A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners

ResentCourtship2099 · 2023-10-31T04:46:56+00:00

So it's okay for women to be jealous of the advantages that men have over women but not the other way around? If a woman is jealous or has resentment over men then she is not labeled a masculine woman?

Horror_Loan9401 · 2023-10-30T23:47:57+00:00

I don't think it's jealousy but resentment. a lot of guys don't have any positive experience with women but they want to be with them so they start to resent them

Proudvow · 2023-10-31T02:02:49+00:00

Not being jealous won't suddenly make the men attractive.

they would choose the struggles men have any day of the week

I doubt many of them would. A lot of women would straight up never get a date if they were men with the same personalities.

AidsVictim · 2023-10-31T07:59:54+00:00

I'm not sure criticism translates directly into jealousy in the way you're implying or that it's the reason most men have trouble finding partners, most of these men developed these views after struggling, not preceding.

I can see why the whining about womens advantages in dating (or more broadly) turns women off generally, especially when it gets overexaggerated as it often does in these sorts of spaces.

I know plenty of men who aren’t chads who have success with women. But none of those women think being a woman is easier/ enter than being a man. They know what men have to face when dating and what women have to face when dating and they would choose the struggles men have any day of the week

I don't know a single man, successful or not, that thinks men have it easier than women in dating.

throwaway164_3 · 2023-10-31T08:24:43+00:00

I mean, women do have it objectively easier 🤷🏽‍♂️

Immediate_Rice9213 · 2023-10-30T23:56:26+00:00

"doing things i dont like makes you a girl"

you have internalized misogyny lol

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-31T01:30:55+00:00

The emotionality is unattractive, yes. But that doesn't necessarily mean the opinion itself is wrong or even unattractive.

thedarkracer · 2023-10-31T08:04:07+00:00

"choose the struggles of men any day a week" if they are saying that then they actually believe that men have it much easier. Women don't get rejected as much as men, don't have to put in that much work, don't even approach in most of the cases, all their work is done for them and all they have to do is pick from a plethora of options. It's not jealousy per se but the anger when women say men have it much easier, no wonder suicide rates of men are always higher. Do you even know that even the best rejection comes with a lot of consequences for men? Guys don't flaunt that they rejected a girl (they would flaunt if they slept with her though) but women do and what happens to the guy in the friend circle after that?

Traditional_Crew6617 · 2023-10-31T00:21:00+00:00

This just makes my eye twitch. Here is another rendition of a woman 'knowing' what it's like to be a man. Tell me more about myself

StereoFood · 2023-10-31T02:13:03+00:00

Lmao that’s because y’all do kinda have it easier…

When the titanic sank they didn’t say “men and children first!!”

betanoire · 2023-10-31T01:21:20+00:00

Yes they do, no it doesn't, and no they won't.

obviousredflag · 2023-10-31T14:50:09+00:00

In my social circle, nobody has issues dating and none of the women would like to be a man, while at least half of the men would choose to be born again as women, despite being successful in life. It's not about jealousy, they are fine being men. It's about an objectively gynocentric society in the West. There isn't a single positive media article about manhood, men, manliness, etc. Men are seen as the root of all problems and it's not even regarded as sexist to treat all men for the flaws of few. I don't enjoy being feared by women. I don't enjoy that women are favored when filling job openings. I don't enjoy not being able to engage in age gap relationships without being seen as the evil predator and exploiter. I don't enjoy that my sexuality and sex makes it so that i am never fully satisfied with the amount of sexual partners i have "conquered". I don't enjoy having no reproductive rights, when birth control fails. I don't enjoy being the disposable sex in case of wars.

That said, the difference between men and women on average is still WAY smaller than the difference between men themselves. And the most things men would like about being a woman, would not manifest at all, since as women, they would not value them as they would value them as men.

macone235 · 2023-10-31T00:27:36+00:00

What in the actual manipulative backwards-ass logic is this argument?

