Daily Community Chat Megathread

itzReborn · 2023-11-29T22:10:59+00:00

Closed mouths don’t get fed but damn do I have a hard time opening my mouth

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-11-29T22:10:21+00:00

Q4PP: what are your blue pill takes?

Seems a common take here is that purple pill means agreeing broadly with the red pill just pulling out before it goes off the deep end.

SigmaThinkingMan · 2023-11-29T22:05:51+00:00

Q4W who claim "80 20 is wrong!"

Hmm then perhaps 100 percent of women are going for 100 percent of men. But wait that doesn't sound true, lots of men struggle and a lot die never partnered or even die as virgins. Short guys, ugly guys, shy guys, ethnic guys, autistic guys or even a combination of all of the above.

So if you think 80 20 is wrong, and it's obviously not 100 100. Then what would you say the ratio is.

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T21:46:23+00:00

When i see ah red flair i just stay away. Red isnt the color of danger for no reason. Like red flairs just scare me theyre BRIGHT red Omg

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T21:45:22+00:00

Ppd please let us block people please Im begging

GreatSmashPlayer · 2023-11-29T21:30:11+00:00

A lot of men here severely overestimate the importance of not being a virgin when it comes to dating. I've dated and hooked up with quite a few girls in my time and not a single one of them has ever asked about my sexual history.

Yes, it's true that many (or even most) women are turned off by guys who are virgins. But you're not obligated to volunteer that information. Just like a girl would never voluntarily tell you that three dudes ran a train on her last night, you can also keep your mouth shut about your level of experience. Just keep it to yourself and it probably won't be an issue.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-29T21:25:38+00:00

Who downvoted me for saying that i like ass?

AmoXereca · 2023-11-29T21:20:07+00:00

Q4W: If you were a virgin man searching for a virgin girlfriend, what would you do to find one?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-29T21:13:26+00:00

I wanted to share one of my most embarrassing moments. When I was a teen, my cousin was involved in model/pageantry type events and they were big. Reluctantly I was dragged to them and I saw a girl I crushed on HEAVILY. She wasn't the sexiest, but she was the most beautiful in my eyes. AND she was all smart and shit. At first glance it appeared she was interested in me too, asking things about myself, suggesting that I go talk to her mom about getting her phone number ( apparently her mom had her locked down tight ). This girl was busy with a million activities, singing (she has released an album on a cassette record deal that was received mildly ok in south america, modelling, etc)

I asked said mom, and to many people's surprise, I got her number. We talked on the landline, once every 3 weeks or so, for a long time. She would suggest that we should go to the movies and hold hands and that we should definitely kiss. She suggested that. I was like yeah babe, when. That day never happened as her mom would never allow it. I'm like no prob, when we get older and go to college.

The first week that I'm getting orientation at University, I think of her and totally give her a call. Her mom said she goes to Georgetown but here's her cell, you could totally call her. I give the girl a ring, and I hear in her tone that she's taken aback from hearing me. I ask her what's up, how's she's doing, all that jazz. She launches into how life is like for her. So I ask her out, I'm like babe, you finally have a lot more independence, let's go out on a date and she hits me with " oh ohmaygahh, you've always been a good friend... " and she didn't finish her sentence. Just left that hang in the air.

I didn't say anything. I thought she was going to finish that thought but she didn't. After hearing some nervous noises on her end, I hear her start stuttering and rumbling, "well I'm really busy getting settled and I need to do so many things to get ready for the school year and ..."

I just hung up. I remember taking a long deep breath of cold air, looking up at the sky after having finished a shift of work. Just shaking my head of how stupid I was. Like she didn't even remember that she suggested romantic things to me. She probably didn't even remember any of our conversations.

I felt like the biggest loser in the world. The dumbest person to walk it. Even with the certainty of remembering many of our past talks on the phone, I was a friend and not a potential bf.

SigmaThinkingMan · 2023-11-29T21:01:45+00:00

Wish I could link all the TikTok vids made by women with all women commenters, to disprove all of the old married women here, but then it would get banned by mods for "circle jerking".

AmoXereca · 2023-11-29T21:00:03+00:00

Every individual tries to find and live with people similar to them as a way to validate their identity and better relate to one another. Harry Potter fans gravitate torwards each other so they can discuss their favorite books, so they have someone to relate to. Same goes for anime fans, baking enthusiasts, everyone really.

Promiscuous women actively promote promiscuity to Teen girls so that the next generation acts like them, validating their poor choices in life.

Everyone seeks validation from others similar to them merely existing. Finding a peer makes us feel like we belong, like we are not anomalies in this world. Everyone does this.

However, when i, a 21 year old virgin man, try to find a virgin girlfriend as a way to make myself feel valid and comfortable, it's suddenly wrong and creepy, because women are free or something and i'm an inkwell for wantong to find someone similar to me.

The same people who say "being a virgin at X age is not a big deal, there are many" also say shit like "you shouldn't expect a girl your age to be a virgin". What a fucking joke! If it's normal i should be able to find a virgin gf. In the end they don't believe anything they say themselves, they only spew out whatever bullshit helps them maintain the status quo and the woke agenda.

