Daily Community Chat Megathread

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-08T07:53:27+00:00

Another day completed in the gym. I'm gonna start cutting out carbs and see if I can get shredded. Luckily its warmer today than it was yesterday here in South Korea so I can probably move around a bit more. I guess I got 1 or 2 more weeks left of this semi warm weather before winter kicks in. Winter season in Korea sucks 🙁

Ok-Act-8610 · 2023-11-08T07:52:39+00:00

When a man says his loneliness and lack of sex make his life so bad that he'd rather suicide: You are actually mentally ill, and MAYBE after you stop being suicidal due to your loneliness and lack of sex then MABYE you could TRY to get that. You have to be a wage slave even if you never get companionship or sex. Stop being an entitled man-baby, loser.

When a man says his loneliness and lack of sex doesn't make his life so bad that he'd rather suicide: See? There's no problem, so stop being a whinny incel man baby!

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T07:32:50+00:00

If I get sciatica at Amazon I'm sacrificing myself on the conveyor belt. Goodbye world!

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-08T07:18:25+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/B81UAjh

Our bookstore shop yesterday. Take a guess at which is mine and which is his.

md8716 · 2023-11-08T07:02:21+00:00

You know it's funny, despite agreeing with many red pill truths, my actions in life are very blue pilled.

All I do is love my wife, do what I can to make her happy, and generally work, sacrifice, and provide for her, and a whole bunch of other stuff that would be actions that describe a beta provider.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-08T06:58:29+00:00

next time you look at a girls butt remember there is poop inside!!!

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-08T06:31:38+00:00

Why are women offended by the phrase, "She's not yours, it's just your turn"

I asked this earlier and women here gave me some good answers. But I don't think men would be offended by this phrase if it was said about them

hannahg000 · 2023-11-08T06:09:12+00:00

the guys who say that women aren’t capable of love are practically screaming that they have mommy issues

they are the same as the women that say all men are rapists or potential rapists

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-08T06:06:30+00:00

Man I feel just as shit as yesterday. Guess I am becoming like one of those super hopeless blackpilled dudes now lol

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-08T06:04:46+00:00

If you were an absolutely hopeless incel with no prospects, would you date the ghost of a woman who died in or near your home? She’s very attractive and if you concentrate really hard you can touch her. But you can’t tell other people about her or talk to her in front of them, or else they’ll think you’re crazy. Don’t ask me how I came up with this question. I wish I knew.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-08T05:55:06+00:00

Would you rather your son be an incel or betabuxx?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-08T05:44:04+00:00

I don’t even believe in Jesus, but I still rock a Jesus piece. 💎

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T05:25:00+00:00

I've been using a weighted blanket now for when I go to sleep. I don't know if it's a coincidence or not but it's reduced my stimming before bed so no more hand flapping

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-08T05:14:57+00:00

A good leader never gets upset or insults people over their mistakes. If someone makes a mistake, talk to them politely yet seriously about it and make a plan together to help avoid future mistakes.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-08T04:58:26+00:00

Q4M: What is it about bad girl types that makes some men go nuts? Like I’ve seen douchebags and confident men FOLD when that woman acts indifferent, uninterested, snarky, or even a little bit “mean” - what’s the reasoning behind that?

huhwhatokok · 2023-11-08T04:50:01+00:00

What ever happened to the bunny ears dude?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T04:33:40+00:00

I wish I was a normie neurotypical. I can only dream of having their kind of life and childhood

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-08T04:22:05+00:00

I always found the "cheating shouldn't be a crime because the government shouldn't get involved in people's relationships" argument incredibly stupid when the same people probably celebrate the fact that marital rape is recognized as a crime even though the PTSD rate of infidelity victims is higher than the PTSD of physical rape victims. In both cases there is a clear lack of the victim's ability consent, subsequent betrayal, and loss of identity.

Thoughts?

Yes, I think marital rape is bad and should be a crime, before the usual virtue signaling knuckle draggers come in derailing the conversation.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T04:20:38+00:00

I don't want to be a betabuxx. I'm scared for the future

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-11-08T04:19:27+00:00

There's something really satisfying about reporting a comment made by a 12 year old girl to the mods

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-08T04:18:17+00:00

My older sister was shitting on me because my boyfriend lives with his parents. His parents are only here for around six months out of the year during summer before they head back to New Zealand to avoid the winter here. When they’re gone he gets the whole house to himself, it’s a pretty sweet deal.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-08T04:07:54+00:00

What's the incentive to be successful in life if you can't get a relationship? I really don't see the point obtaining a high paying job if I can't get a woman.

