Daily Community Chat Megathread

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-07T12:12:31+00:00

I got an email instigated from a “concerned redditor” for crisis hot line information lmao

hannahg000 · 2023-10-07T12:11:52+00:00

thinking of finding god. maybe i will be happier

crash-8-ball · 2023-10-07T11:58:45+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/171j4jy/no_women_spewing_he_doesnt_owe_you_sex_laughable/

Is this really a woman being treated how some men get treated by women or is it a LARPer.

Assuming it is true, why isn't she just happy that a man "wants her" and maybe she should stop seeing her BF as more than just a sexial object.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-07T11:53:46+00:00

Well my boyfriend just broke up with me. We met almost two years go on this thread and dated long distance with visits. I was supposed to move in with him across the world for a year and try out being together full time. He said that his life is too much of a mess to bring me into it but I’m not dumb and know that’s bullshit.

what do I do now?

keebydee · 2023-10-07T11:35:55+00:00

Had a dream where I got to date a mute girl at school. Nothing more than a fantasy

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-07T11:31:22+00:00

My husband has gone off to meet up with a bunch of cannabis harvesters on the occasion of…their harvest. I can’t go because I’m still purging and shedding my skin like a microwaved reptile. Should I be pouty?

saulbasedman · 2023-10-07T11:23:44+00:00

I'm gonna say it:

Madonna's songs are mid and too simple.

Hall & Oates and Huey Lewis sweep the floor with her.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-07T11:23:44+00:00

It seems that most of the issues people have here is because of American hangups about sexuality, Mostly stemming from religion (even in the non religious people). This hangups end up repressing/shaming female sexuality, which in end penalises male sexual expression

For example, stuff like virginity obsession of "waiting till marriage" aren't a thing in most Western European countries. Casual sex ain't demonised or being seen as "seeing the other as piece of meat!". (Low) porn consumption isn't something anyone cares about,and is certainly doesn't being seen as just a male think. Masturbating 1-2 times per day most days of the week would be seen as normal/ok while many Americans would see it as too much. Saying that "women want commitment and don't care about just sex" would give you a big side eye

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T10:13:38+00:00

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m: text me half an hour before you're free

w: where do you live

m: who cares. I will come to you

w: you will come and keep making fun of/berate/humiliate me

m: yes

w: then why should we meet? I don't like it/it makes me feel bad

~1 hour later

w: Is it still on?

Maffioze · 2023-10-07T08:31:51+00:00

An Indian couple in the train got their back stolen. A guy jumped on the train, pretended to go to the toilet and took their bags and jumped back off. And now they don't have their passports. Man this sucks.

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T08:12:38+00:00

You started talking to someone you don't know that much. Maybe you matched or met recently. You don't even know if you like them or not yet.

How much time does it take you to reply back? How much initiative do you take? How much time you're willing to wait / think is normal between texts before you think they have low interest in you or lose interest yourself? Do you care about messaging to much/too fast, coming to eager/easy/desperate?

Maffioze · 2023-10-07T08:08:11+00:00

There is such a cute dog in the train. And he loved people. He's being an excited sweetheart.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-07T07:55:19+00:00

I’m so bummed my favorite neighbor is moving out tomorrow, he’s so fun to hang with.

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-10-07T07:51:07+00:00

Just got banned from the r/dating subreddit for replying to someone mentioning the whatever podcast asking for which episode he was mentioning even though I specifically stated I don’t usually engage with such “alpha male podcast” bs for “promoting incel rhetoric”. Ngl, it feels more like a badge of honor than anything.

Firm_Shirt_2553 · 2023-10-07T07:49:31+00:00

Note to self: don't jerk off when tired as fuck.

I almost passed out.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-07T07:17:55+00:00

Where can I find the most mentally deranged people to surround myself with? I'm looking to kick it up a notch and befriend some psychos.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-07T07:03:01+00:00

You’d think that with how much men like watching women get fucked by other men they’d be more ok with body counts

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-10-07T06:14:18+00:00

In a facebook travel group some guy asked if people could sponsor him for his trips today.

The comments made fun of him and said maybe if he were a woman. There were tons of comments lol. The group does have a lot of guys trying to find a girl to travel with though. I feel like a lot of men pay for it.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-07T06:05:36+00:00

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I've been so unempathetic to men fr. I didn't know not having gf was this horrible! society when men have no gf without his consent 😞😭😭😢😢

HighlyyFlashy · 2023-10-07T06:03:19+00:00

i love getting facials but i HATE when that shit gets in my eyes. my eye always gets red and sore for like half an hour.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-07T05:38:30+00:00

Oh wise people who think men just need "basic social skills", tell me how to approach a woman at a bar or club.

There is not a single woman who is alone or not engaged with anyone. She is talking to a guy or engaged in her group of friends.

You have to pull her attention away from her friends while her friends are watching and listening in on everything. Her friends can disrupt you trying to talk to her at anytime and you have to compete with her friends trying to take her attention away from you. Everyone can see that you're desperately begging her to even talk to you. You're their entertainment for the night. They're watching you and will gossip about you, make fun of you and mock you later. Or even right in your face while you're hitting on her because it's so loud they can talk to each other and you can't hear.

There is not a single woman who will even talk to you without you going through that hazing.

Oh wise sages tell me how I can use "basic social skills" in this very simple social situation.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-07T05:05:03+00:00

u/Ok_Bear976 bro u go to UofT? i heard people say the workload is pure ropefuel, is that true?

my parents wanted me to go there or waterloo and i was like "hell no".

