Daily Community Chat Megathread

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-07T07:48:29+00:00

My mother saw one of my middle school bullies in a bar. She asked him if he knew who she was. He replied immediately, recognised her as my mother. She asked him why he bullied my back in the day, again he was quick to say that he didn’t bully me. Some of his friends shook their heads to that.

When my mother described this to me later, it felt odd. I wouldn’t recognise his mother, I don’t think I would recognise almost any of my middle school classmates’ parents.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-07T07:35:36+00:00

Mosquitoes 🦟- they are biting the shit out of me & yet they leave my husband largely alone. We just got back from lunch and I’m itching all 37 of mine while he is peacefully snoozing through the hot part of the day unbitten. The lemongrass spray available here (in Laos) isn’t working for me! I need toxic Deet from America?!?

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-07T07:27:36+00:00

QFW: what exactly about a man encouraging his GF to dress modestly is controlling?

It is not about because he is suggesting her to do something, I can name examples where you wouldn’t think it is controlling.

So what exactly is it?

scwizard · 2023-07-07T06:15:47+00:00

I yeeted myself off the apps. Even dating MDs and PhDs it’s the same stupid shit. Liars, fakers who say they don’t want kids but actually do, secret drinkers.

I tried to go for more educated guys. I have concluded it just means they are better at manipulating. I don’t do the apps or indeed any form of dating any more.

I dropped out of college tbh

Safe-Plane-2400 · 2023-07-07T05:59:07+00:00

I found out today that on ppd men who are 30 and still virgins are considered incels. Of that's the case why even let us on here so we can be punching bags? We can't even talk about our experiences without being shitted on andnl they wonder why we feel the way we do.

scwizard · 2023-07-07T05:41:55+00:00

went from one extreme, never being able to orgasm through penetration for the first 32 years of having sex, to having multiple orgasms through penetration, often within moments of my boyfriend entering me

Do you mind if I ask what changed?

I smoked pot with him one night. First time ever having sex while high. I guess I finally got out of my own head because I’ve been able to come from PIV ever since.

Truly the devil's lettuce.

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-07T04:38:59+00:00

Got a very good deal today - 2x of intricate baked goods instead of a normal portion. The girl packing my bag was very friendly and cheerful.

EulenWatcher · 2023-07-07T04:13:33+00:00

“Would legalizing physical discipline for wives reduce DV”

Well, Russia has decriminalized domestic beatings…it does not really decrease DV besides stats on paper.

armpitpics · 2023-07-07T04:01:42+00:00

I was re-watching that Mark Zuckerberg/Lex Friedman video. Almost got a boner. Almost.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-07T03:37:47+00:00

I HAVE RETURNED

MY BODY HURTS

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-07T03:33:16+00:00

The only people who I would or should expect to give me dating advice for “free” are friends/family. It’s like any other advice.. business, academics, the economy, athletics, cooking etc.

It would be like expecting a trainer at the gym to train you for free or give you tips out of the goodness of his heart. Your brother who is a personal trainer will because that’s your brother so it makes sense.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-07-07T03:04:41+00:00

Hey guys and gals…. When you talk about what the average person is like, remember the obesity rate is a considerably less for people in their s0’s compared to those in their 30’s and 40’s

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-07-07T02:53:36+00:00

When I was 17 I was approached with the offer (not directly but through my closest male relative) to go live in Abu Dhabi to be part of a rich sheikh’s harem. I guess that could have been classified as sex work of the time (80’s). I laughed at the idea. Mr. Sheik was not deterred, just offered more money. Mind you this was a sale situation. My male relative would be pocketing that $$ since if I agreed or could be coerced, I would presumably be living in a harem where I wouldn’t be allowed to have money. I laughed again but not in a haha way but a hell f’ no way. Still unfazed, sheik offered to throw a new Porsche into the deal just for me - I guess to park outside the harem to look at - since I couldn’t be driving it around Abu Dhabi.

Life in easy mode? Pretty privilege? Or just a life of sexual servitude for a rich guy who was used to buying what he wanted. Transactional and commodified, sort of like it seems a lot of guys here say it is or how they want it to be now. Would your average poor but attractive woman of today even consider this? I cannot imagine 😬

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-07T02:37:55+00:00

It's so sad to see fellow men fall for the helpless girl pickme type. Constantly reminds everyone about how helpless she is. Contributes nothing but attention whore bait for the handful of idiots in your group who will inevitably simp for her while never receiving a crumb of pussy.

If you call her out on her behavior, you're a toxic incel because unfortunately many men are socially stunted retards incapable of reading intent. Better to just keep your mouth shut. If this parasite attaches to your male friend group, good fucking luck weeding it out.

