Daily Community Chat Megathread

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-11T18:42:22+00:00

"men's loneliness is rampant, women can afford to be alone because they have a support group, unlike men"

also men:

The fact is that a lot of men are not looking for female friends, they don't need or want friends

interesting

also:

men simply are choosing loneliness over doing free labor for women

this is an extremely weird way to see friendships

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-08-11T00:33:59+00:00

Lmao what? Did the ban just get reversed? Lmao u/InjectAdrenochrome no need to recover lol, quickest ban reversal I've ever witnessed.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-11T18:35:19+00:00

I was flicking through channels a few days ago and I saw Stephen A Smith on a soap opera. I couldn’t stop laughing

Maffioze · 2023-08-11T18:28:19+00:00

I will never understand the desire of people to call other people entitled all the time. Whether it's men or women.

The majority of the time it's just a person being human by having emotions in response to something. If we are consistent, it basically implies anyone who has emotions is immediately entitled. Makes zero sense and completely lacks in compassion for people.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-11T18:27:18+00:00

Men which have sacrificed their 20's to achieve financial success and stability should date younger women.

When successful man in 30's dates less successful woman in 30's, there is a power disparity.

But when he dates woman in her 20's, she has the power of young pussy on her side.

Although these two powers are asymmetric, there is no significant power imbalance.

Also the question of energy... after sacrificing his 20's this man will probably want to have some god damn fun, so there is a mismatch in energy because woman which had her fun in her 20's now want's to settle.

Woman in her 20's also want's to have fun, so their energy matches.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-11T18:25:51+00:00

When talking about the three main attractions for women

Money+looks+Status

Most guys just can only be qualified in the looks area

But another thing which is not talked about in this communities is volume

Volume-sourcing women so using Instagram,dating apps,cold approaching day/night basically talking/interacting with many women

This is another factor average guys can apply in dating

If your good-looking and also have high volume, your gonna kill it in the dating landscape than most guys

Same with being rich and having high volume

Justwannaread3 · 2023-08-11T17:41:26+00:00

Hey ladies! Can you tell me one kind or supportive thing you did for a man in your life this week?

Because I’ve just been told again that most women don’t do anything for men

arrgobon32 · 2023-08-11T17:31:14+00:00

Just got back from a weeklong conference where I didn’t have wifi/was too busy to check social media. It was really refreshing.

Y’all are exhausting

DerayRevan · 2023-08-11T17:30:50+00:00

"If settling is bad, why should women lower their standards and be less selective/picky"

Women can be picky or have whatever standard they want but l still have the right to comment and give my opinion on that

Same way they do with male preferences

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-11T17:11:57+00:00

The obsession with the "top 20%" is the downfall of most single men here.

The obsession with height is another downfall.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-11T17:00:55+00:00

If a guy feels like he has to be the top 20% of attractiveness to get a woman, he’s only chasing Stacies. Lower your expectations, please.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-11T16:49:24+00:00

"A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendships"

That's because a lot of guys just don't want to screen out time-wasters which are women who don't wanna fuck them

Guys will literally talk a woman for over a hour with the intention of hoping she'll smash

Or they'll immediately be the nice guy when talking to attractive women and not reveal their true intentions and because of that, they end up in the friend-zone

So it's no wonder why many feel entitled to male attention

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-11T16:14:33+00:00

Here is the healthy eating hack/blue print. This makes it so simple for me.

Every night I prep overnight oats and in the morning I have that with two scrambled eggs. Every day I have 8 - 16 oz of chicken which I can essentially graze on with 4oz of that reserved for lunch which I have with 1 cup of air fried broccoli and 300g of air fried potatoes. I will have a protein shake or a meal replacement shake with fruit and a cheese stick between breakfast and lunch, and on my way home from exercise I will have a meal replacement shake which I keep cold in a cooler I bring with me. Then for dinner I will prepare whatever my partner wants, but I will only have the meat portion and vegetable portion.

I'm consistently hitting 180 - 200g of protein, 2200 calories, with a 33:33:33 macro split, while maxing out all my micronutrients, I'm not hungry or craving nutrient deficient highly palatable foods and all the food tastes good and I look forward to it. Potatoes are a cheat code for getting your potassium in as that is the hardest one to get.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-11T16:11:43+00:00

I just realized that none of my female friends uses makeup.

They are fun, honest, have a sense of humor, can drive.

They are basically men with tits.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-11T16:06:38+00:00

Female friends are useless. Also I love women. You can love something and say something unflattering about it without hating it

Peacesquad · 2023-08-11T16:05:23+00:00

Ok but what did I miss. Give it to me straight

potoricco · 2023-08-11T15:57:58+00:00

“A key difference in how the "male loneliness epidemic" versus the rape and domestic violence crisis is discussed: male loneliness is assumed to be a shared responsibility, a collective impediment, while the relentless and increasing sexual violence against women and girls isn't”

potoricco · 2023-08-11T15:54:29+00:00

🚶‍♀️#You have no excuse

He was born with no mouth or jaw and has a wife

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T15:52:23+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/11ymp7r/what_are_some_toxic_feminine_traits_you_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1
This is an important thread I keep bookmarked that many of the women here need to read. Keep in mind these aren’t incels complaining or anything, just men who are in or have been in relationships.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-08-11T15:50:27+00:00

I’ve seen several different commenters (all men) say that most men get nothing from women besides sex.

