Daily Community Chat Megathread

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-29T02:53:34+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reels/CtpIVZLItHu/

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-29T01:40:07+00:00

There's something nostalgic in blowing smoke through a toilet paper roll stuffed with dryer sheets.

🤣🤣

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-29T00:59:25+00:00

Q4W. Why can’t y’all be happy with yourselves ?

https://www.reddit.com/r/lookyourbest/comments/14li97s/22f_considering_plastic_surgeryfillers/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Go DM this chick to not ruin herself ladies. This one is on y’all for making these body augmentations popular.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-06-29T00:50:27+00:00

How much does it cost to fly out an insta-thot? Are only Saudi sheikhs able to afford it or could regular guys save up for it too?

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-06-28T23:59:27+00:00

This got me thinking

Men rate on bodies more than the face (which is why butterface is a thing), whereas women rate more focused on the face. Could this explain why women have 0 fucking clue how to rate women's attractiveness in the eyes of men (and also men rating men possibly)?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-28T23:46:28+00:00

So much of the thoughts and themes here are just various forms of "entitlement".

There seems to be an overwhelming sentiment that being attracted to someone is all it takes. And if you're attracted to someone you are entitled to something from that person.

There's a ton of generalizations that happen based on a handful of personal experiences, a few Reddit threads, and some online dating study.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-06-28T23:38:03+00:00

I had to get in touch with my inner Karen and get some 10 year olds to stop throwing rocks at the ducks at the park today. Little shits. Do parents no longer teach their children not to abuse animals?

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T23:32:00+00:00

This gender sports argument are just the dumbest

Especially in football and basketball

Men have been playing this sports centuries before women and have generated so much popularity of the sports doing so

Coming a hundred years late and demanding equal pay, is the most absurd thing you can possibly do especially when your own gender(women) aren't interested in watching other women play like the men

MysterySolverDog · 2023-06-28T23:29:01+00:00

Listen I don't know what this has to do with dating but if you're making a video game, that has a female protagonist, and she isn't hot with huge jugs I'm not buying it.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T23:19:16+00:00

Rate this Casanova (and guess his age)

https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/ff/Philipp_Amthor.jpg/675px-Philipp_Amthor.jpg

https://machtwas.de/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/Philipp-Amthor-Website-800x600.png

jobbo321 · 2023-06-28T23:00:26+00:00

I'm back from my ban.

Each purplepill ban made me more productive. During my first ban I've had my first ever date, in which I got rejected. During my second ban I've had another first date with one follow up date (along with the inevitable "I just see you as a friend"). I also made a serious start with programming and began exercising to become stronger.

I wonder what my third (and last) ban will bring me.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-06-28T22:52:34+00:00

women would literally choose a tall man with an ugly face over a shorter man with a more handsome face.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-06-28T22:46:35+00:00

any guy here feel completely disheartened or NEGGED when you ask a girl whether she thinks you are good looking and she ignores the question and says she likes you for your 'personality'?

dyngladfel · 2023-06-28T22:13:53+00:00

I think a lot of people here miss is that a relationship is more than the sum of its parts. Compatibility means so much more than what each person 'brings to the table'. In this case the table itself is the relationship.

You can bond over all sorts of things, lifestyle, preferences, sexuality, temperament etc. It's not simply a percentile for percentile matching which creates a healthy and positive relationship.

I'm not saying that other stuff doesn't matter. But if you have everything to bring to the table it doesn't matter if the table doesn't exist.

ashpr0ulx · 2023-06-28T22:05:00+00:00

sometimes my boyfriend and i will be having a good natured ribbing/bicker session and i’ll say something real smart and he’ll just stare me dead in my eyes and fucking fart

idk i just love him so much

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-28T21:56:30+00:00

I'd say the 'relevant' cultural regions of the US are:

Boston, NY, New England, Midwest, Chicago, Mid-Atlantic, DC, South, Atlanta, Miami, SoCal, NorCal, PNW, Texas (city), and Southwest.

Obviously you have to make a point to distinguish regions from cities. Cincinnati is culturally Midwest, Chicago is its own culture. I know I'm missing a few like Appalachia and great plains but those are not even relevant.

