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Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T07:47:45+00:00

hmm

i miss my dad

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

what's the best way to go talk to him again

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T06:48:23+00:00

I'm going to go back to the bar and drink more 👍

I came home

going back

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T06:23:21+00:00

I do promise this: When I do killl myslef once ghost dies you gusy will be the first ones to know 😊

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T06:08:35+00:00

First time I tried to kill myself was at

8? Maybe? 6-8. I barely remember the incident. I was raised ULTRA religious and heard Jesus died by hanging on the cross so I thought "h, obiously, I just need to hang both my wrists with rope from a tree and I will suffocate, because that's how Jesus died, he couldn't breathe, I will crucify myself" because like that was the only way I had the concepot of dying.

They found me trying to tie myself to the fucking jungle gym bars in the park at like 12 AM

lmao

Second time was when I was like...13? By this point I had not only realized that I was autistic I ahd realized it's implication. I tried to slit my wrists in the bathroom in the tub (yeah I know that's a cry for help and not a legitimate suicide attempt, fuck off). Unfortunately my mom literally broke down the door after I didn't answer the first two times rushed me to the ER and now I'm posting on PPD

The third time I tried to kill myself was in college. I was a TA for a bunch of students and I was also tutoring people. One of the people I offered free tutoring too (because he was GigaChad, I'm serious , I thought he could help me talk to women) was talking about how he was going to a party. I tried to invite myself and he said I'd scare off the women.

Unfortunately my roommate foudn me (the only year I had a roommate) found me. Although I also don't know statics so what I did was tie a pullup bar between the walls and try to go offf of that but I didnt' secure it enough and it slipped fell and I (apparetnly, I remmeber none of this) got knocked the fuck out when it slipped and I hit my head on the ground which is where my roommat found me\

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T06:01:52+00:00

I'm home I'm pretty drunk

baresquad · 2023-07-06T05:42:32+00:00

Women aren’t hard to figure out. A lot of men are just too anxious and overthink everything.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-06T05:17:35+00:00

Q4A: would you get out of bed to take a 1 hour commute for a single 1 hour lecture at 9am?

scwizard · 2023-07-06T04:58:50+00:00

Apparently school girls do better when separated from boys.

https://www.kidsnews.com.au/humanities/study-reveals-benefits-of-allgirls-schools/news-story/bd53dfc34ee1b989266b5e7ae45a3a44

In every category it seems.

Which is interesting cause I thought feminists were the reason why we had coed schools.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-06T03:48:58+00:00

Isn’t it funny that when anti-choicers talk about abortion, they often graphically describe DnCs, and rarely talk about medicinal abortions? Like they want it to be thought of as the most violent version possible, instead of just… a woman’s uterus shedding a pregnancy, just like it would if the fetus was incompatible with life to begin with.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-07-06T03:23:25+00:00

Do you guys think that there's any statistically significant correlation between a person's promiscuity and how likely they are to cheat?

I'm pretty sure that people who care a lot about sex as something special are less likely to cheat than people to whom sex is just another activity. But when you compare an average person who sleeps around a bit with some folks, to the one who considers it just another activity, I dunno, the odds are probably pretty similar?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-06T02:58:42+00:00

Should I let some hot guy take me out this weekend and hookup with him. I really hate being 21.

Willow-girl · 2023-07-06T02:34:45+00:00

Seems someone dumped a cat at our farm. Poor thing cries and cries! It was skittish at first but warmed up when I offered it some food, so not a feral. We'll see if it hangs around. Probably. Another mouth to feed, sigh. At least it's a small one. Let's hope it's not another female with a belly full of kittens!

MalandiBastos · 2023-07-06T02:20:22+00:00

If abortion became federally illegal in america, what do you think would happen? I wouldnt be suprised if that happened within the next 10 years. I feel like shit would pop off way harder than the floyd riots.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-06T02:16:37+00:00

I don't think that online dating or cold approach would work on me because I just can't be romantically attracted to people I'm not friends with/don't know very well it's weird.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T02:01:07+00:00

Leonardo dicaprio was actually cute when he was younger damn still hate him tho

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-06T02:00:41+00:00

Keke Palmer's bf and baby daddy called her out on Twitter for allegedly dressing inappropriately for a mother at an usher concert. Thoughts?