Not friendship. Not emotional support. Not love.

I can fully believe that some men never do have these positive experiences with women — but that doesn’t mean that others don’t.

Just because YOU haven’t felt loved by a woman doesn’t mean women CANNOT love men. Just because YOU don’t value platonic friendships with women doesn’t mean it’s IMPOSSIBLE for men to have friendships with women.

And please — stop calling us liars for expressing our own experiences.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-11T15:38:19+00:00

Young childless men which want to get snipped have to go through psychological screening.

So if there is nothing wrong with them, they can get snipped.

If there is something wrong with them... they can't get snipped... because we want those people to have kids?

Maffioze · 2023-08-11T15:11:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/GuyCry/comments/15n3tlm/found_a_reddit_comment_that_explained_really_well/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

Thoughts on this comments? I'd say there is some truth to it.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-11T14:57:30+00:00

I've gone through the zodiac circle enough times to have an opinion on all. Let's start with the most fantastic long term fuck buddies.

Virgo. It's comical. Often thought of with Aphrodite, the sex and fertility goddess, these women are anything but. The only thing they share in common with the ancient deity is that they liked to get fucked, but somehow miraculously are born again virgins they next morning.

Women born under this sign are super peculiar. It's as if you told a computer what a woman is, the common behaviors associated and told it to go out into the world. They are clunky, cold, odd, weird, unfeminine and yet they still feel the womanly I want to get fucked urge inside them. They aren't deep, they're terrified of their own shadow. They are not independent thinkers. But gosh, they sure take direction well. And they do want to have sex ( more like, get fucked, they aren't very engaging in the bedroom ).

Recommended approach: In private, painfully upfront and direct through txt. They need a minute to digest the proposition alone with a lot of privacy. After the initial shock of knee jerk no wears off, they often stew on it and, if they think you're attractive and discreet enough, they will invite you back to theirs quickly.

They are awful for anything emotional, they have so many negative hangups they need to sort on their end, there isn't enough bandwidth to entertain any of yours. If the sex is good enough to their liking, they can stay somewhat loyal.

potoricco · 2023-08-11T14:45:54+00:00

Men: Marriage sucks,, the old ball and chain haha, “I hate my wife she is fat/ugly/old” jokes,

Women: 😕

Women: Maybe marriage does actually suck….

Men: OMG YOU FUCKING HAG, THIS IS PROPAGANDA MARRIAGE IS GOOD ACTUALLY, THIS IS WHAT FEMINISM IS DOING, OMG WHAT DO YOU MEAN YOU DONT WANT TO DO HOUSEWORK

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-11T14:43:31+00:00

I think the reason a lot of men don't put effort into their appearance is because we gather that most things are a scam or are just marketing. For example, there was a tiktok of a woman making fun of a man for being bald and not trying to resolve his baldness and she used examples of different oils or those red light caps. As a man, if you're bald, you know that no OTC product is going to reverse severe hair loss. Minoxidil might work if started early enough, but it will only reverse thinning of the crown, not a receding hairline. The only option for a lot of aesthetic problems men have are expensive surgeries.

I am starting a skincare routine, but I'm looking at my face and I don't know if anything is going to help enough to reverse large pores, rosacea, and acne scarring. In fact, I've browsed the rosacea subreddit and every thread is like "does this work?" "No" so it is like, whats the point? Maybe I'm wrong and maybe I can still have nice skin, but it seems like all of this stuff is just trying to get your money. I've lived with my partner for over 10 years and one thing I've noticed about women is they're always buying stuff but not using it long term. For men, that just seems like a cash grab of encouraging people to try new products that aren't going to work.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-11T14:41:25+00:00

PPD: women have such high standards

Women's standards: be a nice adult who can cook, clean, take care of himself, and have some friends or hobbies, so she's not his only human connection.

PPD: YOUR STANDARDS ARE TOOOOOOOO HIGH, LOWER THEM SO I CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND BRAG TO OTHER MEN SO THEY SEE ME AS VALUABLE!!!

potoricco · 2023-08-11T14:40:08+00:00

Learn the meaning of AFAB and AMAB

All Females are Beautiful 😻

All Males are Brave 😻

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-11T14:11:50+00:00

If a 19 y/o decides not to have kids and wants to be sterilized she's going to be asked a million questions, what does your partner think? what does your family think? what if you regret it? etc etc

fine, being careful is ok

but how come if a 19 y/o gets pregnant nobody asks her "are you sure you are ready for this? what does your family think? what does your partner think? what if you regret it? are you sure you don't want an abortion?"

purplish_possum · 2023-08-11T13:59:10+00:00

Why are so many guys here so supportive of prostitution?

I'm all for it being legalized since criminalization only ruins lives and doesn't help anyone who isn't getting paid to put people in cages. Not every sus activity needs to be illegal.

That said, paying for sex is pathetic, and taking money for sex is ick.

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-11T13:56:06+00:00

kissing is kinda weird when you think about it, like why are y’all all up on each other like that🤨just my thoughts…..