Among those, what would be the best city for a single guy to geomax? I know it's dependent on the individual. But on average, is it really just NY?

potoricco · 2023-06-28T21:44:00+00:00

So I’m at a parking lot and we saw this beautiful and friendly dog, now, my instinct is to run as soon as I soon as I see a dog without its owner present. The dog wasn’t even chasing it was just tagging along behind me playfully. Eventually we all got into the car and then the dog looked confused and then wandered into the bush and I felt bad. I like dogs, I really do but I’m not gonna take chances with getting mauled or getting a disease

I would have played with it if its owner was present

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T21:17:43+00:00

Picture of me and my girlfriend at the gym

Me: 176 5’6, 20% (yeah I know)

Her: 5’3, 120 pounds

https://imgur.com/a/4iSTWeG

I’m posting this to make fun of all the people who said all I needed do was lose weight (from 230) to look like a normal person

We can now see who was right

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-28T21:11:42+00:00

Can’t believe part of my paycheck goes to paying social security for old women who ruined society and ironically made it so social security will dry up before my generation retires just cause they wanted to work retail.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T20:52:13+00:00

Anybody else feel like showers are mild anti-depressants ? Its like youre washing mental stressors away, not just actual physical dirt.

Maractop · 2023-06-28T19:13:45+00:00

Is being unconventionally attractive only a thing for famous people? Ive never heard it uses for a regular person. Its like once you reach a certain point of notoriety people just see you as attractive. It feels like a made up term which really means famous and unattractive.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T19:10:46+00:00

I messaged someone because I liked their comments thought they were interesting

didn't respond 😔

Katatonicsnake · 2023-06-28T19:00:00+00:00

Recommend me some books or articles about your field of expertise or hobby. Preferably something a beginner can read.

GlasgaAccentfurYanks · 2023-06-28T18:49:01+00:00

In the future do you think (the utopian future!) GPs will prescribe the Brian Johnson Blueprint for the plebtier reality experience?

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-28T18:48:56+00:00

I’m starting to think that simps always end up getting the girl honestly. Maybe any girl who makes it easy for you is a girl you can do better than whether you realize it or not and that girls on your level or above , you will have to actually pursue them

TooHornyToFap · 2023-06-28T18:38:09+00:00

This is one of the biggest red flags I've ever seen. Stay safe bois

Maffioze · 2023-06-28T18:27:37+00:00

My country will pass a law that will register "femicide" as a separate offense. They are using the definition that any woman that gets murdered is an example of femicide. How does this make any fucking sense?

I don't know whether the punishment will be different than that of murder at this point. But they will train the police and lawyers, which is just sugarcoating for training them to be sexist. Once again male victims are ignored and dismissed and even harmed because this gives female abusers even more power to paint the picture that their male partner was actually the true abuser.

Anyone that tries to tell me that feminism is about equality can honestly fuck right off. Stop with the gaslighting.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-06-28T18:23:56+00:00

Reminder not to post from your main account when you’re logged out from your alt so you don’t get banned from other subreddits

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-28T18:19:09+00:00

I'm beginning to get the sense that comments here only focus on appearance.

So they'll say things like, "watch what she does, not what she says she wants".

Because they only see the appearance. They don't see the qualities. They just see that the guy looks like ________ and say, "see, she didn't want someone loyal and kind". Meanwhile, the dude is loyal and kind. But they're so obsessed with his appearance they completely ignore any qualities.

And we see this in how women are described here too. By their appearances only. Comments will make sweeping generalizations about women who have red nails or tattoos or passport stamps. Never learning about their qualities.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-06-28T18:18:50+00:00

What in the F?!?! Dosing a baby behind the mom back so he can have sex...

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-28T18:08:21+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/14l6cd2/deal_breakers/

Top comment(with many comments with similar experiences) about how she was with a fucking loser for a decade. The best years of your youth spent with a bum. And they pretend the bar is in hell.

Q4W: How tall do you think he was?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-28T17:59:51+00:00

Eating for my menstrual cycle makes for some interesting breakfasts.

Today's was half a turkey pattie, guacamole, half a cucumber, and sunflower seeds.

Balanced hormones = banging body

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-06-28T17:28:49+00:00

The wall is undefeated

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-28T17:02:01+00:00

I'm curious if anyone else experienced this before or has been this guy. I used to have a friend that every time he matched with someone on a dating app or went out with them, he'd send me her picture and ask me to rate her. Now I'm an honest guy and not gonna sugarcoat or bs him, most of the girls would be mid. Like solid 4-6. I'd tell him my honest opinion and he'd always want to argue with me about it, trying to convince me how fine she is lol. Says he can't be with a 5. It's like he based his dating preferences off my approval or some shit. If you find a girl that is attractive enough for you to match with and show me, why should it matter if I think she's attractive or not? It's not like i'm fucking too. There was one girl who was very attractive, like an 8. I told him and this is the one he dated the longest I think, he was mad hurt when she broke up with him. I haven't talked to him in years but I did see a social media post he made with a new girl on valentines day and sure enough she's very mid. But they seem to be happy so that's good.