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-07T04:44:26+00:00

best flirty emojis to use?

potoricco · 2023-10-07T04:40:02+00:00

Mods pleaaaase let us block people

keebydee · 2023-10-07T04:37:52+00:00

I'm starting to hate bedtime. As I'm trying to sleep, my mind starts to ruminate on self-hating thoughts about my autism and it's messing with my sleep schedule. I just wanna go to sleep at a decent time. 😭

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-07T04:19:09+00:00

So apparently my cousin started dating this girl he was in class together with in secondary school, except neither of them seem to remember being in class together? Wtf is wrong with their memories.

AI_CODE_MONKEY · 2023-10-07T03:51:45+00:00

https://i.ylilauta.org/42/69/4269051ad11348a7.jpg

rate her

saraimarsena · 2023-10-07T03:51:08+00:00

friends to lovers >>>>>

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-07T03:45:03+00:00

Elliott Smith looks so cute in some of his appearances on television. He really had that "I'm suicidally depressed and hopelessly addicted to heroin" type of vibe. Probably due to his heroin addiction and morbid depression.

Everything about his music is so devastating to listen to. He really understood how to pull on people's heartstrings while composing colorful, textured songs. A legit genius. He looks completely miserable here

I wish I could see him perform live but he died in 2004.

sine120 · 2023-10-07T03:27:25+00:00

If kurzgesagt is making videos on demographic collapse is it safe to say it's reached mainstream attention yet?

keebydee · 2023-10-07T03:24:37+00:00

I hope once mother finds me a therapist, It'll actually help. In BP spaces, people talk about how therapy doesn't much for them and it's just a scam.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-07T03:24:20+00:00

With how therapy is discussed it mostly sounds like gaslighting about how your legitimate worries and problems aren’t real.

text-redacted · 2023-10-07T03:04:10+00:00

Been a hot minute since I've been even slightly drunk, feels good man

Sillysheila · 2023-10-07T02:57:15+00:00

I dunno why Frasier isn’t so popular compared to Friends or Seinfeld. Some of the episodes are really funny.

Sillysheila · 2023-10-07T02:51:20+00:00

I know it’s very early in the season but I got some “Christmas tea” on a road trip last weekend and finally got around to drinking it. It might be one of the most delicious things I’ve ever tasted. Not exaggerating. It’s like drinking gingerbread

Remarkable-Letter466 · 2023-10-07T02:36:20+00:00

**Social support was consistently linked to higher levels of happiness** and lower levels of unhappiness across all income groups. Having strong social ties and mutual support networks positively influenced people’s overall well-being.

https://www.psypost.org/2023/10/extensive-analysis-of-152-countries-uncovers-societal-determinants-of-happiness-213915

A few observations:

- "Social support" includes, particularly important, intimate romantic/sexual relationships.

- Yes, close platonic friends are a thing, but for most people, we're talking about family, which means a partner.

- Men getting a lot of their social support via their spouse is not a bad thing, not a problem to be "fixed." They are that way because that's how they are.

- Complaining about "oh, oh, men should support each other like female friends do, men are bad, men should be better, no one owes anything to men, men are completely responsible for their owns problems, it isn't fair for men to want things from women" ... that sort of thing is bullshit, and we all know it.

- If you're going to **argue that men should get social support from their male friends instead of their partners**, then you're arguing for men to change what they want. Since you're allowing for telling other people that they're wrong for wanting the things that they want **then you'd equally have to admit that women should change what they consider to be "attractive" in men, so then they should be having a lot more sex with men they now consider "unattractive."**

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-07T02:21:27+00:00

I kind of want to dye my hair dirty white but apparently that ruins your hair

potoricco · 2023-10-07T02:17:13+00:00

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This will be remembered for centuries

CradleCity · 2023-10-07T02:10:56+00:00

I'm a guy who has never liked animal-associated outfits/clothes/props. Doesn't matter how good or sexy they make a woman look, in the eyes of some. I dislike them, for some reason.

Bunny outfits? Turn-off (and the oversized bunny ears look a bit too silly, to boot). Leopard/cougar/tiger-printed sexy clothing? Turn-off. Cat or dog ears/props? Major Turn-off.

I wonder why.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-07T02:08:54+00:00

These background check companies are fucking retarded. Sends me a link to their website where I will upload my diploma to prove my master’s degree then I get a mail telling them to send me their diploma over mail. Wtf was the point of uploading it then?

potoricco · 2023-10-07T02:07:17+00:00

Literally only on tiktok will you see someone with 2 million followers but only 300 likes average on their posts

hannahg000 · 2023-10-07T02:06:09+00:00

how will my future boyfriend deal with the fact that he’s been cucked by 100s of celebrities and fictional characters in my imagination?

Standard-Friend9770 · 2023-10-07T02:06:09+00:00

Most men have better skin than most women. There’s always this joke about men have shit skin care routines, but whenever I see a woman take off makeup their skin looks horrific. They almost look sickly pale with bags under their eyes and have acne. Not hating, but caking on foundation doesn’t make your skin better you’re just hiding it.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-10-07T02:05:52+00:00

I miss the incel subreddits tbh. The only forums left are the batshit crazy ones like .is or whatever. Believe it or not, not all of us are completely unhinged, and some of the subs (like incels without hate) were pretty calm. They were hilarious too, but now we have no place left to be except infesting subreddits like this that clearly don’t want us.

