Daily Community Chat Megathread

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T18:41:17+00:00

How should my partner and I split bills and shared expenses?

potoricco · 2023-05-23T18:39:46+00:00

Did anyone else get invited to moderate several subreddits named “r/stalkingiscrazy” “r/iamanunhinged_dork” and such

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T18:24:25+00:00

Since the recent advice post is still up, wanna talk about it since 99,99999% of people who commented for the men just gave dating/relationship advice and found l was downvoted for casual sex advice

It's funny how many people have a weird perspective or try to deny some men just wanna have casual sex therefore date

So l said be determined in getting casual sex aka make yourself more attractive and go out put yourself in those opportunities because l understand this men since l used to be just like that from 17-24

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-23T18:02:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13pnsk2/accidentally_created_a_social_experiment_when_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Today on femcelxchromomes, woman who's car broke down manages to somehow turn several men stopping to try and help her into "men are trash"

teball3 · 2023-05-23T17:57:36+00:00

The message all black pillers and incls need but will refuse:

https://www.reddit.com/r/4chan/comments/13owiyy/anon_has_achieved_enlightenment/

potoricco · 2023-05-23T17:56:23+00:00

Is Rwanda a safe country to visit

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-23T17:56:09+00:00

What are some kinks you guys are into? Can be tame or extreme

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-05-23T17:08:41+00:00

Girls with a real light snore kind of adorable

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-05-23T17:05:52+00:00

I swear, every time reddit gets an update, it gets shittier.

Time-Horror58 · 2023-05-23T17:02:18+00:00

According to a survey of American male students 30% of men would rape women if there were no laws against it.

I don't really blame the Western women for trying to be overzealous about being independent from men tbh.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/a-third-of-male-university-students-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-there-no-were-no-consequences-9978052.html

scwizard · 2023-05-23T16:59:51+00:00

How much does a good fuck cost in Germany these days?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T16:52:09+00:00

Ok after discussing rejections with my younger cousin the better thing is to just realize it's a numbers game

Sure she rejects you and now it sucks but in my experience

I would approach and ask her out, 7/10 l got rejected completely but quickly talked to the next girl since 1. Am not PUA that tells you if says x do y like no my time is valuable so take the offer or leave it

There's many girls just like her, what l mean is you can show me a absolute beautiful blonde/brunette with a great body or personality, well there's millions of girls just like her

So it's important to just realize getting girls is a numbers game at the end of the day

But it takes experience realizing this

scwizard · 2023-05-23T16:46:50+00:00

It is common practice for judges in Germany to suspend prison sentences of two years or less for all crimes, including trafficking. Authorities prosecuted 173 persons for sex trafficking in 2008, the last year for which statistics were available. Of those, 138 were convicted, including seven juveniles, up from 123 convictions for sex trafficking in 2007. Of the 131 adults convicted, 92 – or 70 percent – received either a fine or a suspended sentence. Prison sentences for the remainder ranged from two to 10 years imprisonment.

Damn so u can be caught pimpin in Germany and just get a slap on the wrist if you're even caught?

Sounds like if you just stick to adults only it's basically legal.

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-05-23T16:44:30+00:00

I was talking about the house/mortgage debate from yesterday with my bf. We tend to be on the same page about it: if it’s an owned property and not a rental, whoever owns the house should be paying the mortgage. The other person can take on all of the other bills if needed.

Do any of you guys disagree?

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T16:43:21+00:00

"She always has to like you more"

Lol how many men experience this ?

Especially the one's who go by the quote "happy wife happy life"

Just saying seems really strange

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-23T16:29:38+00:00

Who wants to go on a sex vacation with me? 🙌

Regular-Wolverine-42 · 2023-05-23T16:28:15+00:00

a female friend of mine recently broke up with her boyfriend of 5 years so she could feel „young and free“ again. I mean I appreciate her honesty but damn. They‘ve known eachother for over 10 years and were together since they were both 17.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-23T16:24:48+00:00

I went to a wedding the other week and I don't think the groom and any close friends 😞

Everyone is so atomized. Community is dead

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2023-05-23T16:14:24+00:00

I think what bothers me about the arguments here made by men is it isn’t really based on red pill.