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-28T16:39:35+00:00

Q4Mods: is this place gonna get overrun with incelery when automod bites the dust?

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-28T16:33:10+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14kl8ym/got_slutshamed_by_a_man_who_ate_my_ass_on_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

A pretty funny post on twox for a change. But like, who eats ass during a hook up...

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T16:20:33+00:00

"Men who reach their mid 20s with little to no relationship experience are at a major disadvantage"

l wouldn't say relationships require experience

Since it's always at the risk of ending anytime

She can awake up the next day and decide to end it no matter how good of a partner you've been

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T16:06:49+00:00

"How to best handle a girl who is talking to multiple men and not come off needy or jealous"

If she liked you that much

Then she wouldn't be doing that

I said it earlier that women will do/sacrifice anything if your the right guy and clearly your not

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-06-28T15:59:30+00:00

Q4A: Would it be okay for a man to hire an escort just to attend an event with him? No sex, but just to be seen with a woman to enhance his pre-selection look, and no one would be aware he hired an escort for this. Would it be better than just going by himself?

Special-Possession44 · 2023-06-28T15:33:23+00:00

life is tough as an ugly man. my gf (i had only ever had 2 gfs in my whole life) repeatedly tells me that she likes me only for my personality "even though i am not the most handsome man in the world" she always adds in the end. i understand she is trying to tell me her love for me is more than skin deep but it hurts how she always has to add a disclaimer at the back of every sentence that i am not physically attractive. why can't we ugly men catch a break? :(

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T14:47:36+00:00

I was going to offer to buy coffee to the person behind me in line but I went to two coffee shops and nobody shows up in line and now I bought 2 coffees

potoricco · 2023-06-28T14:46:23+00:00

Ok so I am NOT a conspiracy theorist but I do believe that bill gates is intentionally releasing diseases

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T14:42:53+00:00

I should go to Ukraine

I’ve bought nearly 10k in rockets from signmyrocket.com

If I’m serious that I feel like I have no meaning in life I should go

potoricco · 2023-06-28T14:36:03+00:00

Famous singer and his wife unfortunately lost their ~3 year old child

Singer proceeded to impregnate 2 other women while the wife is still grieving the loss of their only child

People don’t believe me when I say * have the greatest capacity for evil

dyngladfel · 2023-06-28T14:20:57+00:00

"If you want to learn to fish, ask a fisherman not a fish".

OK, but why would you trust anyone whose fishing from the same lake as you?

night-time_coffee · 2023-06-28T07:27:23+00:00

It seems that some guys love to talk about women more than they talk to women

Popular_Accountant60 · 2023-06-28T00:45:42+00:00

Most of the men I’ve met are well adjusted successful adults in healthy relationships that they actually enjoy. But this subreddit would make you believe such men don’t exist

EulenWatcher · 2023-06-28T04:44:09+00:00

Got news about one of my classmates. He married a girl a bit younger with a kid and he’s been the father figure for the boy, so he adopted him. Wow. I remember the guy as a troublemaker, but look at him now, a family man with a heart big enough to adopt a kid. I was really glad to hear about him.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T03:12:27+00:00

the thing that i don't get about the red pill or incels (and i guess I am one technically) is just why hate women

they're nice, they got nice smiles, they smell kind of nice, a lot of guys bullied me in school because I was autistic (imitating tics/behaviors) but no women ever did and any women who i've had conversations with have been really nice, i scare off a lot of people because of my tics and behaviors but when i don't they're always very..idk nice . a lot of guys view me as an oddity or a circus animal or something but no woman ever did that. even when I was TAing (I was a great TA, I lectured, my tics become very minimal, just some hand flapping, when focused on it) the women gave me way more respect than the guys

or like even in groups where we had to work together i would usually stay quiet and it would always, inevitably, be a woman who would speak up to say that I haven't said anything

even if literally everything TRP says is true it's still fucking weird how much they hate women when I cannot even fathom that

