Daily Community Chat Megathread

2022-08-31T00:55:34+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/truerateme/comments/x1kirr/25f/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Damn, I would probably kill myself if I posted on here. That woman is literally head turning level attractive and the consensus is she's a six.

Slipthe · 2022-08-29T23:51:55+00:00

You don't have to watch this video but LOL the title:

😳MY MARRIAGE IS OVER 💔💍& I DIDN'T SAVE! SELLING MY BERKIN & CHANEL BAGS 👛👜AT HALF PRICE!💰I FDV

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T23:37:04+00:00

god I hope the Sam Hyde vs Hasan Piker fight actually happens

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1vsNu05-v8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYLJs30Q7zA&t=192s

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-08-28T23:12:42+00:00

When I first started using online dating sites a decade ago one of the dumb mistakes I made was when they asked you about minimum distance from the potential person. For example hinge in their preferences has a minimum distance option and I would put when I was starting out like ten miles, meaning don’t have me pick from anyone who was more than 10 miles from my location.

I didn’t realize how much I was limiting myself and how little that actually is lol. 20 miles seems like a big deal in your head until you realize you can travel that in 20 to 30 mins. You wouldn't drive 20 mins to get some pussy? You drive more miles to work everyday. My GF before she moved in was technically 31 miles away.

AlejandroVillegas · 2022-08-29T00:07:45+00:00

How come when it's misandry, these women are victims, depressed, need love and care. But when it's mysogyny, these men are assholes and need to go to hell. Double standards.

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-29T00:11:04+00:00

Q4A- At what point would you tell someone to maybe stop focusing on dating and perhaps take a break for a while?

Willow-girl · 2022-08-29T01:10:05+00:00

It was great having the whole weekend off; wish I could afford to do that more often! Yesterday I cleaned house and today I spent the whole day cutting firewood. Cleaned up all of the downed branches left from last winter's ice storm. The woodshed is nearly full. I even ran the small stuff through the table saw and dumped in the shed so I won't have to chip kindling!

Read elsewhere on Reddit that our local natural gas supplier has nearly doubled its rate since last winter. It pains me to think that many people (especially young ones) will probably be cold this winter (perhaps hungry, too) because they don't know the old ways in which poor people traditionally managed to survive ...

Later my man's nephew came to us for help burying his beloved cat. He's half our age but was too fat, sick and weak to dig her grave.

I worry about you kids ...

2baloons · 2022-08-29T02:33:39+00:00

Wtf I just went on a naturally occurring date.

Why is it so hard to stay single

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-08-29T03:16:29+00:00

Women want men to be able to cook, clean, be emotionally available, make more money than them etc and yet we can’t make fun of the fact that modern women don’t know how to cook. Isn’t cooking a basic life skill? I cook better than most girls.

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T05:47:45+00:00

Take the exfoliator pill bros

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-29T06:34:20+00:00

When a Man doesn't find a Woman attractive he treats her like..........a Man

scwizard · 2022-08-29T06:48:59+00:00

Do the conservative women who support birth control restrictions realize the implications?

Maybe they do and it's just that they're same women who think it should be legal to rape anyone who's wearing a miniskirt and crop top?

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-29T12:44:46+00:00

Why does it make women SEETHE so much when we say that 99% of why we’re with them is because of their physical appearance?

chilikettlechips · 2022-08-29T15:15:15+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/x0h7zi/was_i_too_harsh_what_are_your_thoughts/

This was basically my experience, eventually you get tired of it and just stop tryna simp for the height queens. Delete and move onto the next one. Not worth the effort of a date to, "see if we click" let alone keep talking. Keep in mind it's like a 98% chance she'd still expect you to plan set up and pay for the whole first date too. Like why even bother. I'd invite to my house directly or delete.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-08-28T23:05:44+00:00

Haha Everglow is BACK

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-08-29T00:56:21+00:00

Wife got a fresh pedi while on her girls trips, tanned skin with them painted white toenails 😋😋😋 fyna suck on them bitches like chicken bones tonight

FFTzzz · 2022-08-29T01:07:13+00:00

What is female circlejerking called and why is there so much of it on PPD?

-angels-fan- · 2022-08-29T03:15:52+00:00

I know that there are a lot of "feminist gets rekd" videos on YouTube, but it got me wondering... Has a Feminist ever actually won or even held their own in a debate?