Starry_Cold · 2023-11-08T03:51:27+00:00

How much does a man's career prospects contribute to his attractiveness for a casual relationship?

I see men state their careers while also saying they just want a hookups. I don't understand the point of that.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-08T03:50:46+00:00

No matter how bad my life gets, at least I'm not working retail. I'll say the same thing when I'm in the hospital, the prison, or the morgue.

AngeCruelle · 2023-11-08T03:24:10+00:00

To no one in particular: I don't accept chat requests from men. Much less meet up for drinks with internet strangers.

Barneysparky · 2023-11-08T03:07:41+00:00

Today I talked about being invited to Trent Reznor's place. Which lead me to talk about his local downfall, and how he paid people to tolerant him unless they were tourists.

The guys here think celebrities get the hot Instagram-type gals and it's unfair and those women are the worst of the worst!

But the reality is any guy who has the "celebrity" to bang a hot chick every night is also paying guys to hang out with him, and no matter who he is with he takes care of the check.

This isn't just celebrities. I've spoken here about my son, while I'm not happy with some of his life choices I love him to moon and back regardless.

He made his money selling steroids and is now a slum landlord/convenience stores/pot owner, and a body builder. He has told me " mom, if I wasn't who I was no one would give me the time of day". He more often than not spends an hour or more a day on the phone with me, I'm the only person who doesn't want from him..

My son has a fiance who does his entire backend (can't do paperwork) and probably two side chicks a month that he has dinner occasionally with maybe..

He's supporting in one way or another (taking his time and resources) upwards of fifty men at any given time. Paying the tab, setting up in business, etc, etc.. He does it to be liked, to be the center of attention, to be that guy.

"Celebrities" spend more on men then they do women.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-08T03:00:09+00:00

Worked a 10.5 hr day and gotta go back in for the night shift another 9 hrs. Yippee

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-08T02:58:44+00:00

Would you date someone who is perfect in every way, except they have an incurable contagious rash? You can contract it from physical contact and it’s a mild condition that gives you patches of normal-looking but itchy skin.

Gladboys · 2023-11-08T02:47:34+00:00

Q4W: what do you consider emotional cheating?

Spoke with a friend for a bit and she says that emotional cheating is stuff like looking at another girls Instagram account and especially consuming porn. Her reasoning is “why would you do that when you could just get kinkier”

Sillysheila · 2023-11-08T02:34:08+00:00

QFm : what do you think about girls with guitars? Hot or not?

Just curious. I used to be one until I stopped playing guitar in senior year of high school. Played a lot of folk music

hannahg000 · 2023-11-08T02:27:30+00:00

have you ever observed the dating lives of someone with intellectual disabilities? my aunt is physically and intellectually disabled. and her dating life is crazy. she’s in her mid-40s but she has the dating life of someone in their early twenties lol.

she’s had an on-and-off again fiancé for the last 20 years (they can’t get married because they both are disabled and could lose access to their disability benefits if they get married). they both have cheated on each other but constantly get back together.

there have been some times when non-disabled men have tried to pursue her and that’s always caused issues. she is very naive and some men have tried to mooch off her disability benefits

FutureBannedAccount2 · 2023-11-08T02:18:29+00:00

Some girl added me on IG and I went to her story to see who see was.

Her very first story was a post saying "I'm not gonna link up with y'all cause I'm not so hoe so stay out my inbox"

I then got 2 messages from her. One was a pic of her in her underwear and the other was a message saying "Hey if you wanna see more I'm having a sale on my onlyfans"

Reported and blocked. Hoes be trippin

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-08T01:53:01+00:00

If I can clearly smell that you smoke and you take public transit, fuck you. That was the stinkiest 20 minutes of my life.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-08T01:46:46+00:00

My boyfriend becomes so overly protective when l am pregnant. I don't tell you how to pull teeth or fill cavities. Don't tell me how to be pregnant. It's a baby, not a disability.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-08T01:11:58+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/Zud537dr5d

BRUTAL. This is exactly why I never cold approach. Something like that would depress me so much. He didn't even mention asking her out. Literally just talking.

Imagine a woman threathening to call staff when you're talking about something as innocent as books. Oh, the humanity.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-08T00:42:29+00:00

Finally got around to watching Invincible. Episode 1 made my jaw drop to the floor, and then episode 8 made my jaw drop beneath the floor. Craziest show I've seen in a long time.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T00:34:26+00:00

I have a history exam coming up. I have a few weird questions, what's obamas last name, what continent does the european union operate in and finally, when did 9/11 happen.

