Daily Community Chat Megathread

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-11-15T02:51:49+00:00

meteorness123 · 2022-11-15T02:35:08+00:00

My stacysexuality takes control of me sometimes.

EulenWatcher · 2022-11-15T02:20:03+00:00

Jokes on you, I can be a feminist and have a family. No God’s design though, can’t relate to Christianity at all.

mmm_try_again12345 · 2022-11-15T02:18:39+00:00

If thinking that women are not funny, emotionally irrational, and less intelligent than men makes me sexist, then yes, I am sexist!

lulll · 2022-11-15T02:17:16+00:00

pleae forgive me women here is a nice song please im sorry firgive me

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-11-15T02:16:42+00:00

Pete Davidson is legit an inspiration. The man is legendary.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-11-15T02:16:11+00:00

Toxic masculinity is not real, that's all

Vegetable_Ad2008 · 2022-11-15T02:16:04+00:00

the craziest thing to conceive is how much power you have to enact change, one man making one decision can completely change the course of history, and effect the lives of billions of people

don't ever let someone tell you, that it's impossible for one man to change the world, history is nothing more then the stories of individual men who through there choices changed the world

https://www.tiktok.com/@.peakyeditzz/video/7159074069294402822?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v

17milestoempty · 2022-11-15T01:48:39+00:00

I like that 1 guy here who can’t argue so he spends multiple replies crying about how he’s being downvoted so he can’t formulate a coherent thought.

“I can’t continue this conversation because you keep downvoting!” 😂 Gets me every time.

mmm_try_again12345 · 2022-11-15T01:47:37+00:00

Downvote me, cowards.

figuringMylife · 2022-11-15T01:36:49+00:00

i want to make an OLD profile with no pics just vibes - give me bio ideas

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-15T01:03:40+00:00

the more u downvote the worse ur arguments r. only ppl who know they r wrong and cant handle it downvote js

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2022-11-15T01:00:09+00:00

One thing I've noticed from my dating/relationship experiences- most people are REALLY bad at communication, both men and women. I'm autistic and I can manage; why can't so many of these people?

I forget where I saw this, but I thought the quote was applicable here: "Men don't develop emotional intelligence because they think they don't need it. Women don't develop emotional intelligence because they think they already have it."

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-15T00:51:39+00:00

Say you’re sorry to me

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-14T03:26:48+00:00

If I was a pokemon, I'd be poison type because my masculinity is so toxic

Slipthe · 2022-11-14T14:29:53+00:00

The whole problem with men using the analogy of, "the guy took his ex on expensive vacations but not you" to compare to "the woman had sex with a guy on the first date but not you", completely disregards the fact that SEX WILL STILL HAPPEN. Just not on the same timeline.

Like Christ, if you are dating a woman who will NEVER EVER have sex with you, then by all means end that relationship. But that's never what's being discussed here. It's always whining about not getting it in the first few DAYS of meeting.

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-11-14T12:55:01+00:00

If you are really against paying for dates early on when getting to know a woman, you should probably aim for below average women.

Edit: if you are a very good looking guy though you might be able to get away with not paying.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-14T16:35:17+00:00

When you’re a fake alpha and can’t back up any of your positions, just throw a tantrum and blame feminism on the question being asked.

w1se_old_tree · 2022-11-14T18:02:00+00:00

How to NEVER get friend zoned(100% SUCCESS RATE):

Don't be friends with women

You're welcome

lulll · 2022-11-14T02:03:11+00:00

Big yikes

https://i.redd.it/kz5gkufdoqz91.png

2022-11-14T02:39:37+00:00

https://i.redd.it/hyvrg622hrz91.jpg

lol what the fuck dude

Vegetable_Ad2008 · 2022-11-14T02:52:36+00:00

I made the horrible mistake of skimming that article on "scientific B****pill" and now I think I need to go get drunk

Vegetable_Ad2008 · 2022-11-14T04:03:37+00:00

lift weights all you want but asuka langley will never be real

-hank schrader from breaker bad

(sigma male music starts playing)

meteorness123 · 2022-11-14T04:17:45+00:00

Does anybody remember the OG Pick up days ? Pick up essentially was the original "redpill". Some of it was legit. As in explaining the chore of male/female dynamics and how women are attracted to dominance or confidence to put it lightly. There was a lot of non-sense as well : "Game" was made out to be the end of be all and there was no talk of demographics. Like how educated liberal people date other educated liberal people. How dating basically comes down to age, social circle, intelligence and demographics. All that stuff.

softkittypinkkitty · 2022-11-14T05:50:20+00:00

Astrology and the people who are interested in it are overhated

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T16:09:28+00:00

As a Brit, this is my least favourite Brit (apart from maybe Brexit voters and Tories):

American - "haha British people eat beans on toast, that's wild"

Fragile Brit - "WELL YOU'RE GOING TO DIE IN A SCHOOL SHOOTING, FUCKING YANK"

baresquad · 2022-11-14T17:27:21+00:00

The universal treatment stuff makes no sense. I don’t know how so many people can be so void of nuance when it comes to dating.