This is the equivalent of saying a man is being jealous and acting feminine for calling out his girl for cheating and leaving her.

What's feminine is sitting there and taking it. A masculine man holds frame, and places the truth and logic above all else. Certainly when it negatively affects him. He's not going to let women walk all over him whether it's cheating, or allowing modern women to exercise the great power they've been given over him. He's going to call that shit out, and point out why women deserve less. That's not him being insecure - that's him being secure and unmovable as a man.

ConanTheCybrarian · 2023-10-30T23:50:42+00:00

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AdEffective7894s · 2023-10-31T02:22:37+00:00

So bassi Cally I would get my didck wet if I wasn't suck a whiny loser.

Great.

That was such an intellectual and unchallengable idea .

You are a Titan among men and women everywhere

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-10-30T23:38:39+00:00

I don't think the men here actually want to be a woman. Being a woman certainly sucks in a lot of different ways (people don't respect your opinions, you're encouraged to submit and be polite all the time, can't walk alone at night, probably won't earn as much money, always getting aggressively flirted with, etc.)

But yes, men are generally envious of women's ability to secure dates and friendships without even trying. Women are born with innate social value which decreases as they age, whereas men are born with zero social value and actually need to actively work on it as they age. This is hard work that women can't comprehend because women don't need to do it, and that's where the disconnect comes from. Females will be like "well ur a man and u have male privilege and everyone respects u". We aren't born being respected, we earn respect by putting in the work that females aren't willing to put in.

Women (particularly young women) are loved and cared for just for being women. No one gives a shit about men unless we have something of value to provide.

Men don't want to be women. Men want to be Chads.

Independent-Mail-227 · 2023-10-31T00:05:38+00:00

Scrolling on this board, it’s very clear that men think women have not just an easier time in dating but in life.

Can you prove this as false?

Toxic_LigmaMale · 2023-10-31T00:32:26+00:00

Lol women do have it easier. At least in the west.

SecondEldenLord · 2023-10-31T02:04:49+00:00

Jealous? Not in the slightest. Were black men jealous for not having the same rights and lifestyle as white men? It is about justice, rights and freedom,not jealousy. Many men had lost many things for women's selfish causes. Women wanted rights as men, they got them, but then they wanted more, and more, and more, and more. Once they noticed the media and society bend the knee for them, then they took advantage, manipulated the system, and thus, we have this society now, where bashing straight white men is super ok, where women can get away with almost everything just for being a woman, where men are being demonised wherever they go, where men have 0 value unless they provide, and so on.

So no, it is not jealousy if us men want to stop being demonised and taking advantage of.

nonplussedminus · 2023-10-31T07:55:20+00:00

Being jealous is unattractive in general lol, it has nothing to do with being feminine. Nobody wants a jealous partner.

KamuiObito · 2023-10-31T18:28:13+00:00

Women are Lite Adults

SeveralLiterature980 · 2023-10-30T23:39:37+00:00

it’s very clear that men think women have not just an easier time in dating

They do.

this consistent griping comes off as jealousy and that many men wish they could be women.

This take comes off as lame social shaming.

Straight Women have a very hard time being sexually attracted to or even sexually taking men seriously who envy women.

Nope.

Straight women have a very hard time being sexually attracted to or even sexually taking men seriously who they don't find very physically/sexually appealing.

Pussies have no moral compass.

I don’t get the impression that many of the men on this board actually like being men, which is fine I guess but is going to deeply inhibit your ability to attract women

LOL being a man FIRST is ignoring anyone who has the hot scoop on what it is 'to be a man.'

Second, it's realizing that this take is unfettered bullshit --- your worldview on masculinity has precisely 0 correlation with whether a woman will fuck you. That 0 correlation holds with pretty much any non-superficial character or personality trait.

I know plenty of men who aren’t chads who have success with women

Cool, but also, irrelevant, and likely untrue on one of those variables, i.e. 'chad,' 'success,' or 'plenty.'