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T00:28:27+00:00

HE'S SO CUTE OMG

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-08T00:27:37+00:00

Boy I sure hope clown college accepts me.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-08T00:07:26+00:00

Put on some cologne. I just got some Acqua di Chade

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T23:44:09+00:00

Guys this really isnt even as hard as i thought like i just spent like 2hrs on deltamath and like this actually makes sense like i was tripping definitely/ or my teacher sucks

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T23:41:54+00:00

One thing i love about tiktok is how it makes unserious things serious

Tiktok literally made this song from movie rio popular. Like imagine ppl using a song from a childrens movie about birds to make thirst traps

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwen5lsv23A

I dont blame them though bc its a banger

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-07T23:29:02+00:00

My dating goal for 2024 is to attract more young, non-homeless men than old, homeless men. Wish me luck!

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-07T23:18:33+00:00

Women saying they only go to clubs to dance and don't care about male attention is BS.

Male attention and validation is a core part of their experience. It's what allows them to "have fun" and "let loose". They might not necessarily be looking to hook up, but all the attention and validation from men and knowing that they are desired and valuable in the environment (because of the interest from men) is what drives the fun and good emotions.

Being desired and validated in that environment let's them be socially uninhibited and let loose. It's knowing that no matter what they do they are desired and high status, that they will be socially taken care of in that environment because of male attention. They can't be lonely or ever be socially rejected. There will always be people desiring and accepting them no matter what they do.

If they didn't have the male attention and weren't desired or high status in the environment, they would be worrying "do I look stupid? what if no one likes me? what if I get made fun of? what if all my friends get hit on and I'm left by myself like the only kid in class without a partner? etc"

Female privilege

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T23:15:19+00:00

I don't know how long I can keep up my good attitude when it comes to my self-image. When I see myself in the mirror, I just do not see an ugly person at all but the zero interest from women throughout my life has me second guessing from time to time that I'm ugly.

rosesonthefloor · 2023-11-07T23:07:23+00:00

Shit like this is so funny to me, because it’s men essentially saying that they don’t know what a normal woman’s body looks like.

Do people not know how to use Google anymore?

Peacesquad · 2023-11-07T23:00:18+00:00

Fellas how much pussy have yall gotten off bumble and/or tinder. Be honest

Peacesquad · 2023-11-07T23:00:04+00:00

Who hurt you?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-07T22:58:14+00:00

Someone recommend me shows similiar to Breaking Bad and The Office

I like shows where the acting and writing is very good and timeless.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-07T22:52:25+00:00

Q4W:

Do you prefer to be the more attractive partner when having casual sex or would you like the guy to be more attractive?

Do you prefer to be the more attractive partner in a committed relationship?

h1shman · 2023-11-07T22:48:02+00:00

Is not being able to reply to comment sub threads after OP/Mods delete the main thread a new thing? Had discussions going with not-op and can’t reply after the post is removed.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-07T22:45:05+00:00

Money brings you nothing after you have enough to eat food, have shelter, use electricity, buy clothes and own a car.

The only thing that truly make you happy after that is romance, friendship and family.

sine120 · 2023-11-07T22:41:39+00:00

Does anybody watch Big Mouth? Sometimes I think netflix writers are telling on themselves with the characters that they put into the show. The latest season has plenty of fuel for the fire for the RP guys here.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-07T22:26:55+00:00

Have you ever banged a Chad and/or a Stacy?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-11-07T21:14:19+00:00

I've noticed an interesting double standard in some discussions on here. The manosphere seem to be critical of women who enter into relationships primarily for financial stability or resources, often labeling them as "gold diggers." However, on the flip side, there's no scrutiny when men enter relationships mainly for sexual reasons.

MyWifePomni · 2023-11-07T08:38:37+00:00

Kind of want to kill myself friends. Every single night I dream of being a cute girl, cuddling my girlfriend in bed. Every single morning I wake up alone and miserable. I don't know how much longer I can go on, it's such a monumental effort to drag myself out of bed every morning. It isn't something I can fix either, I'm completely broken mentally. Being a guy is absolute fucking hell. I haven't had a hug in 15 years. All I have is my body pillow and my imagination and it just isn't enough. I don't even want sex I just want someone I can cuddle with after a shit day at work. I'm so desperately lonely and touch starved I'm pretty much standing on the edge of the abyss right now.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-07T15:45:27+00:00

when are people going to understand that being nice/not being nice has nothing to do with attraction

I'm so sick of this whining about women not being particularly attracted to NiceGuys<sup>TM</sup>

princedune · 2023-11-07T18:34:22+00:00

you guys ever get that urge to just stop caring and buy a shit ton of drugs and go out in a blaze of glory?

