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potoricco · 2023-08-09T17:19:24+00:00

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-09T17:13:44+00:00

You know how women say that age gaps in relationships create unequal power balances? I think the same can be said about a woman with a high body count or a woman who is more desirable (just about every woman) than her male partner.

This is just red pill common sense, but not every woman will cheat, but just about every woman has the opportunity to cheat. Just about every woman has the opportunity to quickly find a back up plan if her relationship dissolves, and many keep guys on rotation in case this happens. This means that in most man/woman relationships, the woman will always hold the upper hand. Women have way more bargaining chips than men do.

With this information, it would be easy to argue that anything a man does that is seen as immoral is nothing more than an attempt to even the playing field. The concept of being machiavellian is frowned upon, but it is common knowledge for most people, this means, essentially, that it doesn't come as a surprise that men would cheat on their partners, date a younger woman, financially trap their partner, etc.

I have this belief, and it's a rather pessimistic belief regarding men and in a way I'd even say misandrist. Being a man in this world is a punishment. It is a curse. Women are able to experience liberation because of their inherent value and their desirability in society. Men, on the other hand, are in constant war with society. It is similar to how other animals will have territory and group disputes. They have to fight for their position and rank within their own society.

The patriarchy is far superior to the matriarchy. The matriarchy would position women, who already have inherent value at the top of the social hierarchy which would allow them to choose and discard men based on the things they value. Men must fight for their position within the patriarchy. This capacity to fight for a better social standing is what truly allows any sense of equality. The matriarchy would lead to oppression. The patriarchy allows opportunity.

Think about the fact that women can start and Only Fans and make 5 figures a month for just existing as a woman. A man has no way to make this much money without doing things that society deems immoral. But still, men have the potential to become billionaires, to become titans of industry, to increase their value in a society that so easily disregards men.

Basically, being a man is a biological mistake. We are not women. Women are clearly the superior sex. As men we should embrace our toxicity because it is the only weapon we have to defend ourselves against a world that ignores us.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-09T16:46:02+00:00

Oh my god look what I found

https://thinksoftware.medium.com/elevator-system-design-a-tricky-technical-interview-question-116f396f2b1c

This is the interview question I had when I took my first full time job (left, so not doxxing myself) with Google

What a fucking flashback man

This question was hard as fuck

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-09T16:30:23+00:00

Does discussing a wheat waffles video count as blackpill/incel content?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-09T16:26:28+00:00

we are doing a quiz today?

Your Attachment Style Is:
Securely Attached

You naturally feel at ease in relationships but sometimes have trouble relating with others

yeah that's BS lol

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-09T16:25:01+00:00

https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/quiz/ap

I took the test and got anxious pre-occupied

You’re an extremely empathetic person who has mastered the art of connecting with others on a deep and real level

This test is dogshit

lmao

You may be a social butterfly or deeply value being in long-term relationships

I'm actually dying

You’re an expert at reading people and are the person your friends turn to when they need help

Oh absoluely.

I'm 99% sure this test was not made with non-NT people in mind lol

To say that these two paragraphs describe me is...mindblowing. To say the least

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-09T16:17:23+00:00

I'm flabbergasted at the number of women who really do believe that all men in relationships are deliriously happy and are getting everything they want from said relationships. I mean, you women really do believe this.

Why do you believe this? What factual basis do you have for believing this? Why do you believe that every woman in a relationship with a man is insanely sexually attracted to that man? Why do you believe that every man who's in a relationship with or married to a woman is getting all the sex he wants and needs? Do you know them? Do you know their behind-closed-doors relationship? Have you watched them having sex? How do you know what you claim to know about these men and their relationships? Or are you extrapolating your own claimed experience and that of your alleged friends and frenemies to the world at large?

Really, I want to know. Why do you believe this? How do you know what you claim to know about all these people and their innermost intimate relationships?

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-09T16:14:40+00:00

Men are not entitled to sex.

But they sure as fuck are entitled to feeling frustrated by the lack of it.

I mean, you are not entitled to food either, but if you are starving and somebody says you should be quiet because you are not entitled to food... fuck em.

Peacesquad · 2023-08-09T16:01:41+00:00

Give it to me straight. What did I miss

abaxeron · 2023-08-09T15:53:53+00:00

Unironically like animations by Liam Vickers. The guy captures the very essence of men. All we want from life is a cute girl in love with us who started out trying to kill us and consume our flesh for sustenance and nefarious and occult purposes.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-09T15:31:16+00:00

Thank goodness for internet lawyers.

The internet lawyers know all the details. Internet lawyers don't have boats, though.

They are far more knowledgeable than the ones we interact with in real life.

People of this sub consult an internet lawyer today! And then, right after, speak with an internet doctor. No more paying for someone's real expertise. You've got internet now!

potoricco · 2023-08-09T15:29:18+00:00

Average PPD male

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-09T15:21:00+00:00

This is exciting XXXX,

Congratulations on taking the attachment style quiz — your first step to becoming more self-aware, and navigating your relationships with confidence.

