Daily Community Chat Megathread

Katatonicsnake · 2023-05-21T19:45:15+00:00

Husband booked us a trip to Italy. I’ve wanted to go for a long time, but now I’ll have to buy new clothes. It will be a nice vacation part 1, through.

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-21T19:44:46+00:00

The number one thing I’ve learned on this sub is:

Some men will go on and on about what traits they desire in a LTR partner, but never pay attention to women with said traits. These women with the traits they desire are often not even in their dating pool usually due to average to below average physical appearance. Instead of focusing on those girls and having the relationships they say they want so bad, they’d rather focus and rage about the women who are above average in attraction who exercise their attractive privilege through seeking validation, utilizing validation to their benefit, or having relationships with/dating men who are in their respective above average league.

This mindset is apparent in said men though their constant focus on women who post thirst traps, women who constantly sleep around, and similar scenarios. I would argue most of these men do eventually get desperate for companionship and pick their “settle down girl” who they just choose for consistency and reliability rather than them being with her because she’s a partner they really desire (as seen by their initial focus on women who did not exhibit those traits they say they want so bad). I believe that men who say they want specific traits in a partner and who purposely look for those things, usually find them hence why you never hear them complaining about thirst traps and the like.

And to be fair, some women do this too.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-21T19:34:56+00:00

Making meatballs for my dork friends tonight. Couple fuckups, but it should pull together nicely.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T19:24:24+00:00

"Best dating you received when you were young but never applied it"

To me it was "be friends with women"

I actually thought that was solid advice given since l was socially awkward around girls but when l asked my friend who l would always see naturally dating and talking to girls, if he had any female friends surprise it he didn't

So began to think l really didn't need the advice since he didn't obviously and was successful

But l still think this solid advice if your autistic or don't talk to girls that much from ages 13-18

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-21T19:14:50+00:00

I'm fucking 3 different girls that I won't ever commit to - AMA

Edit: it was 4 but I lost a plate

dishonouronmycow · 2023-05-21T19:12:07+00:00

https://twitter.com/melinagoranson/status/1659278407211835393?s=46&t=KT4n50z4guKAeHfOYurSTg who is supplying these people with microphones and how do we stop it

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T19:02:40+00:00

"Gender stereotypes are bad for society"

It's not a stereotype for me to say the average 17yo male can dunk better than his female counterparts at basketball

Also stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T18:59:04+00:00

Ladies what would you do if you found out your man was paying other women’s expenses, their bills, food and travel trips? Would that be considered cheating?

Throwaway1447973 · 2023-05-21T18:58:19+00:00

Something about True Rate Me just rubs me the wrong way, so many of the comments seem so contemptuous or self-important.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T18:52:12+00:00

"Young women are not interested in men who are in their 30s"

Maybe in your experience, but in mine they definitely are

Since am 31 and my gf is 23 and best friend is 33 with a his gf at 25

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T18:46:22+00:00

Y’all agree with this?

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/H60uNyBqFoA

HighlyFlashy · 2023-05-21T18:45:04+00:00

I’ll never forget the day I did my “I’m dating a Chad” AMA on here and some guy harassed me for 24 hours saying that I was “bragging” and that I think that I’m better than everyone else for getting a Chad to commit to me and that it’s “not fair for average guys”. Some of you take things way too far and it’s lowkey scary.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-05-21T18:22:05+00:00

Just a reminder that women break rules and get the comment removed 1 day after once the discussion is dead, with a slap in the wrist.

While men get their comments and posts actively hunt down by mods and removed.

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T18:12:51+00:00

I think women who post thirst traps and sexualize themselves on social media should never be taken seriously. Smash only. Recreational use only.

Come at me lol

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T18:11:29+00:00

Also I love women too🫨

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T18:11:04+00:00

I think men should have reproductive rights. I think men should be supported and protected from hurtful anti men propaganda. I think women who make false sexual allegations should be thrown in jail and forced to give money to the man they accused

I’m tired of seeing men demonized and mocked and shamed and thrown under the bus.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-05-21T18:00:01+00:00

Is housing really a "need"? Like. it's very unlikely that you will die from being homeless, so long as you have adequate protection from the elements in case the need arises.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-05-21T17:53:39+00:00

Is it just me or does it seem like ugly/below mid women are usually very pleasant and have good personalities? Have had a few interactions with them during this week and they were really cool. Then I have interactions with above mid/pretty women and it makes me feel like I should just date below mid women.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-05-21T17:51:02+00:00

Has andrew tate ever spoken publically about his chin?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-21T17:49:42+00:00

The statement 'sex is a need' does both sides dirty, honestly.