They know what men have to face when dating and what women have to face when dating and they would choose the struggles men have any day of the week

No they wouldn't.

There's one instance of a woman attempting to date as a man for awhile and she has a complete mental breakdown.

And this was in the 90's lmao

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU#t=558

Like, these 'hot takes' and attempts to socially shame men are by and large starting to fail.

Men are dropping out because the bullshit is just so clearly bullshit.

Lina-Inverse · 2023-10-31T09:42:32+00:00

There are things women have easier than men, and things men have easier than women.

Acknowledging the truth doesn't mean one is jealous. The whole Red Pill rage occurs when men are lied to for so long that the truth is too painful.

Dating being hard for average men is what pushed me to improve myself to as far beyond average as possible. I'll never be chad, but I pushed my self as close as I can possibly get, and that has been more than good enough.

Past failed relationships made me understand what I was lacking and a period of being single, borderline obese, and invisible to women was quite difficult and made me realise just how important physical appearance was for dating.

If those aspects of my life were easy mode like they are for women, I'd be a very different person and not in a good way at all. Probably i'd be an overweight slob. Those difficulties made me a better person.

Acknowledging them isn't jealousy.

WanabeInflatable · 2023-10-31T06:05:44+00:00

It is complicated. Your post contains many statements, I'll try to challenge some of them.

About women living life on easy mode. It is true in some aspects, while false in others. Men are discriminated and start to understand it, while women are still discriminated, there are multiple problems women are facing disproportionately. This way of thinking never made me undateable, some women expressed interest in me. So I'm a masculist and not incel, so my example disproves your statement somewhat.

However, I agree that toxic simplistic worldview "men are the discriminated and women are privileged" is whining and unsexy. Same applies to dogmatic feminists that strictly believe into one sided systemic oppression.

Being jealous also can be expressed differently. If it doesn't turn into whining and bugging your partner about how much easy and privileged she is - should be no problem.

My form of jealousy is "I believe, my life would be easier and happier if I was born a woman. Nevertheless this can't be changing. And going MtF isn't a solution. So I'd play my game till the end with the handI was dealt." This way of thinking wasn't a problem for me when dealing with women.

CoolNightBreeze · 2023-10-31T09:31:31+00:00

Jealousy and envy are not synonymous.

You and the women you interact with seem the type to be willfully ignorant of other people's struggles. Which is fine, but let's stop pretending it's anything but ignorance.

ChemistryFederal6387 · 2023-10-31T16:07:31+00:00

Oh dear, another fool posting rubbish.

JonMyMon · 2023-10-31T18:36:47+00:00

Why do these conversations always have to be framed around how it effects women’s arousal?

Maffioze · 2023-10-31T23:32:45+00:00

it’s very clear that men think women have not just an easier time in dating but in life. They think society bends to women’s issues, provide them with endless support

Isn't this simply true in Western society?

But none of those women think being a woman is easier/ enter than being a man.

There is plenty of women who think that though and they are absolutely convinced they are right about it.

Mysterious_Fox_3288 · 2023-11-03T02:34:50+00:00

Dude we have guys chopping their dicks off and going from a 4/10 guy to a 7/10 trans girl with nice tits and a banging body lol no shit women have it easy hahaha

YouShouldGetLaid · 2023-10-30T23:33:07+00:00

It’s not jealousy to be able to admit factual information.

Also, men discussing this are not doing so on dates out in real life, lmao. This isn’t some ice breaker conversation.

Honestly I think this post is just a sly attempt at insulting people but I’m here for the 🍿

BaiKingu · 2023-10-31T03:01:40+00:00

I’ve said it before I’ll say again, a lot of men who are resentful of women are extremely jealous of women’s sexual selection power. For the women reading, you have no idea how much testosterone drives a man to be focused on sex, it almost encompasses their whole world in some ways, everything is connected to sex to them.