Your attachment style is: fearful avoidant

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-09T15:18:32+00:00

People talk about chads and how successful they are with women, tbh in real life application most of the dudes who are having a lot of casual sex it comes down to two things; Party+alchool.

For the vast majority of guys who want casual sex; just get into party/bar/clubing scene. Be consistently go out. You also have to be willing to lower your standard from quality to quantity.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T15:11:05+00:00

QA4: What do you think is the age cutoff for attractiveness where one would/should be considered a pedophile?

Below 18?

Below 16?

Below age of consent?

Below age of puberty?

Below 25?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-09T14:34:25+00:00

I'm going to be a pick me for a sec here

My partner told me that I don’t taste good when he goes down on me. What should I do?

why isn't top comment "there's a nice ph vag friendly that doesn't itch and helps keep that part clean"?

Idk why people have such a big issue asking for the other person to clean themselves before sex

if you already tried this then sure, you can tell your bf he's gay or sth

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T14:28:56+00:00

It’s funny how much shit an insanely successful feminist author gets.

From the left.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-08-09T14:17:56+00:00

Two separate thoughts this morning.

Something men really need to understand, and for some reason many women deny... when a man gets fit, the world spreads it's legs.
Coach Greg always cracks me up. This is his new video about the nightclubs being dead. It's a bit long, but I like to set the play speed at 1.25x, seems like the sweet spot. I was never really a part of the nightclub game, but I did witness it in the 90s and early 2000s.

potoricco · 2023-08-09T13:52:16+00:00

Also has anyone noticed this?

If you do cardio but then abruptly stop you will be tired and dissuaded

I could do jumping jacks for minutes but if I stop to take a break I will be too tired to continue

Maybe this is why people advise you to cool down

potoricco · 2023-08-09T13:48:37+00:00

Can someone please wish me good luck🤞

In fact I won’t post here for the next 12 hours because I always have good luck when I’m not on Reddit

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Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-08T16:01:35+00:00

potoricco · 2023-08-08T16:03:45+00:00

First

potoricco · 2023-08-08T16:06:44+00:00

This man is SO FUNNY to me and I don’t know why

Idk, men who are passionate are just so so funny

MarryLovegood · 2023-08-08T16:08:58+00:00

We hit a rough patch with both of us being stressed and overworked. I have more time now I'm gonna put more efforts into our marriage. The plan:

I have to take a better care of myself and a better care of him. First stop is sport starting with running. Helps to deal with the stress, less stress = higher sex drive = more sex = happier husband.

Groom myself better. I need to buy some cute clothes to lounge around, most clothes I wear at home is on the edge of tearing down.

I'll treat him with some food he enjoys. Today's dinner is burgers. I'd buy some soda, but he's cutting off sugar.

Should organize and tidy up our place too - it's not really dirty but there's a noticeable lack of care.

Take him to the place he likes on Friday and maybe go on a nice walk on the beach.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-08-08T16:13:08+00:00

this songs such a vibe in 2023

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-08T16:18:23+00:00

I remember Mike’s hard lemonade got mad at To catch a predator because people were associating their brand with pedophiles. It got to a point where you would see a dude pick up a case at the grocery store and your first thought would be

🤔 I wonder whose that’s for

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-08-08T16:19:58+00:00

Women spend their lives avoiding the male gaze, men spend their lives trying to satisfy the female gaze.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T16:30:41+00:00

"Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love bothered"

Ok saying women are bothered is absurd

Women absolutely love attention, same way men love sex

That's how they make their sex work or advertise themselves online to a male audience

And why they often dress up nice to an event where they know many guys are gonna be there

But there's a difference, they want the attention but not the men around them

We see this online, they get the attention but the men are not around her

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-08-08T16:32:08+00:00

I've seen some women here on PPD who are curious about what men who want submissive women mean when they say "submissive". I have recently had an experience that kind of showed me what I think it is that that word means when used in this context.

I went to a restaurant with a couple of friends (they are literally a couple, I mean) who are married and very religious (Protestant Christians), and during this outing I noticed that the way he treated her was the opposite of how men half-jokingly portray themselves when talking about their relationship.

You know, things like "I'm gonna ask for my wife if I want to go outside with you guys tomorrow", always having the woman as the one who has the final say in what can/must be done when it comes to family stuff, etc. At least that's common where I'm from, I imagine that it's a common joke everywhere?

But anyway, yeah, that's what I noticed. He treated her in a very affectionate way, but for example he said something like "Once we get back home we'll see if we'll go to the movies, it will depend on how well you behave", which was obviously a joke, but the way she reacted was very... Submissive? She didn't roll her eyes or scowl (like my ex would probably have done), just smiled. He also is the one who chooses what he's gonna buy for her (she doesn't work), and I've seen her act in a subservient way towards him when asking for stuff.