You can live without sex, but you can also live eating nothing but rice and taking multivitamins for the rest of your life.

Is it something you're really willing to endure just to live?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-21T17:31:27+00:00

My partner made coffee and breakfast + cleaned the kitchen, all before I got out of bed.

Tonight, he'll cook us dinner too.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-21T17:26:55+00:00

Unfortunate truths that make life better:

- Chads have it better than you think, and worse than you think.

- Many average/below average men can become their own 'chad' version, if they let go of chad and focus on their own growth.

- You probably have above average traits. You just aren't willing to put in the effort to make them flourish.

- Women like attractive, fit men. Men like attractive, fit women.

- Everyone wants the best they can get, and they will try to get it.

- Nobody owes anyone anything.

- You can bust your ass, but you aren't guaranteed the outcome you want. However, you have a 0% chance if you never try.

- The harder you work, the luckier you will get.

- "Hard work" also doesn't mean doing the same thing over and over with no result. It means being humble enough to understand when it's time to stop, reassess, improve, refine & try again.

Have a great week. 💪

potoricco · 2023-05-21T17:18:42+00:00

Big red pill

A man’s body count shows his level self discipline

A woman’s body count shows her level of self respect

saraimarsena · 2023-05-21T17:17:15+00:00

q4all: what are your results on the major personality tests? does it fit you? what are of your central personality traits?

myers briggs: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test?gclid=EAIaIQobChMI1-bVoe6G_wIVnzWtBh1OXQ6aEAAYASAAEgIqWPD_BwE

big 5 : https://www.truity.com/test/big-five-personality-test

enneagram: https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/dotest

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-21T17:04:12+00:00

Okay, so women aren't entitled to be attractive or desirable at 40+.

But 40 year old men are entitled to virgins and 20-something.

That's today's lesson.

huhwhatokok · 2023-05-21T17:00:54+00:00

Bro posted this jokingly but a woman whose car looks like this has stds. He COOKED.

https://www.reddit.com/r/mildlyinfuriating/comments/13nv1xz/how_my_girlfriend_has_her_car_every_time_she/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&utm_content=2&utm_term=15

SentenceDistinct270 · 2023-05-21T16:59:02+00:00

So I keep having this problem on dating apps. I'll match with a girl and the convo will go super well for a day. Asking questions, clearly showing interest in each other. And then the next day the convo just ends. I send a message, never gets seen or responded to. Are these girls just matching with a hotter guy and ignoring my messages after a day even if the convo is going well?

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-21T16:57:31+00:00

Since we’re playing this game: how old do we think this woman looks, vs how old she is?

https://youtube.com/shorts/F6eHRWOnOE0?feature=share

gat15 · 2023-05-21T16:37:37+00:00

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/gettyimages-1491587856-646905eec9121.jpg

Rate them, someone said she's a 9 and he's a 4.

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13nr639/daily_community_chat_megathread/jl1n4zu?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

They look looksmatched to me and 7 is pushing it for both. Imo she's a 5:

https://cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/dua-lipa-meets-up-with-friend-in-lam/dua-lipa-meets-up-with-friend-in-la-01.jpg

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/gettyimages-1486911112-64503594c1449.jpg

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T16:29:54+00:00

I’m sitting here in the ER (I coughed up some blood, we did X-rays and everything, it’s fine I just have a bacterial infection) and there’s this dude near me trying to shoot up

The hospital staff stopped him and told him he can’t do drugs in the hospital

Now he wants to leave and is currently trying to leave and they got like 5 doctors surrounding him trying to tell him “if you leave you will die” and he’s insisting on leaving

His leg looks like it’s nearly fucking rotted off and he just wants to leave, they say if he doesn’t get dialysis he will die but legally they can’t force him to stay

He’s signing the paperwork to leave right now

This is insane, I’m literally sitting here watching a man die

UnjustlyBannedTime11 · 2023-05-21T16:15:46+00:00

The "spontaneous vs. responsive libido" scenario is ret@rded as hell. It basically puts whole onus of initiation on men under explanation that women don't get horny on their own, but only when externally stimulated, which is a complete bullshit. This is only a justification for women who don't want to initiate and expect everything to fall on their laps. It is true that men are hornier than women, but in the context that if men want sex seven days a week, women want sex five days a week, not that if men want to have sex every second of every day of every year, women only want to have sex once every third month .