So when they see the average woman having options they could only dream of in their wildest fantasies but never realize, they imagine your life as being incredibly easy, because they imagine that as their ultimate fulfillment.

The part most of these men don’t get at all is that women have different emotions & priorities, and that there is a whole slew of drawbacks that usually come along with being a woman that they’re entirely ignorant of.

Most men who are moderately succesful with women & don’t suffer from mental issues & comorbidities usually chill out & realize there is more to life then sex because once you’ve had some sex it loses it’s value status to many of them mentally, to some extent that it becomes a relatively normal thing in life despite still being very sex driven generally.

But to men who are bereft of sex, they mythologize sex & relationships almost because their hormones are telling them nothing but “GET IT GET IT GET IT” all day and they’re starving.

grown_folks_talkin · 2023-10-31T03:48:19+00:00

I don’t think they’re jealous of women if you truly interrogate it. I can’t imagine the most redpilled of guys being willing to deal with large amounts of male sexual energy directed at them.

They’re really just jealous of “Chad”, whose life differs from the average woman in myriad meaningful ways.

Now wearing Chad-envy on your sleeve is the literal definition of LDE, which isn’t feminine but is repulsive to women.

RediDitaj · 2023-10-31T14:11:41+00:00

women have not just an easier time in dating but in life. They think society bends to women’s issues, provide them with endless support and that being a woman is “living life in easy mode”

All of that is true.

karspearhollow · 2023-10-31T16:27:18+00:00

They know what men have to face when dating and what women have to face when dating and they would choose the struggles men have any day of the week

Doubt that has anything to do with anything since they don't have a choice and they wouldn't have the perspective to make an informed decision even if they did. Pointless, fallacious argument.

emorizoti · 2023-10-31T18:10:51+00:00

They think society bends to women’s issues, provide them with endless support and that being a woman is “living life in easy mode” this consistent griping comes off as jealousy and that many men wish they could be women

Not quite. I take pride in finding solutions during difficult times and take matters into my hands. I don't want things in easy mode, although an easy and peaceful life is the end goal. I don't envy women at all because there is nothing to be jelaous about. In fact none of us have it easy in life, despite those who were born into a rich family.

But I find it very off putting and irritating the whole self entitlement thing when it comes to women. The mentality that women have been the oppressed group and now it is time to change that. This comes with many young girls being corrupted by this mindset and never do anything or put an effort into becoming better as an individual. We have same opportunities in 21th century. Yet many women love to play the victim of the society and never take accountability in their life.

I mean look at all the advices that are given to boys and men. "Man up. Workout and keep yourself always in good shape. Focus on money and your life goals. Never quit. Don't be weak. Always respect other women and don't be an asshole." And many more. But what are the advices to women? "Travel the world to find yourself. It's okay to dissappear without telling anyone, they will understand. It's okay to stop caring for the others, you should only care about yourself. It is okay to be plus sized, never let anyone tell you to lose weight. It is okay to be angry and let your emotions out, they have no right to stop you." Basically it said that it is okay to be a shitty self centered person and never take responsibility in your actions.

jay10033 · 2023-10-31T19:46:28+00:00

Women are jealous of how much more money men have than them, the positions of power we're in, etc - always complaining about wage gaps and stuff like that. Very masculine of them. That's why they can't succeed in keeping a man.

ambrosedc · 2023-10-31T21:02:28+00:00

Yet more evidence people have a frothing rabid irrational hatred of feminine men, trans people, or anyone who doesn't strictly conform to a predetermined gender role. Take your tradcon gender role nuclear family bullshit and SHOVE IT UP YOUR ASS!!!!!!!!!!

H8beingmale · 2023-11-01T00:20:06+00:00

well i picked my username due to my lifelong hatred and resentment of men always having to make the first move and court women, taking the lead, be the initiators in terms of starting a relationship, asking her out, etc.