I'm not defending nor am I attacking this way of life, just wanted to share it because I believe that this is what men who want "submissive women" mean. Basically means being agreeable and seeing the man as the one with the final say in certain circumstances. Certainly not for everyone, but they seem very happy together.

John_Oakman · 2023-08-08T16:33:09+00:00

A fuckboi is higher on the social totem pole than an incel. It doesn't matter that "a well respected and contributing member of society" is higher than both by leagues when that's not an option in the first place.

baiser_vole · 2023-08-08T16:38:28+00:00

Could be a lil too wholesome for this sub, but I watched this earlier today, and loved it.

PPD men sometimes get asked how they would raise their own daughters. His video answers a good portion of it.

Barneysparky · 2023-08-08T16:44:16+00:00

I've been here for 11 years. Just now I did a double take, as there is a topic on our front page that might be the most nonsensical post I've ever read.

We should have awards, just because that post deserves one.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T16:45:25+00:00

"Men are hypergamous when coming to looks"

Dude my girlfriend's fat friend would get thirsty comments from even average looking guys

So please don't waste anyone's time with that nonsense

Second that's not what hypergamy is to begin with

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-08-08T16:46:21+00:00

If you choose waffles over pancakes you have no soul

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-08T16:50:58+00:00

I never understood this whole “looks matter the most” idea outside of shallow people just being shallow. Most people are mediocre as hell, especially guys. And the very few guys I would call attractive had red flags I avoided. As someone who has seen stupid people get into trouble because they vetted for looks and nothing else, the juice ain't worth the squeeze.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-08-08T16:55:04+00:00

Embrace fat acceptance, become obese, crap on gym culture, experience rejection, go online and blame toxic masculinity and the patriarchy. Embrace intersectional victim hood

Preme2 · 2023-08-08T16:59:28+00:00

I only like women who are engaged, married or have boyfriends. I don’t like single women.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-08T17:05:04+00:00

Today I watched Barbie and I loved it.

I dunno if this was the writers intention... if yes she is a fucking genius, if not this is fucking hilarious.

Ken is living in this fantasy matriarchal Barbi Land, yet a lot of young men living in the real world end up self-identifying with him and his problems.

Barbie, a white blond beautiful feminist living privileged life thinks that her feminism has solved issues for women around the world + white saviour complex + her issues are loss of privilege, cellulite and flat feet.

Gabriela's daughter ends up rightfully bashing her ass.

Gabriela, a real woman from the real world get's a minute of screentime to vent her issues. Issues with which I could empathise.

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-08T17:13:29+00:00

Sexy time when I was pregnant was so weird, but also those hormones were relentless, man.

potoricco · 2023-08-08T17:18:14+00:00

Coming of age 😜

I now have the irresistible urge to take pictures of every new thing I eat

princedune · 2023-08-08T17:19:53+00:00

I looked into a PUA course that some red piller was selling his audience on youtube. Two things stood out to me 1) His course "guarantees" that the buyer will get a girlfriend, but offers zero refunds 2) After looking him up hes been charged with sexual assault because of these "guaranteed" strategies

not a good look guys...

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-08T17:25:13+00:00

There is an invisible advantage that ALL (decent looking) women get from the infinitely more attention they get compared to men.

It's this "men attach their self-worth to sex-having" thing. Whether you can get sex or not as a man is dependent on your human worth, because that's more or less what women are into (at least that's what they insist). Women are into the "actual important stuff", they aren't into men, but what they have to offer. Meanwhile men are stupid enough to be into silly things like beauty, which alleviates this kind of pressure for women by a wide margin. That's their advantage. (This doesn't apply to conventionally unattractive women, of course).

You might not enjoy casual sex as a woman, you might think that the majority of male attention is worthless and is more of a bother than what it's worth, but what this prevents you from experiencing is the type of existential insecurity, the fear of inadequacy that lots of men experience (imo almost all men, on some level). The fact that your entire character is NOT on the line when it comes to even just something like kissing someone, that will always seem invaluable from a male perspective. At least from a hopeless lonely male perspective.

potoricco · 2023-08-08T17:45:05+00:00

My cousins cousin is staying with us until Sunday and she’s really pretty omg

potoricco · 2023-08-08T17:49:48+00:00

WHY DID I JUST NOW FIND OUT THAT MARGOT ROBBIE IS MARRIED NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T17:59:05+00:00

"It's much easier for women to price themselves out of the smv than it is for them to find a genuine HVM who matches them"

No it's fickin not

What did steph curry wife have to do in order to get him ?