Like red pill ‘exposes’ all these truths about SMV and status and looks.

Yet most of these posts boil down to complaining about these truths.

You either accept them or you don’t.

You got guys here saying:

“women can get casual sex whenever they want and that’s not fair”

Do y’all accept the red pill or not?! Cause logically it makes perfect sense if the sexual market has been explained and exposed.

Like I can’t stand red pill but I defend it way more than the average male poster here.

scwizard · 2023-05-23T16:12:05+00:00

So... 'not all men'... but perhaps more than half of them... self-report that they've verbally coerced an intoxicated woman into sex. No wonder so many redditors will swear up and down that those kinds of tactics aren't sexual assault. They've done it themselves and don't want to think of themselves as rapists.

Q4M have to ever coerced a woman into sex?

I'm a virgin so I know I haven't lol

DerayRevan · 2023-05-23T16:08:33+00:00

So my younger cousin just told he got rejected by a girl he liked very much since last year

Told me it's the third time she said no

He wanted to talk to me since l kinda had a similar experience back in my younger years

Poor guy honestly, since he doesn't even share the same experience with his peers because he says they all have someone but least he had me and kinda enjoyed talking about this things with him

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-23T16:07:34+00:00

My friend has started dating a guy and their relationship goes against the grain of most things men post here. It's her first relationship, he's a bit younger, close to her height, doesn't make much money, has decent facial features, but is pretty average overall due to being underweight. Great communicator, very caring and attentive.

I'm really happy for her and I hope it will work out between them. Having a good partner improves one's quality of life.

Maractop · 2023-05-23T15:47:15+00:00

Should I even try to go against generalizations made about me? Or should I just accept them? Is there any point in trying to be different when when I will automatically be viewed as the same?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-23T15:43:39+00:00

Guys; name one issue you have with women that really grinds your gears that women say?

I'll start. It really, really grinds my gears when women say/write that men don't treat them like "humans". What is the hell is that supposed to mean? We all are humans. Some humans are more important than others. On first glance, we are animals before we are humans.

It's as if women are repulsed or allergic in acknowledging that we are animals first, humans second.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-23T15:43:15+00:00

Im not convinced that many women would rather share a "High value guy" rather than be with one man. The historical argument people bring up is also dumb as fuck. Conquerors and kings had many women because the women had no say in the matter.

Maractop · 2023-05-23T15:31:54+00:00

Is it true that if you dont find a gf before you graduate college its over? Because the ratio of guy to girl is gives you the best chances

Preme2 · 2023-05-23T15:27:47+00:00

When should you have sex with someone new? Consider 'box theory' before deciding.

What is box theory?

Tinx first shared her "box theory" on social media in 2021, based on a series of "misadventures" and time spent "chasing male validation" in her 20s.

As she describes it, the theory is that "when a guy meets a girl in a romantic setting − so like a dating app date or a blind date or something − he will put her into one of three boxes: He wants to date her, he wants to sleep with her or he wants nothing to do with her."

She adds: "If he wants to date you, he's going to want to date you no matter how you act, no matter what you say. And vice-versa: If he just wants to hook up with you, you can try your hardest and try to manipulate your way into the date box, but you just can't."

Sounds like RP content to me lol. “Misadventures” - You mean chad chasing, clamoring and sharing?

“He’s going to want to date you no matter how you act, no matter what you say.” - The mods banned me for incel content when I said it. Where’s her ban?

Incel content “allegedly”

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T15:19:14+00:00

Q4A: Why do men cheat?

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-23T15:10:24+00:00

Username elizaelizaelizael1za on tiktok has a viral video with over 1 million likes that shows that she was significantly more attractive than her ex boyfriend and he still cheated.

The men here insist that the reason why men cheat is that women don’t date their looksmatch and that attractive men will cheat way more and that a less attractive man will be more appreciative and kind and won’t cheat.

