Daily Community Chat Megathread

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-05-17T11:38:01+00:00

My husband and I work opposite shifts today. Anyone just look over at your partner when they’re sleeping and just think, “fuck I love you.” ?

Habil13 · 2022-05-17T11:29:14+00:00

I got pickpocketed and lost my phone. I am never going clubbing on a Monday again.

Slipthe · 2022-05-17T11:26:50+00:00

Disney officially is replacing Jack Sparrow.

Willow-girl · 2022-05-17T11:23:40+00:00

Well here it is Tuesday morning, and I've already worked 24 hours this week. I haven't seen my cows since Friday. Really hope I'm not asked to work a double today ...

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T11:15:12+00:00

Good morning I’m horny

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-17T11:09:16+00:00

Just found out r/MGTOW got banned. Not surprised. You can say “not all MGTOW are bad” all you want, but if you don’t hold the bad ones accountable, you go down with them.

freeredditfrommods · 2022-05-17T10:55:01+00:00

World War Two was fought in vain

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-17T10:24:24+00:00

The victim mentality of some of the people on here is wild to me. How do you get around day-to-day with that massive fucking chip on your shoulder?

Katatonicsnake · 2022-05-17T10:22:00+00:00

I’m feeling pretty empty right now. I returned my master’s thesis to my professor last night, and this morning I had a meeting with a career counselor.

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-17T09:51:23+00:00

The threads are becoming quite repetitive and boring. I already know from reading the question what the top answer will be. Except for those rare quality posts the daily thread is where it’s at.

TheFinalDefender · 2022-05-17T09:41:27+00:00

Q4Men: if you want to leave behind a legacy, why not take more direction action?

Having kids is one of the most ineffective ways to do so. In a couple of generations your original genes will be completely washed out. Or...

You can bankroll a school that will bear your name and help tens of thousands of kids build a brighter future for themselves.

You can create an artistic masterpiece that will be admired for centuries to come.

You can make a scientific breakthrough and become one of the giants on whose shoulders humankind stands.

You can become an activist and go completely apeshit on corrupt sociopolitical institutions and make life better for millions in your country.

Why not make the world a better place with your own hands instead of relying on your descendants to do it for you?

Better_Decision7689 · 2022-05-17T09:32:07+00:00

It's interesting that given how much each gender moans about each other, so many bisexuals are heteroromantic.

hornyjailer1 · 2022-05-17T09:11:28+00:00

How/When the hell did "you are a pussy" (scaredy cat) start to mean vagina?

superincongruent · 2022-05-17T08:20:00+00:00

When I was in middle school, "Jim" was one of the slangwords for 'pedophile",

It looks like our total not-anglospherian "Jim" was permabanned by reddit. Too bad, because he was like the last guy here who actually gave an honest try to debate TRP, I liked the guy. He would still send his stinkcel army to downvote me, so soooo sorry if you got fbi honey trapped dude. Would love if you survived.

Also I'm from San Francisco and my country is the most slutty.

Tramelo · 2022-05-17T07:05:59+00:00

I've just read a post about a guy looking up a girl's interest on social media, becoming knowledgeable about them and managing to get a date because of it (supposedly because of it).

Many people in the comments said it was a bad move, that he should have been himself and that he should gradually start to show his true self.

The guy had trouble getting dates, he took action and did something that worked. Plus he also learned something new. It may not last, or maybe yes.

Everyone is quick to develop a poor opinion of you if you're a male virgin. Everyone constantly tells you to be yourself. What if being yourself is uninteresting or doesn't work? Shit sometimes it feels like nobody really knows how to help incels. But then this guy does something that works and everyone gives him shit for it.

What he did might be creepy or might not last in the end. But hey, better than nothing...

Or maybe it's actually a really bad thing?

superincongruent · 2022-05-17T07:05:50+00:00

Too much fat chick caping ITT. Let's celebrate all the awesome women who beat their eating disorders though athleticism, diet, discipline and high status men's expectations.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-05-17T05:42:21+00:00

I see a lot of love for fat women from certain elements on the sub so I’ve decided my new campaign is to do the same for some fat dudes I would bang given the following:

if I was single
he was single
somehow we met
he was into me.

Day 1: Haley Joel Osment

hornyjailer1 · 2022-05-17T05:29:27+00:00

Seeing a dumb ass bisexual woman go into an argument about men only providing financial security and have no more use but the dumb ass thot wont go date women but instead bitch about men. Aint that interesting.

