Daily Community Chat Megathread

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-02T09:20:50+00:00

Went to see Oppenheimer today, ate a meal out, didn’t pass out. 👍

What did you guys think about the film? I thought it was really good.

Strange to see so many actors in my age cohort in one movie (Robert Downey, Jr., Matthew Modine, Matt Damon, etc). They seem to be aging pretty well, lol. The guy who played Oppenheimer was younger & had beautiful blue 👀’s

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-02T06:33:51+00:00

Going outside and touching grass today guys omg wish me luck

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-08-02T06:18:49+00:00

Great post on the dating sub today showing how delusional women can be

She’s upset that men lie to get sex and she had a refreshing experience where chad was honest about just wanting sex, she wishes all men behaved this way.

She goes on to say that only handsome men are worthy for casual sex flings just like men only want to marry gorgeous women duh (somehow she can’t understand why men lie to get sex when she just spelled it out lol)

It goes to show that women basically want men to accept not getting sex casually, it’s a thing for the top tier dudes and it isn’t important so they shouldn’t care.

She also starts talking about how lies that lead to sex are akin to rap

Then this: “women are designed to get emotionally attached. How else can they pour love and abundance into raising a family? A hurt person can’t love!! Gatekeeping is the wrong word. Too many sexual experiences damages a woman’s ability to connect closely with children and hubby. Same goes for men. Promiscuity has a negative impact on both sexes.”

Yet having sex with handsome men somehow avoids these emotional ramifications hmm lol

happy_discus · 2023-08-01T13:05:59+00:00

Just had a very strange encounter. I'm standing in front of a shop that's closing permanently and a random girl comes up to me and talks to me about the shop. I mean WTF????? Who does that. Especially in the pouring rain. Really weird.

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-02T04:47:16+00:00

Might just buy a kindle today and then put on fake reading glasses and pretend I'm an old grandma

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-02T04:46:48+00:00

Do you guys know how to ask for referrals. I really want to leverage my network to push my career forward but I dont wanna come off as a fraud. It just comes off as so fake like im only contacting them or getting to know them becuase they can get me into a company. But I also know that referrals are the way, and are going to make my life easier.

How do I ask?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-02T04:36:16+00:00

Q4All: You wake up as me tomorrow, with the autism, the job, the face the whole works but you still like remember being yourself

Do you kill yourself?

If you don't, what would you do with your life? Most people are like "I want a family 2.5 kids and a dog" or to see the world and fuck a lot of people or just get a huge social network and enjoy all that. I assume that's what most of you want to do.

So if all those options of normal sources of human happiness were closed off to you, what would you do?

Would you just keep making more money? Try to get rich?

blebbyroo · 2023-08-02T04:34:23+00:00

The best way to get soap scum off shower glass is a home made mixture of Vinegar, dish soap and water!

Spray on scum, rinse off 5 mins later

Works so much better than commercial soap scum products!!!

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-02T03:52:37+00:00

Damn who's the guy getting all of their comments deleted?

Someone isn't happy 😂

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-02T03:50:50+00:00

Starting to think my dad had the right idea being an alcoholic. When you're drunk things are actually not that bad for a little while

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-02T03:46:34+00:00

Why are we doing Men vs. Women when it's really Good people vs. Bad people

Clearly not all women are like "x" and not all men are like "y"

We just need to find the right people to be around and avoid those who treat us poorly

Chokeman · 2023-08-02T03:46:31+00:00

I feel like marriages between billionaires and supermodels/celebs are not as uncommon in europe as in the US.

For example Michelle Yeoh just married her long time partner who is an ex-CEO of Ferrari.

While billionaires and celebs in the US are doing their own things, both rarely pair up with each other.

The US is more like the exception than the norm in this case

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-02T03:25:41+00:00

I wonder if the people in here saying that they don't see average couples just have a very strict algorithm on their social media? Like are they too young for Facebook? Are they just viewing thirst traps on Instagram and Tik Tok? Are they just watching porn and scrolling reddit?

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-01T09:03:02+00:00

Thirst

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-01T09:19:09+00:00

I have been 2nd more times than anyone

TigerRude4 · 2023-08-01T09:23:16+00:00

Q4W: You often engage with men on ppd when they say something you think it's idiotic or heavily disagree with, why not do the same with women?

Tricky_Relief_7152 · 2023-08-01T09:43:48+00:00

I just want to take this opportunity to say how much I love rollercoasters.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-01T09:45:24+00:00

The amount of men I experienced in retail who were never allowed to make their own decisions, purely because their girlfriend or wife would overrule it because she didn't like it. I took that as an opportunity to demean her opinion if she tried to put her partner down.

Her: No I don't like it

Me: Well do YOU like it???