Katatonicsnake · 2023-05-21T16:15:05+00:00

I didn’t realize there were so many people who were jealous of other people’s relationships and dating success before this sub.

gat15 · 2023-05-21T16:09:28+00:00

What age would you say these people are face alone:

https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod/images/gettyimages-1491587856-646905eec9121.jpg

People be out there saying they look like father and daughter. To me she looks 40.

Comfortable-Box-19 · 2023-05-21T15:31:45+00:00

One way to be a millionaire, is finding some way to invest in the loneliness economy (Onlyfans, AI girlfriends, Twitch). You can make so much off of the backs of losers who will give away money for female attention.

Coolbreeze613 · 2023-05-21T15:16:10+00:00

Question for men.

Fellas, how much time do you think is necessary to spend on foreplay before moving on to sex?

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-21T15:11:54+00:00

One time here in daily chat I had the audacity to suggest that if someone was feeling a little self-conscious in their swimming attire they could look into getting something more modest which is verboten as we all know.

Well of course a ppd lady had to come up in the comments with the question of "Well what am I supposed to do??" Who claimed to be a 32I with a 20 BMI. To give you how an idea of just the extreme of proportions we're talking about here's a redditor who claims to be just an E cup at 5'1" NSWF

My guy (girl actually) you knew you're like 5th percentile or less of population and your whole situation is a walking outlier and you want to try and use yourself like its the common situation these girls out here facing? Come oooonnnn.

Edit: they did say they had surgery to go down to 34dd's but at 20 bmi? That's still gonna be one stacked outlier so again.. come ooonnn.

TrynaBTrad · 2023-05-21T15:11:00+00:00

Men’s self esteem absolutely has to be in the toilet if they do this many mental gymnastics to explain away any woman’s commitment and affection. Jesus

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T15:10:36+00:00

I just don't never understand guys who don't leave after finding out their woman did xyz in her past

If l found out my girl did crazy sex stuff in her and it makes me uncomfortable then am simply leaving

Justwannaread3 · 2023-05-21T13:34:34+00:00

The women I know are very much unlike what men on here seem to believe of us.

We’re not shallow, ungiving, or disloyal in romantic relationships. We don’t hate men and have friendships with men. We are interesting people with hobbies, dreams, and desires that we can talk about.

It’s really disheartening to see how so many of the men here will never, ever believe that, no matter what women say.

Nyx_the_hexer · 2023-05-21T13:36:23+00:00

I understand I am limited romantically because my physical appearance but, when I am limited to my social interactions because of my looks it feels so surreal. I’ll explain.

I am a friendly person at my job I try to talk and greet everyone but, there are a couple of women who, while not refuse, seem to just not want anything to do with me.

I chalk it up as they think I’m hitting on them and they don’t like it so I leave them be. Well we got a new employee a 6ft black guy who I guess it nice to look at. Those two almost immediately gravitated him and I can’t help feeling jealous I know I should not, he is better than me why wouldn’t they want to socialize with him. It just bugs me that the way you are born can dictate your social standing.

Oh and that girl I have been talking about isn’t interested. Pretty pathetic that I thought she was.

Chokeman · 2023-05-21T23:19:23+00:00

Dating advice isn't universal; it often depends on individual circumstances and cultural context.

All blue collar vs white collar things come down to this.

Blue collar guys might be doing well with women, that's good for them but it's not like they're poaching all girls from tech workers. Both are looking for different types of women.

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-22T01:33:43+00:00

This woman really trying to tell me she “never” kept track of her N count to try and excuse the fact she don’t know it. The lies women will tell.

scwizard · 2023-05-21T13:16:47+00:00

There's plenty of reasons as to why men push the idea of having a virgin wife, but one that stands out for me is that inexperience is a desired quality.