Men bad. Date women then. Oh no no no something something. Bitch we all know the reason why you wont date women but keep going.

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-17T05:29:05+00:00

Impossible by I am King is a really nice song. I am seeing this same song by so many artists.

qtiphead97 · 2022-05-17T05:24:41+00:00

This probably isn’t a controversial point here, but I find it odd when I run into people with similar political views that mainly consume media that supports that view. Podcasts, YouTube videos, etc.

What is the point of interacting with that stuff after you understand the topic and where you align? It’s so much more interesting to see opposite perspectives and weird outliers on both sides

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-17T05:24:17+00:00

I can be your means of production

If you become my means of reproduction

Next week I'll make an even shittier pick up for you! ❤Luv you good night ❤️

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-17T05:22:58+00:00

So PPD and TRP seem very in favor of self-improvement, but what do they say in response to these words of wisdom?

EulenWatcher · 2022-05-17T05:21:14+00:00

I'm not sure why youtube recommended me her video, but I'm hooked. It's interesting to see how a girl dresses completely opposite to what you're used to.

Anti_Thing · 2022-05-17T05:19:54+00:00

Q4W: Would you date, have a relationship with, or marry a man with high-functioning autism/Asperger's (or something similar such as NVLD)?

RedditDeservesNoHero · 2022-05-17T05:04:57+00:00

Where does nailing your best friend ex while I was on a 10-hour coke & booze bender rate on the scumbag scale?

FenaPugi · 2022-05-17T04:59:26+00:00

I like how women consistently say 'women are not objects' as if that's not just some projection from her own experience or what they simply parrot from a self-help book, peers, friends and/ or relatives.

The converse statement is true. Men are not objects. We're not just objects in your narrative. Don't take any bs from your 'support network' if they begin to treat men in your life as if they're just objects to fantasise about for a str/ ltr or otherwise.

I don't expect much to change in saying this, realistic women still choose security over comfort when wanting to settle down. Realistic women choose comfort over security when they don't want to settle down with someone.

Smart women have opted out altogether, they're either asexual or they're lesbian. Funnily enough, they're also the demographic of women that are the least insufferable to be in the vicinity of.

BallisSTLife · 2022-05-16T19:59:39+00:00

Honestly I think some of the dating problems of the modern day could be solved with more community spaces and mandatory grass touching policies

the-lone-squid · 2022-05-16T22:56:59+00:00

So is this sub still a bunch of miserable people coping and arguing about who’s more miserable?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-16T21:30:31+00:00

Having a kid adds a lot of miles on a man’s body too.

There be dudes my age who look awful and them having a family to care of is the culprit of it

AquaChip · 2022-05-17T18:38:21+00:00

Men telling women they have to marry men uglier than them or they’ll get cheated on is wild.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-05-16T19:28:49+00:00

I've seen people claim the OK Cupid study has been debunked, where? I really have my doubts, because the basic conclusion stands so obviously to reason, I honestly suspect people just reject it because they don't like its implications.

Longshot_56 · 2022-05-16T20:30:44+00:00

Q4W: Do you also view it as trashy/unethical when other women broadcast their rejections of men on social media (assuming he wasn't creepy or threatening)?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-17T13:30:17+00:00

My wife said I was toxic masculinity so I chest bumped her onto the couch

OldSimpsonsisbetter · 2022-05-17T14:39:48+00:00

Men who are fat: "get in shape fatty, why are you so fat, get in the gym, no wonder you're an incel"

Women who are fat: "waaaah body shaming, body positivity, people can look good and be healthy at different body shapes!!!"

Would you say this is an accurate representation of how men and women are treated about their body? There's no acceptance of different body types for men. They are either attractive and in shape or they're not and no one coddles them. Women cry about people treating them differently because they are overweight and have to create social movements in order to get people to accept overweight and unhealthy female body types.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-17T19:07:02+00:00

Guys thinking women dating their 'looks match' will automatically mean women won't have to deal with assholes is such a "Nice Guy" fantasy.

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-05-16T19:34:48+00:00

AutoModerator has the weirdest fucking user history...

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-16T19:36:49+00:00

Lowkey A lot of dudes would greatly benefit from upgrading their wardrobe. I’m not saying you gotta have 4,000 dollar suits or anything like that but a change up would be nice.

Like you got guys who basically dress the same way they did in high school 15 years ago.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-05-16T20:38:39+00:00

Why do men get into relationships with women who aren't attracted to them/ aren't into sex and then complain about it?

annabeelongx · 2022-05-17T12:08:58+00:00

It’s really shocking how much of an impact good looking men have on women. If you’ve never seen a desperate woman, put a Chad in front of a group and you’ll understand.