"Be a good cuck and lose your virginity to the school's hoe, be a good cuck and pay taxes for single moms, be a good cuck and marry a "reformed" slut, be a good cuck and raise the child from her affair"

This ain't it!

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-29T20:52:25+00:00

I feel like luck is the biggest factor of men being successful on OLD I’ve had a few dates and two relationships through OLD and all of them just happened to be who I matched with/ saw when I felt like talking- I’ve probably spent less than an hour on the app total in 5 years I just pick someone and commit lmao

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-29T20:33:04+00:00

I think a lot of men here don’t really like women, but they’re willing to tolerate one for sex, which results in women picking up on that vibe and not dating them. Men who like women are attractive. Listening to and having a conversation with a woman is attractive. You can definitely tell when a man is resentful or doesn’t like women and it’s a turn-off. I want to be with a man who loves me, not one who puts up with me for sex.

shmupsy · 2023-11-29T20:31:55+00:00

being able to see what every poster in this sub looked like would mean so much more than the words they type

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T20:24:45+00:00

Why hasn’t anyone made a big-budget, epic, 3-4 hour historical film about Lewis and Clark’s expedition to the Pacific? I would totally watch that.

Luciansleep · 2023-11-29T20:13:41+00:00

What are come good physical conditioning ideas other than running for miles? That’s pretty much all I do and the rower.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-29T20:04:26+00:00

I think feminists should offer men something similar to indulgences. Like you donate to vera house or something and then you're forgiven for hitting on your 19 year old sister in law.

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T19:59:02+00:00

Guys freshman are so interesting cz a guy literally gave me a dollar so i would give him a quarter LMAOOO

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T19:44:44+00:00

Anyone else literally cant do anything with cold hands like if my hands are cold it literally hurts to move them and typing and writing are so difficult and the nails omg.... Feeling your nails with cold hands is worse than hell literally

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T19:39:04+00:00

One thing i cant stand is when ppl make everything about sex especially guys i honestly cant deal with it like our cultue is so oversexualized im getting tired of it omg

OKSector69 · 2023-11-29T19:38:05+00:00

I think women here underestimate how much serial monogamy coupled with womens' high standards creates a dynamic that's basically like a "soft harem". The top 20% of the most attractive desirable men have lots of options so even if they're willing to commit to a monogamous relationship, they might get bored easily and quickly move onto the next woman.

Say these relationships last six months on average and the average top tier guy dates only two women a year but the women are happy being single for 6 months and would rather wait for her turn with the next 20% guy than lower her standards. That means it's easy for the top 20% of men to effectively monopolize 40% of available women.

Let's imagine that the top 50% of men and women are attractive and the bottom 50% are unattractive. That would mean once that 40% of women is taken off the market, there are only 10% of women left who are attractive but 30% of men competing for them. After 10% pair off you have 20% of attractive men left who are unable to date attractive women and are forced to either stay single or date unattractive women.

And that's just normal serial dating with some pretty conservative numbers. In reality there are men who date multiple women, or have multiple casual FWB situationships, men who go through a lot more than 2 women a year, and lots of women who are perfectly fine waiting around for these guys.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-29T19:37:11+00:00

After viewing yet another Orion Taraban video on youtube, I can definitively say that he is the final word on PPD of what's going on in the dating world today. He basically answers all the questions PPD regularly posts. Interestingly enough, even though it appears he himself is not a RP type of guy, nearly all his conclusions are thoughts that were chessed out by the RP community years ago. The thought experiment has been completed, and we are witnessing the proof in real time. The conversation is over. A regular guy (or girl) can theoretically just listen to all his musings and insights and get 95% of all the RP knowledge without having to go through all the legacy material in a linear fashion.

Women are no longer the sphinx. They've been solved.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-29T19:36:34+00:00

Imagine if birds had PPD and came here to vent after failed mating rituals

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T19:34:59+00:00

Guys cheating in a relationship should be a jailable offense like

grillopie · 2023-11-29T19:06:21+00:00

Can someone paint a picture for me of what a porn addiction looks like? It just seems nebulous to me, like a sex addiction. At what point does usage become addiction? When it starts interfering with your job?

addons_45 · 2023-11-29T18:49:30+00:00

Dating for guys below a certain threshold height (5'6 and under) is EXTREMELY difficult

REPOST since comments got locked on my post

The idea for this post came by while I was browsing the shortguys subreddit, a dude was talking about how when ur short you have to do almost everything to find a shot at dating, he was talking about working out 5-6x a week, making sure ur not bald, skincare, watching diet to make sure ur not fat and all that which made me realize how hard this shit is for dudes like us, I'm 5'4 max and although I have had girls before, I believe that it was partly some luck and also because I had done good amount of self improvement which unconsciously helped me be more confident maybe which made me approach a decent amount of girls. Its incredibly insane that short dudes have to do all this for a chance at dating lol, and even then ur not promised anything, and I know self improvement for sake of others isn't good, I did the self improvement because I liked myself when I did that but expecting and giving advice to other short dudes to do all this when they are not getting dating prospects is insane, the only solution I see for short dudes wanting semi attractive girls is either by approaching a lot, 1k+ girls or moving urself to a market where ur appreciated more (ie passport broing) What other solutions do u guys think there are? Any other short guys want to interject?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-29T18:38:23+00:00

There are unemployed, drug dealing, personality disordered, futureless good-for-nothings who have absolutely no problem finding female companionship.