I also saw a clip from teen moms where one of the teen mom’s boyfriend had a literal neckbeard and still managed to cheat on his more attractive and not fat baby mama.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-23T15:09:33+00:00

I don’t see how the debates/discussions on this sub are any more “repetitive” than any other sub. Like what new ground is being broken on r/politicaldiscussion or askreddit for example? How many times can unpopular opinions sub debate that big bang theory sucked?(It did but you get my point)

I never liked that criticism tbh

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-05-23T15:08:42+00:00

Nikola Jokic is 4 wins away from his first NBA title

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-05-23T15:06:50+00:00

When I watch those game shows and they say

“YOU JUST WON A TRIP TO MAUI ALL EXPENSES PAID 7 DAYS 6 NIGHTS WOOOOO”

That’s cool but I always wondered, when exactly is this trip? Is it next week? I can’t go I gotta work and I can’t get time off that quickly. Can I schedule it to any time in the next 365 days? That would be cool, if not that’s a problem. Another thing is I have a GF, I’m not going on vacation by myself without her, so imma gonna pay for her that expensive ass trip

MysterySolverDog · 2023-05-23T15:01:56+00:00

https://i.redd.it/sfogalc384z81.jpg

I saw the image above recently and found it funny. It then also occurred to me that something similar is happening when women here insist that men deeply dissatisfied with dating are just an online phenomenon. The men that women pay a lot of attention to irl is likely already a biased sample and the ones that aren't happy won't necessarily feel comfortable saying that - this goes doubly so if they suspect they're gonna get a lecture by admitting that.

Therefore, the only ones left would be the men who are happy talking about their dating lives, just like the only responses back were from people who "love responding to surveys". Thoughts?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T15:01:21+00:00

Also what did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T15:01:16+00:00

Q4M, big tits or nice ass?

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-23T14:53:20+00:00

Q4M: Would you rather have a successful dating life and an average career/ money life or vice-versa?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T14:43:09+00:00

Q4A: do you consider yourself below average, average, or above average?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-23T14:36:54+00:00

As much as I used to get frustrated with how girls flirt/approach, I do think the ways they establish contact whilst maintaining plausible deniability is pretty funny and commendable in a way.

I was talking to my friends about the "dancefloor bump" ( I can't think of a more catchy term).

You're dancing with a group, a girl looks over and sees you. They slowly make their way over so that they're close to you with their back facing you. They'll then "accidentally" bump into you, over and over despite there being enough room on the dancefloor. They'll often look behind them to check you've noticed them, if you don't pay them any attention then they'll bail.

One of the girls then said "oh...I didnt know guys knew about that"

I mean, I didn't know about it when I was single and it could have actually paid off to know it 😅😭

potoricco · 2023-05-23T14:28:03+00:00

I’m no longer calling myself a feminist but rather, pro-female.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-23T14:23:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13odr2p/visited_brazil_and_tried_online_dating_back_in/

Saw this post on the r/onlinedating sub a few days ago. Some people are pointing that some of these women are likely hanging out with the OP for $$$, but it did make me think about the whole passport bros trend. I never had any interest in going abroad to meet women, but most of the women i've dated who actually put in reciprocal effort, respected my time, made engaging conversation and lacked entitlement (i.e. offering to pick up the check) were international graduate students who just recently came to the US.

My gf was born and raised in the US and does all the aforementioned, but she is an anomaly. Most western women are lazy as SHIT when it comes to putting in effort in dating, all the entitlement and expectations without an ounce of effort.

So really, the hate against men pointing out that women outside the US put in more effort/are more feminine is purely rooted in jealousy. If you find a worthwhile girl in the US don't take her for granted, because most of them aren't worth building a life with.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-23T14:19:20+00:00

4th I guess?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-05-23T14:16:56+00:00

Third 😎

Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T14:12:34+00:00

Second!!!

potoricco · 2023-05-24T00:44:51+00:00

“Interesting how some of the most common gender specific insults for males ("son of a btch", morherfucker and "bastard») place blame at least in part on a parent(especially mother), but gendered insults towards women ("nt.," "whre," "slt.» "btch") have nothing to do with anyone else except the woman on the receiving end of the insult.”