A guy friend of mine was telling the story of how he has women from his past wanting to be with him still (despite him being in a relationship). One wanted to have his babies but he wasn’t ready. The other few hate him because he broke their heart, and the women at his work are upset at him because he won’t fuck them.

baresquad · 2022-05-17T18:22:43+00:00

Am I the only one that don’t give a fuck about this Johnny Depp and Amber Heard case? I feel like everybody’s like “see it happens to men too!”

We’ve already known this? Like I don’t need what happens to a celebrity to validate what I’ve seen and experienced

I think it’s kinda weird to make a spectacle out of

figuringMylife · 2022-05-16T22:03:22+00:00

hi will someone date for me? just text the guy until he wants to marry me

Anhilator26 · 2022-05-17T12:17:22+00:00

Female cosplay without making it slutty challenge: Impossible

https://twitter.com/aliyawill/status/1526254200312717312?s=21&t=L4TT1oOseA5jr8wbaKJuhQ

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-17T13:53:43+00:00

Shout out to u/PineappleGlazedHam for actually posting pics and putting the money where her mouth is. Everyone else straight fucking capping in this post

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-16T19:58:07+00:00

Body positivity

FineDevelopment00 · 2022-05-16T20:16:28+00:00

Did anybody see the lunar eclipse? Blood moons are so metal.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-05-16T22:21:15+00:00

ok i think i have some fresh content

do you think someone's (did the breaking up):(was broken up with) ratio is an indicator of their dating value?

golden_bear25 · 2022-05-17T12:34:37+00:00

Damn near every woman I’ve met has been cheated on including the ones with phat asses and pretty faces.

E-2-butene · 2022-05-17T14:39:00+00:00

I really fucking hate when to get in that awkward scenario where you haven’t taken time off of work in ages, but your work projects are also hitting critical mass and you can’t take time off for pragmatic reasons.

I just need a break… 😩

figuringMylife · 2022-05-17T14:39:01+00:00

i really wouldnt care about financial abortion if society were fair & kids wouldn’t be out here starving just cuz men wanted to get their dick wet.

like you’re affecting an actual child’s life. not the mother. a living, breathing child.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-17T15:41:24+00:00

it seems to me the table is usually evenly cut betwen people who want kids and think they'd be good parents, and people who don't want kids and think they'd be bad parents

does anyone here want kids but think they a bad parent? How do you reconcile that?

scwizard · 2022-05-17T16:25:44+00:00

LAWMAKER LIKENS HUMAN WOMEN TO SEA TURTLES TO EXPLAIN WHY THEY DON’T DESERVE RIGHTS | Montana senator Steve Daines is horrified by the idea of women having more bodily autonomy than animals who can’t speak

Yes. The lawmaker was saying that preborn sea turtles would have more protections than preborn humans, under the democrats law.

But somehow twox thinks it means they want human women to have the same rights as sea turtles like wtf.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-05-17T17:11:08+00:00

why is this sub so old? Whenever I'm in other subs, it seems everyone is younger than me. On here, it seems everyone is older than me

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T19:40:09+00:00

My bf is more attractive than me, should I prepare myself for a betrayal? 👀

decoy88 · 2022-05-16T20:16:20+00:00

Just watching the Amber Heard get destroyed in this trial rn.

I’m not sure is she can survive anymore.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-16T20:53:14+00:00

Q4A Have you ever actually known a woman irl who would send photos of her fucking a new guy to her ex to make him feel emasculated or to get back at him? Was watching Jarhead and there was a scene like this in it

smallstarseeker · 2022-05-16T21:01:02+00:00

Q4M When you feel sad who do you have to talk to?

tgirlbreeder90 · 2022-05-16T21:09:54+00:00

Date last night with transwoman was magical to say the least. Sorry I couldn't reply to the comments yesterday. Phone went dead.

To reply the comments from yesterday,

Yes it was a great time last night.

You can call her a man with hormones if you want. Thats so narrow minded of you.

And she gave head on the second date and we didn't have sex until the third.

YouAskedIt · 2022-05-16T21:35:27+00:00

Q4A

Hypothetical situation. You are dating/married to a person and you find them very attractive. You're in love and you've been together for a very long time. You think they're very beautiful/handsome.