I've never seen it.

And feminists are hella reluctant to debate outside of their highly curated safe spaces where they opposition can be banned when the feminist gets in over her head.

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-08-29T03:32:14+00:00

Q4M : which is the more amusing female projection

" guys don't even respect women that they're not attracted to"

Or

" guys only want younger women because women their own age want nothing to do with them"

bighuddi · 2022-08-29T03:36:33+00:00

just like a lot of my female counterparts, i have no friends & am not a college kid. the workplace is out the window. That leaves me with the checkout lane at target. dOnT aPProACh mE AnyWHere BecAUSe iMa ~~zOomEr~~. ok cupcakes. any ideas? or should i crawl back up my mothers vag to die alone while you stay inside & order food online because you're scared somebody might talk to you

AlejandroVillegas · 2022-08-29T03:41:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/x0eikc/double_standards_men_need_support_too/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

annabeelongx · 2022-08-29T03:43:13+00:00

How strong is your gaydar? Mine is pretty solid, I haven’t been wrong once.

annabeelongx · 2022-08-29T03:47:10+00:00

Bad people are the most fertile

rurunoa · 2022-08-29T04:04:20+00:00

first day of no more compulsory mask and i got hit on 💪🏽 face card never declines

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T04:20:42+00:00

just cooked up a pound of ground beef and covered it in steak sauce,

dinner time

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2022-08-29T05:31:53+00:00

3 days left :( took Tues and Wed off

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-29T07:53:15+00:00

The problem I have with social skills with women is that I hardly ever get to practice. 90% of the daytime I spend with men who like to talk about stuff that I dnt give af about, but have to pretend that I do to not be a dick. And some of these guys like to just talk for hours about nothing and I have no choice but to listen because I work with them.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-08-29T13:10:19+00:00

How does the upvote thing work here?

I can always see when I’ve upvoted a comment and how many up/downvotes I get but I can never see anyone else’s.

Playful_Art_5364 · 2022-08-29T14:57:10+00:00

Been reading a lot of books and novels about the past and how people lived lives.

I think a lot of modern people today are so coddled that maybe society needs some sort of mini collapse. Like some solar wave that knocks out power for a bit.

Just to get people to realize our ancestors weren’t stupid and the decisions they made and the lives they lived were remarkable.

Like y’all complaining about dating. Your great grandfather would cried out of joy knowing you had running water.

I really feel bad for them. They did the hard work and push through. Just to have ungreatful defendants that can’t even talk to their crush and think they were patriarchal tyrants who didn’t have any good in them.

It’s bullshit. Like get rid of tech and go try hunting a deer. Now explain to the people that did that everyday talking to your crush is scary or asking someone out is terrifying.

Mark_Freed · 2022-08-29T15:29:42+00:00

Chad's are overwhelmingly bad people. I am happy for every Chad I see that's also a good human for it means maybe the world is worth saving.

IlIlIllIIIlllIIlIllI · 2022-08-29T15:38:22+00:00

Q4W:

Would you go along if a guy you were seeing for some time said: "I really love you [assume this is truly genuine], I just think your butt is too small. But that's no issue and I will pay for your brazilian butt lift with my money. I even found a surgeon already."

Q4M:

Would you go along if a girl you were seeing for some time said: "I really love you [assume this is truly genuine], I just think your dick is too small. But that's no issue and I will pay for your penis implant with my money. I even found a surgeon already."#

As I said, for the sake of the argument assume you knew for sure that you two have real love and you are planning to spend your life together.

verry-berry-smoothie · 2022-08-29T15:52:22+00:00

Q4All:

How many times have you been in love?

How many people have been in love with you?

SnowHatesWome · 2022-08-29T16:14:11+00:00

Women who complain they’re are not good men, why not date to women? In my opinion women are hotter and on top of that it’s hot to watch two women kiss and stuff (assuming they’re both attractive). It’s a win for you and a win for society

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-29T16:47:36+00:00

Q4W- Is hunting as a hobby a deal breaker for you in a potential partner? Seems like a lot of women I know don't think of it too fondly lol.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T23:36:20+00:00

I'm sure any UFC fighter can mop the floor with me but if I have an anime soundtrack playing in the background, I don't know, I might just have a shot ya know?

