Daily Community Chat Megathread

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-05T19:21:10+00:00

Question for women : so I have curly hair right, I put alot of effort into my hair, and I've gotten comments many times that girls think I got a perm.

How should I take it:

Should I take it as my hair looks so good that it looks fake

Or

Do I look like one of those guys that would need to get a perm

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-05T13:52:15+00:00

Had a lightbulb idea. Reason why girls might fall for the bad boy:

They might be a "bad girl" inside themselves

Example: Whitney Houston married Bobby Brown cuz she was actually hood af and had her demons despite the poised image the industry wanted her to present

WestCombSplit · 2023-08-05T11:28:21+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/nope/comments/15hxgeg/juicy_in_like_2_months_with_the_gators_in_his/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1

The future of the average single man /s

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-05T10:01:29+00:00

this is a bit early and I’ll probably post against tomorrow, but do u guys think this users posts r legit? https://www.reddit.com/u/devastatedhusband/

blebbyroo · 2023-08-05T09:26:26+00:00

Partners birthday tomorrow whoohoo I love birthdays!! Went and got those big number balloons, write him a beautiful card and got him a small gift even though we don’t normally do gifts.

Made cinnamon scrolls from scratch to be baked for brunch when his family is coming over. I’ll have the rolls and fresh fruit for them.

And when he gets up I’ll make us lox bagels for breakky 🥰🥰

He’s working at the bar tonight but he will Come home and see the balloons and the gift on the table

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T08:50:50+00:00

oh no

i jst pissed myself

and i make nearly 360k a year

and i pissed myself

AMAZIN

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-05T08:48:58+00:00

https://youtu.be/iWTi4d56JRE

This is my favorite song

I bet you can't guess why

dbz__f · 2023-08-05T08:42:10+00:00

Can some female-gendered persons redpill me on bra sizes?

I went shopping with le gf today for various stuff including bras. Apparently her size is 8B. What does that mean? If the number goes up does it mean the boobies are bigger, or if the letter goes up, or both?

WilliamWyattD · 2023-08-05T08:26:59+00:00

Why is there so much concern about male/female equality levels at the very elite positions (Senator, CEO, etc.) when this is such a small percentage of the population? Women are outperforming men at the median and where the 'numbers are'. Yet, many women argue that things won't be equal until roughly 50% of Fortune 500 officers, elected officials, and Presidents are women.

Given what we know about male and female nature, if you get to a point where 50% of the very elite jobs are held by women, it would likely mean women would be massively outperforming men at the median. But nobody seems to care about that.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-05T08:20:17+00:00

Can I vent about trauma dumping? Does the whole world have PTSD now?

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-05T05:52:48+00:00

What with all the hubbub about Lizzo and me not really having listened to any of her music, a quick scan through her videos reveals something that will surprise no one. She's all about body positivity fat girl power etc but all the men in her videos are thin and/or fit. Unlike the transgressions outlined in the lawsuit, this hypocrisy is never hidden, just out in the world and no one bats an eye.

Pretty sure this is the case with people like Meghan Trainor too. All the male love or sex symbols in the vids I remember were fit and the few fat men in there were comic relief or gay best friend.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-05T05:47:10+00:00

I saw a Tik Tok of a girl almost in tears trying to call her boyfriend after a Girl's Night Out and it kept going straight to voicemail, her friend laughing in the background.

Consequences of your own actions babe.

huhwhatokok · 2023-08-05T05:36:04+00:00

Do the Japanese have like, Hiroshima and Nagasaki Memorial Day like America has 9/11 Memorial Day? I was thinking about that randomly due to the Oppenheimer movie.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-05T05:02:28+00:00

I grew up around alot of scammer. All kinds, you got dudes trying to finesse with fake cloths. Some do load ups, some do bank open ups, all forms. One thats the most interesting is how andrew tate got yall paying for yall to have him beat yall up. Bro been finessing yall for months, and yall still licking his boots. Theres vidoes of him confessing to emotionally manipulating women.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-05T04:20:14+00:00

Andrew Tate's house arrest has been lifted.

The patriarchy wins again!!