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-06T01:55:17+00:00

Q4all: who do you go to when you have no one else to talk to?

huhwhatokok · 2023-07-06T01:53:46+00:00

When will y’all realize a lot of social issues women “care” about is really just pandering for social acceptance.

“LGBT deserves equal right!….just don’t ask me out if your bi that gives me the ick.”

“Autistism isn’t a defect, your normal!….just don’t ask me out you’re weird.”

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-06T01:49:53+00:00

While I generally dislike women from here, they're absolutely right about one thing, you have to put yourself out there, if you haven't asked a girl out in last 2 weeks, you're not doing nearly enough and you should stop complaining, Tinder doesn't count.

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T01:49:06+00:00

Women have a sharp instinct to spot "ascending life" in men, drain it of man's vital essence and devolve man back into primitive state.

Don't let anyone tell you women are benevolent, or that they don't need men. Their entire existence depends on exploiting men for their gain

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-07-06T01:45:03+00:00

In 2023 you basically have to run hard social circle game or have met a girl from school, community groups (church), the relationships I see that get formed organically like from bars or apps are where the guy is a out of the girls league because it’s hard for a looksmatch guy to woo girls without that social proof.

potoricco · 2023-07-06T01:36:41+00:00

r/APStudents took down my post grrrrr

WHY am I the only one not allowed to celebrate

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-06T01:36:09+00:00

What bothers me most in debates, not just on ppd, but on all social media is that people don't seem have an ability to think or see stuff from different perspective. These are the people that lose in debates in 90% of cases. That are basically ppd women

TigerRude4 · 2023-07-06T01:34:16+00:00

It's amusing how women easily repeatedly get owned on ppd, misunderstand pretty much everything about red pill and refuse to acknowledge well documented stuff from red pill, yet are somehow convinced that they're right. The only thing worse than them is men arguing with them and trying to convince them they're wrong. You're arguably an even bigger idiot

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-06T01:30:34+00:00

It's strange how often someone will use "autism" as an insult when asking someone to explain what they meant.

People come up with their own definitions and then expect everyone to agree.

For example....

Having debt is trashy

You're only attractive if you evoke lust in every person

Something something "high n count bad"

potoricco · 2023-07-06T01:08:05+00:00

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Do you find him attractive

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-06T00:57:09+00:00

I stay loling at dudes saying they can spot sluts just by looking at them. YOU ARE SO EASY TO FOOL ITS HILARIOUS.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T00:54:47+00:00

I do find it funny that for 99% of people "go out, touch grass, interact with people" is positive, good advice. But my therapist says that when I do it, it is necessarily self harm because of how it turns how. We've actually been working on the OPPOSITE of what most people work on. While most people will work with there therapists on advice on how to go out and have fun, me and my therapist are working on correcting my thought patterns that make me want to go out.

We're do that so that I stay inside away from other people (which is a better option where I am not self harming) instead.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-06T00:43:00+00:00

Question for male whores: do different throats all feel different for head or are they all the same?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T00:39:42+00:00

I would like to do some self harm tonight by going to someplace NT people go, attempting to talk to them, and then realizing (or them telling me directly to leave them alone) I am autistic and that they do not want to talk to me.

Where should I go?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-06T00:33:15+00:00

Q4M: What do you actually think about born again virgins?

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-06T00:25:20+00:00

I took the advice here for the anniversary gift, I got her some gold and birth stone earrings, and a coupon for a spa facial. I got some addidas running shoes, they're mad comfy.

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-06T00:10:34+00:00

Goddamn whenever someone blocks you on here it is so annoying cause you can't reply to the rest of the conversation. I don't even know who the person who blocked me is

clumsytboner · 2023-07-06T00:05:49+00:00

Last time I was here it was long before Andrew Tate blew up. Strange to see old posters from then still active. Conversation doesn't seem to have progressed much either

I think it's important guys go beyond the Red Pill. Red Pills foundation is evolutionary psychology which is shaky at best. It's not that evolutionary psychology is wrong, rather it's that it specifically zoomed in on the pressures of reproduction and survival, when life is a lot more than that

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-06T00:01:17+00:00

I’m never having kids but if I did there’s no way in hell the pregnant mother of my children is taking nasty ass public transportation lol. My dad bought my mom a car specifically for this reason when she was pregnant with my oldest sister and he couldn’t drive her everywhere/needed his car for himself.

