Daily Community Chat Megathread

Bandit174 · 2022-09-13T19:42:34+00:00

Women: I won't date a guy under 6ft because tall guys make me feel more feminine and protected

Men: I won't date promiscuous women because low body count women make me feel more masculine and more safe from infidelity/divorce

Women: Reee! That's not a valid preference! Thats sexist and misogynistic!

meteorness123 · 2022-09-13T15:57:53+00:00

My plan is to bang some hotties and then settle for a good, educated, only moderately attractive girl who's likely to be a good mother to my kids !

Nothing better than a good, safe, financialy stable beta becky !

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-09-13T17:03:26+00:00

How to figure out a woman's real body count: multiply the weight of her cat (in lbs) by the number of gay men in her friend group.

Works like a charm.

17milestoempty · 2022-09-13T15:23:54+00:00

I’m truly blown away at how much men here think about other mens dicks & then project that onto women like just because you’re thinking about other mens dicks all day doesn’t mean we are.

It’s weird how penis obsessed some of y’all are and how you believe dicks are so gross that a woman touching one “ruins her,” but like your penis is special & magically not gross? Give me a break.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-13T14:03:56+00:00

Ooh first for the first time!

Today’s thought from Poppy.

Maybe I’m too old but I just do not understand why so many of you have such an aversion to work/effort while also believing you’re entitled to live some glamorous life and get everything you dream about.

I take great pride in hard work. I take great pride in the things I’ve accomplished through hard work. To me something isn’t worth having if it came easy to me.

Why is this so upsetting for so many men on this sub?

cdreh0 · 2022-09-16T02:03:10+00:00

Well bummer, hoping i could find a megchat. PPD was lit today on 9/15, I rarely participate but I was impressed by the level of crazy today.

Woke up to reading about how fembots will replace women, and when challenged, the poster argued that they watched an anime to prove their point they claimed as fact.

Just went downhill from there, the one "scientific" study on oxytocin and how women don't love men or sex and soley care about resources. Now the stuff I'm reading on my bed-time scroll. Fun day for sure.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-09-14T15:59:53+00:00

I’m gonna vote conservative just to spite Redditors.

gastongang · 2022-09-14T15:03:58+00:00

if you talk all it takes to be a chad is having empty meaningless sex, well that's why you are not one.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sgKK0YRQyMQ

UnclaimedFortune · 2022-09-14T15:00:34+00:00

I took a break from this place for a few months and came back and it’s the same shit..

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-14T14:57:11+00:00

Why can’t more women just admit that women have an easier time in dating/relationships/sex than men? Like y’all should be proud of having this privilege and power over men. Why deny it? Because you want to be a victim?

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-13T17:02:41+00:00

TIL woman in my country can retire 5 years earlier than men by law.

Imagine if it was the other way around.

AreOut · 2022-09-13T21:01:36+00:00

going to dating(advice) sub and reading those stories hits totally different after you get redpilled...

daniiiuiiil · 2022-09-14T02:22:01+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a woman admit that she’s shit at sex on here, or any other subreddit for that matter. Legit every situation deflects the blame on the male, porn use, or a combination of both

Couldn’t stay hard? Pornsick

Didn’t last long enough? Loser

Lasted too long? Pornsick

Couldn’t make her cum? Inexperienced

Couldn’t come yourself? Pornsick

She’s boring? Pornsick

She’s bored of you? Loser who can’t perform

Didn’t wanna give her head? Hypocrite loser

She didn’t wanna give you head? Pornsick, why do you need it?

Her body is unattractive? This isn’t a porno you loser

Your body turns her off? Fatass, hit the gym loser

She didn’t stay after? She was probably scared of you

You didn’t stay after? You manipulated her

It’s truly amazing how the gender who doesn’t put out most of the time HATES the solution to their problem. It’s almost like it was never about sex in the first place, it’s about controlling men

Sudden_Substance7914 · 2022-09-13T14:33:07+00:00

I’m seeing a model right now. She’s almost my height. She’s 5’9” and I’m 5’11”. She wore heels on our last date and was about the same height as me with heels on. It doesn’t bother me and doesn’t seem to bother her. Just a PSA for the guys here insecure about their height.

