Daily Community Chat Megathread

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-20T18:34:54+00:00

I’m scared I might be high maintenance. How do I know if this is true?

East_Effort_9813 · 2024-02-20T18:27:22+00:00

Hey would I be a total piece of shit if I knowingly go after a girl who is kind of in a relationship? She had a fiance who cheated on her so they broke up. Now they are trying to work it out almost a year later, but we met and really clicked. She is legit one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Hotter than the majority of instagram, OF, celebrities. We have been flirting and sexting but she feels pressure from her family and friends to give this guy a chance. I kind of don't care and see it as the guy fked up and really isn't my problem if I take his girl.

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T18:26:10+00:00

Oiling my eyelashes has been life changing. Like it grew so much just in 2 weeks and it looks soo pretty. I'm like obsessed

BackToTheMoon_ · 2024-02-20T18:19:09+00:00

Thoughts?

JohnGoodman_69 · 2024-02-20T18:18:47+00:00

Listen to Mike Israetel or Ryan Humiston. hmmm

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2024-02-20T17:57:41+00:00

has automatic meaning revealed his BMI yet or what

AngeCruelle · 2024-02-20T17:57:04+00:00

To no one in particular:

I don't answer DMs from men. Any questions you have for me can be asked here.

GridReXX · 2024-02-20T17:50:27+00:00

An honest couple. You can only achieve contentment if you’re honest and open yourself up to find someone on the same page as you!

Shakturi101 · 2024-02-20T17:40:29+00:00

Once I realized the women here don’t want the men here to succeed it starts to make more sense. The idea of a man failing in dating with women, wallowing in it, and actually asking women for advice is a massive ick to them. Men should just be naturals and know what to do. The women here are picturing a creepy, weird loser living at home when they give advice. It’s oriented around minimizing uncomfortable interactions you might have with other women, not actually succeeding at dating.

Remember, they think you’re genetic trash. They don’t even hate you honestly

MayLee_2002 · 2024-02-20T17:35:14+00:00

"I know the person I'm talking to is a lunatic without a shred of sympathy in their body but I wanna make them feel sorry for me." Like, hop in reality bro. Lol.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-20T17:33:28+00:00

Sometimes I'm glad I never got into pinterest because I'd have 4,000 different boards for dumb diet ideas and perfectly curated photos of young Al Pacino. It'd all get lost and I'd eventually start another board because the last one sucks.

FunEducation1434 · 2024-02-20T17:32:16+00:00

ratboi34 · 2024-02-20T17:31:25+00:00

Women will tell men to increase their standards until they actually have to deal with a nonchalant or sassy man.

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Real_Line_8074 · 2024-02-20T17:27:23+00:00

Wikihow is so funny bro they just posted a "how to accept being single for the rest of your life" video

LillthOfBabylon · 2024-02-20T17:19:30+00:00

Lilith, try and tell us you’ve never felt jealous.

When I was a child. Then I grew up and learnt about being grateful for what I have and asked for advice instead of wallowing in my self pity

I’m getting tired of guys here think I’m going to sympathize with their childish sense of entitlement. I grew out of that by middle school.

MayLee_2002 · 2024-02-20T16:57:20+00:00

I can't wait for my Chad BF to pump me full of cum after work! I don't what's better, talking about it on reddit or the actual event itself! 💅❤

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T16:56:34+00:00

i’m literally an academic weapon

Dismal_Sun5595 · 2024-02-20T16:41:15+00:00

So I've decided to apply for a job at McDonald's however apparently the new director is a creep or something and he only hires women (lucky me ig?) Whatever, anything to fund my future gaming laptop

butagoodpersonality · 2024-02-20T16:37:02+00:00

My favorite niche category is Indian guys that are British. Had huge crushes on two when I studied abroad and has become a niche category that I’ve always been super into

keebydee · 2024-02-20T16:35:06+00:00

Mainly what frustrates me about women in dating is their mindset towards it and if a man were to have the same mentality, he would be alone forever. They could have the most braindead mentality and will still get rewarded for it. Like that stupid, delusional, extremely rigid and hard dating rule like "if he's not approaching you then he's 10000% not interested." Just nonsense that makes you no longer wonder why dating is in shambles.

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T16:30:02+00:00

When a woman is attractive, other women hate her but when a man is attractive, other men hate women that go after him instead. How sad..

BeingLTNisPossible · 2024-02-20T16:23:21+00:00

Had multiple, unrelated women say they were jealous of my skin recently. Either I’m so ugly that I’m finally getting pity comments or my skincare routine finally got me glass skin. Either way, I’ll take it 🤷🏾‍♂️

Real_Line_8074 · 2024-02-20T16:18:12+00:00

If you're Indian one thing interesting that is of note is that the country has seen to have skipped the entire second world phase and gone straight to being a capitalist misandrist hellscape skipping the entire intermediate level

Real_Line_8074 · 2024-02-20T16:00:17+00:00

Why is the fact that women find most men unattractive such a hot take? Or one that results in accusations of misogyny?

relish5k · 2024-02-20T15:58:10+00:00

Over the weekend I saw a friendly acquaintance of mine. She came up to me a gratefully told me I had changed her life when I last saw her 1.5 years ago.

This woman is in her mid-30s, creative-type with a day job. When I last saw her we had gone to dinner with a mutual friend, and she was complaining about a man she was dating who she liked but didn't have his life figured out and wouldn't commit to her, etc, but she kept on going back to him. I told her to quit it already with these man-boys who don't know what they want and find yourself a man. A masculine man who knows what he wants out of life, knows that he wants you, and will pursue you.