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Slyfer_Seven · 2023-10-07T01:01:27+00:00

Weekend plans?

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-07T01:03:56+00:00

Second :)

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-07T01:04:41+00:00

Avoid the sun, try to mastermind the reunion of my ex with our daughter from halfway around the world 🤞& probably eat some sushi. You?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-07T01:06:59+00:00

I honestly could care less if a movie embellishes or even flat out lies with the back story of a movie as long as the acting/directing is great and I enjoy myself watching it.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T01:09:11+00:00

Cant wait to get high, go home and watch horror movies

October is the superior month and whoever disagrees can challenge me to a duel

HolidayWhile · 2023-10-07T01:11:15+00:00

I'm sure women are used to getting asked for their number, what's a way to spin this so she'll remember me among the pile of texts in her inbox?

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-10-07T01:13:52+00:00

My therapy is just watching some youtube shorts about makeup 💄❤️

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-07T01:29:38+00:00

What is the best place to meet hoe men? My vote is a trap house.

Best place to meet a hoe woman? Probably a swingers club or fetlife.

Where do you go to meet promiscuous people? Lmk!!!

potoricco · 2023-10-07T01:29:45+00:00

I want to dye my hair either red (like copper/ginger) black or light brown with blond highlights but I don’t think my mom would let me I’ll ask her tomorrow

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-07T01:31:46+00:00

Girl fights are disappointing because the prettier one always loses.

meteorness123 · 2023-10-07T01:43:00+00:00

Q4 Men. Would you rather

a) have an average face and be over 6ft

b) have an above average face and be of average height

DerayRevan · 2023-10-07T01:43:46+00:00

I wanna make this extremely clear after reading a post about op saying it's weird for men to wanna sleep with attractive women before they have any compatibility or chemistry, and here's the post

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/nzj8IL77Mx

Now l said that this is a female perspective of viewing sex, one thing people always seem to forget is men are born with the natural ability to separate their emotions from sex that's they often get addicted to porn and also cheat more(which l don't advocate but rather giving the facts), a man never has to feel any of type of chemistry or vibes to make him sleep with a woman because just by seeing an attractive woman he's already turned on

Women are the same way also when they see an attractive man however since women have a higher investment cost in sex(meaning they loose more by engaging in casual sex) emotional intimacy is also very important for a woman to sleep with you

potoricco · 2023-10-07T01:44:23+00:00

I want a keratin treatment

FizzleMateriel · 2023-10-07T01:51:57+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/171hsbh/guy_i_was_seeing_got_me_pregnant_and_has_been/

What a Chad. Stories like this intrigue me because they’re so different from my and my friends’ usual dating experiences.

Basically if a girl really, really likes you/thinks you’re hot enough, you do basically anything and it won’t matter.

blebbyroo · 2023-10-07T02:03:04+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/hZLi97nKXm Tldr: she likes ugly guys cause they treat her well; ugly bf heard her say so and is upset

potoricco · 2023-10-07T02:03:34+00:00

My dilemma is that I need money to be able to buy and do things I like

To get money I need a job

But if I get a job then I’ll have no TIME to do things I’ll like

meteorness123 · 2023-10-07T02:04:41+00:00

Currently swaying back and forth between proudly wanting to control my sexual impulses and focusing one person only and going all out and being a absolutely shameless and massive sexual hedonist.

So tell me, what the hell is a fella to do ?

For every day I retain, another urge ensues.

Firm_Shirt_2553 · 2023-10-07T02:21:12+00:00

I just went from going 10 hours without food to eating two meals an hour apart. Maybe I should have skipped the very late lunch.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-07T12:20:15+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Bangkok/s/9o88SzGa8U

New passport bro arrives, thinks he’s killing it.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T12:20:16+00:00

Does weed usage affect male libido/male refractory period?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-07T12:26:00+00:00

I understand Patrick Swayze character in dirty dancing is supposed to be a “bad boy” but he didn’t really do anything bad in that movie. He punched some dude who popped shit but that don’t make you a bad boy. I know squares who fight when they get disrespected. He never get that other chick pregnant and he didn’t steal the jewelry. He was just good looking and got mad pussy

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-07T12:37:38+00:00

One (American) State Solution please. Call the whole thing South Lebanon or West Jordan or something. Palestinoids couldn’t vote to exterminate all israeloids like some fear under an independent one state solution since they’d have constitutional protections under a much larger government and the feds would prevent that.

It’s a win-win-win situation.

GridReXX · 2023-10-07T12:51:54+00:00

I’ve been here for way too long ikik, but I can say this sub used to attract normie average guys (AFCs) 5 years ago.

Wth happened? It’s almost 95% loner non-normie 🤖 guys now.

Did autism skyrocket? Or did men start becoming socialized into something that looks like acute socially inept autism to everyone else?

The guys who used to come here used to have friends. Now it’s definitely friendless anti-sociable inhibited dudes as the norm here.

We need a normie agenda! Stat!! Lmao

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-07T13:38:51+00:00

Men who proudly declare that they don't care about the "easy" women who they have casual sex with (or wish they would) are lying to themselves and hating themselves. It's so fucking annoying and frustrating to see. Because I sort of get it, I'm a very introverted virgin who doesn't really like socializing (quirky, I know), and over time I really grew to understand how much being stuck in this position sucks, it really does. I think basically every man knows the feeling of angst that comes with being the more eager gender while getting sex is also obviously more difficult for us - that's a mindfuck. I get it.