Willow-girl · 2022-09-13T15:34:46+00:00

I just witnessed a larceny in progress and I'm not sure to whom I should report it.

Claudia strutted onto the patio with a nice juicy mouse, of which she was promptly relieved by her thieving sister Mignonette ...

Main-Leek7908 · 2022-09-13T19:26:32+00:00

None of the men here constantly talking about how poor of partners high n people supposedly make ever link to actual journal articles about studies, with complete methodology sections. You literally cannot evaluate the validity of a study without that. If you link a journalism article that supposedly summarizes a study, but that article has no link to a legitimate journal article complete with ALL the results and methodology sections, that is not sufficient evidence to suppport your claim and I will not take anything you say seriously because you know know about how stats work

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-13T20:25:15+00:00

Omg I take back every I said about feminine men. They are sooo precious and attractive

HeroinAndHeartbreak · 2022-09-13T20:52:00+00:00

men who care about n count just want to make themselves feel better. if you aren't first your last. your girl who's had 3 dicks isnt any "purer" than a girl who's had 30, she was just worse at being promiscuous lol

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-09-13T20:55:46+00:00

I wonder why our "types" form in our subconscious and why we develop specific "weaknesses" for certain features.

I would assume it has to do with the "imprinting" theory, but that'd be easily debunked when you consider...certain demographics dating each other, hell, even so in my case.

(for instance, my mom's a tall black woman with black hair. taking this theory into account, there's no reason for my type to be petite white brunettes)

It's one of the more interesting parts of human attraction imo.

Patrickstarho · 2022-09-13T21:47:46+00:00

Watching joe rogan pod and he has a psychologist who’s talking about trauma. I feel like women got a point when they talk about trauma now.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-13T21:57:44+00:00

Actually, I've come to change my mind in terms of body count, she doesn't necessarily have to have a low body count, she just needs to have a lower count than me. I have to have the higher count.

Is this purely an ego thing? Yes, yes it is. But when is it not an ego thing for me?

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-13T23:23:24+00:00

In elementary school I used to get made fun of by this fat girl for being short so I started making fun of her by mimicking what she would say while putting on this stereotypical fat girl voice. She told the teacher and he went to my mom to tell her what I was doing but he made me tell my mom myself. So I told her what I was doing and why I did it and gave her a demonstration of how I did it. My mom and brother busted out laughing. Teacher looked mad annoyed. My mom asked how come I couldn’t make fun of her for being fat if she made fun of me for being short and he said some bs about how what I was doing was way worse. Gave me silent lunch the next day smh

baresquad · 2022-09-14T01:33:12+00:00

Cmv: Nice guys string women along under the facade of being romantics who are nice and treat women right

They save face by presenting themselves as Romeo wanna be’s and pedestal themselves to feed a superiority complex by tearing down other men they call “bad boys.” Which is just any and every man they deem unworthy of a womens’ attention but easily attract their attention

So many women have been led on and lied to by nice guys but yet they argue that they’re more deserving than other men of dating and relationships when truth is, nice guys finish last because after being burned a few times, women see through the facade

They’re their own worst enemy

liefelijk · 2022-09-13T14:36:55+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/xd3rjb/guy_has_meltdown_over_his_friendzoner_getting_a/

Poor guy.

redemption_soon1 · 2022-09-13T15:08:10+00:00

How many left-leaning feminists view and speak on issues facing men in relationships, essentially telling them to "get over it and just work hard" while ignoring more structural issues, is ironically the same way their ideological opponents on the political right speak about poor people. Both sides seem to not make the connection.

ririsbaby · 2022-09-13T16:20:18+00:00

My BPD is trying to ruin my life again but at least I baked some chocolate filled croissants to lift up my spirits :’) It was my first time ever making croissants and I have to say they turned out well

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-13T16:55:18+00:00

When she’s willing to beat up another woman for your dick 😍

DisasterPeace7 · 2022-09-13T18:55:17+00:00

The leg wrap around she does while you're cumming in her missionary chefs kiss

That being said potentially baby number four on the way this next Spring/early summer 🤣

empresa_josefina · 2022-09-13T19:10:14+00:00

Started frauding my height on OLD (I’m 6’2” and I switched it to 6’3”) and I’m getting more matches.