Say you meet a woman on a dating app, go on some dates and have sex after a few weeks or month of talking. How can you expect to have the same treatment as a guy she dated that she initially met in person at a party/club or something where there’s multiple factors in play that induce passion, impulsivity and don’t require building rapport to be comfortable as an online date would?

That’s just one example but I think it still applies even if she sleeps with someone she met from dating apps on the first date. Most people think coffee dates suffice as a good first date but how can you expect the same treatment as somebody who showed her a better time?

All it means is that your story is just different, none of this stuff make you any less of a man. And of course if you’re not into waiting for sex the simple solution is to not give your time to someone who makes you wait.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-14T17:48:51+00:00

Yo, paging all the other single men:

Valentine's day is coming soon. If we're all still single then, want to organize a circle jerk? We can buy each other flowers and chocolates too.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-11-14T18:21:36+00:00

Here is why men complain about having to wait while others may have gotten sex earlier:

They see women all the same. Just holes. They do the same stuff with every woman that lets them. They don't differentiate between different women. No difference in personality or anything. They don't see them as humans. This is the whole point of PUA. To find the "perfect" strategy that works on EVERY woman. That's why they scream AWALT. Because they actually believe all women are the same. That's why they compare women to cars and stuff. They are the same objects to these guys.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T08:09:39+00:00

I love how much some women freak out when you talk about how women refuse to date bi men.

"It appears that most (or at least a lot of women) would not date a bi man, often because of stereotypes around bi men or their own views of masculinity, some of which being toxic."

"YOU CALLING ME HOMOPHOBIC?? I'M NOT A BIGOT!!! IT'S JUST MY PREFERENCE!!! BI MEN ARE JUST ICKY TO ME AND NOT MASCULINE IN MY EYES, HOW DARE YOU IMPLY I'M REINFORCING TOXIC MASCULINITY!!!"

...Simmer down 😂 You're 100% entitled to your preferences, that doesn't mean that preferences are above critique or analysis.

techr0nin · 2022-11-14T12:43:14+00:00

CMV: For most men, redpill or otherwise, a woman’s n-count only matters to the extent that they don’t want to unwittingly marry a slut, and even then only to avoid the potential of paternity uncertainty and possible social disgrace. As such, it’s less about what your n-count is in the absolute sense, but more about what it implies about a woman’s behavioral patterns.

Warm_Philosopher · 2022-11-14T15:07:24+00:00

Someone here really said that a Bachelor could be done in 6 months I can't breathe, maybe in some Bs major

teethpeach · 2022-11-14T17:56:36+00:00

I can’t remember the last time I saw an attractive man in public. Maybe 7-8 months ago? I saw a good looking dude at the grocery store but nothing since :(

thetruthishere_ · 2022-11-14T02:13:21+00:00

Baby sat my brothers dogs for 12 days. Shepard and lab.

The jumping on the counter, the jumping on me, etc.

Good dogs over all but thank goodness they are gone. LOL I love dogs but dang they were so needy and I need to charge a dog hair tax...

Edit. Have a good Monday all!

2022-11-14T02:27:46+00:00

https://i.redd.it/nljh5deqhsz91.jpg

Lol where to start

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-11-14T02:52:33+00:00

I can pick up on social cues but I avoid acting on them.

Is this autism or just extreme people pleasing combined with fear of messing up?

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-14T03:44:41+00:00

Neil Strauss rethinks his PUA past in his new book

A lot of the OG Red Pillers/PUAs have renounced their past as they've gotten older. Is it genuine, or an attempt to sell books to a new market of people who want to see RP fail?

EDIT: The book came out 7 years ago. I failed at reading the date on this.

litgas · 2022-11-14T06:00:42+00:00

CMV: Women are celebrated when they adult while men are shamed for not adulting.

Willow-girl · 2022-11-14T13:47:15+00:00

I'm afraid Aggie grew up to be a fattie, tipping the scale at 10 lbs. despite her small stature. She is like a football with feet! Imgur She relishes her kibble and purrs while eating, making "glarble, glarble" sounds.

We are a bit bemused by this state of affairs as we don't know a way to slim her down without depriving the rest of the cats, who don't need to be on a diet. Pity we can't hook her up to a treadmill and have her power the household appliances ...

social_mule · 2022-11-14T13:59:25+00:00

It doesn't actually matter why some men consider women with an n count above a certain number not date worthy. It's a preference and if a man wants to throw out an arbitrary number like ten as a deal breaker or preference it's as valid as a woman throwing out arbitrary numbers such as $100,000 or 6'0" as deal breakers and preferences.