Misogyny is deeply deeply rooted in absolutely everything. Once you notice, you can’t escape it.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-05-24T09:49:33+00:00

Honestly, the way guys talk about women here, it’s no wonder y’all are single

Just imagine being on a date and they start questioning your ‘hoe phase’ or your hypergamy, and then telling you should be doing all the domestic work and childcare AND a full time job because he makes £5 more than you

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-23T20:07:50+00:00

Had a coworker call me selfish for not wanting kids. Asked him why I was selfish and of course got all the usual things..because I should want to bring kids into the world, what is your life without them, who will take care of you etc. Now he has a few kids with a few different women, and I don't believe he has primary custody of any of them. A few months later, I found out he knocked up the girl he was fooling around with. Tried to take her to get an abortion, but abortion is illegal in our state. I thought not bringing a kid into this world is selfish? Now which is it? 🤔

🤔

potoricco · 2023-05-23T18:59:40+00:00

Has anyone heard of the new upcoming show “the idol”? It’s directed by the same creep Sam Levinson that made Euphoria. People are saying the idol is basically just fuck scenes, just like euphoria. It is SO alarming that the line between pornography and regular entertainment and cinema is only getting more blurred. This trash should be banned

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-24T12:46:45+00:00

One of the clear red flags of the male dating/lifestyle sphere thing is the hyper focus on sex. At no point in time has the average Man been out there fucking all the women. Any guy that's complaining about not getting casual sex will get no sympathy or understanding from any other group. You might as well cry about not having a fancier car or bigger house or whatever other extremely niche inconsequential problem

Sex sells. That's why female influencers dress scantily and why guys convince other guys to chase women for sex

You can't complain about modern women and then cry about not being able to manipulate, lie and cheat your way to casual sex

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T22:13:09+00:00

I go get coffee every day at this coffee place near my house. One of the people employed there is this girl who doesn't speak any English who gets treats for my dog when we come in but she's like...terrified of them. But she really likes my dog (english cream golden retriever). She gets super excited when she sees him gets treats but also you can tell she's still scared.

She just, like 5 minutes ago, managed to get the courage needed to pet my dog when she was out from behind the counter sweeping something up.

It was really funny because she like asked if she could pet him by doing the pet hand motion, and then moving towards him suuuuupppper slowly and then extending her hand out to pet him slowly. Ghost of course laid down onto his back after she pet him and she rubbed his stomach for the minute it took our coffee to get done and then we left.

It was pretty funny.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-24T13:42:31+00:00

Why does the "sex is a need" discussion always turn into this goofy "entitled to sex" nonsense?

ashpr0ulx · 2023-05-23T18:51:08+00:00

had margaritas for lunch and went to the craft store and bought art supplies i don’t really need

AWALT

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-23T22:59:35+00:00

I'm constantly amazed at all the anatomy and physiology experts in this sub.

Such insightful tidbits. Some of y'all should start a YouTube channel or something.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-24T00:02:58+00:00

people who say their favorite movies are avengers or other typical superhero movies, is the equivalent of saying your favorite food is McDonald or other fast foods.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-23T19:36:22+00:00

I think the overwhelming majority of people who are bad at dealing with the opposite sex have childhood trauma and their parents likely had a shit relationship too

meteorness123 · 2023-05-23T21:56:38+00:00

it sucks having crazy parents tbh. Can anybody relate ?

nsfw4throwaway · 2023-05-23T22:04:45+00:00

got ghosted by a girl I was dating for a few months, for some reason she told me early on what her reddit username is (or close enough that it was ridiculously easy to find). Somehow she is still shit-posting about me more than a month later, which is frankly impressive.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-24T01:29:57+00:00

Broad City is underrated.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-05-24T01:41:59+00:00

I think the part that stings the most is having grown up in a post-feminist world and thinking women actually believed in equality and ending of traditional gender roles and worst of all listening to their dating advice.

I really internalized the cookie cutter 2010s advice of "be yourself, be confident, you'll find someone when you least expect it." I really thought that if a woman was interested in me she would approach me lol. Or that I would just meet someone organically.