Be hot and available

Same thing with Elon and Jeff Bozos previous wives

Same with Messi if you look at his beautiful wife

So no advertising themselves to high-status men clearly worked lol

Katatonicsnake · 2023-08-08T18:00:48+00:00

I solved a puzzle today. Years ago, I was in this group that had a guy who was having lots of sex with all kinds of women. I often wondered “why and how?” because there wasn’t anything very positive about him. He was quite rude, obnoxious and arrogant. By his own admission, he wasn’t athletic, was a board game nerd and didn’t particularly like women. He wasn’t into grooming, didn’t wear nice clothes and wasn’t particularly handsome (it’s not a nice thing to say, but true in his case). And he was shorter than me, so not tall.

From time to time, I saw a glimpse of him somewhere and he was always with a new woman, until he got married with a cute girl. Today I met my friend from that same group and asked her about him. Turns out, he’s just that good at sex. He got lucky in his teens and found a girlfriend to practice with, they broke up but she kept going back for more, I guess others wondered why. Word of mouth is a powerful tool.

Maractop · 2023-08-08T18:13:30+00:00

My sisters can live with my parents forever or until they they get married but im getting kicked out as soon as I graduate like my brother did. FML

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-08-08T18:21:33+00:00

The Insidious Red Door movie is how horrors should be imo. Top notch.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-08T18:23:40+00:00

Why do some people have such an aversion to showers? I love showering, even if there was no hygienic or other reason to shower I would still shower, it just feels so good. I just don’t get it, what’s bad at all about it?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-08T18:30:46+00:00

Prohibitionism remains the most based thing feminists have ever done

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-08T18:31:00+00:00

When people says “Looks get you through the door” are we talking about not being repulsive or just being attractive?

Because, like I said before, I can count the amount of guys I found attractive on my hands. Most people have just been “you’re alright and I won't put a bag over your head if we fuck”.

FourthHarbinger · 2023-08-08T18:52:53+00:00

I made the mistake of going to sports betting subs and seeing the posts by guys who have put money down on absolutely wild bets that paid out tens or hundreds of thousands

SorryEm · 2023-08-08T19:05:07+00:00

What are bluepillers even right about? Every single argument here is just talking about some simple fact "men like women more than women like men" and then bluepillers try to come up with a million excuses for it and try to prove that there is no injustice to it and how it has no effect on society at large because of some specific situation they've experienced. What fact is on their side?

SorryEm · 2023-08-08T19:11:51+00:00

I'm not sure why I even bother with the label of "traditionalist" or "conservative". It has never helped me and is just submission, the ideology.

SorryEm · 2023-08-08T19:19:15+00:00

If the bluepill is correct, why have there never been cases of just average schmucks going outside, then treating a woman like a "human being" which results in them getting relationships? And within relationships, what power does an average man even have? The woman can find a new man easier than the man can find a new woman.

God_I_Love_Men · 2023-08-08T19:30:38+00:00

While this feels like a creative writing project, how on God's green Earth would this guy feel bad about leaving this woman lol

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/15lj7b1/aita_for_wanting_to_break_up_with_my_gf_after/

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-08-08T19:39:43+00:00

Nice guys finish last.

keebydee · 2023-08-08T19:44:44+00:00

Apparently because of my disability or something, my dad thought I wasn't going to make it to 21 for some reason I don't know. I learned this info from accidentally seeing a letter in my mom's email where she was gonna send it to me on my birthday but never did. And this is after I learned from her that she deliberately didn't tell me that I had a disability in my childhood. Absolutely unbelievable, still omitting information from me. 😒

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T19:47:54+00:00

"Being single is completely different for women than man"

Yea but that's common sense

Everyone knows that, which is why there's no female version of this manosphere stuff

baresquad · 2023-08-08T19:48:14+00:00

Why are women expected to have all the answers?

The biggest question a lot of men seemingly want to know is what makes a woman want to fuck but I think there’s misconception that there’s an explanation for every single life occurrence.

Women can’t give you a play by play about what made her go home with somebody for you to emulate that other man’s actions. Casual sex happens so dynamically that there’s so many factors at play that it’s impossible to rely on someone else’s success.

Specialist_Cod1841 · 2023-08-08T19:55:57+00:00

in a way it's a privilege to get to adulthood not knowing that members of the opposite sex are only interested in you if you're physically attractive. girls learn this in elementary school.

SorryEm · 2023-08-08T19:58:48+00:00

I honestly wonder if I should tell the whole story about my relationship here

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-08T20:07:17+00:00

The 30-day ban is over!! I'm glad to be back. I see nothing has changed, and men are still complaining about having to leave the house to get laid.

Billsandasonom · 2023-08-08T20:21:28+00:00

To the women who were like "We also find women invisible, not just men", that's not the point. When I mean invisible I mean women don't readily consider the vast majority of men as potential mates unless he does something to reveal himself to be worthy or of value. Men on the other hand do just based off of low standards (comparatively) for looks; many women are sufficiently attractive for many men.