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T19:54:01+00:00

I get attached to ppl SO easily its not funny :(

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-07T17:43:21+00:00

I just started reading the red pill sub and it's surprisingly inoffensive. No entitlement to sex, no blaming women for the collapse of society. Red pill sub seems less offensive than PPD

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-11-07T17:43:39+00:00

If you block people because you need to have the last word in, you're a pussy.

cactusbeam777 · 2023-11-07T20:20:55+00:00

With this new mandatory flair bullshit what's next, TPS reports?

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-07T08:33:16+00:00

I paid 100 euros for a cabinet women in Amsterdam for sex for 20 mins. She told to wear a condom obviously. I am a virgin and I masturbate. My penis got erect after a blowjob and we started to have sex. But she forbid me from even touching her vagina and even kissing or licking her tits for the money. It was like just fuck and cum. I tried soo hard but I couldn’t cum. She only allowed 2 sex positions. After all this, I left kinda disappointed and left from there. She told to pay 300 euros and stay for one hour. But I didn’t have that kind of cash. So the thing is that, I can’t remember her face. I only remember her ass and boobs and I kinda feel bad. I still get erect thinking about it but also sad at the same time. Anyone suggesting any tips, tricks, even opinions?

This is why you don't pay for cheap sex, that's the kind of experience you'll get.

Curious_Attention719 · 2023-11-07T08:44:00+00:00

I'm at a point that unless I can get out of this hellhole and somewhere with decent wages and culture and meet a woman, once my other parent passes, I'm probably going to see about living in a monastery or off-grid in the woods.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-07T09:49:49+00:00

Alright I'm so bored I'm just going to randomly list my colleagues from a PPD perspective:

old lady, early 60s, live with her brothers and sisters, not in a relationship and not looking for one, no kids
short lady (4'11), early fifties with a short husband (5'5), they have a 16 yo son who seem to be at minimum a future chad lite (pretty face, works out and do competitive swimming, takes care of his looks), he is taller than the dad so didn't get fucked by genetics
meek lady, in her forties, in a relationship, no kids though they wanted one. Don't know much about her, she's very shy / discreet
masculine dude, in his forties, married, used to be very fit, probably the highest n count out of everyone, now slightly overweight but carry it well, his wife is very mid but I'm sure he is happy with her, they just had a child
gay dude, early 40s, in a relationship of 15 years, he cheated for 3 months in the early years but they worked it out, highest look rating out of everyone, his partner is good looking too
muslim lady, late 30s, married, two kids, she's the main breadwinner though her husband tries to bring some money too, don't know how the husband looks
manager lady, early 40s, single mom, not in a relationship and not looking for one, don't think she's having casual sex but I could be wrong
meek dude (me), late 20s, in a relationship, I don't share anything with my colleagues so they don't know much about me
overweight woman, married, two kids, husband is very overweight but masculine, husband is very possessive and that caused some issue in their marriage, she's pretty discreet

Overall a bunch of average people including myself. Only the gay dude is above average in looks. Masculine dude was probably chad lite in his prime, now I'm not even sure he's high tier normie.

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-11-07T10:47:33+00:00

My SO is tuning 40 this month. I'm 32. I'm thinking about taking him to a gastronomic restaurant. None of us never did that so that would be a 1st time. The best tasting menu, including a cup of champagne, 7 courses (3 starters, 2 main courses, cheese and dessert), 7 glass of wine, water and a hot beverage is 610 euros for 2 people. How would you guys feel about being invited to a gastro by your wife/GF ?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-07T12:28:53+00:00

Girl - "It's so immature to care about someone's sexual past. Why do people care about body count? The past is the past."

Guy - "Yea so true, who is anyone to judge? I've had my fun too, I've had hook ups, I've experimented, I've fooled around with a guy-"

Girl - "...you have? Sorry I'm not attracted to that."

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-07T13:35:14+00:00

I went on a mass deleting spree a few years ago in my phone contact list. It’s crazy the amount of people you have stored that you don’t talk to. I’m not talking about your great aunt who you don’t text or call but she’s family and you leave her there just in case. It’s like the chick you went on 2 dates with 3 years ago, or the guy from college you did a group project with, or that one co worker from 4 jobs ago and shit lol. I would say 80% of the were girls I casually dated tho

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-07T10:58:04+00:00

"Incels and socially awkward guys are collectively hated by women and told their lack of success is because they're misogynists, yet you're likely to hear more raunchy and misogynistic talk regarding women from jocks in the locker room." What do you think of this statement?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-07T11:47:32+00:00

Have you been asked about boyfriends/girlfriends, getting married or having children by your family and relatives?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-07T20:19:24+00:00

Imagine being a woman and being turned off when men are nice and/or too attracted to you.

