Daily Community Chat Megathread

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-15T23:58:18+00:00

Hey folks, I just want to say that as awful as some of you are, most of you are pretty thoughtful people, and I really enjoy reading you idiots argue all the time. I've read some really incredibly insightful things on here, and while it isn't as simple as red vs. blue, I'd say there are reasonable arguments on "both sides" of every debate–or rather, across all of the spectrum.

But if I had to sum up all this entire debate on why dating sucks: either you adapt, or you die.

QED.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T23:48:24+00:00

I swear I hate everything. I just watched this new Cinderella Japanese movie called once upon a crime and in the movie Cinderella almost gets a$$ulted and then Cinderella una lives him in self defense AND THEN once she gets caught everyone tries to frame HER as the bad guy I’m so sick of this bullshit… reason why I don’t watch anime

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-15T23:31:18+00:00

The goal is to focus on career and staying in shape in my 20's to be a high-tier beta bux in my 30s.

Cethlinnstooth · 2023-09-15T23:26:48+00:00

Someone should metaphorically horsewhip Jordan Peterson in a public square for what he has done to young men's ideas of what constitutes adequate support for an argument.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-15T23:12:29+00:00

This cold is weird. Makes me feel sick when I look at food, but if I start eating, I can. I just don't want to.

DivineDaedra · 2023-09-15T23:11:53+00:00

Just ate oatmeal that expired a year ago.

Wish me luck

Edit: for legal reasons I will specify that it was a type of oatmeal that theoretically stays good up to 2 years past the expiration date and it was still sealed+checked for mold. I’m a fool but not that much of a fool

Maractop · 2023-09-15T22:48:21+00:00

Why is saying hi and introducing myself the only thing I have a hard time doing? I guess the 1st step really is the hardest part

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-09-15T22:41:22+00:00

I can't even imagine what I would talk about with a dude. so Q4M once you land a gf/date what do u even talk about... esp if u don't share hobbies or any activities whatsoever

Ok-Application-7614 · 2023-09-15T22:34:28+00:00

It literally feels like your brain is free when you quit porn/masturbation.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-15T22:19:53+00:00

The difference between dating younger people as a man and as a woman is that younger women can treat men better in ways older women can't, while women can already get everything they want from older men. Younger women can give superior dating experiences to men.

For the average man, very few (healthy bodied) women will look at you and treat like you're their everything or show that they're really into you. It really only happens with younger experienced women. It's a rare occurrence to meet a woman who seems very attracted to you, and the only way the average man can get this experience is by dating younger experienced women.

But women can get decent or attractive men who are very attracted to her, and who will treat her like she is everything with little to no effort on her part. Some women pretend like they are so superior for not seeing younger men as dating options, but it's just from the privilege of dating being easy for them and being able to get everything they want out of dating.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T22:19:26+00:00

How to stop smiling or laughing when hearing bad news? I literally swear on my grandfathers grave that it’s not because I think it’s funny. I think it’s like a nervous reaction or shocked reaction but it’s really insensitive and I would like it to stop happening to me. I feel terrible and I GENUINELY don’t find bad things funny. I hate it so much.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T22:14:02+00:00

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1808869415313938

Idiopathic hypertrophy of the masseter muscle is a rare disorder of unknown cause.

>TFW you are so ugly what you have is known as a "rare disorder"

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-15T22:00:36+00:00

The term 'orgasm gap' seems stupid to me, as if any orgasm for a guy means that it was good.

afk_row · 2023-09-15T22:00:00+00:00

I think most people don’t mind trans people but they are only transphobic because most trans people don’t pass and kinda ugly. When a trans person genuinely passes they don’t need to tell people their pronouns people will assume they are the gender they present themselves as.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-15T21:42:45+00:00

In comparison with internet women, my IRL female friends are very red pilled and based.

Also they don't behave like a tribe of sisters fighting against evil men.

So I find it very amusing when western women think that all these little red pills are a product of evil mysigonistic men...

When in reality I have female friends calling out other women for AF/BB, leading guys on, cheating... behaving like trash and acting like nice girls.

Same goes for IRL men.

It's more like a tribe of decent men and women, calling out trash which tries to appear as members of decent tribe.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-15T21:41:23+00:00

I wish people would stop posting their corn to SFW subreddit. I don't want to see that shit.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T21:35:46+00:00

Why do people here think women don't select based off intelligence ? Women are not attracted to men that are significantly less intelligent than them. What you really mean is that intelligence in high levels and a stand-alone trait is not enough if you're below average in every other realm (here comes the stereotype of the smart but emotionally stunted guy into play).

