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baresquad · 2022-07-26T15:44:57+00:00

PPD tells me unattractive men won’t treat their girlfriends as bad as the attractive men they choose.

Anecdotal experience tells me I saw a dude who’ll probably struggle to find his next relationship make his girlfriend cry in public on the train coming back from the same concert that I was the other night. I was so embarrassed for how pathetic he was being, like a dude eventually went asked her if she was ok. It was bad.

You can’t tell me it’s always a clear cut case of “Chad is the asshole, average dude is Prince Charming.”

How you look and your dating success has nothing to do with your character and how you’ll treat your partner in a relationship.

MsGoogleEyes · 2022-07-26T19:36:43+00:00

i feel like this sub greatly misrepresents the world at times

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-27T17:59:11+00:00

Another day of men thinking other people can automatically discern their partner’s n counts 🙃

LSX81 · 2022-07-27T16:01:24+00:00

I find women's white discharge when we fuck hot, am I the only one?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-07-26T19:21:11+00:00

Internet was down at my webdev training today. lol.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-26T21:09:45+00:00

So I've never been to festival ( I think) and I don't regret that. Whats the appeal of standing for 6 hours on end and getting smashed ?

mackenzie013_02 · 2022-07-26T21:19:29+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/w8r2ya/guy_lied_about_his_height_pretended_to_be_shorter/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Lol ..that’s a first.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-26T22:22:37+00:00

Say what you want about the last season of Game of Thrones but the first few seasons may be the best pieces of a television show I've watched

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-26T23:32:56+00:00

We at least in the US push for pro-health and eating the right foods along with exercising. Problem is that healthy foods are more expensive and less accessible than junk food. That said, despite this healthy campaign, I always felt that there has been a secretive market push for more junk food.

The base I am at overseas got a contract with Krispy Kreme donuts about a little over a year ago, and I felt that was the worst decision they made. It doesn't help that the moment you walk into the shoppette, there are tables loaded with boxes and boxes of various kinds of donuts. My job loves buying them for the employees. It doesn't help when you're hungry asf and you try to avoid them but they're constantly in your face. Discipline is a pain in the ass whenever it comes to losing weight.

figuringMylife · 2022-07-27T00:49:49+00:00

women have to date older because younger men aren’t ready to settle down and pop out kids 😩

errrright · 2022-07-27T01:48:40+00:00

Q4M - are you mad at me?

MsGoogleEyes · 2022-07-27T02:17:55+00:00

hi guys. i made a poll but not in reddit bc i wanted it to be insightful. i wanted this to be the polls to end all polls and everyone (short/tall/boy/girl/straight/lgbt) should at least have some input to get a whole picture.

everyone will have access to the raw data when submitting form to see for themselves.

later i plan to update with visual data everyone if i find any interesting trends.

here is link -> https://forms.gle/kDr8kaedYfLBDK9p7

also if you have any suggestions plz lmk. please upvote if u agree with this movement so more ppl can fill out poll.

also nobody is forcing u to fill this out.

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-27T03:32:51+00:00

Finally urinating after holding it in for a long time feels better than an orgasm.

flash13131313 · 2022-07-27T05:43:40+00:00

Most people may not be actively racist and discriminatory, but it’s still wild how much your race affects how people perceive you, especially women.

As an extremely light-skinned South Asian man (baby pic of me for reference), I have never had any trouble with women or relationships ever since I actively sought them (so starting around 18 yo). Many of my South Asian friends, however, complain that women they encounter don’t want to date them because of their race or ethnicity, or because they “just don’t like Indian men” (some of them aren’t even Indian).

I never really realized the bubble that I was living in until recently. I wonder how much my dating/sexual life would differ if my skin tone wasn’t literally in the 99th percentile for lightness out of South Asians.

verycoolguySmash · 2022-07-26T15:10:48+00:00

Anyone down to do a first official PPD meetup in Miami?

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-26T15:27:45+00:00

Fever is weird. You feel like shit, but you're also kind of hot...and you're almost aroused.

And fever sex is fun, yep. Extremely hot everywhere, shortness of breath and a bit of lightheadedness. Although you probably shouldn't do it if your fever is too high, don't risk overheating yourself.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-07-26T16:54:54+00:00

Q4W: Have you ever made a man work harder to sleep with you than another man? If so why? (I expect y’all to cap on this question btw but I’ll ask anyways)

Q4M: Have you ever known for a fact that you had to put in more effort to fuck a woman than another man did? If so why did you have to put in more effort?