"I'm sooo cold >_<"

"Stop being mean to meee >_<"

"I'm sooo hungry. Skipped breakfast and lunch today teehee~"

"I haven't slept in 23 hours. Is that bad??? >_<"

Willow-girl · 2023-07-07T02:27:27+00:00

Funny story. Today at work, a co-worker and I had to load up a bunch of floor-care equipment and take it down to the grade school. The floor sander is really heavy -- "It's gonna take two men and a fat boy to get that up in the truck," I quipped.

My co-worker said the maintenance man was on his way to help us. "Oh, two men and a fat girl, then," I said.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-07T02:04:07+00:00

Spontaneously decided to go to the bookstore today and found a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy." The introduction appealed to me so I bought it. Good book or no? What's in your current reading list?

Also, how to deal with a woman who misleads others into thinking you're a bad person yet refuses to talk with you about what her problem is, aside from wrestling her into a straight-jacket and hauling her off to the crazy home?

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-07T01:56:14+00:00

I think the worst emotion is boredom by far because unlike negative emotions like anger and sadness at least something exciting is happening to make you have such strong feelings with boredom its stale and monotonous.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-07-07T01:54:29+00:00

Here's an Ethics thought experiment I once read about in a book ("The pig that wants to be eaten" is the title). Just to see how are the morals of the people here.

You're a soldier currently on some military excursion in another country. Your captain, whose orders you must obey, is piece of shit who doesn't give a fuck about war crimes. He then tells you to rape and murder a female prisoner of war, who hasn't really committed any crimes. He just feels like doing it.

If you don't do it, you'll be executed, and she'll still be raped and murdered by a guy you know is a sadist who enjoys doing the twisted shit your captain asks for. He will probably torture her while raping her and she'll suffer considerably.

What do you do? No, you don't have special choices involving killing the captain and running away with the POW. The only options are the ones presented above.

potoricco · 2023-07-07T01:49:05+00:00

If I don’t go out of state in college I will self destruct

Especially since I plan to live with my parents until I get married. Why would I spend the next ~10-12 years in this fucking state of all places? When I’ve already lived here like my entire life? Hellll no

College is for exploring the world. I would even go out of the country if I could

Willow-girl · 2023-07-07T01:46:49+00:00

I need to learn to mind my own fucking business.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-07T01:40:39+00:00

The women who complain about the stud/slut double standard never bring up the original double standard that caused the stud/slut double standard in the first place.

The dating opportunity and effort double standard

Dating is not equal opportunity with respect to gender.

Women have a lot more dating opportunity than men for just being born women. Women can put in a tiny fraction of the effort that men do to get the same results. A woman can easily have a relationship with a man at her level. She's guaranteed a decent man as long as she has basic personal hygiene (lite quick natural makeup, a healthy 19-21 BMI, basic feminine appearance).

A woman can easily get male validation and attention and sex from men she finds attractive, men out of her league. Any woman can become a slut and enjoy it. Most men can't become a stud.

You can't discuss the stud/slut double standard without addressing the double standard of dating opportunity of, of being able to become a stud or slut in the first place.

Until the dating opportunity double standard is addressed, the stud/slut double standard is just a consequence of the original dating opportunity double standard.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-07T01:20:06+00:00

I am taking a much deserved rest before BJJ starts 🙏

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-07T01:18:34+00:00

WHAT IS BEST IN LIFE

John_Oakman · 2023-07-07T00:50:54+00:00

Liking something doesn't necessarily make it fetishizing said thing/trait/whatever, but is commonly perceived as such due to a combination of social awkwardness and suspicion of ulterior motives. Thus it's difficult for those more unconventional people to believe that anyone would like their unconventional features in a non-creepy/fetishizing way...

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-07T00:50:05+00:00

Whats the difference between when you bruise a guys ego that he wants to like prove you wrong vs when you bruise his ego he gets mad a rage quits and doesn't want to see you?

Like what are things I can say that fit the first one not the second one.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-07-07T00:49:40+00:00

only date girls who dumped their ex boyfriends, never girls who were dumped by their ex boyfriends. girls who were dumped by their ex boyfriends are 'alpha widows' who will always be in love with their ex bfs and cannot love you.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-07-07T00:35:02+00:00

my FWB taught me that women can only love a man if the man has a handsome/good looking face.