Reminds me, i read this comment, statement from a guy on a youtube video, who was expressing his anger and rage, frustration, due to the cards he was dealt with for being born a guy, human male.

He got a response from a guy, saying:

"Boo fucking hoo. We also don't have to go through child birth and we're strong as fuck. Testosterone gives us ambition + mental and physical strength that MANY (not all) women are lacking. Being a man has many benefits and with great power comes great responsibility. Stop crying about it and get your fucking shit together"

That comment made me so angry and so pissed off, so angry, lets just say it is not appropriate for me to describe what was going through my mind when i read that comment, statement.

PrecisionHat · 2023-10-30T23:41:34+00:00

Personally, I think women had it rough for a long time, but that life is now easier for them in many (but not all) ways because everyone still acts like they have it as rough as they once did.

LadyLazarus2021 · 2023-10-31T02:18:43+00:00

Let me tell you the advice I’ve had to give my teen daughters as a single woman out dating in the world.

stay in pairs
never leave your friend on the dance floor.
don’t accept drinks from strange men
don’t let your friend get in a car with an unknown dude.
always monitor your drinking carefully. Never ever lose control.
never go anywhere alone with a man until you know him very very very well.
carry mace
always meet a guy in a public place in daylight. Leave your contact information with someone you trust so if you don’t call in, they can call the police. I’ve had to do this for friends.
don’t let a guy have your last name until you vet him and do not let him know where you live.

I am five feet tall. In my teens and early twenties I weighed 110. My first husband stood one foot two inches taller than me and outweighed me by 80 lbs. and he was pretty skinny.

I am done reading on this Reddit because men constantly whine that women won’t fuck them as if those women are goddamned men and not at risk in any sexual encounter.

I had a 50 man - my boss - get me drunk at 17. And I just managed to get out of there.
I was sexually assaulted when I went off campus to visit another college student.
another boyfriend didn’t listen to my “nos” and fisted me, causing excruciating pain. He also anally forced himself on me as I again asked him to stop.
and how many woman have I had to drive to the abortion clinic? Let me tell you - since I live in Georgia - the conversations I had with my teen daughters about immediately coming to me so I can drive them to Virginia?

Tell me gentlemen, how often have you called your friends to check on you because you were meeting with a potential partner?

And when was the last time you worried that your female date was going to overpower you and shove a six inch (or seven inch or larger) stick up your ass as you scream?

And when was the last time you had to put your hand over your drink because the women sitting next to you is crowding in? Just to be sure you aren’t roofied

And when was the last time one of your boys had to come with you at the dance club or frat party (even more dangerous) to the bathroom so you aren’t waylaid?

Don’t tell me not all men. I married one of those #not all men. A short man who never let a woman lead him by the cock, not even me, and that is HOT btw.

Look I met my hub through match. He hated that he got turned down for height too. I’ve got sympathy for you guys - I do! But you are so myopically focused on what you want that you don’t put yourself in a woman’s shoes.

And this constant whining about how it’s so easy for women to get sex just demonstrates how little you really know about what it’s like for women. Sure I could get sex! I could get sex with a boyfriend who left me sobbing in the fucking bathroom shitting blood! Yah me, aren’t I a fucking lucky girl?

And before you squeal “oh that’s a Chad,” you’d be 100% wrong. An ugly man isn’t safer.

Homo homini lupus - man is wolf to man (to everyone really).

Unhappy-Apple222 · 2023-10-31T00:01:27+00:00

I've noticed they also often try to reverse roles. Like they prefer the woman to approach them, court them, impress them. They literally want to be the Princess/ Prize. They don't seem to realize just how feminine that comes off. It's one thing to be jealous of lacking in masculine features/ privileges like height or wealth. But it's really something else when a man is jellous of a traditionally female roles,dynamics ,female privileges etc. Even some of the toxic redpill tactics like trying to induce jealousy, is typically toxic female behaviour. It's not very masculine to try to make girls "fight for' them or "prove" themselves. I've never met a normal ,traditional ,masculine men act this way. They don't need the validation, they don't need to maintain control by creating chaos and drama like toxic women. This is what I find weirdest about red pillers. They embody so much toxic femininity it's amazing.