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T21:34:07+00:00

[Name] currently presents with class II malocclusion, retrusive, hypo-divergent mandible and brachycephalic profile. At the intial consultation, we presented combined orthognathic-orthodontic treatment including pre-surgical orthodontic treatment to regain the space for bilateral congenital missing lateral incisors, followed by maxilla-mandible advancement surgery to increase upper incisor display and lower third facial height. Adjunctive botox injection may be recommended given [Name] short face and hypertrophy masticatory muscle. [Name] is open to orthognathic surgery to improve his short face profile but shared some concerns with regards to long-term stability given that he is a competitive boxer

TheAutismPill · 2023-09-15T21:24:13+00:00

The 'no incel/black-pill content' "rule" should be changed to no content critical incel/black-pill content. At least some of the mods here are obviously biased and want to cultivate a black pill echo chamber. I've had multiple threads I've made recently deleted and the only feasible reason is that they were challenging incel/black-pill dogma.

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-15T21:12:01+00:00

Today I was at a busy and hip cafe in NYC, close to the NYU campus, and the girl sitting in front of me was playing on her phone for about an hour while sipping her coffee. I like to go to cafes to people watch, get out of the apartment, get a coffee or snack, and do a bit of work (though tbh these places are very distracting so I rarely get much done). I also just get a real kick out of observing people out in the wild (judge people by their actions, etc).

Anyway, this girl was compulsively flipping back and forth between instagram and tiktok (as most people mindlessly stare at their screens all day), but occasionally she'd open hinge and swipe through some profiles. I could see pretty clearly from my phone that she 1) could not have possibly read any of the content in the profiles and 2) spent at most 1-3 seconds on each profile, usually just looking at the first and sometimes second photo, then hitting the X to reject them. I watched her hit X on (reject) at least 100 profiles, and I never saw her actually smash the like button or (gasp) make an effort by writing a message. It was impossible not to look with the way she was sitting directly in front of my line of sight.

The most fascinating thing about this to me was that she was obese and had a rather unattractive face, almost slightly deformed. If I were to guess, she was in her early 20s, possibly an NYU student, and she had a bad fashion sense by NYC standards (she was wearing poorly fitting pants, an oversized hoodie, and her hair was unkempt and greasy). And yet, her ego was so big that she thought all these dudes on hinge (who, tbh, looked like perfectly normal and dateable guys to me) were beneath her. Of course, I'm making an assumption based on her hitting the X on all these dudes that she wasn't interested based on the photos alone, but the guys I saw coming up in her feed were relatively handsome, none of them were really ugly, and I'd say 80% of them were definitely far more attractive than her.

Anyway, just some fun anecdata for folks curious about the NYC dating market. The difference between how women perceive themselves versus how they actually are in real life in terms of value as mates is remarkable to me.

For context, I'm a 38m, have dated plenty of attractive women, but I've found that dating is MUCH harder now than it was 5-10 years ago (for me, at least).

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-15T21:11:02+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CvdV6fJoWtg/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T21:03:23+00:00

I kind of wanna fuck my high school crush who also had a crush on me but nothing really major really happened back then. You know to get closure, kind of. Any chance of this happening at a reunion ?

potoricco · 2023-09-15T20:54:54+00:00

From trad guy:

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“They love to post this image to mock and degrade it. To me, as an obstetric care provider, this image represents the typical bodies of many women in later middle age who are "grand multiparas"- they've had more than 5 children. I'm someone who stays a size 2 so this isn't personal to me but I have to wonder- What do you say about a political movement that tells you to bear many children as possible? And then delights in mocking the body that will be the result of that choice for many women? Govern yourself accordingly ladies.”

Sufficient-Ice-5400 · 2023-09-15T20:52:14+00:00

If you're going through Hell, keep going!

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T20:44:04+00:00

Question for people who have seen my picture, shaved, so they can see what my mouth looks like.

https://www.seattleoms.com/oral-surgery-services/jaw-surgery/

Do you think it's worth it?

I already talked to insurance. They will cover it completely because of the photos I sent to them from the orthodontist.

I don't want to get braces first, I want to do the jaw surgery first and then do braces afterwards.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T20:33:04+00:00

went to mcdonalds, fat slobs with their wives and girlfriends everywhere. Blue pill stands strong.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-09-15T20:32:29+00:00

You know that kid you saw growing up, or even now, that dogs always seemed to pick on. Jumping on them, dominance humping etc. The dog just knew, this is the kid to fuck with. I always wondered what happens to those kids when they grow up, do they fear dogs or what, but now I think a lot of them just end up on here...