Long story short, me and my FWB are both in our mid thirties. I am tall, fit and well off, and she smoking hot and still looks like a cute petite girl in her mid twenties. we fuck like rabbits. But like every mid thirties millenial guy out there, i am currently looking for stablity and a relationship, but my female FWB refuses, saying she is not in love with me, even though she has fucked me countless times. i asked her how can she have sex with me and enjoy it if she don't love me, so she told me its only lust. after i pressed her, she admitted to me that she did not love me because my face was not handsome, and that her ex boyfriend who dumped her was the only man she was ever in love with.

and when i look at her ex boyfriend, i could tell she was not lying. the ex boyfriend is similar to me in every way except for one thing: his face was handsome and mine wasn't.

tbh i have been on the other side of the deal too, so i totally understand. i used to have a butterface FWB who had an ugly face and banging body. i could bring myself to have sex with her but i could not love her. the poor girl would always beg me to tell her i love her during sex and when i said i didn't, she would beg me to just pretend. now i am in the same boat, whenever i make love to my new fwb i would beg her to tell me she loves me, and when she refuses, i just tell her to pretend.

women cannot love a man who does not have a good looking face. she might be nice to you and even fuck you, you can even be tall and rich, but she can't love you unless your face passes the grade. the 'inkwells' were right, face is everything to a woman.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-07T00:32:19+00:00

I love how guys here will complain about struggling to date, especially how “all women just use them for food/resources”, but when someone suggests for guys to vet better and date base on compatibility, you gets excuses. The biggest excuse: “If I did that, no one would date me!” And that’s why they struggle. Manipulative people LOVE desperation.

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-07T00:26:35+00:00

Women here really tend to be idiots. They don't listen to what you're saying. They just find a way to twist it into a strawman. Look at that idiot who is making a list of what men think is a good indicator for being a slut. She linked my comment (which somehow isn't witch hunting, but when men do it, it is) which said that partying a lot and drinking a lot is one of the indicators of being a slut. But she forgot the most important part, I said that's true in my culture, idk about american culture and what makes sluts sluts in America and frankly I don't give a shit.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T23:13:54+00:00

Later losers, it is time to go SMASH

potoricco · 2023-07-06T23:02:17+00:00

“have you ever heard a woman say she only learned to respect men after she had sons?”

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-06T22:55:49+00:00

Has anyone ever had a date paid for by a woman or had a woman offer to pay for the date?

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-07-06T22:35:25+00:00

Some weeks ago, I was talking with my mother, who is fairly conservative when it comes to how she sees relationships, and she told me something that I still can't really say how I'd feel about if I ever had to deal with a situation like this.

The context was that I was telling her how disgusting I think sex work is, and how pathetic I think men who date ex-prostitutes are. She then told me about stories from when she was a kid/teen, that involved men she knew about from the small city where she was raised, who took women out of brothels to marry them, and how those women ended up living very respectable lives and how people respected them as matriarchs of their families.

She also told me about a woman she had to help decades ago (my mom is into doing a lot of charity). The woman was a prostitute suffering from some form of cancer, I don't recall which. But anyway, her story was very sad: she had had sex with her then-boyfriend, told her father about it, and then the father beat the shit out of her and kicked her out on the streets, yelling for every neighbor to hear that he'd "kill anyone who tried helping her", and how she was trash, stuff like that. She ended up living on the streets and eventually finding a woman who owned a brothel and yeah, you can imagine the rest. She was a teenager btw.

The point being that my mother pointed out how certain sex workers legitimately don't want to be there and would gladly stop doing it. Obviously, the OF thots, sugar babies who spend their money on frivolous shit and high-end escorts are not like that.

But yeah, it made me wonder how I'd feel about dating a woman like that. On one hand, I'm personally very judgmental about a woman's sexual past. But if the woman was forced into it, I wonder if I'd feel differently. Probably not, I'd probably still want to date a woman who values sex like I do, but yeah, it kinda broke my brain a bit.

eye_fuck · 2023-07-06T22:26:03+00:00

People on dating apps and sites are low quality

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-06T22:24:40+00:00

If I put myself in a hetero woman's shoes, I wouldn't want an average guy either. The average guy is 5'9, 200 lbs, 40in waist, and makes 50k a year. If you google average guy pictures, it's very underwhelming. Being average is trash ngl, men should strive for more than that. Or collectively move the bar so that average isn't so bad.

aitathrowaway1972 · 2023-07-06T21:55:15+00:00

More and more men are realizing that there's no point in caring about women's issues when women don't care at all about the well being of men. I love it!