Him: Well....yeah.

Me: There you go, that's the only opinion that matters isn't it?

I got many stink eyes and death glares from girlfriends for doing that. I don't care whether or not you like you boyfriend's outfit or not, you're not the one wearing it are you? If he likes it, that's all that counts.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-01T09:52:16+00:00

I’m glad I got sterilized, otherwise I would make 100 babies with my husband. He’s so fucking sexy. Our kid is amazing… life is good.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-01T10:24:16+00:00

The biggest reasons I believe most people here are sheltered suburban children:

This dumbass belief that being a straight couple automatically means good parents instead of ACTUALLY being a good parent. Apparently children “needing a mom and dad” is more important than having competent parents who give a shit about them.
The dumbass belief that Pick Me Girls are Tradwives. If you been to the hood or trailer parks, you’d know the biggest Pick Me bitches are the side hoes who fuck any felon that gives them attention.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-01T10:44:26+00:00

Q4All: If you were presently married, would you want to know that your spouse cheated on you in the first couple months of your relationship?

Would that answer change if you thought you two had lost your virginities to one another, but your spouse actually lost it to the person with whom they cheated you?

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-01T11:17:05+00:00

I saw this woman on tiktok that's doing a "50 first dates" challenge and shes up to like date number 11, she uses online dating and I think either men approaching her irl or her approaching them and shes not conventionally attractive and I think this was the first time I thought "damn women might actually be getting dates way too easily"

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-01T11:21:13+00:00

Q4W: What is the worst first date you ever had?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T11:32:52+00:00

Why do young women purposely tan, at your age you look pretty no matter what anyway, but tanning will make you look old quicker so your look will fade faster. I’d think staying slightly less pretty in your younger years is a valuable tradeoff for staying prettier in your 30s and 40s.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-01T11:49:01+00:00

My cousin got cheated on again, 7 GF's, 7 times cheated on. And now he is going on another self-loathing, women hating crusade.

He keeps going for most attractive women which are out of his league. He love bombs them, simps hard for them...

So he ends up with beautiful. materialistic women hungry for attention.

Once they move in, he get's too comfortable. Simping in form of material wealth is still there, but attention is gone because he has a very inflexible schedule of playing games, having some quicky sex, naps, playing more games.

Guess what happens next?

I told him this shit back when he was cheated on by 5th GF, and he keeps doing the same shit all over again.

diaryofalostgirl · 2023-08-01T11:51:15+00:00

Two men clamored to get doors for me this morning. Young men, at that. Were they "high-value men"? Probably not, but in those moments they were kind and sweet, and told me I was looking beautiful today.

When that happens, no matter who the man is, he deserves a smile and a genuine "Thank you!" And it will get you very far in life if you learn to do this.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-08-01T12:06:10+00:00

I have often heard it stated that women prefer deep voiced men. Yet, why then is most lovey- dovey RnB and Pop sang in the tenor and baritone range?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T12:28:43+00:00

Why do people on dating subs talk about exclusivity like it’s getting married or something. They talk about not dating more than one person for a while as this massive decision where your whole life will collapse if it goes wrong…

CliffPR · 2023-08-01T12:30:40+00:00

If "woe is me" comments are against sub rules (and I'm not saying they shouldn't be), then "my life is so great" bragging posts should be too.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T12:35:31+00:00

Petition to shut down France until we figure out what the hell is going on

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-01T12:59:06+00:00

Does anyone actually care about the writers strike?

Let Ai replace them. I mean if all they’re doing is ruining my favorite TV shows I’m sure ChatGPT can do the same at a faster pace.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-01T13:08:52+00:00

My Starbucks barista just asked me if I was a bug, what kind of bug would I be. I think maybe she was high af. Felt like a Hinge prompt IRL… maybe I should have asked her out

scwizard · 2023-08-01T13:10:23+00:00

The other guy slept with the same girl despite having a girlfriend. He promised her that she could move in with him because she has a bad home life or something. My friend when he found out that this guy was sleeping with the girl he knew that he wanted a relationship with got upset and in revenge told the guy’s girlfriend about the whole thing. His girlfriend did not break up with him but actually ended up moving in with him ruining the other girl’s chance of moving in.

So the reaction to Chad cheating on you is too move in with him so the other girl can't have him...

scwizard · 2023-08-01T13:32:53+00:00

I think it's fine to tell your boyfriend/husband you don't want them watching porn.

But it's kinda not fair to do that and only let them have sex with you once every two months.