Slipthe · 2023-09-15T20:31:11+00:00

Does every incel have a dad that is as short and ugly as them (in their opinion)?

Or did the incel just become the singularity of the worst genetics from both of their parents?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-15T20:05:46+00:00

Apple isn't maximizing the status of their phones. If they made each iphone iteration look unique, then when the new one releases, I could buy it and wave it around like a status symbol or curiosity item for healthy bodied women to approach me at the bar "cool is that the new iPhone AutomaticMeaning3844? Let me see!"

But instead they all just look at the same, so people can't see you flex it.

Preme2 · 2023-09-15T20:04:07+00:00

I’ll talk about it since it’s trending on X/Twitter.

Jeannie Mai and her ex husband (nice guy) divorced because she did not want to have children. They were married 11 years.

Jeannie Mai later meets a rapper named Young Jeezy (bad boy) and they get married. However, she decides to have a child with him even though though she refused to have a child with her ex husband. Today it’s announced Young Jeezy has filed for divorce from Jeannie Mai after 2 short years.

You can’t make it up. Women’s psychology on full display.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T20:03:21+00:00

Is chipotle healthy 😇

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-15T19:56:03+00:00

Inspired about the question re: Women with mostly male friends.

Q4W: What do you think of guys with mostly female friends?

Especially curious what you all think, since around two thirds of my friends are women.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-15T19:36:08+00:00

Did you put any thought into your reddit name or did you just go with whichever was recommended? If you did, what is the meaning behind it?

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-09-15T19:35:33+00:00

Today is the last day at my current job. I'm sad to leave but excited for the next step in my journy. Unfortunetly I have less than 2 weeks to pack, move, and get settled in a new state before my new job starts. Wish me luck!

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-15T19:33:07+00:00

TIL I ruined society and am responsible for countless deaths because I didn't get pregnant and married as a teenager.

Must be Asylum Day today

Bonus: I don't have a properly functioning reproductive system so....either I'm high and don't know it or it's definitely Asylum Day.

gabejohn · 2023-09-15T19:27:23+00:00

The amount of gaslighting and cope on that one thread about why some men get more access to sex than others is hilarious. "Just be more charismatic and have a can-do attitude bro!" Fuck, it's amazing.

Females, both human and in animal form, decide who gets to sire based on the male's genetics. That's all there is to it. Genetic dead-ends quickly get killed off by a bigger animal or starved to death in the wild. But thanks to the modern world, their human counterparts are able to survive while females still wants to mate with better genes.

Just look what animals do, extrapolate their behaviour and suprise suprise, humans do mostly the same thing. Female animals are the ultimate euginicists, constantly selecting the best genes to advance the next generation. How do these people think we exist in the current world? Does one fish have a better personality than the other fish? Does one monkey know more funny banana facts than the other?

People want to make things needlessly complex, especially women's preferences.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T19:22:45+00:00

Im deadass gonna become a tutor

My brother has his high school placement exam in January and im tutoring him so he doesn’t become a dumbass and so that he can come to my school

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-15T18:50:01+00:00

A friend told me that my husband looks like David Hasselhoff and now I can’t unsee it 😭

sine120 · 2023-09-15T18:40:58+00:00

If the DoD really wants to weaken our enemies, they should just send their training videos to their adversaries and let them die of boredom.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-15T18:38:08+00:00

The real double standard is that women can have double standards but men can't.

When a shy woman wants a confident, funny, charming man, a poor woman wants a rich man and a short woman wants a tall man, no one bats an eye.

When a man wants to have casual sex and also only have relationships with women who don't sleep around (or even just the second part by itself), everybody goes crazy.

AspiringMogger · 2023-09-15T18:31:27+00:00

I’m a romantic at heart. I genuinely can’t c*pe with female nature

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-09-15T18:29:06+00:00

Self love is not buying yourself nice things and watching Netflix. Self love is delaying gratification with exercise, mindfulness, eating right, and working on things that you know will make you proud when you eventually accomplish them.

u/[deleted]

phosphophyllitekun · 2023-09-15T18:26:16+00:00

If Alexis Ohanian was a foot shorter he wouldn't be with Serena Williams he would be browsing PPD. Height > all

Zabadoodude · 2023-09-15T18:21:49+00:00

According to genetic analysis only 1 in 4 men reproduced throughout most of human history. This makes me wonder what incels in other eras were saying.