Some women won't date musicians or cops or military men or religious fundamentalists or [insert zodiac sign here]. People have the right to be as arbitrary as they like with their dating preferences so unless women are fine with being scolded for not dating a Sagittarius they should refrain from scolding men who don't want to date sluts.

Geese and ganders, folks. Geese and ganders.

figuringMylife · 2022-11-14T14:00:44+00:00

omfg i love kissing giirrrllllsssssssss.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-11-14T15:34:35+00:00

Wow I can't believe Giselle already has a replacement for Tom, it's almost like marriages aren't safe because women are talking to other prospects the entire time

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T16:24:23+00:00

Anyone notice the men here will say they want femininity but then won’t say what femininity means to them personally?

Its ok to be scared to say your opinions but pretending to be scared here is like pointless, what’s anyone gonna do to you here? Say something mean? 🙄

CaseyAnthonyFanClub · 2022-11-14T16:32:07+00:00

Over my years here I've noticed people fundamentally understand certain topics but contradict themselves about them anyway without realizing what they just did. The objectivity/subjectivity divide is the best example for this sub.

If I told most people here that pink is objectively the best color, the majority response would be, "But I don't observe it to be the "best" color, and I don't know what "best" means, or how a color could be "best", and this opinion is entirely determined by your own perception." This is the correct response to the claim of pink being "objectively" best.

Which color is "best" or "your favorite" are internal notions. What you like isn't what is liked, or sometimes it is but you liking it doesn't make it well liked, and vice versa. Yet there are still lots of dudes here who are like 'attraction is muh objective'... like... how? How could human attraction, which is dependent on observation, the perception of individuals, be objective? There can be statistically liked traits. There can be signifiers of attractiveness. Absolutely none of that shit has anything to do with attraction being "objective". I wish this retard discourse would die.

Mark_Freed · 2022-11-14T16:39:18+00:00

Idk if it's just me but I've been noticing a surprising trend.

I expected as the feminist culture went mainstream and age gaps and power imbalances were shamed intrinsically.

I would expect women to fall in love with and date/marry men closer to them in age.

But...

I'm noticing many girls I know irl falling for men who are far older. Think 10 years older.

So I was wondering if anyone in ppd has noticed a similar trend. Are age gaps decreasing?

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T17:45:01+00:00

Q4 Americans: Why does New Jersey get shat on much?

gymbro718nyc2 · 2022-11-14T02:01:45+00:00

How much harder do you think dating gets after college with no experience? I'm nearing the end of my college years where I have been told it is easier to date because you are around women your own age a lot, but I seem to have fucked it up, as I haven't even been on a date yet.

Plugandharam · 2022-11-14T02:28:09+00:00

Let them eat cake: the subreddit

Why are the peasants so agitated

17milestoempty · 2022-11-14T02:51:00+00:00

Man, I know I'm gonna sound a certain kind of way saying stuff like this but

Dating and whatnot is just so demotivating.

I had a pretty long financial and personal life struggle post-college, in all lasted 2 years, I'm pretty much over that now but

Idk I'm 2 whole years older than I last was when I was socializing. And things like money are super personal to me now. And yet:

These girls want you to pay for them on dates. They want to know what you do for work. I cannot get through one mf interaction with a girl without her saying "What do you do?"

It's just all so much. I feel like overcoming my struggles was for the grand prize of "well now you can entertain entitled bitches who feel entitled to where you are now."

There was no one around me at all when I was doing poorly. No one cared at all. I was like a non-person.

I also just feel like--and I'm not sure if this is true or not--but that I can't really get the girls I want. I've hooked up with some girls who were generally "what I'd want," and I dated one for 4 years too--but this was when I was younger. I feel like my league has shifted downwards. I look better, my job is alright, but I'm just missing something I used to have and I can't get the girls I used to get anymore.

I don't know I always envisioned myself as someone who'd meet someone somewhat young and have a long LTR with them, sharing much of our youth. Now I'm mid-20s (yuck) and just feel like I'm getting closer and closer to 30 by the day. I'm still so, so, so far from so many of the things I'd want, and many of them even seem unobtainable now.

Honestly this is more of a rant than anything. But all I really want is a looksmatch-level girl who's got a fun personality and a laidback job that just earns enough to put us into middle class combined with my income. And she'd be cool with our lot in life and not one of the fucking million clout-chasers. Why is this so hard to find?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-11-14T04:22:31+00:00

Is reddit horribly slow for anyone else lately? I can't ping any specific users, the site locks up when I hit "u-slash". And I can't send any PM's, they always fail to send.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-14T07:11:25+00:00

There is nothing more beta as a man than masturbating to porn. You're sitting there watching another man fuck the girl you think about going:

"Hurr hurr hurr I wish that was me!!!"

