know I will lose respect/attraction if I do, so I'd rather not for the sake of the relationship.

To be fair though there are certain female emotions that men don't like to deal with either. In my experience men hate when a woman is depressed or angry, even when she has good reason to be. I have found that men in my life have very little tolerance for a my anger. They don't take it seriously and see it as "acting crazy" and do nothing to address what made me angry in the first place. I've also found that men get irritated when women are sad. It's almost like they expect women to constantly be cheerful and positive. Most women have been told to smile or lighten up by a man. It comes across as though women don't have the right to be angry or sad and therfore should suppress those emotions, in order to please men. because apparently men like women who are always positive and upbeat. Ofc this is anecdotal but I think a lot of women would agree

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Certain men get the benefit of being social butterflies and shit. Some do just because they’re tall or good looking

But that’s how it is man? Sorry? I don’t het the benefit of being a social butterfly but I have gorgeous friends that do. If I try to throw a party maybe one person will show up. If my best friend does and invites the same people everyone will show up. Once she walked into a frat party and came out with a committed boyfriend and this was me going into my second year of college still without ever dating or garnering interest. Some people have th social capital to make friends and pull guys/girls easily. Some don’t. There’s not much you can do other than just try harder to be good at socializing and not make a big deal of it

I experimented with this in high school. At a house party my step brother was there and he was just chillin. A girl literally took his hand and started to dance on him. I purposefully sat back and wanted to see if anyone would come talk to me.

No one did.

Not until I started drinking and actively engaging did more people gravitate towards me. But imagine if I wasn’t social I would have been SOL.

Dude same here. I’m a fairly cute shy black girl. I had a lot of trouble socializing and shit even now. I don’t have the vibes or social capital to sit back and let people come to me. A lot of people in college commented that I knew everyone and that I seemed popular. I wasn’t. I just learned that if I wanted to have even a chance of making a friend I had to ducking throw myself out there. I get rejected a fuck ton. Like A LOT. And not just romantically, like when making friends too.

I used to do little experiments too of sitting back silent bc everyone ran up to Sarah when she does it but they ignore me. And I’d lament on how unfair it was. It is. But life’s not fair. My same best friend who just attracts anyone and everyone, her little sister is just as gorgeous as her but she’s shy af and while she’s never dated when my best friend was her age she had had like 10 boyfriends by then. Her sister has a way smaller friend group and doesn’t really party. If you don’t have that energy and charisma you just don’t

So no sorry but women AND men approaching you at a function is a luxury that the average man doesn’t have. He’s just an NPC

It’s only the luxury of hot charismatic people. If you really want this attention and you’re not naturally charaamtic what you have to do is bring attention to yourself. Like dye your hair a crazy color. After I dyed my hair and pierced myself people came up to me more. Or be the funny guy. Or wear crazy outfits. I sometimes dress completely like a Barbie doll and it makes people come up to you. Like you have to try

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That’s what I mean their radar isn’t an actual radar

It’s not radar. It’s just what we call it. It’s a combination of being not naive, perceptive, and good at socializing

Yes it is because the other misogynistic men are getting play. The only diff is that they were born with better looks

That’s not it only it tho. For some dudes it bc they look better. For some it’s not, they may not look that hot but they’re wildly charismatic or just good at masking.

If a naive women is approached by a misogynistic and charming man with a lot of social skills, he’s gonna be able to hide those views easily

If a perceptive, socially experienced, smart lady is approached by a socially awkward, misogynistic man, she’s gonna clock the misogyny in him

Is it “fair”? No I guess it’s not but in the same way that some women will date misogynistic men, the girls I’d try to befriend at school would rather be friends with the “mean” girl. Like it is what it is. It’s not always bc of peoples looks

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You’re insane men have something called testosterone we can’t bond over cheesy bits tf 😂

I’m not putting the onus on women to initiate I’m saying that women are not receptive of men just talking to them to the point of being friends.

They need a social buffer (school, work, gym, etc). Otherwise it will go NOWHERE

I make small talk all the time to everyone lol that doesn’t mean I have lots of friends. I could make jokes at the grocery store about shit and they laugh and…that’s it. You think they’ll give me their number or say “Omg let’s be friends” like no only women can experience that.

Most women have their guard up or they’ll think that I want their basic ass 😂

“You’re funny teehee”

“You’re funny too can I have your number?”

“I have a boyfriend -walks away-“

The end

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You’re insane

Wait Dr. Fitzpatrick…did you find me????

I’m not putting the onus on women to initiate I’m saying that women are not receptive of men just talking to them to the point of being friends.

Ohhh that’s fair I suppose. Of the people who are open to friend ships I think some of them are women but they might assume they’re being hit on

I make small talk all the time to everyone lol that doesn’t mean I have lots of friends. I could make jokes at the grocery store about shit and they laugh and…that’s it. You think they’ll give me their number or say “Omg let’s be friends” like no only women can experience that.

I do wonder if there’s a difference in success depending on the location. Intimate vs non intimate combined with how we view gendered friendships. Bc I ain’t giving you my number in the grocery store but for sure in the bathroom. Actually last time I went out for Halloween with a guy friend he ended up getting to ladies numbers and it was def as friends

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Yes it must be hard to not have sexual attention from women very frequently.

That's trivializing the issues that unattractive men face. Nobody actually expects sexual attention from women very frequently - only Chads receive that kind of treatment.