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T13:43:23+00:00

Got a haircut like reddit told me

The bitches better be flowing to me now

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InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-10T18:03:52+00:00

Thirst

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-08-10T18:06:43+00:00

You’re not ugly, you’re just poor.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-10T18:11:19+00:00

Manosphere: Women are hypergamous and will monkey branch!

Meanwhile in reality: https://youtube.com/shorts/-kXYujqR0Kk?feature=share

Also, the redpill only appeals to guys who are so sheltered, they never see what awful men can do and that gender really doesnt affect individuals that much compared to the individual’s personality.

sine120 · 2023-08-10T18:11:36+00:00

Taking bets on the next war. Niger v. West Africa and France? China v. Japan, US, Taiwan, Austrailia, UK? Georgia v. Russia? Maybe China v. Russia...?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-10T18:20:59+00:00

Okay so.....Apparenly my Chad friend who is "clapping cheeks" (the terminology he likes to use) constantly does not at all have shit together. It's actually kind of crazy.

The guy is 25, currently basically unemployed cause he didn't finish his college degree

And his plan is to become a las Vegas firefigther. That's not even his actual plan. He wants to become an INTERNATIONAL firefighter because quote:

"Ripped black man international firefighter is the sexies thing in the world I'd be clapping so many cheeks."

Only he didn't know that to become an international firefighter he had to actually become a normal firefighter first...until I told him that. So he settled on the Las Vegas fire department

He couldn't figure out how to become a LV firefighter.... so I googled it for him............ Because he couldn't figure out how to do that. He doesn't seem to comprehend the fact that it's possible/likely given that he has no college degree that he won't even make it to the interview. He's just apparently going to become a firefigther now after me reading him the 10 step process to becoming a basic firefigther. I asked him if he had a suit. No he'll figure it out. I asked him if he had ever done an interview and he said no, it shouldn't be that hard. I asked him if he had a criminal background and he's like "I mean when we're in Vegas part of the reason we're going is I got to clear shit up with that" and then didn't elaborate.

But he's going to be a firefigther and his backup plan is..I mean he has no backup plan.

I'm just...baffled how this man has so many women constantly hitting him up. Anyone who claims that money or intelligence or status is important to women is a fucking liar.

happy_discus · 2023-08-10T18:34:42+00:00

I might have done the most pathetic thing someone has ever done because I had the stupid thought some girl was interested in me.

I already talked about this girl sometime she was acting very weird, coming to classes she doesn't need to only to be bored throughout them, talking to me randomly and so on. We talked after our last exam and she casually mentioned she wont attend the class afterwards but since I was going she wanted me to take notes if the professor said anything important for the essay we had to write. So she told me I should just write her a text, then mentioned, oh you don't have my number. So I offered to write her a mail instead. I since then have written her a mail. ON THE OFFICIAL STUDENT MAIL. I feel so pathetic.

At least you guys, girls, and everyone else can laugh about it.

SorryEm · 2023-08-10T18:50:44+00:00

(repost from previous thread)

"Bluepillers are pretty much wrong or ill-intentioned with every point they make."

Will be the title of my next post. Blue-pillers, anti redpillers, feminists, radfems, whatever. What are your core talking points? What are your core beliefs? I want to base this off of stuff you actually say.

I'm gonna ping some of the smarter ones since I want to address their strongest arguments. u/LillthOfBabylon u/ potoricco(She already answered)

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-10T18:51:36+00:00

I’ve come to the conclusion that I might be the world’s first person who simply can’t flaunt high cheekbones. I also constantly mistake them as shadows.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-10T18:52:01+00:00

I will always be confused by guys who get their dating advice from solely their moms. Like, even the good kids I know weren’t blindly listening to everything them. Also, alot of these dating advice I see guys were fed…..sounds like something you’d tell a little kid like “Be nice”.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-10T18:56:39+00:00

We get our prenup draft back in a couple of weeks.

Next up, we're interviewing wedding planners + day of coordinators. One person I'm really excited to meet, she was referred to us by one of my exes (lol).

It's funny to be in the early wedding planning stages while reading this sub. 🤣

NotMattDamien · 2023-08-10T19:02:01+00:00

Why do women say past sexual history doesn’t matter but in reality it matters to men and some women.

mean_bean_machine · 2023-08-10T19:05:28+00:00

Is there a MGTOW pill that's not bitter or angry, just honestly not interested in dating? Like black pill without the nihilism or red pill without the 'game'?

Specialist_Cod1841 · 2023-08-10T19:06:32+00:00

deadbedrooming your female partner because she doesn't want to have anal or to be tied up and beaten during sex is the most pornsick, coombrained take I've ever seen. difficult to believe people like that exist.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-10T19:12:54+00:00

My daughter was looking in a reflective surface at the play ground and I said to her, “Do you see that little girl?” And she said,”She’s so preeeeettty,” and I am so glad she has high self esteem so far

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-10T19:43:44+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/15nadwt/my_fianc%C3%A9_has_a_micropenis/

She is (c word that rhymes with 'hoping') hard here. I'm not gonna claim that her feelings about this man aren't genuine or she will cheat on him, but it seems this whole post is her trying to convince herself that his micro size penis doesn't matter because he's an amazing guy, and this post is to have others validate that. Really she is going to remain conflicted about it, and all it's gonna take is one bad argument and she's out of there. And the people in the comments telling her to essentially lie to him are the worst.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-08-10T19:47:47+00:00

Q4All: is it obvious if someone is an incel/virgin just based on looking at them?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-10T19:55:20+00:00

It's so funny how some men here react to the women in relationships here.

