The usual blue pill advice saying "just be more social and you can easily get a girlfriend" can be very misleading. This may be true if you're going after women who are overweight or from a low socioeconomic class. However, as a slim, middle class, college educated man, my female equivalent is not an easy person to impress. Being slim means the amount of male attention she gets is much higher than that of her overweight counterparts. Add in a college education and most likely this woman is smarter and more financially independent than women who are not, which probably increases her standards.

While the blue pill may be right that getting a girlfriend is easy if you're simply social enough, getting what I would consider to be a quality girlfriend (slim and college educated) is simply difficult. I don't think there's any two ways around it.

CMV.