Why are the comments saying this is cute?!

Basem3nt · 2021-08-22T15:01:59+00:00

Bruh I would’ve been too embarrassed to post this lmao

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-08-22T15:15:37+00:00

Scrote: "I literally hate you"

Pickmeisha: "OMG so cute he just joking so funny" 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

shockingupdate · 2021-08-22T14:38:27+00:00

The bridge troll living in her broom closet doesn’t meet a woman every day who will let him be his authentic, bridge troll self. He knows a good groundskeeper when he sees her!

Edit: Thanks for the award, who says wimmenfolk can’t be funny 😆

DandelionScreaming · 2021-08-22T14:07:35+00:00

It’s not cute, it would be heartbreaking to hear.

Junior-Lion7893 · 2021-08-22T16:02:07+00:00

Lol he plays in a closet. That’s funny!!!

Painfulmenstruation · 2021-08-22T18:00:00+00:00

She’s laughing but she’s in pain.

I was shocked to see a whole grown ass man when she opened that closet door, though. That made me laugh quite a bit. Little boys play in the cupboard under the stairs, not grown men.

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-08-22T15:03:30+00:00

Wow, the comments were worse than I thought they'd be. Imagine thinking it's cute to have a closet creature for a boyfriend/father of your kid.

jp2117515 · 2021-08-22T15:16:08+00:00

Her whole post is attention seeking and cringey. She knows exactly what she married - or rather she should. She’s trying to manufacture some fairy tale that never existed. She’s in a fog - denial and having inability to see and accept reality is what’s going on. I think a lot of women do this. They marry a man not for who he is but for the idea of what could be or “should” be according to her fantasy narrative. The dude is like a 14 year old boy retreating into a closet to play video games in stead of interacting with his family. He’s probably just speaking his truth and wondering what the fuck she’s talking about. This is the same kind of pickme that hides behind the Facebook fascade of the “perfect” family. Meanwhile in reality it’s a mess. The fascade always trumps reality with these pickmes. #maybeicanchangehim

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-22T17:41:34+00:00

A man does this to me, I’d break up with him in the spot. This seems abusive. I can only imagine what the rest of their relationship looks like. He as already put off with her for “interrupting” his video game and his response coaxed as “humor” to me sounds like how he actually feels. Disgusting.

This honestly shows how little self respect she has and it’s just sad. I know so many women who think their insensitive boyfriends or husbands are “funny” it’s like dissociation in a way.

ashcantcatchabreak · 2021-08-22T14:48:57+00:00

That’s….so sad

pickadaisy · 2021-08-22T13:58:55+00:00

Wow, this is shameful.

jupitarianrise · 2021-08-22T14:28:29+00:00

“Honey, why did you PICK ME over 1 billion women? 😍” as if he had the choice lol. The man was probably attractive to one or two women maximum. Pick mes really need to stop acting like their men are a catch. They’re not. The man knows it, and when he says ehh I was getting old thought I might as well settle, he wasn’t joking, he was telling her the truth and she was laughing at HERSELF. Girl bye.

localgirlcult · 2021-08-22T15:35:16+00:00

I don't like you that much, don't flatter yourself, I didn't have that much choice, fucking leave me alone mate.

What is the point of keeping that around the house? There's so much other shit you could do with your life. Even as a joke, that's just pathetic. The joke is that she's nobody.

Pornruinedsociety · 2021-08-22T14:17:20+00:00

Give it back to it's biological parents for some re-parenting.

LateDiagnosedAutie · 2021-08-22T14:47:09+00:00

OMG, that flat dead-eyed stare that he gave her when she asked her question was actually horrifying. This man is not only self aware about how broken and numb he is, but doesn't even have any hope or interest in being 'fixed'.

Technusgirl · 2021-08-22T14:05:40+00:00

That is not cute. So he just settled for her because he felt like he didn't have many other options? He was only 21 and felt that way? Wtf, something is wrong with that guy

everwonderlust · 2021-08-22T14:09:48+00:00

He can’t answer it immediately, far out. Seems like she’s more of a stranger to him than a gf.

girl_in_red_costume · 2021-08-22T14:53:21+00:00

And she posted it? Damn, she must not have any sense of self preservation anymore.

veruscka · 2021-08-22T17:43:39+00:00

Wow, so much contempt in his face. He despises her. Also what is even going on here, he has an immersive video game console in a closet?

arnezuara · 2021-08-22T14:16:40+00:00

This poor woman thinks that he is just “teasing” or being sarcastic. In reality, he’s telling her the truth.