When you have experience, you have points of reference, you have more data to make an informed opinion. You know what works, what doesn't, what can be improved on and how to approach it. You're more likely to speak up, to be involved, to have a say.

If you've had sex with a few different people, you know what's good sex and what's bad. You (generally) know the difference between being seduced and being coerced. You know what feels comfortable and what's uncomfortable. You know what's foreplay and what after are is. You're going to make suggestions of how to touch you, what turns you on and what your boundaries are. You're an active participant, not a passive player.

The idea of an experienced woman is threatening to these men. Not just in sex, but most aspects of life. Inexperience or naivety is desirable because it gives them power. They can control and manipulate your first experiences to suit their desires. It puts them in a position of authority.

This is partially why men promote 'youth' as a desirable trait in women.

So basically she's saying women should try and sleep with a bunch of different guys before marrying so they're not taken advantage of?

nothatyoucare · 2023-05-21T13:52:34+00:00

I have to admit the guilty pleasure I experienced this morning watching my husband stress out over trying to get out of the house with a toddler in order to go to the gym. (I asked him to take her so I could run stroller-free in the woods today.)

It’s not that I want him to be stressed, but more so that I want him to understand what I go through every morning, and that I feel validated that he had the exact same emotions and thoughts that I typically do. (“Why is your breakfast all over your clothes? And your face? And the kitchen?! Will you please come here so I can put your shoes on you? Where is the sippy cup I just had?! God, I can’t turn around for one minute to clean up a mess without you making more!!”)

He always skirts out the door at 6 in the morning, and then ribs on me on the days when I’m not successful in making it to the gym on time (within the timeframe that there is childcare hours), or he’ll get grumpy on the weekend when we go together, while I’m running around trying to get the kid ready for gym school and he’s waiting on me… I’m sure he’s gonna be frustrated when he only gets 90 minutes to work out, too, instead of the usual 2-3 hours he takes.

Well, I hope he remembers this. It’s all for naught if he doesn’t.

GridReXX · 2023-05-21T20:45:13+00:00

We’re at brunch overhearing the most awkward first hinge date ever.

Her: ::scrolling through her Hinge matches:: this is your competition!!!!

Him: ahhh

And she’s showing guys who look like models. Like maybe there’s a reason you’re not on a date with them?

The guy she’s on a date with is a physical 6. She’s a physical 6. But I have to say he dresses better and is less loud/awkward.

the 2nd hand embarrassment we’re getting at our table is a lot 😅🥹

She seems nice but I don’t think she realizes how she’s coming across. Like why would you even open the apps on a first date 😀

armpitpics · 2023-05-22T02:42:06+00:00

Nothing cures a WAP better than scrolling down PPD homepage.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-21T14:01:53+00:00

The whole blue collar vs white collar argument is pointless when you can list countless examples of success and failure from both sides.

Yeah the nerdy IT white collar guy probably isn't doing well, but a CEO or higher up in a company or in an office is probably doing just fine, same with blue collar guys, the muscular dudes are probably doing well while the fat ones are left with the scraps.

I do however feel white collar guys have more time to stick to a disciplined workout and meal plan, most blue collar guys I've seen just eat and drink whatever they want without any major discipline.

DerayRevan · 2023-05-21T14:26:35+00:00

Guys like Ben Shapiro really annoy me

This guy who may l remember you begged his wife to marry him

Didn't vet his wife because he wanted to get married in TWO MONTHS after just meeting her

Yet he wants to comment on Myron's dating strategy for marriage

And yes religion did play a big part since dude was just horny that's why he wanted to rush things

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-21T23:30:05+00:00

Women will say that their body count doesn't matter and then proceed to say it's none of you business when you ask what it is. If your body count doesn't matter you shouldn't have an issue sharing it, unless you're embarrassed or ashamed of it.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-21T23:53:32+00:00

I'm finding out the worst set of traits someone can have is talkative, thinks they're funny and are consistently not funny.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-05-22T01:01:32+00:00

If the ability to monetize dating apps was prohibited tomorrow, dating would instantly get leaps and bounds better. Add an automatic sim card and photo recognition based perma ban on anyone advertising onlyfans (require verification to prevent impersonation) to boot. Max 20 right swipes a day. Obviously, all of this would require someone to make an open source free service for people to use.