Slipthe · 2022-07-26T18:57:37+00:00

Yo did I miss Livs returning?

That's a damn shame, I was looking forward to it.

RegTextoffender · 2022-07-26T20:43:35+00:00

Anyone else find it pathetic that big tech social media is banning the term groo mer like Twitter and reddit?

It's like they don't feel they have to pretend there isn't an agenda.

Expect a push to lower the age of consent in the next few years.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-26T20:51:04+00:00

One thing I thought was interesting was 2 Celebrities having beef and one of them dies. The surviving person than makes a claim about how they “made up” before the other died and were cool. I’m not saying this never happens but it’s awfully convenient.

ScrimmyBingusTwo · 2022-07-26T21:09:42+00:00

I’ve never watched more than one episode of The Big Bang Theory because it’s a terrible show but what does PPD make of this?

John_Oakman · 2022-07-26T21:51:27+00:00

For those who refuse to compromise on their moral integrity even in the face of the [in reality probably remote possibility] of the decline and fall/collapse of society/civilization: what are the chances of what replaces the current setup be more moral?

Of course it's a moot question, as moral virtue is independent of worldly results/reactions. But since this subreddit loves to ask moot questions...

Gaycunt453 · 2022-07-26T22:01:46+00:00

Where can I actually find good dating advice? For a dude. I need help flirting and talking to girls, i work out, have good hygiene, growing out a beard etc it’s just actually talking to them I struggle with

meteorness123 · 2022-07-26T23:56:17+00:00

is there anything more annoying than "extroverted" youtubers who are always super energetic (and so fun) and have amazing personalities (amazing personality =being loud) ? This goes for general people, too. Not just youtubers.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-27T00:06:06+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/dianalapusneanu/?hl=en

Rank this woman from 1 to 10

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-07-27T00:28:45+00:00

I found my first PPD tankie 💀💀

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/w8i03x/z/ihsd76s

I'd seen commies before but not a bona fide ccp supporter

just_a_jane_doe · 2022-07-27T01:39:42+00:00

Anxiety is coming back, I have trouble eating and I have insomnia all again. All when I thought I was making progress and I could slowly get off medication.

Fuck all of this.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-27T01:52:17+00:00

Q4M - Would you date a girl who had an OnlyFans?

Would you be ok with a girl you're already dating starting an OnlyFans?

Does it matter if it's nudity only and not porn?

dubiousmechanism · 2022-07-27T02:14:45+00:00

Men: if you had the funds to pay actresses (or amateurs) to participate in porn where you were the director & actor in some scenes, would you count those interactions in your “n-count” or would that be a separate compartment?

And women: if you were an actress in adult films, where you were paid for an hour of your time or whatever, would you count that in your “n-count” or would that be a separate compartment?

For those of you that have been in porn, what’s the best way to describe the difference between sexual acts for $ on camera with strangers and a one night stand or hook up (when it comes to feelings)?

n3waccount2020 · 2022-07-27T02:42:33+00:00

Pop a Xanny, make your problems go away

scwizard · 2022-07-27T04:51:59+00:00

It only takes a quick scroll through this sub or to eavesdrop on a conversation about women between men, to see they view us more like a product or livestock or a game to be played than as real humans. It’s pretty chilling tbh.

I wonder if it's easier to find a man that you're convinced doesn't see you like this, or if it's easier to accept that this is how men are and try and embrace your hucow fetish and enjoy being livestock.

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Slipthe · 2022-07-26T15:00:24+00:00

Thirsty for some firsty.

Fat_Papaya · 2022-07-26T15:04:41+00:00

I just came off my second Reddit chat conversation with a woman from here and it was yet another really nice experience, ladies send me pics and I will judge you and we can talk about it, it's a lot of fun doing this haha

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-07-26T17:01:14+00:00

Who do you pick for ltr?

40 year old virgin vs 20 year old slut.

Both are really hot for their age group.

dysonRing · 2022-07-26T17:12:09+00:00

Difference between men and women on revenge porn

https://www.reddit.com/r/technology/comments/w8j5yh/mexican_scam_loan_apps_will_edit_your_face_onto/

lol

My only worry is that they would pick a smaller than average (for a pornstar), shit if it ever happened I would use it as a final excuse and plunge into OF head on.