Why are men so interested in women who fall for guys like that? Do guys really not see they're doing exactly what those women are doing?

its-probly-over · 2023-11-29T18:35:10+00:00

I'm hungry

addons_45 · 2023-11-29T18:31:24+00:00

Why tf was my new post blocked/removed by mod? I genuinely wanted to get some discussions lol

itzReborn · 2023-11-29T18:28:46+00:00

Cute girl sitting near by id approach if I had more confidence and she wasn’t wearing headphones smh

DarayRaven · 2023-11-29T18:27:07+00:00

"PUA has a place in RP. Personally, I never saw the point. If you're friends with a Chad, you know he doesn't need game. It definitely helps, but 9 times out of 10, she's fucking Chad because he's tall and handsome. Instead of learning PUA, I opted to hit the gym. The ROI from fitness is much higher for attracting women"

You still need game even as the typical archetype guys here love referring to, Chad can fuck online even if his autistic but put him in some social zone then he becomes deficit to a less good-looking guy who can demand female attention due to his outstanding social skills

Slipthe · 2023-11-29T18:22:40+00:00

I just told my BF, "How you feel about your dick is how I feel about my boobies."

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T18:20:58+00:00

Would you rather date as a tall, mentally disabled man or a short, neurotypical man?

its-probly-over · 2023-11-29T18:16:10+00:00

Had the most pointless 4 hour meeting at work, i thought im going to go insane. mfkers dragged me outa my house to turn up in the office just for them to talk about 'team building exercises' like bruh no one cares. If people dont know teamwork then why were they hired in the first place?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-11-29T18:04:04+00:00

There's this girl (same age as me) I've known since we were in preschool and considered my sister once were in touch in the past but years ago would flake on me, use me for her convenience like needing rides, etc., when we were around 18/19 years old. Same time she messed around with a lot of Thrones and got pregnant in high school. Eventually I cut her off because I got tired of her using me but over a 20 year period had very minimal contact with her. Her mom and my mom are also friends.

A few days ago while on the phone with my mom, my mom told me that said girl called her and told my mom to remind me that "she was my first crush". I'm trying to find out why the hell she told my mom that when I have NEVER mentioned before. I think I have a feeling why she said that, especially now shes single and has 3 kids by 3 different men and her days of partying and fucking around are long behind her.

Not sure if any similar thing has happened to anyone else on this sub, where someone you've known for a long time and has blown you off suddenly decides to come around and show interest many years later.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-29T18:02:28+00:00

Would you rather cheat or get cheated on?

PBtoast707 · 2023-11-29T17:45:03+00:00

I had my baby ten days ago and I still can’t believe I had a girl. My husband was so sure it was going to be a boy. I highly recommend waiting until birth to find out the gender, it was such a good surprise. It also makes me wonder why it seems like everyone wasn’t to find out early nowadays.

iliyb · 2023-11-29T17:41:11+00:00

Moids rights activist have the biggest victim complex. Imagine being a man in a first world country and thinking you're opressed for being male.

Luciansleep · 2023-11-29T17:36:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/s/LVU2KWZGkc

Q4All: Do you agree with the comments saying that cheating is partially justified if the man watched porn?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-29T17:36:28+00:00

High SMV + Good Personality = Many female friends and High body count

High SMV + Mid Personality = Few female friends and High body count

Mid SMV + Good Personality = Many female friends and 0 body count

Evidence --> https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/185uvlf/lol_the_level_of_invisibility_i_have_feels_comical/

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-29T17:28:51+00:00

Q4Feminists: I don't believe the patriarchy exists. Prove to me it does.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T17:19:03+00:00

My male friend wants to get into a relationship naturally but he barely leaves his apartment, won’t get on dating apps, and mostly works from home. How does he expect this relationship to just “happen”?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-29T16:45:04+00:00

Bro, no woman should be bothered by their man scrolling through insta baddies. Those who do are insecure because of their weight or looks -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/186052i/im_sick_of_putting_up_with_male_internet_habits/

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-29T16:42:54+00:00

Cope -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/PlusSize/comments/1867dtr/hype_for_all_my_fellow_fat_babesdudes/

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-29T16:35:18+00:00

Sex is an impossibility for American born men who are good at math. No matter how socially skilled well groomed or even tall they are American men who can math are fucked in the dating market for life.

If this is you you’re probably in your mid 20s with $3M+ NW already move countries get out of the USA I’m warning you

sine120 · 2023-11-29T16:27:45+00:00

Why is the act of a woman skillfully disassembling and cleaning a firearm so hot?