The apps benefit from people NOT meeting someone, they function to keep people on the app paying for subscriptions. And they distort the way women perceive their sense of worth in dating/relationship value, because women are inherently unable to differentiate between sexual interest and LTR interest, so they conflate the two and believe the level of man they can hook up with is the level of man they can get commitment from.

Calling out body positivity for the diabetes (it is the leading risk factor, this is an objective fact) and heart disease causing movement that it is would also be huge. More people at a normal BMI = larger dating pool of attractive people = more people happy and satisfied with the man/woman they can date.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T01:38:41+00:00

Wait, do some of y'all think that women are still thinking about you and your dick 10, 15, 20 years later?

saraimarsena · 2023-05-21T14:33:01+00:00

my pet peeve on here honestly is when people suddenly forget how to use context clues and common sense and need every line specified.

like for fucks sake

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-05-21T20:02:53+00:00

I hate how women screw up the vibe in male spaces. We need more male spaces that ban women.

When it's just men, men are chill and having fun with everyone. But when women are added to the mix, men start trying to act cool and socially dominant. Women probably don't notice but the vibe goes from everyone having fun and being accepted, even the weirdos, to men trying to be the coolest person in the room. I understand why men do it - because of dating scarcity of the average man. There's no stopping men's behavior. It's just unfair that the average man has such dating scarcity.

The only solution is to ban women from ruining the vibe, to have specific spaces set up for men to chill.

throwingawaynextweek · 2023-05-21T20:21:49+00:00

I have a never ending fear that I wont be able to provide the life I promised for myself and my future spouse and children, im only 21 and havent done enough at all. Im in college, army reserve, and a full time job and still its not enough.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-21T21:45:52+00:00

It's weird to read the strong opinions on splitting bills from people whose name isn't even on the lease.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-21T22:08:03+00:00

A lot of people don't realise how easy it is to fake having emotional intelligence and having a "good" personality. You see so many people on here and other dating subs that personality is hard to get down and change, I'd argue it's easy, it's not difficult to switch your personality to get what you want.

"Oh but it doesn't last, you can't keep it up forever."

Can't I? And besides, you only have to fake it until you get what you want, after that you just dip or take the mask off.

lolmastr13 · 2023-05-22T00:58:40+00:00

Kinda amazes me how women online act like women have no agency when it comes to age gap relationships.

blueshinx · 2023-05-22T07:41:11+00:00

Today on PPD I learned that the government should simply ignore extremist ideologies because only a few people die during terrorist attacks.

There are fascinating people on here to put it mildly.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T13:15:15+00:00

I'm awake and I don't have a hangover 😎

You know all of those morons who say "touch grass" are just that, morons. Touching grass is stupid if you have autism and I think I've demonstrated (although I can keep going to the club if we need more demos) that if you're autistic you simply should not touch grass, it goes badly.

Demasii · 2023-05-21T14:14:07+00:00

Wonder why some people believe that they can objectively assess attractiveness and claim others can't.

Example

I met some fugly people (IMO) that the opposite sex trip themselves over. While I believe that many people probably misrate themselves, they are still the best ones to judge because they are the ones getting attention and seeing the results.

Bandit174 · 2023-05-22T00:55:54+00:00

This clip is spot on and a perfect summary of how so many of the discussions here play out

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FKyFMnXkXWY

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-22T04:21:51+00:00

All students at Christian college betrothed in the first 3 weeks.

Getting married because you’re horny doesn’t seem to be a good idea.

Also to the commenter under the post - you can get marry early and still pursue a career.

jobbo321 · 2023-05-22T09:57:15+00:00

If I was born with dwarfism, I'd rule out any normal career and go straight into comedy, acting or music.

Just the fact alone that 99,99% of women will reject you means you need to do everything you possibly can to become famous.

Lost-Zebra6453 · 2023-05-21T12:05:13+00:00

scwizard · 2023-05-21T13:04:04+00:00

One of these was the story of Sarah. Her husband took her through Egypt and told her to lie about being his wife. This way, they would rape her rather than killing him. The pharaoh rapes her, and her husband gets paid livestock for his wife's body.