"Maidens say they want pious guys but always go for godless viking assholes. Pious guys truly finish last!"

"Beta-bux legionares fight for Rome for 25 years just to get a wife that's been ran through by Alpha barbarians"

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T18:08:30+00:00

Oh my god idea: PPD fight club

We should hold a tournament.

We'll have a Red pill vs blue pill team match where all the blue pillers and the red pillers have to do a King of the Hill type cage match where if you get knocked out or subbed the next person on your team gets in there. And whichever pill wins is declared the most Alpha and the other pill is Beta Bucks.

Is this just an excuse for me to beat up a bunch of untrained people? Yes.

I'm serial about this. I will fly all of you out to where we decide to do this.

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-09-15T18:00:55+00:00

Why men judging women that they're only chasing top guys but at the same time they said things like cheating is normal for men and non virgin women are s*uts? I mean why your instincts are good but women's are 💩? If we based on instincts wanting tall or rich men is in women"s instincts. So?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-15T17:48:51+00:00

Some of you guys are indeed betas, why would you down vote some one you having a debate with.

Bro, I have never down voted any one here not even the rad fems. Down voting is clown behaviour for real.

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4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T04:00:56+00:00

first for myself

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-15T04:04:25+00:00

Me: I don't have any guys chasing me.

Dude: You just don't see them as people.

Me: ???

That's one hell of an assumption to jump to. I should go to sleep instead of arguing with people like that.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-09-15T04:08:15+00:00

https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Minimum-and-maximum-preferred-height-means-AE-SE-in-relation-to-subject-height-for-men_fig3_236670565

this study on speed dating with over 5000 total subjects in Canada and the US found that women's stated minimum preferred height in a partner is around 5'7" to 5'10" on average, depending on her own height.

in other words, if you are a guy who is 5'7" or shorter a majority of women will likely filter you out immediately for that reason alone. before even going into the other standards and preferences women have.

and women here will still try to gaslight short guys into thinking height doesn't matter that much lol.

Master-Gene-8382 · 2023-09-15T04:19:47+00:00

Anyone else find it kinda crazy the amount of random statistics that are posted in every thread from both sides with no links or source besides “trust me bro” 🤔

Worldly-Designer1686 · 2023-09-15T04:40:37+00:00

Any women dating problem exists My advice -Choose better men🤠🤠🤠

Only advice that can legit work if women follow

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-15T04:53:49+00:00

I feel like if it wasn't for the internet and people having the ability to see pictures of you and private message you, the average schlubby dudes attention, you know that guy you met IRL who approaches you and tries to spit game, I think it may have actually have been worth more than absolutely nothing.

But bc thirsty men are legit a dime a dozen and we know how thirsty most men are bc they're legit BEGGING us for attention, they've all basically devalued themselves.

The only valuable male attention at that point are good looking guys, rich guys, etc. Or for me, schizoids who show obvious signs of mental illness. Now that's special.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-15T05:17:56+00:00

Q4W, how would your life change if all men took rejection well?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T05:19:46+00:00

My take is that a lot of incels, the one who hate women, have the following problem:

They have reverse body dismorphia.

Imagine if I had body dysmorphia and I genuinely believed I was a 4 or 5 out of 10. I'd be justifiably bitter (still not justifiably angry at women though) that it's impossible for me to form connection with women that I meet out in the world and I'd swallow all the red pill bullshit about how "Wahhh women only want Chad".

Because I'm able to accurately evaluate myself I can go "Yeah, I wouldn't want anything to do with me either, who would? My face looks fucking disgusting. There's nothing wrong with women wanting nothing to do with me. Women are people just like men are and they're visual creatures.".

Incels on the other hand will whine and moan about how it's women's fault that they don't want to look at a face that looks like someone intentionally disfigured it through intensive surgeries and they HATE women for that fact.

We need incels to hate themselves, and to evaluate themselves properly, and they will stop hating women.

BeautifulThoughtes · 2023-09-15T05:19:48+00:00

PPD would be much more entertaining if we could see what everyone looks like.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-15T05:35:42+00:00

If you haven't gotten laid in the past 2 months despite trying to, you're an incel, not because you're a part of some massive hate group, that's not what an incel is, an incel is someone who wants sex but can't get it.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-15T05:57:56+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/hrgq5rl10dob1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=e0e61f8c9518794838e124b4967f0630ca2561c0

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-15T05:59:00+00:00

got downvoted for saying men aren't attracted to short women 💀

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-15T06:29:16+00:00

isn't every guy with enough money to afford a prostitute a volcel and not an incel?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-15T06:51:04+00:00

Q4M: How would your life change if false accusations did not exist?