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CBreann913 · 2023-10-31T19:23:39+00:00

Jealousy is a universal emotion that anyone can experience. I agree with what you are saying, but I don't believe jealously is feminine, or makes men feminine.

But rather, the resentment they've internalized from women just makes them a less masculine man, who is not in touch with the full essence

SillyMushroomTip · 2023-11-01T18:50:34+00:00

If Men were having such a good time then the suicide rate wouldnt be so high

GGMcThroway · 2023-10-31T00:12:30+00:00

Men are myopic children who can't imagine anything beyond the scope of their own experience.

They don't want to be women. They're not jealous of women. They just want to be the chad who can fuck women effortlessly (breaking toooooons of hearts in the process). They don't care about the realities of having half the population being able to beat you to death with their bare hands.

The men here sit squarely on the bottom of their respective social hierarchies. They think having a pussy would somehow make them more likeable if literally nothing else changed. Spoiler: It wouldn't.

Dark-Cyder · 2023-10-30T23:29:28+00:00

Trans might be envious but not str8.

Guys don't envy easy mode ... I dont

ladyindev · 2023-10-30T23:59:10+00:00

There’s a ton of pussy envy here, you’re correct. I think a lot of sexist / red pill takes are based on jealousy and fear of women (misogyny of sorts, ofc). They need to put women in our place to correct an advantage they believe we have. It’s sad but common. Ironic because the sexist system many of them support is part of their problem in regards to access to sex or even dating.

And you’re saying what most social, experienced people know. It’s ridiculously asinine to argue that only the “hottest” men get laid or relationships.

enbaelien · 2023-10-31T02:44:31+00:00

Yeah, if y'all think being the opposite sex would've be an easier life I suggest hanging around /r/egg_irl for a few months 😂

ConanTheCybrarian · 2023-10-31T05:23:23+00:00

No. but also- SO what?

WOMEN 👏DO 👏NOT 👏CARE 👏IF 👏MEN 👏HAVE👏FEMININE👏 TRAITS!!!!

And before you say "some do" or "I know a guy who..."

yeah- Of course; because WOMEN 👏ARE 👏ALSO 👏NOT 👏A MONOLITH!!!

I swear. 99.9% of the issues on here are people thinking the exception is the rule and/or that all of one gender is exactly the same. 😞

RonMexico432 · 2023-10-30T23:53:42+00:00

"men"

Ever the victim.

LeNoirPetit · 2023-10-31T02:33:01+00:00

I fully agree with this, it’s so effeminate and gross lol

middleoftheroad133 · 2023-10-31T00:46:12+00:00

Correction. He’s not going to call it out. He’s going to change it. “Calling things out” is code word for whining. People do not respect men for calling things out people respect men for changing things.

Pointing out why “women deserve less” is the definition of a bitch move. Actual masculine men are out succeeding and getting what they want not wagging their fingers at women for being successful

lighthub · 2023-10-31T11:21:23+00:00

They think society bends to women’s issues, provide them with endless support and that being a woman is “living life in easy mode” this consistent griping comes off as jealousy and that many men wish they could be women.

What they fail to get or don’t want to Realize is that people get programs because they are in need of them. These programs are created because it’s been deemed there is a need. Truly is it a lack of education or what, women’s history is that of an oppressed group. Women didn’t use to have rights and freedoms. What are they teaching people in these schools.

All lot of the young men think it’s special favors when it’s correcting the wrongs of the past and making things more equal. It’s like an education gap is the problem here, that’s why they run with deluded fictional reality that women are privileged. Only someone who has no concept of history and Research would say that.