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-28T00:14:31+00:00

Diet brain is in overdrive. I had a dream where I ate an entire family sized bag of chips in one sitting. That's it that's the dream. I could actually taste it. Woke up in a cold sweat bc too many cals

houstongradengineer · 2023-06-28T04:35:44+00:00

Men who lost any shot with me because they had the opportunity to get rich and they chose not to take it because they just didn't know that women like security: 0

Men who lost any shot with me because they just didn't know women like for them to put effort into being attractive: 0, they never had a shot in the first place with me, trust me

Men who lost a shot with me because no one ever told them not to be a manwhore: approximately 3

Men who lost a shot with me because no one ever told them to get a handle on their addictions or boundary violations: at least 5 in some way or another

Why does the red pill focus on the wrong factors here?

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-28T00:04:40+00:00

Women are interesting creatures. I find the women irl to be very chill and down to earth when I interact with them. Meanwhile on Reddit they are annoying as fuck (unless you are on NSFW Reddit).

Rhinosaur666 · 2023-06-28T00:21:42+00:00

Schroedinger's modern woman:

She simultaneously doesn't really want sex because she has 20x lower testosterone than men, yet she is constantly riding the cock carousel because she gets sex on demand. She doesn't need men and is perfectly fine living alone, yet she needs to get constant validation from her Insta thirst traps or dressing provocatively.

saraimarsena · 2023-06-28T01:57:32+00:00

soo i might’ve decided on my birthday outfit 👀 well, one of them at least. this for the day w some fun earrings, haven’t decided on my club fit.

wanted to take a poll, do y’all think it’s slutty ? i don’t 😂 but apparently some do. i look great in it so i’m excited

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-06-28T07:30:16+00:00

Shockingly accurate

https://www.reddit.com/r/starterpacks/comments/14kby31/the_truerateme_starterpack/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-06-28T07:50:39+00:00

”If you want someone to do whatever you want whenever you want you should find yourself a girlfriend”

-Misty

What did the pokemon company mean by this?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-28T12:22:57+00:00

Neckbeards: Us guys have reasonable standards.

Also Neckbeards: Thinks women without make up and trimmed eyebrows look like men. https://twitter.com/blntforcetrama/status/1669241384467931137?s=20

And here’s another “fix it” that just replaced a character with an Instagram model. Lol: https://twitter.com/katka_devi/status/1399707527865061378?s=20

Like the person couldn't have used what Aloy looked like in this picture. No, making her look like an OF model was a MUST, apparently: https://www.altchar.com/game-news/the-actress-behind-aloys-voice-praises-the-upcoming-sequel-aSOd50Z4Lo59/amp

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T14:12:22+00:00

I was reading Les Miserables again this morning and that's what got me thinking of all this. Especially this line.

And remember, the truth that once was spoken: To love another person is to see the face of God

I remember it from the play (I saw it a few days ago! It was great!) also and it has to be the best line of the play with how it's sung, it's so good.

The point of life is to love another person. That's why we're here.

We know this because literally every single piece of important literature throughout history has a love, or failed love, story at it's center.

Or at least it's why everyone else is here. And love doesn't even need to be romantic love, the love Valjean showed for Fauntine and her daughter was not romantic. But some people will forever lack the ability to have this in their lives, the face of god is forever cut off from them.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T01:10:26+00:00

"I'm a 21M and l have a very high sex drive and libido. For example if am dating a girl and l tell her l wouldn't mind having sex every day should be worried ?"

Bruh no women especially at your age is gonna think a 21M wanting consistent sex is problematic

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-06-28T01:15:32+00:00

That discord page is lame asf

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T02:39:01+00:00

"How can you hate but simultaneously be attracted to someone"

Ask all the straight misandrists 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

They still want dick even though they hate men

potoricco · 2023-06-28T03:25:20+00:00

Q4m- If you met a girl who ticked all the boxes but she said she’s waiting until marriage, would you stay (and be loyal, that means celibate until marriage )

Edit: say the girl is a virgin

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T09:00:33+00:00

"Women with high functioning autism have it easier than men"

Yes because autistic men don't have an equal amount of dating opportunities as autistic women

amber_day · 2023-06-28T10:59:25+00:00

Q4M:

Do you think some men place too much importance on relationships/sex with women?

Some comments I see are from men acting like all of their issues would be solved by having a girlfriend/SO.

