why do women say that these aren't good enough? they say that they use make ups/perfume/clothes/etc to come to the date, and therefore a coffee date is losing them money. they're not using the WHOLE make up/perfume bottle, but that's the money they still say they spent on the date, so they kind of expect 'reimbursement' via an expensive date.

they also require the guy to have a college education, a house and a car. so, by their own logic, wouldn't they have to reimburse the guy's house, car and eduaction expenses?