WilliamWyattD · 2022-07-26T19:38:21+00:00

Should guys in real life try to adopt the baldness concealing hairstyles they use in film and TV all the time? Are those workable in real life?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-26T19:39:21+00:00

Would you rather date a stoner or a functioning alcoholic?

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-07-26T19:56:07+00:00

I have a thing for tall women

Height is like boobs

It's all good, however the bigger the better (until too big)

hollo_man45 · 2022-07-26T20:29:21+00:00

So I’m always sending my gf random (and mostly silly) memes. Sometimes while I’m on a call today. So I recently came across a meme that said ‘Someone’s gf is a squirter and he doesn’t know but some other guy knows.’ When I sent it to her she laughed and asked why I’m always sending crazy memes. I then decided to ask her if she’s a squirter. She said she would tell me when I met her (I had called to ask if I could pass by to visit). Should i follow up on this? She’s had 2 partners before me. Our sex life is great according to her and so far there’s nothing she would change (of course she’d say that but I do believe her to some degree). I’m curious if I’m satisfying her as well I could. What if she can squirt but I just haven’t managed to bring it out of her.

Edit: so I e met up, cuddled and had a long chat. When I was about to leave I reminded her that she said she would tell if she’s a squirter. She made some funny sound she sometimes makes, winked at me and closed the car door without answering. I found this a bit annoying. It seems to me like she’s actively avoiding the question which is not good for me because I will end up making the worst assumptions.

How do you guys suggest I handle this?

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-26T20:32:09+00:00

Who’s the oldest celebrity that gets you horny?

nothatyoucare · 2022-07-26T21:42:13+00:00

From some angles Gloria Atim Ojera is a fucking smoke show and from other angles something about her face's proportions are a little off, but I can't put my finger on what.

Smokeshow:

https://www.reddit.com/r/DarkAngels/comments/pib3by/gorgeous/ https://www.reddit.com/r/DarkAngels/comments/e2xi1j/pig_tails/

Something off:

https://www.reddit.com/user/kiddLONGD/comments/fbwa8a/gloria_atim_ojera/ https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenOfAfrica/comments/ru7pt5/gloria_atim_ojera_ig_atimxo_in_gym_clothes/

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-26T22:55:07+00:00

Both of my male coworkers are in their late 30s, engineers, and make well over 100k and their wives don’t do shit lmao. One has a bs job in retail part time and the other doesn’t even know English (they speak the same native language but he’s not a FOB). Just goes to show even dudes as intelligent as them dgaf about a woman’s career lol. I’m curious how their wives look though.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-27T00:50:32+00:00

Is there a connection between a "empirical evidence" fanatic and being a neckbeard ? It feels like that.

growandappear · 2022-07-27T02:49:26+00:00

Pitching is masculine, batting is feminine

figuringMylife · 2022-07-27T02:51:36+00:00

the “most men ignore the women they want” post kinda drives home most of the men complaining are incels. like even if the girl they wanted would be interested, they don’t have the capacity to speak to her. it’s not that none of you want the girl you claim to want, you’re mentally incapable or too unattractive.

i don’t know what’s sadder tbh. it makes sense that most men prefer at least slightly outgoing girls, easier to flirt with and confident enough to form a relationship with

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-27T05:42:46+00:00

Comments from the post "What common takes from women do you disagree?" were pretty based

ririsbaby · 2022-07-27T05:58:28+00:00

What characteristics does “Stacy” actually have? “She’s very attractive” that’s very vague

dysonRing · 2022-07-27T15:58:23+00:00

Alright lets have a discussion about the Wall, but with a twist, lets talk about the wall that hits men, I am talking about athletes.

Men have a "short" window when their peak physical abilities, most specifically stamina (hereby defined as the ability to move fast for a full 48 minutes a night every other night, NOT marathon stamina) are at its peak, you have different types of wall and different specimens that can hit the wall much later (Lebron James in particular spends millions of dollars on his body every year to delay the wall), and he is extremely sensitive about it (him repeating the #washedking hashtag)

Even after they hit the wall and retire the greats are still able to clown younguns for for 15 mins at a time (see Jordan humiliating rookies as a president of operations) but they are still through, the wall hit them all and they need to move on to something else.

Lastly does it all mean I have a superiority complex on these men? lol of course not, Lebron is on my team I want him to rejuvenate big time and bring home another championship. I am just describing reality, describing reality does not make you bitter or insecure.

sabiinvesting · 2022-07-27T15:52:02+00:00

So someone commented that wives could treat their husbands better on what women disagree with other women about. I actually agree with that.