They decide they want to get plastic surgery to fix some of their minor flaws or "perfect" some of their features. Nothing extremely dramatic, it will still look natural but it will definitely be different. It will just adjust their features to be a bit more traditionally attractive.

Would the change bother you because it's altered something you've fallen in love with and already thought was beautiful? Would it bother you for some other reason? Would it not matter to you at all? Basically just, what would your reaction be?

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-16T21:52:16+00:00

This one guy literally said they can’t put all of us in jail lololol

FenaPugi · 2022-05-16T22:39:25+00:00

I don't go to 4chan /pol too often and usually go there for their shit takes but that shit is a schizo mess right now.

0/10 Would highly recommend.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-16T23:20:43+00:00

Can greek yogurt replace sour cream in my taco?

slickle13 · 2022-05-17T00:04:28+00:00

Q4M: If you meet your 10/10 woman, which american accent would turn you off the most?

I nominate the Boston accent

YourMomGarglesMyCum · 2022-05-17T00:09:21+00:00

Anyone ever seen r/virgin?

Has to be the most depressing sub I’ve ever seen

Temporary-Drawing212 · 2022-05-17T13:27:57+00:00

The female delusion calculator is not accurate at all.

Age: 20 - 45 (Not married)

Any race

Height: 5'9 (exclude obese)

Min income: 25k

You will get an aspiring cat lady. The only way to be considered down to earth is if you make the min income of 10k. My thing is the average man is 5'9 if you are American. And google says they make an average of 35k. So is this inaccurate or are men really doing this poorly in life?

Practical-Sun-3451 · 2022-05-17T15:13:29+00:00

I’m doing a bit of psychology research at Northumbria University in the UK. I’m doing a quantitative study looking at the relationship between mental health (depression, stress and anxiety) and personality in men who identify as involuntarily celibate or incel.

If this is relevant to you, and if you could spare 10 minutes, I would sincerely appreciate it if you could fill out a quick survey. You just rate some statements on a scale of 1-5 for how true they are for you. There are no wrong answers and it is 100% anonymous – nobody will ever know you’ve done it and no personal information is collected at any point.

If you’re interested, here’s the link: https://nupsych.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV\_8H2lvqSc2vjaXvE

Please feel free to message me here or via my email if you want to know why the study is being done, or if you just want to talk!

scwizard · 2022-05-17T16:42:14+00:00

My ex kept bugging me for a baby. I wasn't against it but I was concerned as he was a "musician." I made him promise to support us for 6 months while I recovered and nursed the baby. He said if I had the baby he would "work so hard." Guess what? He didn't. On top of that he made me foot all the bills for the delivery, our utilities and other household expenses. Cue me working from home while literally breastfeeding. Don't try this.

I feel bad for her. She was in love. What is love if irrational? I'm kinda jealous I've never been with someone who I've felt feelings like that for.

AquaChip · 2022-05-17T18:12:54+00:00

I’ve had a 5G phone/plan for a month now and I can tell you without a doubt that 5G is the exact same as 4G

Yukbghhjj · 2022-05-17T18:30:41+00:00

Is wanting a big booty cutie who can twerk but isn’t high n count too much to ask for????

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MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-16T19:17:43+00:00

If you are my friend and I have something in my teeth, bad breath, or body odor I kinda expect you to tell me.

I’ve noticed women are more likely to do this with their female friends than men are with their male friends. Like I’ve seen dudes roast their male friends about this in public lol, while women will at least pull their friends to the side or go to the bathroom etc

BallisSTLife · 2022-05-16T19:18:37+00:00

Q4W: would you rather have 3 boobs or a single boob?!

slickle13 · 2022-05-16T21:47:33+00:00

what is an art hoe?

YourMomGarglesMyCum · 2022-05-16T21:52:04+00:00

How do I stop being such an overachiever? I’m currently studying at the best university in the country with a 4.0 GPA but my life is shit because of it.

I just want to be normal ffs

ppd_reject · 2022-05-16T23:45:18+00:00

Anybody plays Outlast? This is how a fan imagines Miles Upshur looks like: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/8e/98/41/8e984143d74a1ca0b6f04284f3f2eddb.jpg

Isn't he hot? I'd let that hit it all night long

Slootando · 2022-05-16T23:56:39+00:00

Other than making more money than them, making more money than their past/present/potential boyfriends, making more money than their male family members, making enough to “spoil” them, women are wonderful and don’t care about income ☺️

Fortunately I make enough to generally satisfy all those criteria. Yet, it’s rather amusing and/or black-pilling. I spend as little as possible on first dates. First dates will usually occur at my place.

scwizard · 2022-05-17T00:03:36+00:00

My life is going so good right now and I'm gonna have enough free time it's hard to justify avoiding dating.