I remember the teachers telling us little girls (I was 3 when I first remember hearing it) that this is how we should be as women- completely submissive. To honor our husbands at any and every cost. To never question him. To respect him and trust he knows best. Always.

It took me almost 30 years to uravel the indoctrination. It makes me sick knowing how many little girls are groomed to believe they're to be rape toys for men.

We went over this story at church recently and how my pastor taught it was that Abraham was being cowardly and sinful when he did this and that it wasn't right.

EDIT: it was also sinful when Sarah told Abraham to breed one of their maids since she couldn't give him a child, since that was her not trusting God.

the-lone-squid · 2023-05-21T14:28:46+00:00

Wtf, planet fitness is no longer 24 hours in my area. So much for going after work

Nate_Reborn · 2023-05-21T20:06:53+00:00

I keep saying to myself, I’ll go out and make some friends when I have my shit together and I have time to do that. But I’m afraid I’ll never have my shit together and I’ll always be lonely

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T20:38:49+00:00

Cough up blood

About to go wrestle and box anyway

https://datepsychology.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/gigachad.jpg

Peacesquad · 2023-05-21T21:25:24+00:00

I want equality. Women step up and pay for the first date 😡

armpitpics · 2023-05-21T21:34:22+00:00

Éowyn is the ultimate alpha widow.

She wanted that Aragorn dick soooo bad.

Poor Faramir. Every night she's gonna think about being railed by Aragorn and reluctantly take this beta to bed and cry as he "makes love" to her.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-05-21T21:38:39+00:00

Gross.

PBtoast707 · 2023-05-21T21:43:23+00:00

I absolutely detest the new “anti-diet diet culture.” Attractive women who have been thin their whole lives tell me it wasn’t healthy that I cut out sugar and carbs and ate 1,200 calories a day to lose weight. It was quite literally the only thing that worked. It would have been more unhealthy for me to stay obese.

No, I cannot have sugar “in moderation.” No, I cannot “just eat the damn pizza.” They will never understand. My diet is limited and people can’t accept that. They project their own insecurities and lack of discipline onto me. I’ll never be able to eat like a “normal” person again and I’m trying to be around people who understand that.

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-05-21T21:58:50+00:00

Do you guys wanna hear my incel-level, mental masturbatory, revenge fantasy?

If I was single, knew of the pill sphere, and wasn’t looking for something serious, I’d intentionally find and meet up with the douchey-est guys who thought very highly of themselves for being able to “pump and dump” women, and then I’d pretend to be super into them and all hopeful for a relationship and shit, and then use them for foodie calling. Maybe a quick shag if they were slinging, know what I’m saying? But in the most selfish lover kind of way. Could even go as far as to ruin his orgasm lol. Then go all cold on them for no reason afterwards.

(Except I wouldn’t actually do that because that’d be a waste of my time and I wouldn’t stoop to their level. But it’s fun to think about.)

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-22T00:40:53+00:00

Retired "promiscuous" woman, AMA

*I won't answer count questions. I dated for 20 years.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-22T02:53:13+00:00

My first piece of clothes here that I bought not because of urgent necessity is a dress. It’s still necessity as it’s getting hot and I have pretty much zero summer clothes.

I’ve managed to find something in my size, from a sustainable brand and in lines that I like and without weird opened spaces on the back/tummy/sides and with a decent length.

I’m satisfied.

scwizard · 2023-05-22T03:48:39+00:00

I ran across a video short on Instagram of a young woman seizing with a huge mark oh her forehead and the caption was "woman gets hit hard on the head and gets brain damage for cheating" or something to that effect and almost ALL the comments were men saying she deserved it... made me want to throw up or cry idk I totally get what you're saying and it's sad there are so many men out there like that that give other good men a bad name! So disgusting!

How do women keep running into these videos? I feel like I never run into these sorts of things.

EulenWatcher · 2023-05-22T08:23:53+00:00

They’re teaching Russian students that Russian worldview is based on “pentabasis”: person - creation, family - traditions, society - agreement/unity, state - trust in institutions, country - patriotism.