This is response to the whole

“HOW WOULD TOU FEEL IF SOMEONE DIDN’T GIVE UO A SEAT FOR YOUR PREGNANT WIFE” crap

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-06T00:00:17+00:00

Where did the good guys go?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-05T23:52:02+00:00

For people already in favor of medically assisted euthanasia for disabilities:

Do you think autism is something that should be allowed to be covered under that?

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-05T23:36:59+00:00

Seems weird to hate women who have sex instead of hating men who have sex with women.

Like the idea of "pumping and dumping", is men choosing to have sex and that's all because she's not xyz.

But then they just "ruin her" for all other men simply because they don't want her so they make it so someone else wouldn't want her either.

So again, men causing their own obstacles by being slutty.

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-07-05T23:12:04+00:00

Question4Men: what are things I can do to make women uncomfortable? Tired of being oppressed by the matriarchy.

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-05T23:01:22+00:00

I never met a classy high N-count woman. Not saying there aren't any, just saying to my knowledge, I never met one. Every high N-count woman I know was trashy as fuck.

Never vetted a woman for her N-count.

Instead since all of them were trashy as fuck, they had a whole package of reasons I didn't want to get involved with them.

blebbyroo · 2023-07-05T23:00:25+00:00

Lol at stories of men opening up the marriage and finding out down the track it was a dumb idea https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/14re7gs/aita_for_choosing_not_to_go_back_to_work_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-05T22:50:21+00:00

God damn, smash burgers on a cast iron skillet are such a simple joy. The technique is so simple and there's so little ingredients but the outcome is so remarkable.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-05T22:49:17+00:00

Q4Women: Any of you ever notice that it seems like women are afraid of the wrong guys?

Statistically speaking, most assaults that happen to women are by current or former partners. That means that those men passed through all checks and barriers to make it to the spot where the woman is most vulnerable, only to abuse her later on.

Meanwhile, there are guys out there that wouldn't do that to a woman but because they're strangers, they're automatically sus.

I think its funny that a lot of things regarding sex, dating and relationships seem so ass-backwards and nobody really gives it a second thought. So.........

Thoughts?

CliffPR · 2023-07-05T22:38:13+00:00

I'm always fascinated by women who say they are "checking out" or "giving up" on dating. What exactly does that entail? Do you stop having guys hit on you? How exactly do you do that? If a guy who is everything you wanted before shoots his shot do you now just tell him to fuck off? How do you stop putting in effort when your part in the dance never required any?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-05T17:37:02+00:00

Oh boy, do I love when “the logical gender” sees their anecdotes as fact, but statistics that gather information from thousands of people is just “wrong”.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-07-05T19:11:36+00:00

TIL the infamous 80/20 study had a sample size of 27

Not a single guy here would accept a study with such a dismally small sample size if it was being used to make a point they didn't agree with, yet somehow this one has become gospel.

I get that these debates are more about feelings over facts, for most of the guys here, but damn, it's funny when it shows up in such an obvious way...

DerayRevan · 2023-07-05T07:06:23+00:00

"Do men really struggle with dating ? Every guy l know has a girlfriend or wife"

Lol

Do humans get sick ? Every person l know is healthy

That's the equivalent

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-05T11:06:01+00:00

The biggest dating issue guys have in PPD is simple: Being too shallow, and not hot enough to compensate for that.

It’s why they don’t want to find a woman based on personality and compatibility; they’re too shallow for that and they want to get a girlfriend solely based on her looks.

Despite what these nice guys will tell themselves, they never wanted to be like good men with good happy lives. They wanted to be like fuck boys fucking a bunch of women every night. That’s why the only people they know good with women are assholes, because they think having one girl be in love with a guy is a “loss”.