MysterySolverDog · 2023-08-05T04:19:55+00:00

I think we might need to slow down on passport bro discussion :/

I won't lie even as somebody who is planning long term to marry overseas I'm getting a little exhausted.

saraimarsena · 2023-08-05T03:59:46+00:00

idc about a huge expensive wedding, i wouldn’t wanna spend massive amounts of money on a single day.

i would want a nice ring tho. nothing crazy, but something that I really love. kinda wanna pick it myself

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-05T03:40:02+00:00

My (28m) boyfriend just asked me (28f) how many men I have slept with. Litteraly just now in this moment. He is out having a smoke and a beer because I guess me saying I don't want to tell him stresses him out.

I have been with multiple partners. And I know that my boyfriend has only been with a handful of partners and I believe a 1 nighter.

My number of Boyfriends and hookups exceed his by far. Honestly I've never been ashamed of it, until now. I have told him all about the boyfriends, and a few FWB that hung around for a while longer than hookups.

I feel like he is measuring how much he loves me right now. If I tell him I am scared that our relationship will be over. We have had a awesome relationship thus far going on 2yrs in October. This topic never came up before and anytime I told him about certain boyfriends in my past he told me it makes him uncomfortable and angry. I know he is jealous and hurt by my past actions especially with the men who I was with ( was in a very hurtful relationship before) ( I have also smoked a lot of weed and drank a lot in the past) I am now a very different and stronger person because of my past. I have started a new life for myself and worked very hard for everything I accomplished. I am happy and feel like my boyfriend is "the one".

I have no idea what to do right now. I get being transparent and telling your partner everything but he said a few things that make me feel uneasy about the direction of our future. He said: " the more I get to know you the more I..." ( litteraly just left me hanging) and "I feel disgusted by you, and your choices" (as if those choice were made by me now)

Should I give him a number? How should I tell him?

Update:

I just told him a rough number and he left. He kept being very presistant and I asked him " how would this help our relationship? Is this going to make you love less or are you going to be satisfied with what I tell you? He kept asking and asking and asking, the same thing "how many? How many HOW MANY!" I told him a fucking ballpark number to shut him up now he's gone. Without saying anything.

I can't stop crying.

TL;TR

Boyfriend wants me to tell him how many people I have slept with. He is very disappointed and disgusted with me. I have not told him anything as of yet.

Please help.

lol

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-05T03:09:35+00:00

What are you guys top 3 favorite music albums?

Jeff Buckley-Grace

Pink Floyd- Dark side of the moon

David Bowie- The Rise and Fall of Ziggy Stardust and the Spiders From Mars

‘I turned 30 this year, they say music you listen to when you are 18-20 will have the biggest impact on you, it definitely true I always had peculiar taste in music from my peers.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-05T02:59:56+00:00

My boy, he's a pretty boy, really handsome, but he's not just good looking, he's also a great dude. Thats my boy fr. Watched bro get disrespectfully rejected. Yea man, good looking dudes get rejected too. But he's usually shooting lights out tho so he's gonna get over it

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-08-05T02:49:29+00:00

“Women make their own now so men need to offer more than just $$$ to compete”

I don’t understand how women getting more didn’t translate into households having more money, and instead translated into “we caught up to you guys so clearly your failing us. Do better”

Chokeman · 2023-08-05T02:07:12+00:00

A friend of my friend just found out that the girl he's dating with was having a FWB while telling him she's not ready for sex.

Her excuse is typical blue pill preaches, she said she saw him as a potential partner so she had him wait for sex. Her relationship with her FWB was just physical.

He left her not long after that. He told my friend the girl made him look like an idiot.

Damn i hate modern dating strategy. It's fucked up in so many levels.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-05T02:04:44+00:00

Is "fun" as a central theme a good motive in your life ?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-05T01:56:26+00:00

Today I went to second theater class for people with speech impediments

So while improvising a scene I grabbed one guy's hand to say that we were having an affair

once the scene ended he kept staring at me and that made me feel bad 💔 because I don't have romantic feelings or anything, it was just improvisation

I made things weird

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-08-05T01:11:29+00:00

A couple of weeks ago I started a new playthrough of Stardew Valley, I couldn't think of a character name... So I went with Jannie. I've also started naming some of the animals/pets after people from PPD. Your challenge is to guess who is which animal...

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MyLastBestChance · 2023-08-04T12:10:21+00:00

WingOutrageous9987 · 2023-08-04T12:15:18+00:00

I deeply regret trusting women doing what they told me and “doing the right thing“ and avoided pursuing women for sex and relationships. I’m 40 now and pretty much a virgin. I hate myself and women, bot women in general just feminists and the women I trusted. Yes I’ve done therapy that’s how I ended up with this conclusion.