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-06T21:28:55+00:00

I want to buy her flowers so bad but I have to not be a simp and reserve that for at least 3rd date

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T21:11:31+00:00

Today is sparring day and I am so unfathomably hyped. We do hard (90-95% with headgear of course) sparring once a month

I have spent every day of the past month working on my jab to head and arm through using the dummy

Today I'm going to fucking throw the life out of someone, I'm going to send their soul straight to hell god i'm hype . It's going to be beautiful, I'm going to have someone record it and I'll put it as my main Tinder profile picture.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T21:05:16+00:00

I really need a job but I know If I got one id get tired and bored in like a week

EDIT: Also there’s this like plaza shopping complex area in my town where I could easily find a job and it would be convenient BUT I know people from my school go there and them seeing me working would just embarrass me

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-06T20:54:25+00:00

It's actually pretty crazy how quickly this flipped. But back in the 70s men were able to be completely mediocre and have general success, and now women today are allowed to be completely mediocre and have that same great success. Wild.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-06T20:37:12+00:00

Gonna start compiling a list of traits men think are predictive of women being sluts lol

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Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T20:32:07+00:00

Why is everyone here basically fucking gaslighting on u/LillthOfBabylon ?

Yes it's absolutely true that people here look at neckbeards and losers, call them average men, and then start whining that these average men aren't able to date.

When I started posting here people called me average, and I had people going "Hm that's bizarre, fuck women, they're awful to the average guy". To ME.

Consider how fucking absurd it is to call me average, yet people did it all the time.

You will never, ever, ever, convince me you guys aren't completely delusional about what "average" is.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-06T20:30:40+00:00

Explain to me again how non-exclusive dating doesn’t make you a cuck?

LowCreddit · 2023-07-06T20:29:34+00:00

My cousin told me he is planning to divorce his wife at the recent family get-together. She is now well over 300 lbs and does nothing but play with her phone, lying in bed when not at work. He went 100% into choreplay and then marriage counseling. She eventually told him she doesn't give a fuck after he took every responsibility in maintaining the house and taking care of their three kids.

I told him to wait until the kids are at least through puberty to avoid hurting them too much and to just start acting like he is already divorced, get in shape and flirt. He told me some of the single moms at his kids' activities are already making advances, smelling trouble.

SPSTIHTFHSWAS · 2023-07-06T20:25:09+00:00

What music do you ladies & gentlemen listen to?

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T20:23:24+00:00

Praying for the wellbeing of Russia, hope Putin slaughters all the Nazis in the Ukrainian army

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T20:16:58+00:00

Highly recommend you follow @alpharivelino on twitter. So many gems

He says women who wear Vans are sluts. This is scarily accurate. Also if she goes into reverse cowgirl unprompted, she's ran thru

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-06T20:14:46+00:00

It should be illegal for women to not have their nails painted.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-07-06T08:15:15+00:00

Lost 1 1/4 inches from my waistline! First non scale victory. I really can't see a difference in the mirror though...

Maffioze · 2023-07-06T12:29:14+00:00

In contrast to what I expected, I passed all of my exams and except for one I did with high grades too 😎

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-06T09:40:21+00:00

People which desire for unconditional love are having their romantic lives ruined by their own perverted sense of what love is.

Blame your own parents for fucking you up.

happy_discus · 2023-07-06T10:53:00+00:00

I've had the most delusional conversation with my friend ever. We were talking about her situationship and how it affects her personally, since she wants a relationship with him but he doesn't. She then asked my I didn't have a girlfriend yet because she knows I am looking for one. I told her, well nobody wants me. She then told me to maybe start with a FWB or something else casual and see how it goes from there. I just laughed.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T13:40:33+00:00

Surrogacy is human trafficking and exploitation

Should be banned worldwide

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-06T17:06:20+00:00

Also re Keke....

This man said, "you a mom".

As if a woman loses her identity, style, and everything about them because she became a mom.

It's fucking wild how many men want to keep women small because their egos are to large and insecure.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-06T11:57:34+00:00

If the man pays first dates should be cheap enough that it’s not worth going through the effort just for the freebies if you don’t want to hang out with him.

scwizard · 2023-07-06T14:43:04+00:00

Discovered a new least favorite phrase: "you're being too sensitive"

If you get say they're wrong they're "proven right." If you agree then you need to acknowledge that their previous rudeness was justified.

It's classic abuser stuff, basically putting it as your fault that you don't like it when they're a jerk to you.

baresquad · 2023-07-06T14:59:15+00:00

The movements pushing girls to get married and have kids almost as soon as they graduate high school and their early 20s are setting them up for failure.

That lifestyle leads to resentment later in life for those who it’s not meant for. It also usually results in them becoming single moms because typically what you have is two people committed to a lifestyle that forces them to get married and have kids before their brains are fully developed. Both partners get robbed of vital periods of young adulthood that they don’t get to experience without being a parent or attached to someone they’re not meant to be with.