That is why, the moment he “jokes” or speaks of you in that manner, you have to leave.

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-08-22T14:19:25+00:00

Well that’s depressing.

I_know_right_AS_IF · 2021-08-22T16:01:14+00:00

Answers like that would give me a complex! Definitely wouldn't post this for everyone to see. Is that part of her coping??

Astral_weaver · 2021-08-22T15:02:06+00:00

The way he looks at her it is not the way a loving partner looks at you.

If a man's eyes don't shine with happiness every time he sees you, what's the point of keeping him?

throwaway-fds · 2021-08-22T14:51:31+00:00

I honestly can't feel any sympathy for her. The red flags had to be bright in the beginning, and his disgust and contempt for her is so glaringly obvious and she just laughs it off. I mean, I guess that's all you can do when you're baby trapped with a broom closet scrote. I wonder what brand of antidepressants she's on.

starfighter07 · 2021-08-22T16:53:43+00:00

The fact that pick me girls be like "hihihih steveeeeen you're so funnyyyyyy and edgyyy you have such a dark sense of humour".

Nah sis, he isn't even trying to hide how little he thinks of you.

+ someone calling you "mate"... that's a hell of a red flag (one of the many in this vid).

electroloop · 2021-08-22T14:44:43+00:00

That neanderthal haircut, that terrible gamer posture. He’s truly blessed to even have a woman pay attention to him at all.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-08-22T16:37:53+00:00

This would be a cool room for an 8 year old to play games in...

One_Bat_2525 · 2021-08-22T16:49:10+00:00

That is tragic to watch. I was cringing for her.

AnneJedonia · 2021-08-22T14:49:26+00:00

Oh like when I asked my bf if i embarrass him and he shrugged but lovingly said “you used to.” Like I or he had grown out of it. Spoiler, I embarrassed him.

Throwthisaway512 · 2021-08-22T14:05:21+00:00

About as shameful as a grown ass man in a light bright broom closet playing video games 🤮

Level up your life sis and kick man out!

queenofswordsxxx · 2021-08-22T15:54:21+00:00

So many red flags here:

‘Oh my god’ & visible annoyance when she opens his man cave door - Clearly video game addict who views games more important than her, not to mention disrespectful
‘I wouldn’t flatter yourself, love’ - A man that is unwilling to compliment you clearly doesn’t hold you in much high regard, not to mention to backhanded nature of this, suggests that he’s probably believes in not complimenting women/ RP ideology of ‘humbling these bitches’
‘I didn’t have much choice, did I? Time was running out’ - Does this guy view dating like musical chairs? He doesn’t love you, he’s just settling until something better comes along. Also suggests abusive ‘nice guy’ trope, woe is me, no one will date me mentality of the incels. Big cringe.
‘I wanted kids early’ + they met at 21 - Immature man child that thinks having children doesn’t require effort, stability, good finances. How about no.
‘It weren’t by choice’ - White men are truly great white sharks that decide to develop a victim mentality, forget they have teeth and starve to death. Again with this ‘woe is me’ incel ‘why won’t girls date me’ scarcity mindset. He clearly doesn’t think he can do better because he doesn’t think highly of himself and doesn’t think highly of her either.
‘Fucking leave me alone, mate’ - Again, with the visible annoyance, she’s asking a valid question, she wants you to compliment her and make her feel loved. Yet he responds with such an attitude & is super dismissive. Not to mention, no sane woman would want to date someone who calls her ‘mate’ ‘bro’ ‘bruh’ ‘dude’. She’s not your mate. She’s your partner. You have a child and a family YT channel together.

Edit: Looked up their youtube channel and she's still labelling him her 'boyfriend'. No doubt this is going to be a tragic forever girlfriend scenario. Yikes.