I have seen a man on TV try to make his wife look good in front of her friends. Like help boost her ego. I've done the same for my parents. I try to be the best model daughter that I can be when I am around our family friends to make other parents envious of my parents. As controversial as this may sound, I'd put on some nice clothes and makeup to look pretty when I'm around my boyfriend's friends. I suck at cooking, but I can at least do that. Like, why not? Even if I prefer to look like a cavewoman at home, I could at least keep up good appearances socially. What we have is a reflection of our value. Why not give each other a boost?

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-07-26T15:13:57+00:00

So like I'm not gay, and usually repulsed by guys, but the other day I saw a cute guy at the grocery store.

So is sexuality a fluid and flexible thing?

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-26T17:27:13+00:00

One step for men to improve their lives is to treat most female complaints/ grievances the same way women on here say they look at male attention: cheap, useless, excessive and meaningless.

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-26T20:48:53+00:00

u/sarkington played a cruel prank on me, he told me I should ask women for sympathy sex and I asked my fenale friend: "Do you want to have sympathy sex?" And she said no. Yeah, I was surprised as well. Anyway, mods do your thing, ban him.

Slipthe · 2022-07-26T23:38:58+00:00

Dan Savage on 'The One':

Remember, OTF, there is no "the one." There's no perfect person, no perfect person for you, no perfect match, no perfect fit, no perfect lid for your perfect pot, etc. You'll meet a .64 or two if you're lucky—if you're really lucky you might even meet a .72—and it's your job to round that motherfucker up to one. It's easy to convince ourselves early in a relationship that we've stumbled over a .92 or a .97 or even a 1.00, i.e. someone who it's either easy to round up or who doesn't require rounding up, but a few years in—no later than six years in—we can clearly see those .92s for the .64s they are and always were.

So feeling less sure about him being "The One" isn't proof that he isn't "The One," OTF, because he never was "The One." (Is this making sense?) You're just seeing him for the .64 he always was and now you have to decide whether you're gonna spend the rest of your life rounding that motherfucker up.

Nightshiftcloak · 2022-07-27T02:46:38+00:00

People actually believe the crazy incel and chad bullshit? Like literally? This is a thing? Have you interacted with women? Have you sat down and spoken with them?

Jesus. The world or society isn't going to collapse over this stuff. But literally, people actually care if someone had or has an Onlyfans? Men are actually debating if women are objects that can solve their loneliness and low self-esteem?

What the fuck.

Edit: grammar

poppy_blu · 2022-07-27T02:49:55+00:00

Who ordered the jihad circle jerk on PPD today?

Ok-Application-7614 · 2022-07-27T04:32:30+00:00

https://mobile.twitter.com/GolferGirl305/status/1552069975980007425

Situations like this are why I can't blame women for making men wait for sex. This is horrible.

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-27T15:27:33+00:00

Tonight, when my wife is sleeping, I’m going to cringe binge Andrew Tate content.

As a man, this guy even gives me the ick, but I keep seeing his name mentioned and I want to see if what he says at all reflects my experience with women

Ohmaygahh · 2022-07-27T15:26:54+00:00

Just had a "date" with a 48 y.o woman. Went as well as one might expect.

PicklesOnAPizza · 2022-07-27T15:12:47+00:00

Is it better for a virgin woman to not disclose that fact to avoid virgin hunters?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-07-27T15:12:02+00:00

wtf is wrong with modern women

GoobleGobble_OneOfUs · 2022-07-27T15:02:19+00:00

Be honest.

How many of y'all pick your noses in the car?

meteorness123 · 2022-07-27T14:51:14+00:00

Ben Chadfleck mocking a movie he's starred in. Funny shit.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ahtp0sjA5U&ab\_channel=servomoore

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-27T14:34:34+00:00

What's this misconception about liberal or atheist men wanting high n women? All of the liberal & atheist men I know still don't want high n, they may be more lenient but they don't want to wife up some 50 n woman.

AquaChip · 2022-07-27T14:34:04+00:00

Do y’all work better when the office is freezing or when it’s comfortably warm?

GoldenHornyChicken · 2022-07-27T14:19:44+00:00

Why would someone in plain possession of its own mind would purposely behave like an absurd monkey just to make some (over)simplistic theory come true ?

Come on ! You guys aren't even aware of how complex ethology can be, and how nuanced are relationships into chimpanzees groups (for example).