Get out there and fuck that bitch yourself.

jackedsoon · 2022-11-14T08:13:43+00:00

Man ive only been friends with my mate for like just under 3 months but man i love him a lot. When he calls or texts my mood just gets better. Great guy. Was just looking thru phone videos of us being high and painting and it was so cute lol

DRliveseyyy · 2022-11-14T11:11:37+00:00

When the grandma’s here tell you no one cares about no one cares/brings up body count, they’re doing it to feel better about themselves.

People love dragging others down with them.

Slipthe · 2022-11-14T14:12:27+00:00

Q4M:

Would it be worse if you found out a girl lied about her N-count and it's actually N=25, or would it be worse if she lied about the fact that she went to prison for house robbery?

JDWhiz96 · 2022-11-14T14:18:34+00:00

Woman assaults another woman for interrupting her flirtation. The only reason she was even charged was because she ripped the other woman's clothing, exposing her breasts. No jail time, just community service and a small fee of around 130 pounds in restitution.

Now imagine if a man acted/reacted like this. The dude would be thrown under the prison, and every feminist in the world would be ranting about "toxic" masculinity.

The9thElement · 2022-11-14T14:19:43+00:00

Who else ships namor and shuri

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T15:33:22+00:00

As a Brit, the best American accents by far are Wisconsin and Boston accents. Honorary mention goes to a Southern drawl.

Plugandharam · 2022-11-14T16:11:57+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/yulqql/daily_community_chat_megathread/iwca4w1/

The copium in this comment is hilarious

w1se_old_tree · 2022-11-14T16:14:22+00:00

Ideas for guys not wanting to too much spend money on dinner dates? I got two.

Maybe go to a bar instead of a restaurant? It's more affordable(but not lame like a coffee date) and alcohol is a social lubricant
I read this one on TRP: if you're at a restaurant say that you need to go to the bathroom and find your server, and ask privately for separate cheques.

If the check comes like that I don't think most women would be entitled enough to insist that you pay. Not offering to pay the entire thing could hurt your chances but probably not as much as asking for separate cheques to her face would.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-11-14T16:29:36+00:00

I can't wait to lose my virginity. The day it happens is the day I'll finally be able to leave this sub. I can't be seen hanging around you guys after that.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-11-14T17:33:22+00:00

Anybody watch Alaskan Bush People? I'm really crushing hard on Bird. She's just so sweet. I love the way she thinks of and talks about her dad. I love how she refuses to let her health scare hold her back.

soc_6847 · 2022-11-14T18:23:27+00:00

Hi! I’m a researcher who is interested in studying gender and intimacy as they relate to the various ‘-pills.’ I’ve been reading and learning from this community for a few months now, and it seems to be place where folks really want to talk about why and how they come to believe what they believe in relatively good faith. I am wondering if folks would be willing to talk a little bit in the comments about men, homes, work, families, friends and/or romantic/sexual partners. Some questions to prompt (feel free to answer these from the perspective of any gender, you don’t have to be a man):

- What does it mean to be a man?

- What do men do?

- Did someone or something teach you to be a man? If so, who or what, and how old were you? Do you feel like the teaching was successful?

work/family

- Do you feel that you have a family? Who makes it up (for example, I consider my parents/blood relatives my family, but I also consider friends that I’ve been close to for many years my family)?

- What is your role in that family?

- Do you feel that your role in your family is a consistent/stable one?

- Do you have a job? If you do, is it satisfying? What do you aspire to?

- Do you have any children of your own? Do you live on your own, with parents/other family members, with a partner or spouse, or with roommates? -

- Do you feel that you have all of your basic survival needs met? What are those needs?

- Do you currently have a romantic partner or partners? Is a romantic partner the same as a sexual partner?

- Is there a particular experience that changed your perspective on love, romance, or intimacy?

- Do you think of yourself as straight?

- Do romantic relationships have a goal? If so, what is it?
Just to be transparent here, I am not going to be publishing any of this or even bringing it with me into any academic space. I am posting here just to enhance my own understanding and make sure that if I ever do decide to study communities like this one formally, I do it accurately and in good faith. I’m so grateful for any engagement here– feel free to answer any or all of the prompting questions.

Also, this is not related to the subreddit nor endorsed by the mods, but I did run it by them to ask how best to present this. Thank you!

JiifuhTV · 2022-11-15T00:48:33+00:00

Fellas what we saying.

Is playing women in order, to get what you want the play or nah?

meteorness123 · 2022-11-15T00:39:06+00:00

The voice pill is real. Listen to both of these guys. One of them make your ear bleed. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HFgGtDPYnHg

purplish_possum · 2022-11-15T00:32:42+00:00

Did a child sex abuse preliminary hearing this afternoon. I need a shower.