Guys like me are really going to pile up over the next 20-30 years as it’s a generational thing (being raised by feminists). I wonder what will happen politically.

Personally I went from voting left to right as anything feminist/liberal/progressive makes me want to vomit.

CliffPR · 2023-08-04T13:18:54+00:00

Certain women when any male celebrity or public figure is accused of anything: "Believe women! Don't wait for proof, string him up now!"

Those same women when Lizzo is accused by women: "That just doesn't seem like her. I don't think we're hearing the whole story."

Specialist_Cod1841 · 2023-08-04T13:20:42+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15hms6a/aitah_for_feeling_terrible_after_my_girlfriend/

which one of you wrote this

tritter211 · 2023-08-04T13:32:03+00:00

I really hate this "passport bro" topic on this sub! Its really not a productive topic to discuss at all.

Its mostly a tiktok trend. And a lot of guys here are REALLY trying to make it a thing by constantly bringing it up.

passport bro "movement" is more like politically correct sex tourism.

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-04T13:40:27+00:00

I will probably get banned for saying this, but...

I'm already expecting a bunch of downvotes

* posts the most popular opinion on this sub *

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-04T13:47:21+00:00

Listen to her advice, be vulnerable and open up about your issues and insecurities. Watch her ghost you for an emotional unavailable alpha.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-04T13:49:15+00:00

It's Friiiiiday! The day we look at cute animals ...

Mini-Me!

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-04T13:52:46+00:00

We need more porn where two women sandwich a dick with their pussies from two sides. Like scissoring, but with a penis between. Why is it so rare?!

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-04T13:56:14+00:00

Q4M: Besides sex, what else do you want to do with a partner?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-04T13:59:22+00:00

I don't know why there’s people offended at the claim that incels, both the decent and neckbeard types, could be autistic.

People with disabilities/disorders can be good or bad people and being untreated can hinder their lives. Though, I imagine it's just people wanting to find a way to feel offended.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-04T14:08:09+00:00

Q4W: Would you have dated your female friends if they had dicks?

Q4M: Would you have dated your male friends if they had vagina?

baresquad · 2023-08-04T14:11:42+00:00

Women talk like this behind close doors all the time. You might as well get out of dating if you’re too scared to be gossiped about.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-04T14:24:04+00:00

Salsa, anyone? Imgur

Farm (well, backyard) to fork in 15 minutes ...

Walking around my yard this morning, I am so grateful for where I live, even if it is (as my man pointed out the other day) "a trailer that was built when Eisenhower was president." LOL

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-04T14:32:37+00:00

This is a great way to show why the “rise in sexless men” should not be taken seriously: https://youtube.com/shorts/HRA5KYeIWjU?feature=share

MF thinks 1 in 3 is most people and its blaming feminism for not wanting to rely on nor be subservient to men. It’s basically implying that most men were able to get a wife, because women were forced to marry for survival.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-04T14:37:50+00:00

I feel like most men successful with women are usually sociable and extroverted. Is there still hope for introverts? It seems really hard for male introverts out there.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-04T14:48:03+00:00

How does a man know hes attractive? Does it start in high school? I feel like by high school/college and onward if a guy is sexually active and gets complimented/interacts with women a good amount he’s attractive or could it be tossed up to a bunch of 1 offs

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-04T14:56:08+00:00

Still baffles me so many guys will put themselves in situations that they fucking hate just to get a girlfriend/pussy, but act like it’s societies fault that they chose to go that route.

“But girls dont have to go through that!” Yes, they do. They get cheated on, abused, pump and dumped constantly because they’re so pathetically desperate for a man they have no standards nor self-respect.

purplish_possum · 2023-08-04T14:59:43+00:00

Apparently Lizzo has been an asshole for some time.

https://people.com/food/lizzo-is-being-sued-by-postmates-driver-after-rapper-accused-her-of-stealing-her-food/

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-08-04T15:12:28+00:00

Q4M: What are your dealbreakers, besides being unattractive or a high n-count?