SeaSquirrel · 2022-08-29T23:33:29+00:00

Most of the disagreements between male redpill and male bluepill are that both groups are trying to attract and giving advice for 2 completely different types of women.

Bluepillers want competent women that are their equals (or better) to be a life partner.

Redpillers want an 18-25 year old doormat they can mold into a bangmaid who’s completely dependent on them.

CMV lol

Prestigious698 · 2022-08-29T00:06:51+00:00

On the topic of mama’s boys…I remember being 5 standing on a stool washing dishes, scrubbing tubs, and bathing my baby sister. My 7 year old brother can’t even draw a bath on his own and is still hand fed. Being the first born daughter of non-western parents suck.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-29T01:38:10+00:00

the whole beta bux thing only applies to socially inept men. The engineer types who got money and who usually want women hotter than themselves. Or older dudes wanting women half their age.

virtually anybody else doesn't need to worry about it nor expriences this bs

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T02:59:07+00:00

All the regular posters on PPD have brainrot. The real GOATS on this sub drop like 2 comments which are absolute bangers then return to their rockstar lifestyle.

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-28T23:10:49+00:00

CMV: This sub is more black pilled than red pilled

AlejandroVillegas · 2022-08-29T02:37:25+00:00

Just searched up "TwoXchromosomes hate men"

To be met with thousands of post with the same title. All getting validation, all getting attention, all saying that it's perfectly normal to hate men.

meteorness123 · 2022-08-29T03:39:15+00:00

One thing I don't understand is : People here citing looks as as the reason for being permanently single. Then you go outside and you see people of all levels of attractiveness being lovey dovey with each other. You see it outside, you see it in your friends circles. Some people might be struggling due to looks, absolutely. But certainly not the average-looking man. Is it looks or is it just being severely socially stunted ? I don't know. But I have my suspicions.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-29T13:14:07+00:00

Why do red pillers compare an average woman to a man who is in the top 20% of men when it comes to the "the wall" like you know most men don't make six figures or regularly hit the gym right?

KarmaChameleonian · 2022-08-29T13:37:57+00:00

One of the things I notice is that women tend to gaslight men that point out certain behavior in OLD in regards to women.

Some guy posted about how the women he matched with stood him up on dates, flaked, ghosted, etc. and of course, the first response was “you being angry is the reason this happens to you” or some shit like that. Appropriately, I consider it gaslighting

2baloons · 2022-08-29T15:28:58+00:00

Men be like

Why don't women want out of dating what I want women to want out of dating?

Women are so bad at getting what I want women to want out of dating, it's almost like they want something else entirely!

YaKnowEstacado · 2022-08-29T01:46:32+00:00

I would like PPD to know that I just spent 45 minutes unclogging a toilet while my husband put the baby to bed. Gender roles btfo

QuenchlessGato · 2022-08-29T12:39:52+00:00

Women on the dating subs always talk about how women in relationships are doing some kind of unpaid labor and emotional labor, etc. and that it's a justification of requiring men to pay for dates expecting them to be proactive and so on. This might have been true in the last century, but nowadays it seems that most women live like slobs, barely any of them know how to cook, and tons of them are on some psychotic meds for illnesses that invariably spill into the relationships and thus force men to bear the weight of it and effectively work as unpaid therapists.

So why do women insist that the things that applied to their mothers are still valid for them when it's clearly not the case? There are well-adjusted women out there but they are the minority.

JDWhiz96 · 2022-08-29T13:11:00+00:00

So I was driving my parents to the airport yesterday morning, still bummed about my sitch. My mom (extremely religious) prayed and declared she "knows" that I'll find a woman. I'm religious too, but I don't like false projection no matter where it comes from.

But right after she prayed for me, I stop to get coffee at a gas station and a gorgeous blonde (no lie) comes right up to me and chats up a storm, telling me that I'm cute. If I wasn't so oblivious (translation: stupid) I would've gotten her digits. FML. This isn't the first this has happened either.

It does change my perspective, though. I need to get out and meet people IRL more. I think a lot of men who think they're invisible or undesirable may find it a lot easier by just existing offline. I mean hell, I wasn't even dressed well: in a mismatched Adidas hoodie with worn, tattered green Holister joggers and a Steelers cap (I'm from Pittsburgh). This woman was dressed impeccably, and SHE still made all the moves.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-28T23:10:23+00:00

What does a 30 to 65 year old man bring to the table for me besides ED, bad joints, being older, slower, no mutual interests and likely a laundry list of pills they have to take and food their doctor doesn’t want them eating? What about having a deal with ex wives and kids? What if the youngest is old enough to be my little sister (she’s 4)?