Many women on this sub will say "that's the way it is, tough shit" to this imbalance and then turn around and say it's not fair men get to work on themselves and be accepted as attractive later on in life and say it isn't fair women are the sex prized for their inherent looks value.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-08T20:25:38+00:00

I'm reminded that the manosphere doesn't do well for people who actually try thinking. When thinking hard about a lot of what they say, it's all based on subjectivity and when we get explanations, they're either wrong or hypocritical.

For example: Hypergamy, a word they hijacked because they thought it sounded intelligent. How do they re-define hypergamy? Women wanting the best. What is the best? Whatever women think is the best! Then men are also hypergamous they too want the best, especially in terms of a good looking woman. Now the purpose of bringing up hypergamy is defeated except to talk shot about women for wanting what guys also want: the best.

EverVigilant1 · 2023-08-08T20:33:39+00:00

Lots of women complaining about this at the "single for men isnt' like it is for women" thread.

Look, women: If you can't find what you want, either your standards are too high or you're just not attractive enough for it. You can't attract the men you want for the level of relationship you want. Sorry, but you're not good enough for what you want. Either you need to get more attractive or you need to lower your standards.

There are not enough high value attractive men to go around to all the women who want them. Either get more attractive so you can attract and keep one; or lower your standards.

potoricco · 2023-08-08T20:57:30+00:00

Aaaah wahhh wahhh hypergamy

Putting this out there again

Everyone hates hypergamous women, but everyone wishes their mom was hypergamous

Justwannaread3 · 2023-08-08T21:02:22+00:00

Women: Would you rather a man find you worthy of attention on the basis of your looks alone, or for other (emotional/intellectual/etc) reasons?

Patrickstarho · 2023-08-08T21:17:34+00:00

I had an obese gf for a few months. At the time I wanted to help her lose weight and she did lose a little but my fuckinh god she got really annoying. She tried to force me into saying I love you. She would always want to call me and get supper mad when I didn’t.

Now I look back at that period of my life with disgust. When she gave me head her mouth was cold. Yuck.

AnywYs, ladies what are you favorite romance novels?

Patrickstarho · 2023-08-08T21:19:27+00:00

another question I have for women is what does it mean when you glance at someone and then look away.

Do I look wierd? I haven’t cut my hair in months. Is that why I’m getting glances or is it because I’m attractive?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-08T21:23:30+00:00

I didn't realize how pathetic some of this sub was until I read that "fuckboi" thread.

The obsession with fucking as many women as possible is so sadly funny.

What an unattractive way to define yourself.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-08T21:36:32+00:00

"men are hypergamous"

Same people will shame men for dating down, yet will say men are hypergamous in another topic.

No consistency in logical reasoning.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-08-08T21:40:04+00:00

I still love how guys here will claim they're nothing like bad boy chasers, but when you look into what they consider the average woman, it’s typically some lookmaxxed bitch that even other women would find unbearable, and possibly bullied other girls in school. Guys will cry about “Women pursue assholes and blame the rest of us for it” while doing the same shit to women.

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-08-08T21:50:01+00:00

My best friend when he had his destination wedding in DR 2 years ago paid for the Tux of all his Groomsman and his wife paid for the dresses of her bridesmaids but apparently that’s not a common thing. There was a thread the other day where a woman said she dropped out of a wedding cause they wanted her to pay for a 900 dollar dress. It was just me the best man and 2 other groomsman

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-08-08T21:52:29+00:00

How old are the guys currently passport bro’ing and for the ones who plan to. What age do you intend to start at?

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-08T21:55:28+00:00

women, would you consider nearly 100% of men attractive? Not attractive to you, but just attractive "in general." such as society considers them attractive and High Value.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-08T22:06:33+00:00

What happened to eulen watcher?

lolmastr13 · 2023-08-08T22:10:54+00:00

A common complaint for age gaps relationships is “what would you even have in common?”. Which is a fair point but it’s also a rather recent affair that technological advancements have intensified generational gaps.

blebbyroo · 2023-08-08T22:12:30+00:00

Q 4 older no experience men:

~30+ men

What held you back in dating? I understand younger guys here being upset with dating apps and the algorithms they use and how they r been getting worse each year but tinder was released about 11 years ago and wasn’t huge right away.

Why did you struggle before apps?

BirdMedication · 2023-08-08T22:13:46+00:00

Q4W: When it comes to men trying to date, at what point does the idea of a man intentionally doing something to increase his odds of success (like following the idea of "going where you're wanted/appreciated") start to become "manipulative" in your opinion?

Assuming he's honest when asked about his intentions and there's mutual consent, is there a clear rule or principle IYO that if broken makes his efforts objectively creepy and manipulative?

GrassToucher29 · 2023-08-08T22:24:50+00:00

There was a tornado in my area last night and there are Bagel Bites all over the highway, and for some reason I find that to be fucking hilarious.

