Daily Community Chat Megathread

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-01-27T03:07:34+00:00

What I've learned about men being accountable for their actions and women having no accountability on this sub:

A woman is always at fault for the end of all relationships. She's the one who chose the man. Men have literally no choice but to accept any and every woman who is willing to have a relationship with them. For example, if a couple were on the same page about having kids and the man changes his mind, that's her fault for choosing someone who would change his mind about having kids. She should have known better.

A woman is always at fault for being a single mother. She's the one who chose the man. Men have literally no choice but to accept any and every woman who is willing to have a relationship with them.

Women who ever make anything less than perfect life choices deserve to eternally suffer for it.

Women are not allowed to experience life and grow and learn from their life experiences. They must remain exactly the same at ages 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, and so on. Any changes as a result of life experience are inherently suspect and is a reflection of the woman being manipulative. If she wanted to be a dinosaur in kindergarten, she must pursue being a dinosaur in college. If you were fine living in a 600 sq. ft. apartment at 20, you shouldn't want a 1500 sq. ft. house at 30. No. Changes. Allowed. You must always want the exact same things at every single age or you're being "inconsistent." If you were craving tuna salad on Tuesday, you damn sure better not eye that cheeseburger on Wednesday you inconsistent whore.

Men who create single mothers are always blameless. They literally had no choice other than to ejaculate inside the womb of a fertile female without protection or snipping. There are no other options available to them.

If a woman ever does any sexual act with anyone at any time, she must always engage in that act with every new partner or she is being unfair. No. Changes. Allowed. You must always do the exact same things you have ever done or you're being "inconsistent." Just to be clear, this does indeed include pegging.

If men lie to a woman to have sex with her, it was her fault for believing him.

Only women develop baggage. It makes sense for a 40-year-old man to avoid women his own age due to their "baggage," but men either miraculously don't develop baggage or their baggage doesn't matter... because they're men. Obvs.

Women are hypergamous, so we accept that it's in their nature to want a man who is "better" than them. We will also ridicule them for their standards and tell them that they need to settle for their league, even though we also maintain it is in their nature to want and go after men better than them. (It makes sense guys, just... trust me okay?)

Women are horrible and superficial for even remotely caring about a guy's looks. Meanwhile, it's perfectly okay that all men care about are looks and youth. That's just men's nature. But women shouldn't care about being attracted to their partner! Again, it just. Makes. Sense.

I'm so, so sorry men have to go through this disproportional amount of accountability. Maybe one day - due to forums like this - there can finally be some balance restored.

MyIsland304 · 2023-01-28T01:53:14+00:00

CMV: Men are more accountable for their actions

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-01-28T01:46:31+00:00

I've only recently found out about the r/MensLib sub and found it hilarious. It looks like a sub with a bunch of women talking about men's issues (the conversation is very much not male-coded).

I then went to a recent highly upvoted post and decided to search for the word "patriarchy" or similar words, and there were a lot of matches, which I found funny. I guess that's what happens when male feminists want to "reclaim masculinity"? lol

saraimarsena · 2023-01-27T01:07:48+00:00

why is my uber driver watching tv while he drives ???????

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-27T02:27:17+00:00

snowboarding date with older camilla cabello yoga hotty went good today. she took a bad fall and got kinda bummy after but still seeing her again this weekend. i get a boner just from her being in my vicinity.

also made a bunch from TSLA stock ripping today. that was a good time. sold all that shit and waiting for a dip back to $130 to reload.

hope you guys had a good day too.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-27T02:29:20+00:00

"Women do x bad thing"

"Oh ya? Well men kill more women!"

"uhh... Ok? Does that mean x bad thing is suddenly not bad?"

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-27T04:42:15+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/wW-LPHZi8tA?feature=share

I don’t think she knows there’s a 50% chance her marriage is gonna work out.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-27T05:17:53+00:00

Fwb I talk to/hang out with once in a while sent me a vid about a guy explaining why men leave their girlfriends and wives. Only comment to point out that women initiate 70-80% of divorces got buried lmao.

dicklaurent97 · 2023-01-27T05:58:05+00:00

Do actual fucking women post here? All I've seen are rehashes of "le nice guy" threads from decades ago and just overall anti-women threads.

octavius774 · 2023-01-27T09:57:05+00:00

The problem with TRP is that it is a prescription for unsuccessful men so they begin to infest the communities and start trying to tell you shit about how the world works despite being an agoraphobe that has never seen a woman.

When I read the r/trp sub I get the vibe they are a bunch of dorks larping like they are the shit trying to use bro speak and tell u Hard Truths. Straight up most cringe shit I've ever read.

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-27T10:33:39+00:00

You know i thought working with her 1 on 1 yesterday was going to be excruciating. At first i really just was all business. But idk, me trying to be distant towards her made me also not care what she thinks. I then realized, that what the others commented under my previous lamentation was true, she knows that she hurt me and doesn't care. Idk somehow it clicked for me and i was unconcerned with what she thought of me. We actually had a good pleasant vibe going the rest of the day and it was easy for me to be relaxed and unconcerned. I did my job and texted other people sometimes and didn't pay her unnecessary attention.

Weirdly enough as the day went on she turned from being ice cold towards me to warm, attentive and stuff again.

