Daily Community Chat Megathread

gofigure62 · 2023-05-03T19:23:31+00:00

I like to browse the local mug shots every now and then. Lots of women with DV charges and failure to pay childsupport. I'm surprised. Usually the women are just trafficking drugs or using drugs.

THHBHStT · 2023-05-03T18:43:08+00:00

If you never nutted on a woman’s face you’re still a virgin. Nothings better than looking at a painting on a cute females face that you made yourself

but that’s just a porn thing!!!!

Yeah no shit, and literally every woman I’ve asked said it’s fun bc they feel like they’re in a porn scene. Pro tip

baresquad · 2023-05-03T18:35:11+00:00

Admittedly my beliefs have on dating and gender dynamics are rooted in bitterness projected towards my first girlfriend. Being who I’ve always been and spending so much of my teen and young adult years with a traditional girlfriend really turned me away from anything even slightly adjacent with that side.

It’s why I passionately hate things like red pill and fds.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-03T18:11:18+00:00

"Every woman is different"

Yes but they are universal attraction patterns they seek in men

Every man is different but most if not all would prefer if their woman was sexually appealing

Maffioze · 2023-05-03T17:51:43+00:00

I have a profit of 350% on one of my stocks. To bad its only 600 euros lmao.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-03T17:51:42+00:00

A reason MRAs will never be taken seriously is because they don't pick a side.

I see a lot of them are left wing, so siding with right-wingers isn't an option.

MRAs also don't like feminism, so joining a party that feminists dominate is also not an option.

And Anerica’s one of the least feminist developed Western country, so I do not know what the MRAs are gonna do.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-03T17:43:25+00:00

Tinder Misandrist pt 3

The worse I treat this woman, the more she wants me. I mostly just did this as sort of a social experiment but this girl is literally crazy about me rn. I've even told her that she isn't worthy of getting fucked by me and should be grateful she gets to suck my dick... and she loves it. This has gone into weird bdsm territory that I have not done before.

ijayal · 2023-05-03T17:39:30+00:00

cmv: I am not saying that most libertarians and republicans are jaded towards women. But most men that are jaded towards women happen to be libertarians or republicans

Peacesquad · 2023-05-03T17:29:46+00:00

Anything that can help men value themselves and have standards nowadays is demonized and flagged. What a scary world man smh so sad

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-03T17:28:46+00:00

where's the new daily metathread

SierraMistSoda · 2023-05-03T17:28:45+00:00

Part of being an adult human is learning to control your emotions, including anger. It's not diving headfirst into hedonism. It's not seeing how many people you can dominate. That will not make you happy it will just make you more angry wanting more. You can not be your own god. Society falls apart when humans act like this.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-03T17:25:18+00:00

Q4A: do you think women have any burden of performance in initial and post-initial courtship? Why or why not?

baresquad · 2023-05-03T17:14:49+00:00

And now they want Reddit to ban nsfw subreddits and Clifford the Big Red Dog.

I genuinely hate conservatism. All of their issues are framed around a battle for salvation headed by omniscient being who resides in the sky with his magician son as they team up to defend the world from the evil fairy who rules the fiery underworld.

And so because of that they feel it’s their duty to dictate our dating sex lives while sexualizing everything.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-03T17:11:18+00:00

"If your wife was infertile"

Listen l want my own genetic kids instead of buying them

Got nothing against abortion, especially for homosexual couples

But again l would prefer making my kids than spending money on kids that aren't genetically mine

Just a preference

SkookumTree · 2023-05-03T17:08:58+00:00

Yo. Looking for advice here - fairly short, autistic, bald guy here. Medical student.

The only women who've been interested in me have been like twice my weight. I know that can cause a bunch of health problems. How can I best manage the risk/likelihood that if I get married and have a family, that I'll need to be not only husband and father but also nurse and caretaker? What skills might I want to learn so that I can be a good nurse and caretaker? What kinds of things do I need to do differently so that my kids aren't as affected as they might be by watching Mom suffer and possibly die quite early from mostly-preventable illness?

FjbhBoy · 2023-05-03T17:06:09+00:00

It smells like bitch in here

Willow-girl · 2023-05-03T16:55:29+00:00

Update: We took no prisoners, but Druscilla and the rest of the ducks are fine so far, and the cats have learned to stay out of the traps.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-03T16:44:10+00:00

You put yourself in the "friend zone."

If someone isn't interested in you, walk away.

It's your own fault if you hang out waiting.

THHBHStT · 2023-05-03T16:26:36+00:00

Sex is so fun. Can choke, spit , slap (maybe just ass if she not a freak), pull her hair and call a female demeaning names like whore and slut and they love it

Love women when they’re having sex with me. I’ll put up with a lot just to chance to do all that, kinda worth it in the end as long as they leave after or are cool

The best is when you can use their shit like their weird ass bath and bodywork’s shit or smoke their weed. Them the goats fr

Missed out on the sex Havers thread tbh, could talk about sex forever

eye_fuck · 2023-05-03T16:22:18+00:00

Do american girls ~~steal~~ keep to themselves some of their boyfriends clothes after break up? Its common in russia

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-05-03T16:18:24+00:00

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Peacesquad · 2023-05-03T16:16:35+00:00

Isn’t this toxic patriarchy mussonignst?