Assuming she's sexy and not promiscuous, what else would make you say no to dating her?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-04T15:36:06+00:00

Men here act like because they do it, women should to but also in the same breath say that biology makes them different. For example, men here want women to be attracted to all men in the same way that men are attracted to all women's pussy potential. Or they want women to lower their standards for sex or commitment they way that men perceive themselves lowering their standards for sex or commitment. Or they want to stay in boring, unfulfilling marriages and expect women to do the same.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-04T16:00:23+00:00

The thread where it asks women what is HVM… I think should have explained mate value or something.

Leagues exist in a general sense due to mate value. Yes, niches and personal preferences matter too, but there’s a more general rubric for actual leagues.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-04T16:05:33+00:00

Alright here are the things that are happening. We're about to actually test RP thory in practice. My friend who is staying with me doesn't associate with TRP but he says a lot of generic RP. I ignore most of it and just focus on the fact that he's unfathomably attractive (more ripped than your average hollywood "strong man") and he's extremely extroverted and makes people feel super comfortable and always checks up on people. So he knows I'm an incel and we're doing the following things

Going to Bass Canyon, a rave. According to him it's basically impossible to not pull at a rave.
We're going immediately from the rave to Las Vegas where he likes...knows a bunch of chicks who hang out in pool clubs or some shit? We're staying at Caesers Palace and apparently that place has some sort of pool club and he's going to bring all of his (a bunch of them) women friends over and it's going to be like a big multi day party

Here is what I believe is happening:

I'm being played. I'm paying for all of this (literally everything, my friend is fucking broken, literally 0 dollars), so he's using me to go on different vacations with the promise that "Bro you'll be able to talk to women there".

We're going to go to Vegas, his friends and strangers that he attempts to introduce me to are going to be fairly immediately disgusted by me (for obvious reasons) and then he's going to go up to our room to fuck and I'll just drink myself into oblivion.

We already did a facetime call with some of his friends, it was super fucking weird, like out of a shitty movie where you have all the hot attractive women just...sitting around the pool doing nothing and partying and she brought the phone around to all of her friends and they all said hi and all that. Although you could tell they weren't even remotely interested in talking to me lol

But I'm still going, if only to prove a point to myself that it's over and that any attempts I make even guided by someone are completely pointless.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T16:12:39+00:00

"Testing a potential partner with no sex, while having casual sex/hookups with other guys before, makes no sense objectively speaking"

AF/BB

Simple

Makes perfect sense to me

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-04T16:14:43+00:00

Matched with a hottie nurse. Been txting for a few days. Her bio states, no casual no hookups. Anyone want to take a wild guess what we planned for later today?

Q4W: Those of you on the apps that expressly state nothing casual and no hookups, but then literally do same day sex with a guy... why bother putting what you put on your bio? Like literally, what's the purpose of stating/signalling that?

Please explain it like I'm 5 what your thinking is when writing that.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T16:22:11+00:00

"Being sexually open is viable mating for women

Yes because men just ask two questions subconsciously

Is she hot and available

That's it

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-04T16:44:36+00:00

When are guys going to get off the dating apps and realize sliding into the DMs is the best way for them to get women? I just hopped over to r/tinder to see what a cespool it still is and it's full of seemingly attractive men who aren't getting any matches. The dating apps are designed to work against you! Find some niche area of the internet, post content that displays how much of a catch you are, and just message women in that same niche area of the internet. Don't be all weird and autistic about it, don't try to be clever, just message girls and be like "hey, you seem cool and I wanted to introduce myself." Simple as that.

ZealousidealWish9392 · 2023-08-04T16:45:22+00:00

There's only going to be short men and tall women in a few years

Willow-girl · 2023-08-04T17:06:26+00:00

I may be falling in love here ...

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T17:10:02+00:00

How do I stop gay men from staring at me in public transportation all the time? I live in some gayborhood or something because there a lot of them.

It's really annoying. The worst part is that I barely get any attention from women, so the contrast in reaction between gay men and women reminds me of how uninterested women are.

When I'm trying to check out women, they think I'm checking them out, so they start staring at me and making me feel uncomfortable. I'm just trying to make women feel good by giving them attention but gay men are unintentionally stopping me from creeping on women by creeping on me and making me feel uncomfortable lmao

I'm pretty sure I present straight. My body language is still like a college kid trying to act cool. I manspread and get told I look angry all the time. My eyebrows are a bushy messy.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T17:20:31+00:00

"I feel like most successful with are usually social sociable and extroverted. Is there still hope for introverts"

Yes because social skills and interaction is just one category of success, because what about

Money ?

Looks ?

