Most men (I’d roughly say around 90%) struggle with women, in the sense that they wouldn’t be able to have a different partner every week (even if they might like to—many believe this is a common male desire, linked to biological factors that aren’t worth going into here). This can be because they don’t know how to interact effectively, or they don’t move in the “right” social circles (those with many women), or because they are perceived as boring or socially awkward, or because they don’t know how to be intriguing, exciting, engaging, or interesting—in short, all those personality traits that tend to attract women.

However, these men still have needs, and they may not want to rely only on masturbation or regularly visit sex workers (some do, but many avoid it for moral or hygiene reasons). So the most accessible option is to find a woman they are physically attracted to, try their best to win her over (in other words, to build attraction), and start a more or less long-term romantic and sexual relationship, in order to ensure at least some level of regular intimacy.

Of course, many women (and men) reading this will disagree, saying that what applies to some does not apply to everyone.

From my perspective, those who disagree are free to do so. I’m simply expressing what I see as a reality that is not often openly discussed, not because I gain anything from it, but because I believe in being direct, even when it may be uncomfortable to hear.

A warm greeting to everyone.