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/BXmZeZFC-PQ

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-05-03T16:08:08+00:00

Purple Pill notions are a good curiosity.

Yeah Women. Love Authority. Giving it, taking it, having it, serving it. Much like men, there is no special genderism. Imagine the the great filter of the identity of the self - when it knuckles down, what are you really, when everything is impermanent? The individual acquisition of "the ultimate self" is a facade it is talked a lot about eh, morning routine - five year plan - journalling, you know rituals for keeping you in place, in order - just a good boy and girl for your own Dr.Lobster. Behave. You can't know better than the roadmap of all our priors can you? I dunno, I love being in a state... Knowing something to be happy, isn't a good qualification for the existence of time and space - you just drink in the age of information like it was something you found in your shirt pocket, and now you hunger round "living the best life" with statues of your own and belonging dwellings kept, now snake eyes appear forever in the dark place - who is the ghost that lives behind ache of of our minds?

The Perennial men and sage Women advise, we do it all - to take rust - from our heart, for it is the mind, the eye that witnesses life from the heart that is the highest directive of connectivity, it surpasses all and connects all.

It is advice, like SSRIs, reading Nietzsche it might not be for everyone.

I think I am way better off street sweeping, window washing - and listening to bach till I drop. A segement.

Oh, the time for confession when none can be trusted, all mutations feeding off each off in vampiric delight.

Are we a proto-telepathic collective?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-03T15:55:48+00:00

I had to laugh ... my boyfriend, who was not a conservative when we got together, nearly blew a gasket when NPR described the suspect in the latest Texas shooting as "a Mexican national," with no mention of the fact he appears to have been in the country illegally and had been detained and deported on a number of prior occasions.

I think he's catching on ...

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-05-03T15:51:37+00:00

OP complains she gets no effort, first comment is this gem

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-03T15:47:06+00:00

The reason I care so much about small age gaps (1-3 years) is cus I'm 20 and have a baby face, which makes it very hard to date at my age. My only consolation is hoping I'll be able to sleep with hot college girls in my 30s.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-03T15:46:42+00:00

People are gunning for NSFW subreddits now

Not very cash money of them

Patient-Exit-3606 · 2023-05-03T15:44:06+00:00

I need you guys to argue both sides of something for me.

In cases where a woman is convicted of raping a man, and the woman gets pregnant, do you think the man should get a say over whether the pregnancy gets carried to term? (At least within the first trimester?)

Cuz like most people believe that no woman should have to go through a pregnancy to bear her rapist’s baby, and it’s a huge life upset to have kids before you’re ready, and the current laws make it so men still have to pay child support even in the event of reproductive coercion…

On the other hand, forcing a woman to abort or carry to term violates her bodily autonomy, but then again, if she’s raping people, she’s violating others’ bodily autonomy…

Thoughts?

TigerRude4 · 2023-05-03T15:33:08+00:00

At this point, any man debating with Lilith is just asking for it

Peacesquad · 2023-05-03T15:20:58+00:00

Q4W: what value do you bring to a man?

Peacesquad · 2023-05-03T15:20:32+00:00

Seggs

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-03T15:19:01+00:00

I have a theory that women do like guys taller than them, but the 6' thing is only about status. Women just want to show off they have a guy who's not just taller than them, but taller than most men, too. Desire is the desire of the Other.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-03T15:13:14+00:00

Another thing the manosphere always fail to understand is that different types of people exist. Gender does not define a person. Just because you are a guy does not mean other guys will agree with you. To think all men agree with you solely based on the fact you’re a man is narcissistic and narrow minded.

purplish_possum · 2023-05-03T14:58:26+00:00

My morning includes a preliminary hearing in a case that hits lots of red pill bases. Pretty young woman gets wasted at a local bar. Bartender calls BF to come get his drunk GF. BF drives to the bar and tries to convince GF to come home. They start arguing. A posse of drunk white knights come to the drunk and very angry GF's defense. BF calls drunk girl's dad who comes down too. BF and GF's dad had to fight of the white knights to get stupid drunk girl home to her parents house. Police charge BF with felonies. GF doesn't remember any of this but says she loves her BF more than anything.

THHBHStT · 2023-05-03T14:32:48+00:00

It’s funny how a thread about how a thread about how when male dating issues come up, the men bringing it up are attacked immediately starts out with multiple people attacking, shaming and ridiculing the guy for saying that men struggle in dating

Couldn’t have scripted it any better. I would say it’s just a lack of awareness but I feel like it’s just ingrained in some people to be a contraían when it comes to men facing any difficulties especially if compared to women

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-02T19:03:53+00:00

So the Perks of Dating an Adult Male Virgin series has officially concluded. For those of you unaware I wasn't serious at first but somehow I actually got the number of upvotes. Therefore I had to deliver on my promise.

