Try to think from a perspective of a normal young woman who is dating and says that although the guy she is seeing is nice, he is also boring - what exactly is meant by "boring" in a relationship sense? Is it because some women become so used to chaos, comfort seems uncomfortable? Someone who is a homebody, someone who prefers dinner or coffee dates, someone who likes hanging 1 on 1 instead of attending a party with you, lacking a cool and thrilling career? I see this is a pretty mainstream complaint, but it never lists what exactly are these guys doing that makes them boring. A lot of single nerdy men on reddit seem to be well versed in pop culture, politics and even art and literature (topics women otherwise love to chat about), but are still seen as boring, even though your typical bad boy, or "one of the lads" types mostly talk about sports and cars.