No, now I can see that those are things that only happen to women. I sat on the bench for five years working on myself and for what? The opportunity to date older women who spent the last five years entertained by the opposite sex every day? Who now have higher standards for me as a result of their past experiences? I feel so fucking stupid for having believed anything a woman had to say.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-05-24T01:57:16+00:00

I’m trying to read some of the posts on incelexit, and while there is some insightful stuff, there is also a lot of ridiculous over the top feel good nonsense on the sub.

FancyComfortable4678 · 2023-05-24T06:17:14+00:00

I grew up somewhat sheltered in the country but with tv and internet, and with both brothers and sisters who were treated equally. The media we consumed through childhood and teen years was standard 2000s multicultural, pro feminist type stuff, and we learned about the civil rights movement and feminism in school. So with all of that I really thought I was leaving that tiny town and going out into a world that was basically completely egalitarian. Much to my shock that was very much not the case. Both the old school anti black racism and traditional anti feminism (Fox News crowd) and newer anti white, anti male views from the opposite side (inb4 enlightened centrism, I’m not saying both sides are the same). Anyway now I feel like I’m one of few people who are genuinely not racist or sexist.

potoricco · 2023-05-24T11:04:28+00:00

It’s interesting to see how people think women owe them beauty at every age and this manifests in fat phobia and “health” concerns

I just saw a video with a ~60 year old elderly woman. She had was flabby with loose skin like most women that age but not particularly fat or unhealthy looking. Queue the person commenting that she needs to lose weight so she could be “healthier”(which is just code for prettier). Like she is a normal size and body type, if she was 40 years younger and hot but with that same body you wouldn’t be saying this my dude. It’s a 10 second video, you don’t know anything about her or her lifestyle. And more importantly she is visibly old it’s perfectly OKAY for a woman to be ugly but you don’t need say fake shit like “health” to make yourself look better

Also the woman was in the BACKGROUND of a tiktok video. I just find it fucked up that you can film a video of someone without their knowledge and open them up to getting criticized by strangers online

jobbo321 · 2023-05-24T11:32:04+00:00

What do I do if all women I'm interested in see me as friendship material?

For example, last 2 first dates from Tinder. Both said they had a great time but don't feel anything. Flirted heavily with both of them. Sexual jokes, touched them (with consent), etc. Still nothing.

I think I have that standard "friend face" from that one research I can't find the link for.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-05-24T12:10:49+00:00

Biology has always been cucked. If you think about it. Back in the early days of humanity one woman would have children with multiple high ranking men. A woman would maybe have 5-8 different baby daddy’s (probably more since infant mortality rates were high). Men and women would often live separately due to men being out hunting most of the time. But there was no such thing as a “single mother” the community would help raise the children. A nuclear family as we know it wasn’t a thing. All women (and elders) would take care of all children and all men would catch food to provide for all children. It didn’t matter which one was theirs. Usually men didn’t know which child was actually there’s. Nature is cucked.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-05-24T12:42:38+00:00

Why do incels want people to believe the majority of men are incels when everyone knows thats not true? I’m a “femcel” and I can fully acknowledge I’m a anomaly.

I think this is another reason people don’t take inceldom seriously. Incels try to inflate the problem to make it more than what it’s is. Average men aren’t sexless. That’s an incel myth. Go outside and you’ll see average married men and average men with dating lives.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-05-24T12:59:10+00:00

Q4W: Is there any situation/setting/location/scenario where a guy you don’t already know can start talking to you and you don’t immediately assume he is hitting on you?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-23T20:05:50+00:00

Why do women feel the need to emasculate men? Is it because they want to knock them down a peg? Is this why pegging is called pegging, because women want to emasculate masculine men?

I had a girl I was into tell me that she's glad she gave me a shot because I'm shorter than the guys she normally dates. I'm 5'11.