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T16:22:46+00:00

AWWWWWWW my calculus teachers wife had a new baby Omgggggg

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-29T16:18:04+00:00

I like wearing black turtlenecks but it's brings more attention to my chest and I dunno what I'm supposed to do about that

I think it's funny tho cause my titties are not exceptional so personally I think people shouldn't stare

DarayRaven · 2023-11-29T16:11:19+00:00

Fellas how would you go about getting this woman:

https://www.instagram.com/p/CkoommQPzjc/

To my ratings just by this picture, she's clearly an 8/10 or 9/10

So what would be your strategy at least getting her in bed

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-29T16:03:27+00:00

How to hide bruises? (looking for smudge proof, waterproof reccos)

Another weekly blood test, but this time the nurse butchered the insertion and now I have a massive hematoma on my arm.

Husband and child are disturbed ("you look like a DV victim"-Husband), and my typical makeup only does so much.

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T15:52:49+00:00

Guys i have a physics test later but literally why did physics go from hard aff to easy af overnight i dont get it

From a 60 to almost an A

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-29T15:52:30+00:00

Does it give women the ick for a man to use an illegal streaming site for movies? Not that I'm ever stopping, but just curious about your thoughts

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-29T15:52:08+00:00

10 ECTS is 250-300 hours of work they said, meanwhile I spent like 20 on a math course and got an A (grade average was slightly below B)

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-29T13:24:24+00:00

I feel like paying for an escort or subscribing to a only fans is basically a man saying he gives up.

soupmastwr · 2023-11-29T06:14:51+00:00

Is anyone else waiting for feminist to argue cheating is empowering?

keebydee · 2023-11-29T05:16:51+00:00

Welp, I got sucked in a age age discussion. God, people are just so fucking stupid. It's just so unreal to me. "I'm 22 and just cannot wrap my head around dating someone whose 18." Huh?? You're only 4 years older bro. What's wrong with you? 😂

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-29T13:02:43+00:00

Rant brought on by a recent encounter, but the more I see and learn, the more I'm convinced that "non-binary" people are just narcissists. I can almost understand being trans and feeling like you were born the wrong gender, but saying you're "non binary" and requesting "they/them" pronouns just feels like another way to claim you're a special snowflake. It doesn't help that most of these people I've met have been, to be honest, self-absorbed assholes. Go ahead, bring on the ban.

Human-Ad-1145 · 2023-11-29T08:43:09+00:00

I'm so fucking depressed.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-29T22:53:02+00:00

Just saw a reel that said men can make up for being ugly by being rich, funny, succesful, high status but women can’t really ever make up for being unattractive. Thoughts

purplish_possum · 2023-11-29T05:44:18+00:00

As we were driving home from Thanksgiving last week my 15-year-old daughter was asking questions about how our legal system works. I mentioned court appointed investigators. She said "like the lady at the court house who interviewed me when you and mom got divorced?" I said "yeah". Then she said "That lady kept on asking if you hit me." I inquired "did she ask you if mom hit you?" My daughter said "no."

Think I lost a bit of faith in our family law system.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-29T08:10:12+00:00

Just practicing my lettering

https://preview.redd.it/eao3inq1w83c1.jpeg?width=1774&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fe03b3a936a69b89bc27db4013d94a3771905d73

I just can't get it down for some reason

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-29T09:15:52+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/186eu7z/i_34f_caught_my_partner_42m_talking_with_an_ai/

I never thought I would say this in my lifetime but

He cheated on you with artifical intelligence

I can’t believe this is reality

I wish you the best OP I really can’t think of anything constructive to say this is brand new territory

Hhahahaha

Sadly the post was deleted, but just reading the comments is hilarious

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-29T11:26:10+00:00

"People are made to feel ashamed for having perfectly normal bodies. Incredibly common and healthy bodily features such as cellulite, stretch marks, scars and even just glimpses of body fat are treated like they're disgusting aberrations by the media and popular culture. We need to encourage representation of normal bodily features so that people understand that no, they're not some freak for having said features. We'll call it body positivity!"

"Sounds good, I shouldn't be made to feel like a freak just because I'm fat!"

"That's the spirit! But do please keep healthy and ensure that-"

"Fat people ARE sexy and anything that indicates otherwise is fatphobic!"

"Well that's not really the point of what we're trying to achieve here-"

"If you refuse to date a fat person because they're fat then you're fatphobic!"

"What? We're getting really off topic here, I don't really know why-"

"BODY FAT HAS ZERO IMPACT ON HEALTH! DOCTORS ARE LYING! THE WHOLE MEDICAL COMMUNITY HAS CONSPIRED TO ERADICATE FAT PEOPLE THROUGH MISINFORMATION! THIS IS A GENOCIDE!"

"...OK I'm done, it's your movement now I guess."