Interestingly, i started caring less and less, yeah it was a pleasant working day but idk i woke up today and just felt detached from my negative thoughts. Like, i truly don't care anymore (not in a bad way) and what she does is none of my concern. Shes just a coworker now. All the shit that happened in the past year is irrelevant now and shouldnt have a bearing on my life.

scwizard · 2023-01-27T13:49:28+00:00

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/12/26/us/texas-newborns-birthrate.html

More evidence that abortion bans increase births.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-27T14:09:43+00:00

Q4W: you wake up as a man today, how long do you think it would take for you to have casual sex with a woman? How would you go about it

lulll · 2023-01-27T15:27:52+00:00

women should be seen not heard

Feisty-Saturn · 2023-01-27T16:02:28+00:00

Wholesome partner appreciation post:

My partner's sister is staying with us again for a couple of days, and her sister's behaviour when she's here really drives home how lucky I am to have an emotionally mature woman at my side.

The sister is in some kind of bad mood today. She was screaming at my partner this morning for god knows what, and all day while I've been working from home she's been storming around huffing and puffing.

She just slammed the guest bedroom door so hard that the wooden frame cracked, so I've just had to have a word to remind her that she can either behave respectfully as a guest in my house, or leave.

Having to do that reminded me of all the times in past relationships when I had to play the father role to a tantruming adult woman. I used to think it was a normal part of life, and that every man had to do it.

I'm so grateful that I haven't had to do this even once in the entire time I've been with my missus. Not going to ever let myself get complacent and start taking her stability for granted.

RegTextoffender · 2023-01-27T18:53:24+00:00

You can see how some of the blackpill stuff is leaking in terms of how some young men are. I've had three in the last couple of years ask me about the mewling appliance (it doesn't work kids) and in how some men are trying to enhance their appearance.

Let me give you some advice guys. There is a fine line between taking care of yourself and looking gay. I only see this mistake in men in their late teens or early 20's so I'm going to assume its in the desperate to get laid stage.

Get a good hairstyle.

Don't worry if a few hairs are out of place

Have some style when you dress.

Don't have so much "style" it looks like you are trying too hard, Johnny Depp gets away with it because he's a movie star, otherwise he's the guy you chuckle at

Skin care is great.

You don't need touches of makeup or 5 products

This is just a few but you can reach a point where a good portion of women who might be into you will tell something is off. If anything it shows less confidence in yourself and a fastidiousness thats unmanly.

pileofmulch · 2023-01-27T19:05:07+00:00

https://i.imgur.com/lCj8L45.jpg

Oh brother

md8716 · 2023-01-27T19:32:41+00:00

Just want to remind all my boys out there that having standards is essential if you want to secure your future with a good partner. It's perfectly ok to exclude high n women for any reason. You'll get shit for it, but it's YOUR future that you're defending. None of these people you'd be virtue signaling to will have your back when shit goes south. You'll just be ignored like a homeless dude on the street left to pick up the pieces.

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-28T01:35:25+00:00

Finally got my gf to do the ahegao face + double peace sign once

Followed by five minutes of her calling me a pervert

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-28T01:35:06+00:00

Madison Brooks was seen following behind the group of boys in new video evidence.

Madison also got into the bar with a fake.

Wonder what her parents are thinking... Do you think they bare some responsibility for her acting the way she did?

AssEater69x · 2023-01-27T01:18:06+00:00

The only difference between red and blue pill is how much you like/dislike women

Its the same advice sprinkled with misogyny or white knightness

Cmv

Barneysparky · 2023-01-27T01:19:52+00:00

I just listened to the third part of Andrew Tate on Behind the Bastards. The first two are just basic manosphere history, so the third stands on its own.

Discuss.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-27T01:20:03+00:00

My BIL really thought my MIL would commute 3+ hours to come stay with them 4 days out of the week and help with their new baby. She shut that down real fast lol.

gobble6gobble9 · 2023-01-27T01:21:49+00:00

The internet and broader society say do not ask out co workers. Actual women in my office try to set up single co workers all the time. The explanation they give give me is that they know the man has a job and can at least feign being normal for 8 hours a day.

Is this just unique to my workplace? If not, why not?

-michael-skarn- · 2023-01-27T02:24:23+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CkYVZrBgpxC/?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=

YuekiXC · 2023-01-27T02:46:56+00:00

Forgive me for my anger and despair, sometimes it gets too much.

Amen.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-01-27T04:48:32+00:00

Your boy strikes again.

Went to my friend's birthday yesterday, saw a girl that I wanted to get with, kind of kept my distance throughout the day as I didn't want to go too fast too quickly, waited until it was just us on the couch when everyone else that was left went out drunkenly skinny dipping, we started cuddling and eventually started making out, ended up sleeping together. Was a fun night!

She said while we were laying in bed she would have been receptive if I'd made a move earlier but I said I wanted to get to know her more first before going for it (gotta make em feel special right)

I will say I do think her and I get along really well and have a pretty good connection, as gay as that sounds coming from me.

Dreamerbulked · 2023-01-27T05:12:19+00:00

I am getting more and more interested in reading about reincarnation. I started writing today in a notebook about characteristics and traits that I would like to have in my next life (if there is one). If we do actually live in a simulation, maybe it wont fall on deaf ears.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-27T06:16:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/comments/10m9d19/what_does_it_mean_when_you_look_at_your/

yo...

tired_hillbilly · 2023-01-27T06:32:12+00:00

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

- John McCrae

purginggastonist · 2023-01-27T06:33:32+00:00

it doesn't matter how hard you work if you are not making progress

HazyMemory7 · 2023-01-27T09:08:14+00:00

Equality amirite?

blebbyroo · 2023-01-27T09:25:06+00:00

Blue light from my phone and laptop been hurting my eyes. Hubby got me blue light glasses and the difference they make is crazy

zastale · 2023-01-27T09:50:19+00:00

It’s incredible that some women are this way with men. Everyone knows he won’t stop talking to other girls, including her.