As a man you have to downplay your interest in her and not be too nice or she'll lose attraction.

Imagine being a woman who gets so much validation and attention from men, with so many men being strongly interested and nice to you, that it becomes a turnoff to be nice and interested in her because you'll become like every other man.

Female privilege

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-07T20:51:42+00:00

Why are women offended by the phrase, "She's not yours, it's just your turn"

It's actually a feminist thing to say, "She's not yours"

WestCombSplit · 2023-11-07T08:00:36+00:00

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-07T08:34:18+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/tall/s/kgdxv9jYPT

They just be saying anything at this point

Ninja_please808 · 2023-11-07T10:18:10+00:00

This sub is basically just whores trying to justify hypergamy/betabuxx strategy and inc*ls

hannahg000 · 2023-11-07T12:56:09+00:00

fellow americans, are you a christmas begins nov 1 or christmas begins after thanksgiving type of person?

DerayRevan · 2023-11-07T14:37:27+00:00

"Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags"

Women love crazy guys, thought this was a given

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-07T16:19:10+00:00

Women of reddit, how would you react if your date/hookup was a mens rights activist?

I'd leave immediately lol

meteorness123 · 2023-11-07T19:45:46+00:00

An example of how you raise a dysfunctional person :

A woman might grow up with a domineering father or brothers. This unaware woman (likely to now identify as a feminist as a coping mechanism) gets a son and now she thinks to herself "Finally, a man that I can control! ". The son listens to everything his mother says and now concludes that by never upsetting women like a good puppy, he will be liked. He realizes that it doesn't work. He comes to the infamous conclusion that "women don't like nice guys". Really, it was never about that but rather the unnatural psychological shift that happened to him as a consequence of his dysfunctional parent. The solution is the dissolvement of said shift.

By my ebook

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T20:47:05+00:00

Just stumbled upon an old classmates Instagram page and saw that the person is already engaged. Oh god, it's already starting. I didn't think it would be this soon. To think I couldn't be more miserable, life always has a way to prove me wrong.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T21:08:26+00:00

I don't know if I'm just unlucky or something but in my experience people still being with their high school sweethearts isn't rare. I have two friends who are still with their MIDDLE school sweethearts and another from high school. Life is so soul crushing. Never been to invited to anyone's house to just hang out when I was in middle school while others were already in long term relationships.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-07T21:16:34+00:00

There’s certain careers/disciplines/professions that I don’t respect or take seriously, so you being an “expert” or having some degree in it is meaningless to me

“Bro I got my masters in theology”

Ok bro lol

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T22:01:38+00:00

I remember when I first asked out a girl on a date. I was 14 and when I texted her, she just ignored what I said and pretended like I didn't ask and changed the subject. I should've known she never liked me.

At our middle school graduation, I gave her my number but she never texted me after I waited for about a week or over so I asked my friend who had her number to give it to me so that's how I even had her number in the first place. We would never hang out and if I called, she would never pick up or call me back.

I really thought she liked me because she was super nice to me, would always say to me hi and sometimes would give me hugs in class. But in hindsight, it was that weird fake pity niceness that some girls do to autistic guys. She liked someone else during this time too so I feel stupid for ignoring that and my inability to take a hint.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-07T08:15:01+00:00

First (im not first, but no one claimed it yet,so suck my dick)

dbz__f · 2023-11-07T10:47:51+00:00

I get sad when my gf doesn’t want to engage in my hobbies

I enjoy them on my own but I would always rather she share them with me

meteorness123 · 2023-11-07T14:41:39+00:00

Crazy how some men are cool with having long hair. After only one month of growing it, Im already sick of it

Willow-girl · 2023-11-07T15:40:51+00:00

Day One post-op. My boyfriend had to help me take a shower, blargh. He kept trying to get me to jump up and down, the bastard. LOL

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T15:50:06+00:00

I have 2 tests tomorrow

meteorness123 · 2023-11-07T16:22:16+00:00

Btw, getting"The ick" isn't about the other person. It's about the inability to tolerate things that are more or less harmless or insignificant.