It's either "condolences for him" or "he's a simp".

Men really are other men's worst nightmares.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-10T20:00:35+00:00

The “outcasts” in these high school movies and tv shows just happen to be all be attractive😂. I understand the concept of suspending disbelief but man.

Also one thing should be pointed out, there’s a huge difference between one person or clique hating you and the entire school(or an even a majority) of the school hating you. There’s a difference between 4 girls don’t talk to me and the whole school ignoring me making me an “outcast”.

dyngladfel · 2023-08-10T20:06:44+00:00

Bumped into my recent exes friend and he was nice but he did kind of smirk at me. Absolutely wish I was better at reading facial expressions no idea what it meant.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-10T20:25:23+00:00

It's so funny how some women here will give out the worst advice possible.
The crabs in a bucket analogy is so good because instead of improving each other to be the most desirable woman possible, they will drag them back down or even ruin their friend's relationships with their toxic envy.
Women really are women's worst enemy.

hannahg000 · 2023-08-10T20:33:10+00:00

does anyone else have no perception of how attractive they are? i think i’m average but i could be above average or maybe even butt ugly.

who knows 🤷‍♀️

Unavoidable-Tomato · 2023-08-10T20:40:13+00:00

Controversial take but manyof the takes by wheat waffles are true. Some are outright God awful but most of his his videos make sense. I feel like i'm half redpill and half blackpilled these days

Nate_Reborn · 2023-08-10T20:53:40+00:00

Breaking: Average guy leaves wife for Ariana Grande. Becky fling, Stacy ring strikes again.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-10T20:57:21+00:00

Anyone got any good videos on how to speak more feminine? I have a gravelly monotone voice and I need to get a job soon and I don't like hearing about how "fake" I sound. I'd like to have as little friction as possible considering my RBF + voice just upsets older people especially.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-10T20:59:48+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/15nfd6t/inappropriate_age_gap_f18_m35_how_do_i_ram_some/

Imagine going this hard to cock block because you personally don't agree with your friends new relationship. This is my favorite comment:

When I was 18 I dated a 36 year-old and it was great. He was a fantastic mentor, very patient and encouraged me to do better by myself both in college and in life in general. Everyone needs to stop instantly calling the guy a creep. You don’t know him.

Ofc you got people in the comments telling how how bad her own relationship was. I don't get why people can't just mind their own business when it comes to things like this.

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-10T21:20:17+00:00

I was at a corporate event today and got seated next to a couple of early 20s women.

They wanted to guess how old I am, so I said go for it.

One said 42 and one said 45. I'm 50.

Feels good!

SianOiseau · 2023-08-10T21:27:11+00:00

Do you remember the claim that men who lose their job have 70% higher divorce risks? What people forget to mention is that the researchers measured risks in a year and the base ground number is 0.61%. So we're talking about the risks rising on less than 1%.

In total, we observe 10,942 employment terminations, of which 1,049 are due to dismissals and 548 due to plant closure, i.e. there are 1,597 “involuntary”job losses. The remaining 9,435 employment terminations are due to other reasons. We also observe 712 divorces. Comparing the total number of divorces to the total number of household-year observations results in an annual relative frequency of divorce (for all married couples) of roughly 0.61% within our sample, which gives some indication of the absolute magnitude of the relative risks estimated in this study. Those who have experienced a plant closure have the highest relative frequency of divorce (1.50%), followed by other job losses (0.77%), dismissals (0.72%) and the reference group (0.69%). Thus, individuals in the other groups, which we added as controls (such as retirees), have a comparatively lower relative frequency of divorce.

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/345012038_Unlucky_at_work_unlucky_in_love_job_loss_and_marital_stability

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-10T21:27:11+00:00

Some of the men here are such pussies. Talk big game, but when you ask them, they cower and don't say shit. It's so pathetic.

Get out the kitchen if you can't take the heat.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-10T21:28:13+00:00

Women always claim guys are "intimidated" by successful career women that outearn them. I really do wish that is true, means more sugar mommies more for me 😊

potoricco · 2023-08-10T21:32:41+00:00

I called it. I knew Lil Tay wasn’t dead

DerayRevan · 2023-08-10T21:34:57+00:00

"Men don't have commitment issues any more than women but women tend to go for guys who have no reason to commit"

It's funny because it's true

I had many times where l had to constantly remind the women l was casually seeing that am not that type of guy to commit unless you give a reason to

keebydee · 2023-08-10T21:41:48+00:00

Seeing an Instagram video on a couple showing their relationship evolve from high school to post college made me spiral so hard last night. What a future I wish I had. Sometimes I wish my mom did put me in a special school like she said was considering to do back when I was a kid. Maybe I would've been able to date and to have an better social life in general if I was around people with similar issues.

