Daily Community Chat Megathread

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-02-14T18:02:43+00:00

Happy Valentine's day, everyone!

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T17:28:51+00:00

I see more and more when guys complain about women being shallow and only wanting sexy assholes, what they mean is "The girls I want to fuck are shallow and only want to fuck sexy assholes".

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-13T20:41:05+00:00

It's always funny watching men talk shit about high n count women being bad for relationships.....then proceeds to shame women who don't fuck their dates immediately.

LADIES, DONT BE A WHORE...but fuck men who show interest in you ASAP.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-14T01:16:11+00:00

If there are more single men than single women, then women would rather be a side piece than date a man in their own league

my question is, Have you considered that these women might not know they are side pieces?

jackedsoon · 2023-02-13T18:02:28+00:00

first, willow-girl is my alt.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-13T19:07:54+00:00

I am yet again asking for red/ black pillers for any evidence low n count women get higher quality men.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-13T19:39:46+00:00

Why do redpillers tell a woman to "choose better" if she ends up in an abusive relationship but it's awalt when it happens to a man?

neetykeeno · 2023-02-13T19:43:47+00:00

Can someone with more patience than me start an explain dating to autistic men subreddit? Because I really would like that to be a different subreddit.

DumpApe135 · 2023-02-13T20:45:05+00:00

Just a shower that but it seems to me that if a woman is smart, kind, and attractive she is almost never single. This begs the question that is their an abundance of men ready to long-term these women and the hvm who can't just settle for casual with a lot of different women?

Hvm as in terms of wealthy, attractive, and good personality

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-13T21:04:07+00:00

Q4MEN - imagine you find out your girlfriend who has never performed anal (or first date sex, or threesome, or whatever act of your preference) did anal with an ex. You feel it's unfair that she doesn't perform anal with you. BUT - then she finds out you did not ever expect anal from your ex because your ex "didn't do that" before. What's your next move?

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-02-13T21:20:52+00:00

The examples I listed all happened to me and there is a reason why reddit smuggies giving out advice "to learn to read the room" immediately recoil and call you "autistic"

says Johnny autism

I totally understand that telling someone to "read the room" is pointless like when someone tells you to "relax". But don't take it on women. This is why we need non misogynistic dating coaches.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-14T06:03:23+00:00

The Chad harem thing is just so ridiculous, are we really believing that one guy has multiple women convinced he’s in a serious committed LTR with all of them? If this guy is really a Chad why does he need to put in all this effort.

If the women are aware of this arrangement then they would just see themselves as still “single”

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-13T18:02:44+00:00

I feel like they are women who have been burned so many times by dudes that when they meet a guy they’re just waiting for the shoe to drop lol. Like around this time is when I’ll find out he has a child he never told me about, or he’s married, or he’s abusive, it’s just too damn good on paper

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-02-13T18:07:32+00:00

I, for one, welcome our invading alien overlords.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-13T18:26:53+00:00

The losers at r/Whereareallthegoodmen are genuine incels, they’re attacking women that are 30+ or single moms because they want a serious relationship with a man who has a job ? seriously ? If your a 32 yo women you’re only allowed to have casual sex with crack heads

These grown men are so insecure too it gives me 2nd hand embarrassment, “I’m a good guy with a stable job but she would probably reject me because I’m 5’9” “

jackedsoon · 2023-02-14T02:52:56+00:00

Trying to eat under 1200 calories a day is very difficult. I don't know how people manage it without thinking about food constantly.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-13T22:12:28+00:00

It's really hard to define what would be considered 'Toxic Femininity' because the manosphere acts very similar to Radical Feminists.

I would have to think about what bullshit shitty women do that I don't commonly see from the manosphere.

Kind_Zucchinis · 2023-02-13T22:23:38+00:00

Idk I haven't had issues with dating due to autism, some guys like that I'm shy and care about special interests. I also have a decent group of friends. I personally know autistic men who also have been able to hold multiple relationships.