People who get "the ick" because of tiny trivialities get it because they have ickiness inside themselves. They are therefore terrified of anything that resembles themselves because it acts as a mirror. To deflect from that, the person gets "the ick". This way, the necessity of inner work is prevented.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-07T16:54:41+00:00

Reminder to put on deodorant

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-07T16:57:15+00:00

I've been thinking about this for a while. QFM: what possible reason would a guy think women are better than men?

Usually only guys who dislike other men think this way.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-07T17:07:43+00:00

Everything that women complain about in the men they date is their own collective fault.

Men adapt to their environment and simply do what works.

Women have societally selected for "f@ck boy" traits.

Women have societally punished "gentlemanly" traits.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-07T17:28:10+00:00

I enjoy owning expensive things, but I don't have a lot of money so I usually buy things second hand. My mindset is that I want to buy the best possible thing I can and value it. I don't consider myself materialistic, but I do enjoy the finer things in life. For example when I moved away for college I was given a rusty Herman Miller chair that had been in a flooded basement for free, but I fixed it up and have owned it for almost a decade now. I like shopping at thrift stores and discount stores to bargain hunt for good brands. For example I own a $300 sweater but I got it for $80. It just makes me feel better about myself I guess rather than buying cheap fast fashion that will get thrown out in a year.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-07T17:41:41+00:00

I'm not a redpiller, but I agree with some of the ideas. What do you think about them?

"She was never truly yours, it was just your turn." Humans are serial monogamists and especially women have the desire to get into a new relationship after a few years.
Men have no inherent value. Women do. (Chads do as well)
Only women can be loved unconditionally. (In a romantic context)

Of course there are exceptions, but I think these statements are true generally.

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T17:55:43+00:00

I just took a DELICIOUS nap

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-07T18:15:03+00:00

I'm with the mods. Infact they should go further, age, height, and a plain picture of yourself should all be mandatory information to participate in this subreddit.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T18:22:10+00:00

I'm starting to really hate the alcohol drinking when I hang out at my friends house. Last time, I swear every like 20, 30 minutes or so would have someone gathering everyone around for shots. Kinda annoying when we're in the middle of playing video games so now everything has to come to a stop and I gotta wait for some fucking drink.

Another time is when one of my friends girlfriend got too wasted so she snoozed while she was in the bathroom. Nothing happened but it's trashy to me.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-07T18:47:13+00:00

Watching the Boogie documentary and his line about "A revelation I had is I like beautiful women. I like to hang out with beautiful women. We all do. I never got to do that with women I dated, yeah they were pretty sure but they were like Arkansas eights not LA tens." Such a bizarre view of everything that sums up his delusions about his life in general. He feels entitled from being a former big youtuber that he should be fucking LA 10/10s rather than the type of woman that will deal with a morbidly obese asshole.

AethertheEternal · 2023-11-07T19:07:50+00:00

Has anyone taken an ancestry test? If you have, what were your results. I might try 23 and Me.

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T19:37:20+00:00

I have resting sad face i love when people ask me if im okay Lmaooo

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-07T19:49:31+00:00

Ok shes your mum we get that. #disrespectful #mother #wife #weddingdis... | mommy's boy | TikTok

Q4W: your husband does this at the wedding what do you do

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-07T21:14:43+00:00

I don’t care if a Film is not “historically accurate” as long as I’m entertained

meteorness123 · 2023-11-07T21:18:53+00:00

The whole debate about going to the club or not when you're in a relationship is such a dumb one. There is no reason to go to a club or party alone if you're in a relationship and most people understand that. I feel like these "problems" only exist among dumb couples

meteorness123 · 2023-11-07T21:29:39+00:00

Looking at some of my closest friends, I feel like the guys who married the earliest are the guys who knew they had very limited options.

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T21:45:12+00:00

I both love and hate the fact that I feel like its 9pm when its actually only like 6

Fit_Dark_6918 · 2023-11-07T22:16:00+00:00

I’m at a point in my life where I can look at nude or lewd photos of women and just see it as artistic or beautiful instead of always sexual. Why do us Americans always sexualize everything?

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Ninja_please808 · 2023-11-07T10:14:16+00:00

Having a transgender gf would be insane because it's like having a girl with the sex drive and nastiness of a guy. Plus they know how to pleasure a cock

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-07T10:51:11+00:00

r/books is proof that reading doesn't make you intelligent. it just gives you a bigger vocabulary

MyWifePomni · 2023-11-07T11:04:22+00:00

Why are mods going 1984 over flairs when they all have meme flairs?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-07T11:44:00+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/torzsasadam/

What advice is he going to get? Pro player in CSGO. He's following his passion, probably confident because he's good at it, has a good friend group and probably goes to many social events because of his team yet still single.