ElbowMuncher69 · 2022-08-29T01:17:37+00:00

I really like being single. Honestly, sometimes I think “hey it would be nice to be in a relationship for this and that” but I just love being free, belonging to myself, not having to calm my naturally flirty personality, etc.

Idk. I actually truly like being alone. My own company is sufficient. I’m never bored, and if I need to socialise? I have my friends for that, and all the bars, parks, restaurants, cafes, are at my fingertips.

Plus, friends with benefits are where it’s at imho unless you’re dating to marry.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-08-29T00:48:46+00:00

Apperantly a woman being picky with she has sex with is the same thing as eugenics now.

So basically if you've ever rejected a man you weren't attracted to you're basically Hitler.

Slipthe · 2022-08-29T03:42:00+00:00

Yo if I ever have a kid, I am putting all sorts of tracking and keylogging on their devices.

Whenever I see kids posting dumb shit on the internet I question if their parents have a clue.

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T16:05:53+00:00

Laughing at you little boys. While you've been twiddling with your thumbs hoping she texts you back, I've already implanted my Airtags in her car.

Initiative. Learn some.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-08-29T16:34:01+00:00

An extended portrait of roughly 10 seconds in the life of CAGT: campus edition

Some girl I don't know: Oh my gosh I love your dress!

Me: Oh thank you so much! I love your...

(Internally: Come on. You can do this. Find something to compliment on her. Uh...let's see. Her top? Hmm...no. Just a wrinkly graphic tee. I'll sound fake af if I say I love that. Uh...Hair? Son of a bitch. It's a messy bun. That's not believable either. Let's see...Wait, those jeans. They fit her nicely. The rips are subtle, just enough edge but still tastefully done. Yes. Yes this is perfect.

Me: Jeans 🥰

Her: Teehee thank you so much!

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T03:46:28+00:00

Looks-wise I'm a 3 out of 10. If you include my personality, I'm down to a 2. But if you include my money, I'm back up to a 3 baby 😎

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-29T07:00:21+00:00

Another thing I disagree with RPW is the whole "Traditional Wife" concept. Honestly, if that doesn't make her a "Plain Jane" then its pretty borderline to it. It seems like once women become wives, they drop 90% of their creativity when it comes to looks. Idk abt most guys on this sub, but I like a woman who does something different than your average wife. For example, I think a woman who dyes her hair purple is not an issue, nor have I ever seen anything wrong with it, but what I hate is when a woman who used to dye her hair purple but stopped because shes now a wife and feels the need to "dress more mature". If you loved to maintain a certain style before you were married, don't stop after you're married. Thats how you become boring.

The purple hair was just an example because of a video I saw on Tik Tok.

edgyny · 2022-08-29T12:30:20+00:00

Q4W: if I'm single and we're friends why wouldn't I want to fuck you?

purplish_possum · 2022-08-28T23:30:29+00:00

I'm a bad dad. We were at a thrift store. My daughter asks if she can have purse. I say sure.

Seems I bought my 13 year old daughter a purse with a concealed carry compartment.

-angels-fan- · 2022-08-29T00:29:09+00:00

One thing that doesn't get talked about enough is how Top Gun: Maverik didn't go all SJW with Phoenix.

She was simply an exceptional pilot that happened to be a woman.

No drama of not letting her fly because of her gender, no woman power/mary sue where she's automatically the best by leaps and bounds over the men. No "I have to prove I'm as good as the men to overcome the sexism in the military". Even the other pilots treated her just like every other pilot.

THAT is how you write a strong woman.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-29T02:02:35+00:00

Women: GOT has too much female torture porn

Also women:Completely ignore the physical butchering of male characters that happens like every episode

NalkaNalka · 2022-08-29T04:38:22+00:00

The man/woman child thread is packed with people that decided to marry someone with ADHD then wonder why the person they married behaves like that have ADHD. Must be society and the other sex's fault.

decoy88 · 2022-08-29T11:46:32+00:00

Finally a question about actual dating strategy

lulll · 2022-08-29T14:40:32+00:00

you cant spell woman without man haha how will woMEN ever recover from this

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T15:59:55+00:00

Women will say that they want things to feel natural. They want to feel that chemistry and energy from the jump but I think they underestimate how much it takes for a man to be able to do that.