Here is every post for posterity so nobody can say the women here are never nice to them. At least not the virgins. I know that for women or others who are vehemently against the idea it isn't going to move the needle. Buut if you ever meet a guy you vibe well with and he happens to be a virgin or romantically inexperienced...Don't like immediately run away or assume he spends his time being a dick to people on the internet just because of that. You might miss out on something pretty sweet.

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SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-02T22:53:18+00:00

My favorite law of online dating: if the first picture is a group photo, the profile is the one of the ugliest girl in the photo

Maffioze · 2023-05-02T19:11:33+00:00

https://www.reuters.com/business/sustainable-business/desantis-signs-sweeping-anti-esg-legislation-florida-2023-05-02/

This guy is truly insane.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-05-02T20:04:54+00:00

Been feeling some kind of way lately, so I posted on the rate me sub. Got everything from 2/10-are you trans? to 10/10-I wanna take you out for dinner baby.

I think the overwhelming consensus is "oddly attractive, but mostly average."

Eh, such is the life for an ethnic plain jane.

old_new_age · 2023-05-02T18:08:43+00:00

Considering using some kind of autistic dating app, I think I make a good relationship partner but I can't get my foot in the door with any NT women because I sperg out and sniff my fingers or some shit when I try talking to them. Once I know someone for a few months I'm funny as fuck though, and very attentive to others' needs in general

Only problem is I'm not that autistic so I feel like I'd end up taking advantage of some level 100 autist girl who can't tie her shoes. Would need someone on my level of sperg, and most of those women are already considered NT and probably wouldn't be on the app lol. It's rough out here

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-03T01:48:09+00:00

Why do women care so much about women as a whole generally being considered shallow?

Women fight tooth and nail about how women aren't shallow and care about so much more than looks blah blah. And then when they discuss guys amongst themselves they talk about how tall and hunky they are 😍😍😍. Many of them insult men for their looks and say things like "eww short guys are not men", "you must be 6 ft to ride this ride".

When men were considered the shallow ones, men were just like "yeah, we're shallow. No fatties or butterfaces".

Women are finally being rightfully called out for being shallow but are trying to gaslight that they aren't when the evidence is so blatantly there.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-02T21:58:58+00:00

Some women on this sub are beyond mental help they actually think going on a third is manipulative

Bruh if l go on a third date with a woman it's because l haven't gotten the sex therefore need to invest more time seeing her

Nothing manipulative about that

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-02T22:07:13+00:00

Why are women here denying some men have a roster of women? There are women who resort to sex work and other things in the context of selling their bodies. Yet you don’t think women will share a man?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-03T00:17:46+00:00

afab, amab

N**** you weren’t assigned anything, you are male/female. Stop larping as intersex which is where this makes sense.

scwizard · 2023-05-03T01:00:24+00:00

The only type of dad who has a daughter who would oppose no fault divorce, is the type that carries a gun around everywhere and is like "I'd never allow my daughter to date someone disrespectful" despite the fact that she's in college now and he can't control her anymore.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-03T06:20:23+00:00

A lot of PPD posts starts off with terrible understanding of RP concepts, all this could be avoided by just reading the PPD jargon. For example.

Hypergamy.

The official definition is to marry above your station/social class, but the RP concept mainly refers to women seeking men that are "better than they are". That is likely to mean station/class but could also mean education level, social standing, other sources of prestige or status more generally.

TigerRude4 · 2023-05-03T10:05:00+00:00

I've been here for a long time, but I don't think I ever saw two women arguing with each other.

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-02T18:09:24+00:00

Alright since it came up recently in the last thread: how important is education level for you in dating? For me it’s pretty important.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-05-02T18:14:02+00:00

I legit thought DeSantis would be a good contender for the republic nomination, but damn this dude is withering fast on the national stage.

Should have never picked a fight with Disney...

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-02T18:29:12+00:00

The biggest reason most people don't like the manosphere because it’s easy to spot how unhinged a lot of incels, red pillars, and MGTOW are. It's not uncommon to find guys who think sexual exploitation (and straight up abuse) is fine because “atleast they got sex”. Most people would call that a red flag.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-02T18:45:51+00:00

Q4ALL: in your experience, how do emotional safety and connection tie into and impact physical/sexual attraction?

i know some people don’t require emotional safety or connection to have physical or sexual attraction.
i know some argue that a lack of emotional safety and a degree of uncertainty increase sexual attraction.
for me, i don’t require emotional safety or connection to acknowledge physical attraction, but i require connection to feel and act on sexual attraction. i might have a celebrity crush but i couldn’t desire to have sex with a man i don’t even know. i also find that for me, increased feelings of emotional safety within a relationship almost exponentially heighten sexual attraction. in turn, acting on that attraction increases emotional connection/safety. feeling angry or disconnected kills my sex drive completely.

meteorness123 · 2023-05-02T19:59:11+00:00

When older women want younger men, it's not really about lust. It's about her wanting to prove to herself and others that "she's still got it".