Who the hell believes in Russian institutions lol.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-22T09:44:05+00:00

Question: Think it might be reasonable for me to find a gold digger?

Men whine about women who are gold diggers but I don't give a fuck, stop judging people. There's absolutely no way I'm ever going to find someone attracted to me but I have enough money I should be able to find someone who is willing to put up with me.

But I feel like most women who are stereotypically called "gold diggers" actually has a huge psychological component of competence. "The person I'm with is extremely rich working a high powered job, I'm attracted to his competence". The rich part is important, but the emotional part comes from him being extremely fucking competent at life in general.

I'm the exact opposite of competent. I am literally legally incompetent, theoretically I could get a guardian appointed to me at any time without my consent, I probably couldn't stand trial if I had to without rehabilitation as I wouldn't be competent to assist in my own defense. Like actually incompetent. This seems like it would be enough of a turn off for "gold diggers" that even the most extreme ones would say "No thanks".

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Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-05-21T12:22:04+00:00

Balls

Taraa_Sitaraa · 2023-05-21T14:45:55+00:00

Which character/actor/star/athelete or any famous personality will you consider a Chad?

VirginAndIHateMyself · 2023-05-21T19:59:19+00:00

Tinder has always been bad where I live, but ever since Covid it's just completely gone down the drain.

Pre-Covid I at least got a small handful dates off it, and most people were real and would respond if they matched with you.

Post Covid this is literally all I see on tinder:

Instagram Girl - Just wants Instagram followers "I'm not on here much, IG: ******"
Ego Booster - Will match but never responds to any messages
Foreign Girl - Has zero dating intentions, will chat with you but only to improve their English
Bots/Catfish - Hardly even need to mention this one, it's just a given at this point
E-Girlfriend - Will chat and flirt with you but never wants to actually meetup (most likely a catfishing closeted gay dude)

I swear of my matches it's literally every 1/50 that isn't one of these, and is actually looking to go on a date/meetup.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-05-21T20:57:56+00:00

Women love to shout about equality until it hurts them.

Then they shift to bullshit like "split expenses according to income" or "if we're both working 'full-time' split housework down the middle".

As always, have their cake and eat it too.

Maffioze · 2023-05-21T21:50:34+00:00

https://youtu.be/ly21dNelseE

This is so much better than your average American rap song.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-05-21T22:41:10+00:00

Where does the average man work?

What are the average man's hobbies?

What does the average man do on a Friday night?

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T22:48:21+00:00

bros i don't feel so good im serious

saraimarsena · 2023-05-21T23:34:23+00:00

Q4Incels: You're at the hotel and walk into the gym, which is pretty small, and the only other person there is a 15-ish year old girl.

What do you do?

Stay and work out and risk a false rape accusation or come back later?

potoricco · 2023-05-21T23:40:15+00:00

Now that I think about it, I am kinda spoilt

Kipp-Skhool · 2023-05-22T00:00:18+00:00

Q4W: How much more attractive does a man become if has random skills such as juggling or being able to consistently land water bottles upright?

scwizard · 2023-05-22T03:40:59+00:00

It's weird how passport bros seem to gravitate towards countries the US has won wars against. The Philippines, Vietnam, Japan

You don't see it as much in other countries.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-05-22T05:32:13+00:00

The massage chair I just used massaged my ass and I feel violated because of it, that was not fun.

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-05-22T11:55:24+00:00

The older I get the more I realize the ladies are right for ignoring 80% of y’all.

And also the men are stupid for not ignoring 80% of the ladies.

shmupsy · 2023-05-22T12:17:59+00:00

I was looking at my grandparents wedding photos and it occurred to me that many of the lonely men here would have swept left on my gramma.

guys are too picky now

itzReborn · 2023-05-22T12:27:49+00:00

I’m still struggling with putting myself out there. 24m I’d like to think I have potential to be slightly above average in terms of looks, 6ft tall, slim build but I’m working on adding muscle, my social skills(which I realize is the most important aspect in all of this) are decent if someone starts a convo with me, but I rarely start a convo myself since I feel like I’ll be bothering the other person. But that stuff aside where do I even go to meet people my age?