But I love women in porn. It's not some sort of magical deep romantic love, but it's a warm feeling of appreciation and endearment, which is the exact mentality I would approach casual sex with, if I ever did that. That is how lust is supposed to be. It's a type of love, it's a nice thing, and it's fun as fuck. Never let that tainted by the world, always hold onto that feeling within yourself. That's my advice to men.

The issue is that this aspect of men is not really understood by women, so they are vary of it, hence why entire ideologies exist about how male sexuality being seemingly any different from women's is toxic misogyny. I do think women's dismissal - and straight up hostility - of this male experience plays into men getting more angsty, I do think women have a part to play in making this shit less of a clusterfuck, but there is a giant self-feeding cycle of stubborn grumpiness here that we got ourselves into. The less women care about men's desirability and sex related pain, the more assholish men will become, and the more assholish men are, the harder it will be for women to care. It's tragic, and a difficult thing to climb out of it, but I believe it's possible.

What men can do is drawing clear boundaries when it comes to women pathologizing our sexuality: yes, the idea of a woman randomly offering me a blowjob when I deliver her a pizza excites me, and I'm not going to listen to your socialization theories, I don't care, this is who I am, and I don't think it means I see her as non-human. That's it. Hold the fuck onto that warm feeling without demanding a single thing from women, let them decide whatever the fuck they want to do with men in light of this information, pass the ball to them. That's what men need to do. LOVE this part of yourself to the bitter end, be honest to yourself, even if women will never be able to feel comfortable with it. That's not your responsibility beyond respecting them and not being an obnoxious idiot. Don't slip into fucking mind games of "getting back at women", don't make things worse, there is no need for it. Aim to appreciate women's existence in the way you truly do, let that be, it's okay. Losing that is never, ever the answer.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-07T13:41:29+00:00

Does anyone else think all Disney live action remakes look worse than the original? Which one do you find more visually enjoyable out of the below 2?

https://youtu.be/eitDnP0_83k?feature=shared

https://youtu.be/0eWUhXPhIaE?feature=shared

All the charm and goofs are gone in the new one, atleast to me.

And no, Disney is not just nostalgia baiting oldheads since they're trying to get kids to watch these as well.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T13:55:39+00:00

As good as I am with kids. I really fucking hate them. Working retail has made me despise the average person and their children

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T13:57:41+00:00

How do you define a “normie”

Please be as specific as possible

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-07T14:02:07+00:00

My husband is exactly like this when he’s working on something.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-07T14:13:21+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0XZQgFQchA

Praying my man's passport sis wife has good intentions. She wanted to move to Argentina with him rather than stay in Sweden, so I have hope.

NextAd1069 · 2023-10-07T14:21:00+00:00

Q4M: How did you manage to find virgin women?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-07T14:30:18+00:00

I had an eye opening conversation with one of my fWbs yesterday that really left me saddened. Leave it to PPD to have a post adjacent to it titled "Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive".

My friend intimated her feelings and her emotional world, things revolving around the time we first got together. I was under a different impression of things. I am shocked at the counsel she received from her long time friends, who urged her in certain directions. She brought up that there was another three "attractive" suitors around the time we were getting to know each other.

I didn't suspect that, but it doesn't bother me. What does bother me is that these men were in the "running" for her affection/sex, and she, and her friends considered them attractive. I asked to take a look at their instagram to see.

These guys are not attractive. My face dropped, I felt disgust and repulsion. I felt a deep stone in my stomach. These men were not good looking. I seriously question her taste. And if she can be charmed by ogre, brick looking mother fuckers like that, she can literally be swayed/charmed by anyone. And that realization didn't feel good. These guys would need charm oozing out of every pore on their skin, their verbal game would have to be super duper human levels high for anyone to consider these guys "attractive".

It seems to be the case that I "won" out in the end, but I'm seriously wondering if I did. According to her friends, these guys be good looking was reason enough to sleep with them. Which flies in the face of the post "Guys, it’s actually weird to be willing to sleep with any woman that is attractive".

My reply to that post is; Women, there is nothing "weird" about being willing and eager to sleep with attractive women. At least we know what actually looks attractive and desirable. And our capacity is flexbile to find so many different body types, face shapes, and other immutable physical traits unlike your(women's) often contradictory, strange, random takes.

I really have to sit with this sour taste in my mouth and digest it all.

potoricco · 2023-10-07T14:41:22+00:00

I have made the decision to delete twitter today

potoricco · 2023-10-07T14:44:50+00:00

Romantic love doesnt exist

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-07T14:51:04+00:00

Ok, I'm working on that post I promised dropping the routine. Problem is I have ADHD so I have hit a wall and am losing interest. It is also quite lengthy. I'm thinking I might post one paragraph a day so I can stay fresh or I could just work on it until it's done. Not sure yet. Maybe I'll take a little break and come back to it.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T15:03:00+00:00

Calling a man an incel is indirectly saying that men who fuck and run through women are more respectable and I dont think women understand this, consciously

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-07T15:04:52+00:00

Just like Haley's Comet, our goddess Liv blessed us briefly with her presence only to disappear off into that long dark night yet again. Until next time ✨💫

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T15:08:34+00:00

me and who

https://preview.redd.it/f35pl6ucqssb1.png?width=1019&format=png&auto=webp&s=bd5259d0f24d6b8d216bd79e8afda88e786ada13

SianOiseau · 2023-10-07T15:19:40+00:00

A big portion of perpetually single PPD men have some kind of issues with socializing and forming bonds with people. Some of them have friends (who often have the same struggles so it isn't very helpful), some don't have anyone and either don't know how to find a friend or don't even feel the need for it. There are several posters who claim that they don't want to interact with others "more than it's necessary" and just want a woman to have sex or a have a gf to fulfill all their social needs and she should be just as much of a shut-in as they are.