I hated that I always compared myself to the normal kids in mainstream school. Always being embarrassed that I would be getting pulled out of class to see my psychiatrist. Ashamed of my accommodations so I never used them. And having to see everyone around me succeed socially and academically while I struggled severely.

SorryEm · 2023-08-10T21:42:58+00:00

I remember playing DND a few months ago and the men there are just absolutely not threatening at all, literally zero backbone. I don't know how I manage to walk into a place and be the most alpha guy in the room.

toomanyemdashes · 2023-08-10T21:47:13+00:00

It is very simple - but obviously not easy - to become above average. The average person is not doing as much as they could to become more attractive. But if you are putting in an earnest effort into leveling up on all fronts (e.g., working out, eating healthy, improving wardrobe, taking care of skin, nurturing social life and skills, developing hobbies, investing in your career, prioritizing personal/emotional growth) then you will absolutely be above average.

odd_cloud · 2023-08-10T21:59:35+00:00

I think I noticed a bias which many women have. I called it “men around me” bias. In essence is that men a woman knows have almost no problems in life that other men associate with.

Somehow, a woman always knows men who regularly have a lot of matches, dates and hookups with no problems. These guys approach many women in a respectful manner, never cause an inconvenience, and approach with ease and confidence. They approach many women, but have a deep bond and connection with each of them.

At the same time they are completely average and have nothing outstanding about them.

I think women just don’t know these men very well.

River_Archer_32 · 2023-08-10T22:07:27+00:00

can a man find an relationship with relatively equal give and take without having to date someone much uglier or poorer than him?

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-08-10T22:15:34+00:00

So I just found this subreddit and it is kind of fascinating. I think both sides have some bits of truth and both side have a lot of bullshit.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-10T22:17:49+00:00

Rate these legs

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-08-10T22:25:04+00:00

Q4A favorite romance/romance adjacent manga? I wanna know the difference between rp/bp taste

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-10T22:34:46+00:00

America's Founding Fathers: we'll create a society where us men are the providers

Today's men: how dare women want a man to provide for them

The outrage of men being providers is directed at today's women as if they are personally responsible for the "men are in charge" society we live in.

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-10T22:43:59+00:00

I think many here, and beyond, need to confront that their dating issues stem from the fact that they do not have any use for a spouse or significant other. They need someone to help with the bills, they need social interactions, they need sexual gratification, they need an outlet for psychological and emotional expressions of being part of a larger social unit, and social media likes. But they do not have any use for another human with their own idiosyncrasies, propensities, habits, and psychologies. Who has a body and mind that changes and may get cancer, ms, or a cold. There’s just no use for any of that but that is inherent in humans. Men and women alike to be honest.

potoricco · 2023-08-10T22:46:30+00:00

Am I legit abnormal or WHO else does this

I have an alarm that wakes me up around 4 so when I wake up I can be like “ahhhh I still have x more time to sleep 😇👼” it’s even more satisfying than just waking up at a normal time

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-08-10T22:46:43+00:00

I'm new here and I am very confused.

Men: Want attractive partners with a lot going on

Women: Want attractive partners with a lot going on

What is there to debate?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-08-10T22:57:32+00:00

How do you pronounce this word:

Oogling

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-10T23:02:20+00:00

Q4A regarding a situation I'm in. My friend's birthday is next weekend, and she's invited several of her friends from our university (10 of us total) to her parents' beach house for the occasion. My new gf, when I mentioned it to her, seemed annoyed that I didn't invite her along as well. We didn't talk much about it, and she didn't bring it up again, but I could tell she was perturbed.

While I would be more than happy to bring her on any regular trip, or even a birthday party for a friend in our hometown, this particular event is a birthday trip for someone she doesn't know, and nobody else save the birthday girl is bringing their SO.

I was wondering if I was in the wrong here, and the right thing to do would be to ask my friend if I can bring a plus one, but I wanted to get some outside opinions. Am I wrong?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-10T23:10:36+00:00

Could I potentially live on bone broth for a prolonged period? Say, over 2 weeks?

Gravel_Roads · 2023-08-11T00:22:13+00:00

Woah, what happened to PPD??

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T00:22:15+00:00

We’re barack

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-11T00:23:42+00:00

We're back!

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2023-08-11T00:28:49+00:00

I came to lurk the sub after awhile and it was banned, I see it is back now, awesome

hannahg000 · 2023-08-11T00:29:06+00:00

lol there’s going to be people who weren’t here for the ban. they won’t know what it was like

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-08-11T00:30:03+00:00

Well, that was a fast resolution.

Acaciduh · 2023-08-11T00:30:50+00:00

Grass touching stock back in recession

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T00:31:37+00:00

I was thinking about just switching to turf anyways

potoricco · 2023-08-11T00:32:14+00:00

I MISSED YOU GUYS SOOOO MUCH

SorryEm · 2023-08-11T00:32:17+00:00

Of all the prayers that could've been answered this is the one which happened. Some stupid subreddit. Goodness, like two very pretty church girls came to my door and my grandma shooed them away in the middle of our talk saying we are muslim. Keep in mind, those were the first pretty young women I've spoken two in weeks and they were just turned away. Dammit, fuck.