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T12:50:07+00:00

Since when do Women own their children's bodies(Abortion)

Because as l remember half of that kids DNA and genetics comes from their Father and most of the time the Women gets custody and decides the Abortion

But Ayyy that's the World we live in now l guess

LaloTwins · 2023-01-27T12:52:50+00:00

So a lot of women on here hate casual sex and I get that from their perspective

Where they often lose me is tryna convince me that casual sex is bad for men too

Unsuccessful men sure

But if a man's smart about it I only see upsides to having had casual sex for men

scwizard · 2023-01-27T13:24:22+00:00

This blogger claims the abortion ban has increased births.

https://lozierinstitute.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/12/Figure-2-768x496.png

Do you think it's true?

KommandaKoopa · 2023-01-27T14:11:06+00:00

In case you were wondering if you were living in the real world or not, suppose that there was a world programmed with free will where they didn’t know they were fake.

Then that world made a replica of their world with free will that doesn’t know they’re fake, which made another copy of their world with free will etc…

Each world develops after creation, and they eventually develop the same technology to program other worlds, so the very last world would still need time to figure out how to program worlds of their own.

The fact that we aren’t able to program such a world, implies we are either the last ones to figure it out, or the first ones (the real world).

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-27T14:20:14+00:00

bought these for me and my future wifey

https://i.imgur.com/CoCYkT7.jpg

mine is the pink one. shows confidence.

THHBHStT · 2023-01-27T14:29:42+00:00

Q4M: you wake up as a woman today, how long do you think it would take to have casual sex and how would you go about it?

eye_fuck · 2023-01-27T15:16:14+00:00

It seems like it more women than man opposed to 'traditional family structure' of living with grandparents (or near them) and having them helping with kids and household chores. Am I correct? Why is that?

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T15:45:16+00:00

What is this sub's opinion on the french president Macron and his wife?

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T16:17:41+00:00

I think that Women should not care about Men's issues in dating or any male-related issue since am guessing they have their own issues as well

Which is l also think Women should not have a voice when coming to this things, you do not need a different perspective to find out the is more virgin Men than Virgin Women c'mon now or dating is much harder for the male gender

Women should not be feeling sorry us since they are also human but at the same time Male issues should only have males not neutral or other crap

scwizard · 2023-01-27T16:35:25+00:00

Wow South Korea has it bad...

https://www.straitstimes.com/asia/east-asia/til-death-do-i-stay-single-south-koreas-nomarriage-women

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T17:26:00+00:00

So my niece 16F is with this Guy 19M and my Brother is not very well let's just say he looks he wants to punch a Wall and get his hands on someone

Anyways met the Guy he seems great and all but yea my brother is quite the opposite of he considers him

I actually wanna laugh now and tell him this what comes with a Daughter in her hormonal years

BTW if you had a Daughter from ages 16-21, would let her date a Guy who was like you in your younger years ?

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T18:07:20+00:00

Q4M, is the juice worth the squeeze?

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-01-27T19:03:45+00:00

I've had an online session with a therapist now I am cured and perfect

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T19:22:04+00:00

if you had to choose between these blue pill black pill or red which would you choose and why

Lysa_Bell · 2023-01-27T19:54:21+00:00

Is consistent partnered post-nut-clarity the cure for misogyny?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-27T19:59:26+00:00

For the first time in my life talking to women is effortless. I see them as peers.

Q4M: Do you see women as peers?

scwizard · 2023-01-28T01:26:13+00:00

In America most of the homeless people you run into are single middle aged guys or girls.

Here instead you have women in their late 20s or early 30s from venuzeula with their 3 children. Pretty trippy.

scwizard · 2023-01-28T01:23:02+00:00

I heard Costa Rica was a sex tourism destination but I've been at my hotel for all of 30 minutes and I've already bumped into a fat white guy taking a prostitute up to his room.

I thought by staying at a classier place I'd run into this less.

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-28T01:22:11+00:00

Is there any strong evidence to prove single women are the happiest group? I tried looking into it before and found nothing meaningful.

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-28T01:21:07+00:00

Man’s mistake was asking his wife to do the paternity test. He should have done it himself.

TIFU by asking my wife for a paternity test https://reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/10msu03/tifu_by_asking_my_wife_for_a_paternity_test/

purginggastonist · 2023-01-28T01:17:27+00:00

is it weird that I am not even 20 yet but I fantasize about being a father?

7 sons and 1 daughter would be ideal, adopted so we can skip all the pregnancy and throwup and crying and get straight into the good stuff

nothatyoucare · 2023-01-28T01:05:13+00:00

Lolol I can’t these women seriously. How can you be “baffled” how this top can be considered inappropriate. And then to say men’s outfits don’t get policed… we don’t push boundaries on modesty constantly let’s be real.

This top got my post removed in another sub for being inappropriate. I'm baffled because I wore this in public and nothing is showing. anyways thought you would enjoy it? Meanwhile men never have their outfits policed. sigh https://i.redd.it/x7omitc6doea1.png

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-28T01:02:21+00:00

Anybody played Forspoken yet?

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DragoonXFury · 2023-01-27T01:01:56+00:00

Interesting...

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-27T01:02:09+00:00

First

Kaminaxgurren · 2023-01-27T01:09:33+00:00

Trigonometry isn't that hard... right?

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-01-27T01:10:19+00:00

Q4W: how do innocent compliments from men make you feel, also how likely would you be to interpret a compliment as an indication of attraction?