I feel like the major issues pop up when you don't try, are creepy, hateful, etc.

Or have level 2+ autism and a co-occuring intellectual disability, but I don't think the majority of people with autism on Reddit are in that category.

There are plenty of videos and free resources (I know because I've dug through them lol) on how to socialize decently. If you don't try and just feel bad for yourself (or get angry at the opposite gender) I am sorry that's on you, not autism. Tbh blaming it on autism just makes all of us look bad because not all autistic people are like cramming mountain dew and cheetos in their mouths while angrily sitting in front of a screen in their moms basement.

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-14T03:41:20+00:00

It’s funny that the discussion goes from “you’re a radical feminist misandrist if you think all men are rapists, most men are good guys”

But right after the Andrew Callaghan (guy accused of using aggressive sexual coercion to assault women) situation it turns into “men aren’t taught how consent works in school, you can’t expect young guys to not sexually coerce women without specific instruction”

italian_whip · 2023-02-14T07:35:24+00:00

Guys who leave their kids are some of the worst ppl alive. Idk how you could live with yourself after that.

UneastAji · 2023-02-13T21:16:59+00:00

Lilith is paid for every comment on daily megathreads. Stop her before she's so rich she buys reddit.

stjohnswyrt · 2023-02-13T23:09:48+00:00

Y'all my love life is tragic.

I meet this amazing dude and then I get a job where I need to move far away.

rickjames334 · 2023-02-13T23:25:02+00:00

I’m very judgemental of people who are always either in a relationship/talking to someone. Idk what it is, but it’s something I find extremely irritating about always desiring romantic intimacy with someone else

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-02-14T00:51:14+00:00

I wish certain people never heard the phrase "f*ck around and find out"

Another one down the drain.

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-14T03:24:19+00:00

Feeling good enough to work out again!!

Ciabatta_Scoober · 2023-02-14T17:16:29+00:00

Mods when someone calls people on the spectrum “parasites” who need to be eradicated: totally fine.

Mods when you tell someone the dating market is different today than it was 10 years ago: Be civil.

Can we get a sidebar change noting that the rules on civility don’t apply when making fun of people on the spectrum?

Willow-girl · 2023-02-13T18:01:19+00:00

First!

scwizard · 2023-02-13T18:18:30+00:00

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/opinion/have-more-sex-please.html

Sex is good. Sex is healthy. Sex is an essential part of our social fabric. And you — specifically — should probably be having more of it.

Americans, in the midst of a loneliness epidemic, are not having enough sex. Across almost every demographic group, American adults old and young, single and coupled, rich and poor are having less sex than they have had at any point in at least the past three decades.

Sex isn’t the sole form of fulfilling human interaction and certainly isn’t a salve for loneliness in all forms. Still, it should be seen as a critical part of our social well-being, not an indulgence or an afterthought. This is in large part because the rise in loneliness closely parallels a decline in sex. More than a quarter of Americans hadn’t had sex even once in the past year the last time the General Social Survey asked, in 2021. It was the highest such level of sexlessness in the survey’s history.

Way to call me out NYTimes geez...

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-02-13T18:30:32+00:00

I worked out too hard that my underwear pants are torn apart inside.

Slipthe · 2023-02-13T19:45:42+00:00

I wish I was Sean Evans-level of a good listener.

AidsVictim · 2023-02-13T20:38:32+00:00

It it just me or are PPD women a lot more likely to just downvote and not reply with something they disagree with, especially if it's something more measurable than subjective?

scwizard · 2023-02-13T20:56:12+00:00

I really don't think being a high n women makes you less desirable, it just changes your standards a lot.

A lot of low n girls end up happily married to "just some guy" but high n women aren't interested in that.

Although it wraps around kinda at sex worker numbers. Lots of strippers and similar who end up with random dorks.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-02-13T21:42:18+00:00

Watched anime for the first time and it was the most emasculating experience ever had.

My dick has shrunk at least 2 cm and my muscle mass has reduced significantly.