Are women seriously putting hard cutoffs st 6’3”? These new women are like 5’7”.

It’s a brave new world.

tired_hillbilly · 2022-09-13T20:35:59+00:00

Day 2 of my new webdev job and I still haven't actually done any work yet. Just meetings and waiting for trainings that never happened due to tech issues. Something tells me this company is not long for this world.

flash13131313 · 2022-09-13T21:03:00+00:00

I know divorce rates are broken down by race but it would really be interesting to see that crossed with generational status

AcanthocephalaNew947 · 2022-09-13T23:24:45+00:00

There’s a lot of negging posts here today what’s in the water?

friendly_deviant · 2022-09-14T01:13:22+00:00

There's some horny energy at work oozing out of everyone's panties and boxers. I give it one more week before our boring meetings turn into a full blown orgy with the IT dude in the middle.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-14T02:01:14+00:00

"Still hit tho" is still the most unbeatable argument out there.

"Oh you were small."

Still let me hit though

"I didn't even finish lmao"

Cool? I finished.

"You're ugly"

Not ugly enough apparently

"You're a bum"

I still hit though

lulll · 2022-09-14T02:13:20+00:00

why arent ppd women learning to play the harp and become forest musical fairies that summon deers?

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-13T15:16:42+00:00

Q4A

Which of these behaviors from a person you're talking to on OLD do you like and which do you dislike?

Good morning texts, yay or nay?
Calling you "love" or "beautiful", (for example, "hello, beautiful"), yay or nay?
Sending random selfies, yay or nay?

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-13T16:11:25+00:00

There’s probably mad people who lurk this sub for years but never comment.

I wonder why, is there any sub you follow but don’t comment at all?(aside from ones you were banned from)

scwizard · 2022-09-13T17:04:27+00:00

A close friend of mine carefully chose a couple to adopt her baby. They seemed wonderful, and everyone agreed on an open adoption. After they got the baby, they completely froze her out after I think 2 visits. Open adoptions are only legally enforceable in a few states, and this wasn't one of them.

It's been about 7 years and she still thinks about the baby every single day. She's moved on with her life, gotten married, had other children, been to therapy. That hole will always be there for her. It makes me so sad.

Adoption isn't a replacement for abortion. I don't know why people think that way.

The implication of comments like this, is that the child should have been aborted because it would have better protected the moms feelings. It's just sick.

meteorness123 · 2022-09-13T17:30:09+00:00

I can't fault women for participating in casual sex. If I were a woman and met a guy like me, I'd probably give in as well. Insane, monk-like levels of self-control would be necessary to resist.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-13T17:39:08+00:00

Pornstar twitter is hilarious, it's retweeting lonely tweets, complaining about how hard they have it, and flying to a different country every week.

errrright · 2022-09-13T19:20:37+00:00

Q4M - does it upset you if your partner has done certain non-vanilla sex acts with men before you, even if you aren't particularly interested in trying those sex acts?

