This is a very simple statement but very true IMO,

Most "players" you know fall into 2 categories, either he is INCREDIBLY attractive like top 10%, or he is playing a massive numbers game.

I know this sub might hate the PUA types but their stats do show one very clear thing, two actually, and that is that their techniques are kinda useless and that only controllable variable men really have is numbers, only thing that directly correlates with more dates is more approaches, and obviously being hot.

Sure going to the gym, having style, learning game, etc. can improve your chances, but really the only valid strategy is doing more approaches, and there lies the problem, most guys have a 5% conversion rate, if they are very dedicated that is, and while that means he can get 5 lays if he approach 100 women, it also means he had to eat a no to the face 95 times, and that is a real motivation killer.

I myself can't actually pull those numbers because i can take a no, however taking hundreds of no's, and keep grinding is just too much, and i feel this is common with a lot of men, but eating all those rejections is basically required if you don't want to rely on just getting lucky and being kind of passive.