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-29T13:28:49+00:00

I was at a construction site today and I’m pretty sure everyone except the managers were on drugs.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-29T14:28:25+00:00

ngl i’m really scared of sex. the idea is nice but it’s so scary. i actually have no idea how long it will take me to have sex once i’m in a relationship

AmoXereca · 2023-11-30T00:53:45+00:00

What do ya'll have against virgin men who want virgin gfs?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-30T01:37:59+00:00

I saw a tweet where the dude said you letting a guy raw dog you every night but when he sleeping you going through his phone, do you trust him or not? Lol that kinda crazy though if I’m a girl and I think the guy is sleeping with other girls to the point that I’m going through his phone I probably shouldn’t be letting him nut in me

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T03:53:13+00:00

People who found a special someone after meeting a lot of people have some merit. You have to have thick skin to be able to expose yourself to rejection or to reject and move on without losing hope.

It's safer to stay at home and never risk it

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-29T05:00:45+00:00

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T05:41:55+00:00

My most dramatic cousin who has beef with everyone will not be spending Christmas with the family this year, which has unfortunately decreased the risk of conflict and family secret reveals by 50%.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-29T05:45:09+00:00

When I compliment girls at bars and clubs, they treat it nonchalantly as if I just said the sky is blue. Imagine being a woman and being so privileged and getting so much adoration and attention constantly that you react that way

female privilege

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-29T05:46:48+00:00

Just found my psychotic BPD/bipolar ex roommates Facebook after years. Man she got fat. She has a new hideous man she's dating too. She's dated so many fucking dudes and banged dozens more, it's like a revolving door of overweight bearded cavemen in her life, you just can't keep track of it.

That time in my life was brief but man it's packed full of bad memories.

derektheaccountant · 2023-11-29T06:34:45+00:00

I just got liked by a former model on hinge. She seems real, doesn't appear to be a scammer? has all social media (insta/linkedin/facebook) that matches her hinge profile

Wtf do i do?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T07:56:53+00:00

Women who believe infidelity can be overcome, what would you do if your husband confessed to cheating on you and you forgave him and stuck with him, but then like a month later his fling found out she’s pregnant? She dies in childbirth and your husband gets full custody of the baby. Do you encourage him to take it and you’ll raise the child together?

keebydee · 2023-11-29T13:50:26+00:00

Had my brother wake me up early so I can put air in the tires. 😒😒 Claims mother told me to do it. This dude talking about how I was supposed do it yesterday so now I gotta do it today. Monkey, I gotta do it because you couldn't do it yourself. You're the one who uses the car for work, you fill the bitch up with the air.

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-29T14:17:02+00:00

It’s really humbling losing weight as a obese-lord. Down 10 pounds this month and feeling great, but then I look at the man in the mirror and remember I’m still fat.

Still keeping a positive outlook though. I’m mainly losing weight so I don’t feel any phat anxiety when out in public, if maidens become attracted to me then that’s honestly a bonus, bro. But I do have a ogre-like face so I don’t see that happening but hey maybe I’ll be that one exception always brought up in pill debates.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-29T14:37:13+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Likes waffles over pancakes
Is subscribed to Netflix, Hulu, or Disney+
Drives a Ford, Toyota, BMW, or Jeep, OR
Has ever had a crush on a close friend

Dizzirron · 2023-11-29T22:46:14+00:00

Way too many removed comments lately. PPD and Reddit in its totality, is speeding away from being a debate space.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-11-29T22:55:06+00:00

The only time I ever hear about women having deeper more meaningful friendships than men is when the topic of lonely men comes up. Otherwise, Iv'e commonly heard many women wish their friendships could be more drama free and chill like men's are (not necessarily agreeing this is true all the time).

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-29T23:37:17+00:00

I love how this subreddit blames women for choosing bad baby daddies, but think there’s nothing fucked up about planning to have kids with a woman he cant trust to not commit paternity fraud.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-29T23:49:51+00:00

I thought she'd ignore me 😂

https://preview.redd.it/v42z4tohjd3c1.jpeg?width=1242&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4a1025f2bc7ccc622fa53fbc61be7f827df47891

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-11-30T01:02:48+00:00

As a short man I think the only women I can truly empathize with when it comes to dating are ugly women, like the really ugly women...

This is because, as a guy, I know how guys treat ugly women. You could be the sweetest kindest woman doing everything guys say they want and you'll still get treated like you're invisible to them. Meanwhile a drop dead gorgeous woman will get treated much kinder by men, they'll get cut a lot more slack, and they'll get complimented for the smallest of things.

For a man, the equivalent is being short...

Women (and to a certain degree men too) will treat you shittier, not for anything you did but purely because you're short. You don't get cut as much slack as a tall man does, it feels like you have to be perfect all the time because they already have a negative view of you subconsciously, so the second you slip up it just confirms what they already think about you. A tall guy on the other hand can be more brash, can get away with a lot more, and women will still love him just for being tall.

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T04:57:29+00:00

Lowkey noticing the hidden sexism in the flairs like if u look at them they made the mens color more bright and the womens color more dim/pastel they keep trying to take womens spotlight SMH 🙄🙄🙄🙄

scwizard · 2023-11-29T05:38:35+00:00

So, if your relationship is burning hot in the beginning but something doesn’t feel right, ask yourself what’s making you feel overwhelmed. Are you showered with over-the-top gifts? Are you pressured to pick up the pace and make your relationship exclusive?