Gladboys · 2023-11-07T12:46:21+00:00

thinking about taking a year or so break after university before i enter the workforce again so i can work on my body and mind freely. goals would be to cut to 10-12% bf finish 2 cycles and spend some of the money i saved up on travelling and "living" but i'm worried about 2 things

1: gap year's impact on my long term career trajectory

2: don't really know if i'll even enjoy any of it. i've always been the type to worry about getting more money and "skills" rather than enjoy myself but i think im going to burn out if i keep doing 12-16 hour days of productivity fueled by stimulants lol.

anyone have any perspective on this? i know im already privileged to even think about taking a gap year but i got lucky so might as well be grateful for it and use it.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-07T13:17:25+00:00

"Men should always assume a woman is not interested unless proven otherwise"

There's no assuming when it's factual, just become you like a woman doesn't automatically she likes you back

That's why l'm not outcome dependent

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-07T13:36:31+00:00

Is it just me or does it seem as if homeless people begging on the side of the road get less sympathy than they did 15-20 years ago

DerayRevan · 2023-11-07T13:37:44+00:00

Inexperienced guys: "yo bro do you lick vagina and suck toes"

Guys with common sense:

VTHokie2020 · 2023-11-07T14:44:27+00:00

My lesbian friend was ticked off (more like borderline apathetically annoyed) that her girlfriend said Andrew Tate had some good takes.

It's funny because her gf is very clearly the top/masculine/man in the relationship lol.

abaxeron · 2023-11-07T15:09:34+00:00

"Well an AVERAGe woman doesn't go for bad boys / isn't a neurotic mess / doesn't do X Y Z..."

An "average" woman is 47 years old, what's your point

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-07T15:45:24+00:00

Today's lesson of critical reading and understanding.

There is a post on PPD titled "When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?"

And like clockwork, an excellent example shows up on the site that has 2 of the same chromosomes titled "First hookup of the year went great. Let's do a breakdown together! The post goes

Wanted to share my weekend experience in my FWB journey and giving my vibrators a break 😅 So I (31f) was celibate all this year and this is my 3rd time giving dating a chance since I ended an engagement last year. I was very direct on my profile and have been on dates with 3 guys so far this time around.

The third guy I’ll call Jake (24m) has been a breath of fresh air. In my profile I put how I wanted FWB and only meet in public til I’m comfortable and will only hookup at my place (gated apt community, very quiet, I have cameras, etc) and don’t like chatting all day and don’t send pics (profile has 3 face and body pics).

First date we had dinner and went bowling at a Dave and busters. When I was dating for a relationship, I only accepted nice dinner dates but I’m so over those. I want fun. Afterwards, he asked to come to my place and I said maybe next time and he agreed and walked me to my car and kissed me.

Anyways, second date we got dinner at a restaurant near my place (like 30 mins from his place) and ate in a quiet area. I just repeated my boundaries, what I expect and won’t accept and how I want an on-going FWB. I asked him about condoms and he brought 2 with him (I had 5 myself but wanted to see his response). He also was upfront that he doesn’t last long so he always gives oral first and will get me off before penetration.

We get to my place, cuddle while watching a movie and I make the first move. Sex was good, 6/10. He got rock hard (big deal for my ex was older and wouldn’t get fully erect), didn’t last long but we went 5x during the movie and kept pleasing me until he was fully hard again.

I wasn’t expecting mind blowing sex. I just wanted a good experience with someone who respects boundaries, made me feel safe and comfortable and was eager to please and he was. I got a new box of condoms and hope to use them all this month. I was really nervous since I’ve read other’s experiences and happy it’s been good.

As expected, many women in the replies are basically cheering on "yas, you go queen!".

Q4W: Put yourself in a sexually unsuccessful mid 30s man's shoes. For the Long term relationship minded man, what is a giant red flag that really stands out in her story? Also, can you pinpoint a problematic sore point that a future serious boyfriend/husband will have?

Q4M: Her post basically is the reply to the PPD post of what women are out there for the Gen Z guy. Can you succinctly summarize what is problematic for men to jump into a serious relationship with this type of woman that bifurcates her approach between relationships and "fun" ?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-07T15:58:33+00:00

If men as a group feel the ick when women reveal their football team lore to them when those men aren't able to compete in the sexual marketplace, I think we need to acknowledge that these mens feelings are absolutely valid, so yes, you being ran through is disgusting and a problem.

But for whatever reason women are able to be vocal and change the public opinion because we as men feel like we have to placate women to get some puss.