Also: there’s a guy I work with and his hands are so hot

Business-Ad-5344 · 2023-08-08T22:26:06+00:00

some comments got me thinking and i had this weird brief thought that 100% of guys could be attractive, in some weird sense. for a split second, it actually kind of made sense.

it would explain relationships like the shane and hannah couple on youtube that people have linked here before.

it would explain serial killers getting married.

it would explain why people go on Love Is Blind and they really believe in it.

on a super primitive lizard brain level, any two people can pair up and have a successful relationship. Even two straight men in prison.

Maractop · 2023-08-08T22:26:22+00:00

So some girls will have a one night stand and risk impregnation with a really hot guy they just met and have no emotional connection with, but will make the guy they actually like wait to see if he is long term relationship material? I dont get the logic at all ngl. So the 1st guy is worth the pregnancy risk? And shouldnt they wait in both scenarios?

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-08T22:32:29+00:00

Question for the guys: Who is a woman you would consider "average"? If no public figures come to mind, you're also welcome to post a photo of an average woman.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-08-08T22:32:45+00:00

And for the gals: Who is a man you would consider "average looking"? If no public figures come to mind, you're also welcome to post a photo of an average man.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T22:49:36+00:00

Am gonna pipe down my girlfriend really hard today on women's day

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T23:01:59+00:00

Don't why l often put women's day and mother's day mixed up together

Even though yes l know not every woman is a mother or wants to be one

tinasnow-poty · 2023-08-08T23:04:26+00:00

Any other women ever wonder if they’re infertile because they’ve never been pregnant?? I don’t take contraception except the morning after pill sometimes but not even a missed period

On the other hand I feel like because I don’t take contraception I’m more concerned with protection than my friends who got pregnant. My bff used the pill out method and was all pickachu shock face when she ended up with her second child. I was like girl cmon…

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-08-08T23:08:38+00:00

I didn't even know ppl still called dudes fuckboys. Seems like something from the 2010s that died after the pandemic.

Content-Assistance23 · 2023-08-08T23:14:24+00:00

Where can I find scientific research on the importance of bone structure (besides face) on sexual attraction?

UninterestingFork · 2023-08-08T23:15:46+00:00

Average Guy<sup>TM</sup> has a dark side

I can almost hear There are 2 wolves inside me

https://preview.redd.it/zqstxopiyygb1.png?width=1300&format=png&auto=webp&s=6c9c90f5b84a9bcbb85c6580f75893c60374a2f2

average guy has average catch phrases

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-08T23:18:13+00:00

This sub consistently confuses average and below average.

Average men are put together, know how to shower and maintain hygiene, can dress themselves decently, etc. A few of the men in relationships here fit this.

Below average men aren't put together, struggle with hygiene, dress poorly, never leave the house, have hobbies or interests that don't require other humans, etc. Most boys/men here fit this.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T23:25:58+00:00

When l see America pass down laws to not reach children under the age of 10 about gender/sex differences

Am like yea that should be common sense, you shouldn't be teaching kids who can barely write their name this things

Fact you have to make it a law says w bigger problem

potoricco · 2023-08-08T23:47:58+00:00

Grossest thing you ever ate GO

For me it was periwinkles, my parents eat that shit, one day they put it in my food I ate it. It wasn’t bad wouldnt eat it again though

Also since I live on the east coast, crab meat is very popular here. Its actually yummy but I can’t eat it anymore because the idea of eating crab is disgusting. I don’t really eat seafood

cruciod · 2023-08-08T23:49:07+00:00

I hypergamised to the moon and I will not be brought back down thank you

dyngladfel · 2023-08-08T23:52:40+00:00

I don't see enough men on here worrying about their hands. Too many guys who are in that "kinds cute could be into" area are pulled down by bad hands imo.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T15:25:36+00:00

Am I wrong in feeling like attachment style theory essentially just says secure attachment is the correct way and if you have another style something is wrong with you?

old_new_age · 2023-08-09T17:10:30+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VLo9JdS6Khg&ab_channel=ErikTheElectric hey guys rate the woman vs the man

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-10T06:33:02+00:00

bro this dork is living the dream and he's still bitching. man doesn't realize how lucky he is, i wanna take his spot

I (28m) and have been married to my wife "Bella" (28f) for 5 years.

We both met and went to the same college. She pre-law while I was doing animation. She graduated top of our class and went to a T20 law school. While she was in law school, I had a lot of trouble finding a job in my field or a job at all, really. I ended up working in a kitchen as a line cook to help support us (in addition to loans she took out) while she was going to school so she could just focus on her classes.