Mothers prevent your son from watching anime.

Hot_Scale_6383 · 2023-02-13T21:48:20+00:00

i think millenials are the hardest hit generation, half of my male classmates in their thirties are still virgins (by their admittance). it was the same in uni. my zoomer male cousins are even worst, they are ALL single and virgins but they are only in their early twenties so lets see. all of them, even the 6”3 one (although he has a silly looking face).

half of my female zoomer cousins already have boyfriends though, and have had boyfriends since 14.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-02-14T02:25:20+00:00

The expectation that a woman isn't a fattie is not a beauty standard. It's a health/hygiene standard.

In the same way that you want someone who does basic grooming and does the basic things to take care of themselves, you want someone who does the basic things to take care of their body. Being fat is even worse actually. Being fat doesn't just make you seem like sloppy but it also directly negatively affects your health.

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-14T05:26:20+00:00

My Chad friend showed me text messages of one of his plates drunk texting him confessing her love even though she understands he just wants a sexual relationship. I wanted to laugh but It was so pathetic. I’m starting to think Chad chasing is a mental illness.

DragoonXFury · 2023-02-14T17:16:24+00:00

I don't think I'll ever leave my "emo phase" or "goth phase". I think I'll be listening emo and goth music until the day I die.

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2023-02-13T18:21:14+00:00

The Redpill is dumb. They will say men date down and women date up. That makes no sense.

The RP says mens value comes from money/status/accomplishments while women her looks. If you agree with this statement than men don’t date down because both parities are at the same value in in their respective areas.

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-13T19:29:08+00:00

I just realized that, if I have been "lonely" for too long but for good reason, my brain tends to find a "safe" person who is totally untouchable on whom to focus a barrage of invasive and intimately inappropriate thoughts. This is why I know that manosphere cries about "women don't have high libidos" are totally bunk.

relish5k · 2023-02-13T22:28:40+00:00

Q4M who want virgins: is the plan to wait until you are married to have sex? And if so, how long are you willing to wait?

Or is the plan that there is a virgin out there waiting for you, who is happy to give her virginity to you without a guarantee of commitment?

big_lenad · 2023-02-13T22:37:30+00:00

Women are notoriously fickle, emotional, get bored easily, have lots of options and end relationships 80% of the time. Is there any point in committing to such a creature? I’m not saying don’t date them but just expect her to leave at a moments notice.

saraimarsena · 2023-02-14T00:07:59+00:00

anyone who uses the word updoots unironically is a chronically online loser

CringeButCorrect · 2023-02-14T00:41:51+00:00

What advice would you give to a dude gradiating college and moving to a city with a high paying job? No friends going with him, he doesn't know anyone except his coworkers in his male dominated stem field. This is not me btw lol.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-14T03:04:20+00:00

I'm rewatching The Boys; forgot how many great quotes this show had.

"Do you wanna be the cuck, or do you wanna be the guy that fucks the wife?" is oddly inspirational, and "Let's go fuck the wife, consensually!" a few minutes later is pure gold.

big_lenad · 2023-02-14T03:59:15+00:00

This whole thing about men being scary so women opt to ghost narrative is bullshit for the most part. I’ve seen cases where the women would just rather avoid communication and accountability.

dysonRing · 2023-02-14T05:01:56+00:00

Q4M: what is the best way for a woman to tell a man she likes him, but give him an easy out?

I want him to know that I'm well-aware he's out of my league, and that while I expect he will reject me, I am still approaching him because I would regret it forever if I didn't. I don't want him to have to do any "dirty work" of rejecting me; I want him to know that I am braced for him to say no, so he does not have to let me down gently, or feel awkward about it. But I cannot figure out how to say that in a way that makes sense.

_chasing_daylight · 2023-02-14T08:00:06+00:00

Paying my credit card bills upsets me.