Basically you want people who don't know how to walk and who claim that they don't even want to learn that or don't feel the need to walk to go and run in the park. I'm really curious what would happen with them if they suddenly lost all the access to social medias or computer games.

u/ConTrikster

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-07T15:26:02+00:00

ik a lot of women have the ”tame the hedonistic bad boy into a good boy" fantasy (I can fix him fantasy), but I am curious if it's just completely unattractive reversed since high n counts r gross etc etc

slutty girl turned obedient submissive housewife who does not even bat an eye to other men because the sex you give is SO good and she just wants you and your affection so much other men arent even in the equation. you tamed the beast, and the beast is now your dog!! you control her hedonism for her own good, and she loves you for it

obviously unrealistic as hell but is it hot? or is this just extra betabuxxing etc etc

princedune · 2023-10-07T15:30:26+00:00

Went out clubbing last night with some friends I haven't talked to in a year or so. In my experience its so rare to reach out to friends you haven't talked to in forever, but its so nice when it happens. I challenge you all to give an old friend a call and see how its going

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-07T15:34:18+00:00

What does wanting someone down to earth mean to you on a dating profile?

Maffioze · 2023-10-07T15:50:27+00:00

A lot of men and women here really need to just go out and talk to people of the opposite gender. So they will realize they are not at all that terrible or unempathic and are human beings just like them. And yes that applies to myself as well, I am using this to reflect on myself as well.

text-redacted · 2023-10-07T15:52:04+00:00

Predicament:

I was going to buy my bf a phone for his birthday next week, but we kind of thought it would be better to wait for some good sales in December. So now I have no idea what to get him.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-07T16:07:05+00:00

https://twitter.com/DAKKADAKKA1/status/1710672318232445302

I need her but girls who look like that have a 90% chance of having BPD and or take meds

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-07T16:23:24+00:00

Women do like nice guys.

potoricco · 2023-10-07T16:25:02+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/fgu2ylh04tsb1.jpeg?width=857&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fbf4e7f725e7d74c31ceddb6f8c78cd79c427e2d

Not letting you forget about him

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-07T16:42:36+00:00

A lot of these women only subs centered around looks and ratings have such high standards for women, and so many comments on how they don't like that men overrate simple faces, I'm like isn't that good? That we have low standards? For me, simple plain faces with doe eyes are quite cute

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-07T16:42:42+00:00

You gotta love allpilldebate

"Would you make your kids go though leg lengthening surgery if he's short?"

"No, I will teach them about self love and confidence"

"Literally child abuse I hope you go to jail"

DrCornSyrup · 2023-10-07T16:50:32+00:00

Free Palestine!

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-07T16:56:06+00:00

Anyone here that has actually benefitted from this subreddit? Like advice/you learned something that actually helped you?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-07T17:06:38+00:00

Not a good day for me. I have been disappointed my a client in my side hustle, a supplier for the company I co-own and an employee at my full time job.

I'm that pissed

potoricco · 2023-10-07T17:13:19+00:00

I want lash extensions

GridReXX · 2023-10-07T17:17:35+00:00

PPD Guy: Yes, and if men did that [rally around prostate cancer awareness], it would be considered misogynistic because it supports men.

Reality:

https://preview.redd.it/bshg4vzcdtsb1.png?width=1484&format=png&auto=webp&s=3657beb18334f09a940039df09147b7dd7d5f4df

DerayRevan · 2023-10-07T17:18:43+00:00

Too many psych themselves into thinking they need a romantic relationship when all they want is casual dating

Is are often good-looking and rich guys in my experience, they get into a relationship and turns out they aren't made for it or don't want it

I think the ideal of monogamy has been drilled into the minds of so many men and l understand since it's been the most common they've seen ever since they were children however in 2023 with everything being sexualized, l think that ideal has died

Don't get me l think many monogamy is great for many guys but sametime casual dating is something guys l would suggest many guys focusing on because not all want monogamy or romance but just short-term sexual relationships

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-07T17:24:38+00:00

Having lived through and observed a number of Israeli - Gaza wars, I can tell you that the next weeks will be brutal for the Palestinians in Gaza.