Suspicious_Glove7365 · 2023-10-31T20:13:56+00:00

I’d rather have a harder time finding dates than be at an exceedingly higher risk of getting killed and/or raped in the dating scene.

Leeola_Mcgillicuddy · 2023-11-01T01:01:01+00:00

Yes . I have said this as well. Lots of jealousy towards women . It gives women the ick.

lighthub · 2023-10-31T11:14:26+00:00

Yeah the Gender Envy is becoming very Clear that’s what going on with a lot of pill bros. The threads on here have become very rage-y and full of resentment lately.

The masks are off now. You see the gender envy with encouraging each other Transmaxxing.

What I’m seeing from lots of the pill types is that they are weak men and also are immature, they are like children. They can’t compete with other men and having trouble moving in the world, so they try to make women their enemy and competitor. Your competition is your own gender not the opposite.

trettles · 2023-10-31T15:46:08+00:00

Almost seems to me like men here wish they could be penetrated by Chad

Dstar538888 · 2023-10-31T13:56:17+00:00

Yeah even in this sub, they all sound so whiny and jealous 🤣

Careless-Resident697 · 2023-10-31T15:58:48+00:00

I think the men who spend their days complaining about how easy women have it in life spend too much time in an online echo chambers, and very little time having meaningful conversations with women in real life. It's end game capitalism, everyone's miserable

OnePotatoeChip · 2023-11-01T15:42:55+00:00

Women have it easier in some respects. Dating and relationships being the obvious. But, biologically, shit's kinda bad for ladies, tbh. Pregnancy, periods and menopause specifically don't sound fun.

One-Store2972 · 2023-11-02T20:27:21+00:00

Autistic logic. Not only are you contributing to toxic masculinity, but your logic makes no sense at all and is one of the many double standards that women take advantage if

TheCultOfGrogg · 2023-11-03T16:53:32+00:00

No woman in her right mind would choose to have men’s dating struggles over women’s.

Imagine if there were a dating show in which you had to outearn, outlook, outclass, outrizz, outfuck, outheight, outphysique 95% of women. Should you manage to be THAT well off, you have the luxury of having to convince a man who you are fundamentally better than (as they’re only attracted to women who are better than them), that you would be the best candidate for bearing the entire burden of their existence…. And on the minuscule chance that you can pull all this off…There’s still a statistical 54% chance he will leave you and cripple you financially and emotionally even ostracizing you from your kids and society will believe you deserved it despite your best efforts to keep him there. And you’re not even doing it for someone who appreciates it, but rather a guy who has been used by countless other women and thus has problems appreciating a sole woman, has so much sexual optionality that keeping their attention while being absolutely perfect is impossible let alone being a normal flawed human being prone to error, and who has been gaslighted by society and other men into believing that any lapse in happiness, fulfillment, or just anything in general that goes wrong with them or the relationship is ENTIRELY your fault.

That’s men’s experience.

P.S. I forgot to add there is another way to get women…you could be a criminally aggressive fuckup and deliberately make bad deacons and screw your life up beyond repair so all the women who failed to get the top 5% Chad can get a top 5% bad boy. But whatever you do, do beba normal well-adjusted guy. You must be at either extreme.

depressed_apple20 · 2023-11-05T10:00:14+00:00

Yes, I am jealous of women because they are sexually priviledged, and I do hate being a man and I think being a man is something so hard and unfair that noone should have to go through such a horrible thing.

That said, it's not fair to ignore the fact that men have it objectively harder than women when it comes to sex and romance just because admiting it is "unattractive", because even if saying it makes you unattractive, it's still the truth and deserves to be told. Women judge lonely virgin men from their position of priviledge and sexual abundance, and it's disgusting.

Title	A lot of men are jealous of women. it comes off as feminine and is one of the reasons men have issues finding partners
Author	middleoftheroad133
Upvotes	22
Comments	346
Date	October 30, 2023 11:15 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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