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-14T17:14:09+00:00

/u/_Mythic_Punk_

Happy belated Birthday yesterday

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-13T18:10:05+00:00

Is divorce an inherently bad thing?

scwizard · 2023-02-13T18:46:18+00:00

Teen Girls Report Record Levels of Sadness, C.D.C. Finds Girls, as well as adolescents who identified as lesbian, gay or bisexual, reported high rates of sadness, suicidal thoughts and sexual violence.

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/health/teen-girls-sadness-suicide-violence.html

I have no idea what's going on here. Like we're not exactly gonna be like "teen girls should do more cocaine like they used to." Or something.

I don't think there's been any generation when teenage girls were mentally healthy and stable is the thing.

Like teen pregnancy rates are at all time lows, but no one's gonna suggest we should raise teen pregnancy rates cause teenage girls were happier when teenage pregnancy rates were higher.

bossman146 · 2023-02-13T18:50:30+00:00

Is it me or most poly couples involve bisexual people. I guess jealousy isn’t as big of a factor when you’re attracted to the other men/women.

scwizard · 2023-02-13T18:53:53+00:00

How did we end up with a society that's so hostile towards women's rights?

Was it mattress girl or something?

Slipthe · 2023-02-13T19:22:21+00:00

Do you think incels feel like a winner in other aspects of their life?

northernlights190 · 2023-02-13T19:29:35+00:00

At what age is it generally not worth it for women to try looking for a long-term partner anymore?

neetykeeno · 2023-02-13T19:37:59+00:00

PSA for my fellow Millenials

Metro Station's song "Shake It" is NOT about dancing.

Since I can't unknow this fact none of you can either.

errrright · 2023-02-13T19:56:05+00:00

Not trying to call out any one person in particular. I come across this a lot.

Does Gen Z = teenagers in a lot of people's minds? I keep seeing claims that "Gen Z didn't have this pop culture thing" or "Gen Z wouldn't know that." When I am definitely Gen Z and have very vivid memories of the thing in question 90% of the time. The oldest Gen Zs are like 26 years old at this point.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-02-13T21:07:13+00:00

Am I one of the few who realized the times of celebrating valentines day alone compared to celebrating it with someone? The scale is way off balance there.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-02-13T21:17:37+00:00

this guy’s profile has me crying

Prestigious698 · 2023-02-13T21:54:02+00:00

Q4A: is it true that men who date younger women are manipulative, narcissistic?

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRtDu8jM/

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-13T22:20:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/111bptu/im_fucking_sick_and_tired_of_the_vagina_slander/ I bet this person uses "small dick energy" and other euphemisms unironically.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-13T22:36:34+00:00

After years of training my legs 2-3 times a week I've decided not to do so anymore. I don't mind training them, but I've always had naturally big legs (probably from carrying around all the fat from childhood) and I doubt I'll lose much strength and size in them if I stop training them, they've always been pretty strong.

At the end of the day, weightlifting is an upper body business. No chick at the bar is coming up to you and saying what impressive hamstrings you have. She's checking out the Guido pump from your arms while you're wearing your smallest possible v neck tee.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-14T00:01:41+00:00

any other good subreddits to find people to argue with?

FjbhBoy · 2023-02-14T00:13:44+00:00

Walter White did nothing wrong

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-14T01:31:01+00:00

CDC reports unprecedented level of hopelessness and suicidal thoughts among America's young women https://reddit.com/r/news/comments/111gx3w/cdc_reports_unprecedented_level_of_hopelessness/

Given how young women outperform young men in school , are said to be adapting better socially, not as socially isolated, etc etc I find this pretty surprising.

Although the article does the classic let’s focus on the attempts instead of deaths when talking about suicide.

Edit: so many cliches are being said in the comments. Holy shit.

PitbllLvngMlFmnst · 2023-02-14T02:29:45+00:00

Won't someone please think of the women???

I love all the comments about "what do you expect when you strip away women's bodily autonomy!!"

Oh, you mean like men have never had in the first place?

If lack of bodily autonomy is the reason for suicide, it's no wonder men are 80% of suicides! We never had bodily autonomy to begin with!