Apparently this conversation completely changed her mindset and she found such a man a few months later. They have now been together for over a year, and are on the same page with wanting marriage, kids, etc. She is over the moon happy.

So while women may be shit at giving men advice, I am apparently awesome at giving women advice.

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T15:51:12+00:00

QFA: Who has more advantages? Chad or Stacy?

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keebydee · 2024-02-20T15:46:48+00:00

Only reason why I don't like men wearing dresses is that they just do not good in them. I would be accepting of it if they could pull it off but they don't. Lol. It looks super weird with the body hair showing, tattoos, masculine body, etc. Just ugly all around. I think feminine clothing just fundamentally clashes with the male body.

StupidThrowaway3783 · 2024-02-20T15:46:21+00:00

You spend your days counting the hours you're awake

And when night covers the sky you find yourself doing the same

It's a burden you've been burying in spite of all your prayers

As the light turns off inside your heart do you remember

What it's like to care

Knees are weak, hands are shaking, I can't breathe

Give me the drug, keep me alive, give me whats left of my life

Don't let me go

Pull this plug, let me breath

On my own I'm finally free

Don't let me go

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T15:25:29+00:00

i got the top grade on my physio psych exam 🥳

Pizzashillsmom · 2024-02-20T15:16:57+00:00

What is going on with her ear? 🤨

Also sidney sweeney really ain’t that hot.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2024-02-20T14:53:06+00:00

I think I’m finally starting to reach full-blown apathy about life. I’m developing erectile dysfunction and I don’t even care. What difference does it make if I’m never gonna use that thing anyway?

SevenLovedYouSoMuch · 2024-02-20T14:31:14+00:00

Have feminists ever committed acts of terrorism? I know a feminist shot Andy Warhol, and a feminist took an axe to a painting of Venus. But how far have feminists gone in their pursuit of liberation?

poopy_head4 · 2024-02-20T14:29:30+00:00

I'm 24 and I still have reoccurring dreams about high school. i can't get the wretched place out of my psyche

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-20T14:28:23+00:00

Q4W: Your husband was supposed to take you out to dinner for your birthday, but he cancelled on you at the last minute, claiming there was a “work emergency” and he had to stay late. It turns out the emergency was going to a bar with his friends to watch a championship sports match. When their team wins they celebrate by getting drunk and picking a fight with fans of the rival team, leading to everyone’s arrest. Your husband calls you from jail in the morning begging you to bail him out because his cousin’s funeral is today and he’s supposed to give the eulogy. What’s your response?

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-20T14:10:48+00:00

Maybe it's just me, but it seems that I'm the only one here who can understand how two things can both be bad, yet different degrees of bad. Just because losing $100 is worse than losing $10; that doesn't make losing $10 a good thing: they're both bad, just one is worse than the other.

Losing $10 isn't equivalent to losing $100, you can't compare the two. No, you absolutely can compare the two: $10 vs. $100.

butagoodpersonality · 2024-02-20T14:06:52+00:00

Q4M: thoughts on being woken up with a BJ? would you be okay with your girlfriend waking you up with a blowjob without like asking you the night before? not sure what the protocol for that is lmao

I tend to just once ive been dating the guy ask if that’s the type of thing he’s into and if he says yes then I consider it fair game but who knows as we get more woke I don’t want to catch a case

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-20T14:04:56+00:00

If being single was good enough then no one would bother with dating in the first place. People do date, so that is pretty strong evidence that being single is not good enough.

Slyfer_Seven · 2024-02-20T13:57:08+00:00

I was confused why I kept getting recommended that boys are quirky sub, but now that I've looked, it makes sense

Got those pinkpill/FDS vibes all through it...

SlashCo80 · 2024-02-20T13:55:31+00:00

Anatomically speaking, men are more suited for skirts and women for pants.

ThatLeval · 2024-02-20T13:53:28+00:00

The whole step family fantasy is actually degenerate as fuck. What is wrong with people. I genuinely think if something engages in that kind of fantasy they're fucked in the head. A step mom is your father's wife. You're extra turned on by sticking your dick in the same hole as your father. Even the pornstars that do it are doing p***bait

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T13:42:29+00:00

i had a dream i was stuck on an elevator. what does it mean?

dbz__f · 2024-02-20T13:41:19+00:00

Not sure if I’m really good dad material or I just connect with kids/teenagers better cause I essentially have the emotional maturity of one

dbz__f · 2024-02-20T13:40:02+00:00

Question for women

Would you rather be princess Fiona or your husband be shrek

You have to pick one or you die

Downtown_Werewolf_44 · 2024-02-20T13:30:38+00:00

rule of thumb: If someone on reddit describe his relationship with "we have highs and lows like any other couple", You can be sure that this relationship isn't like "any other couple" and is, in fact, worst than you can even imagine.

butagoodpersonality · 2024-02-20T13:19:12+00:00

Can’t decide whether I want to get my masters in teaching, social work, or just pivot and do tech or mba even tho I have minimal experience. I have money from the peace corps so it’s more about what’s the best move

YuYuHakusho23 · 2024-02-20T12:59:59+00:00

If I get south of 250 pounds by June I’m going to walk up to a female women at the anime convention I’m going to and tell her that she looks cute in her cosplay.

If I get labeled a creep then it is what it is but I have to start filling out the “talking to female women exp bar”.

odeacon · 2024-02-20T12:40:51+00:00

I’m posting this on behalf of an anonymous woman.