TorBanEvader · 2023-01-27T01:17:46+00:00

Redpill of the day: Catcalling is just complimenting.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-27T02:22:41+00:00

Q4W:

https://youtu.be/jL6j0nz3U2Q

Would you have picked homie in the ChunLi costume ?

Reasonable-Software2 · 2023-01-27T03:12:02+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/10m7k4z/kobe_bryant_should_not_be_celebrated/

This hurts my head. Why do athletes do shit like this when they can have anyone??

zastale · 2023-01-27T05:03:09+00:00

If she doesn’t stare at you like this, leave her.

red__hulk · 2023-01-27T08:09:58+00:00

Good morning guys.

Lets take a moment to appreciate the glory of masculinity and men struggling every day to keep this society afloat.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T09:32:04+00:00

holy shit there is no depressing place as /r9k

UneastAji · 2023-01-27T11:16:47+00:00

Women are the most capitalistic creatures.

They make men pay, multiple time, for the same thing, that the woman wants but not the man. While lobbying the government into making laws in favor of women. While making sure the things the man pays for are not things the man is ever going to own but are just rented.

Think how ridiculous that idea is that after you went through so much shit to be the "lucky one" she selected you are rewarded with having to pay for the ring and wedding. And then after she divorces you still got to pay her for existing.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T12:38:42+00:00

Why don't the guy's here give their woman friend an offer they can't refuse for sex?

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T12:41:08+00:00

Ok ppd. Name the good things feminism brought.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T12:43:18+00:00

I want to it like 4 Pizzas by myself but I don't want to be out of shape.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T12:57:45+00:00

What would you do if your daughter told you she was raped?

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T13:00:25+00:00

"Happy wife Happy life" America is a Failed Society because of this quote

Why again on God's green Earth should your happiness depend on a Women's ?

This is dumb this is dumb, America is literally creating a generation of Women boys. GenZ and the Millennials are victims of this at first sight

What would the Grandfather's who build this country from Nothing to literally everything think of this mentality ?

Guys Women are not unicorns 🤦

Pretty sure the Average married Guy has this mentality

scwizard · 2023-01-27T13:16:43+00:00

Uninstalled Bumble before flying to Costa Rica so I don't get spammed when Costa Rican hunnies.

RicoGemini · 2023-01-27T13:17:38+00:00

So youtube has a bunch of channels surrounding the manosphere

Are there any good channels that are equivalent but from the womans side?

I want to watch just to see their perspectives

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T13:29:54+00:00

Q4M:

You have been dating this girl exclusively for the past 2 years. One day out of the blue she tells you that she is pregnant and she got raped 3 months before. she tells you that she is not sure who the father is. what would you do?

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T14:46:48+00:00

My advice for Men in their early 20s

Waste your twenties by doing dumb,crazy,unbelievable shit with yourself and friends and build your value starting in your 30s. Get high,Get drunk,Lift weights,get your money up, get in shape, obtain more Status,have network of people you can Trust always and also become RP aware

My advice for Women in their early 20s

Baby girl c'mon aleast consider settling down, lock down a High value Men, have his kids and l promise you life is gonna be very fulfilling from there

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-01-27T15:49:57+00:00

Let's check in and see how Iran's doing.

asofiro · 2023-01-27T16:06:27+00:00

I have to say, I'm a huge fan of women's reproductive organs.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-27T16:26:33+00:00

TSLA currently in a power climb

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-01-27T17:26:35+00:00

CMV: Chicken and Waffles are either really good or really bad.

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T17:42:22+00:00

is the steroid from animal testicles safe? I am talking about bulls,sheeps,etc

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T18:03:35+00:00

But What’s your G count?

meteorness123 · 2023-01-27T18:20:50+00:00

Removing my body hair is like cutting through a forest

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T18:24:52+00:00

Ouch! I said no teeth!

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T18:27:56+00:00

More sex for men=less crime rates. Ladies open your legs and serve your country!!

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T18:57:52+00:00

The moment your Women wears the "pants" in the Relationship Goodluck with those dishes Buddy

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T19:44:14+00:00

How to scam a cryptoscammer? Someone please send me a guide.

MyIsland304 · 2023-01-28T00:55:14+00:00

CMV: Avoiding abusers and creeps is easy but women don’t want to take responsibility for poor vetting

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-28T00:50:09+00:00

So now that Justin Roiland is cancelled, what's going to happen to that xbox game where the gun talks like Morty?

Mythic_Punk · 2023-01-28T00:46:00+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CmCAuQHhnIp/?igshid=Yzg5MTU1MDY=

chilikettlechips · 2023-01-28T00:16:32+00:00

Fear not the woman with an n count of 100, but the woman that has an n count of 1 but hit it 10,000 times.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-27T23:45:34+00:00

What are good casual questions to ask someone to get to know them better that don't seem interviewy?

Simple stuff like:

1) Whats your favorite color? 2) Whens your bday?

need more ideas i'm blanking out

SlashCo80 · 2023-01-27T01:47:46+00:00

So I won't get into specifics, but y'all think men are hateful and sexist? I was just reading various discussions among women, and it's amazing to me how callous and vicious they get when talking about men who are courting them. Like if the men aren't young, handsome and rich, they're basically worthless. These women act disgusted and insulted if a man they don't find attractive even shows interest in them. To be honest I don't think I've even seen Red Pillers talk this way. Really makes you think.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-27T03:50:57+00:00

I have plenty of friends, but I often find myself wishing that I had a coherent group of people that do everything together, like they do in the tv shows. Stuff like the Study Group in Community, Mystery Inc from Scooby Doo...hell, even the Gang from Always Sunny (they're fucked up, sure, but they've always got a crew to fall back on). I feel like I'm a recurring character on other people's tv shows, a fan favorite recurring character even. But I'm not a main character for anyone.