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-15T00:19:43+00:00

Q4All: What's your weirdest turn on/fetish?

figuringMylife · 2022-11-15T00:18:29+00:00

how do u guys feel about the people in here?

i hate losers/people who don’t try. that’s what drives my anger and why i use ppd the most. i used to feel bad for a lot of incels but i’ve since realized they’re equal to the girls being pumped and dumped. they’re all the same. do y’all feel bad for these people?

empresa_josefina · 2022-11-15T00:06:56+00:00

Am about to start an aggressive hair restoration protocol to reclaim my hair. Currently norwood 6 in my early 30s (started losing in my early 20s).

This will be the hardest looksmaxx battle I've fought yet. The plastic surgery was relatively easy compared to this, just needed to find a good surgeon and cough up the cash. This will take a year of microneedling, daily pills, topical creams and shampoo, and most likely a transplant at the end of all of it.

I'm only bothering because I'm obsessed with Stacy but too morally conflicted to use sugar babies, so the best way to secure Stacies is to looksmax. I got ghosted/flaked on by a few Stacies this year but that's a huge boost versus earlier in my life where I was mostly dating average girls. I even slept with a Stacy who then ignored me and got back with her ex (I was rebound guy). So this shit is working

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-11-15T00:03:53+00:00

im 24f and 28m just texted me out of the blue to get a drink this week…im assuming he just wants to smash?

We have never met before so this would be a first date, texted briefly in sept but life got busy and he re-texted me again

he is pretty good looking so idk why else hes hitting up a 24 year old again from hinge

Vegetable_Ad2008 · 2022-11-15T00:01:14+00:00

reviewing all the different generations

the lost generation: Men shouldn't die so young

The greatest generation: Gigachads( they also deserve major credit for helping the silent generation with the civil rights movement)

the silent generation: OOHHHHH THAT RED WHITE AND BLUE, YEAH ME, YEAH ME, I AINT NO FORTUNATE SON(side note this is the generation we have to thank for the civil rights movement, boomers like to take credit, but they didn't do shit besides do a bunch of drugs and complain)

Baby Boomers: disgusting, worthless, pathetic druggie losers who fucked everything up

generation x: honestly I like you guys, sure some of were you apathetic dropouts or way too obsessed with being like gordon gecko, but at least you are not as annoying or pathetic as the boomers or millenials

Millennials: children of the boomers, the boomers were not only shitty people but shitty parents creating a generation of harry potter obsessed losers who can't do basic adult shit

Gen Z: the internet and it's consequences, gen z probably has the stupidest bullshit out of all the generations identifying with cat people pronouns and shit, but some gen z'rs are pretty based

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-14T23:48:31+00:00

i feel like its a mistake to be too interested because women will just use it against u. ur better off being less interested.

Neds-Deklassified · 2022-11-14T23:41:55+00:00

q4A: How much is your love worth in USD? Give an answer, don't overthink it. What is the market value of your love?

Ok-Cupcake-2854 · 2022-11-14T23:37:17+00:00

why r women sooo interested in texting? like they cant just hang out in person or do a phone call. cuz personally i despise texting.

lacuti3 · 2022-11-14T23:33:10+00:00

Q4ALL:

Do you care about most of your Facebook/Instagram friends?

I don’t even remember most of them. Like when I think about a certain person I met 5 years ago I have a hard time finding their page since I forgot their name lol

If you don’t care about them then isn’t it kind of annoying seeing them on your feed?

punk_baby333 · 2022-11-14T23:09:46+00:00

relevent

magivictus · 2022-11-14T23:07:48+00:00

Why does everyone have such physically large mouths? Everyone has these clown, joker, anime sized smiles. Maybe I just have a small mouth?

I don't even have an opinion on it one way or the other. I'm just curious.

meteorness123 · 2022-11-14T23:07:28+00:00

Serious Q4women : If you're talking a walk in the evening on a relatively empty street and you see a man either walking past you or just nearby. Is your initial and automatic response fear, precaution or slight tenseness ?

17milestoempty · 2022-11-14T22:59:24+00:00

I’m watching the new season of Love is Blind while writing a child custody rebuttal. Thoughts on the show?

-angels-fan- · 2022-11-14T22:57:56+00:00

The abortion debate is the wrong debate to have.

We shouldn't be debating on what is or isn't a child vs a lump of cells, but why the fuck we place so god damned much value on life in the first place!

There are all kinds of scenarios where we hold on to life when we should let go.

Why are we forbidding terminally ill patients to gracefully end their lives?

Why do we keep vegetables alive?

Why don't we allow people who have severe mental illness who will never get better a peaceful way out and celebrate their freedom from pain?

A fetus has never known anything. It will never know that it wasn't born. Who cares?? Life is not as precious as we make it.

