Any time you suggest to guys here that maybe their personality is the problem, you always get the red pill retort "women will date assholes if they're hot enough!"

Setting aside that the extent to which this is true is hugely exaggerated.

Setting aside that plenty of nice guys (that is, actually nice) have no problem getting laid either.

Setting aside that red pill pushes a false dichotomy that men can either be nice and boring or assholes.

Setting aside that red pill claims successful men are assholes without any real justification or pointing to extreme cases.

Setting aside that this logic is deeply flawed (many poor men have no problem getting laid, so by this logic money must not be a factor).

Setting aside that red pill fantasies routinely revolve around being hot enough that they can treat women like shit and still get dates.

Setting aside all these factors that disprove this nonsense, even if we accept "hot guys can be assholes and still get any woman they want" as true:

That ain't you.

Are there guys hot enough that they can be jerks and still get women? Sure. Not any women they want like red pill tries to pretend, but yeah they can still find women who will put up with it if they're hot enough. Guys can be hot enough that they don't have to be funny and still get women. Guys can be hot enough that they can have the personality of a wet sock and still get women.

But red pillers claim that want harsh truths and that men don't sugar coat it. So here it is, boys.

You are not hot enough to be an asshole and still get dates.

That ain't you.

It ain't me either. So I could either piss and moan about how if I was hotter, I could get women with no sense of humor and no personality. Or I could make an effort to be funny and charming and generally pleasant to be around.

Guess which one worked.