Would you actually be willing to hear a woman out?

Hi, I'm a woman who is hurt by the misogynistic rhetoric that is posted here.

I'd like to share my experience as a woman.

1st off, one of the most important lessons I ever learned was that anger is a secondary emotion. Anger stems from pain and hurt.

I'd like to just say my peace, I hope it resonates with some of you.

Both sexes have it hard. Full stop.

I acknowledge that men have unrealistic and sometimes dangerous obligations (defending a partner, the draft, looking like Chris Hemsworth, etc). Most men were not taught how to process their emotions because they were denied the right to be human in the name of the Patriarchy. I see men leaning towards the right and I get it: no one ever cared about your feelings so the warped emotions that come out after years of abuse, are strengthened by grifters who also are chained to the Patriarchy.

I don't know what it's like to worry about my height or what kind of car I drive. No one has ever told me I should be ashamed of emoting.

So can I ask you to read through a woman's experience?

From day one, we are taught to be skinny and pleasant; we are encouraged to pursue dreams that eventually meld into motherhood. Our wants and needs are ignored because we're seen as baby makers.

Most women were taught to not talk or share opinions (both through direct commands or embarrassment) so when posts that are actively combative come up, we tend not to get involved.

Only recently have women been given such an open arena to voice their opinions. Things we were taught to endure have become very obviously abuse. (Men telling women to smile is a big example)

So like, give us a break. Most of us are having to relearn how to be human because we were raised by Boomers who didn't see women as people.

To reiterate, men have also been held to unrealistic standards and most women are happy to acknowledge that.

The venom needs to stop.

If you want to understand women, don't insult them and make wild accusations.

Most women (myself included) have multitudes of sympathy and understanding for men.

We're just asking you to do the same

I get that most of us were raised by problematic people and that's fine, no one can judge you for where you came from.

But we can and WILL judge you for not growing.

This is going to upset a whole bunch of you but it needs to be said: women have a reasonable fear of men.

It sucks, it really does.

Does that mean women are afraid of YOU?

No. And if you're first thought is that it's you, maybe you should look inwards. ( poster here, this bit is the one part I disagree with her on. As a young man growing up In a left leaning community and going to a left leaning church, we have been raised to believe women strangers will see us as a potential threat on account of being male. So it’s understandable to take that to heart. ✌️ peace)

There are 2 subreddits here on Reddit that I constantly refer to because they cradle so much intense emotion:

r/whenwomenrefuse

And

r/banfemalehatesubs

Both are trigger warnings.

I tried to share these places here but was mocked by a user that went so far as to make a "banmalehatesubs" instead of just hearing me out and having empathy.

Every other day I see wild titles that claim to scientifically quantify women or worse, titles that demonize and belittle women because the poster is not successful with women.

You're not going to ever achieve love or friendship or even respect if you're not willing to treat every human you come across, with respect.

Recently women were legally denied their ability to terminate a pregnancy. Women have died and been incarcerated because of laws that men wrote.

Can you imagine? Congress making a decision about your body?

Did you know rapes have increased in states that outlawed abortion?

This went on longer than I wanted it to but I want desperately to impart wisdom to all the angry, lonely, men here.

Women don't hate you. We're just as scared and fragile as you are. Everything has changed so much in just 10 years and life is scary.

If you get the chance, look up Lyndon B Johnson. He touched on what I'm saying; that the poor are pit against each other. Whites against blacks, men against women, orange-red vs blue. Etc

In conclusion, we're all human. We all have unrealistic standards we're expected to live up to, we're all unsure and maybe a little scared.

And that's okay.

Let's all try to get along, cuz really, billionaires are our real enemy.

Love to everyone reading

MayLee_2002 · 2024-02-20T03:16:04+00:00

Do you guys ever feel bad for the autistic guys here? It must be hard being unlovable by default. That women are just naturally turned off by them.

Significant-Pay-3987 · 2024-02-19T21:40:30+00:00

In my final semester of college, only taking two classes and have a job lined up after graduation. I’m kinda just fuckin around all day.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-19T23:13:29+00:00

You want to know why you look bad? Outer beauty starts on the inside and you’re not putting the right things inside your body. Drink more water, eat more protein, and eat more vegetables, and your body will thank you.

relish5k · 2024-02-19T21:58:11+00:00

I thoroughly enjoyed my bachelorette party in Mexico with the, mostly unmarried but mostly coupled mid-30s ladies. They were fun and delightful.

But my goodness were they annoyingly progressive. The whole time, capitalism this, inequality that, wah wah. "It's about equity" lol.

Ladies, we are in an all inclusive resort in Mexico. This place is a shrine to global capitalism. For the love of god, please stfu.

odd_cloud · 2024-02-20T10:04:55+00:00

Women have so much power in relationships and sex. It’s kinda depressing to be a man. If I could select the gender of my future child, I’d select female.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-02-20T19:41:50+00:00

Bro, therapy won't make you more attractive or confident.

Get in crazy shape and make money instead

Pulpdogs2 · 2024-02-19T20:20:15+00:00

How often do you lot cry? According to wikipedia the average woman cries between 30 and 64 times a year, and the average man cries between 6 and 17 times a year but that seems way too high for me.