BigOleGreenTrees · 2023-05-02T20:46:25+00:00

Cmv any criticism of women sleeping around or calling women sluts is just jealousy. Every single man would choose ease of access to sex and they'd consider their high n count to be a good thing.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-02T21:34:17+00:00

Has there been studies done on the "deep voicepill"? Sound makes a big impact on perception.

My prediction is that men with low pitch voices do better than men with high pitch voices in many regards to life. Not just sex, but also career, politics, status, respect by peers, etc.

If this breaks the "no incel content" rule, please just delete this comment instead of banning me again.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-05-02T22:51:52+00:00

The only way to happily end this all is learning to love each other.

SorryEm · 2023-05-02T22:56:33+00:00

Question for Socialist/liberal/marxist/whatever bluepillers how do you believe we live in an economically unfair world, but a socially fair one?

To tell you the truth I'm not sure how they combine these beliefs. They go on about how much they care about poor minorities but when it comes to men, they just give men vague platitudes about how they must "do better" with the implication that they should just join their group as a form of submissive underclass. Keep in mind they say all this while they gladly pressure men into liking plus-sized women and eliminate whatever minuscule standards they have had.

Keep this in mind: Within the social sphere, men do objectively worse. Norah Vincent(A woman who disguised as a man for a year) knows this, trans men know this, and statistics show it's way harder for men to find relationships than women.

Something that I've learned about politics is that people are often right-wing about groups and people they dislike, this is what I believe, of course. I'm sure you guys have an explanation.

So, how do we live in an economically unfair world, but a socially fair one?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-03T01:34:07+00:00

Her children will always be her top priority, so make sure that if she has children, it’s your children. Then she is at least deprioritizing you over someone you care about.

Willow-girl · 2023-05-03T03:15:13+00:00

Last night we lost our pet duck Priscilla to a predator. Evidently she was killed while trying to defend the nest of eggs she's been sitting on.

-- Then I come here and read messages from women raging because legislators won't let them kill their unborn children.

I'm reminded of an Edith Rylander poem called "Watching the Stuff on the News" in which she compares humans to her flock of sheep and concludes:

Something will make it, if not us;

Something will make it.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-03T04:20:35+00:00

Q4W: my roommate a while back was talking to a girl. Our coworker ended up falling for him. He told girl B he’s talking to girl A. And girl A girl B is interested. Surprisingly both were ok with dating him since it wasn’t exclusive yet stating his openness of it all as being a why they’re ok with this situation. Basically being ok with both of them trynna win him over.

How common is this? I’m saying this because every girl I’ve dated always assumed I had other girls like me off the cuff. Like they always wondered if I was dating anyone or got suprised when I said I was single for a while.

SlashCo80 · 2023-05-03T09:42:03+00:00

Sometimes I get into heated debates/arguments on some videogame forum, and it suddenly becomes apparent I'm talking to kids or teenagers. Cue existential crisis and "what the hell am I doing here"

Slipthe · 2023-05-03T12:18:08+00:00

God dang it, I had a roll of extra carpet from renovations that we kept in the basement for like a year. I got rid of it and now two years later I need to replace a piece of carpet.

I should have just cut the carpet into squares and kept it somewhere else.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-03T12:22:27+00:00

So I just saw a compilation of videos of women saying something of the likes of "If you are working out because you don't want to get fat is considered fatphobic". Thank you for proving that I am fatphobic again.

Since we wanna create bullshit phobias, we need a "shortphobia", "healthphobia", "straightphobia", "modestphobia" and other random phobia movements too. Not just a phobia for the stupid and entitled. Woke culture is gonna die off the more ignorant it becomes.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T18:38:58+00:00

how much of this pill drama are you guys internalizing? whenever i read about divorce r**e stories or read about yt comments on pro-marriage videos, i need to take pills to sleep 😣😖😩

Ikkyu-Soju · 2023-05-02T18:52:35+00:00

I genuinely feel worse being quoted in a post here than I have in my many years on the internet

Me being quoted as a spokesperson for RP beliefs? That’s just lazy, if someone makes a claim “RP says this” you should be able to go and grab a claim from TRP.

It’s not like it’s a whole different website, it’s right there and there’s literally years worth of posts to search from. Too much work for many unfortunately

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-02T19:43:08+00:00

People date who's around them

So when you move in with a girl especially around your age

Not saying your guaranteed to hookup but the odds/possibilities are high

Certainly in my experience, my first year at uni

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-02T20:05:19+00:00

I'm thinking of creating a thread titled " 'Chads' are made, not born." then watching the world burn.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-02T20:15:30+00:00

Is there a rhetoric/bubble/niche sub for men who want to settle down early, like early to mid 20s. TRP is all about fucking around, spinning plates, and treating women like 💩, RPW is the only RP community in the RP network that cares about stability but it's only for women.