Just wait and see, bro.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-07T17:26:29+00:00

When drake said, "Blame that shit on bein' twenty-five/That excuse for me just doesn't fly" I felt that.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T17:32:10+00:00

Random but I think David Beckham one of if not the ultimate chad/high value man

He is 6 foot

Is one of the greatest footballers of all time and played for the 2 most popular pro futbol clubs in the world in Real Madrid & Man United

Stunning face/facial structure

Hes british with an accent

Currently part owner of Miami FC in which he employs Lio Messi

And is married to a forner spice girl who he got in her prime

Guy checks every box. Height, status, former pro athlete, multi millionaire, pre-selection, looks

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-07T17:32:31+00:00

Theoretically I don't think Israel should be there. However, I am an absolute simp for jewish girls with dark hair and big noses 😍

I'm not even kidding. I'm trying to be funny with the way I'm delivering this, but I'm serious. That is peak beauty in my opinion. The typical western beauty standards of the "hot girl" does nothing for me. Margot Robbie? Boring. Jenny Slate? Goddess.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-10-07T17:36:01+00:00

Drake dissing Rihanna was pretty lame and he exposed himself as a simp still caught up on a girl who did not want him and now he watches as a lesser talent (ASAP Rocky) in his industry got with her and put 2 babies in her

In the diss he states that the sex with her was average and hes fucked way better looking girls than her. Both can be true but I believe a guy saying this out loud is the biggest indicator of being hurt that another rapper got the girl he always wanted

No_Bluejay569 · 2023-10-07T17:38:32+00:00

the women are wonderful effect is really just sexism. women attributing more positive qualities to other women while men dont do the same to other men is sexism no matter what type of nonsense people try to justify it as. the patriarchy doesnt exist and the only reason women are so adamant that it does is because if the genders were reversed they would brutally suppress men. there would be no chivalry they would see men through a lense of contempt just like they do now. women uphold a "matriarchy", men don't uphold a patriarchy. cmv

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-07T17:48:54+00:00

I don’t think it’s a c*pe to say I sincerely don’t envy or respect the umc. I’m not jealous of their neighborhoods or their culture or any of that.

They’re so damn dull.

y2kjanelle · 2023-10-07T17:53:11+00:00

Why did some random guy send me a video about waiting til marriage to have sex?

Weirdo fr. 💀

throwawayeyeglasses · 2023-10-07T17:57:12+00:00

The best type of women are the ones that can banter and are very goofy

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-10-07T18:11:14+00:00

In addicted to sassy girls

potoricco · 2023-10-07T18:13:31+00:00

I am tired of women being used as collateral damage in war

GrassTypical5328 · 2023-10-07T18:20:16+00:00

the problem with promiscuous people is they always seem to want to try and peer pressure and look down on those that arent promiscuous i tend to find a similar trend with gay men. thats my biggest criticism of those groups i think

GrassTypical5328 · 2023-10-07T18:22:20+00:00

if men start having an in-group bias like women do how would that be different from the fabled "patriarchy" i keep hearing about? isnt that literally what a patriarchy would be?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-07T18:24:40+00:00

I continue seeing women chasing after this players and hoping they can change them into nice relationship material guys who'll commit, even when they've the AF side, they still want to put some BB qualities into the guy

It's same with guys automatically simping hoping that l'll be enough to get an attractive woman liking them

So it seems both genders don't know how to play their cards right

SianOiseau · 2023-10-07T18:27:38+00:00

I try to reduce the amount of news I'm reading, but now when I do read them it feels like peeking into a concentrated murderous circus. Just from one fast scorlling:

Russian journalist proposed to blast thermonuclear bomb above Siberia. Russian ministry of health issued a decree to lower the turnover of medical abortion pills and morning pills. A Russian artist drawing bodypositive pictures was declared criminally wanted. Russia is planning to conduct nuclear tests.

That's taking aside all the bombing, killed people, destroyed towns etc.

Enough news for the week I guess.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-07T18:31:16+00:00

There are people who have really gotten into physical fights(some led in death) because of what someone said to them online.

Lol I have seen comment sections for example on IG where two guys get into an argument over nonsense and agree to meet up at a place to fight

GrassTypical5328 · 2023-10-07T18:38:03+00:00

Q4W would u date a guy that's regularly been getting screwed in the bum for the past 10 years. it was 5 different guys. one every 2 years. would u be cool with that? why or why not?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-07T18:39:20+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxVb5_yLj4I/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Felt

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-07T18:41:05+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxVb5_yLj4I/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Twinseo09 · 2023-10-07T18:43:49+00:00

The video thread is honestly a self drag by men. You guys can’t even tell when a women is actively showcasing disinterest in your presence.

GrassTypical5328 · 2023-10-07T18:50:14+00:00

women should feel bad about trying to feminize men and encourage men to be homosexual when they know that's not what they (as in the women) are attracted to

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T18:53:27+00:00

lol

women say they're the better and more thoughtful gift givers than men, mens gifts suck

men say they barely get any gifts at all

which one is true?

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-07T19:00:11+00:00

In today's episode of "woke doesn't exist"

https://np.reddit.com/r/therewasanattempt/comments/17261zb/to_trick_you_into_thinking_hes_not_58/

I love all the schrodigers douchebags in the comments saying "we're not attacking his height. We're attacking that he bans drag then wears heels!!!"

No.... no, you're attacking a short man's insecurities.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-07T19:01:30+00:00

Men aren't as Stacy chasing as women are Chad chasing.

Many men would sleep with type of women they would LTR and would even prefer the down to earth 6/10 woman over the hot 8/10 bitchy woman for casual sex. The problem is that the type of woman he wants a LTR with wouldn't be the type to have casual sex, so he has to chase the type of annoying vain/slutty woman who would have casual sex.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-07T19:06:54+00:00

Seeing instagram stories of my tinder match I had 2 dates with is depressing

Genuinely thought we were a match, so soul crushing. I gotta unfollow her.

the-lone-squid · 2023-10-07T19:10:40+00:00

It's Atlas the biggest loser of PPD? I think so

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-07T19:36:08+00:00

People here who say how 2-3 rejections in a row are soul crushing wouldn't have the stomach to do anything revolving film, Especially acting

Like,if you think your romantic rejections are soul crushing, imagine a young actor who has to rack a mountain level of rejections before landing into anything of importance/value

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-07T19:43:26+00:00

Q4A: if you could become gay overnight, would you do it?