Dismal_Sun5595 · 2024-02-19T20:51:24+00:00

I don't get why so many people like alcohol. To me it just tastes bad and I can only like the taste of it in cocktails. When I was a kid and my family would make me try wine I thought me thinking it tasted awful would change as I get older but it didn't.

ratboi34 · 2024-02-19T21:51:49+00:00

Q4W:

Did you ever fall in love or get your heartbroken by a guy, who looked like one of them:

https://preview.redd.it/c3pgdf1e5mjc1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=09cd4ba73ce7285ccbcef937e71f04832e312bb9

missionglowup · 2024-02-20T04:25:28+00:00

i truly believe that if someone has a strong preference for something, just date someone who has that preference. idk why that’s such a hard concept for people to grasp.

poopy_head4 · 2024-02-20T04:32:40+00:00

Only true pal

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reezyreddits · 2024-02-20T12:07:15+00:00

If you get around a bunch of average looking women who's had their head inflated by men, wait for them to flat out admit they're beautiful. It's an interesting phenomenon. I'm no looker myself, so who am I to judge but I also don't go around thinking I'm handsome either.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-19T19:04:10+00:00

Q4M: Which of these women would you rather date?

Tricia, 34

swim instructor

BMI of 21

former lesbian, ready to go back to men

adult braces

exact opposite movie/TV tastes as yours

Hayley, 22

Subway sandwich-maker

BMI of 23

lice and bedbugs

favorite weekend activity is hotel parties

annoying laugh

Environmental_Day558 · 2024-02-19T20:40:47+00:00

I'm finally watching the barbie movie to see what the hype was about. It's cool so far

Pulpdogs2 · 2024-02-19T21:08:38+00:00

I wouldn't want to date a woman who wasn't initially attracted to me but I eventually grew on them.

poopy_head4 · 2024-02-19T21:32:59+00:00

sexy chad guy i have added on fb who always has ugly whales and mid hoes in his comments. never seen anything like it

Economy-Shake-1448 · 2024-02-19T21:58:25+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ucb4z6gf6mjc1.jpeg?width=2048&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=102d0bcb5120e8fe99070baacea4acf3af7e120a

Since I got accused of “spamming” here is another image compilation from a “traditional masculinity” group. Most men hate most women and think it’s “traditionally masculine” to do so. This isn’t a niche movement. This page has 40k followers on Facebook.

hannahg000 · 2024-02-19T22:10:53+00:00

i’m becoming a country music girly. i used to hate on country music all the time. but it’s just the morgan wallen’s of country music that i can’t stand. stuff like this is such a bop

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T02:55:27+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/5k0e585knnjc1.jpeg?width=734&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=51a46caa6359bd3f23df6abeed4cc1ddc9846681

Gary_Longbottom · 2024-02-20T04:18:53+00:00

Young Monica Bellucci was the most beautiful woman ever, 10/10, Helen of Troy ain't got shit on her.

https://w0.peakpx.com/wallpaper/267/505/HD-wallpaper-monica-bellucci-actress-face-woman-beauty-thumbnail.jpg

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-20T04:26:02+00:00

C-sections will eventually lead to humanity being dependent on C-sections for reproduction, meaning dependent on sophisticated technology we have today that we did not have for most of the time that humans have been in existence. C-sections make it so that, eventually, if there is a hard technology reset - nuclear apocalypses - humanity might never recover.

All theoretically, in the long term, and that doesn't mean that C-sections aren't a good thing. Just that, to the extent C-sections allow for people who tend to need C-sections for successful childbirth, that trait won't be "weeded out" so it will be allowed to propagate. Not getting weeded out is a good thing: it means more babies will be able to be born who otherwise might have died (and the mother too).

keebydee · 2024-02-20T04:44:12+00:00

QFM: Do you think the women here are bad people based off the stuff you have seen from them? 🤔

missionglowup · 2024-02-20T06:18:39+00:00

when did the rules say that people in relationships on this sub can’t talk about their partner or how happy they are in their relationship? just because there’s unhappy people doesn’t mean people who are happy have to be silent to not trigger others. if people can complain about their dating woes 24/7, then people can also talking about their dating successes. get over it.

okaybear2point0 · 2024-02-20T09:51:47+00:00

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hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T18:45:08+00:00

is this man attractive? or am i losing my mind

DigEnvironmental3750 · 2024-02-19T19:01:56+00:00

Its crazy how much women hate ugly men

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-19T19:02:45+00:00

Thirst

LillthOfBabylon · 2024-02-19T19:06:45+00:00

A very simple concept that a lot of guys here cannot grasp: If you do something nice expecting something in return, you’re not nice.

The second concept not being grasped; Women are not evil for not having sex with you. Your fake niceness does not entitle you to pussy.

sine120 · 2024-02-19T19:33:13+00:00

The ladies need some better options, here we go:

Q4W: Which of these men would you rather date?

Erik, 27

Straight of the plane Scandinavian, spends a lot of time travelling

Very conventionally attractive, probably an objective 9 or 10 out of 10.

Family has some money, but he makes enough on his own as an extreme sports social media influencer. Does crazy shit like base jumping and has a couple sponsorships.

Bisexual, but only dates women. Is close friends with a handful of people he's been with, no cheating/ hard feelings reported in the group.

Isn't ready for the domestic life yet, but could see himself settling down in 5-10 years. Would want you to move to Europe with him.

Liam, 32

Religious but not the go to church every Sunday type. Has a great relationship with his 4 sisters and their kids. Loves to get them fun presents every so often.

Would like to raise kids Christian, not into casual dating.

Has good facial features and is overall a 7 or an 8. Had a lot more weight that he's in the process of losing now that he's starting to work less hours.