So on into their 30s and 40s you eventually get two people who’ve grown apart and gone their separate ways if they haven’t already in their 20s and their kids who’ve they subjected to be products of a broken home (the real victims in all of this). Overall, it’s manipulative and fucked up to force people who aren’t sure they want it into this type of traditional lifestyle.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T15:00:53+00:00

“If a man and a woman get into a car accident, the man will go straight to a CT scan. The woman, unless she is actively dying, will have to wait for the results of a pregnancy test. She will not be asked permission for this delay. Being a woman, medically, means being treated as the second most important person in your body from age 12 to age 50.”

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-06T16:23:28+00:00

Is it better to hate yourself for legitimate reasons, or to love yourself for no reason at all?

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-06T19:48:46+00:00

when men straight up just dismiss facts because they are mad.

anyways idk why more men arent gay if they hate women so much.

Maffioze · 2023-07-06T09:24:10+00:00

https://bettinaarndt.substack.com/p/weaponising-banks-against-men

This is batshit insane. And still people try to gaslight us into thinking feminism is about equality.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-06T11:18:27+00:00

I’m very convinced a lot of guys here are spoiled brats and have rarely/never been told no in their lives, so when people don't coddle them or act how they expects, they throw fits. People complain about this generation having participation trophies, but it’s really because too many parents coddle their children, shelter their children, and/or allow their kids to be socially inept. Even with non-incels I know, a lot of guys are still socially stunted because their parents just let the internet be the nanny. By the way, most of them come from two parent households, so please don’t start that “Children need fathers” bullshit. Children need good parents.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-06T11:26:48+00:00

My local feminist Facebook group had a conversation about first dates. It was surprisingly divided. About half of people thought the best course of action was to either do something that is free of charge or that each pays for their own. I belong to this first group, but it was interesting to learn about the other side.

Other half thought that men should always pay, and that men should really invest on those first dates. I still don’t fully understand their reasoning behind this. Most often their arguments had something to do with wage gap or how women have to use money to prepare for the date.

The whole conversation was quite sad because it sounded like dating has become an act people don’t really enjoy. People date because they feel they have to, spend time with incompatible dates and then grow cynical. I think if you have an interesting person next to you, you’ll enjoy your conversations so much that there’s no need for extra stuff.

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-06T12:10:47+00:00

I'm always baffled by how some women in this sub always lack nuance, judge, scrutinize, and be hostile towards any specific issue that revolves around a man, and yet the moment a woman comes into question they start to understand the issue more, give her benefit of the doubt, empathize, and be more human about the whole ordeal.

What I'm talking about here specifically is women being vehemently opposed to the whole Leader of the relationship/family concept because of course most times it's implied that a man who'll be in charge and saying things like it's abusive, controlling, unequal power dynamic, dehumanizing, it's risky, vulnerable, and so on... And yet when given the hypothetical option of, if the woman was the one making more should she be the leader? They all shout from the rooftops Hells to the Yesses. It's simply the same exact thing that you see when feminists just fantasize and worship anything that relates to the idea of the matriarchy because deep down it was never a quest for equality as there can never be such a sense of honor and enlightenment in a group of people as the sum of all of their psychosis will eventually trump any superficial pursuit of justice for the simple benefit of raw power, influence, and authority.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T14:05:14+00:00

Little boy looking for friends

So sad… I felt this deeply

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-06T14:38:41+00:00

I let my husband lead this morning and make a decision for us, even though I disagree… I hope he appreciates it, at least.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-07-06T14:39:51+00:00

Why is it looked down upon to not want to be in a serious relationship in your 30s? It's like people see it as a foreign concept to not want to settle down and have a family.

Even worse people seem to think it's wrong to want to keep fucking around and just casually dating in your 30s, "oh but you're too old." Says who?

Plus your 30s are still extremely fucking young.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-07-06T14:50:28+00:00

A man telling a woman she is delusional for not wanting to commit to a man she is not 100% attracted to... Make it make sense.

Rhinosaur666 · 2023-07-06T15:43:45+00:00

I got on the train yesterday and these two girls, half my age or even younger started giggling to each other like school girls. It went on for a few minutes. We got off the same stop but I ran into another subway train and as the doors closed, they waved at me. Why do women act like such thirsty simps? Just come over and say hi.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T15:55:40+00:00

I never said that

links a recent post where they said exactly that

I never said that

women are something else

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-06T16:55:14+00:00

I look fabulous today!

And I keep checking myself out every time I pass a reflection.