Bikerbats · 2022-09-13T20:02:57+00:00

Day 10 of bachelorhood. I can't stand to look at another TV dinner. I do most of the cooking, but I can't find the motivation to cook for just myself. Despite having a jokingly named (conjugal visit) on Sunday, I'm still lonely. Worst part is that my wife finds my aggravation "cute" because in her words, two weeks is nothing. I'm happy that my wife is enjoying #8 so much, and I'm happy that my daughter has her mother as she recoups from childbirth, but fuck...the little boy in me is pissed off.

baresquad · 2022-09-13T20:07:12+00:00

People who said overturning Roe was to give states the power to enact forced birth laws are either extremely gullible or just plain stupid. Republicans introduced a proposed federal abortion ban which has clearly always been the endgame

It’s all obviously retribution politics to appease specific crowds that want to see women punished for daring to have sex and the men they fuck also punished for being the ones the women chose to have sex with

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-13T21:12:50+00:00

"All girls are the same, they're rotting my brain"

Juice WRLD must've visited here

liefelijk · 2022-09-13T21:33:43+00:00

Posted this in another thread, but I felt you guys deserved to see it, too.

A boob “selfie” from 1828, painted by a woman and sent to her lover. Things change, but they also stay the same.

https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/14521

labormarket · 2022-09-13T22:05:02+00:00

how will scotus striking down affirmative action affect college and early 20's dating?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-09-13T22:42:37+00:00

royals age like milk seriously

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-09-13T22:43:00+00:00

I still can't believe we threw away the entire economy just to save some half-dead boomers. The boomers are the most entitled and selfish generation ever. Haven't they gotten enough of exploiting everyone else already? Couldn't they just die with a slight ounce of dignity?

Voting in zoning laws to prevent affordable housing and forcing their own impoverished kids to pay for their social security and Medicare on top of this all.

These next few months will be catastrophic economically.

PM_ME_YOUR_CANCON · 2022-09-13T23:25:56+00:00

What do you think would happen to low status young adult males if society collapsed? Do you think they would have a good chance of being accepted into a group or do you think they would be cast out after being killed for their ressources? What would you do if you were a low status guy in a collapsing (I don’t mean zombies or revolutions) society? Since you had no community, would you find an isolated low population density area to move to and with a few months worth of supplies till the worst blew over or would you try to join a community?

annabeelongx · 2022-09-13T23:41:29+00:00

How plausible is it to find a partner in church? Is it better vetting?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-13T23:41:46+00:00

Q4w: did you cum yet

cruciod · 2022-09-14T00:15:30+00:00

Q4M: in a different, ideal world, how many baby daddies would you have?

(Women can answer pretending as men too)

purplish_possum · 2022-09-14T01:11:04+00:00

Got a new murder case but we have to conflict. There were nine people at the scene. Our office previously represented seven of them. Too bad seemed like an interesting case. One guy's dead. Another guy is in jail. However, the women at the scene were also involved but not arrested. At least not for this -- all three women have open felony cases.

FFTzzz · 2022-09-14T01:43:12+00:00

Q4A

What is the strangest thing you just had to put up your butthole?

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-09-14T02:12:11+00:00

Fellas, next time an ignorant femcel tries to hit you with the "um actually single women are the hApPiEsT dEmOgRaPhIC" counter with this red pill: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_marriage_really_bad_for_womens_happiness

Sourced from UC Berkeley rather than some stupid feminist tabloid.

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NICHIJOU2411 · 2022-09-13T14:04:05+00:00

lewdakuma · 2022-09-13T14:43:54+00:00

q4m: buff women?

jackedsoon · 2022-09-13T15:34:49+00:00

Why are women so friendly towards each other, it mindfucks me so hard. A bitch will turn around in club and make w friend just by saying smthing like ‘ur so pretty’. Its so alien to me how random women be doing this shit.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-09-13T16:02:02+00:00

"Carlos III Health Institute in Madrid discovered that fathers lose a percentage or two of cortical volume, which can ultimately affect mental function."