Had a rough breakup with a cheating ex 5 years ago. Thought he was going to marry her. Has focused on his Software company and hasn't dated since.

His company now employs ~10 or so, and if he sold it, it might be worth $4-5M. Would want a pre-nup to protect the company and his employees.

Rach1943 · 2024-02-19T19:33:40+00:00

Male Facial Neotony is a Death Sentence for Attraction, even if the man is of decent height, dresses well, gains muscle.

Try this experiment - take a guy with a major babyface (who cannot grow facial hair) and superimpose his face on a muscular body or a man dressed well (suit). it makes the guy look inconsisent.

MyHouseOnMars- · 2024-02-19T19:34:22+00:00

oh look! one of you was asking about this gems and now I'm seeing ads about them. Damn targeted advertising.

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poopy_head4 · 2024-02-19T20:24:30+00:00

how many men out there would happily fuck

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?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-19T21:05:21+00:00

How much money do you think would be worth it to become a perfect 10?

LoFiPanda14 · 2024-02-19T22:03:26+00:00

Have you gone to the gym today peasants?

ratboi34 · 2024-02-19T22:41:36+00:00

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Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-19T22:45:17+00:00

I kind of want another coffee but it's almost 3 o'clock. Hmmm... I could just take a hydroxyzine to konk out.

VastlyVainVanity · 2024-02-19T23:08:50+00:00

Man, PPD has a pretty bad reputation, huh? I've had more than one experience in which someone called me an incel for having posted here in the past, lol.

Also, y'all ever had an experience of some weirdo deciding to go into your comments and start responding to posts from months/years ago because you disagreed with them?

I just had that happen to me today, a very weird person got mad at me because I told them that having an attitude of "anti-abortion people are all inherently evil and hate women" isn't right, and then I started receiving notifications of responses from very old comments, lol.

Barneysparky · 2024-02-19T23:32:20+00:00

My mother in law passed away this week. Husband flew out to be with her when she got admitted to the hospital, without a house sitter and last minute flight costs I stayed home, but we texted throughout the day and talked in depth a couple times a day for the week he was there. He came home the night she passed, and told me he was so happy to be home.

Normally husband is contrary man, but he just spent a week with his dad whose lost his life partner of 65 years. He's just loving on me right now.

We are going back out there next week, and will take on the cleaning and arranging for dad.

Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-20T00:02:17+00:00

If you looked bad would you want a friend to tell you so you can do something about it?

keebydee · 2024-02-20T00:37:45+00:00

I don't know if I just didn't notice but white grapes have such a strong smell to them. I had my brother smell them but said he didn't smell anything. Red grapes were just though fine but those white ones I don't wanna eat because of the smell. 🤢

FunEducation1434 · 2024-02-20T00:48:42+00:00

Damn I guess they smoked the homie Saulbasedman’s account. Waiting for the return bro 🍻

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-20T01:47:47+00:00

I feel like Republicans just have to disagree with anything and everything Democrats want to do or even their interpretation of reality. "Science? THATS BULLSHIT" etc they're so stupid and petty. A bunch of dumb cattle being led to their slaughter by the biggest dumbasses in the entire country.

Democrats are all about their money and donors though and basically nothing else. They're the biggest boot lickers on the planet while pretending like they care about the environment and LGBTQIAA++<sup>3.</sup> Biggest fakers on planet earth. Their sugary insincerity could kill 4,000 diabetics in one foul swoop.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2024-02-20T03:57:36+00:00

I hate cutting weight so much; I’m hungry and irritable all the time. Looking forward to when I hit my goal weight so I can start eating a normal amount, and even more looking forward to bulking season so I can eat as much as I like.

keebydee · 2024-02-20T05:48:50+00:00

Random shower thought so I don't if I'm gonna be making sense. Lol.

People still don't really care about mental health and those who struggle with disorders despite the overwhelming popularity and support of the topic. People's support for those who struggle are extremely conditional. Sympathy and understanding is only given if you express yourself in a way that's to their liking. Do or say one wrong thing and you're not deserving of it anymore even when they understand that you have it hard. Though this is mainly not the case when it comes to characters (primarily villains) in media who have similar struggles.

Think Joker from the 2019 movie. Nearly everyone had sympathy for him despite being a serial killer. That's because he's entertaining. A fun character. Written in a way to suite the audience's liking. He has emotionally charged music whenever something happens to him. We get to actually see what happens to him that makes us better understand why he does what he does and why he says what he says.

Compare that to the real world where you don't have that luxury. You're not entertaining. You're not a character. You're weren't written in a way for an audience to sympathize with you. You weren't made to their liking. People don't see what happens to you. All they see is the result of it. This is why people don't care.

You're infinitely more of a better person compared to Joker yet understanding is way more harder to come by. To tie in the topic of this subreddit, you could objectively have it hard because of certain things out of your control but the moment you talk about men or women in a certain way that the people around you didn't agree with then that sympathy is revoked. You stopped appealing to their liking.

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T06:13:54+00:00

I lovee orangess❤️

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T09:23:54+00:00

I don't know why people keep quoting twox for misandry. r/boysarequirky is the most misandrist sub I have ever seen. Like it can straight up rival r/theredpill. It's sooooo crazy.