Or in less abstract terms: "Everyone likes you, but no one loves you."

Anyone else here felt the same?

TejanoInRussia · 2023-01-27T05:53:41+00:00

I’m still in my 20s but the thing I don’t understand and continues to baffle me is that I’ve seen fit handsome hardworking guys who don’t have success with women while I’ve seen bad boy loser types who smoke weed and drink lean all day who are broke and live in a shitty house and can’t even string together a coherent sentence without dropping the n bomb every other word who have new girls every week. They have no ambition and they’re not smart, well spoken, handsome or fit.. they can’t hold deep conversations and have extremely limited worldviews and they spend all their spare money on weed or new tattoos , they’re not fat usually but they don’t exercise in any form whatsoever and some of them live on chicken tenders or pizza and don’t even drink water but soda all the time yet they somehow are slaying it with beautiful women while the other guy who looks good on paper who you think would actually gets very little success. I’ve seen a lot of guys who tick all the boxes who aren’t extremely social but still put themselves out there struggle while some rapper or drug dealer types absolutely kill it with women. Not just hoodrat women but with beautiful women from “better” backgrounds as well.

Maybe its the confidence or arrogance that these guys that women like? Maybe the hardworking guys are too much of a square and aren’t exciting enough? I dont know but it totally baffles me to see women flock to these guys

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-01-27T09:46:18+00:00

Is this place just the new incel sub now? Cause it’s just post after post in various forms of “I hate women”

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-27T15:21:13+00:00

Happy Friday you fuckers!!

lulll · 2023-01-27T15:48:14+00:00

women: i hate nice guys omg

also women: heyyy subscribe to my onlyfans for feet pics :) :)

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-27T16:09:30+00:00

The wife and I just booked an airbnb on the Oregon coast for the month of September.

I love being able to work from anywhere!

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-01-27T03:21:20+00:00

What’s the word describing something that’s like a strawman but isn’t a hypothetical person? It’s finding a real person with stupid takes to argue against?

Like those right wing YouTubers go interview the dumbest freshman on a college campus to be like “this is the state of the left”

It’s a cool term

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-27T03:31:53+00:00

It's only 8:30 and sad hours are setting in :(

dysonRing · 2023-01-27T05:16:47+00:00

I talk a lot of shit about incompetent female vetting so I am going to put a counterexample

I know a girl (online) that from the very beginning always dated her social circles even with the age of OLD. Always took her time to get to know the men that were busy and therefore not hounding her. Put in hours and hours of vetting and went for the ones that had the right personality (only shallow on employment) and avoiding hookups.

She is smart, attractive, happy, not jaded, and never been burnt.

I want the women here to explain how this is NOT winning. Even the women that are married probably lucked out. Not this girl, she won from the start and gets my respect.

On the other hand women are being pushed by the media to "live life!" AKA do stupid shit like dating dark triad that burns them and we end up with millions of jaded husks.

quaker5 · 2023-01-27T15:16:56+00:00

started taking SSRIs. sex drive is gone.

I'M FREE!

YaKnowEstacado · 2023-01-27T17:49:04+00:00

The unironic use of {}-'maxxing' is super lame. I don't know how people can think, type, or say that without realizing how corny it sounds.

Honestly, it even sounds lame when said ironically.

-angels-fan- · 2023-01-27T19:45:35+00:00

If you had to guess, how many trans kids actually have body dismorphia vs it's the new edgy emo thing to identity as trans?

My guess is a very high percentage are in the edgy camp and will grow out of it. Banning trans altering healthcare for minors is 100% the right thing to do.

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-27T23:32:49+00:00

I need to move to a place like NYC but with straight women

jackedsoon · 2023-01-27T23:29:32+00:00

1 n count girl but a guy you know fucked her or 10 n count but shes lowkey/every1 thinks shes virgin.

lulll · 2023-01-27T23:25:36+00:00

tldr every gym thot

freenokio · 2023-01-27T08:28:30+00:00

Some hopefully unique dating advice for men struggling. This is assuming you are well groomed, well dressed (not over the top but not boring), workout and have a decent to high paying career. Get all of these in lien first. Here we go…

don’t be afraid to lose. Be willing to take her out to a nice dinner and have her reject you at the end of all that. Be willing to lay out your feelings (in a chilled masculine way) and have them not reciprocated.It’s just a game. Don’t take rejection so personally. Detachment is very powerful. Combine this with some actual game and you become very powerful.
don’t be too tame and respectful. I am dating multiple women and it’s all because I make my intentions known. I’ve been rejected twice in a row from a cold approach. My friends laughed at me and asked if I wanted to make it three. I got the number of the third woman and she was the most attractive of the ones I approached. I don’t have approach anxiety and I’m not afraid to make my intentions known. It’s come to a point where I’ve even cold approached a celebrity (not A-list per say but very well known). I’ve noticed loser men tend to her less inhibition. Have be polite and leave her if you see she’s not interested. No one is going to arrest you unless you persist after she rejects you. Approach until you’ve got it down to an art. It helps to be good with witty one liners, comebacks and unexpected answers. Watching a lot of comedy, studying smooth characters from series and reading literature has helped me with this but at the end of the day I can’t teach improvisation. I could tell you some of my most weird approach strategies and they’ve worked.
too many men are trying to be hardcore redpilled. It may be a small % of the population but those that are there make it obvious. Find a balance between being a blue pilled simp and a red pilled alpha.
don’t make it so obvious that you’re thirsty. Don’t invite her to your place or for coffee on the first date. Be different from other men. Also don’t be a complete simp and learn to spot gold diggers, users and abusers but don’t be afraid to spend. Take her out on a thoughtful date (at least one that has the appearance of being thoughtful). Bring her flowers. At least be good at pretending to be genuine. It’s better if you actually are like this because there’s less chance of resentment building up. Having said that don’t lead with your wallet. Just show her that you’re willing to invest and are romantic. It doesn’t always work but when it does it pays dividends. Pro tip. Ask her out to dinner at a nice place. Set the date for a week later. During that week call her every night or second night just to say goodnight and find out how her day was. How she responds to you will tell you whether it’s worth going through with the date or not.
understand women. They’re not logical. Learn to connect with their emotions. Lie if you have to.
avoid dating apps. Enough said.