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-01T13:38:22+00:00

So I was looking on etsy for cheongsams (side rant but I really like vintage ones but I can't fit into tiny asian woman vintage clothes 😔) and I discovered cheongsam lingerie versions wich is soo icky and really shows how common fetishisation is.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-01T13:46:28+00:00

I’m convinced I’m shadowbanned on askmen lmao.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-01T13:46:34+00:00

What did I miss tho

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-01T13:49:12+00:00

What the hell are "fuck me eyes"

According_Listen_897 · 2023-08-01T14:03:20+00:00

The eyes are also another form of communication it's just that most times they aren't the primary forms but merely something more secondary and supportive. However, when the eyes are the only form of communication then it becomes very close and vulnerable rather quickly because you're not using other forms to create a certain framework or rather field through which you can both communicate so there is a more direct communication since you're not putting any barriers, that's why a lot of people have trouble with eye contact. Because it's vulnerable it's mostly I hate you so much I want to kill you look, I want to fuck you if both parties aren't that acquainted with each other, and I love you/Want to fuck depending on the facial expression and mood when there is an already established relationship.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-08-01T14:10:11+00:00

Peace. It's been real

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-08-01T14:17:59+00:00

Is dating younger women(18-23) in your 30s just a strategy from an era long gone. People in the 80s and 90s were able to do this since America had a surplus of young people back then, but now the average of the nation is damn near 40 and Gen z is a small generation. Also, Gen z tends to think that relationships with large age gaps are weird.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-01T14:19:38+00:00

Just a reminder that personal responsibility is a foreign concept in this subreddit.

baresquad · 2023-08-01T14:33:57+00:00

Cmv: As men, we’re solely responsible for the type of treatment that we accept.

Blaming other people because you allowed yourself to get strung along or other bad shit is dodging accountability.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-01T14:37:26+00:00

Red pill makes a great "get your dick wet" guide because it skips a shitload of nuisances. So it ends up being a simple, easy to use guide and most importantly it works.

But it ends up being a shitty philosophy because it skips a shitload of nuisances.

Example. If you want to fuck a lot of women and spin plates your targeted audience are certain kind of women. Insecure, trashy, high N-count, uneducated tec. You do things that these women find attractive.

You fuck ten of those.

Then you don't get to say "Ta daaaah I have found the truth, all women are like this".

But what about all the women which rejected you?

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-01T14:49:12+00:00

Just got rejected from JPMorgan, idk how to feel, woulda rather gotten rejected by my dream girl. But next hiring cycle ima be ready. I aint giving up

dyngladfel · 2023-08-01T14:56:13+00:00

Just had a look at r/datingadviceformen . Feel bad for those guys, a lot of them just don't seem to have the basic social skills needed to get a girlfriend, and have quite immature views on relationships. You can't really give advice to someone in that situation. Either commit to completely changing your personality or accept the situation. If you ask for advice in that situation of course you're going to get a lot of "be confident" type advice. It's not other people's fault that your problem doesn't have an easily accessible solution.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-01T15:14:34+00:00

Autistic and ADHD men are less likely to have children, and according to some people this is just awesome because male trash needs to be taken out of the gene pool so we end up with superior genes... yay.

Buuuut...

Modern women fertility rate is mostly not limited by the quality of their genes, but by how many children they chose to have. Women with ADHD and autism genes have greater fertility rate then neurotypical women.

Also men are at a greater disposition of developing symptoms, because they have just one copy of the X chromosome. So if the gene on that chromosome doesn't do it's job, they are shit out of luck.

So these genes are not being ejected from the gene pool... every generation will produce men which can't find a partner. And women which will pass on these genes to the next generation.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-01T15:16:26+00:00

Two types of people I realize I hate with a passion:

People who coddle sexists to SEEM like a good person.
People who project their personal issues onto society, especially people with poor self-image.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-01T15:16:57+00:00

Idea: smart/talented kids and kids on the spectrum should be academically sequestered together.

Alright so hear me out; K-12 I was in the Gifted + Creative And Performing Arts program. There was about 90 of us and we were cloistered from gen-pop education but had to share school facilities with them. I'd say about 80% of the kids in the Gifted program where somewhere on the autism spectrum, and at least 35% of the CAPA kids as well. We were all a bunch of smart, talented, little weirdos.

Because we were cloistered, the autists would find 'their people' and the smart/pretty/talent folks were exposed to the ND folks in their formative years so the various and arbitrary intolerances were never built up.

Case in point; a kid I grew up with in the program had moderate-ish autism. When he'd get frustrated or overwhelmed he'd pace, cry, and hit himself. He stimmed, a lot. But he was also pretty funny, brilliant, and good at soccer. We grew up witnessing his meltdowns in class but no one dared make fun of him for it. It was just a part of who he was, but it wasn't all of him, and we also knew of his 'just-another-kid' side. Our teachers also painstaking taught us about accepting him for who he is and were ruthless about rooting out any sort of bulling or attitudes of superiority.