Oh yeah, I hate all of you.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-08-11T00:32:37+00:00

Phew, I thought i was gonna have to start doing work at work.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-08-11T00:32:42+00:00

Y’all are back! 🥰

Ainsleygz · 2023-08-11T00:32:50+00:00

Absence makes the heart grow fonder

potoricco · 2023-08-11T00:33:04+00:00

HUG ME NOW

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T00:33:25+00:00

Rumors of my demise have been highly exaggerated

Lovers691 · 2023-08-11T00:33:42+00:00

I thought I would never see you guys again

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-08-11T00:35:32+00:00

The Reddit Admins just got notified that there's too many active investigations going on for this place to get closed down...

potoricco · 2023-08-11T00:36:04+00:00

I thought I was really going to lose you guys

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-11T00:36:40+00:00

Phew! I thought I’d been banned

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-11T00:38:12+00:00

Anyone know why the sub got banned to begin with?

SorryEm · 2023-08-11T00:38:22+00:00

The wife God has for me better be fucking perfect with all the strife I'm going through.

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T00:42:28+00:00

I did make this shitpost during the downtime https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/15ntcyp/satire_cmv_reddit_is_the_incl_of_social_media/

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-08-11T00:44:31+00:00

Whew. Thought I was going to have to find another place to gaslight men for a sec

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T00:48:24+00:00

So where were we? Ah yes. Boys rule, girls drool.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-08-11T00:49:16+00:00

Wha happened??

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T00:50:02+00:00

More than 11 years since this banger released and girls never recovered

https://youtu.be/yB6ZfkcrEtk

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-11T00:56:40+00:00

Look at all the grass I touched today: https://imgur.com/a/RdFHetc

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-11T01:08:56+00:00

It’s honestly kinda sweet that temporarily getting banned gave PPD the closest thing it will probably ever get to a kumbaya moment.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-11T01:29:35+00:00

I could never be attracted to a man if he was my “house husband.” I’d hire a maid and he can go pursue his hobbies or something

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-11T01:40:33+00:00

I want to water fast. Like several rolling fasts with only 1 day of 1200 cals in between 3+ day fasts. How do I keep my bf from sabotaging me? Willing to fight dirty.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-08-11T01:44:20+00:00

Damn, went to the gym and missed the group freakout AND the group hug after. Just my luck.

Glad the sub didn't actually get banned, it would have sucked.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-11T01:46:41+00:00

I be hearing horror stories of people who got their identity stolen and either got their personal savings cleaned out or their credit fucked up

That shit is scary

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T02:01:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/15nqrwl/meirl/

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-08-11T02:03:45+00:00

In the world of woke, who can have internalized misogyny: trans men or trans women? Any idea?

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T02:18:24+00:00

Q4W: Do you like having male or female bosses?

Chokeman · 2023-08-11T02:21:52+00:00

It appears that Lisa, a kpop idol, is dating Frederic Arnault, the heir of LVMH.

As i said the relationship between a billionaire and a celebrity in other parts of the world is not as uncommon as in the US.

Only in the US that billionaires and celebs are doing their own things and rarely stumbling upon each other.

Maybe Hollywood is full of sluts making billionaires think it's not worth wifing them up. I dunno.

Maractop · 2023-08-11T02:39:54+00:00

I never understood why people say that you should be happy a girl is using a toy with you. The majority of pleasure is coming from the toy and if you were to replace the guy with another one she would still feel the same pleasure.

And a guy has to check many boxes and needs a connection to get a girl to orgasm which I understand but a toy can force it out in minutes with no connection at all. The guys connection and ability is equal to or even more likely worse than the toy even if he communicates and does everything she likes. So why dont women just use toys if they are infinitely better than men? Im genuinely asking.

-AvatarAang- · 2023-08-11T02:42:34+00:00

I have 2 questions primarily for women, but men who feel knowledgeable can also answer. It is an extremely lewd question, so be warned:

If you were in a relationship with a man, would you be open to him going down on (or fingering) you every single day, and giving you multiple orgasms every time? Or would that be too frequent for you, and be uncomfortable?
If the above scenario happened, would that make you much less likely to leave him? Say that he wasn't as masculine or charismatic as other men (but tried his best to be), but was committed to giving you multiple earth-shattering orgasms every single day.

Basically, I'm trying to see whether becoming a mouth-master (or finger-wizard) will be a great way to essentially "breakup-proof" my relationships. Because I want to become a mouth-master regardless, but I'm wondering if doing so may also be an effective strategy for ensuring that my girlfriend is much less likely to leave me for someone more tall, handsome, rich or neurotypical.

This question may be NSFW, yet I must ask it.

redguard_crime_stats · 2023-08-11T03:13:20+00:00

I think women evolved the behavioral drive to try and get as much as they could from male sexual partners because it was necessary. Human offspring require a lot of care for a long time, and for most of human existence women would have been CONSTANTLY birthing and raising children, due to the lack of contraception. So they kinda needed the help/resources.

Of course, behavioral drives usually persist even if the pressures that shaped the drive are gone. Take feeding habits for instance, humans(and most other animals) have a behavioral drive to eat as much as possible, arising from evolutionary conditions of food scarcity. Food is now abundant and easily accessible in developed western countries, but the feeding behavior persists, and hence most people have excess body fat.