I’m still in college but it’s a commuter school and I feel like most people here are quiet and struggle talking/making friends. I even joined a school club and the people there were quiet or only talked to the people they knew.I live in nyc so there’s always events but I don’t know how to find events or even know if I should be going to events alone. Hell I never even been out at night by myself before

Basically what I’m asking is I’m still self improving on myself but the self improving around other people/my social skills I don’t know how or where to go to practice

Hatefuleight-36 · 2023-05-22T13:00:35+00:00

Can anyone tell me why the post I've been reposting three times has gotten moderator approval but still doesn't end up coming on the front page?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-05-22T13:29:29+00:00

Made cold brew for the first time, tastes like ass. Probably need to grind it less coarsely next time.

Shitty coffee week it is then 😂

nexkell · 2023-05-21T12:59:20+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13mz21v/my_boyfriend_didnt_protect_me_last_night_and_im/

So women think they are owed protection from men, but women of course don't owe men anything.

VampireChaser · 2023-05-21T13:41:03+00:00

Woman: I feel like I was pressured into having sex and I really regret it.

Her female friends: hE rApEd YoU!!!

potoricco · 2023-05-21T14:14:11+00:00

I saw my dad looking at women’s pictures AGAIN and then when he saw I was behind him he started hiding his phone

I can’t even be mad anymore. It seems like it is actually their nature.

I just wish my parents had never gotten married. My mom doesn’t deserve this man. Men and women are not compatible. I will break the cycle and not get married or at least not to a man of my ethnicity

WestCombSplit · 2023-05-21T20:37:37+00:00

One of the most brain dead opinions I see, is when people try to make the case that parents should cry in front of their kids. Kids are kids because their brains aren't fully developed. They're not going to process that situation like that, you numpty. They're either going to think they did something wrong or they're going to develop a complex and suppress their needs out of fear that they'll bother their parents "Oh I don't want to add to daddies problems and make him sad"

There are so many removed from reality opinions out there that sound pretty but don't work in real life conditions. They might as well say they're gonna bury an orange and grow the winning lottery ticket 🤦🏾‍♂️

Barneysparky · 2023-05-21T22:13:38+00:00

It's a wonderful May long weekend, and this place is more dark then usual.

5PointTakedown · 2023-05-21T22:39:22+00:00

I dislike Trump, but still can't believe the DNC just stole that election though, kinda messed up.

And the liberal news media just made everyone buy into it being a fair outcome. SMH.

Yeah but Sneako 2044.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-05-22T00:05:56+00:00

CMV: Love and marriage is not compatible.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-05-21T13:19:30+00:00

Same here, more like I aged out of being attractive at 21 and it was a radicalizing, eye-opening experience. I’m glad it happened. The freedom of not giving a fuck what men think about you is great.

Sometimes I feel bad for my friends in their later 20s who haven’t had this realization yet.

This thread is a treasure trove of femcel content

came here to say something similar. people don't gawk at me, and if they do I don't notice and wouldn't particularly like it. the general attitude in society towards women and ageing is misogynistic AF but I'm 36 now and honestly can't wait to be in my 40s. Every year I've got older I've got more confident, assertive, and happier. I believe women in their 40s really are in their prime

Nobody looks at her anymore but she's in her "prime"

I mean they said you don’t often see it, not that it never happens. Imagine having to be as hot as Priyanka to be an exception to this 😭

Dear lord, women gotta be Ms Universe in order to not get hit by the wall

UnjustlyBannedTime11 · 2023-05-21T13:53:35+00:00

"Lol, she fucked the entire town in the wildest ways possible, but she married me and decided to stop being so wild, that means I'm so special and better than her other fucks!"

I really don't understand why this narrative is pushed so hard. Yes, Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks shit is fake as hell, but that doesn't mean that promiscuous women suddenly decide to be monogamous and shower their attentions and sexual experiences upon a single special man. This seems like a fantasy to me in lieu of "bad boy changes for a special girl" and "virgin becomes a slut just for her special man". Promiscuous women remain promiscuous and if they get monogamous, that means they got tired from their promiscuous ways and want to quiet down. It doesn't mean you are somehow special and better than the other men, merely that you are more suited to the new path of life she has chosen. Nothing wrong with a woman being promiscuous, but stop kidding yourselves that you are the ultimate choice.

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