ItsFreezen · 2021-08-22T16:00:13+00:00

Oh my god. She has kids with him?

doc-2-be · 2021-08-22T16:26:09+00:00

Uhm wtaf?! I'm not sure how she's okay with this , this sounds hurtful

WorkaholicParty · 2021-08-22T17:00:28+00:00

I thought she was embarrassing before she even showed him "wonder why he picked me tehehehe". This is pitiable.

shutup201 · 2021-08-22T18:05:58+00:00

Who would possibly think this is cute?

aenema46n2 · 2021-08-22T19:13:53+00:00

Just embarrassing. How is she not hurt by that? And they have a child🤦‍♀️

I looked at their other videos and immediately got LVM vibes from him. She's honestly too beautiful for him.

stxrchild · 2021-08-22T17:53:04+00:00

So what he’s telling her is that he couldn’t find anyone else with low enough self esteem to be with him? Leave leave leave.

lluuni · 2021-08-22T21:54:08+00:00

This is why all women need to vet as much as possible. Many men don’t care who they marry as long as they have a relationship. Their sex lives and relationship status dominate their ego because it’s how they flash their value and dominance to other men.

If a man shows interest in you it may not be because he thinks your special. It’s often because he’s just trying to snag any relationship he can. Always Vet and wait until you find a man who shows effort and high value traits.

lilac-hiraeth · 2021-08-22T18:21:22+00:00

If I’m living my best life it already doesn’t include you!

alichuchu · 2021-08-22T23:50:41+00:00

it’s so bizarre that men have so much contempt for women but will marry them and have kids with them. why can’t they just be by themselves and wallow in their self pity and loathing and just leave women alone?

not only ruining women but there’s no way their children will grow up in a healthy environment, already ruining a new generation before it’s even started. terrible.

Gouda8995 · 2021-08-22T14:46:48+00:00

The PickMe ears are only hearing his "I didn't have a choice" as some kind of humility from him, or she was so great he had no other choice but her 'cause she's so great, so therefore she actually chose him and she's this great man-lifter; and "uuuuugh I was getting oooold" that he was actually family/long-term minded at a young age, and is a weak attempt to flip script about the meme of women being "baby crazy" (a social sin when I was young) and 'hitting the wall' in that he was also worried about it for him. Or something...I'm sure there are simpler examples of Cognitive Dissonance than this though.

It'd be at least slightly more convincing if she were interrupting him like, chopping wood or dressing an animal, working out maaaaybe; or hunched over appearing to work on making or planning household financials, like literally anything to signal he brings any value to their lives, but no, he's found hiding slumped over in a closet with a baby's steering wheel toy.

Wkndwhorechata · 2021-08-22T21:55:20+00:00

It's the *fucking leave me alone* for me!

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-08-22T21:06:37+00:00

I would have said "here's your choice" and hand him divorce paperwork. He couldn't even pretend to love her. That's not cute. It's horrible. He's so mean and cruel.

sjefsiljuuus · 2021-08-23T00:11:48+00:00

I feel sprry for this girl, I hope she some day cone across FDS and see this for what it is. This dude is straight up living in a closet and seemed to get so annoyed because she just wants his attention. She is in denial, and I am certain she believes she is overreacting if she tries to talk to him.

This aint cute. If someone told me that I would kick him out. No closet living dude are gonna take advantage of me like that

2021-08-23T01:51:01+00:00

These pick-me clowns 5 years later: "I couldn't see the red flags! He just changed and left me for a 18 year old 😭 I'm so heartbroken i thought he was my best friend and partner in crime 😭🤡 I thought he was madly in love with me 🤡🤡🤡 Why did he suddenly change and stop loving me???? 😢 WhAt Do I dO rEdDiT? 🥺"

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-22T19:42:52+00:00

Reminds me of Oscar the Grouch yelling for someone to close his trashcan lid.

maznyk · 2021-08-22T22:50:18+00:00

This is so sad and disgusting. Literally calls her “love” in the same breath of telling her he didn’t choose her and not to flatter herself. I just want to vomit 🤮.

Valentcat · 2021-08-23T06:10:12+00:00

Looking through this account breaks my heart!! He didn’t get her a 5th anniversary present, she has his child and he refuses to pay for a simple luxury for her (one video, she asks him to cover a single mani/pedi and he refuses), apparently he flirts with waitresses, etc.

This stuff repeated? Not a joke! When you love someone, you want to do nice things for them.