I'm turning 33 soon too.

Before I start dating I need to clean my apartment sure. But after that the only pending thing is to start going to the gym.

Getting a car and drivers license, and cooking instead of eating out, sorry but those aren't happening. I don't want to make myself miserable trying to pretend like I'm someone I'm not.

Tidying up, cleaning and decorating the apartment will take a bit sure. Working on developing those habits. But once I do that and I start going to the gym I can't really make excuses anymore.

It's kinda scary to think about.

FenaPugi · 2022-05-17T13:01:57+00:00

PPDers, Prepare for your minds to not be anal probed by this undoubtedly anti-climactic upcoming UAP/ UFO hearing

ThisBoringLife · 2022-05-17T13:13:14+00:00

Not much to say about the standard ppd stuff, so here's a song about Long Legged Larry

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-05-17T14:20:22+00:00

What’s your thoughts on revenge porn? Have you ever been a victim? Do you know anyone?

Like 6 years ago this girl who I hooked up once with threatened to send my penis pic to my contacts on IG if I didn’t give her 200 dollars. I said nah. She didn’t end up doing it but she said she was.

I never slept with an unemployed woman again after that episode

slickle13 · 2022-05-17T14:28:25+00:00

Who’s better looking? more handsome? cuter?

Luka Doncic or Devin Booker?

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-17T16:34:29+00:00

Kinda interesting how for the guys who are good at it, they enjoy the chase, the trying to seduce her, playing the game. They end up bored once they have her. Lots of them end up moving on to other girls after a while. So there are men who enjoy this dance between the sexes.

We also have men who hate how hard it is, how much of a struggle it is and complain about how women are making it near impossible for them. So I think this comes down to...

if you are good at a game, you enjoy playing the game.

Bandit174 · 2022-05-17T17:57:16+00:00

I want to piggyback off that other question about whether you would date a disabled person.

What do you think is more of a hindrance to dating, having a disability or being facially unatractive?

For some examples I have linked people who have disabilities (wheel chair bound, ostomy bag, and no legs) but are decently attractive facially. Im not saying they are model caliber but they all have nice physiques , decent facial structure and welcoming smiles imo.

So compare those to a guy who has an ugly face lets say 3 /10 but no physical disabilities. Who do you think would have a harder time dating?

Guys with disabilities

example 1

example 2

example 3

Ugly guys:

example 1

example 2

annabeelongx · 2022-05-17T18:55:49+00:00

Bought a Floyd pink shirt even though I have never once listened to the band and don’t plan on doing so. Ahhh the detriments of a consumer society

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-05-17T19:05:14+00:00

So, Orlando girls are better looking than Asheville women and better looking than the women in my city

But nothing so far has beaten Atlanta imo

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-17T19:18:59+00:00

Q4A: Who is the closest thing to a male version of gimpgirl on PPD?

Willow-girl · 2022-05-17T23:19:25+00:00

THE EAGLE HAS LANDED! Fritzi-lah had her kittens ...

...five. She had FIVE kittens! :-o

Quite a feat for such a tiny cat. She is a very proud and happy little mama, though, curled up with her bebbies in a box under my workbench.

It blows my mind to think that we live in a world where the arrival of a batch of barn kittens brings so much joy, yet meanwhile women are marching and chanting for the right to kill their unborn children. In the grand scheme of things, human embryos ought to be worth at least as much as a kitten, don't you think?

I find hard-heartedness of our species nearly unbearable at times. Think I'll stay out here in my little shack with my man and cows and cats and let the mad world pass me by ...

att3nti0ns33k3r · 2022-05-17T04:55:21+00:00

I went on a date last night and the dude reminded me of weird al yankovic and not in a good way

slickle13 · 2022-05-17T04:40:21+00:00

Immortal Technique should have bullied Lin Manuel Miranda harder in school. Hamilton is a revisionist white washing of history and would be considered as such if it wasn’t given the uncle tom barely a token minority seal of approval.