Sure, there are naturals who are walking around that are just compatible with you, but the men who are most attractive to them represent the tail end of a many years-long process of coming into their own. Tens of thousands of social experiences and life stories to make them who they are. It's a conditioning process that gives them the intuition of the right thing to do in what situation.

Guys who are behind this curve, mainly the chronically-online, are properly fucked but those entering the gauntlet late are better off than those who never do.

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-29T23:19:40+00:00

What does "Women☕" mean?

Dolphin_Moon · 2022-08-29T22:55:42+00:00

The saga continues: Whats the best way to ask someone to mail you something you left behind at their house when its evident you both are trying to slowly ghost one another??? Or at least some type of slow fade?? Even tho doesn’t seem like the mailing type 😠

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-08-29T22:51:28+00:00

Q4A- How important do you think success in dating Is for living a happy life?

Do you think someone who constantly fails at finding romance can be happy for their whole life?

lulll · 2022-08-29T22:50:28+00:00

im learning guitar for this for a band im in and i cant fucking believe 30 years later the singer can still hit those notes perfectly, thats crazy

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-08-29T22:22:04+00:00

She's not the most attractive woman, but I would bang Liz Truss.

baresquad · 2022-08-29T21:53:52+00:00

Cmv: The men that women hate and complain about are their ex boyfriends. Not men they’ve hooked up with or had a one night stand with who didn’t offer them a relationship

This sub has it backwards

flash13131313 · 2022-08-29T21:44:14+00:00

Some of you are alright. Don’t come to the daily thread tomorrow

AutoModerator · 2022-08-28T23:00:12+00:00

Attention!

You can post off topic/jokes/puns as a comment to this Automoderator message.
For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies.
If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment.
OP you can choose your own flair according to these guidelines., just press Flair under your post!

Thanks for your cooperation and enjoy the discussion!

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

Sad_Entertainer6312 · 2022-08-28T23:57:48+00:00

Is the "Automoderator" Mrs_Drgree?

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T00:06:40+00:00

How would you rate yourself?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R_0HTahn--w&t=22s

geyges1 · 2022-08-29T00:21:28+00:00

Is having male friends dangerous?

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-29T00:39:36+00:00

It’s probably best I’m not rich cause I’d be having tons of baby mamas and having a pseudo harem if I could afford it

JumboJetz · 2022-08-29T01:09:32+00:00

I used a fake illness as an excuse to get out of a date with this girl (long story short, met online and I only learned what she really looked like in terms of full body and clear face shot until a day or two before the date and very unattracted).

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-29T01:16:39+00:00

Sitting at work on a Monday morning only to look at my phone and see its still Sunday 3pm in Hawai'i. I definitely need to get out of Korea.

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-29T01:54:42+00:00

How much truth is in this song?

https://youtu.be/fxUY-99TPRY

AlejandroVillegas · 2022-08-29T02:11:53+00:00

Q4w: What is a real man?

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T02:45:03+00:00

Men's fashion youtube gets fucking wild

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60FM9WjkXtA

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T06:32:35+00:00

never understood why there is so much hate for the "not like other girls" mentality. most of those other girls are super annoying and behave almost like a hivemind, as least she is try to differentiate herself from the crowd

scwizard · 2022-08-29T07:27:31+00:00

I am right there with you. It sucks because I am attracted to men and would like to have someone to hang out with and enjoy some physical things. But it's just not worth it.

Feels like most women aren't interested in the idea of having a husband at this point. That they just want a guy to "hang out with and enjoy some physical things."

scwizard · 2022-08-29T07:45:56+00:00

So recently higher education is like 60% girls 40% guys.

Other topics I can cosplay as a person with reasonable opinions sometimes.

But around the topic of college I don't think I can.

What it comes down to, is if you take a society and you pull out an the enlightened highly educated liberals, you end up with a miserable society. No more nurses or teachers or artists etc.

If you take a society and you pull out all the right wing farmers, branches, truck drivers, oil industry people, police, border patrol etc. Then you don't live in a civilized society anymore really.