Real hot girl shit today! 🔥

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-06T19:03:54+00:00

I can't believe there’s guys here really pushing the myth of “Perfect guy can't find love”. Meanwhile, far more imperfect men are able to find love all the time, be it fat, autistic, broke, balding, etc. and yet Mr. Perfect can't make it work? Bullshit. He’s either too picky, prefers being single, or he’s not actually perfect.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T08:02:01+00:00

And the other thing that RPers say: That men are assholes because they're attempting to impress women

When I was nearly killed guess how many women there were? 0

It was just teen boys who knew I was autistic. And they thought that was funny as shit and they loved the idea of kicking me until I coughe dup blood (at which point they got scared and ran away because you know, you don't want to kill someone)

Construct to me a group of women who will do that

I'll wait. You can come up with any group you think of. NO women in existence has the sadism that men have.

Blocksplain · 2023-07-06T09:04:19+00:00

Men’s traditional gender role: give!

Women’s traditional gender role: judge!

Damn women are so oppressed by gender roles

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-06T11:26:11+00:00

It’s funny watching people waste their time here while thinking they’re superior by “calling out” other people wasting their time here. I know children who are more self-aware than that. And funny enough, really proving my theory that a lot of guys here are mentally children. And funny enough, really proving my theory that a lot of guys here are mentally children.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-07-06T12:15:36+00:00

I think this will be worth a watch for some.

Some talking points in the sub are talked about.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T13:15:02+00:00

god it must have been so fun to be a mathematician in the 17th century. now it's all soulless abstract masturbation and you have to be legitimately autistic to enjoy any of it.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T14:51:01+00:00

fuck Sam Levinson fuck the weeknd

Maffioze · 2023-07-06T18:57:35+00:00

The most extreme/hyperbolic/exagerrated tunnel vision takes here come from the men.

But the most delusional takes (in the sense that they are completely opposite of what actually happens in reality) here come from women.

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-06T18:59:06+00:00

I've noticed something interesting regarding that Keke and Darius palmer situation. Here are just a snippet of some comments I've seen from some women on social media:

Sir, you are only a damn purse holder! How tf she gonna allow him to disrespect her from a phone she's likely paying for??

He is doing this on Twitter bc he has no power at home. He can't even go 50/50.

That’s bold of him to come at his breadwinner like that.

No allowance for Darius this month.

Moreover, she's grown, single and pays for that roof over your head. Shut up.

Shes an actress its the entertainment business. SMH. He is NOT paying her bills either.

So it's no secret that Keke the famous actress makes more money than Darius the personal trainer (I believe?). With that, apparently, he isn't allowed to feel any type of way about their relationship since he is not the breadwinner in this situation.

It reminds me of how the manosphere often weaponizes income by insinuating that "high value men" should be allowed to do what they want within the relationship because they pay all of the bills, and the submissive wife should allow it. This gets criticized, but isn't this the same thing but in reverse, since Keke is the breadwinner she can do what she wants regardless of how he feels about it? I don't agree with him taking it to social media, but if the guy feels some type of way about his gf having her ass out on national television he should just shut up because she out earns him? Interesting.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-06T20:02:44+00:00

Just a reminder: When guys here are saying “Even average men struggle with women”, remember that a lot of them think neck beards and simps are average.

totallyworkinghere · 2023-07-06T10:55:01+00:00

I have been asked recently both if I just graduated college and if I have kids. Neither of these are true. Can't tell if I'm completely unreadable or giving out both younger energy and mom energy at the same time

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-06T11:09:54+00:00

Would you date a girl who whose main hobby was the gym/weight training? Not to the point of taking PEDs or steroids, no further than preworkout and creatine let’s say.

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-06T11:25:29+00:00

I think breadwinning women SHOULD be the “captain” of the relationship. Imagine going against the the grain to provide a good life for your man and family only for him to STILL try to dominate and control you whilst sitting at home doing god knows what all day. Please fuck off.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-06T12:33:13+00:00

There is nothing sadder than watching grown adults demand to be coddled. It’s even sadder to watch guys demand it because in general people pretend guys don't do it when they clearly do.

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-06T12:39:18+00:00

Dudes who talk about how much they love eating pussy and brag about it give me the ick. It feels like virtue signaling. I like receiving but some guys act like they’re a unique gift from God for doing it.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-06T13:06:36+00:00

People be paying 30 dollars for a 16 dollar meal because they simply weren’t willing to get in their car and drive 10 mins to the restaurant 😝. Also the food isn’t hot because the guy dropped off 4 orders before you and didn’t realize oh shit this one is closer let me go here. Oh your delivery guy is driving a dirty ass car you wouldn’t advise your worst enemy to go into and he smokes the whole time.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-06T14:19:58+00:00

This morning's thought on the train platform:

I fucking hate old hags with foopas bigger than their tits but have the gall to wear something that teen girls are wearing, sporting it as some sort of display of "bravery".