Thomas Paine is the only based founding father https://youtu.be/CXv7aKvwt-A

simply_fab · 2022-05-17T04:37:43+00:00

I’m 90% sure this sub is hurting my chances of ever losing my virginity or having a relationship. To be clear, I suck on my own, but after months of reading this sub, my view of relationships is so fucking weird.

att3nti0ns33k3r · 2022-05-17T04:34:58+00:00

Serious question that may be racebaiting but I am genuinely just curious

I am on the thicker side, similar to that sports illustrated cover but more in the thighs less in the stomach

Black dudes tend to LOVE my body while white men seem to see me as too fat (I’m white btw) is there a reason to this or is it just one of those things

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-17T04:32:29+00:00

I’ve been so busy ripping on Incels, I almost forgot one of my most hated type of female: The ‘Independent’ Entitled Princess.

“I am a strong woman that dont need no man! No one should judge me!…..Also pay for all the frivolous shit I want! I deserve it!”

I’ll never get over a woman claiming how advanced a country is should be based on how much free shit the country gives her. “What? You expect people to pay for shit they dont need?! You must live in a 3rd world country!”

HoholHoleHunter · 2022-05-17T04:27:23+00:00

Movies, Shows or other media that will help me learn to understand and love women? No pua shit or relationship advice garbage, I just want to stop finding every woman my age to be highly sensitive insufferable r*tards

I've done all the self introspection I can. My male friends comment on how less cynical I have been recently with them. But I cannot turn off the switch with women as I just do not get them at all. They are just more sensitive, more judgemental, less funny and less enjoyable humans than most men to me, nearly across the board. Completely platonic friendships with them are boring at best draining at worst. I just want a movie or show or even a (SHORT) book to help me feel a bit better about them, maybe even understand them a bit more

Background to how I got like this: mom died when I was 11, no sisters, only a few work or school based female friends, all female relatives including cousins 12+ years older than me with 3+ kids so kinda grown past a lot of the traits I dislike about women.

MrMushySauce · 2022-05-17T04:11:21+00:00

Yo what are the tips and tricks to tell if someone is fat on a dating app

Totally asking for a friend and definitely not because I'm vibing with a girl who has a really pretty face and I can't for the life of me figure it out before I actually have to very awkwardly find out in person lmfao

edit: will describe pics upon request but not posting them bc thats weird lmao

mackenzie013_02 · 2022-05-17T04:06:40+00:00

Last day of work is June 9th! Summer break here I come! ☀️👒🧴

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-17T04:04:24+00:00

Shoulder day! How many of you do weight training? What's your fav day?

Potential_Respond224 · 2022-05-17T03:49:15+00:00

I'd say that <5% of people here actually read CMVs with an intention to understand OPs point

Rather than judge it.

Then come on here complaining about how no one changes their mind

hdksndiisn · 2022-05-17T03:38:22+00:00

Am I still banned

Edit: wooo I’m not still banned

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-05-17T03:35:27+00:00

I missed that single mom thread yesterday.

Heres some questions for those single moms who are currently in a relationship/marriage:

If you didn't have a child (or children) would you still choose the person you are currently with? Did the fact that the individual seems to be more stable have an influence on you being with your current partner?

*This more so for moms who had children before getting married, but divorced (and widowed) moms can answer too.

ETA: For example, your type of guy is older and much taller, but you are with a guy who is yonger and much skinnier.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-05-17T03:28:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/uqvbgr/im_so_tired_of_the_sex_first_date_after_culture/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Oh cry me a river. Date other women if you don't wanna have sex with men, for the love of God I wish they'd stop whining though. Oh no! A guy didn't want to get to know you and just wanted sex? Get over it.

PeanutBetaAndJelly · 2022-05-17T03:27:37+00:00

Thicc/curvy/fat women seem to be on everyone's radar today because of that Sports Illustrated cover. So here is a question: Do you think that skinny guys are more likely than others to go for chubby girls? Apparently this is somewhat of a trope now. Could it be that opposites attract? Have you encountered this yourself?

withfreewhill · 2022-05-17T03:16:58+00:00

CMV if ppl worship privilege so much the world wars were for nothing

IveGotIssues9918 · 2022-05-17T02:26:44+00:00

So I was late to the "dating for men is like a job interview" thread, but here's my take on it:

The guy who posted that was approaching the situation with a belief that he's completely powerless, which is a bad mindset to have even in job hunting, never mind in dating.

For all the talk about how "women are the choosers", men are also the choosers in that they choose who to approach in the first place. Not to mention that men are the "gatekeepers of relationships" while women are the "gatekeepers of sex". Just because the selection process (traditionally) occurs at different times for different genders doesn't mean that it's one-sided.