Wait pressuring a girl to make a relationship exclusive is a red flag?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-29T07:06:50+00:00

philip lewis on X: "Young Thug’s lawyer explains what “Young Thug” means: "Truly Humbled Under God. That's what Thug means." https://t.co/MCf04Rn5m4" / X (twitter.com)

bro is getting sentenced to 5 life sentences after this

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-29T12:23:51+00:00

Easy A in discrete mathematics.

Maffioze · 2023-11-29T12:42:39+00:00

I bought a camera drone and it's so much fun to fly with. I never knew my own neighbourhood could be so pretty from above.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-29T13:17:37+00:00

Dating someone with a crazy ex is a hell no I don’t care how cute they are lol. That’s how people get seriously hurt and or killed. “Yeah I have an Order of protection against my ex because he stalks and threatened to kill me”. Nah I’m good, for the record it’s not like I’m scared of anyone. I’m a pretty big guy and I have my own arsenal it’s just anyone can get got so I wouldn’t willingly put myself in that type of drama. It’s funny we always have these discussions on peoples pasts and with dudes it’s always focused on her N count and things she’s done sexually where I feel this is way more important.

Waschbar-krahe · 2023-11-29T13:18:46+00:00

I think my boyfriend is about to propose, which is exciting. He's got a ring sized wrapped box under our Christmas tree and it has the name of a jewelry company on it.... He's not the best at hiding gifts, but it's sweet regardless.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-29T13:52:27+00:00

Guys on OLD: Women are shallow, and only care about looks! That's why I don't get matches.

The same guys: Go on apps that are primarily about their picture, take shitty pictures, and write nothing in their bio.

Slipthe · 2023-11-29T15:29:04+00:00

Civ 6 is ruining my sleep schedule. Idk why it's so addictive.

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T23:21:01+00:00

Guys the love between mother and daughter is so deep

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-29T23:41:17+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/funnyvideos/s/jdd1jPrNk4 I too would hide under the table he’s too attractive for me

odd_cloud · 2023-11-29T23:52:36+00:00

I notice it’s news for people that a substantial share of men do not regularly approach women. For me as a man it makes perfect sense that guys don’t approach. Do people think that it is as simple as “you like a woman -> you approach her”?

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-30T02:14:17+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/hejn3wsg9e3c1.jpeg?width=1062&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=639f643c9cee742b8007b2ac2da1d17237263953

keebydee · 2023-11-30T02:21:38+00:00

Does anyone have any specifics good memories they like to reminisce on to remind themselves that the opposite sex isn't as bad as you think they are whenever you feel bitter and angry?

Mine takes place in like 1st grade at the roller rink, when my skates was super knotted up and I couldn't figure out how to get them off. I was mute at the time so I couldn't tell anyone that I was having issues taking off my skates so I just sat on the ground the whole time frustratingly trying to take them off myself.

I was getting super scared and thought the school would have to cut off my feet to get the skates off because to me I thought they were super glued to me at that point. Lol.

My last ditch effort was to raise my hand and hope that someone would magically know what my issue was. People would just walk right past me and some would high five me then walk away. Until after a while this small group of older girls came up to me and somehow knew I was having trouble with my skates and got them off for me. I remember being so happy and relieved that day. I like to think of it whenever I'm feeling bitter.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-30T02:35:33+00:00

I'm at a varsity wrestling match to take photos. Why does it feel like more fun to photograph the heavy weights.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-30T03:46:52+00:00

the best male characters in fantasy novels are the ones who’ve killed and tortured tons of people but are complete simps for the women they love 🥰

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T04:34:52+00:00

How do you know a post is fake?

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/187108h/is_there_anything_that_can_be_done_to_repair_the/

(TLDR a red pill woman has told many lies to her husband about her sexual past and now he doesn't believe her)

1) it replicates some pill narrative

2) she wrote like 6 other posts titled W**hat do you think of my tight little pussy 🐱 😏**

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-29T05:04:37+00:00

Thirst

Human-Ad-1145 · 2023-11-29T05:08:23+00:00

Human-Ad-1145 · 2023-11-29T05:20:21+00:00

👀

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-29T08:10:22+00:00

I saw Magnus Midtbø at the climbing Gym yesterday.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-11-29T13:19:52+00:00

I always wondered what percentage of relationships would “both sides” agree that it ended on good terms. My first two relationships would be hell no because we both hate each other now lol, the third I ended it on good terms but I feel like she was still in love with me.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-29T14:07:39+00:00

So I give her a compliment and she rolled her eyes while giving me a naughty smirk. That's one sign saying I'm annoying her and another saying I didn't mind what you said. I swear I'm either somewhere on the autism spectrum or women are so hard to understand.

keebydee · 2023-11-29T14:18:41+00:00

We should judge men for their past

You know what, I agree with that title. See if the guy has a history of cheating, any kids from previous relationships, check with his family how he treats women that he's in relationships with, stuff like that. Let's see what OP is talking about here.

Men with a lack of experience with women are often weird, awkward, creepy and they're OBSESSED with teenage girls and they're lack of experience with them. If I were you, I wouldn't date them and should go for guys who had LTR's and a handful of hookups. These guys are less dangerous, teehee.