This thing biden is doing with the student loans. The current amounts aren't a big deal but if it accelerates and the government pours money into the higher education system to try and prop it up as enrollments are falling 10% every year. It's just going to screw over our country.

I know I'm a freaking cave troll for being anti education, for being against the idea that everyone should be able to afford to go to college. But that's just how I am.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-08-29T08:25:59+00:00

Seems like the other side of the world is asleep, so I can post this from u/disasterpeace7 lol.

Good PPD Daily Comment

If more women did this, I'm almost certain ED problems will be cut in half. And will fix dead bedrooms.

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-08-29T08:45:32+00:00

Post wall freakout

Choice-Garage-5723 · 2022-08-29T09:50:27+00:00

YOU HAVE TO LIVE IT

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHAHHHHHHHHHHHAHAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

no_bling_just_ding · 2022-08-29T10:15:45+00:00

how do you deal with a shit household you cant get rid of

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-29T10:20:54+00:00

People say N count affecting attraction isn't the same as height affecting attraction because you can't see N count, but like, how much of height attraction is visual and how much is the "knowledge" that they're tall?

Most men already tower over women, so like, can a woman tell if a guy is 5'9 or 6" just by looking at him?

Or on dating profiles, all you can see is a number. It's the same profile picture. If the profile says 6'0" instead of 5'9", but you're looking at the exact same photo, does it make him more physically attractive now?

dbz19_kai · 2022-08-29T10:32:38+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/gallery/x0h7zi

What was the strategy here? It seemed she wanted to actually talk with him and see if they "click" so why did she take him down a notch mid conversation? Was it an attempt at negging?

decoy88 · 2022-08-29T11:52:26+00:00

The replies to this “male friend that would fuck you” post are more chill and reasonable than I expected.

Willow-girl · 2022-08-29T13:11:06+00:00

Was contemplating taking a picture of the mammoth green pepper I picked from the garden, but then I remembered that only Edward Weston can make a pepper look sexy.

Nevermind!

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-08-29T14:20:29+00:00

Does it feel worse when you fail even though the cards are stacked in your favour? Talking about all of the single women who date on easy mode but still can’t get commitment from a desirable man. There’s so many attractive single women in their late 20s and 30s lmao. What happened to them? They’ve had it easy since they were 18 and still couldn’t lock a man down.

Theatre_throw · 2022-08-29T14:37:02+00:00

The day has finally come! This time tomorrow I'll be at a 12th century beach cottage on the Adriatic.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-29T15:12:08+00:00

WHATS UP PURPLE PEOPLE!!!!!???🧌

Mark_Freed · 2022-08-29T15:23:15+00:00

All humans are trash, some are just slightly better than others.

Peacesquad · 2022-08-29T15:27:31+00:00

As a kid, you're inspired by the heroes but as an adult, you understand the villains.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-29T16:45:45+00:00

Any women here into diaper play?

lynka4 · 2022-08-29T21:42:14+00:00

Would you commit to a woman who claims to love you very much and be attracted to you but squirted with her ex and not you as yet?

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-08-29T21:30:19+00:00

Guys the discord needs more shit posters! We are recruiting!

😤

RandomRedditGuy322 · 2022-08-28T23:30:13+00:00

the US should buy greenland

tinasnow-poty · 2022-08-29T12:35:33+00:00

Q4A: are your parents chads and stacies? Betabuxes?

My dad is on his 3rd marriage 🤦🏾‍♀️ My mum won’t marry again but she’s always dating

ReferenceImpossible2 · 2022-08-29T21:19:40+00:00

For any fellas lucky (or unlucky) enough to score a date with a lovely lady, here’s some advice: You need to appeal to EVERY. SINGLE. PREFERENCE. that she has, has previously had and is going to have in the future, all within the span of the brief amount of time you spend together. Let me break it down by the things she yearns for most within a certain age bracket:

0-10: You need to be the knight in shining armor on a faithful steed coming to rescue her.
10-20: You need to come across as a bad boy with little to no regards to the rules. This may or may not clash with another preference: school jock that all the girls want to be with.
20-30: You need to be “””fun””” and know “how to have a good time”/party.
30-40: You need to be a career driven, ambitious go getter that doesn’t just put bread on the table, he puts the whole bakery.
40-50: You need to be family driven and indicate you have an interest in having children and family values.
50-retirement: You need to express that a persons soul is most important to you, and fading looks are fleeting and not at all what you care about most. Also travel and wanderlust.