As a result this kid was always at the same parties I was at, developed a group of bros, and eventually dated a few girls from the program in our latter years of high school. I recall even the NT Chads on the soccer team would protect/defend him from the gen-pop bullies because the NT Chads were also in the Gifted program with him. Last I heard the kid found Jesus in college, got married shortly thereafter, has a career, had some kids, and runs marathons or some shit. This kid is just one of several I know from the program who ended up on a pretty good life path despite their neurodivergence.

Anyway, all of this to say I don't think people with (mild to moderate) autism are destined to wither away in solitude and despair, they can find their people and thrive but it requires catching them early and sequestering them away with smart NT kids before they (the NT kids) can buildup a prejudice (or alternately, before the ND kids can cement their perception of being alone).

Not sure if I should make this a post or keep it in the Daily Chat.

4SSh01e · 2023-08-01T15:35:49+00:00

Yesterday I was riding home from the gym and on the way I saw my friend walking with his friend (a girl), we talked some and we were discussing how she met her boyfriend. She had met him at the club we frequent to but that's irrelevant, the relevant part is that at some she acknowledged in plain words that at first she thought he was very average and that most girls can have any man they want if they take the first step and I guess the reverse is not true. This came after a girl rode by who my friend said was pinned under the barbell yesterday night when she was bench pressing, he saved her from that predicament and she was coming on to him HARD and it was a unique experience for him to have someone come on to him like that and him having to turn her down.

old_new_age · 2023-08-01T15:52:32+00:00

I wish I actually liked my career, I majored in STEM and got a nice programming job but I spend most of my free time/downtime at work writing books and sketches and editing videos. I just figured this world isn't very kind to writing/film majors (it isn't) and went for the money, but in a way I think this made me more unattractive.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-01T15:54:13+00:00

Is Lift still missing?

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-01T15:54:39+00:00

The female trigger fish in my husband’s tank would rather be single and alone than partner up with the male trigger fish, and I feel so bad for him because he’s really a very handsome and kind fish, and he’s trying his best to woo her… maybe she is just gay?

Alexa, play “Pink Triangle” by Weezer

Peacesquad · 2023-08-01T15:54:52+00:00

Women lowkey love inequality and sexism. All the benefits go to them not men😂🤣

Peacesquad · 2023-08-01T16:09:44+00:00

Chad vs Tyrone: Dawn of Justice

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-01T16:13:51+00:00

Do you think if you lose weight with cardio as part of your plan, you end up looking better than someone who just focused on their diet? Take weight lifting out of the picture, do people who do cardio usually look better at the same weight as a sedentary person? Or does it not make a difference

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-01T16:46:32+00:00

Q4M: Would you tell the girls you are interested in that you have RP beliefs?

DerayRevan · 2023-08-01T16:53:34+00:00

Makeup and mirrors bought at my workplace proves women still wanna be feminine in the workspace

Now every break you'll find at least three women doing their shit at the mirror

And am just there wondering why l should take them serious as co-workers

In fact everytime we postpone work for a birthday celebration it's always a female, when guys have a birthday they just don't bring it up at all because at least they come to work for work and nothing else

AdOpen432 · 2023-08-01T16:55:23+00:00

I found out today one of my friends cant cum and i was shook like wow never take what you have for granted guys

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-01T17:00:13+00:00

Nah im sad asf I didn't get into JP, ik in the long term im not gonna not care and see this as a character building moment, but as of now im down. I studied thier questions from the last couple months and still got some stupid shit I never seen before

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-01T17:01:49+00:00

What % of women want casual sex in a non self damaging kind of way?

YourReasonToSmile · 2023-08-01T17:05:22+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a guy that will make you wait for sex until marriage?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-08-01T17:23:03+00:00

Given that women will lie about anything to protect either themselves individually or women as a group has got me wondering - what other well-established concepts regarding women and relationships are in fact just a psyop?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-01T17:32:12+00:00

Imagine getting salty that women wear makeup to work and want to celebrate coworkers’ birthdays. 😂😂😂😂😂 That is the more “Ew girls have cooties” I have ever seen from an adult.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-01T17:39:22+00:00

One of the biggest problems guys have is sourcing women

I knew guys even with two girlfriends already, they would still talk to other attractive girls

Because understood very well, if you don't consistently source girls then your gonna end up struggling

baiser_vole · 2023-08-01T17:47:44+00:00

Idk. Am I crazy to think the women who actually do put on makeup and/or try to look good could be more based since they could be more aware a lot of their mate value comes from their looks?