They are coo coo for cocoa nuts.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T14:43:39+00:00

Why raising good sons isn’t just enough- stop saying “teach boys not to x”

Any man that has ever robbed someone, murdered someone, probably had a mother that was just “trying her best”. After a certain age men stop taking their mothers (and all females) seriously and instead socialization kicks in. There is nothing you can do. I have seen it with my own two eyes.

Instead- we need a complete overhaul of society. Let’s eradicate male supremacy and patriarchal norms to save men

potoricco · 2023-07-06T15:49:25+00:00

When male antinatalist/sexists say pregnancy ruins women’s bodies = women get “fat” or less fuckable

When women/ female anti natalists say pregnancy ruins women’s bodies = gives women permanent health and bodily function issues

And women are the shallow ones

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-06T19:04:36+00:00

It seems that men here have no idea what a pick me actually is.

https://www.wikihow.com/Pick-Me-Girl-Meaning
heres an actual meaning.

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-06T19:58:44+00:00

The fact that Woman's football is wayyyyyyyyyyyy more popular in America than it is in England is actually super weird. Makes no sense. Little girls in America are more likely to be playing football than little girls in England. I could be wrong about this, but from what I see and hear it seems to be true

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-06T20:07:24+00:00

To get “too muscly” takes years of consistent progressive overload and dieting or 💉.

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-06T20:12:41+00:00

Apparently you need prove that perfect men are flocked to with tangible evidence

How did we get here? Do we just say the sky is purple nowadays? What's going on?

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-06T08:04:50+00:00

Like an hour ago I randomly woke up on my bathroom floor so thats kinda weird maybe i have amnesia or i got one of those memory swipey things.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-07-06T11:11:51+00:00

Just a reminder that women in PPD receives lighter punishment and a huge leeway on rule breaking posts and comments than their male counterpart.

Mods have a bias where any women post is given the benefit of the doubt while every male one is seen from the worst angle possible.

ThinkingOfYou3 · 2023-07-06T11:44:28+00:00

Q4W: Would you rather be fat but make 100k a year or be thin but make 50k?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-06T13:08:24+00:00

I wonder if the whole if

“Hey if we are both single at 30 let’s Get married/have a baby”

Thing ever happens

flakybottom · 2023-07-06T13:22:36+00:00

Hey would someone here (preferably a guy) be open to private chatting about a situation a found myself in. Need a little advice.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T14:13:16+00:00

Every day that passes where American pilots are not killing Russians is a tragedy to the human race and Joe Biden is a cuck because of it

ThinkingOfYou3 · 2023-07-06T14:23:22+00:00

Do women really get the ick from guys that can't drive?

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-06T15:57:26+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14rzz12/india_plans_to_criminalize_marital_rape_so_some/

It's very hard to take men's rights seriously when they are complaining about a law that lets women punish their husband for raping them (like in any other civilized country)

yeah men, fight for your right to rape! good for you!

edit: I read the post and the comments. They all prefer to decriminalize rape for fear of wrongful accusations.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-06T16:35:05+00:00

My friend is going through a fake dowry case and was jailed for a month before any proceedings. Its horrendous, they made dowry a fucking non bailable offense. Well, guess what the hearings take months!! Apparently there are many people like him in jail and suicide was a common occurrence due to harassment! She also put false sexual abuse charges on his brother even though he never even met her face to face. And using that as a blackmail tool.

The entire police station could see right through her bullshit including the the female court mediator but couldn't do anything because the law is too biased.

His whole life is in shambles. All because the politicians would rather make overpowered populist laws rather than fair laws.

The dowry cases are fucking horrifying.. a distant relative had his ENTIRE family put in jail. The guy, his brother, his sister (who doesn't even live with them), mother, father.. absolutely horrendous...

My family who are somewhat politically connected got involved and paid that girls family about 10 lakh to settle it out of court.. The guy lost his well paying job his father has been bed ridden since then. literally destroyed the fking family.

PPD take on fake dowry cases?

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-06T17:43:58+00:00

How do people go out and try to make friends without feeling fake about it?

I've gone out to join some meet groups before for socializing and making friends but everyone seemed like they were just waiting for something to happen or like they were asking "so when does the making friends start?"