If you're going to kill yourself if you get pregnant, prob best to not have sex.

DisasterPeace7 · 2023-02-14T04:02:10+00:00

Q4All : who would you like to see in the Super Bowl hts next year? I've always been a pop punk guy so I'd like to see somebody like Fall Out Boy in there

_chasing_daylight · 2023-02-14T04:24:27+00:00

Q4W: Is being with an average man worse than being single?

By average I mean the guy who doesn't stand out to you just be looking at him.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-02-14T04:35:45+00:00

Q4W regarding a situation I've encountered a few times while dating. As we know, one of the things women will do to avoid directly rejecting a dude is saying that they're too busy for a second date, or something of that nature. However, sometimes people are actually busy, which is why I've been doing the following for the past few years to streamline the dating process:

Girl: "Would love to meet up again, but I'm super busy this week. Maybe next week?" (or something variant thereof)

Me: "Totally gotcha. Do you want to meet up on [alternative day]? Also, if you just aren't feeling this, feel free to let me know. Promise I won't be offended; I just don't want to be bothering you if you aren't interested."

At this point, one of four things will happen:

Sometimes girls assure me that they are still interested, and offer an alternative time of their own to meet up (my last FWB situation actually happened this way).
Sometimes they'll confirm that no, they really weren't feeling it, but they wish me the best of luck.
Some say nothing at all in response, which is as good as a "no", I suppose.

However, there's a fourth category of girl that will insist that they're still interested, carry on texting with me for a few more days, and then ghost. My question is why? Why not take the very easy (in my opinion) exit? I think ghosting is rude, but I get why people do it. I don't see why people do this- why actively choose the ruder option when the polite one requires significantly less effort?

big_lenad · 2023-02-14T07:45:07+00:00

So on the topic of how fast a woman sleeps with you. A woman told me that it’s the fastest she’s ever slept with someone.

It was relatively quick. Although it does not seem that my approach was alpha. She said what did it for her is that we sat in nature and spoke for an hour about nothing but life and she felt like she connected with me. She says she doesn’t know if I was being genuine or not but that she still ended up liking and deciding that she wanted to physically intimate with me to find out if the sex would be just as good (it was according to her). She said she would’ve just been happy to still know me (maybe as a friend) if the sex wasn’t as good but she felt that it was a bonus that it was.

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-14T17:03:06+00:00

The 6ft thing is just a caricature made by incels

Omg this gave me a good chuckle, tots no women are constantly talking about the height of a guy! It's just an incl conspiracy theory!

Like they'll deflect what they themselves say and believe into somehow being your fault.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-02-14T17:00:18+00:00

Don't give me long ass replies cuz i ain't reading allat

italian_whip · 2023-02-14T16:55:19+00:00

Watching tall women complain about tall men picking short women is so comical as a short dude.

teball3 · 2023-02-14T16:24:39+00:00

My sister in law works at the same place as me, and stopped by my office earlier. Said good morning, as one does, and I said it back. Then she said "happy Valentine's Day" and I was taken aback for a full second. All I could do was say it back as she walked away to go get some tea and do HR stuff. I was just so bent on believing that I was going to have a shitty day and drink myself half to death tonight, it didn't even dawn on me to try to be happy today.

Oh well, I'll toast the first shot to her.

scwizard · 2023-02-14T16:18:39+00:00

Almost 3 in 5 teenage girls reported feeling so persistently sad or hopeless almost every day for at least two weeks in a row during the previous year that they stopped regular activities

What are teenage girls lacking? What comes to mind is:

Hope that they'll find someone who loves them for who they are
Hope that their future will be better than their present
Hope that if they have have children one day, that they'll have a better life than they do

Not really sure what the solution here is, poor girls :(

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-14T16:18:05+00:00

Q4Men: How would you feel if a woman in a bar dropped a cheesy pick up line on you?

Something like "Excuse me, did you fart? Because you just blew me away."