I don’t deny that life is generally nicer with a good partner but they can’t heal all your insecurities and mental health issues, and it’s unfair and unrealistic to expect them to and will likely make you a codependent partner.

Maractop · 2023-06-28T12:48:26+00:00

I seen a comment and it really did make me realize that I never i seen even one post on here from a woman that was hating/insulting/shitting on other women. But theres posts from men doing the same to other men. Why is that? Im actually curious

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T00:52:26+00:00

I dont even know "ugly" people. Where are all these ugly people people are talk about ?

potoricco · 2023-06-28T01:03:00+00:00

kind of heartbroken lol

I’ve been asking my parents if I could go to this place for months now and they said that tickets were too expensive and I’ll have to go next year

Only for my dad to book a flight with him and my little brother to that same place this December. I guess it’s not really a big deal but he knew how much I wanted to go, and he couldn’t even bring me along with them..:-_-

Steakman1 · 2023-06-28T01:23:03+00:00

If you have a thing for virgins, then just go un-virgin some olive oil.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-06-28T03:08:34+00:00

Had a conversation today with a female friend about younger women playing the field and weighing their options. I said it doesn't make sense for a woman to have her eyes on a particular guy but still be having different cars parked outside of her place constantly. My friend said a lot of guys end up being duds and it makes the women end up looking like sluts, so I told her that if they're doing things that sluts do, like have sex with multiple different guys before they even really know them, then what are the guys observing from the sidelines supposed to think?

I tell ya... That's why I stay away from dating and relationships. It really do be a shit-show.

Also, friendly reminder that nearly 3/4ths of people in the US under the age of 50 have oral herpes. Stay frosty out there.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-06-28T03:19:02+00:00

Awkward situation: I was visiting my elderly mother recently- in her bedroom - she’s sickly. An old church friend/neighbor of hers, (a retired Dr. who is 85) drops by her house unannounced. He just busts in & talks our ears off about his many health problems and then outta the blue starts talking about dirty sex stuff 🙄. I told him it was time to go, guided/nearly pushed him out - but it got even worse as soon as my Mom was out of earshot. I was backing him out down the hall 😬…I told him he was a “dirty old man” and to gtfo. He left. I went home. An hour later my Mom rings me to tell me he came back looking for me. Wtf?

Maffioze · 2023-06-28T05:24:52+00:00

Possibly my final exam at university today.

Karmanger · 2023-06-28T12:00:11+00:00

I have a friend that is super simpin.

He’s playing step dad to his exes daughter. The ex treats him worse than dirt, she doesn’t think men have feelings. I heard her say this, when he had me eavesdrop on their conversations.

I’ve tried every angle for him to free himself, because he’s gone homeless giving her all his money.

Can’t save a hoe, Can’t save a simp.

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2023-06-28T13:40:12+00:00

Tattoos are repulsive on women. Whenever I see a girl with lots of tattoos I instantly associate her with the casual sex/drugs/party lifestyle. Women should know that a lot of guys see them this way.

5PointTakedown · 2023-06-28T13:43:42+00:00

Here's something that's distressing me a lot I realize. I don't actually have any goals at all in life outside of dating. Life is kind of like...finished. I won, made it to the finish line the Gods of Life gave me the "Upper Middle Class Winner Life" crown and said there's nothing more to accomplish professionally, educationally , or even fitness wise and set me off into the sunset.

So I spend 8 hours a day at my job doing nothing, because I don't need to and just being annoyed I'm autistic.

I spend 8 hours at the gym not actually...accomplishing anything, I'll never be a pro fighter but I've gotten in the best shape someone like me can reasonably be in.

Like I have no goals, nothing more to accomplish in life, nothing absolute nothing I can look at to see that will tangibly improve my life and make me happier because every bit of my life that sucks comes down to the fact that I cant have meaningful relationships with women (and men too, but honestly men have always been really mean to me so I care less) because I'm autistic.

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yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-06-28T00:00:36+00:00

First :)

Ok_Tomorrow_3963 · 2023-06-28T00:15:49+00:00

I’ve pretty much ditched this place for lurking /r/askwomenover30. So much more entertaining and hilarious

pyroblastftw · 2023-06-28T00:44:18+00:00

This may have been asked before but do those who disagree with redpill have a model of dating dynamics that is better supported by data?