Status ?

All this are also categories of success

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T17:32:12+00:00

"Do women have high standards OR are we failing as men"

Neither lol

Here's the thing, women standards in 2023 were mostly not the same in 1923

That's it

NalkaNalka · 2023-08-04T17:39:09+00:00

The other day I went to a P1harmony concert with my daughter. There were maybe like 5 or 6 guys in the entire crowd. The rest all women.

Gen z guys that have trouble meeting women and complain about the gender ratio of online dating could try getting into Kpop.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-04T17:39:48+00:00

Andrew Tate is a free man, LFG

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T17:53:57+00:00

I stopped answering the "what is a HVM"

Because l realized everyone will want to put their own definition into the concept

So the question is completely pointless because there's no objectives just personal/subjective answers

So it's stupid to even talk about this concepts anymore

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-04T17:54:56+00:00

Dad wants to take me to see rally. I feel conflicted. We might not have many of these trips left, and in a way, he is a fun guy. But then again, I don’t know how I can spend a whole weekend with him and his friends.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-04T17:56:54+00:00

Women can generally so easily find things and beings cute and wonderful. They can easily appreciate and just enjoy the fact that certain thing exist - children, animal, other women - and expressing it without thought is like second nature for them. "Aw, how cute, how wonderful!" And that seems very wholesome and welcoming, but it's men are an exception to this. Men are the one beings that women don't want to (or can't) see like that. That's unfortunate.

I wonder if this "why can't men see us as whole human beings" thing is the flipside of this. It's like both genders, on some level, wish to seek solace in the other, who they can be different about than how they normally are.

When it comes to men, women are like "ok, you exist, then what?" And when it comes to women, men wish they could just appreciate them for no good reason.

SorryEm · 2023-08-04T17:57:33+00:00

It's kind of weird to think I had a girlfriend before.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T18:11:04+00:00

Having multiple girlfriends is easy if they all

Live in different locations

And you've different time schedules whenever you want to take them one of them out

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-08-04T18:17:48+00:00

Women’s demand for male attention is relatively inelastic. Women can only match/meet/fuck/date so many men. Logistically a woman can’t sleep with 7 men in a week, whereas this is doable for a guy. At a macro scale, women’s demand falls when they are pregnant, on their periods, seeking an LTR, etc.

Men’s supply of male attention is fairly elastic. A given man might be limited by hours in a day, but if he gets enough attention from women he finds attractive, a man can supply enormous amounts of attention and sex. Pro athletes can have thousands of sex partners, chads can have hundreds, etc. I personally know guys who have had 30 partners in a month, going out constantly and swiping.

Now consider that dating can be approximated by the Gale-Shapley algorithm simple explanation here. In a nutshell, people go for whatever the best option they have at a given time, and sorting occurs whenever that’s true for both parties.

So, if men are able to expand their supply of sex to meet women’s demand, and if people seek the best option available, naturally you will have an uneven distribution of male partners. Whether that’s 80/20 rule, 95/5, or 60/40, so long as guys are able or willing to have sex with multiple women who show them interest, and women do not increase their demand for male sex, this will occur naturally.

Assuming one did want to “fix” this, there are two options. More demand from women, or less supply from men. More hot-girl-summer and casual sex from women, and/or less plating, situationshipping, and pump-and-dumping from hot guys.

To make it worse, slut-shame women, encourage low N-counts, and/or glorify Chadhood and having harems.

No matter what solution you pick, Chad still wins, he just wins less hard. At the limit, all women are shamed for having an N count more than 1, and they all spend their lives as virgins holding out for Chad, who is encouraged to just collect virginities and then dump. That scenario would be a 99.999/.001 rule.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T18:21:55+00:00

"Q4M: What are your deal-breakers, besides being unattractive and or a high n-count"

Red nails/lipstick

Coloured hair

Fat lips, Jesus no don't do that to me

Giving me an attitude/being disrespectful

No mutual desire back on the third date

SorryEm · 2023-08-04T18:28:43+00:00

I'm gonna compile more of the beliefs and arguments of the blue pill. I don't believe these myself, but this is pretty much more of their arguments in the most honest and direct way possible.

Rule 2 of the blue pill: Men only want sex.

Men may talk about how they talk to women for the purpose of having a relationship, how much they want companionship, or how having a relationship would make them more happy. These are lies, men only want sex first and foremost. There have been many instances of creepy men approaching women for sex, unfortunately, these are the only honest men out there and the core of every man is a nasty perverted drive to penetrate women. Men only want sex.