It's almost as though they do it subconsciously. Like it's not some evil plan to neg men but just that they're too dumb to not filter everything they say. If I had any sense I would've said "Same, I usually date hot girls, I'm glad I gave you a chance." Anyways, I'm just going to remove this girl from my roster.

potoricco · 2023-05-23T21:10:35+00:00

My mom is pretty🥰

meteorness123 · 2023-05-23T22:16:14+00:00

having instagram as a man is extremely pointless and a waste of time if it 's not for business ventures.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-05-23T22:37:01+00:00

I'll be honest, idek exactly how guys are apparently picking up all these girls in clubs. My n-count is in the 30s (which according to this sub's logic, makes me pretty damn close to "Chad"), but only one of those is a girl I met in a club; the rest are a mixture of house parties, dating apps, and extended social circles. Whenever I go to clubs with my friends, there always seem to be far more guys than girls, and the girls that are there tend to stay in packs with their friends- not the best environment for trying to meet people. When I do meet a girl, I can usually get a dance, maybe a makeout session if I'm lucky, but it rarely ever goes past that.

Guys who are regularly successful picking up girls in clubs, what's your secret? (Ladies also welcome to answer if you feel like you've got some insights).

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-23T22:39:06+00:00

Question For Men: Is Jeff Bezos settling by getting engaged to a 53-year-old woman?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T23:02:34+00:00

Toxic asshole

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/0GMxX1mqU7o

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-23T23:09:01+00:00

Have ya'll sex havers ever stood on top of a podium at a Freestyle tournament?

When you were partying I studied ~~The Blade~~ The Single-leg

When you were having premarital sex I mastered ~~The blockchain~~ The lat drop

While you wasted your days at the gym in pursuit of vanity I cultivated ~~inner strength~~ the deadlift

And now that the world is on fire and the barbarians are at the gate you have the audacity to come to me for help?

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-23T23:09:29+00:00

I was talking to my older brother yesterday. And I asked him if he could remember the name of everyone he had sex with. No. Ok how about the number, including one night stands, etc. No. Then I asked him if he could give a rough estimate of the number of people. Around 30. Yeah that'll do it lolol.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-23T23:34:05+00:00

Q4All: What's your biggest dating/relationship regret?

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-05-24T00:05:02+00:00

https://egyptianstreets.com/2023/05/06/man-in-tanta-kills-wife-of-three-days-for-refusing-sexual-relations/

More context "In addition, the groom was reportedly pushing the victim to commit sexual acts that are considered impermissible in Islam, according to the victim’s sister."

scwizard · 2023-05-24T00:49:18+00:00

If a couple fall in true love, then later divorce, does the mean it wasn't true love to begin with?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-24T03:30:03+00:00

If you were a celebrity, why would you ever get married? Especially if you met the girl after you became famous, you'd have to assume she's with you for the wrong reasons.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-24T13:28:37+00:00

I need more damn hobbies. Probably why I obsess about sex so much, nothing else to full my hands except for my dick.

blueshinx · 2023-05-24T13:43:20+00:00

I need people who insist on using evo-psych explanations for human behavior to get basic biology knowledge first

2023-05-24T13:57:54+00:00

Q4A: "Women love badboys" is the common phrase seen on here.

Please define a badboy. What is their life like? What makes them "bad"? Give me an example of a "badboy".

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WilliamWyattD · 2023-05-23T14:10:03+00:00

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Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T21:22:35+00:00

4 The Fellas: 4 blowjobs a day for one year but no sex or sex 4 times a day no blowjobs for a year? Which one?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-23T21:23:27+00:00

Any sexual escapades with a coworker? Male or female share your stories!

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-05-23T22:53:29+00:00

marydates_ on tiktok. She never had a boyfriend is currently going on dates to find one. What do men think of her here? She’s a “late bloomer influencer”.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-23T22:58:52+00:00

oi !

q4sports fans: if your non sports fan gf goes to a game for the rival team w her friends would you be upset ? is that disrespectful

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-24T00:38:33+00:00

Q4A: How much would you spend on a wedding?

Ambitious_Ad9047 · 2023-05-24T08:28:07+00:00

imagne If all major religions were this weird about something else that everybody does like they are about sex, for example, pooping or peeing, nobody would teach you that you need to wipe or wash your hands afterwards. weird rituals or traditions.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-24T12:23:30+00:00

The autism is running rampant on this sub lately. I used to think it was just the blackpillers but I’m starting to suspect most of the women on this sub are on the spectrum if not full blown autist.

potoricco · 2023-05-24T13:40:53+00:00

Islam doesn’t get enough criticism

A religion that literally goes out of its way to humiliate women

Ohmaygahh · 2023-05-24T14:09:52+00:00

Lesson #1 in Critical Thinking and Feeling.