That’s why these guys always talk about how much looks and height matters; because looks is all that matters to them and they’re bitter that the hot girls they want only want hot tall men. They’re actually no different from the douche bags they complain about the hot girls dating, it’s just he’s not hot nor charismatic enough to also be the douchebag she’d date.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-05T18:22:19+00:00

Apparently the guy who created the 80/20 rule for online dating with his 2015 Medium article has responded to criticism in another article a few months ago.

https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-answering-questions-and-criticisms-part-ii-a-response-to-a-criticism-that-81a618d53a7a

He responds to a feminist who tried to debunk his original article and wrote about how "the 80/20 rule is a big fat incel lie".

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-05T14:06:04+00:00

If you’ve even seen an interview where Elon Musk is talking about anything other than Tesla (it gets worse when you find out Elon didn’t found Tesla) you would realize how much an idiot the guy is and how much he regurgitates what he’s heard in pop culture and tries to pass them off as his own original ideas. Even though Elon is so incredibly stupid, white middle aged males can’t help but to simp. Fully grown males fangirling because Elon liked their tweet is how you know America is fucked.

Elon Musk shits in his hand and throws it at a window

White Middle Aged Males: AHHHH YESS ELON! YOU’RE SUCH AN INNOVATIVE GENIUS. ONLY YOU COULD HAVE CREATED SOMETHING SO BEAUTIFUL AND NECESSARY!!!

Wanting to live vicariously through someone when passed the age of 18 is feminine behavior.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-07-05T08:57:02+00:00

When did Redpillers become so damn fragile? I thought reason, logic and stoicism was supposed to be the mantra.

"I believe in X"

"Well from my experiences I don't believe in X"

"STOP GASLIGHTING ME!!! 😭"

I see this exchange so much here, come on guys don't be such wetties.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-05T11:13:56+00:00

If you’re jealous of serial killers having fangirls, you should to evaluate why you wanna fuck crazy women. Or maybe you’re just a misogynist who don’t pay attention to “annoying things” like personality, mental health, values, etc and you just believe all women are nothing but walking fleshlights that God has entitled you to.

Curious_licks20 · 2023-07-05T13:28:34+00:00

TERFs get what they deserve

https://i.redd.it/icrr6683w0ab1.jpg

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-05T16:15:41+00:00

Honestly After hosting 4th of July 3 years in a row it was nice to be the guest at someone else’s house and not have to worry about cooking ,cleaning up before/after, entertainment etc. Just show up looking cute, with our nice bottle. eat food, and dip after few hours with some leftover chicken.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-05T17:56:14+00:00

Men dislike single mothers yet if they never marry the women the procreate with they create single mothers and make their children bastards voluntarily.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-07-05T18:31:37+00:00

theofficialsweets on tiktok

Staged a video about a tinder date bringing his baby on the first date.

Top comments from women:

It’s cute. We love responsible Man

That's a green flag he doesn't forget about his kid

Green flag

He is being responseble thats good

So what? Good for you🥰

And this goes on. Yes, it’s staged but I didn’t know that until I checked their profile.

The dude is not a Chad. He’s average looking.

Men do not give this much grace to single moms.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-05T21:50:25+00:00

Arousing - wants to go to bed with tonight

Attractive - wants to wake up to

Do you agree with this definition?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-05T15:35:05+00:00

This sub is so toxic yet I keep coming back

Curious_licks20 · 2023-07-05T16:40:24+00:00

https://i.redd.it/g0gpz4zvns9b1.jpg

😂 he’s dead serious

social_mules_alt · 2023-07-05T20:08:07+00:00

Some people on PPD: Men should develop social skills, charisma and the ability to talk to women.

Also some people on PPD: femcelchadmaxcringemidbasedbetabuxx

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happy_discus · 2023-07-05T10:05:18+00:00

From a recent post: "Asking a woman for relationship or dating advice is like asking a fish how to catch a fish."

Yeah, of course because fish can't speak you doughnut.

jobbo321 · 2023-07-05T10:50:34+00:00

https://allthatsinteresting.com/chris-watts-love-letters

Why the fuck do women do this? My opinion on the entirety of them lowers each day when I read shit like this. 4 in 10 of them have monthly rape fantasies as well. What's next?

There's a reason many of them like true crime. Wonder whether this has something to do with it.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T13:03:55+00:00

It’s only creepy if you’re unattractive lmao women are brutal man😂😂

potoricco · 2023-07-05T15:35:29+00:00

Would this make anyone uncomfortable, am I overthinking??