Redpill may exaggerate the extent of certain characteristics when it comes to dating / attraction but at least it seems to me that it’s the model that is the closest to observed reality.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-06-28T01:12:52+00:00

Just got banned on r/diabla despite never posting there once lol

I wonder if a poster here happens to be a mod there and got upset at me bringing up that fds and lipstickalley are femcel spaces.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T01:25:01+00:00

Here's a question. I "ghosted" a girl around 2 years ago. Really my type, physically and intellectually. Matched on a dating app. We were set to go out but I ended up ghosting her (after reinitiating contact). The goal wasn't to ghost her. I was going through a bad time/was stressed and I wanted it to pass before going out with her. Days turned into weeks and weeks into months. At some point I thought it would be embarassing to respond now. TLDR : I was highly interested and the ghosting had nothing to do with no interest and it wasn't intentional. I just

I was thinking about texting her and ask her what she's doing. She's probably taken by now. What do I really have to lose ? If it turns out she's taken, I'll wish her the best and thats the end of it. I feel super embarassed to text her after such a long time though.

potoricco · 2023-06-28T01:54:12+00:00

i would give him 10 kids

False_Cod_4747 · 2023-06-28T02:28:52+00:00

When she sends you a snap nude but her 'snapscore' goes up by more than 1....

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-28T03:24:12+00:00

QFW: Regarding slut shaming, have you received more slut shaming from men or women? Percentage wise?

potoricco · 2023-06-28T03:45:22+00:00

97% of women look better without makeup….wtf

Distinct-Yogurt9276 · 2023-06-28T03:57:17+00:00

My posts never pass the shit filter

md8716 · 2023-06-28T07:22:21+00:00

My one actual serious thought of the week:

The thing I want for my kids more than anything by the time they are 18 is to be more worldly in their mindset, experiences, and thinking than I was. I feel like once you get sucked into that cycle of prestige whoring and social climbing during the college admissions procsss, you become mentally colonized and then it's hard to break free.

Understanding that I didn't have to accept the American idea of success and what life should be like was probably the best lesson I ever learned in my late 20s. I want them to internalize that early on.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-06-28T09:07:10+00:00

"Ended something months ago and was shocked but how eventually I realised a breaking point where I just no longer liked him at all anymore.

This tool years (8 total) to reach - but once it happened it was like a switch was flicked and I could no longer feel any attraction, longing or love toward him. Almost repelled by him instead."

dyngladfel · 2023-06-28T09:22:29+00:00

Q4M what kind of qualities/traits would you be looking for if you were a woman dating men? Add looks if you dare.

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-06-28T09:25:56+00:00

Q4A: within the context of sex/sexuality, what is the most surprising thing you've learned or discovered about the opposite sex?

Personally, I was shocked when I learned dudes can kind of "flex" their dicks.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-28T11:07:05+00:00

So according to my area manager I'm under "police investigation" for missing money from a banking bag, around $100.

The one on one conversation I had with her today basically told me that she hasn't talked to police at all, because the whole conversation was her angling to get me to confess, saying things such as

"This is your chance to give me some new information" and whatnot.

I'll put it this way, if this situation was as serious as she claimed, and they had proof I'd done anything if have already been charged and been fired, neither of which have happened. I fucked up by not counting the money multiple times to be sure, but that's the worst thing I've done.

I also highly doubt the police have time to worry about something as small as $100 missing from a work till.

If anything further does come of it, I'll be suing for unfair dismissal and defamation of character from unfounded claims.

Until then, as far as I'm concerned it's over, I'll be looking for another job so I can get the fuck out of here.

NJFlowerchild · 2023-06-28T12:45:17+00:00

Has anyone here heard of guys trying to kill an "inappropriate erection" by applying pressure down on the penis? I have heard of a few older guys talking doing that, but they were 40+ men. That's a common way of fracturing your penis. It doesn't take much pressure to do it.

lolmastr13 · 2023-06-28T13:14:47+00:00

I really like the quote from Marilyn Frye about heterosexual male culture, the important bit is

“ The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire... those are, overwhelmingly, other men.”

I feel like it definitely applies to me cause for games, books, sports, fitness, shows, movies, school and work. The people who like the same things I do in the way I do are men.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-28T00:39:26+00:00

Do you have bad handwriting?