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-15T07:05:40+00:00

Going to dinner on the first date is so overrated

anonymous375555 · 2023-09-15T07:05:53+00:00

Why a lot of women can’t keep a secret?

What is so hard about that?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-15T07:38:51+00:00

To the people that spend their times worrying about social rejection and being concerned that their friends don't actually like them or secretly hate them, I can promise you that they're not at all thinking about that one time a few years ago where you pissed them off, I promise that.

And if you're looking at a way to maybe strengthen that friendship, just offer to lend a hand to them.

"Oh you're doing some work on the house today? I'm happy to lend a hand if you need it."

People are going to like you a hell of a lot more if you want to go out of your way to help them, it's basic social skills and relationship building yet so many peoples still don't get it.

RadiantEarthGoddess · 2023-09-15T08:27:38+00:00

My mum noticed that I was wearing a binder. Shit.

BigCollectionFor · 2023-09-15T08:32:01+00:00

Ladies, I have a question for you.

What would you say to the men who never get matches when they give their real height. But then start matching with women when they lie about their height?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-15T08:33:25+00:00

https://www.veggieinchiangmai.com/aum-vegetarian/ Where I’m eating my veggies today 🥦🥬🥕🌶️

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-15T09:22:36+00:00

Social media when it's boiled down to its simplicity, is a cult. The whole purpose of social media is designed to:

Make you more depressed
Lower your attention span
It's been scientifically proven that people who check their phone first thing in the morning are 10 IQ points dumber than those that don't. You shouldn't be checking your phone for the first two hours you're awake in the morning.
It's designed to make you more likely to conform to general consensus too, the longer you spend online the more easily swayed you become.

Social media is evil, was designed with the intent of being evil and will content to absolutely fuck with people's minds.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-15T10:19:59+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/VnayxR0ZB78?si=u4GDBX2XltGqZMOt

💀

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-09-15T10:43:12+00:00

At the risk of sounding like a r/niceguy™ , I feel like it's true that the more nice you are the more people treat you like shit and take for granted, guys that are jerks, have had habits, did shitty things still have loving friends, family, and a relationship. A lot of their bad habits get ignored cause "thats just how they are" and people are used to it. But when you're nice everyone's expectations are high, make a small mistake and everyone's mad at you.

As cringe as it is, i wonder if any guys here have tried to put on a more arrogant/reckless bad type persona and how different the people acted

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-15T11:35:57+00:00

I had some chick dare to ask if she could bring her best friend on our first date with us because "She'd heard so much about you, she's really protective of me and wants to make sure I'm safe, you could bring a friend and make it a double date!"

I blocked her right after, didn't even waste my time responding, fuck out of here with that. It's either one on one or it's not a date at all.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T12:00:35+00:00

That is NOT a cat

potoricco · 2023-09-15T12:00:50+00:00

NO SCHOOL

tinasnow-poty · 2023-09-15T12:31:49+00:00

Baking cinnamon rolls for the guy I’m seeing tonight. I can’t bake so wish me luck!

potoricco · 2023-09-15T12:37:33+00:00

“so tired of these dumb statements about how the lonely men "epidemic" imploring women to take a chance on the nerdy loner. women are not romantic or sexual objects to be given to mails like a stress ball so they don’t hurt people.

when women are lonely you all call us cat ladies and laugh about how we'll die alone but when men are lonely suddenly it's on women to start offering our services because apparently all men are entitled to sex no matter what.”

hannahg000 · 2023-09-15T12:39:24+00:00

how do i become less awkward?

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-15T12:58:13+00:00

Redditors can be summed up like this:

"All I want to do is spread negativity and bitch along with everyone else in the comments, I never want to give anyone credit ever, and instead of actually attacking people's arguments and using actual criticism, I'm going to criticise them for the dumbest reasons because I'm too stupid to give real criticism."

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-09-15T13:34:29+00:00

Why do women cross their legs though?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-15T13:50:34+00:00

50-70% of the issues people have here would be greatly reduced or even go away if they become more laid back and take sex/relationships/dating etc less seriously and just chill

odd_cloud · 2023-09-15T14:01:04+00:00

I read Dataclysm by one of the Okcupid creators. He wrote that the algorithms of okcupid estimated attractiveness of people and showed profiles to the people of the same league. So, if all the men at the dating sites are trash, make your conclusions.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-15T14:07:12+00:00

PPD women, is it a red flag if a guy watches Joe Rogan?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-15T14:10:03+00:00

Trying to think of something witty for this link, but it's a handsome homeless guy getting offers of a place to stay.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-15T14:20:18+00:00

the depression is starting to depression again. it was a good run.

hopefully today is just a bad day 🥲

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-15T14:21:02+00:00

So there's a something post on a site that is a certain double chromosome titled "I'm unsure if I should tell my boyfriend this information".