SoulBadguy0408 · 2023-08-01T17:51:08+00:00

Could becoming a fighter help in getting girls? Feels stupid, but honestly, I'm thinking, why not tbh

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-01T17:53:01+00:00

How can gender be fluid and a social construct at the same time? I understand people have gender dysphoria but doesn't that mean they feel a distinction between the gender they were assigned and the gender they feel like? And if this distinction is just socially constructed, why go through the trouble of surgery, hormones, things to alter yourself physically?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-01T17:54:46+00:00

Why is desiring novelty a bad thing? Who wants a time loop of a life? Same food, same sex positions, same everything is not a fun or fulfilling life.

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-01T17:56:17+00:00

If there are more than 2 genders, why do many with gender dysphoria either state a preference or feeling toward one of two genders (man or woman), and the rest simply say they don't prefer either of the two genders (nonbinary)?

YourReasonToSmile · 2023-08-01T17:58:27+00:00

-Women: We don't like virgins!

-Men: Okay, I guess we get some experience.

-Men: We don't like high n-counts!

-Women: Misogynist! Pig! Insecure!

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-08-01T18:06:12+00:00

me: *gets older*

body: I know you put in a lot of work into looking good on the outside, but have you considered I'm just going to fall apart on the inside instead?

I'm too poor for all these god damn co-pays.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T18:24:52+00:00

When the scribes and Pharisees came to Jesus who was teaching, they brought unto him a woman taken in adultery. They made her stand before them all. "This woman was caught in the very act of adultery. Our law commands that such a woman must be stoned to death. Now, what do you say"?

They said this to trap Jesus so that they could accuse him. But he bent over and wrote on the ground with his finger. Until he straightened up to say :

"He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her"

Left speechless and burdened by their own conscience, the scribes and pharisees left and went out one by one, letting the woman go.

Absolute Giga Chad. You can't outwit or trick the king.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-01T18:37:27+00:00

Am sorry but anyone using a smart watch generally has a boring life

It literally does the same thing as your phone which is tell the time, only difference is your reading emails harder

Then you get people who say

"Oh l need to know my heart or how many steps l took today"

You went your entire life without that information but now all of a sudden that's important information

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-01T18:49:39+00:00

IMO, men who don't care about n-counts are actually more attractive, even if you're a virgin.

These guys have BDE (big dick energy), otherwise known as Not-Giving-A-Fuck, That's-Not-My-Business, I-Ain't-Scared, Let-Me-Whisper-in-Your-Ear, Casually-Parallel-Parking, Proud-Swifty, Braiding-My-Daughters'-Hair, Unbothered, or good old-fashioned Confident™.

Even if you don't have a high n-count, it's nice to know he wouldn't judge you if you did.

Source: When I was a virgin, nobody asked, nobody gave a fuck, and they haven't since.

NalkaNalka · 2023-08-01T19:03:30+00:00

What is it with these people that think that company they work for is the temple of work, serious busyness only, muh professional. That eeek out at anyone being a human being during the majority of the day that people dedicate to earning enough money to pay their bills?

Oh noes they celebrated someone's birthday that is in interruption to our most sacred labors. Someone made a joke, SHUSH don't you dare giggle in the presence of the altar of labor. Someone had an emotion or flirted during the hallowed working hours, Let the god of HR smite those sinners.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-01T19:08:22+00:00

"Women will have learn to share attractive men and their privileges"

Women since the beginning of time have always shared a high-status man

Even now you go to clubs you'll get 1-2 guys sitting at the table and a bunch of women surrounding them

Same thing in other mammal females

So they don't have to learn since it's always been in their biology to share the best man

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-01T19:16:43+00:00

Husband has been taking me to excellent dates recently, last weekend he took me to an animal farm. It’s nice to have someone who supports my childish interests, quite healing.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T19:33:03+00:00

Let us try to be grateful. Young men like Mac Miller had the world at their feet but all the sexual access didn't save him. As long as you're healthy and breathing, there is hope.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-01T19:33:26+00:00

Is someone going around forcing men to marry? Every there's a new thread about how marriage is terrible. Usually written by someone who hasn't even been in a long-term relationship. It's weird to hear the constant complaints about something that nobody ever asked them to do.

Don't marry if you don't want to. Plenty of men do want to get married.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-01T19:36:06+00:00

how is asking for a woman her n-count more offensive than asking a man his age. yes, I'm a 45 year old man trying to date 18 year old girls, but actually, my age doesn't matter because my past doesn't matter

DerayRevan · 2023-08-01T19:41:57+00:00

You know what l've all this people who wanna speak about sexual self-control towards men are basically telling them what do with their private part

"Self control this xyz is must for men"

"Abstain from any sexual temptation"

"Lust is bad"

They are just basically telling you what you should do with your biology

And if your ok with that then ok

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-01T19:48:26+00:00

can lettuce cause farting?