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T00:57:52+00:00

I think a large explanation of a good portion of mens' struggles here can be found in the second part ot this guy's username

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14kgcgo/women_are_just_as_visual_as_men_its_just_that/

IlIIlIIIlIlIl · 2023-06-28T01:04:01+00:00

/r/askmenover30

virtue, stoicism, dealing with loneliness, dealing with insecurities, career questions, finance

/r/askwomenover30

dating men men dating men men men marriage men men travelling

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T01:11:22+00:00

"Husbands helping around the house"

Wait what

saraimarsena · 2023-06-28T01:47:11+00:00

soo i’ve decided on (one of) my birthday outfits, for the day part of our planned shenanigans. i look amazing in it and i’m excited 👀

taking a poll of the room here, do y’all consider it slutty? i don’t lol. apparently some people do and i was kinda shocked 😂

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-06-28T02:09:16+00:00

I can't stand how ugly this woman from Westworld looks to me. I don't know why. Women have it easy and very few (healthy 19-21 BMI) women are actually ugly but this one annoys me just to see her on screen. She's supposed to be the main princess type of character, the love interest of other main characters.

https://imgur.com/N2QZELt

Fans of the show are even making fun of her face lol

https://www.reddit.com/r/westworld/comments/5zfvah/i_noticed_that_dolores_has_kind_of_a_small_face/

She had one job as the love interest/princess and failed at it. She's supposed to be pretty.

Meanwhile this hot babe only has a small side role in the show:

https://cdn11.bigcommerce.com/s-yzgoj/images/stencil/1280x1280/products/1898037/3797097/apitkdvuf__65667.1626590781.jpg?c=2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiTmJBZFU2Y

potoricco · 2023-06-28T02:56:02+00:00

Things that won’t be happening at my wedding

Bride prices/dowries/outdated shit ❌

Father walking me down the isle ❌

Kneeling for my husband fuck no ❌

Asking my family for permission 😜❌

meteorness123 · 2023-06-28T02:58:56+00:00

Would you say that if a man/woman isn't able to be in a functional relationship (and theres always drama if they happen to be in one), that there's something wrong with them ? Or just unlucky.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-06-28T04:34:17+00:00

Things that I think make men more attractive: anecdotely:

-clear skin

i had alot of acne when I was a teenager ( im 21 now), my face is clear now. I have to give up alot of the foods that I enjoyed ie. Dairy in general, chocolate, overly greasy food, soda, candy. I have a strict skin care routine that includes a acne cream and specific moisturizer. I do my treatment everyday without missing a day

Haircut that fits face shape

                 -thats literally it, find a haircut suited                    for your face shape and stick to it. It                    honestly does make a difference.

Get some sleep:

                  - idgaf whats due, and whats                          happening im getting my 8 hours.                      Eye bags are not cute. Men dont get                      to wear concealer. Eye bags                      absolutely make a difference.

Tatoos:

                   I dont have tats yet, but when I can                         afford to comfortablely pay for a                     really good tattoo artist, then im                     getting them.                     But they just elevate your attractiveness. I cant explain it

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-06-28T09:02:47+00:00

"UPDATE: WOW, I did not expect over 200 women to stand up for me and tell me I’m in the right here. It feels really good to have my feelings and instincts validated. Thanks a million!!! I’m dumping his ass for good. 🙏"

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-06-28T09:04:58+00:00

"We sit in a booth in the restaurant section of the establishment, he picks the middle of the booth, manspreading to the extent of a gymnasts split. No polite nudging closed that spread."

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-28T10:23:04+00:00

Women , please tell me THIS isn’t true

Katatonicsnake · 2023-06-28T10:29:23+00:00

I simply don’t understand why feminism would need to accomplish everything. Both anti-feminists and modern feminists use the same approach. “Feminism is shit because it doesn’t focus enough on male genital mutilation” or “I’m a vegan because I’m a feminist”. I really don’t see how this direction benefits anyone.

happy_discus · 2023-06-28T11:01:04+00:00

Pro tip nr2: Just don't be autistic. Be normal.

Follow me for more red- and blue-pill advice.

amber_day · 2023-06-28T11:56:07+00:00

QFA:

If you received an inheritance of six figures, would you tell your bf/gf?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-06-28T12:22:00+00:00

I've been having a lot of issues in recent years about caring, I find it hard to be genuinely emotionally invested in anything to the point that I started faking a lot of things how I react, what I say, and so on which makes it even more difficult as you no longer feel the slightest connection to those people but the alternative is me being honest which comes off as hostile for some reason. I hate who I am around people.