The level of projection is sad. Really.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-07-27T14:18:31+00:00

While we are here chatting about dating, complaining about feminism and incels or whatever, china, India and russia are transitioning back to the gold standard.

PicklesOnAPizza · 2022-07-27T14:17:22+00:00

When is the ideal time to disclose that you won't have sex until marriage?

hollo_man45 · 2022-07-27T14:13:33+00:00

Do you think being a woman’s best sex partner is the same when she had to teach you what works and you became better over time vs. if you just seemed to know what what to do?

RegTextoffender · 2022-07-27T14:02:57+00:00

Local sex club is closed for the next two weekends for a private function. Much sadness.

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-27T14:00:20+00:00

I think we pretty regularly get q4w about sharing men, do OPs expect to get different answers? It's pretty obvious that most women aren't okay with sharing their partner. Just as most men aren't okay with their partners have side-pieces or multiple husbands at the same time.

platinirisms · 2022-07-27T13:14:01+00:00

I’ve noticed whenever I mention men struggling to date or have a relationship, women here seem to always translate it to “Sex” when I never brought it up. Almost as if they think the only reason men would ever want to date anyone is solely for sex.

Exaggerated Example:

Me: “It sucks to be constantly rejected over and over for years”.
Reply: “Why do men act like not having sex is the worst thing in the world?!?”.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-26T21:04:29+00:00

If you think only enigneers or people in stemfields are intelligent and other people aren't "really" intelligent, you're really revealing something about yourself there.

Slipthe · 2022-07-26T20:34:56+00:00

I keep getting the "What I eat in a day as a fat person who’s not trying to lose weight" videos.

And everything is normal up except she's eating a pint of ice cream daily. People always look for simple solutions to cut out to lose weight. Daily pints of ice cream is a good thing to cut. I can't help but give my unsolicited advice lol.

NalkaNalka · 2022-07-26T16:29:55+00:00

Why are there so many posts here begging for sympathy from woman?

You can really tell the guys here had almost exclusively female parental and authority figures in their life growing up. Single mothers, female teachers, female day care, female run preschool, female child psychologist, female run household and not a man with any kind of balls or authority in sight.

Is that why y'all are so desperate for female approval and expect the woman here to pat you on the head and say you poor little thing, that's so unfair, everything's is going to be alright?

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-26T19:15:38+00:00

As we're in the topic of older men, I've noticed I often can't accept much older men fatherly doting on me, because I expect them to have ulterior motives. I guess being harassed by older guys as a teen did leave a certain impact.

I have this older relative (>50) of my husband, who showers me with compliments, hugs all the time, offers rides and help, compares to his wife in the negative way for her. To the point where both my husband and I are uncomfortable with it, so now we just do our best to avoid him altogether. At first I thought he was just fatherly, but it got creepy really fast.

nothatyoucare · 2022-07-26T21:03:44+00:00

Any member of PPD who says "its not my job to educate you" doesn't understand how a debate sub works or how to support their arguments. And should probably see themselves out.

techr0nin · 2022-07-26T15:13:49+00:00

The fact that the average man barely makes more money than the average woman is IMO the biggest reason why dating is so hard for the average guy and the looks threshold seem to get higher and higher each passing year.

If you can’t make a woman feel secure physically, financially, and emotionally, there is very little incentive for the woman to come home after a hard day’s work to an average looking guy with mediocre genes and raise his mediocre babies. And the fact that there are alot of average guys doesn’t make it better since staying single is a valid option for women these days.

GridReXX · 2022-07-27T01:20:29+00:00

Let’s be honest.

You didn’t believe “women are wonderful™️” because of “indoctrination.”

You watched the news, observed IRL surroundings, and experienced life yourself to conclude that relative to men, they’re seemingly less destructive and oppressive.

28 women held at an Indiana jail are suing after guards gave the keys to their cells to incarcerated men in exchange for a $1000 bribe, allowing the men to rape and assault the women.

Miserablemermaid · 2022-07-27T01:26:14+00:00

I'm proposing my girlfriend. I bought a ring lined with tiny diamonds and a nice emerald in the middle. She's obsessed with green.

Come at me.

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-26T17:25:16+00:00

'' Hahahaha you have a bad jawline and round face''

'' Hahaha you have a balding hairline'''

*Gets hair transplants and plastic surgery*

'' Oh my gosh you are so like insecure about your looks''

Bullshitters.

I don't judge anyone who has cosmetic work done.