EulenWatcher · 2023-01-27T17:56:12+00:00

PPD men: AWALT, branchswing, all women are out there hunting for money

Also PPD men: you should branchswing if your partner doesn’t make enough money because you’ve just moved countries and you can land a richer guy.

I get that their attitude here is at least…consistent, but how are they different from “yes, queen” crowd they complain about? Why would you give advice someone that is inherently detrimental?

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-27T20:07:57+00:00

Places I’ve gotten dates for those folks who think you’re not allowed to talk to human outside of a dating app. Since I travel constantly for work I’ve had to basically make new friends and date from scratch every 7 months. I’m a solid 6/10. But if I life maybe a 7/10.

The gym: 5 times
The airport: 6 times
Random coffee shop: 12 times
Dating apps: 20 times (as reference)
From a cashier at a restaurant: 3 times
When I was the person at the register at a shop: 3 times
Instagram DMs: 1 (not a fan of this method but did get it done.

My success rate: 17% (actually higher at the gym).

Amount of LTR: 3 Amount of times she got mad I talked to her: 0.

Why? Because I was respectful about it. I took no quickly. And made it clear I was looking for a wife.

Places I’ve made friends

An elevator: 2 times
At the gym: 20+ times
At a social club at school: 20+ times
In class: Dozens of times.
At concerts: 11 times
Outside the restroom waiting for my girl after she needed to go for the 3 time that night: 4 times.

Success rate for friendship making: 87%

All these stories of fear mongering stuff comes from folks that

Can’t take no quickly
Can’t read when a women doesn’t want the interaction.
Can’t sus out the timing. (Hint bother her at the gym at the water fountain not if shes mid set and obit after you’ve seen her often enough to be recognizable and if she see seems like the friendly type).
Smell bad or dress bad or aren’t groomed.
Going after ages that are wildly inappropriate. If she looks to young stop. She probably is.

saraimarsena · 2023-01-27T12:25:36+00:00

it’s kinda wild to see how much traction a blatant “i hate women and this is just a list of things I hate about them” post gets.

knee jerk comment section filled with a further back and forth of useless misandry/misogyny.

like wow. some of y’all are so bitter it’s honestly pathetic.

jackedsoon · 2023-01-27T18:58:03+00:00

why do people type a lot, i am not reading all that

pileofmulch · 2023-01-27T20:10:34+00:00

How many posts about women settling once they’re older can we make. I feel like we’ve discussed the topic to death dear god

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T23:23:11+00:00

Listen l said a lot of controversial things all day but if l had a Daughter over the age of 18 l be straight forward in telling she should find a high value Men who takes of her in every Aspect, and start a Family with him

I Generally think Young Women deep down want this life, they may never admit it but subconsciously l think they do, Women are social and Nurturing people

That's the advice l would give if she wanted a happy life

purginggastonist · 2023-01-27T23:21:27+00:00

rare johnny autism W

Imo the biggest issue reason modern dating sucks right now is the issue around approaching

there really are almost no social acceptable places to approach women anymore, gyms, coffee shops, grocery stores etc are not social places where you can start up a conversation with women anymore, approaching women in these places is socially unacceptable now, even bars and nightclubs its being less accepted (and lets be honest the women who frequent nightclubs all the time are usually not wife material) so all thats left is dating apps which everyone knows sucks

and lets not forget the very real possible negative consequences. Fucking up an approach can lead to being labeled creepy, title Ixed, fired, etc so no wonder dudes don't want to risk it

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10mohld/how_are_men_supposed_to_meet_women_these_days/

Katatonicsnake · 2023-01-27T23:12:33+00:00

My mother’s cousin is in her 50s, and started using Tinder again. She has lots of matches, but not that many quality ones. She said that it’s funny how many men promise to have a big d and when she asks details (just out of curiosity), they either send a pick or give her measurements, and 9 times out of 10 it’s not that impressive. We were wondering, why are those men lying about it? She didn’t ask in the first place, and the truth will come out eventually anyway.

MyIsland304 · 2023-01-27T23:08:31+00:00

Q4M: Why are the women here so rude and hostile?

Mythic_Punk · 2023-01-27T22:42:20+00:00

q4w in relationships

How often do you ride your man?

q4m in relationships

How often does your woman ride you?

meteorness123 · 2023-01-27T22:28:36+00:00

HELLO HIGH VALUE PEOPLE

Beiuahnrwhw · 2023-01-27T22:03:39+00:00

Lol, people from broken homes and dysfunctional families acting like they're stronger and better because of their trauma is hilarious.

Beiuahnrwhw · 2023-01-27T22:02:55+00:00

Show me a shitty partner, I'll show you his/her upbringing and family background.