No trial period and no coming back if you say yes. You will be as attracted to your gender as you are right now of the opposite gender for the rest of your life. State your gender.

If you're already gay, same question except change gay by straight.

If you're bi, no need to answer.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-07T19:55:05+00:00

Tell me about the weirdest way you have ever got a date

I'll start. I was a little drunk and not thinking clearly and I saw one of those "missing cat" posters. I called the number and they didn't answer so I left a voicemail apologozing because I needed protein so I caught the cat and cooked it into a stew

I got a call from an unknown number the next day and a woman said "I missed a call from this number" and I knew what it was so I said it wasn't me and she said ok sorry and hung up. Then she started texting me all sassy saying I'm a loser. I just ghosted her and then a weak later she texted and called me a bitch and then I decided fuck it and asked if she is pretty and if she wants to get drinks sometime

We ended up dating for a while. Her cat was OK, she had found it weeks before

Tell me about the most random or unorthodox ways you got a date

SianOiseau · 2023-10-07T20:00:54+00:00

"If you're afraid of flights, give yourself some time and imagine, vividly imagine how you're going to the airport, through security, boarding on the plane, how it's taking off and...starting to fall. Imagine how everyone is crying, you smell the smoke, can't take a breath, imagine your death. Then think that we're all living on a planet going through space to nowhere and everyone who lived here prior to you has died and everyone living now will die sooner or later. Maybe dying in the airplane crash is better than long and tormenting death from an illness or being drown. Thousands of people die in an awful way. Everything you're afraid of can happen."

I feel that this advice can either help someone with anxiety or send them into panic attack lol.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-10-07T20:13:38+00:00

Alarming new trend: women are matching with me on tinder then unmatching after I drop an opener. Question is, are they bots created by tinder to keep me from deleting my account, or are these ladies seeing themselves as charitably 'giving me a chance' to jester for them then dropping me when I don't jest hard enough?

I'd rather believe they're bots, because the other option means disgusting levels of entitlement.

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T20:16:12+00:00

I love Russian women

meteorness123 · 2023-10-07T20:31:04+00:00

what do you think of Piers Morgan as an interviewer ?

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-07T20:38:49+00:00

My wife just went AWALT on me.

She started talking about the things that turn her on, and, right on cue, it was shit like "showing vulnerability, doing service, blah blah blah".

And yet, since I've been working out she gets crazy turned on watching me do push ups and curls and such.

The equivalent of lingerie for me is me wearing a tool belt and doing masculine fix-it/building things.

Watch what they do, not what they say!

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-07T20:48:29+00:00

A while back, I made a post how most men have been neutered and are afraid to speak their mind or even voice their preferences. You betas laughed at me.

Here's an example of a girl and a neutered bf-->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/171rly6/recently_just_found_out_my_bf_has_a_preference/

DaMilan · 2023-10-07T20:59:37+00:00

Repost of a comment of mine:

The #1 "PPD-Themed" question I would like an answer for is: How aware are stepdads or other Betabuxxers of the relationship dynamic they are in? Like, do they "know" in what predicament they are in and just don't care because they are very pragmatic? Do they "know", but do it anyway because they see no other choice and resent themselves quietly because of it? Have they self-deceived into thinking they "win"? Are they just that NPC like that this is for them a "this is water" type situation? Any other explanation?

I have two coworkers and two friends who are obvious Betabuxxers and I would pay so much money to know what they are thinking. It's psychologically just so interesting, a shame I can't ask them and even if, I probably wouldn't get an honest answer, either because they will consciously lie or have self-deceived them...

HighlyyFlashy · 2023-10-07T21:06:04+00:00

Q4M

Does social media ever make you feel insecure/less than (whether it’s about your body image, relationships, etc.). How and why?

purplish_possum · 2023-10-07T21:11:18+00:00

At a pee wee football game. Could be 1955. Only thing that's changed is the color of everyone's skin.

No societal collapse in sight.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-10-07T21:17:31+00:00

Couple thousand Palestinian women refugees will be looking for a husband soon, y'all get your mother's basements warmed up and ready for'em.

AethertheEternal · 2023-10-07T21:18:48+00:00

(1) Do you know any self-improvement communities (ideally more male and/or youth focused) on Reddit, YouTube or elsewhere.

(2) Do you know any communities for parents especially fathers online (ex: on Reddit or YouTube).

(3) Are there any communities which can help men keep their families and spouses?

(4) Do you know any communities which can help men maintain the skills to remain employable while AI and machine learning get better? Or at least ways to augment my productivity/efficiency with technology? (Assuming I don’t want to be a trade worker for my whole life and that I would like to eventually be part of the management class at least if not an executive or owner).

(5) How can a young man (from a working class/lower middle class background) get closer to the ruling class

(6) How do young men succeed in a world that is becoming increasingly unequal and more elite centered?