WaffleBurner96 · 2022-07-26T17:49:48+00:00

My 50 yo husband recently put on a lot of muscle in a short period of time, and his libido has increased. I asked him if he was using steroids and he said no. I have not found any evidence of him using it, nor does he have any visible side effects… I don’t want him to increase his risk of cardiovascular disease, as he has a family history and moderately elevated blood pressure from stress already. I would like for him to get a blood test for proof that he isn’t juicing, but I don’t want him to be angry at me for not trusting him. What should I do?

Eta: can they even test for it? Do they have to test for specific drugs? Idek how this all works

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-07-26T20:12:05+00:00

I noticed I get self-conscious about my posture when I see an attractive woman

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-26T15:55:06+00:00

Money isn't real

None of it is real, it's all free.

Slipthe · 2022-07-26T16:06:02+00:00

Contempt really does seem like the worst thing of all of these predictors of a relationship ending.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-07-26T17:10:11+00:00

People want 1972 cost of living with 2022 Amenities/technology

empresa_josefina · 2022-07-26T20:03:00+00:00

My friend is about to get cucked. His girlfriend is hinting at opening up the relationship so she can bang other guys, and he’s not comfortable with it but he’s going along because he doesn’t want to upset her and he thinks it’s hip. I don’t know how to tell him the obvious without coming across as attacking his relationship.

teball3 · 2022-07-26T15:32:17+00:00

Alright, long post time. This could and possibly should be it's own post.

Something I see a lot around here is the rough dance of posts that go something like this: Hey, doesn't this suck for men? Yes, but the implication of trying to change that is disgusting.

Now, what made me think of this is a video from innuendo studios called "I hate mondays" honestly, just go watch the video and think about this dance, and You don't need to read the rest of this. For those who haven't here we go. The idea is, there is a difference between the very belief systems of conservatives and liberals, in that while conservatives have ideas about policies, they do not really believe in genuinely changing the world very much. There isn't much point in changing the medical system here in America, because if you can't make it absolutely better in every way, then it's not worth it. Incremental change is nothing to celebrate. This is why they will claim there is no point in changing gun laws as well. If you can't stop 100% of all shootings, there is no point. If you try to tell them how effective gun laws are in other countries, they will point out a single shooting from there, and say "gotcha, see you can't stop criminals from getting guns" ignoring the fact that gun crime might have dropped from 100 shootings to a single one. If you can't completely stop every shooter, there is no point. A conservative will often agree with a liberal about the ails of society, but they disagree about the solution because they don't think there is one. To them, the ails of society are like Mondays. You can change what day of the week you start work on, but that first day back will always suck. Since you can't change the fact that it sucks, the only point to bringing it up is to commiserate. Solutions that provide marginal improvements are never worth it. However, there is a group of conservatives who do NOT believe that. They are the dangerous ones, because they are the alt right who want to do something about the problems of society, but do not believe in liberal ideas, and buy into the extremes presented by the alt-right.

I think you see where I'm going with this. In our community the dance goes: societal problem, bad insinuation, stop. I believe that most of the guys presenting those issues are like the regular conservative. They bring them up to commiserate, and possibly inform, but ultimately do believe that there is nothing that can be done about it. The I hate Mondays crowd. Then of course, there is the minor extremist group who is listening and thinking about the worst possible alternatives to the problem. They do exist, the question is: "Is my commiseration coincidentally and without my intention pushing more people into the extremist camp?" I want you to really think about that before you make your next post.

teball3 · 2022-07-26T17:38:44+00:00

Beauty is subjective. It is the most obvious and well known thing to be subjective. There are sayings that literally everybody reading this comment knows about how subjective it is. If I see one more person saying it's objective on this board, then I'm reporting you for being too cute. You might say: "but teball3, you can't report me for that, I'm not cute!" Yes you are, you dumb bimbo/himbo motherfucker. I know that, because I think that, and beauty is SUBJECTIVE.

"b-b-b-b-"

Shut up you dumb stuttering mouthbreather, I know what your going to say because I'm putting the words in your mouth. Yes, we can poll big groups of people and quantify what groups think is beautiful. Now I'm going to say something that's going to blow your goddamn mind. Just because you can put numbers on something does not make it objective. I can throw red/blue/green values at you all day, but it doesn't make experience of color anymore objective. It still varies from person to person, the very definition of subjective, just like beauty.