I hadn't had a salad in months (not because I don't eat healthy I just have been eating steamed veggies like brussels sprouts and coulfrlower)

today I had a salad

2 hours later I started farting like crazy

everything else in my diet was what I eat normally

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-01T19:52:00+00:00

How many people count making out as adding to an n-count? Cuddling? Holding hands? Going on dates? Relationships without sex?

What if she's been engaged twice but is still a virgin?

jobbo321 · 2023-08-01T20:00:54+00:00

What's the best part-time job to know more young people apart from a supermarket?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T20:02:10+00:00

I still don’t understand why I should feel sorry at all for people who die fighting or fleeing from the police.

“Noooooo, Not my heckin drug dealer, he was such an upstanding citizen”

redheadtingz · 2023-08-01T20:27:36+00:00

Being divorced and dating other divorced people is so much easier and fun than neither party being married before. I’m 28, but most other divorced people are a little bit older. No one gives a fuck about n-count, most people don’t play games, and they like to fuck. It feels a lot less judgmental since we’ve both made mistakes and we’re mature enough to see each other as good people.

I’m with a 41 year old divorcee and we got engaged very quickly, but we’re trying the long engagement thing. Neither of us have kids, but we want some. It’s really the best relationship of my life.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-01T20:46:58+00:00

It really is funny to me how it's always women complaining about n-count preferences. Men don't complain about being virgin or the dislike of male virgins half as much as women complain about men's preference for low n-count women. Always talking about how judgy it feels, lmao big deal that's how most preferences feel, men deal with the high standards and preferences of women all the time. Women should learn to deal with some of men's preferences too. And also learn how to chill and let people have their preferences without insulting them.

relish5k · 2023-08-01T20:49:24+00:00

I just don’t see why a woman would get married in 2023 when it doesn’t to help advance the political machinations of your family’s dynastic ambitions.

Like, why should I marry you if it’s not going to result in favorable trade relations or control over disputed border territory?

Accomplished_Pie_153 · 2023-08-01T20:57:32+00:00

if i started a new society and desired bluepill to be perceived as real by that society, how would i go about doing that?

i'd create laws.

Law #1: We stone female adulterers.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-01T21:12:56+00:00

Q4W: How many women do you think you have spoken to about men, dating, and relationships so far in your life? These can be conversations with friends, acquaintances, random girls in club bathrooms, etc.

(My answer below)

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-01T21:19:46+00:00

The wall is real, if it wasn't the phrase "never ask a women her age." or other insecurities regarding women age would not be a thing.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-02T02:33:37+00:00

Everyone here is a loser. I will escape

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-02T03:18:02+00:00

being banned from a sub is like going to jail huh

So you're basically saying restricting and censoring someone's difference of opinion is okay because atleast they didn't send the person to jail?

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-08-02T03:21:21+00:00

Huh it seems like someone has blocked me. Seeing some [unavailable] comments

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-08-02T03:18:09+00:00

I guess mommy and daddy aren't giving someone enough attention...

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-02T03:14:50+00:00

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Django_5 · 2023-08-02T03:10:18+00:00

You can't force women to have lower standards, that's going against nature and is unjust. You can't force men to be less attracted to women, thats against nature and unjust.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-02T03:06:03+00:00

Men, even if she doesn't put out on the first date, keep seeing other women while you play the long game with her, eventually she'll trust you and you'll have sex.

After that you just ghost her and keep having sex with the other girls.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-08-02T03:04:03+00:00

Eat my nuts, @mods

https://imgur.com/a/Ew4wKnp

SianOiseau · 2023-08-02T02:54:13+00:00

I can't figure out whether the guy who constantly talks about women not liking sex is trying to justify himself paying for it or trying to convince himself that everyone is in deadbedroom just as he is?

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-02T02:36:08+00:00

$175

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-08-02T02:33:02+00:00

What are your arbitrary dating “icks”? Mine? Men with cats. Every man I’ve ever considered dating who had a cat turned out to be so weird. But I also don’t like cats.

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-02T02:15:16+00:00

Does anybody here know what a "pleasure dom" is

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-02T02:08:52+00:00

How does one stop overthinking and find happiness when they feel empty

Expert-Judge9762 · 2023-08-02T02:06:29+00:00

Hetero women sexuality kinda disgusts me. The desire and need for attention and validation and the getting off to how attractive and desired you are.

Like I sympathize when women say male sexuality is disgusting. But they literally don't understand how they are disgusting themselves.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-02T01:39:11+00:00

If the Oppenheimer movie was supposed to make me feel sympathetic to Oppenheimer it did a bad job.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-02T01:38:29+00:00

I don't get why women care so much about how attractive other women or society thinks a man is.