Bella got a very good job in a different state after she graduated, so I quit my job and haven't gotten another one since. We have no kids, a nice house for the two of us, and are overall living very very comfortably. She works very long hours, so I take care of most of the household things. Cleaning, cooking, grocery shopping, re-painting the walls and doing other work and renovations to the house.

goals 💯

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-09T13:46:49+00:00

https://twitter.com/ChrisWillx/status/1688944613602492416

I think this would probably be good. Leave random people you don't know , alone. Especially random women

dbz__f · 2023-08-09T13:31:08+00:00

A guy being "bad at sex" is the stupidest meme. Some women like to be in charge, some women like the guy to take charge. If a guy just does fuck all during sex, he'll be good at sex with the first woman but bad at sex with the second one.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-09T13:30:07+00:00

TIL that in the modern parlance, a person convicted of an offense is no longer referred to as a "criminal" (or presumably any of the variants like "felon," "prisoner" or "parolee"), but rather as justice-involved.

Make note of it and conform, lest you be canceled!

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T12:53:28+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15lqjkk/how_the_heck_do_you_find_people_to_have_sex_with/

“ctrl+f alcohol”: 0 matches

People really love ignoring the elephant in the room.

potoricco · 2023-08-09T12:45:51+00:00

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Yall already know what I’m about to say

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T12:36:38+00:00

”Monogamy is hard”

If you are an attention whore.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T12:30:34+00:00

NOOOOO, not the heckin nightclubs, what will we do???

legaliserikkekritise · 2023-08-09T12:17:43+00:00

Far right people trying to turn me against feminists pushes me towards feminism, but reddit feminists pushes me away from feminism.

The irony is funny

dbz__f · 2023-08-09T12:02:36+00:00

Women: "sex isn't a human right, inc*l"

Also women: "REEEEEEEEEE MUH ORGASM GAP. I AM ENTITLED TO CUM 50 TIMES DURING SEX OR THIS IS LITERALLY PATRIARCHY"

dbz__f · 2023-08-09T12:00:25+00:00

I love my girlfriend so much.

Willow-girl · 2023-08-09T11:38:32+00:00

Well damn, I got outbid in a land auction last night. Property ended up selling for $22,500. Little rich for my blood, lol.

Try, try again!

wherestheboot · 2023-08-09T11:04:49+00:00

Interesting post. If you’re going to get into ball stretching, doing it when you’re old is very efficient. Gravity already did half the job.

FuuraKafu · 2023-08-09T10:17:04+00:00

I feel like women are veeeeery slowly starting to somewhat understand male struggles better. What you think fellows, true or false?

FizzleMateriel · 2023-08-09T09:59:19+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/15l585v/booked_a_500_dollar_flight_to_nyc_to_see_a_girl/

This was painful to read but hopefully this guy gets out of a Blue Pill mindset.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-08-09T09:19:32+00:00

I fucking hate YouTube algorithms.

So I watch one conservative leaning video about human relationships and sexuality.

And after that Youtube keeps spamming me with these rage bait far right nutcrack stuff.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-09T09:19:17+00:00

Do those of you having sex have preferred sex music as background? What is it?

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-08-09T08:23:22+00:00

Why do gym girls receive so much more hate online than men?

This isn’t even to do with what they wear - it will be a normal video of a girl hitting a bench PB let’s say, and somany men in the comments will be chiming in with “that’s my warmup/I could do that when I was 14”. Like… yeah no shit you can lift more than a girl who’s likely much smaller than you. It would be a bit concerning if you couldn’t. It would be like me bragging I can lift more than a 12 year old. Just seems like a very weak flex and unnecessarily petty.

But that girl who can bench 70kg is in the top percentile of strength for women her size, that’s why it’s so impressive. It’s very different so a guy who benches 70kg (still a great achievement for them too). Any videos of a guy hitting a PB, everyone in the comments in generally very supportive.

Suspicious-Bed-2717 · 2023-08-09T05:44:36+00:00

Don't confuse slut with promiscuous. I wish the world had more "sluts". A slut would freely have sex with any guy. Do you understand how great that would be if more of those women actually existed? Ugly guys would get a little more confidence, virigin guys would get a chance to escape that stigma, ect. A woman can be promiscuous but not a slut as she only reserves her Sexuality for chad.

katyushas_boyfriend · 2023-08-09T04:38:36+00:00

If you're a guy and you go down the andrew tate/new manosphere route and start being a vocal slut hater you're only shooting yourself in the foot. Girls will be less willing to fuck and fuck early if they think you'll judge them harshly for it.

It's fine to not to want to get seriously involved with a slut but for your own sake, and for the sake of decency, stop crying so much about women's sex lives.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-09T04:09:03+00:00

Nick Drake has to be one of the biggest tragedies in music. He drops out of college and sports to focus on a music career with sights making it big, constantly told by people around him that he's a musical genius and should be a star, lack of any success worsens his depression to the point where he shuts himself out from the world, emerges with a new positive outlook and eager to record his best album yet, after it doesn't do well financially he becomes even more depressed.It was an album destined to fail because it was not authentic it was an attempt to confirm to musical standard. He moves back home and just lives in his room all day, looses his battle with depression and kills himself at the age of 26. He only sold 5,000 albums while alive a few years after he dies he gains a massive cult following and is now recognized as one of the most purist musical genius.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-08-09T03:52:52+00:00

For all the women who have great mothers who they love dearly, if you were given a situation in life where u had to choose between your mother or the man you love, granted thats also a great relationship, which one are you choosing?