The following is the current top post on a certain reddit page titled "Pickup artist explained how he hooked me "so easily". It was eye opening to say the least."

I ran into a man I "dated" briefly a few years back. I thought we had such a lovely time, but he moved on after a few hookups. During this blast from the past encounter, he very casually decided to tell me how he used his favorite technique on me back then. He said that it always works, and for me, he did it "so easily." I thought I would share here, so you can all benefit from the lesson I learned.

He said he asks a woman lots of questions about herself while giving hardly anything back. He waits for her to mention something he is knowledgeable in and then takes over the conversation. For me, I mentioned a love of history and politics. Being from another country/continent, he launched into a fascinating history lesson. I hung on his every word that night. I found him intelligent and charming. It was all a play to get into my pants.

I wish he would have been honest, so I knew what to expect. I mean, he was 6'3" with a sexy accent and a killer body, I probably would have gone for it. If I knew it was going to be brief, I would have had my way with him instead of acting like I had less experience than I do. But alas, my dumbass was trying to date him. I'm sure the thrill for him is "knowing he played me." Although I'm not sure he did.

So ladies, watch out for the pick-up professor technique. Lmao

Edit: For everyone saying his technique is just talking and listening. Yes and no. u/bleaksunrise worded it perfectly for me:

The conversation itself isn't the ploy. It's the technique with which he's engaging in the conversation that's a bit dishonest. Pretending to be interested in anything you have to say so that you feel respected... And then guiding towards a subject he knows about and knowledge dumping so that he comes off as more knowledgeable and engaging than he really is.

The trick of it is that it'll seem like a normal conversation. And since we all like to talk about things we like talking about, it'll be kinda hard to notice that he doesn't really have any input at first. He'll just let you talk at him while he's searching for his moment.

While yes, this is basically how a conversation works, the unauthentic part of this is his intentions. He didn't ask me about myself so he could find out more about me. He didn’t tell me about history because it's a shared interest. His motivation in asking me questions about myself was to find the first topic that would allow him to flex his knowledge/experience.

For me, it was nice to know I did nothing wrong. That he faked all that interest to sleep with me and NEVER intended to date me. We had different goals. It's cool.

Q4W: Can you identify one of the largest points that would inspire ire from the majority of men reading this post AND can you explain why that statement is so intellectually and emotionally repugnant?

Q4M: There are many sore points that leap out of this reading. Imagine the poster is your current serious significant other, can you articulate what you feel and why AND would it honestly change the nature of your relationship?

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-24T14:19:16+00:00

Such bad design that the hornier sex is supposed to make the first move

VampireChaser · 2023-05-24T14:19:24+00:00

I only eat out women if they're on their period.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-23T20:51:49+00:00

Im tired of the "AI is the biggest threat to humanity meme". Retarded sensationalism. Nothing will happen as always.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-23T23:35:33+00:00

My posts keep getting eaten what the ass

scwizard · 2023-05-24T05:12:21+00:00

My ex and I loved each other, and still very much do we really tried for 10 years, but sometimes shit just doesn't work out. We divorced on good terms, and we co parent very well.

This is so hard for me to understand... Tbh my mind instantly jumps to infidelity in this kinda divorce.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-24T09:35:09+00:00

It's a well known idea that men are more attractive to women when they're in a relationship. I've experienced this myself, I've had more women hit on me in bars, clubs etc during my current relationship than when I was single.

What I find conflicting is the idea of what is attractive about a man in a relationship, i.e. whether it's the confidence and lack of desperation that comes with being in a relationship, or if it's just the fact that you're taken. I posted about this a while ago (on an alt account) in a relationship sub, noting how this happens whether or not I'm there with my GF at the time.

A bunch of people said that it's the fact that I'm in a relationship that is attractive in of itself, not the confidence that comes with it. I asked how women would know that I'm in a relationship without my GF being there with me, and they said they could just "sense it".

If they can pick up on it from signals such as confidence, lack of desperation etc, then how is that distinguishable from just being attracted to those signals in of themselves?