I don't even care if he reciprocates, I just have always wanted to do something like this. It looks fun.

scwizard · 2023-02-14T16:06:06+00:00

The last valentines day card I got was a few years ago. An old lady at my church gave me a card that says Jesus loves me.

It was very sweet and I still think about it.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2023-02-14T16:01:30+00:00

And the office deliveries of flowers and chocolates, etc are in full swing! I wonder how much work all the delivery guys make on days like today

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-14T15:39:37+00:00

Question: what's the best response I can give as a married woman when a guy asks me at work what I'm doing for V day, and then says "maybe I don't want to know." He knows I'm married. My moment already passed, but just in case this ever happens again, I want your best responses. Please and thank you!

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-02-14T15:21:50+00:00

https://www.seattletimes.com/nation-world/teen-girls-engulfed-in-violence-and-trauma-cdc-finds/

Young folks on both sexes are suffering. Maybe there should be a national emergency on this mental health crisis.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-14T15:17:50+00:00

Q4W: For those of you who do hookups, what are the key differences between the type of guy you would want as a fuck buddy and a the type of guy you would want as a LTR partner?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T15:17:12+00:00

It's still baffling that 'nice guys' will simp over some bitch who loves dysfunctional relationships with assholes instead of just finding a female who doesn't do that. Of course, this is assuming he's not lying about his crush 'dating an asshole'.

SmootherWaterfalls · 2023-02-14T15:13:39+00:00

Do women exist outside of you and your friends?

If so, is it possible that they think differently?

Possible, but seeing as I observe what I can in the age of internet, it's not super likely.

This is easily one of the best exchanges I've had on here lol

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-14T15:09:56+00:00

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dbz_f · 2023-02-14T15:06:42+00:00

God I love my girlfriend so much

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-14T14:45:08+00:00

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DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-14T14:07:20+00:00

How many Valentines do you guys have today?

Managed to get up to double digits, have to say I'm proud of that.

I do hope you all have a fantastic day today though, enjoy some time with the person/people you love.

THHBHStT · 2023-02-14T13:58:58+00:00

I can’t escape this sub man. Was at a party a couple days ago and the topic of marriage came up and my friends immediately pointed to me and how I doubt I’ll get married

It was funny bc the convo absolutely fit the trope of women hoeing around in college then finding a man after the fun is had to settle with so they can have children and not work. I don’t blame them because it sounds like a nice life

Again seeing women that I actively know are hoes endorsing what I already knew just solidifies RP beliefs even more unfortunately

redditthrowaway1478 · 2023-02-14T13:48:41+00:00

I always thought it was strange that askmenover30 banned relationship questions without explanation for years. The mods almost seemed militant in their resistance to it.

Imagine how much pain and real world harm might have been avoided I'd reddit didn't enforce censorship from the get-go

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/111snvn/how_do_you_feel_about_the_sudden_influx_of_women/

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-14T13:25:00+00:00

I find it funny how so many guys will comment on society and media, but have clearly not paid attention to main stream media nor people’s reactions whatsoever.

For example: A guy here claiming that Madonna has never been called out for dating younger men even though she clearly has been called out quite a bit for not acting her age.

Example 2: Claiming the media paints women as all innocent. How the fuck does anyone go through their childhood thinking that when the 3 OG Disney princess movies featured a female antagonist that A MAN SAVES THE PRINCESS FROM.

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-02-14T13:23:39+00:00

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FineDevelopment00 · 2023-02-14T12:37:00+00:00

Happy Valentine's Day! 💝

THHBHStT · 2023-02-14T12:25:46+00:00

Finally Valentine’s Day. Can’t wait to hop back on dating apps, haven’t tried this year yet

Crazy how many relationships end near holidays so should be fun

Play_Muted · 2023-02-14T12:11:39+00:00

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Ok-Divide4621 · 2023-02-14T12:01:14+00:00

30s women just existing gets my blood boiling. Like who gave them the right?