Gladboys · 2024-02-20T09:29:31+00:00

Sometimes I wish to lose everything I take for granted for a day. So that I can be more appreciative of what I do have.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-20T11:18:31+00:00

Every time I feel sad or upset I also feel fat as hell. I can just feel the extra fat all over me. But I have to keep going because I can't die fat.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2024-02-20T11:38:26+00:00

Interesting how some women make themselves unnecessarily difficult to talk to, for no valid reason. This is an interaction I had at work today with a coworker and one woman we speak to once in a while:

Coworker- Wheres home for you in the US

Woman- Home is [US state]

Me- Oh cool. If you don't mind me asking, where in [US State] are you from?

Woman (giving me a weird look)- Are you familiar with it?

Me (thinking)- Bitch I wouldn't ask if I didn't know anything about that place

Me- I used to live in [US State] for a while

Woman- (says small town near a well known city)

I can tell this woman has never been delt with before with her attitude and its obvious shes been skating by based on her looks (shes not even that attractive - obvious overweight BMI and looks like she shoots herself in the face with a shotgun full of makeup everyday).

The average person when asked said question would have responded something like this,

Me- Oh cool. If you don't mind me asking, where in [US State] are you from?

Any other person- Its about 30 minutes outside of [whatever major city].

Doesn't even have to give the name of the town, because I could have really given a shit. I probably would have forgotten after the conversation. Eh, whatever though. Just find it pointless if you come to our area just to make yourself a job itself to hold a conversation with.

Inb4 someone says "Maybe she thought you were trying to flirt with her". Couldn't be further from the truth.

RicePresident_ · 2024-02-20T11:40:55+00:00

Anybody else blocked by random accounts

Scrolling through askreddit and there's unavailable comments from accounts I've never interacted with

How does that happen

poopy_head4 · 2024-02-20T19:06:09+00:00

whats your favorite kind of chip. i like these

https://preview.redd.it/pj3kkw4qgsjc1.png?width=1006&format=png&auto=webp&s=3d9d35b97c833432d26706a56ea4db61b2a68bfa

Real_Line_8074 · 2024-02-20T19:16:54+00:00

One of my favorite little things on the Internet is when I see a comment hating on a niche internet celebrity that I also hate

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-02-20T19:31:45+00:00

Bro, she may forgive you for being a misogynist to her, but she will never forgive you for being a male feminist

dishonouronmycow · 2024-02-20T19:40:51+00:00

How soon is too soon to fall in love. I feel warm inside but at the same time how can it be love after only two dates. I’ve never experienced this before

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-21T02:50:18+00:00

People who say it's no big deal to be single haven't been single for a long enough time to understand, where single includes not being able to have sex, or date, and wanting to, plus a few other little details that take too long to write out.

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Ok-Coat7665 · 2024-02-19T19:09:56+00:00

Q4W: Would you date a man who thinks your friends are hotter than you? He tries not to think of them in a sexual way and he would never act inappropriately towards them, but he can’t help but notice they’re better-looking than you.

monster_lily · 2024-02-19T19:57:18+00:00

i am SO SAD bc after today were not gonna have any days off until spring break unless it snows which is totally bullshit that’s why March lowkey the worst month of the year bc u just dont get no breaks

Shakturi101 · 2024-02-19T20:01:37+00:00

Why is comedy against men considered to be “punching up” when young women on most metrics (education, income, home ownership, romance, friendships, loneliness) are doing as well or better than men?

How is it punching up when men are not above women anymore? If anything men should be able to make fun of some and say they see punching up?

Tripleawge · 2024-02-19T20:13:44+00:00

When I was 13 I went to this PSAT Boot Camp at a community college and the class was filled with 10th graders (so a lot of 15 and 16year olds). There were like 3 guys(me included) and 10 girls and all 5 days we were there for 8hrs and got a lunch and 1.5hr break. During the break we were watched by a pretty hot 17 year old senior in hs and I distinctly remember a guy that was 16 and was always 3 things: relaxed, nonchalant, and always telling jokes. I was never a shy kid but obviously around all these older kids I was not saying much. I have a long African first name and the cool guy would make fun of it but not to a heinous degree or anything like that. But by the 3rd day (for a long time I always thought) I snapped due to the pressure of the class/being the odd one out and in the parking l screamed my head off a the guy who just ended up ignoring me and never spoke to me again.

Looking back now it’s clear to me the reason I blew up is that every single time we had a 1.5 he break the group would get food and then “hangout” in a meeting room at the college with the hot 17yr old watching us and hilariously enough her and the cool guy went to the same highschool and ran in some of the same circles. So while we all ate and talked she would basically sit on his lap and flirt with him in front of us with her constantly making jokes about what they’re future kids would like. Just to reiterate they were just friends and didn’t even really have anything going on. No one else really had a problem with it and I pull never really spoke as I knew that in the environment I was socially as low as it gets.

Here’s kicker tho: I don’t even remember what the guy looked like (pretty sure he was my height at the time and 3 years older than me) but I do remember the girl was a mix between Korean and Japanese with DDs and the an ass so round it would make a volleyball jealous. Long story short when I got to highschool about a year and a half later as a freshman I modeled my ENTIRE personality and persona after that guy.

Not sure if anyone can relate but felt like getting this off my chest

DuetLearner · 2024-02-19T21:33:33+00:00

Marrying for sex isn’t stupid.

