Im addressing “Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks”, “She’ll fuck hot losers ASAP but makes the good guys wait longer, need a good job, ‘be a good man’, etc”. Thing is, making impulsive and bad decisions is common around age 18 than it is at 30.  Not only that, the circumstances and goals about dating changes with age. Very few people at 18 are looking for their future spouse and even the ones that are will rarely make the best choice at first. How many people do you know who look back at their late teens and early twenties and go, “Yeah, that was peak wisdom, I was absolutely making the best choices of my life”? Almost no one.

And I don’t know where we’re getting this belief that men don’t also fuck around in their youth and then try to settle down later in life, as well as make mistakes they learn from, change how they do things to get better results. I hope it doesn’t only count when these changes result in men being bitter, hateful, and/or cynical towards women.