Sad_Top1743 · 2022-11-14T22:27:29+00:00

These ho’s think they’re making fun of guys but they’re just all outing themselves lol 100% this happened to them and they’ll still say trp is wrong

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkwolPXJ6AE/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

lulll · 2022-11-14T22:08:43+00:00

i love every woman on r/bpdmemes

Gullible_Diamond_850 · 2022-11-14T21:39:11+00:00

Does this girl like me or just being friendly?

I met her at a house party in August, added each other on IM. But never really texted or hung out after that. A couple of times I saw her in passing we just smiled and said hi. Now I saw her a couple of times at the gym and we had 5-10 minutes chats (which are lengthy imo in gym). Today she parted with “see you next time”.

LaloTwins · 2022-11-14T21:32:15+00:00

Q4W y'all bleed when you lost your virginity?

I've had period sex less bloody

arizonaicedteabean · 2022-11-14T21:24:28+00:00

while inc*els are pretty annoying, at least they’re honest in the fact that they don’t get laid and that’s why they’re mad.

but I love how somehow every woman on twox posting man hate day in and day out is ALWAYS the “attractive girl in their friend group” and “always get hit on by hot dudes” when they go out but for some reason always end up dating losers and posting about how their bf can’t wipe his own ass

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-11-14T21:05:27+00:00

Wife's birthday is this week, she's turning the big 25, I'm thinking I'm going to her mother getting the video of her birth, renting out a theater and playing it on the big screen, I'm going to dust off the old Fruity Loops and produce the score for it as well, thoughts ?

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-14T20:59:05+00:00

A thing I experienced and I wondered if anyone else had either:

When MeToo happened, I found a lot of Boomer ladies very unsympathetic. It wasn't that they didn't think these men were assaulting these women, it was more that they didn't think it was a big deal. My mother said, 'Why are all these bitches trying to ruin these men's careers?'

My theory is that there is a not inconsequential amount of women who preferred the way it was - where you could have sex to get up the ladder, with the flip side of that being you couldn't complain if it didn't work out the way you wanted it to.

Thoughts?

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-11-14T20:55:49+00:00

This game of cat and mouse women love to play when you’re trying to fuck them is crazy and other women will never understand it because THEY don’t fuck women

I fucked this woman the other day and she was playing the coy cat and mouse game of acting too shy to kiss, too shy to undress, resisting yet massaging me while I kiss on her, etc

So I have a method called “DEFCON 1” (for you civilians the lower the number the more dire the situation and here’s a bonus question- has the US ever reached DEFCON 1?)

I do this to women who live to play this game so I aggressively grabbed her wrists and held her down and started to take her clothes off and she completely surrendered to it and loved it

If I took what she did at face value I could have been like “oh I guess she’s not into me 😢” and got no pussy that night and she would have been like “damn why ain’t he just TAKE it guess he’s not into me”

Women need to hold each other accountable stop the cat and mouse games cause it’s a fine line and you’re conditioning men to be more and more aggressive and not take your “No’s” seriously

lacuti3 · 2022-11-14T20:55:03+00:00

Q4ALL:

Are overweight couples actually attracted to each other? Are they aware they settled?

lulll · 2022-11-14T20:44:13+00:00

but what about me

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-11-14T20:34:29+00:00

In my experience the most pro life people are older women. There was a case in my country where the conservative coalition made twin abortion illegal (aborting one of the twins) and my atheist grandma started crying about it, not because it was made illegal, but because she learned it had been legal in the first place.

lewdakuma · 2022-11-14T20:32:39+00:00

does blackpill have to be seen as nihilistic? it's more comforting to me to know that my lack of dating success is possibly just due to Society, rather than some fundamental flaw in who i am as a person. i can just redirect my energy somewhere else.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-11-14T20:31:35+00:00

When you join the nursing students for bathing and sauna and the girl guy ratio is less than 1… 😞

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-11-14T20:21:10+00:00

My friend recommended a fancy restaurant for me and my GF so I was like cool we gonna go on Sunday. I spent like 500 dollars on food and drinks we living it up and it’s a vibe. On the ride back my girl is like I don’t really feel well. I’m like damn I’m probably not getting any tonight but ok fine. By the time I enter the key into the door she starts puking and it doesn’t stop until this morning around 6 am and all that food is in the toilet.

I woulda been better off going to my cheap local diner for dinner or my parents house like we usually do on Sunday lol

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-14T20:17:30+00:00

Q4Everyone: Post your 10/10 man and your 10/10 woman. Or post multiple 10/10s.

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-14T20:11:06+00:00

I find it pretty ironic that feminists can't come to a consensus on if sex work is empowering or objectifying.

meteorness123 · 2022-11-14T20:10:50+00:00

Unfortunatey the devil came for me this month and I was not able to retain my semen the way I wanted to.