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T22:01:23+00:00

The is nothing wrong with a Women using a Men for his money

Just as the is nothing wrong with a Men using a Women's body for pleasure

Is it morally right ? No but again this is life people

biggestuzifanea · 2023-01-27T21:53:33+00:00

Uh oh PPD women, it's looking like she wasn't raped and was just getting a train ran on her

It ended being a redpill, bbcpill, alphafuxbetabuxpill

Peacesquad · 2023-01-27T21:50:45+00:00

Running away from the Wall 130 MPH 😂😂😂

https://www.yahoo.com/entertainment/larsa-pippen-marcus-jordan-romance-122238523.html

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T21:38:39+00:00

Holding frame is important fellas

I remember when my Girlfriend kept me in a Sexless Relationship for nearly Four weeks, and l immediately threatened to break up with her because of this, l made it clear l would not be giving her my Attention and Time if she continued to do this, l REFUSE to be in a sexless Relationship

The next day l come from work and she apologizes for doing this to me and immediately wanted to have Sex with me again

If don't call out your Girlfriend/wife's bad behavior and hold frame(boundaries) then she has every right to make you miserable in the Relationship

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-01-27T21:23:23+00:00

Figuring out which people here have rabies has been easier than a Kentucky lot lizard.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-27T21:20:27+00:00

Guys here: I go after all types of women.

The same guys: Complains that the only women he knows are manipulative slutty primadonna bimbos that fucks hot assholes and exploit ugly simps. AWALT.

xzpw · 2023-01-27T05:33:02+00:00

lol this sub is taking a nosedive

TejanoInRussia · 2023-01-27T01:32:53+00:00

Is being an incel becoming the norm for men?

Before I get into it, I just want to clarify that I mean in the literal sense but not any ideological sense (someone who labels themselves an incel)..

It seems several years ago it was a lot easier for me to get dates with cold approaches but after recently starting again it just seems impossible.

Additionally, A LOT (emphasis on a lot) of normal seeming and pretty cool guys through college who I happen to speak to or guys in my language exchange who i get to know tell me that they haven’t had any sexual or romantic success in years or since high school and many are virgins. A lot of them aren’t even bad looking and some of them are a little above average in my opinion even.

Some guys have told me they just don’t discuss their dating lives(or lack of) in front of women or groups of people. Sometimes it even seems like the majority of guys in any particular setting fall into this category.

It seems like theres an increasing number of men who are what would be considered incels who don’t vocalize it or go online to complain. I know this is anecdotal but i’d like to hear everyone’s thoughts and similar or opposing experiences.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-01-27T04:16:43+00:00

I'm a bit worried about how common the "You don't owe anyone anything" sentiment has become both online and irl. Putting yourself first is a good thing, I would argue, but I've seen people use the "putting yourself first" argument to defend a number of awful (and occasionally borderline sociopathic) behaviors.

LadyofTheGreyPath · 2023-01-27T17:04:18+00:00

Two Tiers of MGTOW and WGTOW

Tier One MGTOW and WGTOW: Actually go their own way

Tier Two MGTOW and WGTOW: Chronically online screaming that they're going to go their own way, and everyone will be sorry when they do. This threat process usually lasts a few years or a couple decades.

my_alt_has_alts · 2023-01-27T02:20:13+00:00

I love how dramatical people are getting on the post about the twins

You are making us choose between shooting ourselves on the right foot, or shooting ourselves on the left foot.

I would stay single for the rest of my life. If a gun is to my head, then go ahead and shoot me.

Neither.

But put a gun to my head and force me to choose

I hope it's not the same guys complaining that if they don't have sex they are going to die (also very dramatic btw)

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-01-27T04:59:09+00:00

It took me a while to realize it, but when women on this sub talk about how low quality anti social men would be out on the front lines, they are basically saying “you deserve to die”.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-01-27T19:23:15+00:00

The fact dick pics are still a thing and tinder’s still popular really shows that plenty of men will do dumb shit even when it’s obviously ineffective.

meteorness123 · 2023-01-27T21:06:08+00:00

Q4men : do you shave your ass before hooking up ? What other parts do you shave ?

Do you shave when single ?

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2023-01-27T21:00:42+00:00

financial douchebag update

[replaced]

$11,000+ in 3 weeks from my low. I also have 3 other accounts on other brokerages like this. Total gains for the month was $40k.

This is going to keep going all of Q1 and for the next two months EVERY DIP IS A BUY.

i know most people hate this here because you were all conditioned by the moralists to equate money with evil. But money is freedom.

I didn't go to work a single day this month and instead hit on girls everywhere, went on dates, snowboarding, climbing, made tons of new friends and reconnected with old ones, and made a bunch of progress on my body and mind goals.

Ironically the best advice was the boomer advice not to buy avocado toast.

Have a good day you fucking freaks.

PS: buy dogecoin.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-27T20:56:23+00:00

Embarrassed at how well reddit's dopamine addiction loop works on me

redditthrowaway1478 · 2023-01-27T20:52:10+00:00

Actually, men at the top will be having less sex. Nothing will change for 80+% of guys.

It's already apparent on the apps ime.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/10mu01j/with_roe_v_wade_gone_men_will_have_a_lot_less_sex/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

jackedsoon · 2023-01-27T20:49:33+00:00

q4m who struggle: would you pick turning into a chad at the expense of someone you love losing 5 years of their life? so if theyre gonna die at 75 they die at 70.

Pirlotti · 2023-01-27T20:46:28+00:00

Moving to a new country in a few days . Anxious and excited.