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-24T11:13:45+00:00

If I was God/Dictator of America I would pass laws against "going out" for people who ask for advice online. It's ridiculous how often that the advice "go out to" [club/bar/other activity where normies show up] is given to people. Specifically people who come to places like this, if it was advice given to normies it would be good advice, but nobody here asking for advice is anywhere near normal.

For the person receiving the advice it's bad advice because the absolute best case scenario is that they get drunk, become an alcoholic after going out enough, and then eventually stop after rehab. The worst case scenario is of course being kicked out after someone complains you sat near them and it makes them uncomfortable, which happened to me once or twice.

But you're not the only person in the world.

When normies go out what do they expect to see? Other fucking normies. They don't expect to see Purple Pill Discussion or Dating Advice level socially inept morons coming up to them and mouth breathing on them. When the people asking for advice actually go out it's not simply that they're not having a good time, they are ruining other people's good time by existing in nbormie space.

It genuinely should not be legal. And you can tell who these people are by sight. Just don't let them in the club.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-24T11:55:56+00:00

Creating more options as a guy is an absolute must and that's where confidence builds up

You get many guys with not even beautiful women but sometimes either ugly or average women make them miserable in a relationship

Happened to this guy l knew:

Caught his gf talking to other guys and so on

Now my advice is to just leave since there's nothing there for you expect sexless days until she cheats

Never listened and she later ended up cheating with his best friend but had he listened he be doing himself a massive favour

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-24T13:25:58+00:00

You know what's interesting is that it's only people online who say shit like "You need to socialize more" to me.

People in real life I've expressed concerns with all universally acknowledge "Damn..yeah that sucks yeah I probably wouldn't invite you out because of the stimming and stuff. Damn." At my MMA gym that I've been at for years it's basically a joke.

It is funny that our lead coach (who is a right wing asshole, but like still a good dude? it's weird) will yell at other people who can't figure out certain moves by being like "WE HAVE AN ACTUAL RETARDED MONKEY IN THIS GYM AND HE CAN DO IT, LOOK AT HIM" and he'll point at me "FIGURE IT OUT"

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-23T23:43:39+00:00

Even without reading it, interacting with women enough over time to lead you to the Red Pill. I know this because even before I became Red Pill I saw things that leaned more into what they believed, I didn't want to believe it at the time though because I was a good little Blue Pill guy who was a pushover.

I eventually found my way to the Red Pill community through my own experiences.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-24T00:52:42+00:00

It's absurd how western 1st world countries have produced such low quality women. Women can't even do the basic of not being fat or slutty. Even with a budget of hundreds of billions to trillions of dollars, the countries are producing low quality fat slutty women. These low quality women are raising the next generation.

2nd and 3rd world countries with much lower budgets are able to produce thin, modest, relationship oriented women. Why are 1st world countries such failures? If 1st world countries want to succeed, they should be setting up programs to import high quality women, which is needed because western 1st world countries can't produce high quality women on it's own.

Western 1st world countries are failing its women (by letting them be slobs) and its men by providing such low quality women.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-24T13:40:36+00:00

The best part about abundance is that women seem to like it more when they know you'll just boot their ass if they fuck up. They enjoy knowing they're on a tight-rope with you.

VampireChaser · 2023-05-23T23:19:28+00:00

Why do women get angry when men assume that they're on their period because of certain behavior?

Patient_Recording_96 · 2023-05-24T14:09:05+00:00

Women who complain about fuccbois, bad guys and being pumped and dumped miss an easy solution to all of this, which is no sex before marriage.

As you can also tell by the comments of men on this subforum, fuccbois, pump and dumpers usually demand sex very fast, like on the first date. So, women, instead of complaining about these men you could simply apply the no sex before marriage method and easily get rid of the majority of fuccbois.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-23T20:51:50+00:00

I support fat women being slutty.

Since fatties are already not relationship material, are not deserving of relationships, it doesn't matter if they hurt their relationship value/ability by being slutty. By having a lot of casual sex, they're taking the place of some thin women, so they help preserve the relationship value of thin women (who are more deserving of a relationship) while satiating male desire for casual sex.

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