Rule 3: Men are not owed opportunities(sex)

Men may complain about how isolated they are from the female world, the unfairness of dating apps, or the sheer lack of desire from the average woman to have men approach them. But the world doesn't owe them these opportunities and if men complain about these opportunities, remember rule two it's just about sex. Women don't owe men that opportunity.

Rule 3: Men's preferences are folly, women's preferences are law

Men may talk about wanting slim pretty young women with no kids but these preferences are simply disgusting unrealistic perversions endorsed by fictional media. Don't men know that these women don't exist, and even if they do they don't belong with the everyday man?

Women, all women have the right to prefer and only focus on tall extremely handsome wealthy men. It's absolutely not unrealistic for them "but those women are of larger size and have unpleasant attitudes". Foolish man, are you attempting to change nature?

End post.

Okay, I think that's enough for today. I'll compile more rules later. Bluepillers, these are your arguments, correct?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T18:45:33+00:00

I realized that hair is completely irrelevant for men who are the masculine types.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-08-04T18:49:28+00:00

PSA : Attraction isn't the only thing that women desire. Wish this sub would grasp that very simple concept.

We are looking to feel a connection with you. Attraction isn't enough.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T19:02:11+00:00

I could really care less about what the women here think about male standards wether they wanna bitch and moan constantly about it

Problem is the entitlement that comes

When a woman ever asks you to explain why you've this particular standard or preference, it's generally coming from a place of either bad faith or Entitlement

Reason why l say Entitlement is because 1. She doesn't know who you are and importantly doesn't know your dating circumstances

Bad faith is because a large portion of women here simply want attention, because of this women are bored and already in relationships

So yea again l could care less, if they continue to attack or question male standards or preferences but the problem comes when you as a man must defer to their boredom by explaining why you hold that particular standard or preference, you should never do that generally if you've self-respect for yourself a little bit

SuperFix9351 · 2023-08-04T19:06:00+00:00

Honestly, I dont feel like I could ever love a woman I start dating when shes 30+ years old as much as I would if she was 18. The thought of my girlfriend or wife giving her peak beauty years to another man just sucks.

I would just turn into a complete egiliterian relationship where I excempt myself from all traditional duties as a man such as providing and protection. We split household duties and bills evenly and take turns staying at home with the kids. We are basically business partners who have children together. But I guess thats the sort of relationship most feminists these days want.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-04T19:11:54+00:00

Pretty cool interview with David Gandy.

I think from a males perspective he has ideal level of physical attractiveness. Very good looking but also mescaline look to it. What do you guys say?

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-04T19:22:46+00:00

What’s is the beef against ginger for? This is the one aspect of western culture I’ll never get.

They clearly are the superior hair color.

milk-enjoyerr · 2023-08-04T19:24:24+00:00

Where the duck "the smell" comes from women, you guys know what I am talking about

Maffioze · 2023-08-04T19:30:21+00:00

https://youtu.be/LPTlvQ1Zet0?si=26qZhiCiM8PviRBB

No song hits harder than this song when you're dealing with repressed anger.

mummydontknow · 2023-08-04T19:35:26+00:00

I only come here to get a dopamine rush from getting notifications.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T20:01:01+00:00

Male body expectations be like

You need to workout 3+ times a week, spending 2.5+ hours between working out, warming up and cooling down, commuting to the gym and back each time, while eating more than 120g protein a day and meticulously counting your calories.

All just so people won't think your body is feminine or too skinny even when you're at the optimal BMI for your health.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T20:03:50+00:00

How to get a girlfriend : Don't be deformed and have a social life. (+ reasonable standards).

baresquad · 2023-08-04T20:04:51+00:00

I’m tired of everything having to revolve around “the vast majority of men”

Every time you speak to an experience that’s foreign to them, other men come out of the woodwork to chime in about what “the vast majority of men” can’t do.