Women get more or less attracted based on whether a guy is seen as attractive by other women or in society and popular media. If she likes a guy but her friends thinks he's ugly or too short etc, she'll stop being attracted to him and not like him anymore. If she's not attracted to a guy initially, but her friends say he's hot or gush about how tall he is, she'll become attracted to him. This is what people are talking about when they say women are a hivemind.

Men have their own standards. Men are elated to meet a woman they find attractive who other men don't find attractive because it means they have less competition. They're taking advantage in an inefficiency of the market because they value the woman a lot more than the market does, so they get more value while paying the same price.

The female hivemind is the reason for the 80/20 phenomenon. Most women like the same men because they're literally deciding how attractive a man is based on whether other women like him.

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-02T01:36:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/entertainment/comments/15fgrkd/former_lizzo_dancers_were_weightshamed_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

Remember when Reddit had r/fatpeoplehate ?

I miss those days.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-02T01:16:35+00:00

Mike Tyson talking about "tough guys" in prison :

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/J8Mkj2G0gCE

Would you classify this as masculine or toxic ?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-08-02T01:14:43+00:00

Eine kleine Nachtmusik

finch2200 · 2023-08-02T01:06:30+00:00

Given that the kind of comments and posts I’ve seen here have gotten other subreddits shutdown, I’m kind of surprised that this place seems to be thriving.

Hope it continues.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-02T00:40:39+00:00

Millennial and gen z men are going to suffer when they hit their late 30s & 40s

purplish_possum · 2023-08-02T00:37:44+00:00

My 14-year-old daughter got an A in her first college course. She's on her way to being one of those educated career women so many here hate.

Accomplished_Pie_153 · 2023-08-02T00:34:01+00:00

some posts on various subs have like a girl who says her brother is struggling, and that she couldn't believe it when he told her.

sister claims he's above average, tall, etc. often described as 7/10, normal, fun guy, goes to bars, smart, etc.

i think i believe these women. they grew up with their brother and lived with him and know him.

if you really look, there is too much shit that is saying "Dudes are struggling out there."

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-02T00:17:08+00:00

is the 2 months salary on an engagement ring before taxes or after? I can never imagine spending 37.5K on a ring (not that the post tax number isn't ridiculous)

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-02T00:15:43+00:00

Favorite porn site is having a flash sale. Gonna have to take advantage of it. The few people I've found who would reupload this stuff as soon as it released have stopped posting. Sucks that what I'm into isn't very mainstream

I will post how much I end up spending in a later comment

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-02T00:10:14+00:00

I'm putting on my gas mask before I plunge into the polyamory subreddit.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-02T00:06:54+00:00

I'm always amazed that men here think they'll know if a woman had sex immediately on a first date or not.

jobbo321 · 2023-08-01T23:46:49+00:00

Q4A: You're pregnant (or your wife is) and you live in the future. The doctor tells you with 99% accuracy that your son will be 5"2 as his final adult height.

But there is hope: there is a reliable and safe pill that makes your son grow to 6"2. The pill costs 2 million USD and is not covered by insurance.

There are several banks offering loans for this pill. It would financially cripple you for the forseeable future. Do you get your son the pill or not?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T23:41:43+00:00

The people who raised them have no right to complain about a younger generation, they’re your fault.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-01T23:33:28+00:00

Is virgin guys expecting sex after 3 dates from virgin girls something that actually happens?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-01T23:26:31+00:00

Pop Base on Twitter: "Lizzo has been sued by three of her former dancers for alleged sexual harassment and creating a hostile work environment, including instances where they were weight-shamed and pressured while at a strip club. https://t.co/aqmszuUDwK" / X

fat acceptance movement's 9/11

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T23:19:00+00:00

One thing I agree with is how movies and Hollywood do a terrible job of depicting how relationships work or even seduction for that matter.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-01T23:05:42+00:00

Pretty sure I almost died the other day.

Wife and I were planning a frisky night and so I took 50 mg of Cialis in the morning. Then another 20 later in the afternoon.

Max daily is 40mg.

About an hour after my 2nd dose, my heart rate skyrocketed and I started seeing double, trouble walking, etc.

This went on for about an hour then calmed down.

But god damn I was hard as granite!!

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-01T23:04:38+00:00

"I miss when average guys could have sex."

"... the average guy is having sex.."

"... Well yeah, but they actually have to put in effort and it's not guaranteed and he actually is expected to leave his house and a woman has to find him attractive and it's not like it ought to be, with a guy ordering a woman over like pizza and not having to try at all."

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-01T23:03:28+00:00

Promiscuous woman minding her own business:

Man who "hates" promiscuous women yet secretly wants to smash them: 😡

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T23:00:04+00:00

The young mother worries and cares for her son.