So like my mom or grandmother will send me on errands and then I pay with my own money and then when I get back they immediately pay me back. It’s like, of course I want my money back, but youre my family so it’s okay if I just pay for you

It makes me feel lreally uncomfortable as if they owe me, or as if I’m just their “friend”. I feel like immediately paying people back is for friends

ThinkingOfYou3 · 2023-07-05T18:11:43+00:00

I'm kind of new here and I've just been lurking but I realized that a lot of people hate on Christians here? Why is that?

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-05T19:02:52+00:00

So I don’t look to women for validation as much anymore. Problem is horniness. Masturbation won’t cut it and paying for sex is a no no. I want someone to relive me sexually.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-07-05T20:36:07+00:00

It’s amazing how many ghouls think they warrant a tall dude.

I’m talking about young women of course, if you’re over 30 and don’t care about height anymore…just say less lol

Environmental_Day558 · 2023-07-05T20:54:30+00:00

I wondered why my grandparents slept in separate beds until now. Last night I woke up to an elbow to the eye from my gf yanking the covers over. It was an accident but still, that shit hurt. Either gotta upgrade to a king bed or I gotta find new sleeping arrangements cause this ain't it.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-05T22:29:25+00:00

is there a word for someone who bullies those lower than them but is a suckup to those above them?

DenseCompetitionR · 2023-07-05T07:12:05+00:00

Women get so angry when you say you will only marry a virgin 🤣

Stay mad I'm going to south America and picking up a virgin teenage (legal age of course 😉) bride.

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-05T07:43:38+00:00

I found some of my creative writing from when I was fatter and younger. I wrote about a girl like myself who falls in love with a famous soccer player and they get married. I find it kind of cute, looking back at it. It’s also embarrassing. And it makes me sad thinking about how lonely I was at that age. I never thought I’d find a boyfriend so I wrote about grand fantasies instead.

At least some of it is coming true. I’m getting married to a soccer player now. He’s not rich or famous, but I’m glad he’s not. He’s all mine.

eye_fuck · 2023-07-05T08:03:00+00:00

I'm going to say it

Pickmes are hot. When girl loves you she naturally becomes somewhat pickme for you. This is hot.

Plopolok · 2023-07-05T08:10:11+00:00

Good bye PPD. In support of the protest against reddit's governance, I'll stop participating. It was fun.

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-05T08:22:32+00:00

Too many guys are comfortable saying Men are inferior in the dating world. If you're gonna say Men are lonely or struggle dating, at least find things that Women struggle with as well

potoricco · 2023-07-05T12:26:45+00:00

JUST GOT A 5 ON MY AP WH EXAM

UneastAji · 2023-07-05T12:38:03+00:00

Blue pillers sure do love shaming others for hypothetical feelings they attribute to them. Very debaty.

Happy_Nuclear_End · 2023-07-05T12:45:51+00:00

Just the reminder that women on PPD have a massive leeway with rule breaking content while as a man every post or comment is seen with utterly scrutiny.

The rules are left vague enough so they can shove any male comment on it while letting any female comment out and even when it falls under rule breaking women still receive lighter punishment.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T12:53:16+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T12:56:51+00:00

I might chop my weener off and become a hermaphrodite

Maffioze · 2023-07-05T13:03:08+00:00

I don't understand why the accusation "you're playing the victim" is used to easily to shut men up.

Like you're just bringing up something that factually true, didn't express anything about how you personally feel about it, and just because it happens to be something negative now you're accused of playing the victim lmao.

Curious_licks20 · 2023-07-05T13:09:53+00:00

Passport Bros made my cousin rich and all she had to do is just lie I being a virgin a bunch of times, change how she dressed and play up the me no speak English angle.

Curious_licks20 · 2023-07-05T13:13:06+00:00

So what did I miss while gone? Are the Red Pillers gonna round up all the women and auction them off to ISIS like everyone was threatening last year? Is my husband gonna finally cheat on me?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T13:14:55+00:00

Women lack empathy. Being a man is hard. Women ar e treated like kids. Men struggle. NAWALT. Notch count. Tinder

NEXT TIME ON DRAGONBALL Z

1Here4Bach · 2023-07-05T13:24:11+00:00

Is there a more clearer symptom of a personality disorder than picking up your phone, hitting record, crying into the camera and posting it?