Or is wat i am after impossible.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-02T20:46:13+00:00

I still can't forget my first time at a college party

I was at my best friend's house and his older sister wanted to go at this end of year party as a college sophomore

Mind you we were 15/16 and she was 19

We were tasked to keep an eye on her if anything bad happens, so l had to be involved without my consent since the father already knew me well

Gave us some money and we went off

When we arrived at the party we give all the money to her and run off doing our own things

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-05-02T22:49:36+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/2ERVCDNHNcc

Does anyone else think that this isn't all that bad? I mean she created a safe space for two students beefing to settle it out. It's better that there is an authority watching over instead of two students fighting unintentionally harming others.

The teacher in question shouldn't have done it but it's honestly not that "bad" in my opinion

2023-05-02T22:54:45+00:00

MILF: mother that looks good for being a mother Cougar: Old bish that look good for her age

meteorness123 · 2023-05-02T23:30:12+00:00

Would you bang young Elon Musk ?

https://eu-images.contentstack.com/v3/assets/bltcd74acc1d0a99f3a/blt3b1a4eac9447aca1/626804d14358250f2d91a471/ELON.png

scwizard · 2023-05-02T23:40:52+00:00

Last year, the Republican Party of Texas added language to its platform calling for an end to no-fault divorce: “We urge the Legislature to rescind unilateral no-fault divorce laws, to support covenant marriage, and to pass legislation extending the period of time in which a divorce may occur to six months after the date of filing for divorce.”

Wow so it's not just a meme...

It's pretty ridiculous because women have every right to vote in Texas and because women's suffrage is in the constitution that's not changing any time soon.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-05-03T00:11:22+00:00

As an outsider it’s so weird seeing these >90% white people larping as native Americans.

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-03T01:19:22+00:00

Can someone explain to me why fault vs. no fault divorce is a thing people care about. Like I'm seeing definitions obviously but I don't get why it matters legally. Divorce isn't really a thing in my family.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-03T01:34:41+00:00

I recall wanting to leave high school as quickly as possible.

I didn't go to prom.

This sub makes it seem like the high school years ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT EVER!!!!1!1!1!1!!

I hardly remember high school at this point. My 20s were a much better gauge of what is the most important.

saraimarsena · 2023-05-03T01:48:53+00:00

Slut shaming men are fucking sneaky, I’ll tell you that much. Got women down bad. But I see through the manipulative BS. Couldn’t stop me from enjoying the hell out of my life, no sir!

2023-05-03T02:38:25+00:00

One thing people need to realize is that there’s a large amount of people that you could tell them their partner is cheating on them with proof and they still wouldn’t believe you, might even get mad at you for showing them something they already realized. They’ll even try to rationalize it or question how you even got that proof and if it’s legitimate, even if it’s very obvious

If someone has their heels dug in to oppose something they don’t want to or care to acknowledge, you’re not going to convince them. Think about someone married who’s taking their time to come in this forum and engage by essentially never having an open mind, you can try to explain TRP, hypergamy, or whatever you want to them. They made their mind up a long time ago. At most they’ll acknowledge some people are like that but never anyone else they know, because they’d never

That’s the beauty about TRP. It doesn’t have to convince men to join or women to understand, you’ve probably experienced something that they’re reeling you in with, like getting cheated on. You can either listen or not, but if someone’s already decided their thoughts, especially someone like a woman you’re talking about sex to or a married man, they’re probably never changing their mind. Why would they?

Willow-girl · 2023-05-03T04:51:49+00:00

Update: So far, the live traps have snared Pip and Claudia, but no raccoon ...

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-03T04:56:28+00:00

I get to know more couples who have left Russia. And you know what? All women work and bring cash to the table, a good share brings more than their partners because they have easier time finding a job.

scwizard · 2023-05-03T05:49:43+00:00

I have mentioned to people multiple times that my high school literally banned us from showing our fucking shoulders. And I always get doubted! People act like I'm lying or being dramatic! I bought NO TANK TOPS until I moved out of that goddamn town!

I believe her. Religious people have a weird thing about shoulders. It's weird cause sundresses that go halfway up the thigh are apparently totally fine so long as shoulders aren't showing.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-03T09:47:41+00:00

Over time I've come to develop a one stroke system with the women I date, I don't have a whole lot of time to deal with drama or bullshit so if a chick messes up or disrespects me I just block her and replace her.

For example recently I found out one of the girls I was talking to was sending around our messages to her friends, the old me wouldn't have had a backbone and would have kept her around because "Women just tell their friends everything." I ended up blocking her before she had the chance to notice, no chances, no explanation, you're done.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-03T13:13:08+00:00

Sexual intimacy is vital in any relationship, and not just for the sensual pleasure of it all.

“Closeness and connection is a human need,” explains Dr. Sanam Hafeez, a NYC-based licensed clinical psychologist. “When in a long-term relationship it's important to reconnect through sex. The brain chemicals released during sex further enhances bonding.”