I’d structure your elevator pitch to try to touch on AT LEAST one point in each of these categories.

Of course this goes without saying that you already satisfy rules 1 & 2.

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-08-29T21:16:58+00:00

😳

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-08-29T21:07:36+00:00

the toughest part about disinterested/aloof game is once you start showing interest its like the game is over for them.

almost better to just have the validation that they like you without ever going for it.

FFTzzz · 2022-08-29T21:01:38+00:00

CMV. If you can't make a t-shirt look good you can't make anything look good. If she doesn't want you in a t-shirt she is not worth the effort.

DerekMorganBAU · 2022-08-29T20:54:22+00:00

Age gap relationship arguments can be summed up here on PPD with one phrase

Men…..bad. Women????? Good.

Literally no other logic tracks in these debates. No the woman can’t possibly be trying to leverage her body for cash and prizes. Nope. Women are good. All the time.

The man though? Ugh what a creep. He only wants to take advantage of women.

Love it keep it comin

2baloons · 2022-08-29T20:28:45+00:00

Easy way to know if a person of your sex is more or less attractive than you (according to your personal tastes):

Ask yourself honestly, would you trade bodies with them if you could?

lynka4 · 2022-08-29T20:21:43+00:00

If you feel that you are putting too much effort to land below tier women then just cheat on her. It’s simple. Work hard so you can bed multiple women.

avoiding_a_stalker · 2022-08-29T20:16:13+00:00

Q4M: What’s it like having the expectation of being the provider, especially in the current economic climate? How do you make it work and how you you cope with the pressure?

Edit: I more mean if you want your partner to be a SAHM/you want kids - not generally dating broke women

luliloo · 2022-08-29T20:15:10+00:00

A guy tried to hit on me irl yesterday. That never happens.

I was very hesitant and uninterested and luckily he got the message right away and bowed out gracefully. I appreciated it and said, thanks for coming over though 👋

cruciod · 2022-08-29T20:11:38+00:00

Some men are depraved evil. Some women are soulless whores. Some of these people will ruin your life and leave it in shambles-

And that's okay

:)

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-29T20:10:02+00:00

Pls help if I’m 5’6,male, and 170lbs what a good shirt size from Uniqlo for me? I don’t like skin tight shirts

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-08-29T20:03:23+00:00

Idk why but the term "huge dumpy" just tickles me

ririsbaby · 2022-08-29T20:02:20+00:00

A guy to my friend: you look exactly like one of my favourite actresses!

The actress turned out to be a porn star you guys. I can’t make this shit up 🫠

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T19:35:04+00:00

give her a rating /10

Feisty-Saturn · 2022-08-29T18:49:59+00:00

People posting on dating subreddits: this person ticks all my boxes but they are still in love with their ex and currently still sleeping with them. They are also unemployed and on the verge of homelessness. They also suffer from severe depression.

Like what box did they tick for you?

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-29T18:42:15+00:00

If what they say is "Nothing is forever", then what makes love an exception?

TigerRude4 · 2022-08-29T18:40:45+00:00

Day 3 of reminding people that r/cuckold has 1 m subscribers

meteorness123 · 2022-08-29T18:19:36+00:00

What percentage here and in this shpere are minoroties ?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T18:13:24+00:00

The car comment reminds me of something I learned. My older sis drives a really fucking nice Mercedez. When I borrowed her car and got drive thru a couple times, the staff were insanely nice to me for some reason. One was even profusely apologizing for the wait time.

I put it together that they treat people with nicer cars better. Maybe they're used to ppl in luxury vehicles complaining more. That would explain why the drive thru lady was in full on placating mode.

It gets you thinking how little things like that change the way people treat each other.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2022-08-29T18:12:15+00:00

Awful disease update: my kidney functionality is great at the moment, but a time will come when that shit will nose dive. There is a drug that can prolong my kidney function, but they will inevitably fail. My options will be dialysis or transplant; the wait list for a kidney in Illinois is 5-7 years, that is if I can't find a suitable living donor.

The good news is that medical science has come up with peritoneal dialysis so I don't have to do hemodialysis with a bunch of miserable old people 3 times a week. Just a port in my abdomen and then I have to set aside 40 minutes a day to literally rinse and flush my body of toxins.