The very words "objective beauty" should only be used as hyperbole, to describe what you believe most people would agree to as beautiful. If you conflate them with actual objectivity, then I am going to kiss your dad. Do I make myself clear?

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-07-26T18:55:15+00:00

I will forever stand by that a man who actually has respect for you and likes you will not tell you what he has done with other women lol

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-26T19:40:43+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/w8rxzi/but_why_arent_women_overjoyed_to_be_my_free_full/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

From one hand, I get what these men mean, I expect most people seek partners who actually make their lives better, not worse. From the other hand, it applies to women as well and sometimes helping your partner to deal with tough times means dealing with your partner's feelings or problems. It can't be always a one-way street.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-26T20:25:16+00:00

Had a few days away from here. Is it still psychopathic? Or have we all found Jesus?

TooHornyToFap · 2022-07-26T21:37:49+00:00

holy fuck hunter x hunter is the best thing I've watched since the last thing I've watched

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-26T22:20:17+00:00

Indian FOB coworkers are the best. They’re super nice, helpful, work hard, and bring food to the office.

daniiiuiiil · 2022-07-26T22:49:51+00:00

Women : spend hours carefully crafting Reddit Avi to represent them IRL and picking out a cute username so everyone knows they’re a WOMAN on the INTERNET (take that!)

Men : default pfp, username is “jizzretard44”

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-27T00:12:30+00:00

I still don't understand how in this day and age that people actually have faith in the government to do what's right for the people when everyone with a brain knows that the government doesn't care about you.

All systems are corrupt

Medical system

Police system

Government system

Healthcare system

Financial System

Every single system in place in the world is corrupt.

ThisBoringLife · 2022-07-27T00:44:03+00:00

I’m soooooo tiredddd

poppy_blu · 2022-07-27T12:52:30+00:00

New Poppy tagline: crying isn’t trying.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-27T12:49:53+00:00

anybody here got sides from the vaccine like tingling in your arms, legs, chest, etc ?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-27T12:41:29+00:00

Earlier today I said Madonna is older celebrity who still looks attractive. Shortly after, I saw recent photos of Joan Jett (still trying to keep the same look when "I Love Rock & Roll" was on the radio lol).

So heres my question: Do older women try to be more sexually open as a way to maintain their attractiveness as a way to complete with younger women? I mean, it takes a lot to wanna fuck a 60-something year old woman if you're not around that age yourself. But of she openly expresses her sexuality, does it help them with the competition?

lulll · 2022-07-26T23:02:38+00:00

wow women are so rude. they dont even want to play male characters in video games

i am insulted

ahandtoyourdarknessx · 2022-07-27T12:33:17+00:00

Imagine having a tradwife and not allowing her access to the internet or learning how to drive or having a job.

Meanwhile you can go off and have your side pieces and she would never know.

It’s the best of both worlds

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-27T12:11:48+00:00

OP's husband lies about not being a virgin

OP said if she had known back then she would have "taken it slower" aka she would have made him wait.

And check how many comments from married guys say that their wives were their first but they weren't their wives first lmao.

AquaChip · 2022-07-27T12:06:12+00:00

Does “fail to load user profile” when you click on someone mean they’ve been banned from reddit?

Slipthe · 2022-07-27T12:00:28+00:00

My company is trying to do a Powerball pool. And they all kind of pressured me to buy a ticket.

What surprised me is that people do actually win the lottery. Like 5 people a year. But the odds are 1 in 292,201,338.

I like the idea of my entire company dissolving because every employee gets a million bucks.

AquaChip · 2022-07-27T11:56:27+00:00

What’s with men low-key stalking attractive women they claim to hate or dislike. Like , we get it. You hate her and want to fuck her at the same time and it infuriates you. You aren’t hiding it well.

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-27T11:41:45+00:00

There hasn't been good drama here since Roe v Wade.

Play_Muted · 2022-07-27T11:25:04+00:00

omfg, please stop, you are torturing that guitar

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-07-27T11:14:14+00:00

🤭

I scolded her.

^{maybe she will learn a lesson!}

poppy_blu · 2022-07-27T10:54:54+00:00

Hot take: some of you attach waaaaay too much fear and shame to failure to the point you let it control your lives and keep you in the sidelines. Makes me wonder how many people here grew up with parents who berated them for even the slightest mistake and internalized the idea that failure makes you a terrible person.

CMV: Getting rejected by a woman is NOT failure. It just means you won’t be getting laid tonight unless you find another one. That’s literally all.