One thing's for sure though : Going on no fap for like a week feels amazing. Shit is real.

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-11-14T20:08:12+00:00

This subreddit would be much more interesting if there were more actual Red Pillers here and not just incels and angry dudes.

17milestoempty · 2022-11-14T19:49:55+00:00

Q4W

All the top comments are from men.

Come on. 😂😂

magivictus · 2022-11-14T19:35:41+00:00

You ever have moments when you were a kid looking for something in the house and your parents help you out saying "If it was any closer it'd bite you"

Because it was practically right in front of you and you didn't notice.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-11-14T19:26:18+00:00

This is howPPD chicks be while typing sex isn’t a need

teball3 · 2022-11-14T19:03:01+00:00

Alright: Time for the bluepill as fuck take on the Universal treatment thing of the day:

Men are allowed to have insecurities. It isn't a crime against god, and having your insecurities made fun of and dismissed just feels awful. That said, you don't get to point the finger at the thing making you feel insecure and say that it's a crime either.

I get that comparing yourself to your partner's previous partners can be upsetting, and you want to be a better partner than they were. However, the speed at which you get taken to bed is not a good measure of their attraction to you. Obsessing over it is stupid. Just because it's stupid though, doesn't make it easier.

So here is my Bluepill prescription for everybody worrying about it: Remember that comparison is the thief of joy, and focus on how things are going now in the present. If you are feeling unsatisfied, let it be known and make your choices accordingly. Your feelings, your worries, your concerns are real, but not valid. By that I mean that they are in that nebulous group of emotions that do not come from reality, but exist nonetheless. It is fine to express them, it is not fine to act on them. It is extremely not okay to blame, shame, and attack others for them. Since this takes a good deal of self-awareness, it is hard to make the connection.

I can already imagine that I'm going to be met with: "oh, so it's men bad, again.". And here's where I'm going to have to disagree. Men are not bad for feeling emotions. In fact, I think it would be rude from women if they hear this and their first thought is "yeah, it is all on men!" because I didn't say that. I said it's a man feeling insecure, and if you don't think you have any part or place in your partner feeling insecure, then get out the way, because the truth train is coming through. Ladies, You don't win when your partner's emotions are the problem. That means it's time to buckle down, because you are partners and that means working together to solve the problem, not throwing it all on him. I'm not saying you have to put out sooner for his feelings, but you can't ignore them either. If you have a reason, give him the reason. If it's just about a change in yourself, then tell him that. If you don't want to give an explanation, then remember that he's feeling insecure in his attractiveness and do something else to let him know you find him attractive.

TL;DR: guys, it's okay to feel insecure. It's not okay to blame, shame, and attack others for them. Ladies, it's not your fault they are being insecure, but it is your problem too.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-11-14T18:52:19+00:00

I always find it amusing when certain RedPillers have a "fuck you got mine" attitude towards everything and show little care for societal issues...until it's something that they perceive women to be doing wrong, then it's all "but what about the good of society???"

Warm_Philosopher · 2022-11-14T18:28:42+00:00

Q4A: How much did your parents argue infront of you and do they still do it?
How much do you argue with your current partner infront of your kids?

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Deranged_Loner · 2022-11-14T02:00:33+00:00

First

ChorizoWestern · 2022-11-14T02:02:05+00:00

Perhaps 3rd...

lulll · 2022-11-14T02:31:47+00:00

who is more alpha. stone cold steve austin or the undertaker

meteorness123 · 2022-11-14T03:02:00+00:00

question for men :

You get to have Bill Gate's net worth. But you also get to look like him.

Do you take the deal ? (assuming you're better looking than him)

SmilesLikeMardiGras · 2022-11-14T03:03:12+00:00

Question for Red Pillers: Should women who don’t want kids have children anyway just because “biology”?

softkittypinkkitty · 2022-11-14T03:36:07+00:00

Is it insensitive to suggest working out to people as (solicited) advice? REGARDLESS OF THEIR BODY. I’ve seen both men and women get upset when they’re advised to work out to better themselves after they ask for advice

Vegetable_Ad2008 · 2022-11-14T04:18:19+00:00

I've been all around clubs in NJ/NY and one thing holds true. If there's a raised platform where the DJ is at, there will be girls dancing all over that platform, but I've never seen a guy dancing on those platforms. I'm sure guys are allowed to be there but it feels like an unspoken rule that it's for the ladies. I don't want to test my theory. I'm too scared to go up there. The DJ might start beating me up. That's very real possibility.