40s women you cool tho 😎

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-14T11:41:09+00:00

Dealbreakers: - Not skinny (5ft5 >120lb is not skinny for example) - Wears makeup - Bad fashion sense - Fat legs - Flat chested - Says the words patriarchy, dude and bro - Is over 22 years old - Tattoos - Doesn’t know basic geography or history - Believes in ghosts/spirits but not aliens - Any feminism

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-14T11:14:45+00:00

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MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-14T11:02:11+00:00

People always make excuses about how they are too busy to make certain improvements in their lives like develop new skills but if you were to actually sit down and document what they do on a day to day basis it’s SOOOO much down time. Especially if you have no damn kids there’s no real excuse

Low-Swordfish-3809 · 2023-02-14T10:14:22+00:00

Came here expecting to mostly agree with the men. Ngl a lot of you dudes are more irrational than most women I meet.

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-13T20:57:01+00:00

Man, I love women. I wish I could have sex with every woman in the world. Except if they're fat. Or ugly. Or old.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-02-13T19:30:39+00:00

So I realize why there’s utter hatred for single moms: These guys see women are objects to claim. It’s similar to why they hate high n count women. Its hard to claim a woman when she’s fucking everyone. It’s also hard to claim a woman when she has proof that someone else claimed her before.

In addition, these guys are Narcissists. So a woman putting anyone above them is unacceptable. They might virtue signal that they just want ‘kids of their own’ but its more than they like the idea their sperm created a person. These guys still see motherhood as a mass inconvenience to their women pay attention to their “sexual needs”.

dbz_f · 2023-02-14T10:14:01+00:00

Stop reading too much into things or taking a single thing on this board seriously. This board will play mind games with you. It will make you doubt your own heart.

Find someone you love, and that is it, that is all you need to do. Don't overthink things. Don't overcomplicate things.

All you need to do find someone you love and who makes you happy, and you have won. You have your 10/10. Everyone else can suck it.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-02-14T10:05:08+00:00

I was called a “perfect wife” by someone other than my husband and I don’t know how to take it. If “husband material” is an insult, why wouldn’t this be?

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gymbro718nyc2 · 2023-02-13T18:13:22+00:00

Who is nicer? Men or women?

LaloTwins · 2023-02-13T19:26:20+00:00

I’m finally unbanned baby

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-13T21:29:19+00:00

best chip flavour?

My vote goes for sour cream & onion

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-02-13T21:41:00+00:00

I ate so much honey combs cereal as a kid. That was my favorite

animorph_fan34 · 2023-02-13T21:58:16+00:00

TWO of my friends from HS are becoming lesbians. I kind of get it because dating men sucks but this came way out of left field

liefelijk · 2023-02-13T22:36:14+00:00

Maybe I’m old, but this new SZA track (Kill Bill) is really fucked up. I can’t believe it’s getting airtime on the radio. It’s straight up murder porn and definitely wouldn’t be played if it was sung by a man.

_Mythic_Punk_ · 2023-02-14T00:27:54+00:00

I've been getting into the habit of napping lately. I mean not really purposely, my body just randomly decides to shut down sometimes now.

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-14T01:04:23+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm2qVq4qGTi/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

It's kind of funny how ironically misogynistic people are for not approving of a grown woman making her own decision on whom she wants to date.

I also love how they solely deflect blame on to the man as if the girl couldn't possibly have true interest in him. That dude is a 40+ year old Chad, I'm willing to bet money he's been with much hotter women throughout his life too — you're really trying to tell me he's not getting this chick's pussy mad wet?