Levkoff concurs, adding that sex doesn’t always have to be limited to intercourse, either. Physical intimacy — including cuddling, oral and manual stimulation and sharing of sexual fantasies — contribute to this bonding. At the end of the day, the focus shouldn’t be on hitting a “magic number,” but rather on meeting the needs of both partners and bonding through intimacy as a couple.

januaryphilosopher · 2023-05-03T13:14:53+00:00

Anytime I see “harems don’t actually exist” I remember im on Reddit and the people that tend to come on Reddit. Even I’ve gotten hot and had multiple women I knew would fuck me at once, I’m nothing special at all

A Lot of men would be sick if they knew the sex lives of those men who are extremely successful sexually. There’s literally millions of videos of women agreeing to have sex on camera and have it posted on the internet for millions to see, and you don’t think that there’s men who can call up multiple women to fuck? Lmao

scwizard · 2023-05-03T13:27:21+00:00

A study in Sweden looked at happiness among different demographics.

Most miserable: Newly divorced middle aged men

Most happy: Newly divorced middle aged women

Does anything paint as clear a picture of the emotional labour women do?

This is why I say no fault divorce is a woman's rights issue. And that any woman who's opposed to it is being kinda weird.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-03T14:06:01+00:00

The risk tolerance of a man is hugely important for his sexual succes. Men who do what society tells them to do: "Don't risk making a woman uncomfortable by asking her out, flirting with her or breaking the physical touch barrier", will find much less succes than men who don't care and just act upon their instincts.

This is also why the virginity rate will be much higher in a room full of valedictorian university students than a room full of early 20s drug addicts. The former group actively avoids risk by doing well in school and university, the latter has an extremely high risk tolerance by destroying their future.

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-03T14:09:12+00:00

Dating casually and not being intentional when it comes to dating. That's how people end up in the "omg I just came back from work and the house is a mess and the kids haven't been fed. Even though my husband had a day off and perfect health"

They overlook tendencies and behavioural patterns that are manageable when they're both just dating but not when there's a baby involved. Do you want marriage and kids? Then plan out how your life will look like, what kind of relationship dynamic you want and list ideal partner qualities in a hierarchy of value. Then negotiate responsibilities early on, Before you get married and have kids

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Nyx_the_hexer · 2023-05-02T18:02:01+00:00

First….

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-02T18:52:43+00:00

"Daughters should be raised different than sons"

Yes, in my experience

Whenever my dad needed someone to go buy bread at the store even at night, it was always me and my brother

Whenever he needed someone to make him a little snack, always called my sister

When they needed the trash taken out, always the boys

When things got broken, my dad would show me and my brother how to fix it since he called for our help

This is not a new social concept, it's how most people throw up universally around the world

Ikkyu-Soju · 2023-05-02T19:44:56+00:00

It's been a couple of years since I last played a game but the other day I came across this one called Fishing Planet and coincidentally I was contemplating getting a rod to start fishing and so I went for it. And I wasn't disappointed! The game is super-realistic, not in the graphics(they are great), but in the mechanics. You need to take everything into consideration to catch a fish its favorite bait/lure, wind speed, water temperature, weather, time of day, and your gear's capability. The only thing unrealistic about it would of course be the speed with which fish are caught because I doubt a lot of people would play it if you had to sit there for a couple of hours to catch something. Try it out if you like fishing or you're curious about it you'll learn a shit ton of knowledge that translates to real life fishing.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-02T22:32:28+00:00

There are no loose vaginas, only penises too small to fill them

betterevery · 2023-05-02T22:53:12+00:00

How do you get out of the Madonna/Whore complex? How do you see the person as a whore and a madonna?

scwizard · 2023-05-02T23:16:19+00:00

This awkward looking woman (or at least afab) out for a jog in the park here topless and wearing tight gym shorts.

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-03T00:05:43+00:00

Acceptable age gaps differ in teenage years and in your 20s

In teenage years, the limit is two years

If your 18 dating someone 15/14 then that's messed up

But if your 20 dating someone 24 then that's normal

Or 18+

If your 19 dating someone 22 then it's also normal

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-03T00:06:10+00:00

is anyone here actually rich? like make 500k+ passively through some business

scwizard · 2023-05-03T00:20:24+00:00

Q4W which women's rights and entitlements do you support and which do you not support and why?

Abortion rights. 8 weeks? 12 weeks? Viability or up until birth? Exceptions for incest etc?
Mandated paid maternity leave. 4 weeks? Six months? One year?
Free or subsidized childcare?
Voting rights?
No fault divorce?
Spousal r*pe? After all it wasn't illegal 50 years ago.
Plan B access?

Probably missing a bunch so let me know which ones I forgot.

Slipthe · 2023-05-03T02:00:23+00:00

Got the Google Nest Audio.

Damn it sounds good compared to the Mini ones.