Likewise, with regards to women and reproduction, just because women are having fewer/no kids these days doesn't mean the drive to get as much as they can from men has disappeared. It hasn't, which is why you see women seeking male providers even if they aren't planning to have kids anytime soon, or ever.

I don't like it but I really can't blame them or hate them for it.

And I promise I didn't steal this from u/WilliamWyattD, I've had this thought for a while now, he just reminded me when he brought it up.

potoricco · 2023-08-11T03:18:02+00:00

How to stop becoming attached to people so easily?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-11T03:22:38+00:00

If you look like this when talking about dating that's your first problem

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-11T03:25:30+00:00

We talk alot about napoleon syndrome with men, but are we going to talk about midget syndrome with women. Like girls from the height of 5 feet to 5 "5, trying to act tough. Talking about they would punch me, like come on kid, a few less calories your gonna be someone's bad ass kid

potoricco · 2023-08-11T03:28:04+00:00

I want to become a babysitter how do I go about it

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-11T03:47:54+00:00

ok guys maybe i am mentally ill, ive been dwelling on it and have come to the conclusion that i am sick in the head

GoalPsychological719 · 2023-08-11T03:50:24+00:00

is it possible to actually change your personality, asking for a friend

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-11T03:56:03+00:00

In the time that PPD debate was banned I

Got matched with 3 girls on Tinder

Of them is in fucking Suffolk, she's studying to be a lawyer and has her JD nearly finished. We did really dirty texting and she sent me pics . She's coming out to Seattle in September. She said she was going to get a hotel but she'd cancel it. This is the girl I'm most interested in. Imagine an engineer and a lawyer making DA BIG BUCKS
Girl 2 immediately responded to my messages but super dryly. I kept basally pestering her until she said she was sick with COIVD, and I said "Oh if I was there I'd cuddle you". And then got more descriptive and then she started calling me daddy and asked me if I could choke her when I came to visit her (she's in Western Washington) and I said I could bring a collar that tightens for her. She gave me a date to come out. And sent me more pictures
Girl 3 lives in Seattle and hopefully we're meting up tomorrow with her coming over to my place . Not really much of anything discussed other than she wants to sit on my face. She facetime called me and
👀

I am not lying.

I can provide receipts for it all (but I wouldn't because that's kind of screwed up to violate their privacy that hard even if this image borad is semi anonymous)

THIS PLACE IS CURSED

BAN PPD FOREVER IT HAS CURSED ME AND AS SOON AS IT WAS BANNED I BECAME A GIGACHAD AND NOW I'M GETTING NO MORE MATCHES

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-11T04:40:56+00:00

If you are so good looking why do you sleep alone.(The Smiths Cover)

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T04:54:31+00:00

Some hope for the ladies that think they aren’t pretty enough: As a military person, every Marine I’ve ever seen is married to a fucking land whale. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. These dudes are all fit and at least half of them would be considered quite attractive yet they all seemed to have a hankerin for ambergriss…

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-11T04:55:34+00:00

What makes Taxi Driver such a fantastic film?

DragoonXFury · 2023-08-11T05:15:39+00:00

Putting the actual PPD survey aside... I'd say since last year the ratio of male to female posters on this sub is like 13:7.

Good entertainment for me because the pinkpill/FDS/femcel rhetoric is more interesting than the blackpill/incel stuff generally nowadays.

Don't have lurk places like lipstickalley, lolcow farm or crystal cafe as much these days. Although vindicta, diabla and splendida spaces are still fun to lurk every now and then.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-11T05:24:56+00:00

https://www.theguardian.com/books/2023/aug/10/wifedom-mrs-orwells-invisible-life-by-anna-funder-review-inside-a-troubled-marriage

Good read, want to buy the book.
Mr. Orwell sounds like a prick though.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-11T05:46:07+00:00

Black women actually need feminism. Very disadvantaged group of women. The stats speak for themselves

tendrils87 · 2023-08-11T06:03:59+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/15nurj7/pov_youre_on_a_date_with_a_woman_in_her_30s/
Oooof the comments on this post are cringe. I would be out of there so fast. Having to go through that date wouldn’t even be worth a ONS.

BusinessPossession36 · 2023-08-11T06:37:34+00:00

The only solution is to modify the preferences of women so that they'll be attracted to average men. It can be done, but it takes work. Why should they? Because once they've done it suddenly they'll find that there are tons of very attractive - in the largest sense - men around.

scwizard · 2023-08-11T07:11:20+00:00

Some guys out there dodging women who want to baby trap them left and right, and I've basically never met a baby trapper irl.

odd_cloud · 2023-08-11T07:11:37+00:00

If a guy has a girlfriend, it doesn’t mean he’s successful with women. I had a couple of discussions yesterday and notice people tend to label a guy successful if he has a girlfriend.

Imo success is measured by the ease with which a guy finds a girlfriend or a hookup. If a guy opens tinder and two days later he has a girlfriend, he’s successful. If he had no dates in 5 years and then agreed to relationships with the first woman who paid attention to him, he’s not.