Let's go with this job application metaphor. Sure, employees send their applications to recruiters, but what happens before an employee applies to a job? In today's world, they go on LinkedIn or Indeed or ZipRecruiter or whatever and choose which jobs they are going to apply to. Depending on what kind of job they're looking for and how specific their wants are, they may have few options, but if their wants are broad they will have thousands (given the sheer number of jobs on Indeed). Most people will not apply for jobs that they are overqualified for and/or don't pay well, unless they are REALLY desperate, so the less well-paying jobs have fewer and shittier applicants. The company also needs employees just as much as the employees need a job- a company can't run without employees- so the employees do have SOME amount of leverage, and the better/more qualified the employee and the harder it would be to replace them, the more leverage they have. Just like the company can fire the employee if/when they find someone better, the employee can quit the job if/when they find something better- people always seem to forget that "at-will employment" goes both ways.

For all of TRP's faults, one good thing is that it at least presupposes to try to get men out of this powerless mindset. The average woman does not look at dating as though she is a queen sitting on a throne making peons dance for her amusement- if she can't get what she wants easily, she'll feel powerless too. But the truth is that neither of you are. Both of you have to mutually choose each other; it's not up to one person.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-17T02:09:03+00:00

Who do you think is nice okay with an out of shape/chubby partner men or women?

geniusundercover · 2022-05-17T02:07:30+00:00

Wow on average of every thread there are very few likes and hundreds of comments ... I think you guys should spend less time here 🤡

buncrumbs · 2022-05-17T02:05:52+00:00

would you rather: a partner who can kiss well but cuddles are always uncomfy OR a partner who cuddles amazingly but is bad at kissing?

edit: for the rest of your lives

PineappleGlazedHam · 2022-05-17T01:51:48+00:00

I’ve spent way too much time trying to hunt down a pair of leggings that I saw on Pinterest, but the only sites that seem to re-host the pictures are the overseas scam sites with low quality fakes.. I can’t find the original creator. :(

figuringMylife · 2022-05-17T01:47:11+00:00

gonna send this to my new boyfriend 🥰

MisterJose · 2022-05-17T01:41:49+00:00

I just wish I could tell every internet-glued guy in the world that the women he talks to online do not represent all women.

Even when it comes to something like strippers. Online? Strippers are mega-bitches who want all men to know they hate their frigging guts and news flash don't touch them they're there to dance not be your fondling toy and if you spank them you're fucking committing sexual assault and don't dare look for sex you disgusting pig that's not our job.

Real life? Strippers are mostly cool, varied, expect you to touch them a lot, and most of them are either down for spanking or totally love it. Half of them will fuck you for enough money. Some of them might even let you finger them during a lap dance - I had one girl who I dared to do that with once, and I had so much anti-male stuff in my head that I got worried I had like traumatized her. So I found her and asked her if I had gone too far. "What? No! If anything you didn't go far enough!" Hmm...turns out feminists on the internet tend to be on the more neurotic and sensitive side of things. Shocking.

buncrumbs · 2022-05-17T01:39:38+00:00

Some premises: For every age, there is a limit to the level of maturity one can reach. As age increases, the level of maturity increases correspondingly. Everyone has either reached the 'mature' status for their age, or are less than 'mature' for their age. Intermediate conclusion: There is no such thing as 'mature for your age' Conclusion: I must protect the 19 year old girls!! Thoughts?

annabeelongx · 2022-05-17T01:35:41+00:00

What are some good places to find a man?

SockInCloset · 2022-05-17T01:23:17+00:00

I’m fatphobic. Women that most people call “curvy” are legit fat to me. I’ve tried to be more to open expanding the type of woman I’m attracted to but I’m only into slim, feminine women with long hair. I’m most attracted to white women with brown hair and eyes.

YourMomGarglesMyCum · 2022-05-17T01:01:27+00:00

Does anyone have any good Netflix show recommendations?

I want it to be a feel-good show where you really connect with the characters, yknow?

I’m sick of rewatching Grey’s Anatomy again and again.

YourMomGarglesMyCum · 2022-05-17T00:56:47+00:00

I fucking hate clubbing.

So crowded and so noisy, how does anyone like this shit ?!?

buncrumbs · 2022-05-17T00:49:56+00:00

I grew up poor but I wish I was born into a wealthy family so I could look like a hot rich girl. they're attractive because they believe they're valuable. but I guess humans adapt which is the reason I'm glad I grew up poor.

edit: do you like hot rich girls?

trolazoirrecuperable · 2022-05-17T00:46:30+00:00

this is a really interesting read I’m sure some of you guys might be interested in. Looking for your opinions on what I wrote.