Ok, suuuure. Bitch, just say that you don't like the idea of dating an inexperienced guy. You don't have to make a gross generalization to justify yourself. Let's put guys who have ZERO experience under a hard microscope to see what their problem is but not these Chads who had multiple relationships/hookups and did god knows what to those women he dated before.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-29T15:36:01+00:00

I’ve been wondering again if I might be on the spectrum. I’m sensitive to loud noises, have very focused, specific interests and don’t enjoy much else, have a hard time relating to people, etc. But the one time I asked a psychiatrist about it, she dismissed it pretty quickly. I’m wondering if it might be a good idea to try asking another one.

UnstoppableCheekbust · 2023-11-29T15:50:11+00:00

I've accidentally stumbled upon the pornocomic "The Swing" and started reading out of pure curiosity. I triggered such deep insecurities within me that I couldn't finish reading it. I have been wandering around my town for almost an hour by now to try and clear my head. This always happens whenever I read stories such as that one.

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-29T22:50:29+00:00

Husband got an unexpected day-off today, so I was hoping he would make dinner...But he went to the gym and now I'm cooking and finishing the laundry he's started. I am not happy lol.

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T23:23:34+00:00

Guys the one 1️⃣ thing i love about being in a patriarchal family is that its ok for me to be a gold digger like familially

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T00:10:39+00:00

Guys whos ur favorite artist mine is pinkpantheress shes literally me spiritually physically emotionally everything

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-11-30T01:12:23+00:00

Does anyone have tips to stop 2 puppies from being jealous and fighting when one gets attention?

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-30T01:16:20+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Discussion/s/Oi9CJdOHUl

I guarantee you that 99% of people commenting on this post are white teenagers who have never grown up in the hood but don’t want their tough guy fantasy destroyed.

scwizard · 2023-11-30T02:20:20+00:00

Previous research finds that both men and women perceive sexualized women as lacking in certain human qualities such as mental capacity and moral status

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6707629/

Do you see sexualized woman as lacking mental capacity and moral status?

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T02:41:49+00:00

Guys im literally shivering cz i cant post guys anymore

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T02:43:33+00:00

I wish i had ah british accent

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-30T03:00:12+00:00

My favorite cope tbh is pretending sex isn’t real. Like, it’s all just some big government conspiracy to make us feel miserable. Porn is all just some elaborate CGI, vaginas aren’t even real, and babies really do come from storks!

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T04:58:51+00:00

Anybody remember that song Pushing 🅿

TigerRude4 · 2023-11-30T07:46:41+00:00

Going through archived posts on chadfish is depressing. Reminds me of the times when I was overthinking what to write on tinder.

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leosandlattes · 2023-11-29T05:16:00+00:00

Jesse Eisenberg looks like he’d be so annoying in bed but I’d like it anyway.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-29T05:18:12+00:00

Wish I could be close enough with someone to have a mutual s** pact with them. I feel like I never got to reach my full potential for crazy. Maybe we can die together in like a satanic ritual or something. Or maybe we do a bunch of drugs at the same time, get quintuple crossfaded and die that way.

I'll never have a connection that special. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I BLAME EVERYONE ELSE!!!!!!!!

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T06:15:39+00:00

That photo of the KC Chiefs headdress kid from a different angle is maybe the greatest save of all time. I was like 😯 and then I was like 😮‍💨

soupmastwr · 2023-11-29T06:31:20+00:00

Has anyone seen Napoltand if so do you think it has important lesson on relationships?

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-11-29T07:19:22+00:00

Who remembers Average Adam and Super Sophie....

I think they are due a Christmas special.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-29T08:53:48+00:00

if I had so many guys seem to only interact with women romantically or sexually, is a massive red flag.

Gladboys · 2023-11-29T09:07:25+00:00

yeah escorts are way better than gambling why the fuck was i gambling for so long

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-29T09:31:50+00:00

Theres just something magical about tight athletic derrieres. I can't figure out what it is tho. [Insert drug reference] ((mental instability apparent))

mention: pointless anecdote #32789 where I went on a date with an actual gangster after he decided to quit m3th and h3roin and he told me a story about how he was trapping out a motel room with his homies and they had to stay awake on meth for days to keep his friends girl from k****** herself and they finally crashed and woke up to her d34d on the bathroom floor with the n33dl3 still in her arm

walks in the room

I think my adderall might be laced with something

SLAMS DOOR

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-29T10:07:01+00:00

Interesting comment by the OG of evo psych. In a cross cultural mega study he did a few decades back, the one thing that showed extreme cross cultural variability was a desire for sexual purity. In this case, the importance of a virgin bride.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a6SXALMQPuQ&t=472s

(about 9 min to 10 min for the comment--short)

I don't think this means that there are not universal evolved instincts regarding female sexual purity, but it does suggest they are not nearly as ubiquitous and strong as many TRPers would say. The issue for the study is the framing of virgin vs. no virgin. Not caring if she is a virgin is not the same as thinking a woman's N Count is 100% irrelevant, or that there is no difference between male and female N Counts.