Maractop · 2023-06-28T12:51:12+00:00

Why do you think women care more about height when it comes to a man partner than a woman partner? If its for protection do they just not care about being protected when they are with another woman? And do you what percent of women do you think are actually bisexual? I seen a study where most straight women are more aroused by other women than men

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-06-28T13:02:17+00:00

I don’t have kids nor do I want kids. But let’s say I did have young very children and I was co parenting with my child’s mother I don’t think I would be in the right space to seriously date anyone. Like just causal dating? Hooking up every now and then? Sure but anything other than that nah, if that’s the case I might as well go back to my baby momma.

Sarah’s boyfriend has a 10 month old at home with another woman, that’s crazy to me lol

huhwhatokok · 2023-06-28T13:03:56+00:00

Lol you allow your wife to grow and pursue her dreams on your money and this is how she repays you by saying she “grew”. No, he allowed you to grow on his resources, especially on his food it seems. Womens main character syndrome needs to be studied.

https://twitter.com/8eightpillars/status/1673022720760487936?s=46&t=f3O6kV3ngoaNbO893zFv5g

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-06-28T13:47:33+00:00

It is quite possible some people could be here to philosophize.

potoricco · 2023-06-28T14:40:10+00:00

Hypocrisy of some Christian men that I’ve seen

Bible: women should submit to their husbands

Them: preach 💯

Bible: adultery is a sin

Them: hmmmm but men are polygamous in nature, it’s our instinct, marriage is for better or for worse

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-06-28T15:44:31+00:00

Do women respond quicker to negative rage messages than positive ones? I was talking to a co-worker today who waa messaging a girl online and she would just leave him on read. She might have replied once. This went on for about 2 weeks until he told me he sent her something like "You wanna ignore my messages then bye" and she immediately blocked him 5 minutes later.

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T16:03:10+00:00

"What has dating come to nowadays"

Brand's management

Instagram,porn,dating apps

Are things gonna get better in the next decades ? I don't know you tell me

If your a single guy and haven't realized this, then that's one of the reasons your still single

Since single women don't need to pay attention but you do

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T16:49:56+00:00

"Why do you think women care more about height when it comes to a man partner than a woman partner"

Evolutionary wiring

That's just what comes down to

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T17:23:24+00:00

"Do you think some men place too much importance on relationships/sex with women"

Relationships no, because that can be platonic

Sex definitely, since many men enter romantic relationships for the possibility of sex

Bruh everyone knows men place so much importance on the accessibility to sex, it's not a new concept or phenomenon

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T20:14:09+00:00

"What is the most attractive trait in getting women"

Status will be the number one amplifier in attracting women across all ages and locations

Money,looks,game has their limits

But status doesn't

Apprehensive_Net7337 · 2023-06-28T21:51:35+00:00

Me trying to debate with the women here

DerayRevan · 2023-06-28T23:18:02+00:00

I don't why so many guys aren't honest of why they want a relationship which is the accessibility of sex

I've never wanted a relationship growing up but if she was really gorgeous, l wouldn't mind since the accessibility to sex would benefit me

Many women are aware guys invest into a relationship just for sex, so better be honest about the intention

Doesn't mean you can't be a good partner to her if all you ever wanted was sex

throwawayVishot · 2023-06-28T06:47:08+00:00

So i thought, we recently hadn’t been as intimate and she just felt distant. One morning she was in the shower and i just made our kid breakfast. her phone was on the table, we know each others codes, i checked her IG and read stuff that broke me.

stuff from regretting being married to me, unhappy, wanting to be with another guy that she knew from HS and keep in mind HS for us was in the mid-2000s. She mentioned how she lost interested in me sexually. All this she told to another man. This other man also commented on how she looked, and there’s some sexual stuff in those DMs, more im sure on FB, which i don’t have.

Anyway i took pics and recorded the conversation of her DMs. I went to work, came back home afterwards. Confronted her she didn’t seem regretful, just slightly angry. and then started crying.

She’s denied everything else, from sending any kind of pics or vids, im not sure i believe her. she also “stopped” talking to them and they’re just friends. I said i don’t call my friends sexy or get half naked pics of them and i definitely don’t tell a member of the opposite sex i think they’re sexy. or have a nice body.

The thing that hurts is this isn’t the first time. She says she loves me, but her messages don’t show it. She regrets being with me, i don’t interest her in a sexual way, she can’t imagine a world without her friend. She’s wanted to be him and had feelings for him since HS. WE ARE IN OUR 30s.

Those of you that married women who were not virgins. Your thoughts on this?

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