And so tired of hearing about “love languages.” He didn’t get me an anniversary present because it’s not his “love language.” No, baby, he didn’t get you an anniversary present because he’s cheap and thoughtless.

Risoa · 2021-08-22T18:07:45+00:00

Oh wow so precious

need-some-sun · 2021-08-22T18:58:38+00:00

link to the tiktok cause i absolutely wanted to read the comments

stillcantsee · 2021-08-22T22:24:37+00:00

PickMe's posting their L's

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-08-22T23:22:01+00:00

This made me gasp out loud. Stop recording and start packing your bags.

ddamaya · 2021-08-22T23:29:34+00:00

Hahaha He HAtE WiFE

sandzak_bih · 2021-08-22T20:22:03+00:00

i truly feel sorry for her and all the pick mes in her comment section

divination__ · 2021-08-22T20:10:25+00:00

this is so sad

LateDiagnosedAutie · 2021-08-23T12:41:50+00:00

I watched the video AGAIN to see if there was something, ANYTHING that I was missing. Maybe some tiny glimmer of teasing warmth in his eyes? Nothing! Why are the vast majority of non-FDS viewers looking at this video and calling it heartwarming?!? WTF is wrong with people?!

Rewatching the video only made me realize that this video has been CUT and EDITED by the GF to make it look as cute as possible, and not like her boyfriend is a reptile living in his terrarium tank!

FlockAroundtheClock · 2021-08-22T14:59:53+00:00

He looks like he hasn't washed in months.

kiki_do_u_luv_me · 2021-08-22T22:52:51+00:00

I for real wanna get rid of all social media bc seeing shit like this is so—

purziveplaxy · 2021-08-23T03:27:55+00:00

She should have closed the closet door and locked him in there forever. ❤ Or less.

CloacaDiddler · 2021-08-22T15:37:27+00:00

No way anyone thought that was cute. NO WAY

babyqueso · 2021-08-22T15:40:56+00:00

This is embarrassing

spicyspa · 2021-08-23T04:23:35+00:00

Classic sign of contempt.

Outrageous-Knowledge · 2021-08-23T06:18:59+00:00

I’m getting so much second hand embarrassment…

Eden199607 · 2021-08-23T06:21:10+00:00

Why would she even post this? Is sis a fresh graduate from clown uni or what 🤡

nyLqw24684 · 2021-08-23T11:20:28+00:00

Just went to their instagram and they aren't even married oh my god. Homegirl gave this man a wholeass baby without a ring

Nat_at_all · 2021-08-23T17:52:13+00:00

Okay so she’s an incubator for him? Yeah not cute I’m so confused Ew

Aquarian1999 · 2021-08-23T18:00:33+00:00

He lives in the stair cupboard like a scrote Harry Potter

comet2004 · 2021-08-23T08:23:31+00:00

Is there any chance this is dry British humor? Because if not this is just sad....

Talktothecat1 · 2021-08-23T09:45:59+00:00

Anyone here just for the comments? 😸😸

sunologie · 2021-08-23T11:31:19+00:00

how did she post this and not feel embarrassed what the fuck is wrong with women?

TigreImpossibile · 2021-08-23T12:19:24+00:00

Honestly this is mortifying. What an idiot she is.

And she posts this 🤪

Nat_at_all · 2021-08-23T17:53:25+00:00

So he was sitting in a closet playing a video game with some sort of wheel and he had the gall to insult her.

greatcathy · 2021-08-23T05:43:32+00:00

I have to say, to me this looks like a passive-aggressive psychological ambush on her part. If a bf put a camera in my face and asked me a q like that, I'd probably want to flip the script too....my heart is not a performing seal.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2021-08-22T17:49:34+00:00

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tonha_da_pamonha · 2021-08-23T06:54:56+00:00

We knew it was bad when we saw how invested he is into video games. I'm honestly surprised he bothered to even answer her questions

cookiemonstergirls · 2021-08-25T15:50:56+00:00

She is probably crying on the inside. I bet that he says that kind of stuff to her all the time. She probably posted that video for validation from other people that her man totally does not hate her guts and actually loves her very much.

Title	Why are the comments saying this is cute?!
Author	diamond_pie
Upvotes	1361
Comments	188
Date	August 22, 2021 1:54 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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