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-29T11:17:59+00:00

Older men are causing the sexual market place imbalance - I say this as a 29 year old man.

Too many late 20s and 30s guys having sex with 20 year old girls on the regular. Even 25-28 year old guys having sex with 18 year olds when those 18 year olds should be going for 18 year old guys, .

The younger guys need to band together to collectively shoo off the older men this will result in the most success for younger men in the SMP. All of you all are young you need to fight for the pussy as a collective - think fraternities.

testamentfan67 · 2023-11-29T14:05:23+00:00

Trying to learn Spanish, German, and Greek at the same time.

happy_discus · 2023-11-29T15:14:05+00:00

I am really afraid to go to the birthday party I am invited. It's on Saturday and I know one single person. Out of 30. I don't even know the guy who is celebrating. All I know is his name and that he's in a situationship with my best friend. She's the only person I know there. It's going to be awful. Mostly because I don't do well in social situations (fk autism). I don't even know why he has invited me.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-11-29T15:29:21+00:00

What's the theory behind text rizz? Do you just make it very easy and low effort to reply to you so they talk as much as possible. Or what

monster_lily · 2023-11-29T15:49:02+00:00

Guys which one should i take i dont want any of these tbhhh

https://preview.redd.it/f5k6ojjv5b3c1.png?width=1698&format=png&auto=webp&s=51fe72773bfb0ad99b1862d51864762f558edd9e

its-probly-over · 2023-11-29T21:53:17+00:00

If you went crying to mods cus you got blocked then you are a certified biiatch

AmoXereca · 2023-11-29T22:23:54+00:00

Q4M: How many 18+ virgin girls have you met and how did you meet?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T22:29:19+00:00

If you and your spouse committed a crime together, would you rather both accept responsibility and go to jail for three months, or you take the fall alone and go to jail for six months so your spouse doesn’t serve any time?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T22:30:18+00:00

If your spouse accidentally killed someone would you report it to the police?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-29T22:42:06+00:00

If I ever get married and my husband divorces me it will be for being too annoying.

huhwhatokok · 2023-11-29T23:33:40+00:00

My coworker is literally the embodiment of the modern day woman lol. Today someone asked her if she has a height requirement and she said “taller than me” (she’s 5’3) and then she corrected herself and said “5’10 minimum” and then went on a holier than thou statement about how she doesn’t like tall guys because they’re clumsy yada yada. She really was trying to virtue signal like her minimum height is above average heigh for an American man. Which means she doesn’t even view 5’10-6ft as tall nor above average.

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T00:46:55+00:00

Guys spotify wrapped is really embarrassing i cant

monster_lily · 2023-11-30T00:57:12+00:00

I swear snapchat is one of the most annyoing and useless apps ever

relish5k · 2023-11-30T01:39:42+00:00

Question for paternity-testing-enthusiasts:

What percent of paternity fraud cases do you think represent married vs unmarried couples?

I bet the answer would be included in (this study)[https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16686854/] but alas it’s paywalled. If I had to guess though I would say <10% of paternity fraud cases impact married couples.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-11-30T01:50:17+00:00

I just saw a short movie analysis about the movie Lolita on YouTube (I haven't seen it) and oh my lord jesus how is that a mainstream movie??

I know I'm very late to this

The fact that that movie wouldn't exist in 2023 makes me have faith in the future

Human-Ad-1145 · 2023-11-30T02:29:12+00:00

Wisdom tooth extraction sucks ass. Nobody mentioned the excessive amounts of saliva.

Coffee-n-Ativan · 2023-11-30T02:59:34+00:00

I'm lying down eating a slice of pepperoni and ham pizza. I got a couple pieces of ham on my chest, ate them, and then I grabbed my own nipple and tried to pop it in my mouth.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-30T03:02:20+00:00

People who say you should treat women like humans are absolutely wrong.

Men need to objectify women because men are marginalized and have a much harder time dating by virtue of their gender.

As a man, you will get rejected 80%+ of the time. In order to stay sane, it's much better to see women as objects or games to beat or use as training. When you get rejected, you're not getting rejected by a person. It's a blip in the game or training you're doing. She's just an object to train your social skills or to satisfy your sexual drive with.

lacuti3 · 2023-11-30T03:47:46+00:00

Q4ALL: someone said guys ignore other guys. why do they do this?

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-30T04:19:09+00:00

Session 1 out of 6 done with the sleeve. Super happy with how things are turning out so far.

AmoXereca · 2023-11-30T04:34:43+00:00

Q4ALL: How to find a virgin gf?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-30T04:53:59+00:00

Just world atheists are the same as religious people

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-30T04:57:27+00:00

mfs will overcome a piddly little struggle and come out the other end thinking they're Socrates

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-11-30T06:38:00+00:00

What's the first thing you think of when you hear the phrase "husband material"? What do you think it means, and what is it supposed to mean

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-30T00:28:23+00:00

Did anyone else read books about first-generation immigrant children as a kid and think it sounds really cool and interesting to be from an immigrant family?

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I think my adderall might be laced with something

SLAMS DOOR