Reading through some of the comments made by, presumably, women ... I am AGHAST.

She didn't want to volunteer this information to her burgeoning relationship out of integrity, or a sense of honesty or anything like that but out to ASSUAGE her own guilt. That is the PRIMARY reason why she shared that with him.

I give credit to this guy who stated simply that he can't continue with someone like that (stating a healthy and reasonable boundary), but seeing women's comments about that is repulsive...

Q4W: How do you live with yourselves? Like, in regular day to day life, with all it's inertia and legitimate responsibilities and agendas, how do you walk around with a low levels of consciousness, integrity and personal honor? How does that even work??

gigrabbit · 2023-09-15T14:36:21+00:00

pushing +40and I still vividly remember every situation where a woman has flirted with me or was just overly nice. It's crazy.

There was spanish woman stroking my chin and calling be handsome in a bar one time over a decade ago and I will never forget it. Remember exactly how she looked what song was playing how she smiled etc.

In contrast, I have two degrees and not only don't I remember my graduation ceremonies I had forgotten what field my first degree was in. It's insane how some of the most trivial things about the few women I've met are etched in my mind forever

No-Regular1667 · 2023-09-15T14:37:03+00:00

Q4W: Is it creepy for a guy to have a celebrity crush?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-15T14:39:04+00:00

Q4W: does your low level of consciousness inhibit you from performing daily tasks and duties??? I assume it must get in the way occasionally

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-15T14:48:36+00:00

Bro, love languages, attachment styles and astrology are all not real. Wake up and reject these delusions.

Embrace radical accountability and discipline.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-15T14:53:14+00:00

My problem with the argument against age gap relationships is that they assume that just because you're older than the younger party you are somehow manipulating them to like you, but like, as many men can attest here, women have no issue with rejecting men meaning these women are able to easily exercise their agency meaning further than if you are in a relationship with someone significantly younger than yourself, it is more probably that the feelings are actually mutual.

The spinster might argue then that within the relationship you hold the upper hand, but this isn't predicated on anything inherent to the age difference. Any partnership could contain financial or social inequalities, but this doesn't mean the relationship is inherently predatory or abusive. For example, I'm practically an orphan. The only family I have is my mother who is disabled. My partner on the other hand has both parents and while they are divorced, they are both far more financially secure than my mother is meaning that in my relationship, my partner has a more readily available safety net than I do. Does this mean she is preying on me and I am a victim, or is it that the environment we're born into is outside of our control?

Or what about instances of Leonardo DiCaprio, sure, he is a world class actor, but that would mean he has the upper hand in any relationship he would be in, but despite that the women he has been involved with are in no way struggling to survive and they have sufficient enough wealth and privilege that they can live independently if they wish to do so.

AnotherStandUser23 · 2023-09-15T15:03:03+00:00

It's always funny hearing American women promote feminism and talk about how oppressed they are due to the patriarchy. It's also really sad and shows you how delusional many women are becoming in this day and age. Subs like TwoX don't help because the women who either haven't had dick in forever or are femcels just spread straight lies and when you don't leave your house or have an active social life (most of TwoX) then these lies become reality.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-15T15:04:22+00:00

I hate in-person shopping. As a 6”5 black dude they always look at me like I’m going to steal the clothes 😂😂😂

Peacesquad · 2023-09-15T15:04:49+00:00

Competition anxiety is a good thing for women. They hardly compete for anything including a man’s commitment and resources

DragoonXFury · 2023-09-15T15:15:49+00:00

MVP of the year for me thus far is JNRobert42!