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-05T13:52:23+00:00

Its actually incredible how many men have one-itis and are able to be duped by women. Also, there is no limit to how far a woman will lie. Cheated, was impregnated by a different man twice and lied about being raped

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-07-05T13:57:18+00:00

The touch grass meme is so overused, but it's hard not to use it when so many grown men don't realize media, especially mainstream media, is not reality. Like, I understood that when I was in elementary school but we have grown adults who don’t realize that yet.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-07-05T14:32:50+00:00

Another week, another 2 dates from Bumble.

One was awful and the other started awfully, but ended with a blowjob that would make a seasoned pornstar BLUSH!

I "connected" with the first girl, but after sharing MANY life similarities, any interest just simply evaporated. I'm proud of myself for leaving bad dates earlier than I have in the past. I now simply say I forgot I have some extra work to do because of the holiday/coworkers recently quit and excuse myself.

The second girl started rough. We facetimed and seem to have a good flow. We set a time for saturday at a bar of her choosing but 20 mins late, I txt her a pic of my 3/4 empty glass of Allagash beer and she responded she totally forgot. That is strike one and immediately out on any other day but she immediately followed up with a txt that if I can stay there later.

I didn't like the idea of "waiting" twice for her so I suggested a bar closer to mine and drinks on her. She agreed. She showed up, and god damn she has the body and dressed in Iowa trailer trash goodness! (Jorts, white top, thin but big tits, a bit taller than me). I go in for the hello hug, and she side hugs me, so i get to feeling this isn't going fucking anywhere. At least I'm going to make her pay for two Saison Duponts for my time being wasted... but as soon as we started talking, there was actual chemistry. She's smart, down to earth, face is ugly but her body and mind are BANGNING. We have little in common life wise, but I get where she's coming from, and she asks me interesting questions. She's back new to the dating scene as a LTR failed recently, so I begin to think ah... she's just using me as a warm up to catch up to being in the groove of dating. Sensing this I hint that I have to leave, do some work at home. She expresses a little interest about joining me but I insist I really do have to wrap some things up.

I live nearby and she offers to drive me back, I suggest I drive and she obliges. I drive up to an alley, we make out, and just for shits and giggles, I pop out my cock and say something like " lol this is kinda naughty in a random, college kind of way. I tell her to go for it. She laughs and goes to town without ANY hesitation. This girl is a fucking pro, I'm in the drivers seat and she's giving me a hot nasty porn like blowjob, sucking it like it's the last Jamon on the planet.

Pat myself on the back afterwards as I was going to eject from the whole thing because she forgot our date, but she recovered excellently. Txted me the next day asking when we're hanging out again.

Q4W: Why do you all get neutral or slightly negative when you share details with a new guy and the new guy points out shared interested and commonalties. Why is that such an attraction killer?

Q4M: Have you noticed that, despite zero effort on your part, you seem to attract a certain archetype of woman? For example

Lifelong, I've attracted white, blonde, blue eyed girls who were raised poor but then made money as adults. And another type are neurodivergent, gothy type girls. And yet another, killer, porn star body girls who hate their curves and/or have really ugly faces that don't match with the rest of them?

Why the fuck does that happen lol ?

potoricco · 2023-07-05T14:35:41+00:00

My vision got so shit after using my phone for ~7 hrs a day

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-05T14:35:42+00:00

Do you guys think marriage is worth it? I am 27 and have never had a desire to start a family or have kids

There are some traits I like about myself that would translate to fatherhood but some traits that would be detriment

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-05T15:09:26+00:00

/u/LillthOfBabylon you talk about LVM's and pathetic losers (autists) like myself a lot and I agree with like 90% of it in terms of content, but it feels like in terms of tone there's an undertone of "And also, they are bad people because of this". Am I reading into that too much? Are LVM's like myself necessarily evil people?