The bad news is that peritoneal dialysis only has 11% survivability after 10 years.

Ideally, I'd only have to use dialysis for the 5-7 years I await a cadaver kidney, however the optimum outcome is receiving a kidney from a living donor.

My husband is besides himself, but he's always been a catastrophizer. I think he's having a crisis having to confront mortality, possible early widowhood, single parenthood, etc. etc. We always assumed I'd live the longest, based on statistics and health habits.

Hmph, how the tables have turned.

2baloons · 2022-08-29T18:01:32+00:00

I don't get short people complaining about how weight loss is so much harder for them. Like, yeah you need to eat less than larger people but you also have a proportionally smaller stomach so you'll hit the same amount of fullness at smaller quantities of food.

bossman146 · 2022-08-29T17:55:57+00:00

What car do you guys drive?

Raspskallion_Pancak3 · 2022-08-29T17:50:38+00:00

An extended portrait of roughly 10 seconds in the life of Pancak3: work edition

Some intern I forgot the name of (a beta male): Oh my goodness gracious I love your Mike Wazowski water bottle!

Me: Oh haha thank you so much! I love..

Internally: Come on. You can do this. Find something to compliment on him. Uh...let's see. His top? Hmm...no. Just a wrinkly graphic tee. I'll sound fake af if I say I love that. Uh...Hair? Son of a bitch. It's a man bun. That's not believable either. Let's see...Wait, that body. Voluminous biceps, bulging trap muscles, broad shoulders and a tastefully placed neck vein. Yes. Yes this is perfect.

Me: ...you. I love you 🥰

Intern (beta male): Teehee *kisses me on the lips*

decoy88 · 2022-08-29T17:50:36+00:00

Impossible, dating is life!

Rube-And-Tug · 2022-08-29T17:28:39+00:00

I get a lot of Tik Toks talking about how men/women are so shallow because they only care about xyz

But what does shallow even mean? And what makes caring about ‘shallow things’ inherently bad?

Unless you’re talking about being attracted to someone for their morals/ethics, what makes being attracted to someone because they’re funny or confident ‘deeper’ then being attracted to someone because they have a fat ass or they’re a squirter or whatever?

Prestigious698 · 2022-08-29T17:23:05+00:00

I was having discourse with some guy at work and he told me that a woman he dated in his past was more beautiful than his wife. It went like this, “don’t get me wrong, my wife is beautiful to me, but she was sexy, and pretty, and we would’ve been together to this day but because she went on a cruise with her ex, we broke up.”

I stand for office gossip, but damn.

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-08-29T17:22:51+00:00

Yo, u/FjbhBoy

What in the world inspired this username? (And also same question for your old username)

scwizard · 2022-08-29T17:20:16+00:00

I've caught the horny and I hate it.

Every time I shift in my seat I can feel my pants rub against my thing which doesn't seem to wanna soften completely.

FjbhBoy · 2022-08-29T17:07:03+00:00

Suiko from One Punch Man is the perfect woman why ain’t none of you look like that 🤨

societalies · 2022-08-29T17:05:35+00:00

Success matters greatly when dating women. However, if you're rich you're not going to go telling people about your wealth, are you? So what do you do if you're rich, or fairly rich, but with no job title, just money in the bank you've made.

flash13131313 · 2022-08-29T17:00:09+00:00

I grew my hair out during covid to jesus length and got more compliments from men than women. Like at least one each time I went out. My FWBs though were not fans of the hair and I definitely felt them be colder to me lmao (still beat tho). They switched back once I cut it. That’s ok bc my ex who was begging me to grow it out when we were together, flew me out bc she was feening so hard.

Lesson learned: Most women were jealous of my luscious natural curls and ability to rock a headband.

errrright · 2022-08-29T16:51:02+00:00

Q4M - do you ever find yourself ignoring compatibility issues when dating a woman you find especially attractive?

Daily Community Chat Megathread

Comments

😤

🤤

😳

Title	Daily Community Chat Megathread
Author	AutoModerator
Upvotes	8
Comments	1808
Date	August 28, 2022 11:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x08pfs/daily_community_chat_megathread/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/daily-community-chat-megathread.1130945 https://theredarchive.com/post/1130945