But the issues ugly men face goes way beyond that- it's not just not being able to get frequent sex. It's being bullied and excluded in school while your classmates are having the time of their lives, never having the chance to get even go on a date let alone experience love or romance, living your entire adult life in solitude without a support network you can open up to, never being able to have a family of your own, and finally dying alone with nobody by your bedside. That's a much more tragic fate than "not getting frequent sex".

BUT indifference and active rudeness are two different things

Yes I agree with this, but there is also a difference between polite indifference and intentional exclusion/ostracization.

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Nope. I remember my straight male friend pointed out this cute guy with frosted tips and was like “Yummylicky look at that guy, he’s so ugly right”

I mean you aren't exactly disproving my point. Yeah I agree that women have wildly different types, and that they are attracted to some types of men but find other types ugly. But the common denominator is that every woman's type is ALWAYS conventionally attractive, and conventionally unattractive men are no one's type.

For instance, some women may like roided out meatheads, some may like kpop pretty boys, some may like edgy guys with tattoos and piercings, some may like more "conventional" chads- but all of those men are tall/have an attractive face.

A lot of us didn’t want our friend back with her bf bc he cheated on her and some of us agreed he wasn’t even that cute but he was so hot to her

This just proves my point further. Any guy who is able to cheat is within the top 20% of men and at least somewhat attractive. Women debate about which men among the top 20% are attractive, but no woman finds the bottom 80% of men attractive.

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But the common denominator is that every woman's type is ALWAYS conventionally attractive, and conventionally unattractive men are no one's type.

Isn’t this the case for everyone? Both genders?

For instance, some women may like roided out meatheads, some may like kpop pretty boys, some may like edgy guys with tattoos and piercings, some may like more "conventional" chads- but all of those men are tall/have an attractive face.

A lot of us didn’t want our friend back with her bf bc he cheated on her and some of us agreed he wasn’t even that cute but he was so hot to her

This just proves my point further. Any guy who is able to cheat is within the top 20% of men and at least somewhat attractive.

But he wasn’t in the top 20%, that’s why We’re baffled. Literally anyone can cheat. Like even if you’re the ugliest person ever

Women debate about which men among the top 20% are attractive, but no woman finds the bottom 80% of men attractive.

So 80% of the male population is single?

I’m mot conventionally attractive so I don’t attract many men, like I thought that wa s just common knowledge

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The echoes of traditional gender roles combined with the fact that women are the ones who give birth.

I'd guess most women are okay with dating partners who have similar income and not significantly lower just because they don't want to have more dependents than they absolutely have to.

Dating someone who makes far less in the long run means that you either will have to downgrade your current lifestyle in order to match theirs or pay for them to match yours. Like if you rent a flat in a good neighborhood and they can't afford half of it, there aren't a lot of options besides these two. Or if you want to travel to Italy and they can't afford it either. And then there's the question of having kids which is expensive as hell.

And there's an issue of financial security. If a high-earning partner who makes more than 60-70% of mutual income loses their job, gets ill, dies, whatever, the family is fucked up financially.

My husband and I have similar income level right now, but in the future I will most likely outearn him if he doesn't decide to change his field or if I don't decide to become a freelancer again. I'm okay with it, as even now we have enough. I guess it could be an issue, if we didn't make enough at least for two of us and he made far less than I did and didn't plan to do anything about it.

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Yes. Of course. But again I’m not naive. Men without work for a long time tend to have terrible mental health because they’re so used to contributing to the household and now feel worthless. It can lead to depression/anxiety. Bankruptcy, financial hardship etc can break up otherwise happy couples. I never want to be in this position.

I’ve done a lot to ensure we will never face financial hardship. Both of our salaries are insured so that either of us take ill health, we have a period of time with income protection. Our house is much smaller than we can afford because we want one salary to be able to cover both of our expenses so that if either of us are made redundant, we can get by.

Maybe this is all overkill, and he and I could live happily with pennies. But I think it’s likely naive to think that both of us are different from the millions of other couples in the world

My mum and dad have been divorced for years. They still love each other on some level, but my dads alcoholism and my mums mental health were not a good match. Being basically teenagers with a baby did not help. Before that, they’d dated for years and had been completely happy together. But my presence fucked that up. They couldn’t afford their own place, my dad got depressed, started to drink, my mum had to work all hours of the day then look after me as he was not sober enough to look after me. It made them hate each other as they both felt trapped. Am I fuck ending up like that.

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What's so hard to understand? He's mastered having a good online profile, texting well and a likeable personality. That leads to alot of hookups around the world.

His face is like that because of health conditions

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They are around the world including the US, check his reports if you're interested https://www.playingfire.com/category/love-reports/

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Why would a 21 year old go for a 33 year old when there are so many men in her age range?

Young men don’t have their shit together. They don’t usually own their own houses and can’t provide a financially secure lifestyle for women and their potential children. They aren’t settled in their personality, they’re working all the time because they’re still just beginning their careers, and they’re more likely to still be chasing strange and new women. You also don’t know what they’re going to look like when they age— will they still be fit and handsome, or will they turn into balding beer bellies?

Older men are more likely to be financially secure and able to provide, more likely to have had their fun with women and be ready to settle down with one, more likely to know who they are and what they want, more likely to have free time because they’ve built their businesses or climbed the career latter, and you already know if they’ve built lasting health habits and are likely to stay in shape or not.

I’d say there’s no competition. Take it from someone with a 25 year age gapped relationship.

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Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	21
Comments	1719
Date	July 5, 2022 7:00 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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