Adept-Emphasis4104 · 2023-08-09T03:48:15+00:00

Everyone is a tad bit autistic/irrational. And once y’all guys learn women are also but in different things then men. The better off you’d be.

Stop trynna ask the why. Just ask “ok what should I do with this info”.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-09T03:40:38+00:00

Q4All? How would you feel if your former boss wrote a book & claimed your own accomplishments as their own?
I’m a little shook, gotta admit.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-08-09T03:31:28+00:00

purplish_possum has to be trolling regarding his love for very chubby women. Or is in need of an intervention.

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Remote_Indication668 · 2023-08-09T02:43:04+00:00

Consider the following: Truly ugly/unattractive people know they're ugly and unattractive (when I say unattractive I mean the whole package from looks to personality to how they carry themselves) therefore any attempts to flirt with a woman is necessarily harassment BECAUSE THEY KNOW IT'S UNWANTED. If you know talking to a woman is unwanted and do so anyway, that's harassment. She shouldn't need to say "Please leave me alone" before you realize "hey it's not okay to bother her", you know it's going to bother her. Just don't fucking do it.

I think there must be some sort of sociopathy involved when people who are actually unattractive continue to pester women.

potoricco · 2023-08-09T02:09:39+00:00

I AM GOING BACK TO SCHOOL IN 19 DAYS 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 break just started

potoricco · 2023-08-09T01:57:33+00:00

No luck with my back handspring, I brought my mattress out and I think I’ll just flip on it all night until I get it right

old_new_age · 2023-08-09T01:51:03+00:00

I kinda enjoy watching women discard men based on non-masculine superficialities, like he ordered lemonade on their date, or he used a feminine emoji, or he's a bit too close to his mom, and then when they find their masculine king you see a reddit post two years later like, "Hi reddit, my [24F] boyfriend [28M] never tells me he loves me and doesn't wash his ass because he thinks it's gay, please help." Gee I wonder how that happened

thetruthishere_ · 2023-08-09T01:39:13+00:00

I was able to light into the guy that tried to get my brother kicked off a job. My brother is just trying to work/ feed his family and does quality work.

Said guy is one of those scumbag businesses trying to make my brother look bad because hes the scumbag. Hes coked up and drunk on most jobs and my brother barely drinks nor does coke.

Was satisfying to call him out in front of everyone. Im not the type to do something like that but when you want to mess with my family(my bro is a good man) Im saying it.

Told my brother to let it go and I will call him out.

kalashhhhhhhh · 2023-08-09T01:27:38+00:00

Lonely men of PPD, what's stopping you from going camping to a music festival and taking MDMA?

I got back from one few days ago, it was incredible. Literally everybody's your friend on E

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-09T01:27:38+00:00

Are cougars still a thing? I have a cousin who is around my age who married a guy who was 15 years younger. They’ve been together for a long time now and truthfully they are well matched in looks. She’s always been very pretty, he was a handsome tv presenter.
It’s not something I ever did or would do, I always dated same age or older. It kind of grosses me out to imagine dating a much younger guy as an older woman.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-08-09T01:09:00+00:00

I'm working on our prenup draft and including some silliness. I added some details about divorce parties, coordinating outfits, and snacks.

But it's mostly standard stuff like separate lawyers, how stuff is split based on years together, and reason for divorce, etc.

Getting all this ready to send to our legal team for a full draft. I had way to much fun working and researching this.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T00:30:57+00:00

Q4W and Bluepill: Was Jonas Vingegaard groomed?

Jonas Vingegaard is the current 2 time reigning Tour de France champion. His girlfriend is 9 (I’ve also heard 11) years older than him and they started dating when he was 21 and she was a marketing manager for the team he rode for. She then jumped straight to becoming his personal manager and got a child with him very early in the relationship. I feel like if the genders were reversed people would call this predatory and grooming given the age difference and power dynamics, but no one seems to have given a shit.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-08-09T00:21:40+00:00

What pisses off men the most?

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-08-09T00:13:47+00:00

The most cited scholar in the humanities wanted France to remove age of consent laws (which were already at 15). Says all you need to know about modern academia.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-08-09T00:11:46+00:00

Mansplaining - does it ever end? I’m getting things “explained” to me daily that I 1) already know or 2) have zero interest in.

DerayRevan · 2023-08-08T23:56:04+00:00

If she loves you very much then maybe you might just a little bit, love her back too

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