Nobody gives a fuck.

potoricco · 2023-08-04T20:25:35+00:00

What is a feature you find unattractive on the opposite sex that the majority of people find attractive? For me, its beards 🤢

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T20:25:54+00:00

As lukewarm and funny the advice "Clean your room" sounds, it's kind of true. If my room is messy, the messiness swaps over to my psyche.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T22:26:29+00:00

"Does the male body arsouse women"

Dude girls would go crazy when guys grew their beards back then in my teenage years

But a Sixpack or muscles does the job to many women

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-05T06:10:40+00:00

I finally found one girl who was approachable at a bar tonight after many nights not seeing even a single woman who is approachable, contradicting my post. She had decently attractive 2 friends, both talking to men while she was looking around for a man to talk to because she was getting left out of the conversation.

Guess what the fatal flaw was in this situation?

! She was a fattie

BADUM!

"jUsT Be cOnFiDeNt aNd tAlK To wOmEn" they said when there is literally not a single approachable woman who is approachable with a healthy body. Every woman is actively socially engaged with someone.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-05T06:12:07+00:00

I finally found one girl who was approachable at a bar tonight after many nights not seeing even a single woman who is approachable, contradicting my post. She had decently attractive 2 friends, both talking to men while she was looking around for a man to talk to because she was getting left out of the conversation.

Guess what the fatal flaw in this situation was?

She was a fattie

BADUM!

"jUsT Be cOnFiDeNt aNd tAlK To wOmEn" they said when there is literally not a single approachable woman who is approachable with a healthy body. Every woman is actively socially engaged with someone.

potoricco · 2023-08-05T00:54:08+00:00

The best eurovision song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znWi3zN8Ucg

AngeCruelle · 2023-08-05T00:45:45+00:00

This has officially become one of my favorite out of context exchanges I've ever seen on this sub

What is Texas Roadhouse

A delightful restaurant here in the states that serves free rolls with a delicious honey cinnamon butter.

Oh my. That is a good place for a romantic dinner I presume. Do you expect the guy to pay?

spunkystoic · 2023-08-05T00:42:19+00:00

Potential unpopular opinion - this type of messaging is only going to get more intense as AI partners become more advanced and commonplace.

Don't get me wrong, I'm fairly balanced when it comes to the whole men v women thing (to the point where I piss off the red-pillers just as much as the blueys lol)...but I do think that women are going to feel the effects of these types of technologies.

And of course, there will be comments saying "this is only for losers, etc"...which is exactly what they said about online messaging, online dating, app dating, etc.

My most controversial opinion of all? As balanced as I am re: men's v women's rights, I do think this is a necessary rebalancing as the experience of modern dating is absolutely terrible for all genders.

Justwannaread3 · 2023-08-05T00:34:21+00:00

This sub makes me so grateful for my boyfriend like damn

armpitpics · 2023-08-05T00:34:00+00:00

Q4M: Would you rather kiss June Shannon in the lips or Stacey in her butthole after three days of camping?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-05T00:29:11+00:00

Embrace the suffering, boys. Nobody gives a fuck about you. You will be depressed and people won't help you. Not because you didn't ask but because you asked and nobody answered. You will probably lose a lot of time, you will be betrayed by friends. It is what it is. Embrace the pain. Gladiator style.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-05T00:26:49+00:00

Notorious B.I.G famously said “back in my mind I hope she swallows” I understand the premise of the line but if she likes you she’s gonna do that regardless.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-05T00:17:28+00:00

https://www.businessinsider.com/threads-meta-app-decrease-daily-active-users-mark-zuckerberg-2023-8?amp Remember when people was hyping up threads?

Good times

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-05T00:15:36+00:00

Q4W: Where do girls who dress like this congregate or what hobbies do they have?

https://www.reddit.com/r/OUTFITS/comments/143j4nt/graduated_in_my_dream_dress/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

Need the info to find a wife.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-05T00:12:29+00:00

Q4 men (or even everybody) :

Women should be a complement to a Man's life, never the focus of it.

Do you agree/disagree with this statement and what does it mean to you in a practical sense ?

potoricco · 2023-08-05T00:11:54+00:00

Guys women are gonna suffer when AI sex bots take over…..just look at the HVM specimens we’re all going to be missing out on if we don’t RETVRN….We women just can’t compete 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Maractop · 2023-08-04T23:56:12+00:00

Never in my life have I seen a girl be attracted to a man soley because he is short. But I have seen the opposite many times. Look at this and read the comments: https://youtu.be/K_DOIp33Qag

If a shorter guy did this it would seen as a Napoleon Complex

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T23:53:45+00:00

"You're not getting women because you don't enjoy talking to women"

My bad, I should be enjoying begging women to even have a conversation, dancing like a monkey, entertaining her and meeting every of her social and emotional needs just so she will continue talking me while competing with other men for her attention.