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T15:31:49+00:00

There are so many good fucking podcasts out there and people choose to lose to crypto grifters, Red pill grifting bros, and unhinged political commentators with no relevance to actual policy making

There's the After Hours Harvard Business Podcast

The Harvard Business Review has "New Here", if you're a young professional and want to actually learn about how to make money (not from grifting podcast bros)

There's HBR On Strategy which has some great episodes about business growth

Each branch of the Federal Reserve Bank has it's own podcast https://www.frbservices.org/news/fed360/issues/071522/fed-facts-fed-podcasts

There's Three Big Points by MIT which is again about business and becoming a business disruptor

Me, Myself, and AI is a good podcast by MIT that gives a decent amount of info on where the field is at and how to incorporate it into your work

There's the "War On The Rocks" podcast by Ryan Evans who is an excellent well credentialed deployed security expert and War studies

There's Lions Led by Donkeys which is a bit more low bro but also about defense politics and history

There's the Marketplace podcast of course if you want a quick daily update into market news and want to guide your investments through that

WSJ has MUTLTIPLE good podcasts, especially "Whats News" and "The Future of Everything" and "As We Work". And of course "Your Money Briefing".

Like if you want to learn things and "build wealth" there are so many infinitely better podcasts than another grifting RP bro who is going to tell you to start a drop shipping business or invest in crypto or whatever the fuck

baresquad · 2023-09-15T15:35:01+00:00

Outside of looks, making women laugh is probably the easiest way to get laid. Only problem is that women don’t find a majority of men funny.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-15T15:39:48+00:00

I'm so god damn hyped for Cyberpunk 2.0/Phantom Liberty. Ride that out (as well as BG3 and Diablo) through the rest of the year until I'm tired of gaming, and then switch over to watching 2 separate versions of the Three Body Problem (Netflix adaptation, Tencent adaptation with subtitles) in early 2024 (its criminal how long it took me to read the entire Remembrance of Earth's Past trilogy, but at least I got it done before the Netflix show).

After that I wanted to check out Seveneves by Neal Stephenson, finish up Piranesi by Susanna Clarke, however I STILL need to crack into Annihilation/The Southern Reach Trilogy which are languishing on my Kindle.

I'm such a good consoomer.

BLKSKNHED · 2023-09-15T15:41:42+00:00

"For many women, being attacked online leads to them losing confidence, and withdrawing from posting or getting involved in debates. Instead, they become more passive consumers: 37% of women aged 16 to 24 said online violence had left them feeling less able to express themselves online."

Complaining about men everyday is exhausting because men are spewing vitrol back at a faster rate lmao.

potoricco · 2023-09-15T15:42:36+00:00

It’s as if my grandmother lives to clean. Her cleaning habits are very weird and borderline annoying.

relish5k · 2023-09-15T15:54:12+00:00

Can someone catch me up on what the issue is with attachment theory? I’m guessing this is not a critique of Mary Ainsworth’s Strange Situation…

AFAIK attachment theory is credible science, backed up by research and widely accepted by psychologists. There are some criticisms to how far encompassing it is, but it’s pretty sound foundationally.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T15:59:52+00:00

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/stalin-volume-iii-stephen-kotkin/1139907369

STALIN PART 3 HAS A PUBLICATION DATE

I'M GONNA CUUUUMMMMM

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-15T16:03:17+00:00

I really want to get back into reading books but my attention span is completely destroyed. How do I fix it?

Zavier221 · 2023-09-15T16:07:20+00:00

Q4A

Where and how did you meet your current SO.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T16:09:34+00:00

The best women are at the library. And that's a fact, nikka.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-09-15T16:09:44+00:00

The biggest compliment here I've ever been given was that I don't deserve a Dark Triad man. I forgot your name but thank for actually giving me an accurate assessment of myself in this community for once.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-15T16:15:06+00:00

Men sometimes seem to think that if women say a guy is “relationship material” that just means he’s not good enough to be sexually appealing in a casual context.

Ime the guys who I’ve thought of as “relationship material” had to be way more appealing than guys I was only interested in casually.

mrrelaf · 2023-09-15T16:15:41+00:00

Eating cereal straight out of the box hits different

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-15T16:18:01+00:00

Bruh, my microeconomics exam for Sunday changed date, because apparently the professor couldn't attend because of "personal matters"

It moved ...today

And litterallly no one knew that 💀💀💀.

Like,maybe around 15-20 people or so learnt about it.

Apparently the change happened last night and they sent us an email this morning....3 hours before the exam 💀💀💀

Goofy asses

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-09-15T16:32:15+00:00

Imagine not pondering the Roman Empire at least once a day

Justwannaread3 · 2023-09-15T16:48:57+00:00

Something men seem to forget when it comes to “making men wait” for sex if a woman is interested in a relationship:

We’re called “whores” and “sluts” if we’re “too easy.”

We’re told “he won’t buy the cow if he can get the milk for free.”

We’re socialized to think that men won’t see us as “relationship/wife material” if we sleep with them too quickly.