It seems people tend to assume that if a guy has a girlfriend, then he had somewhat active dating life before finding her.

scwizard · 2023-08-11T07:30:29+00:00

If a girl just met you and she wants to fuck you without a condom she's 100% on birth control or otherwise infertile.

If she wasn't she'd have an army of kids ya know.

So stop being nervous about being baby trapped and just fuck her.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-08-11T08:42:14+00:00

"My strong and confident personality intimidates men" is the female equivalent of "I'm just apparently too much of a nice guy for women".

Ultimate tell that you're just a delusional Cunt.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T09:21:55+00:00

Flaunting wealth is low class behavior. The guys who flaunt wealth the most are former poors aka lower class people who got rich. While on paper they might be “upper class” now, they still act like lower class people.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T09:34:33+00:00

Just boundaries aren’t enough in relationships. Rules are also needed. For example most want monogamy in relationships, aka don’t sleep with other people which is a rule, not a boundary.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-11T09:38:13+00:00

Sneaky fucker theory strikes again

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-11T10:51:06+00:00

Another day, another awakening with my child’s feet on my face

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-11T10:57:18+00:00

I’m off to watch rally for a weekend. It might just be the detox I need.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-11T11:30:13+00:00

I am so tired of conservative, and red pill men constantly claiming they preach personal responsibility, but then are quick to blame feminists for men’s problems and expect feminists to fix it: https://youtu.be/dk_4NaXO2us

Funniest thing of all, when women mention about talking about their feelings, and going to therapy, that’s when these men just shut the conversation down. Now, this is a reoccurring pattern where these guys would complain about something, women would give suggestions, and the guys would get angrier, because they don’t like the suggestion even if it proves to work.

If guys don’t think the solution to my loneliness is therapy and medication, then I really don’t care. Women like me have told guys how they can handle their problems, and if guys don’t wanna hear it, oh wel. ‘Male suffering’ stops being my problem at that point. You would think that part of personal responsibility is that you can’t help people that won’t help themselves.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-11T11:55:54+00:00

You would watch these cop shows growing up and they’d interrogate a suspect and be like

“IF YOU DONT TELL US WHAT WE WANT WE ARE GONNA TELL EVERYONE IN PRISON YOURE A RAPIST AND RAPISTS DONT DO WELL IN PRISON”

The implication here is that there is some how an honor amongst thieves. That even the “bad” guys hate people who commit sex crimes. Kevin is like dammit I burned down my gf’s house, but I ain’t a rapist tho. I don’t think this is true lol. Here’s what I believe, I think the dude who had sex with a child and word got out is probably in trouble. But random sex crimes against adult women not really.

Mike Tyson was in prison for rape they didn’t do shit to him. People be like well he’s a world champion boxer, that plays a huge factor. But I believe all Mike would have to say is “that bitch was lying bro” and the whole jail would believe him. Look at Cosby he’s not a world champion boxer and was like 80 years old. he went to jail they loved him. Rkelly funny enough got his ass kicked

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-11T12:04:59+00:00

I’m going to watch rally and camping for the weekend, this time without my husband. Now I remember how much this gear weighs again lmao.

DragoonXFury · 2023-08-11T12:07:30+00:00

Man... Still feels weird going to music gigs near where I live. Too used to travelling halfway across London to go to them.

3 psychedelic rock bands for the price of 0 twenty minutes away from my house is a fucking steal!

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-11T12:16:37+00:00

Women have an undeniably easier time finding sex partners then men -> they say that's an utterly worthless AND degrading advantage because it's basically just men seeing them as walking fleshlights -> AND by the way promiscuous women should be respected and it's a toxic myth that what they do is degrading.

It's women' job to fix women's problems. If you want slut-shaming to be gone, acknowledge the undeniable, objective advantage that female heterosexual sluts have compared to male heterosexual sluts. Or if you don't care, then you can also just not rant about it?

What's more important, mocking the fuck out of sexless men who wish they could effortlessly opt into having sex like women, OR promiscuous women not being shamed and seen as broken people?

potoricco · 2023-08-11T12:35:31+00:00

Misogyny is baked into our language.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-11T12:46:59+00:00

Q4M: How would/do you feel if a woman says she loves the way you smell? What about if she wears your pre-worn (unwashed) shirts around the house because they smell like you?

Q4W: How would/do you feel if a man says he loves the way you smell? What about if he keeps a pre worn article off your clothing on hand because it smells like you?

Discuss

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-11T12:50:43+00:00

Q4M: What is amoral for women?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-11T12:51:58+00:00

When will people finally acknowledge that looks are actually subjective? Being someone's "type" is legit better than being super conventionally attractive imo.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-11T13:32:43+00:00

Ladies:

If you cannot get what you want, it's because you're either not attractive enough, or you have some kind of character defect, or there are literally no men where you live. That's really all there is to it.

Most of you cannot accept that you're attractive enough for sex with top men; but not attractive enough to get commitment. You're good for some fun; not good enough to marry. And most of you will not compromise - you demand that everyone give you everything; while you give next to nothing.

BusinessPossession36 · 2023-08-11T15:10:31+00:00

Fools errand to create a forum, a community where you're forcing everyone to have the exact same opinion.

Oh no, he's not going to like it when he discovers r/PurplePillDebate, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VNVyXjGPI9M&t=122s

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