This explains a lot about blue pillers and simps

OkConcentrateNow · 2022-09-13T16:05:07+00:00

Would it be a good idea to ask her out again? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/xamjci/daily_community_chat_megathread/inylmjl/

Tbh, my gut feeling is that she was interested considering how she was behaving until I asked her out for lunch and how she had accepted it without hesitation, but then it got weird due to that guy overhearing us and she probably got self conscious.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-09-13T16:29:08+00:00

What's a word/ term someone can use to instantly turn you off?

decoy88 · 2022-09-13T16:36:24+00:00

“Unconditional Love doesn’t exist! 🤪”

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-09-13T16:48:24+00:00

Q4W: would you rather be thought of as hot or cute?

scwizard · 2022-09-13T16:56:02+00:00

I'm a victim of a crisis pregnancy center, 26 years later

1996, South Texas. I was 18 and 7 weeks along. A medical provider (that I thought offered abortions) convinced me that it would be a sin to end the pregnancy. I was convinced into carrying the pregnancy to term, and by extension, giving my son up for adoption.

Half of the intro packets from adoptive parents made it clear that they would only accept child if it happened to be white.

That child is 26 years old this week. I hope he has an amazing life.

After giving him up, my life stalled. What good is a woman who can't raise her own child? It's 26 years later and I still can't breathe. I'm guilty. I'm tainted. I wasn't good enough.

When pro-lifers say that adoption is a legitimate option, they don't acknowledge the psychological damage of giving up a child.

It's been 26 years and I still cry, I still yearn, I can't move on. I was supposed to have a choice, and they took that away and replaced it with this eternally unanswerable anxiety. Is he happy? Did they give him choices?

Wtf how is she is a victim?

[Pro lifers] enjoy putting women through suffering as a penance for the independence and autonomy we have earned in the last 150 years

TIL that raising someone's child for them is literally torture.

CruelAngelGradThesis · 2022-09-13T18:11:34+00:00

Lalaloopsy or whatever the user who cursed me with premium is called.

My beautiful eyeless abomination profile picture has been replaced by snoo. I hope you're happy now.

-angels-fan- · 2022-09-13T18:44:45+00:00

Lily James is a 10

2022-09-13T20:22:25+00:00

Ready for that day in life when I can leave the bitches who used to leave me on “lol” on read.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-13T21:43:54+00:00

Do men here on this sub who hear about female teachers sleeping with high school students ever think "I wish I had a teacher like her when I was in school" or "If I banged a teacher like her I would have kept it a secret to the grave"?

Patrickstarho · 2022-09-13T22:34:21+00:00

A lot of women still behave like children which is why when you see a woman that is mature in herself it’s like damn that’s wifey.

lulll · 2022-09-13T23:34:56+00:00

i present to you a new form of pua, sliding

gastongang · 2022-09-13T23:43:55+00:00

it is absolutely fucking wild just how close we are to societal collapse, it seems that everyone you look there is a food crisis, gas crisis, monetary crisis, dating crisis, civil liberty infringement, encroachments by foreign powers

I think either we get an American Caeser or Rome is going to fall

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-09-14T00:12:15+00:00

Q4w: what do you want for dinner?

FFTzzz · 2022-09-14T00:25:15+00:00

Q4A

What color is your buttplug fidget spinner?

Main-Leek7908 · 2022-09-14T00:39:56+00:00

Q4all: what is your gender, and did you experience the “virgin cling” when you lost your virginity? If you’ve taken others’ virginities, did they get clingy afterwards?

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-14T00:48:19+00:00

I just want a girl built like Superbootynikki 🥵

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-14T14:46:20+00:00

Even when Americans ignore Biden, locals democrats arent doing much better. Their lockdowns were terrible, their ACAB bail reform movements are getting people killed, and swing states dont appreciate what theyre attempting to do in school with CRT and having teachers talk to kids about LGBTs rather than their ABCs.

BTW you can support LGBT people without thinking 5 year olds need to be told theyre pansexual demigirls.