HugeEntertainment610 · 2023-05-03T04:03:36+00:00

Anyone watched margin call? I didn’t understand the ending until now.

itsdolcekay · 2023-05-03T04:17:40+00:00

Irene Yvette does not support abortion and she has some good videos about what compromises she would be willing to make in regards to women’s reproductive rights. I think abortion is necessary at least in my community or at the very lease women need to stop having children or choose the gender of the baby. If I can find her video I’ll post it

BaronVSS · 2023-05-03T06:35:15+00:00

I miss cult_of_chad.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-03T11:51:33+00:00

Anyone who says “hurrrr durr, look at NFTs, look at Bitcoin, people fall for scams all the time” is an absolute fucking moron. There the same people who say the stock market is like astrology for men.

It’s probably the best example of idiots who have no idea what they’re talking about just repeating what they’ve heard from their favorite TikTokers

Literally I’ve heard multiple people say things like this, it’s always morons who bought dogecoin then got mad when Elon pumped and dumped it and now they think Bitcoin is stupid, almost every time. Or it’s a woman who’s never looked at a financial statement in her life beyond a credit card bill. Just absolute morons

DeshaunWalt · 2023-05-03T11:57:58+00:00

"What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women"

I'm 27

So from 20-28 is my bracket l find the most physically attractive in women

dbz__f · 2023-05-03T12:00:17+00:00

Everyone at my gf’s work think she’s this really friendly and nice innocent little Asian girl and they’re always confiding in her everything. All their relationship and life issues. Then my gf lies in bed with me and tells me everything while I pretend to care. I know all the deepest darkest secrets of these people I’ve never met. Also apparently women talk about dirty stuff just as much as guys do.

Also apparently a female friend of my gf lusts after me. Feels pretty good man.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-03T12:03:59+00:00

I have come to realize to that TRP is vague by design.

For example, thinking that women initiating divorce matters. The manosphere only care about the reasons for divorce once you ask if they think women should stay with abusers and cheaters. I doubt it’s because they didn’t think about it. They were hoping no one would bring it up.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-05-03T12:09:51+00:00

Set my hinge to London since I’m moving soon and don’t wanna have it in the States

British chicks are actually pretty decent looking. I always thought they were ugly from random videos but I’m kinda changing my view now.

They all have like no ass though, kinda blows.

Rude_Excitement2909 · 2023-05-03T12:18:29+00:00

there's this strange belief going around that when women are disgusted by 30 years old and older men that find 18 year olds the most attractive, that we want them arrested or something. no wrinkly gramps you're just gross, it's biological

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-03T12:53:07+00:00

Would it be considered fair to say that all differences between men and women are boiled down to nature and nurture?

reddam_man · 2023-05-03T12:56:22+00:00

Dear men

Put yourself first. Lie, cheat, pump and dump and lead on women. Do whatever it takes. That includes doing the work. Self improve as much as possible. Workout, make more money, dress well etc. Appear to be her dream man so you can take full advantage. Even if you have to decrease your standards. Take whatever you get. Just never commit. Get revenge.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-03T13:14:53+00:00

Q4W: how true is this video

https://youtube.com/shorts/yMy32F5WQgc?feature=share

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-03T13:41:48+00:00

Both socially and politically, the manosphere really are like woke male feminists, but just hate women.

Lack of personal responsibility is the biggest one. Expecting them to never project their personal problems onto others will leave you disappointed.
A victim complex. It's “The gender wage gap” for woke feminists. It's “The War On Boy in Education” for the manosphere.
Wanting supremacy but pretending they want equality. Both woke feminists and the manosphere only mention differences when it results in special treatment.
Going by their feelings rather than what’s fact.

I also remembered that most of them have liberal politics despite dumbass conservatives catering to them. So it makes sense that MRAs will always a small group in the USA, because neither political party likes them.

Considering I was raised to “pull myself by the bootstraps” and to understand personal responsibility, I can see why the manosphere don't like me. It's the same way SJWs don't like me.

AngeCruelle · 2023-05-02T18:33:56+00:00

Does anybody know what the jakertown sub is. They keep winding up in my feed but I am honestly afraid to click on any of that stuff.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-05-02T19:59:57+00:00

Basically how most men view the manosphere: https://youtube.com/shorts/qJjqRDtScyY?feature=share

scwizard · 2023-05-02T22:48:55+00:00

Are republicans actually going to roll back no fault divorce or am I being memed?

And is marital rape after that lol

This is so silly because there's no hecking way a woman that has rights and stuff would get married with those sorta changes.

scwizard · 2023-05-02T22:52:07+00:00

Q4W: your boyfriend wants you to sign a "slave contract" are you game?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-03T00:08:56+00:00

Watching GoG in preparation for the new one.

Rocket and Groot are absolutely "Chad Alpha."

MalandiBastos · 2023-05-03T00:27:41+00:00

Went to a maid cafe yesterday. It was quite the experience. Im not sure I would do it again, but it was definitely worth it to do once.