I'm in my mid-20s, but I still don't understand the rhetoric at all. Most dudes in their 20s have NO MONEY and absolutely are just barely trying to get their life together — it doesn't improve that much for men in their 30s either because that's just how bad the socioeconomic circumstances have gotten. So you're telling me the woman who picks a man who's probably in better shape than the vast majority of 20 and 30-something men, likely has decent wealth built up among other things is making a mistake for not choosing some broke 19-year old kpop-esque femboy, because that's what women her age can only be attracted to? I'm not trying to shit on younger dudes, but you can't tell me so many of those comments are coming out of jealousy. Just lol.

nothatyoucare · 2023-02-14T01:59:47+00:00

Let's Discuss Hypergamy: The Oldest Dating Technique in the Book https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sexopedia/a38495515/hypergamy-definition/

huhwhatokok · 2023-02-14T04:27:33+00:00

Has anyone tried using two of the same OLD profiles, with the same pictures, but one has an ethnic name (Mohammad, Rajj, etc) and one with a common American name (Mitch, Ryan, etc)? Im curious on the results. I think I remember one guy changed his name from Mohammad to something like that and his likes shot up.

Willow-girl · 2023-02-14T04:29:36+00:00

This morning I processed a return for a customer who complained that her faux leather pants looked like a garbage bag. I found this rather unkind, as they were certainly not the worst iteration I've seen among the dozens -- possibly hundreds -- of unloved fake leather pants I've dealt with over the past two months.

Strangely enough, we also receive an improbable number of rejected tutus. I wouldn't have thought there were so many ballerinas in America, especially ones evidently unhappy with their tulle skirts. (What's not to like about a tutu, for crying out loud?!)

Life is weirder than it seems at first glance ...

houstongradengineer · 2023-02-14T05:51:27+00:00

Women's pain is our strength/advantage sometimes. Bad sex actually physically hurts us, it's not some idealized escape from reality.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-14T09:40:18+00:00

Are we still denying that harem tendency is an original part of the female instinct? When paleolithic people were living in tribes of ~20 out in the wild, women who wanted babies had every evolutionary incentive to want to have the genes of the most genetically gifted male. Having many babies from one male was feasible because children were raised communally, because it was in everyone's best interest to ensure the continued survival of the tribe.

Sex wasn't 'romantic' back then, it was done out of purely biological instinct. Recent cultural and environmental shifts have pushed humans towards monogamy.

In particular, sex has become associated with 'romance' in the cultural eye, which has made it more exclusive to romantic couplings. Therefore, while women instinctively all want to fuck chad, women who desire a romantic partner are frequently willing to forgo this urge and settle into a monogamous family block with a non-chad who is otherwise a great partner.

Warm_Philosopher · 2023-02-14T09:33:13+00:00

Growing up without a father together with my siblings and all of us are doing great now as adults. I always had a great mom. I can't see what a father could have added to my upbringing.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-02-14T09:19:02+00:00

Have there ever been examples of female-led harems? i.e. a dominant female and multiple central males

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-02-14T09:14:33+00:00

I've seen that Tik Tok trend of women posting about how "badly their ex fumbled", posting a really filtered photo of themselves and a bad photo of their ex.

Didn't you think this guy was attractive enough to days in the first place? Let's be real, if you've dated a 3 then you're probably a 3 yourself.
Their ex probably doesn't even think about them while they're sat there going "Ha this will show him!!" Like honey he doesn't remember you anymore.

JiifuhTV · 2023-02-13T20:23:11+00:00

if your value in the dating market is dictated by other people

then why do women online have an issue with being a cum bucket

if that’s the value you been assigned

biggestuzifanea · 2023-02-13T23:24:43+00:00

Is it time to admit feminism was wrong

-michael-skarn- · 2023-02-14T00:08:18+00:00

Girls think of me as this nice guy but there's this alpha wolf inside of me just waiting to be unleashed. Don't make me angry. You'll regret it.

BIG_PHARMA_SOLUTION_ · 2023-02-14T06:13:16+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm9nfl1LfWg/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

And people are actually stupid enough to Pikachu face at Tateman blowing up. Society literally gave him the perfect environment for him to explode in exposure, not least of which social media algorithms and all.

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-14T04:23:32+00:00

The fundamental defects of the female character:

Lying
Lack of objectivity
Lack of sense of justice
Lack of accountability
Accepting things at face value
No code of honour

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