Advice to build a social circle from scratch at 27? I dont care ablut dating itself, just peeps to go out with

lulll · 2023-01-27T20:31:41+00:00

im so behind on new music, i didnt even realize thom yorke and jonny greenwood have a "new" band called the smile...and they released an album last year....

relish5k · 2023-01-27T20:26:33+00:00

“There is actually a natural affinity between girls that are like totally run through, medicated, mentally ill and like really angry, maladjusted, unfuckable incels.”

Red Scare Pod ladies know what's up

pileofmulch · 2023-01-27T20:21:39+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/iM11H0n

IM

OriginalThought171 · 2023-01-27T20:13:22+00:00

Bruh working out and building a nice fit body can be so frustrating at times when you got a specific problem area.

Every part of my body is seeing significant improvement and is gaining size and definition. But my Butt still sucks absolute balls. I'm doing Squats and Hip thrusts until i'm completely fucked but its still shit and flat as fuck.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-01-27T01:20:14+00:00

Ok so I have these video of early to mid 2000s dating shows. I’m watching them and dating seemed so normal back then.

I miss back then more and more.

For example : https://youtu.be/av1iA2O5LnE

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T04:09:06+00:00

I don't think Men should focus on pleasing a Women that much in bed Cause here's the thing, The Guy literally had to bust his ass in getting Sex now he has to care about a Women's pleasure ? Hell no

Sex is sex, a Men's Ejaculation is the primary reason of that and no Women cannot be great at Sex since making a Men cum is not a skill but a standard

BTW Fellas Women hate condoms since majority if not all of them never wear it

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-01-27T11:32:19+00:00

Ten years ago:

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T14:20:24+00:00

Red flags for Women are green flags for Men

When has been through Trauma and it builds his Masculinity, that makes him attractive to Women but a Women has had Trauma and it builds her Masculinity rather than her Femininity that makes her Unattractive immediately

When a Men has kids it also makes him attractive to a lot of Women but not the other way around

Finally when a Men has slept around with a bunch of Women it makes him sexually attractive since Women hate Virgins , not the other way around though because many Men want Virgin Women

People this is the Truth between the two genders

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T15:50:14+00:00

Woman logic: It is better to shitpost on reddit than having a baby.

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T18:27:05+00:00

So you telling Society is fine with Fact Women from ages 18-23 can do sex Work aka pornography and Only-fans and stripping but Society is not ok with them dating older Men who just want to take care and protect and give them a happy/fulfilling lifestyle while they have a Family of their own

Wow yea good job Society

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T19:12:04+00:00

There's no such thing as unconditional love people

I don't care if my wife just gave birth to our kids two years ago, if she's gains weight and doesn't wanna do something about then am out because she's needs to stay sexually appealing

Just like how if l loose my job and lf I don't find a new job in 2weeks then l can't get mad or complain when she leaves mainly because l have failed in providing that Financial security for her and the kids

Guys this is life, unconditional love doesn't exist between the two genders

_chasing_daylight · 2023-01-27T19:15:43+00:00

Are these women who join these "are we dating the same guy?" groups against dating dating multiple people at once in general, or is it more of a rules for thee but not for me thing?

BiggestPintheRoom · 2023-01-27T19:33:43+00:00

Only few things come close to pushing peoples buttons. I understand woman who rile up their husband,

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T20:12:17+00:00

Men of Value will easily choose the hot 19-21yo Women who works at Macdonalds over the 30+ Career and intelligent women who makes over a 100k a year

Why ? Because the hot 19-21yo Women has Fertility,Youth,Beauty

Just like how the same 19yo Women would be with me or My friends in our 30s mainly because we can easily provide resources,Security,a fulfilling lifestyle, we are older so we can give her that first experience that her male peers cannot

Again this is Biology and life people

md8716 · 2023-01-27T08:14:47+00:00

Believing when others try to claim they're reformed from the shit they did in the past is stupid and foolish. You wear that shit on your back for the rest of your life like a turtle shell.

Trusting a former promiscuous woman to have changed is like trusting a "former" child sex offender around your kids. Idc how much therapy theyve got, how much they've "grown", it would be criminal to leave your kids around someone like that. We all know it because we haven't been programmed to think otherwise.

Yet dudes will sit there say "she's changed" like a fool. Modest women never have a random impulse to get gangbanged at a frat house just because they're young and in college. Other women do. That impulse was always there. That is just who they are. If you want to wife up a girl like that, then own it 100%. Otherwise you're a fucking gullbile idiot.

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T16:40:33+00:00

Another reason why Men should not care about a Women's pleasure in bed

When your doing all the work in bed as a Guy not only are loosing energy(your semen) but you are also giving it away to your Women since the semen itself is going inside her, you are literally loosing Testosterones

While she is gaining it and other shit like Dopamine,estrogen, etc all that should be enough in satisfying her, nobody cares if you didn't make her orgasm the World won't stop rotating

And as l said earlier if a Women loves and admires you, her pleasure is gonna be your pleasure but a lot of Yall are too zero minded to figure this out

Your Ejaculation is important though since semen is life, that's why your dumbass has to wear a condom while she doesn't. Common sense people

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-01-27T06:49:00+00:00

I just found out what LL4U means Low Libido For You. Its pretty much a short way of saying "I love having sex but repulsed when I do it with you". With women, this coincides with the promiscuous women settling down with a husband who she wouldn't have looked at in her promiscuous days.

talyor-Betman · 2023-01-27T05:03:46+00:00

As a 30year old, the youngest Women l would date is an 18yo since l would also wanna have kids with her, the prime fertile years of Women is between ages of 18-24

The oldest would be a 28yo and but she's probably talked and had more experience with Men so instant No

Women think they are something in their 30s, ain't that funny now

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