It really ruins the experience when you go out looking for genuine human interaction and everyone seems like they have some kind of motive that they're hiding, whether it be finding someone to spend time with instead of being alone, finding a relationship, finding someone to buy or sell their MLM herbalife shit, or satisfy whatever need they have at the time.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T18:26:56+00:00

I really want to go on Omegle but I’m so fucking scared like

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KirthWGersen · 2023-07-06T08:42:46+00:00

How do you make a hormone?

Don't pay her!!!

SadEtherealNoob69420 · 2023-07-06T09:05:34+00:00

I want a cat.

But i cant get one at this point of time 🥲

Peacesquad · 2023-07-06T14:20:33+00:00

Seggs Day

Peacesquad · 2023-07-06T14:20:41+00:00

What did I miss

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T14:24:29+00:00

RNB RADAR on Twitter: "Usher serenades Keke Palmer 😍✨ https://t.co/xbMFlXu7FF" / Twitter

thoughts on the whole situation?

Imaginary_Newt7194 · 2023-07-06T14:35:09+00:00

Any guys get out of LTR and paralyzed by dating? I was in a relationship for 9 years. Now I’m 30. Feel like I have no dating skills. My sexual template is fucked up too, I don’t know if I can get hard when these girls expect me too.

Been going with prostitutes lately, cause there’s no pressure to perform socially or sexually.

I think I am too boring for a girl that is my level of looks but I have difficult time with the idea of dating down. I can’t flirt, have no game, ect. Yet am handsome.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T14:42:58+00:00

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Join my political party and once I'm president I promise we will begin fulfilling John McCain's (chad) dream of the trans flag flying above Tehran

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T15:01:12+00:00

You know the World War 2 day by day series pretty...okay it makes a decent number of mistakes and it's actual analysis when it comes to the Nazis is trash Bachelors "I read Richard Evans once" level analysis. Which is weird.

But War Against Humanity, which is on the same channel, is fucking excellent. Absolutely amazing. Everyone should watch it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWgdz81i6jA

potoricco · 2023-07-06T15:54:56+00:00

What does it mean if you randomly feel completely weak all of a sudden

Like today when I woke up and went upstairs I felt like I was about to pass out

I get this at random times like 2 times once every few weeks

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T17:39:32+00:00

When a woman is menstruating she is in a demonic state. It's insane that innocent men have to be around menstruating women in public and the workplace

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T18:06:31+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a cuck

Q4M: Would you date a cuckquean

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-06T18:47:21+00:00

ppd nag vs pickme bimbo cuckquean porno

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T19:12:07+00:00

Female solipsism never fails to amuse me

Not to target this user but it's incredible how often women do this. You make a statement and immediately she makes it about herself, and if something doesn't align with her experience, it's immediately universally false. Women cannot think in a abstract manner, it's always "me me me". They are like children

I'm convinced God gave women just enough intelligence to not freak men out

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-06T19:51:18+00:00

Wow my mind is blown.

Just matched with a mildly sexy girl on Bumble. 40, and ethnic, smart but looking and conversing a little "ghetto". I don't mind since I grew up that way in nyc.

I joke that she should be on my boat, but she shares that she lived in Dubai for a few months and had a few lavish experiences... I mean don't get me wrong, this girl is pretty cute, slightly sexy, but not totally looking like a grade A+ fucking baddie or anything.

Anyway, she says she gave up that life, and doesn't need it. I'm afraid to ask how many Sheiks have shit down her throat. And she looks like a totally normal fucking girl, with a white collar job... man, I feel bad for us guys. Man the so called "viable" options have their assholes blown out by Arabs and their sick fuck sex parties with animals.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-06T19:59:33+00:00

I def need to stop watching hentai and tummy fetish porn videos so I can start being normally attracted to women but it’s pretty hard ngl.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T23:18:26+00:00

Does anyone have info on doctors coercing healthy pregnant women into c section for money

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-07T04:01:11+00:00

this sub has made me come to four conclusions about my complete lack of romance.
1 . im so incredibly hot like a straight 9/10 that men are too afraid to approach me.
2 . the women around me are all straight and the men are all gay.
3. im too autistic to see if people are hitting on me.
4. im a genuine anomaly and against all odds of nature just nobody has been interested in me.

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T11:50:12+00:00

Feminists, we at the patriarchy union have a confession. You guys got too annoying so we started sending in men pumped up with hormones and a fake p*ssy and tits in to infiltrate your movement. It's been a overwhelming success. The most disgusting perverts are now a protected class thanks to liberal feminists!

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T15:07:39+00:00

downvoting without explanation should get you instabanned from this sub.

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