Pulpdogs2 · 2024-02-19T22:12:31+00:00

I'm curious for women who are turned off by bisexual men, would that change if he's always been the top and never bottomed. Also would you'd also be turned of by straight guy who's into pegging or has been pegged before.

okaybear2point0 · 2024-02-19T22:23:05+00:00

Q4A: have you ever used one of those online sex chat rooms? (e.g. livejasmine chatroulette omegle)

Last-Application-860 · 2024-02-19T22:37:08+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C3ePPAJLcJV/?igsh=MWxwZTBrZTFoc2ZoYw==

They didn’t have to do him like that 😂

monster_lily · 2024-02-19T22:41:57+00:00

I can feel my integrity disappearing 🔥🔥

FunEducation1434 · 2024-02-19T23:02:20+00:00

Were you nice to women today?

okaybear2point0 · 2024-02-19T23:07:21+00:00

why are lesbians so straight?

https://preview.redd.it/9coewfouimjc1.png?width=533&format=png&auto=webp&s=21fbc220e6d601dfa4567d01fb918c5d169a8fc6

scwizard · 2024-02-19T23:21:44+00:00

Kati Moore of Orange County, CA claims a 24-year old supervisor at Starbucks made almost daily demands on her for sex, months after she began working as a barista.

"I felt like I didn't have a choice," Moore, now 20, told ABC News."I was ashamed and embarrassed. And I felt like he had complete control over my job... he knew all this stuff about my family and my friends and my school."

She says the supervisor would summon her for sex in hundreds of text messages, including one that said, "I'd liked to f--- tomorrow."

"It was an everyday, numerous times a day occurrence," Moore said. "And I just saw it and did what I had to do."

Tbh I sometimes wonder how people like this are able to dress themselves.

keebydee · 2024-02-19T23:26:58+00:00

Sometimes I wonder what I would be like if I was born normal. Socializing would probably be more fun and not a chore.

Significant-Pay-3987 · 2024-02-19T23:55:17+00:00

People view Islam as really controlling, but you ever read some of the catholic teachings? No abortions, contraceptives of any kind, sex other than vaginal, divorce, etc. from reading most Islamic stuff they are strict on stuff that’s kinda easy, catholic stuff hits at like the core of your life.

RicePresident_ · 2024-02-20T00:09:40+00:00

Would you turn in your best friend if they killed someone ?

What about parent ?

poopy_head4 · 2024-02-20T00:15:58+00:00

what do you people look like? are you sexy?

RicePresident_ · 2024-02-20T00:58:37+00:00

I feel like the term "office hot" isn't used anymore

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T01:04:10+00:00

i will never not be obsessed with him

hungrychick404 · 2024-02-20T01:07:44+00:00

Most of men’s dating issues would be solved if men as a whole started to be less easy

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T01:16:28+00:00

pole dancing videos are so cool. apparently there are pole dancing classes you can take where it’s not even about becoming a stripper. a lot of women say it’s good for building confidence and feeling like a bad bitch

Sillkentofu · 2024-02-20T01:18:27+00:00

What r some softmaxxing things ppl often forget?! Im feeling like im missing something

RicePresident_ · 2024-02-20T01:51:31+00:00

Your partner (who's not black) is playing Nas in his car and singing along

He says the n word

How do you react ?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2024-02-20T02:03:44+00:00

Do you think Eminem is an asshole for rapping about killing Kim?

YouCantHoldACandle · 2024-02-20T02:13:50+00:00

What are the best ways to big-dog someone else without being violent or threatening violence

monster_lily · 2024-02-20T02:16:17+00:00

Im a genius Holyyyy shit

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2024-02-20T02:49:19+00:00

Is Taylor Swift an asshole for writing songs about her exes, which caused her fans to hate those exes?

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2024-02-20T03:50:20+00:00

I have no mouth and I must scream

Disruptiionz · 2024-02-20T04:29:39+00:00

I took all new pictures of myself after improving myself and I still am hesitant to do OLD again.

I actually think I look pretty damn good too. All my hard work and money spent for nothing lol.

CasseroleTruck · 2024-02-20T04:31:39+00:00

I have access to good coffee and I have a maker but a lot of times I'm lazy and on the run. I know coffee has antioxidants but does instant coffee have the same? Caffeine-wise they function the same for me but I'm wondering if the health benefits are also there.

No_Mammoth8801 · 2024-02-20T04:35:30+00:00

For my first date, I should have remembered: good conversation =/= good chemistry.

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-20T04:47:19+00:00

What are you seriously proposing for the (relatively) unattractive men? I've never seen anyone give a good answer.

Try to make yourself attractive as possible, and maybe it'll work out.

Okay??? And what if it doesn't? What do you have for those people?

If it turns out my most attractive self isn't good enough ... I just don't get what I want?

How is losing the game is a way to win the game a valid answer? If you were taking a test in a math class no one would ever accept "wrong answers are right answers" or any other BS.

What is 2 + 2?

Answer: don't worry about it, just live your best life, and that'll be good enough.

No way in hell any decent math teacher will give you points for that answer. You fundamentally misunderstand the objective, and I'd argue, most of the time when it comes to dating advice for men, it's intentional.

Significant-Pay-3987 · 2024-02-20T05:16:32+00:00

There’s this white chick who sits next to me in one of me lectures who takes like immaculate color coded notes, knows the prof, and studies really hard. I blew her out of the water on our last test and she seemed slightly dejected. I can die happy.

adelaidemonkie · 2024-02-20T07:18:22+00:00

I just want to know why guys my age have no interest in me but men around 35 or older want me so bad. In the same day, I had a group of young guys be rude to me while I was working, and then at the grocery store a 40 year old asked me if I want to come sit on his face tonight. I do not understand.

Endgame2648 · 2024-02-20T07:54:14+00:00

Why do I lose attraction to someone that I desire just the moment they reciprocate the desire?