If a woman is only interested in you casually, she probably cares less what you think of her. If she’s interested in you seriously, she might be worried you’d judge her for sleeping with you too quickly.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-15T16:52:06+00:00

Gotta love asians. They just quietly wander around and study for 14 hours and don't bother anybody.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-09-15T16:57:46+00:00

Do men here actually understand what Plan B does?

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-15T17:13:21+00:00

I support google in the current monopoly case.

Does the only reason I support google is because my stock options are heavily dependent on them winning and I do not care about the merits of the case at all?

yes

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-15T17:24:21+00:00

Judging by this sub and outside world experience it seems way more acceptable to strike up conversations with women in public than guys online made it seem.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-15T17:28:09+00:00

Unpopular opinion: Competing for women creates better men.

Women settling hurts everyone. They play a very important part in ensuring our species moves forward.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-15T17:41:28+00:00

Q4A: have yall asked someone out and gotten rejected but had to constantly see them again in your day to day life?

baresquad · 2023-09-15T17:45:27+00:00

South Dakota’s governor cheating on her husband is why I don’t give a fuck about anything conservatives say about dating, sex, abortion, etc.

They judge everybody yet don’t even abide by their own “morals” and do way worse shit like cheating on their spouses.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-16T00:39:58+00:00

I can't understand the women who say that male attention is meaningless.

A tall, chubby black woman hit on me and I probably wouldn't even sleep with her if she offered straightforward for free (but would probably take an effortless BJ), but it was still extremely pleasurable to be hit on . I was trying to milk and drink up as much validation and attention from her as I could from her, so I was trying to show a little interest by asking her a few questions as little snacks that her fattie body can nibble on to keep her busy but making sure to not give her enough for her to become a lot more forward.

It's just incredibly validating to have someone who wants to get to know you, entertain you and talk to you unconditionally. Getting hit on is even better than talking to other dudes because you still have to put in some effort and act a certain way, but you can say and do anything you want and still be valued when getting hit on.

Women said that male attention and validation, getting hit on, is not a huge privilege. The lie detector determined that was a lie.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-16T01:08:48+00:00

Never marry the exciting, extroverted girl.

baresquad · 2023-09-16T01:29:34+00:00

Is the study that a majority of women are turned off by Joe Rogan really that shocking? Seems like it’d be common sense.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-16T01:51:05+00:00

I specifically avoid very attractive women and I don't even want to date them. They are nice to look at though. But thats about it. And I've heard of some women that think similarly.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-09-16T01:54:06+00:00

Have had to focus on work and family stuff of late. What have I missed? The usual age gap and N count threads, I assume?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-16T02:08:38+00:00

Playing catch up in the gym this week is a pain in the ass...literally. I dnt wanna do legs again but I have to eventhough my back feels like I got hit by a truck after yesterday's workout.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-16T03:00:18+00:00

being here has made me realize there is nothing physically wrong with me that has caused my inability to date. i just have a lot of mental blockages 🙃

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-16T03:09:01+00:00

Did you hit your sets of respect women shrugs today?

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-16T03:10:11+00:00

Hugh Jackman getting divorce.I am not shocked. I am, however, surprised that their marriage lasted 27 years. My theory is that as his wife got older, even though she is older than him, it may have contributed to some challenges in the relationship. I've read studies indicating that when wives reach menopause, their husbands may experience a midlife crisis, which can have negative effects on a man's health.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-16T04:03:15+00:00

Lmfao

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cw06ZVTLInt/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-16T04:13:34+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxD_jvLvT8p/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Love to see it

DepartmentInitial117 · 2023-09-20T15:15:48+00:00

Hey all,

The mods have kindly given me permission to post here.

I'm a producer at Future Studios, a production company based in London. We make documentaries and factual TV for Netflix (Amazing Interiors), Channel 4 (GamesMaster), the BBC (Day the Dinosaurs Died), Snap Originals (What the Aitch) and many others.

We are currently making a short-form digital documentary, which will explore some of the difficulties women face in these modern times, particularly around dating and relationships and the ever increasing digital world we live in.

The film will also explore societal beauty standards as well as many other topics.

The intention of this documentary is to shine light on the community, enabling people to talk about real issues and events either openly or anonymously.

At the moment this is purely for research and off the record. Ultimately I am hoping to connect with people who may be open to featuring in some capacity, but there are a few stages before getting to that point.

Ideally I am looking for people based in the UK but there are other ways this could work if this feels relevant to you and your based outside the UK (zoom calls etc)

If you're interested in finding out a little more please give me a DM.

Many thanks!

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