LaloTwins · 2022-09-14T14:21:58+00:00

Thoughts on this video I think this woman might be the most self aware woman on the planet

Infinite_Signal90 · 2022-09-14T14:09:47+00:00

How many cups is coffee a day is too much? On no.4 and I can barely keep my eyes open.

dragonfly-crash · 2022-09-14T13:57:09+00:00

generalized conclusions about the dating market arent actually that helpful for individuals, since the individual can operate context of outliers and extremes just as they can operate in the context of the average.

as long as individuals exploit a niche while also being part of (the same or a different niche), you can eventually find what you want.

the issue arises when someone is part of no niche. They allow themselves to be undistinguishable from the average in every possible meaningful way. Sadly, this is most people.

teball3 · 2022-09-14T13:45:42+00:00

I'm trying to get back in the gym 3 days a week, nothing major, just push/pull/leg days. I know some heavy lifters will call that baby shit, but I have too many hobbies keeping me busy to commit much more time. Anyway, I'm struggling to find a medium here, because I just kind of finished hitting my goal weight by dieting (to diet, I went down to 1 meal per day, because I can't resist high calorie drinks) and now I'm trying to hit the gym again to put on muscle, but I've gotten into the habit of my diet, so now I don't even know what to do to break it and eat more. Or if I even should be trying to eat more. Any tips?

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-09-14T13:45:34+00:00

in my experience men prefer really nice women over psychos.

chilikettlechips · 2022-09-14T13:41:01+00:00

Q4W: be honest did you floss, brush and use mouth wash today?

scwizard · 2022-09-14T13:32:13+00:00

The problem is that men are trying to act like victims when the reality is that they don't know, never have known, and refuse to know a world where they're not given everything they want by default, and that's not victimhood.

Women no longer have to rely on men for financial or social security. Men didn't forget how to build relationships with women, they just lost a general ability to coerce women into a submissive role by using these societal pressures. Being a white male was once their only social skill.

Society isn't oppressing men. Men are slowly losing male privilege and their feelings are hurt. They get to experience sucky society like the rest of us.

So basically saying the reason 30% of men are sexless is that they don't deserve sex and women are no longer coerced into having sex with them?

HazyMemory7 · 2022-09-14T13:31:04+00:00

My thread hit the shitpost filters and got approved in less than 10 mins, color me impressed.

nothatyoucare · 2022-09-14T12:31:31+00:00

I'm going to make a PPD bingo card. Every time you bring up women sexualizing themselves the reply always involves minors. Why are ppd women such pedos?

@mods: if I were to make a women and self sexualization/objectification thread here in PPD could we have a rule enforced by mods of no talk of minors. Seems like that would run as afoul of reddit rules pretty quick in addition to being a strawman. I figure if anyone feels that strongly about sexualization and those under 18 they could go to r/teenagers to discuss right?

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-14T12:29:54+00:00

2pac - Toss It Up new song to rage lift to in the gym.

Actually had a bomb ass day there today. My incline and flat bench press went up by 10 lbs.

Hell even had a nice slim girl there give me a compliment on my lifting today and another waive at me. Can't be distracted though, and gotta stay focused.

Too early to say things are starting to finally fall into place for me, but moments like this do give me a boost of confidence.

Remember guys, if you were dealt a shitty hand when it comes to women, just remain focused and patient. Those high cards will be dealt to you where you will be able to enjoy the benefit of playing them too.

Don't give up on yourself!

unloader71 · 2022-09-13T21:21:31+00:00

Gen Z boys are based af

When a girl cries and plays the vulnerable card for attention, those boys don't bend over and simp like pathetic millenial men. Instead they say: grow up and shit.

I think they also have lower ratio of feminist men too

SeaLecture4028 · 2022-09-13T21:22:10+00:00

So I'm watching Married at first sight, the matchmakers are trolls for entertainment

She doesn't know if she wants kids, she's already 32, she has a bad relationship with her mum and is apprehensive about being a mother. So of course they match her up with a Man that has 4 kids (10,12,15,20) 3 girls 1 boy

Another Woman had a boyfriend that fucked her dad's ex wife whilst she was upstairs and she walked in on it. They say she needs "trust, loyalty and emotional stability". So they match her up with a full nude stripper that lives with his parents and has a kid

The drama that follows will be entertaining

edgyny · 2022-09-14T11:32:11+00:00

I'm not entirely sure what to think about this.