This isn't about n-count at all, that is irrelevant and it is goofy as hell to talk about it like it matters. I'm talking about men's reaction to the inequity in the sexual marketplace and the fact that women gaslight and manipulate society into being permissive of their behavior.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-07T16:27:03+00:00

Talking to many many women. Also making physical contact pretty early on. Strange it’s something that we teach kids NOT to do, but it seems super important for creating attraction. Gotta start touching and hugging asap

Been saying this for years lol

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-07T16:35:51+00:00

Do you focus on one person or date/ talk to a few people at a time when using OLD?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-07T16:36:58+00:00

I got the cheap eggs for the first time in months after buying the brown pasture raised one and wow, there is a huge difference in taste. I didn't think there would be since you know, an egg is an egg, but it is like night and day.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-07T16:37:25+00:00

Bro, this is the easiest way to get laid where I live. Get a girl at a bar, get her really drunk on strong liquor and take her home. -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17phgys/i_dont_know_if_i_was_raped_or_had_sex_when_drunk/

I personally don't have the guts or the will power to do it, and also don't take any alcohol.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-07T16:44:19+00:00

Bro, SBF deserves to go to jail. Bro was a billionaire and was in a relationship with a nerdy co-worker who was basically a 2.

This is by far a worse crime than his financial fraud.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-07T17:11:55+00:00

Licking vagina is just normal.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-07T17:40:26+00:00

Attending orgies and sex parties are the ultimate test of confidence. I want to be so confident that I can pull walk around strangers, cakes out, and still have the ability to maintain a rock hard erection...

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-07T17:44:25+00:00

I'm amazed people don't give Harrison Ford a hard time. And even crazier how Calista Flockhart was all about him.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-07T18:16:20+00:00

Men I look up to who have had mistresses:

Albert Camus

Ernest Hemingway

F. Scott Fitzgerald

Leonardo DiCaprio

Man Ray

Pablo Picasso

And while I don't really care about him as an athlete, Tiger Woods earned a lot of respect in my book when all that news kept coming out.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-07T18:30:58+00:00

Women are sex/beauty objects. Men are success/status/resource objects. Both genders are objectified

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-07T18:46:59+00:00

Does anyone remember there was some huge controversy about Matt Healy and something he said on a podcast or interview or something? Does anyone remember what it was about? I want to find the interview but when I search Matt Healy Controversy or Matt Healy Cancelled too many things come up.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-07T19:00:02+00:00

Also someone always asking me if I want a drink when I hang out is kinda annoying too. I already said I don't drink and don't plan on to. My answer is not gonna change.

afk_row · 2023-11-07T19:05:59+00:00

Is it immoral to clone yourself to harvest stem cells?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-11-07T19:24:10+00:00

Q4A: What made you stay in that toxic relationship a lot longer than you should have?

macone235 · 2023-11-07T19:41:13+00:00

TRP censorship on this sub continues. This place is going to become an even bigger echo chamber than it already is.

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-07T20:51:19+00:00

I feel like picking up rock climbing. Time to go to the bouldering gym?

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T21:39:29+00:00

Honestly track kids are SO lucky their sport is in season the entire year (cross country is just track but in the forest) i wanted to try out for track last year because i have a personal grudge with the track coach that Ive had since freshman year idk if i wanna do track or tennis in spring or if i should even do a spring sport and Idk as a junior its kinda late to be starting new sports

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T21:42:07+00:00

If you rly think about it i swear WAY less often its like something changed in me. I say stuff like zamnn and frick i dont even swear that much anymore have you noticed? I think im more down to earth and if you can be cool without swearing then youre actually cool

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-07T21:43:16+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PH4tAVdOU-I

This is one of my all time favorite youtube video. Crack me up everytime. I wonder if Kripp was a virgin (he's 25 in the video even though he looks 40 haha) when he made it. He met his wife shortly after (she contacted him through his stream). She seems like a total sweetheart and very smart. He really won at life. My man.

monster_lily · 2023-11-07T21:54:01+00:00

Time to learn about derivative guys

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-08T00:53:15+00:00

Wikihow dot com how to have w rizz (with pictures)

clueless343 · 2023-11-08T02:41:16+00:00

Is it really cheating if a red pill man sleeps with other women? Isn't the whole idea to have a 15 year old virgin wife whose magically also financially independent who caters to you while you do whatever you want?

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-08T08:54:13+00:00

IMHO, guys who love to watch hardcore porn where some dude is banging some woman are either gay or have a cuck fetish.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-07T18:28:39+00:00

Are you fertile?

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