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-07-27T10:41:15+00:00

I've set the bait

^{will they take it?}

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EulenWatcher · 2022-07-27T10:22:52+00:00

I know we aren't supposed to talk about "You-Know-Who", but I think because they used to tag me uncontrollably in random subs, I've stopped getting any kind of notifications when someone tags me. Does anyone else experience it?

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-27T10:17:59+00:00

r/seduction is basically red pill without hating women.

kingfuckheadgen · 2022-07-27T09:28:09+00:00

Why is the number 1 cause of death in pregnant women murder? Why do men resort to murder instead of accepting the circumstances and dealing with it

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-07-27T09:08:02+00:00

Why do people wanna talk about their problems anyway.

Just bottle that shit up its what my pappy did and what my grand pappy did before him.

🤷‍♂️

ririsbaby · 2022-07-27T09:03:06+00:00

I’m seriously starting to think about selling feet pics as a side business

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-27T08:51:59+00:00

One of the hardest questions to answer is...

When do you give up? When do you choose to move on?

When do you keep being persistent and chase after someone?

Most answers I've heard have been on the side of err on the side of move on.

"Don't bother people like that, have some dignity, self respect".

"People don't respect those who chase them"

But in practice I see both men and women chase the person they fall for hard. They put in a lot of effort and don't play it so safe.

Sure mostly they fail but successful people try a lot.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-27T08:49:24+00:00

What are some blue-pills you subscribe to?

PraiseGod__ · 2022-07-27T08:37:07+00:00

W guy for breaking up with her, but the Reddit cucks and whiteknights in the comments are something else.

Gaycunt453 · 2022-07-27T08:33:00+00:00

Muscles
Personality
Face
skin
Hair
grooming
Style
Hygiene/smell
Money/career
Status
Height
Hobbies/sports

Is there anything I am forgetting here

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-27T08:29:59+00:00

Women love pragmatically, and men love romantically.

aka

Men are the romantic gender pretending to be realists, while women are the realistic gender pretending to be romantics.

the pragmatic aspect of a woman's love comes from her focus on nesting and child-raising - two things that require an enormous amount of pragmatism (there is nothing "romantic" about trying to keep alive a helpless, hapless, emotionally-volatile child 24/7).

Lysa_Bell · 2022-07-27T06:52:08+00:00

Your life will be so much easier and nicer if you realize that 99.99% of humanity lives average insignificant lifes. No you won't be a superstar. You won't have a porn star as wife. You will probably never do anything great. You won't be remembered.

All you have is here and now. You can only work on yourself and stop waiting for others to change. Nobody cares about you. You are the only one that has to care about yourself and your life. You have to make it as pleasant as possible for the ridiculous little amount of time you are on this planet. In the grand scheme you aren't more than a little piece of dust getting wiped away in the blink of an eye.

The sooner you realize nothing you do matters the sooner you can start to enjoy your little insignificant life.

hollo_man45 · 2022-07-27T06:31:07+00:00

Q4Women: How important that your current partner be your best sex ever and why? For perspective I’m not implying the extreme opposite (he sucks in bed). Just that he be no.1 instead of no.2 out of 4 etcetera. How do you think most guys will answer this question and why do you think they will answer that way?

Q4Men: How important is it that you be your woman’s best lover/sexual partner ever and why? How do you think most women will answer this question and why?

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-27T06:19:36+00:00

u/nothatyoucare, I want to answer in a new thread because it's an interesting topic and I'd like other to participate.

How can women on one hand complain about men being emotional unavailable but also complain they don't want to be our therapist? Seems like a no win situation to me. So much for that mutual caretaking that makes long term relationships healthy. Its funny, I've been my partner's therapist way more than they have been mine

Imv "being a therapist" is more about dealing with their mental issues and insecurities they don't treat themselves or get professional help for. It isn't about emotional support overall. For example, it's one thing if your partner wants to cuddle and complain about how shitty their boss is and the other if they're depressed, refuse to seek help and expect you just to deal with it all on your own.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-27T06:03:46+00:00

Are heterosexual women with dominant tendencies in the bedroom ultra-rare?

Seems like every single girl I’ve known has said some variation of “I’m submissive” or “I want you to take charge”

meteorness123 · 2022-07-26T23:26:31+00:00

The solution to your dating problems : Get you a nice girl who has fear of loss and get her attached to you.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-27T01:25:03+00:00

Women and children think in should’ve would’ve could’ve. Men (not children) think in is

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