SeaSquirrel · 2022-05-17T00:41:44+00:00

This is a not humble, full brag comment.

I got drunk with my SO this weekend, and she randomly asks “whose arms are these? when the hell did your arms get bigger?”

literally just 2 months of gym effort. gym is OP.

YourMomGarglesMyCum · 2022-05-17T00:40:52+00:00

I’m sad.

What do you guys do when you’re sad?

scwizard · 2022-05-17T00:36:33+00:00

Topless blonde girl with deshevelled hair feeding watermelon to her boyfriend and kissing him. That's an interesting sight.

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-17T00:18:58+00:00

This is the cover of the 2022 sports illustrated magazine , is this what the PPD calls fat ?

rivetcitymayor · 2022-05-16T19:26:27+00:00

There has been the quote-meme trend lately on social media , it’s pretty much women saying they want their boyfriends to be obsessed with them. Talking about if he’s not obsessed with you, leave him

Bro who is writing these things ?!!

-TheHydra- · 2022-05-16T19:27:43+00:00

Apparently my n count thread the other day made some "dogs of female gender" uncomfortable. Cognitive dissonance can do that to you.

I can see now why the sub has become a bloop circlejerk lately. Personally I don't understand why you would participate in a sub named "purple pill debate" if you can't stomach interacting with red pill views but I'm weird and like being logically congruent. Shame because this is a good sub.

As a sidenote, it seems the "s-word that means high n woman" triggers the adminbots.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-16T19:28:21+00:00

Ok a little game courtesy of u/figuringmylife

Q4W, you have 4 options

1: Alpha Bux, this dude makes the big money and also will satisfy you sexually, but not emotionally and will cheat on you. He will be deceptive and manipulative about it as well. He also will absolutely not commit.

2: Alpha no bux, this dude will not work or make the bare minimum to survive, but will satisfy you sexually and emotionally. But he will still cheat and be deceptive about it. This guy will commit (meaning he'll get married and raise children) but will cheat.

3: Beta Bux, this dude will provide and commit, but will not satisfy you sexually. He will do everything else that is needed of the relationship, except being attractive.

4: Harem/Pimp Guy, this guy will not provide monetarily at all, but will satisfy you sexually and emotionally and also will commit and raise children and everything else. However, he will do this with other women as well, and you will have to share your turn with him.

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-05-16T20:23:00+00:00

Day 33 of music sharing. Wagakki Band - Senbonzakura. Like the combination of rock and traditional japanese instruments.

buncrumbs · 2022-05-16T21:18:49+00:00

Men who are sure they want kids, what is your reasoning? What about the possibility your kids won't be happy? Men who are not sure, why seek a partner or continue in a relationship when you don't know if you want children?

the-lone-squid · 2022-05-16T23:05:07+00:00

I miss the mgtow subs.. and NNN.. why do SJW’s have to ruin my trolling fun?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-05-17T12:03:55+00:00

Slut or a harlot

A lady or someone's daughter

You started innocent

Now you're about as far as the stars from it

Madonna/whore complex in some old lyrics I just heard lol

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-05-17T15:55:01+00:00

This subreddit: No fault divorces are awful!

Also this subreddit: What's the point of having prenups!

Mark_Freed · 2022-05-17T16:24:59+00:00

YouAskedIt · 2022-05-17T16:28:31+00:00

Q4A This only applies to a new relationship, not a partner that becomes sick or injured.

Would anyone here be open to being in a serious relationship with someone that has a severe genetic/physical/mental disability that impacts their ability to function independently? Would you be willing to have kids with that person knowing there's a decent chance that your child would also be disabled? Are you willing to physically take care of your partner?

biggestuzifanea · 2022-05-17T16:52:44+00:00

Sobering fact middle age for men is actually around 37, so a mid life crisis is like an end of life crisis

scwizard · 2022-05-17T17:25:47+00:00

Babe, once I get my record deal, I'm going to name our boat after the person most important to me in life, you.

I got invited to this party, and Hutch might show up, and Hutch is friends with Jacob, the producer. I have a really good feeling about this one.

figuringMylife · 2022-05-16T19:18:26+00:00

ppd_reject · 2022-05-16T19:27:58+00:00

Michael Lucas 1:69-70

Thou shalt shave your asshole and cleanse it with holy water for it might be eaten by thy neighbor.

God bless!

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