So there's this super hot girl. Ofcourse all men in the class are trying to hit on her. But she seems like a nice lady who is looking for something more deep. We get paired up in the same group and I take control of this project. I am very attracted to her body but I don't tell her about it and we talk about only shallow things such as her home town and stuff.

She probably likes how I took care of everything in the project and texts me saying she's thankful to have me in the group. Our next group meeting, We're all chatting about casual non-study related matters and she constantly keeps asking me questions about my background to get to know me better. She asks me about what I want to do after I graduate and what I'm passionate about.

And the moment she does this, I'm no longer attracted to her. I don't feel like pursuing any kind of companionship with her. I went as far as telling my best friend that I found her super hot and wished she would be into me, but now that she is, I find her a little childish. Why is that?

Why am I constantly chasing something? This is a perfectly nice woman who satisfies my criteria and all I'm doing is finding reasons to push her away.

StupidThrowaway3783 · 2024-02-20T08:47:06+00:00

Somewhere between happy and total fucking wreck Feet sometimes on solid ground, sometimes at the edge To spend your waking moments, simply counting time Is to give up on your hopes and dreams, give up on your? Life for you, has been less than kind So take a number, stand in line We've all been sorry, we've all been hurt How we survive, is what makes us who we are

MboloYaBaKali · 2024-02-20T09:26:56+00:00

Everytime I bring up the issue of jocks being the highest status, people assume I went to school in the US (I didn't.) Ours looked something like this;

(Top to bottom)

Athletes
Comedians
Rich Kids
Everyone else
Nerds, geeks and other slightly autistic individuals

What did your high school social status hierarchy look like?

okaybear2point0 · 2024-02-20T09:44:43+00:00

guess his height

https://preview.redd.it/vosmu0riopjc1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=8ce3a709cc3d5ca4203a24ca1654baadd918471d

Laila_kiss07 · 2024-02-20T11:33:45+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/s/r5lXsdegtX

Salma Hayek is literally goalsss. Like how is she 56 years old, I wanna age just like her 😩

saulbasedman3 · 2024-02-20T13:55:37+00:00

What does it mean if I can't remember any dream I have, ever?

monster_lily · 2024-02-20T16:28:30+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/jrggedqlorjc1.jpeg?width=1600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5583144525e46e9f91ef7bb5a4d589a41c9d8252

Hes so adorableeee

Sillkentofu · 2024-02-20T17:30:24+00:00

I read a post on here earlier about a guy being upset his coworker didn’t want to make small talk with him.

This is something I’ve actually been meaning to talk to my boss about (she’s my friend) but what’s a good way to tell your coworker that you literally do not want to sit and small talk all day. I have a coworker who will come sit in my office and hang out (my office is like an open air lobby so it’s not that weird) and sit on his phone and make small stalk with me and I’ve started to get annoyed with it. Even if I start making calls or pretending to be busy he stays and shows me memes on his phone and stuff once I start playing on my phone. I do consider him a friend but part of me is just all talked out as I have a customer facing sales job and me and my boss chit chat all day already about stuff that’s actually interesting to me like shopping and shoes. Sometimes I just want some privacy I guess idk!

FunEducation1434 · 2024-02-20T18:44:09+00:00

A BSSO could lowkey ascend me

BackToTheMoon_ · 2024-02-20T18:51:01+00:00

Why guys should let go of their revenge fantasies. There will always be a simp desperate enough

hannahg000 · 2024-02-20T19:24:24+00:00

you know how some guys say to multiple a woman’s body count by 3. mine would still be 0. math rocks

Silver_Past2313 · 2024-02-20T19:31:35+00:00

If I were the enemy of a nation, I would tell it's women to work and skip on family. I would tell them never settle, get the hottest man. I would tell them pregnancy is hard on the body, not worth it. I would watch their population fall.

Then I would wait, and simply walk over their empty lands.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-02-20T19:37:09+00:00

Madame web bombed, The Marvels also bombed.

Bro, wokeness is not the way

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-02-20T19:40:11+00:00

Bro, increase your SMV to the point that she gets insecure about your commitment to her.

She is always at her best, when she's insecure

JohnGoodman_69 · 2024-02-20T19:49:54+00:00

How Trans Men Expose Female Privilege

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNME0cloyyM

sine120 · 2024-02-20T20:09:08+00:00

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2024-02-20T20:10:52+00:00

"There's strength in vulnerability"

Would you vote for a leader who believed that?

RicePresident_ · 2024-02-20T20:14:58+00:00

My obviously gay but not out to the people in the office boss was on leave for 2 weeks. He just texted me that he landed at the airport and that he'll see me tomorrow.

I replied thats awesome, hope you had loads of fun. Yes I said loads on purpose.

To which he replied. "🙏😏"

This man had so much gay anal sex in the last 2 weeks. Im happy for him.

Special-Possession44 · 2024-02-20T06:22:57+00:00

when you are successful with women like me, you realise women ain't shit. i just got back from a date with a girl and got so bored in the middle that i was questioning why do men even bother to interact with a woman. also, the sex is really the same with all of them. once you reach my level, you actually start to contemplate being a monk. i was contemplating in the ride back home that i wanted to break up with my casual partners and be alone. I just can't do this anymore, they are so vapid and meaningless.

Ok-Principle-3785 · 2024-02-20T06:07:25+00:00

Some women are going to get raped and that's okay. If that seems insane to you then you should also see some men never find a partner and that's okay as insane too.

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