Pics: https://www.reddit.com/user/MalandiBastos/comments/13658cq/_/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I spent about 120 dollars in a about an hour and a half. This was way more than you need to spend though, I bought a lot of extras, just going to the cafe and getting the standard meal package would be like 25 dollars.

Summing up my experience:

Its kind of like hooters but in bizarro world. The premise is the same, a food and drinks establishment where cute girls act cute for money.

It was very cute. They would refer to me as master. Whenever I would order things, they would do some kind of chant over it with me following instructions. Would be something like repeating a few words, and making a heart with your hand over the food.

The waitresses, about half of them did not speak english, a few could to varying degrees.

There were a few drinks with performance add ons. I bought all 3 different variations. One was called like "the 3 second stare" where two maids would come up, the other would pretend to be directing a moving scene and you would, as the name suggests, stare in the other maids eyes while she made all these kinds of cute gestures.

Another allowed you to take a picture of the maid.

The other just had them do some other kind of preparation chant/enchantment.

You could also buy a performance, where they would go on the stage and do a song and dance for you. I bought this twice. I decided I might as well get into it and clap along and wave the light stick they gave me. They would look directly at the purchaser of it for near the whole time. Direct the song, her attention and gesturing towards you, and even come off the stage during the act and interact with you during it. Making you feel like the center of attention. They were actually quite skilled dancers IMO.

At the end, I took a few pictures with my favorite maid, and then after she wrote me a "passport" and gave me her twitter to follow.

When leaving, the waitresses all said bye to me and even came out the door waving and telling me to come back sometime.

For 120 dollars I got: An hour and a half at the table (its supposed to be an hour but I ordered a performance at the last moment I was able to which took them a while to actually get around to) A meal and dessert A souvenir headband 6 drinks, 3 of them with mini performances, 3 of them very large beers(I was pretty drunk by the time I left) 3 Polaroid pictures with the maid, a picture with maid on phone, and a picture of a maid by herself. 2 dedicated song and dance performances.

Not saying its a good deal, just stating the costs lol. Anyways, overall very enjoyed and dont regret.

On my way to a samurai experience to do some sparring and cut shit.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-03T00:54:51+00:00

Q4A : Why should there be fault in a divorce?

What good does blaming someone do? Seems exhausting.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-03T02:12:40+00:00

The fucking Zune in GoG2 always cracks me up.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-03T03:22:15+00:00

Just the everyday reminder that women can break the rules and nothing happens while if you're a men you get your comments analyzed like some CSI bullshit.

Btw if you're ugly start approaching women, is pretty funny and demoralizing to them.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-03T07:00:42+00:00

So apparently the only approved huge age gap difference when it comes to dating is an older woman and a younger boy. Like if shes 31 and hes 19. Nothing predatory there whatsoever. Gotta love double standards.

dbz__f · 2023-05-03T09:13:54+00:00

Which you prefer: pretty girl who always goes “omg I’m so ugly” or pretty girl who acknowledges she’s prettier than most other girls and doesn’t shy away from the fact?

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-03T12:56:10+00:00

Getting married is inherently simp behavior. That's why married women fuck their husbands less, because they view them as lesser.

reddam_man · 2023-05-03T13:21:57+00:00

Low value people attract low value people. If you’re struggling to get a partner, start a family or any other relationship goals it’s because you’re somehow defective and something about you is very unattractive. People need to take responsibility for their own lack of desirability.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-02T18:24:38+00:00

Things we want at our wedding

✨️live painter ✨️unique entertainment (magician?) ✨️custom gifts for guests ✨️cbd, thc, adaptogens mocktails (no alcohol)

If this is settling beyond the wall, I'm all for it.

scwizard · 2023-05-03T05:54:27+00:00

I think about sex A LOT. And it irritates me that men use their sex drives as an excuse for bad behaviour.

I'm a woman (heterosexual), and I think about sex a lot...like all day every day. Most women have sex drives too, we're just judged and shamed for having one.

Despite thinking about sex frequently, I have never sexually harassed, coerced or assaulted a man, I have never paid anyone to have sex with them, I don't watch porn because I know exploitation and abuse in the industry is rampant and I want no part of that, also most porn is extremely degrading to women and glamorizes disrespecting them.

People really pushing the narrative that women never do terrible things for sexual reasons only men do. I guarantee you that's not true. I'm not just talking about adultery. Like I'm sure there's women that will like play with themselves while a guy assaults their "friend."

LaloTwins · 2023-05-03T07:50:15+00:00

r/EqualRightsEqualFights

Barneysparky · 2023-05-02T18:50:50+00:00

Ask men has a thread today about men being attracted to women their own age or younger.

I suggest the young women here check it out, as it will help a lot with your mental health after being here and digesting the pilled guys views on that subject.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-02T19:14:58+00:00

Just take a look at the SMV gap between your average 30-35 year old couple and tell me the wall doesn't exist lmao

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