The Washington Post: Victim files suit after police used her rape kit DNA to arrest her. https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2022/09/13/san-francisco-rape-dna-lawsuit/

The woman thought the evidence from her rape kit might be used against her rapist. Instead, San Francisco police used it more than five years later to arrest and jail her in an unrelated property crime.

On the one hand, sure it seems shocking.

On the other hand, why shouldn't women's DNA be databased for police investigations? Police hoover men's DNA like crazy. That's the whole point of DNA collection for rape kits. 🤷‍♂️

Remarkable_Sort_1706 · 2022-09-14T11:26:39+00:00

Based off of the "Why are men in crisis?" post yesterday, which I found very interesting, what tips would you give to a guy that relates to some of the problems?

21, quite lonely at times, feel bleak/apathetic about the future. Open to all advice.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-09-14T11:23:48+00:00

I can't wait to watch The Woman King. Not only because the movie seems promising, but to laugh at how much the producers tried to revise history to pretend the slavers were the good guys. Lol

Libah05 · 2022-09-14T10:00:20+00:00

Since I’m black the TikTok algorithm pushes a lot of black content creators onto my feed, and one of the things I’ve been seeing lately is black women complaining about colourism and insinuating they want a change.

It seems redundant to say, but you can’t force attraction.

Tramelo · 2022-09-14T09:43:03+00:00

One of the most boomer advice I had heard was to drop videogames completely to be more of a man and become more attractive to women.

It didn't match what I was witnessing. I couldn't understand why so many men playing videogames had a girlfriend/wife.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-09-14T08:58:34+00:00

CMV: Women with a good amount of experience will finally consider a man who has little or no experience/options after she screwed her life up and looking for a bailout.

poppy_blu · 2022-09-14T08:10:17+00:00

Men of PPD: an analogy to illustrate the error of your thinking.

Believing that women select men because we are impressed by/admire their high counts is like a woman believing that men select women because they’re are impressed by/admire that she can “lean in” and have a career and family.

Lysa_Bell · 2022-09-14T07:58:31+00:00

I think there is a correlation between women only dropping hints and being sexual inexperienced. If you want a low n-count woman you will have to do the leg work. Deal with it. Women with experience have less of an issue being direct with their intentions but that's then also a problem because they are too forwards.

You can't win

lulll · 2022-09-13T14:21:19+00:00

women like firefighters because their job is to get hot things very wet

lulll · 2022-09-13T19:05:17+00:00

once sexbots become a thing i think us men should set up a sexbot colony on mars and then terraform mars into a sexbot utopia for men and women can keep earth

decoy88 · 2022-09-14T01:41:30+00:00

So much arguments and rhetoric here is simply driven by wanting to sound cool.

I’m too old for this place.

MasterTeacher123 · 2022-09-13T20:36:30+00:00

If the woman says no to the marriage proposal is the relationship immediately over?

I’m trying to figure out how you come back from that?

DivineDaedra · 2022-09-14T01:25:13+00:00

Aight u/TigerRude4 u/lulll, I have delivered on my promise.

Sorry about the terrible lighting, but on the bright side new dress+nail polish!

labormarket · 2022-09-14T05:37:19+00:00

You see this coming at you, what do you do?

https://youtu.be/pjs3bmWM8aA

gastongang · 2022-09-14T05:08:45+00:00

hanging out with an old friend of mine frat bro from another college. Shows me a picture of a girl he knows at my college, and says he can put in a good word for me/give me her number. Asks if she is run through, he says no. "she's only been with 5 or so guys". 5 different dudes at 19 years old. I politely refuse

jackedsoon · 2022-09-14T04:48:02+00:00

made a friend w a guy, hes(no homo) the perfect specimen for dating. 6'6, white, handsome af face. he just cannot talk to women at all. i had to put girls hands in his hand to dance and hed spin them then turn away of shyness. even on alcohol hes a heavyweight, has to drink a lot to get drink and even then hes super stammering type and still awkward. id love to help him and see him become a player but its gonna take so fucking long.

figuringMylife · 2022-09-14T04:45:07+00:00

i wanna eat some dick

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-09-14T04:32:05+00:00

Q4W. If you are explicitly trying to date someone higher value than you/ date up, shouldn’t this necessarily imply you will be a lower value person than your partner?