(7) How do men of average ability protect themselves and their families from the social collapse (dysfunctional family structure, poor social outcomes like low educational attainment, low social adjustment, poor relationship outcomes, unstable/unhealthy offspring outcomes like social and psychological problems, rising polarization/ethnic tensions, misanthropic/antisocial population, lower standard of living, winner takes all attitudes, poor economic prospects due to advances in AI and machine learning, climate change, etc…)

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-07T21:28:00+00:00

I think I’m going to die before finding an age-appropriate male companion who doesn’t smoke pot or consume cannabis.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-07T21:39:30+00:00

My bf often shows me reddit stories of slutty women getting outed to their boyfriend. And one thing I notice is that every single time, she participated in a gang bang/MMMF. I assume the stories are probably fake, but it got me thinking about in particular having sex with multiple men simultaneously is extremely upsetting for men to think about their partner doing.

I asked guys on the n count thread and most of them agreed that a woman who did a gangbang is worse than a woman with a higher bodycount but no multiple sex.

I am also wondering what kind of kinks guys are disgusted by. Would you rethink your relationship if you found out she did watersports or fisting? I have a feeling that even doing some extreme stuff like that is better than fucking multiple guys simultaneously.

Interesting to think about.

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-07T21:50:52+00:00

I need to crowdsource here...

My wife and I are going to play dirty rummikub tonight, and if one of us plays a wild tile, they get to pick something dirty that the other has to do to them.

We will roll a dice to see what do.

For game #1, we will have 1 dice, so 1-6 will be R rated.

Game #2 will be 2 dice, so 7-12 will be softcore porn rated.

Game #3 will be 3 dice and anything goes. So 13-18 will be hard core porn.

What things would you put on your list for R, softcore and hardcore (man doing it to a woman and woman doing it to a man)

NextAd1069 · 2023-10-07T21:59:11+00:00

Let's settle this once and for all: How to find a virgin girlfriend?

HolidayEfficient4054 · 2023-10-07T22:02:05+00:00

How exactly does hinge work?? i was officially on it for like two hours before i deleted it and got a few “likes” but idk how they work. this is my first time on the dating apps so im ignorant

HighlyyFlashy · 2023-10-07T22:18:21+00:00

Similar but different question to the one I posed earlier…

Q4All: Do you think social media has slightly or significantly warped your perspective of the opposite gender? If yes, how and why? Do you think social media has warped the opposite gender’s perspective of your own gender?

eye_fuck · 2023-10-07T22:23:20+00:00

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-07T22:25:26+00:00

Women trivialize men's need for sex but it is a serious issue.

Getting consistent mutual sex can cure depression and serious mental health illnesses in men. So in a sense, a society that deprives men of sex causes depression and mental illnesses in men. It is in public health interest to help men have sex.

old_new_age · 2023-10-07T22:25:39+00:00

the amount of people who don't understand that the skills you need to maintain a relationship are vastly different and sometimes the complete opposite of the skills you need to get into a relationship blows my mind

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-07T22:31:25+00:00

No wonder some of these men want "agreeable women", they are dumb as rocks and don't want her to call out his nonsense.

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-07T22:35:17+00:00

(Got my first tattoo)[https://imgur.com/a/s9dGW6H]

redheadtingz · 2023-10-07T22:48:02+00:00

Are passport bros going to start heading to South Africa to pick up white women? Or are they too “western” for their liking?

saraimarsena · 2023-10-07T23:14:34+00:00

Q4A: when’s the last time you remember seeing an 8 (or higher, but i think that’s rare) irl, and what did they look like ? basically someone you saw, a stranger, who made you think “wow they’re attractive”

(it’s okay if u have a partner u can still answer, you don’t have to wanna fuck them)

there’s a tall redhead on the train i’m on w blue mascara, and her look is so gorgeous and unique and stylish it’s to die for. so cute

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-07T23:16:01+00:00

Visited some holy ground for you celebrity gossipers Yes, this is where the family is actually from.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-07T23:29:17+00:00

why is everyone on here so angry?

onion_rings_addict · 2023-10-08T00:05:53+00:00

If we could fix the nap bug in humans that'd be great

It was a great nap but half of my brain is still asleep and I hate everything

potoricco · 2023-10-08T00:10:51+00:00

Cant wait to get plastic surgery when I’m like 59

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-08T00:14:04+00:00

I'm compiling a collection of those reddit stories where the guy finds out the girls sexual history and everything blows up in her face. I've already seen 2 more involving group sex. I'm going to try and categorize them into "fake" and "real".

Also saw a story that follows the beta bucks narrative where she gets with an inexperienced guy and won't do kinky stuff anymore. There's a LOOOOOT of posts like this. Seems about 8 yrs ago was when manosphere type guys were all over reddit.

It is hard to tell when these stories are fake or not.

potoricco · 2023-10-08T00:16:35+00:00

I want thin eyebrows like her

potoricco · 2023-10-08T00:20:55+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/3joj8j1wgvsb1.jpeg?width=1068&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15150b400e63ad1f383763f7f6c59a24bfff6cfc

Definitely the prettiest character in bridgerton can we be blatantly honest though

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-08T00:38:45+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/oct/07/fair-play-netflix-gender-pay-gap

Well this should be fun…🍿

text-redacted · 2023-10-08T01:23:58+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxbAna1J3W_/?igshid=MmU2YjMzNjRlOQ==

comments on this are wild

meteorness123 · 2023-10-08T01:28:12+00:00

Imagine being a high level professional athlete and being financially set for life after 30.

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