Plugandharam · 2022-11-14T04:59:14+00:00

https://twitter.com/OnlyFansPostinL/status/1591828005286207488?t=f1278pXPyp0yRO0OqRzJMA&s=19

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-11-14T05:40:07+00:00

Shooting at UVA :/

janedoesouthpark · 2022-11-14T07:20:11+00:00

My husband is the only guy who has complimented me or called me pretty. Sometimes I wonder if he truly does find me attractive. After being ignored by everyone forever, it was nice to have someone pay attention to me and listen to me and say I’m nice looking. But maybe he doesn’t actually think I’m pretty.

Anardus · 2022-11-14T07:34:07+00:00

I feel autistic for not getting this but I told my boyfriend I love how much he loves me last night. Is there anything wrong with that? It’s better than not loving him at all

jackedsoon · 2022-11-14T09:10:42+00:00

bouta cop some fake jordans. so theyre a pair of heritage, university blue and regular low black dunks for like £110 ish total inc shippin. they all look almost exact same. but cost like 5x less than original.

huhwhatokok · 2022-11-14T10:21:42+00:00

Fuck we drank too much and now I’m fighting for my life on the toilet seat with work in a few hours.

CaseyAnthonyFanClub · 2022-11-14T13:35:53+00:00

"Now you see with me it's just a matter of time. I don't know why, but somehow I just don't manage to hold on real long. So, if you wait it out a little it'll be over, you know? I mean, even if I want a fella, somehow or other I manage to get it screwed up. Maybe I'll get a new pair of shoes, a nice dress, a few laughs. Times are hard. Now, if you fool around on the hill up here, then you don't get nothin', I don't get nothin', he don't get nothin'. So, how 'bout it, honey? Just for a little while, let ol' Trixie sit up front with her big tits."

FizzleMateriel · 2022-11-14T14:51:09+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/yurff3/spent_over_3000_on_travel_expences_to_meet_catfish/

This story is cringe but this woman has issues if she was thinking of buying property and being in a LTR with a guy she hadn’t even met. WTF.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. This is like a guy being surprised that a woman he’s “in a relationship with” online only wants him to send money to her.

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-14T16:27:29+00:00

The Namor actor is listed at 5’8 which means he’s even shorter. Finally a short hispanic kang for me to identify with in marvel ✊🏼

unloader72 · 2022-11-14T16:56:57+00:00

Saw a very cute girl in PT today caught her glance few times, she was a young tomboyish lady, a little bit grunge. However she was a little bit tall and looked very young (probably late teens, cannot be sure sadly).

If I was few years younger I'd say she's my soulmate because it was very obvious she wasn't a normie, I wasn't a normie when I was young too. Bad timing...

N_Count_Council · 2022-11-14T17:18:14+00:00

When you're 18F and hate men but will probably end up with some super dark triad dude in your early 20s 🤐

FjbhBoy · 2022-11-14T17:36:54+00:00

I had no idea Lupita Nyong’o had such a big ass till recently

https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackcelebrity/comments/yomdd3/lupita_nyongo/

teball3 · 2022-11-14T17:37:18+00:00

Yo lift: where summary? Is it too soon for one?

Katatonicsnake · 2022-11-14T17:54:22+00:00

I happened to see a picture of my old fwb in a newspaper. I was 17 (and he was older) when I was with him, so I won’t scold myself too much, but oh god why.

scwizard · 2022-11-14T06:22:06+00:00

People hate on Elon Musk but his companies actually result in stuff getting built. Rockets and cars and whatever.

Elon musk types are better for society than SBF types.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-14T07:52:29+00:00

Most people spend 3-4 years of their lives studying a university course, getting into crippling student debt, whereas if they spent every single day studying and working on the course for many hours they'd finish it within 6 months. That would mean no days off, every single day dedicated to the course.

They really do scam people making 6 month courses go for 3 years.

Losing_Daylight_ · 2022-11-14T08:59:21+00:00

Q4W: Your husband makes it to the top of his profession twice, but catostrophically fails in both opportunities. He's made himself an 8-figure multimillionaire in the process, but still, he has proven himself unworthy of the big ~~seat~~ headset. Does your level of respect for him change? It's got to, right?

meteorness123 · 2022-11-14T07:10:16+00:00

Rate this guy

https://www.greekboston.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/167482645.jpg

LaloTwins · 2022-11-14T08:52:46+00:00

Gotta fake propose to see if she's cool or if she's crazy. If she reacts like this you know you're sound bro,

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-11-14T03:13:20+00:00

Fellas if you say you want a feminine woman ( which is something you have to clarify these days) and her response is "what do you mean by feminine?", she's already lost bro, major red flag if she needs help understanding what femininity is

Edit: some of these responses already proving my point 🤣

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-11-14T09:21:25+00:00

Being a man who chooses to give up his weekends to work is infinitely going to see longer term growth and benefits than the man that has to "gEt oN dA bEeRs wItH dA bOyS!!!!!" every single weekend.

Work your arse off through your 20s so you can enjoy the rest of your life.

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