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2022-09-14T04:28:58+00:00

Stray kitty came back when it got dark tonight, made biscuits on my lap for a half hour 🥺

FjbhBoy · 2022-09-14T04:03:14+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/pokemon/comments/xde9dn/comment/iocoafk/?context=3

Pokémon mods actually removed my comment for explicit content under a picture of a half naked lady drawn in a super sexualized way 😭

bunnakay · 2022-09-14T03:52:24+00:00

Can I safely assume that a man who says they'll just start raping women if women won't give men sex willingly is a troll? TBF, they don't pop up here too often lol

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-09-14T03:30:54+00:00

If I had to pick between a group of friends who I agreed with on most things such as politics, values etc or a group of friends who I disagreed with, I'd pick the latter group every single time.

I'd rather be friends with people I disagree with, you can actually have conversation and debate with each other rather than blindly believing the same garbage just because.

Bandit174 · 2022-09-14T03:15:07+00:00

with all the memes about incels just dont shower enough, imagine a guy being like

"Day 3 no soap" "Im done using soap and deodorant" "Im just going to rince myself with water, dab some lemon juice on my armpits and then call it a day"

🤣

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-09-14T03:05:39+00:00

funding secured today. onward and upward.

PraiseGodd__ · 2022-09-14T02:56:58+00:00

How tf do you make friends at uni/college?

I just started on the fourth, so I’m not panicking yet, but I do see quite a few people in cliques or friend groups already. Should I be concerned?

Liberated_Asexual · 2022-09-14T02:47:47+00:00

LOL Tate is the modern day wannabe Marcus Aurelius

https://youtu.be/_TuGYylrjyk

This is what people are worried about teenage boys watching? I feel like video to video when you watch him within context — he doesn't say anything shocking or alarmingly bad in my opinion.

Though the comment about "if you're an ugly bitch, you're fucked" was hilarious.

Main-Leek7908 · 2022-09-14T02:24:57+00:00

Today is day 2 of my No Soap experiment.

I’m just using hot water to clean my body. I’ve used an egg yolk to clean my hair so far (it works surprisingly well?!) and ACV for a rinse. I’ve remade my usual leave in conditioner and body lotion without all of the cancer-causing and endocrine-disrupting ingredients. My hair is soft and my curl pattern is flourishing. My skin is soft and glowing, and I smell like vanilla and roses from the scented oils. The only thing is, I suspect my skin is going to start breaking out from too much topical vitamin E. The internet said that would happen.

For deodorant, I have been dabbing on a bit of lime juice. I’m taking probiotics and drinking lots of vanilla, chamomile, and hibiscus tea, as well as eating cinnamon. My sweat smells kind of sweet, almost like a salty cookie. (TMI?)

I am only using hand soap for sanitation when necessary. For laundry detergent, I’m using soap nuts in a fabric sac. For fabric softener, white vinegar with a few drops of naturally derived scented oils. Instead of dish soap, I rinse the dishes with boiling water to kill the germs, and use baking soda to remove grease. For general purpose cleaner, I mix rubbing alcohol, white vinegar, and water in a spray bottle.

Everything is working out nicely so far. Hoping this helps to regulate my hormones and promote general well-being.

nothatyoucare · 2022-09-13T19:40:22+00:00

Reading about women getting mad about dress codes never gets old. Oh sorry you cant sexualize yourself the way you want to draw sexual harassment complaints like nba player draw fouls.

https://www.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/xch95x/i_got_in_trouble_with_work_today_for_a_dress_code/

This particular example seems very pretty benign but no, dress codes are not sexist or misogynist.

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