From my understanding from Reddit there seems to be three axioms in dating when it comes to women.

  1. Women don't want to meet up for casual sex with average men.

  2. Women don't like dating men who pretend to be serious to get in their pants.

  3. Women despise sexless men.

So logically it seems that the average man can't succeed without either breaking the rules or lie, or just "cheat" by pay for sex. Does that mean that it is actually like a tacit agreement that men should visit escorts, just not tell anyone about it? Just to get my head around it.

Would you ladies here prefer if a man strictly had causal sex with sex workers, so he would put all focus on LTR when you two date? Instead of for example ghosting you the day after you where intimate? Do you think more men should visit prostitutes instead of whining about lack of sex on the internet? How can it be then that there are some who are against sexual services?