The old mother still worries and cares for son as if he were still her little child.

https://youtu.be/FQnJ3sifNQQ?t=24

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-01T22:52:12+00:00

Q4M: Why is a women having a bad relationship or absent relationship with her father worse than men who don't have a relationship with their father?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T22:46:15+00:00

I dont understand why I sleep so bad. Im tired all the time. I also always wake up constantly. It can't be the matress.. or could it ?!

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-01T22:43:41+00:00

Two friends got married this weekend. Two more broke up with their boyfriends. I'm here for hot wife summer or hot girl summer!

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-01T22:37:22+00:00

I don't care about n-count at all. I'm completely unaffected by it and don't pay any attention to how many people others choose to have sex with.

Now here's a ten-page manifesto about why women with high n-counts are bad and why no man should seriously date a woman with a high n-count and why virgin women are prizes. Just keep in mind that I literally couldn't care less about this topic at all, okay??!

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-01T22:25:25+00:00

It's wild how someone can get called a misogynist for having a more positive view on Women and viewing them as more capable than someone else views them

No, Women have not been enslaved by Men for all of human history. No we aren't living in a patriarchy

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-01T22:10:11+00:00

I feel like I missed the golden ages of 2000s PUA when the average man could actually get laid.

Women were still going out to bars and clubs to meet new people instead of just hanging out with their friends like they do now because they couldn't use online dating to meet men.
Women were a lot more starved for attention without social media, so you could be an ugly mofo but if you were the one man who noticed her out of weeks or months, then she would be swooned and flattered. I feel like this is where the "just be confident and bold" advice comes from. In the old boomer times, telling her she's pretty would actually work sometimes because she wasn't constantly getting validated.
You weren't compared to all the Chads hitting up her social media and dating apps. It was easier to be part of the local top 20% in the immediate area or venue she is at. Now, you're always compared to the hundreds of men talking to her through her phone.
You could spam approach and the worst that can happen to you is getting kicked out by a bouncer. Now, people can record you or post online about you and make you unemployable and branded a creep forever for one bad approach or even a good approach that is interpreted wrong.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-01T22:06:01+00:00

Someone needs to make a social media value, I mean a social market value, formula. Far too many men here say "average man" when they really mean "below average". If there was a formula, we could all be on the same page. Instead, everything is subjective to our individualized perspectives.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-01T21:50:55+00:00

On the topic of n count, it's interesting how it's normally viewed as something only men care about. I rememeber not too long after my fiance and I started dating, she brought up the topic by asking me mine. I told her then asked her, which she replied (and ngl I was kinda skeptical at first). She then told me that her ex bf had a body count of 8, and she thought that was disgusting. Her reason for thinking that is because they met in their early 20s and apparently that is a lot by that time. She also brought it up at least one more time and expressed the same sentiment, I forget the context though.

Q4W, do you care about a man's body count and if so, what is "too much"?

OriginalThought171 · 2023-08-01T21:47:44+00:00

Q4A: If you're having a fight with your partner and they start comparing you to their shitty ex and saying things like "i can't do this again". What would you do? Like what if you really love them and don't wanna lose them?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-01T21:43:11+00:00

The sexual tension between PPDers and ThE ToP 20% is palpable

get a room

meteorness123 · 2023-08-01T21:29:44+00:00

I feel like there's hardly anything more pathetic than a man complaining that he's not attractive enough. Physical illness and deformation aside.

Accomplished_Pie_153 · 2023-08-01T21:22:14+00:00

in bluepill society, an adulteress is completely deranged, lunatic. Because she has met her soulmate, marriage is forever and personality is everything, and looks are nothing. Why would she have sex with another man who is hot? She must be a complete psychopath. She could have an evil soul. She might be demonic, or it may be a trait that real Witches have.

in blackpill society, a woman has desires, so it would be completely normal for her to have an affair if she had an opportunity, and she found the other man extremely attractive. It would be stupid to stone her for that. It would even be stupid if you force someone like that to stay in their marriage. These are normal things. The options can be divorce, reconciliation, or even open relationship.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-01T21:21:56+00:00

If you wanna see more average couples, search for reaction videos on YouTube. Lots of couples laughing and crying together, watching movies, listening to music, etc.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-01T21:20:01+00:00

Women complain about men only wanting sex from them and think the alternative is sunshine and rainbows where men are all just nice to them and putting a lot of effort into getting to know them for no reason.

No, the alternative is not being wanted at all. Men will barely acknowledge you and will make no effort to talk to you. If you try to talk to men, they'll treat you like you're the uncool kid at school and barely respond to you. You'll have to put in a lot of effort and do emotional labor to get even a few men to respond positively to you.

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