After college, you're not going to meet many date-able women organically, especially if you work in a male dominated (but lucrative) field, so all your social interactions with women will be in male dominated social situations where you are competing with a ton of other men for just a single (healthy bodied) woman's attention.

Men don't enjoy talking to women because they have to do all this work and go through so much rejection just to even talk to a single woman. It's easy to enjoy talking to people if they give you unlimited validation and attention and respond well to you. Women and good looking men can think it's natural to enjoy talking to people because people treat them well. But the average man gets treated like crap by women, so it's very difficult to enjoy talking to women.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T23:52:15+00:00

Is it bad if you're hesitant to have kids with a very short woman out of concern for your future son ?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-08-04T23:24:06+00:00

I have noticed a lot of hot women dating trans men. I wonder if this is something incels could try: have breast surgery, take women hormones, but keep your penis. Maybe bottom a few times, but you might have a shot at hotter women, if you embrace being a women.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T23:23:09+00:00

"Do men think all women are sluts"

Ayy if there's women who think all men are predators

Then l see no difference

n0vel_13 · 2023-08-04T23:04:40+00:00

what if we round up all the disenfranchised/average men and turn them against establishment? it’s not like they can get anything meaningful anyway

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-08-04T23:03:37+00:00

At least there is a logical case for hypergamy, not sure what the fuck this is though...

https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/man-leaves-wife-to-be-onlyfans-models-slave-signs-life-insurance-over-to-her-2236236/

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T22:45:50+00:00

All this questions about would you leave your wife if she got sick or fat

In general couldn't have sex with you anymore

What l find really interesting is nobody wants ask the woman what she do to continue sexually satisfying her man

Because l had this conversation with my girlfriend not long ago and if this situation she would call another woman to fuck but her condition was not getting her pregnant

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T22:38:53+00:00

Men who went from not exercizing at all to getting in shape - how did it change your life ? I'm not talking about dating stuff but rather if it's done something for you otherwise or if it fixed a problem for you.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-04T22:30:34+00:00

"How does a man know his attractive"

When his got money and bitches available

"Does it start in high school"

Lol no, nobody has drake money in high school

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-04T22:26:18+00:00

Which olympic sports have the least attractive bodies for men and women respectively?

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T22:25:34+00:00

Q : Would you say that women who have male friends are kind of weird ?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-04T22:20:37+00:00

Independence is imo not being 100% self sufficient, but not needing to rely on the altruism of others. If you get your mom, dad, partner, the government to do something for you (government is fine though if you contribute enough taxes to it to fund your usage) you’re not independent. If you pay someone a fair market rate with your hard earned money for the service you’re independent.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T22:05:35+00:00

If a woman wasn't willing to take my last name, I wouldn't marry her.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-08-04T22:02:56+00:00

Why is there no place for men to get attention like women?

Women with healthy bodies can easily go to the bars and clubs to get unlimited attention from men. Women love it when men beg women to talk to them and when men compete with each other to even get a chance to talk to women.

Women can go to majority male spaces and get attention from desperate men who will do anything she wants.

As a man, there is literally nowhere you can go to get similar attention from women. Hell, there is no place where women are simply receptive instead being wary and resistant/unresponsive to a man trying to make conversation with her like they normally are.

Women are privileged.

potoricco · 2023-08-04T21:41:07+00:00

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80% of men are not worthy of children yet

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T21:36:56+00:00

I think I may have said this before but we need to differentiate between women who are obsessed with career and women who just like to have a job and use their talents. I would not be attracted to the first kind of women while I definitely would be with the second kind. The manosphere lumps both together as if they were the same group.

meteorness123 · 2023-08-04T20:53:25+00:00

The reason why women become obsessed with having kids is rather psychological than biological. Women are highly valued for two things : Youth and motherhood. These two identities are central to the lives of most women. As you start losing your youth and your first identity, having kids will provide you with a strong, second identity. A place where you can comfortably and proudly reside in.

Since men are valued for other things (and partially because they have more time), the obsession is not nearly as severe. The result being that some men don't care for fatherhood. There is however another reason why men get used to the idea of having kids. Which is : It's about having something to do. Old men become invisible to young women (and they know they do) and having kids gives you something to do and focus on.

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