Nyx_the_hexer · 2023-07-05T15:14:07+00:00

Those that browse YouTube have you noticed a surge of recommended channels you’ve never heard of before.

potoricco · 2023-07-05T15:17:07+00:00

sheraseven shows us how to ask men for money without feeling bad

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-05T15:43:27+00:00

It's wild to me how many people dismiss advice or insights from people in relationships.

I always listened to the people in relationships for dating advice.

Never the person with the loudest podcast voice and no actual relationship experiences.

Bizarre how things change but yet stay the exact same.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-05T15:50:24+00:00

QforA: What do you think the world would look like if everyone was only able to tell the absolute truth for a week?

Remote_Indication668 · 2023-07-05T15:55:55+00:00

Q4A: What's the difference between low self esteem and correctly evaluating your situation?

Like if I say "I am a piece of shit, nobody likes me". Which is both true statements and people rush into say "NOOOOO that's not trueeeeeeeeee". Then you can rationally say "Oh my thought patterns are wrong, and they need to be corrected." Your internal perception of who you are mismatches with your external reality, you just have low self esteem.

But if you say "Yeah I'm kind of a piece of shit and nobody likes me." and people respond "yeah, you are, sucks for you."

Do you still have low self esteem?

Like I feel like my level of self esteem is EXACTLY where everyone else thinks it should be right? My perception of myself is the same perception that people here (I'd ask about real life but I don't know anyone IRL) have of me? Therefore I don't have low self esteem, I am just correctly evaluating external reality.

AdOpen432 · 2023-07-05T15:58:24+00:00

A male replied to me that i was "petty and jealous" for telling my female friend to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship lmao.

DragoonXFury · 2023-07-05T16:05:22+00:00

I'd never lie about my virginity or lack of relationship experience. NEVER! 🤪🤪🤪

baresquad · 2023-07-05T16:06:48+00:00

I can’t believe that FDS was ever a thing, as if there’s not way better options than a bunch of right wing tradcons lmao. No true “high value man” (not a real thing) is revolving his personality and livlehoood around being seen as a suitable candidate to them.

Like there’s women out here who require less and they all make better partners than anyone in the fds space.

potoricco · 2023-07-05T16:12:13+00:00

Q4W: Is primer even necessary in a makeup routine. My skin is just so perfect and wrinkle less that I never thought I needed it but everyone uses it. I am tired of being a consumer and wasting money on cosmetics but I need advice

potoricco · 2023-07-05T16:17:11+00:00

Why tiana is the best Disney Princess

-Humble

-Doesn’t actúally need a prince, just keeps one around just because

-Increased empathy for animals instead of just viewing them as her sidekick

-Girl boss that runs her own business

Smoogs2 · 2023-07-05T16:36:00+00:00

My wealthy partner {33-M} keeps going on vacations with his female "friends" without me {28-F}, and says that I'm "spoiled" for being uncomfortable

Top upvote comment:

I don't know what a 33 year old man has in common with 24, 22, and 21 year old women. It's a really creepy setup.

Do these reddit women really not comprehend what rich 30 something men have in common with hot 20 somethings? Are the really that out of touch with reality? Could it be that these young women and this man BOTH enjoy yachts, first class travel, five star hotels, exclusive clubs AND Michelin star restaurants? Why is there a tendency to imply there absolutely nothing in common between these two groups?? They don't both enjoy doing anything together? The only way it makes sense if these reddit women are so poor and fat that they legitimately do not have the means to enjoy any of these things like walk on a beach and feel sexy or enjoy nice restaurants, so they project their likings onto others.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-05T16:51:36+00:00

Spent yesterday at an art deco themed July 4th rooftop party in brand new condo in a rapidly gentrifying neighborhood. Up top I drank champagne and could see all the city and suburban firework displays along the horizon, however when I looked over the edge the people below were setting off bottle rockets in an empty trash lot near a dilapidated bodega/beauty supply store.

It was like some shit straight out of Metropolis.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T17:06:25+00:00

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TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-07-05T17:12:09+00:00

Could it be possible that there are just more single, available, willing men than women?

Even if every man could transform into a woman's ideal partner at will, wouldn't there still be men that are out of luck. Assuming the premise that there are more single, available, willing men than women of course.

Curious_licks20 · 2023-07-05T17:12:23+00:00

Women are not allowed to date or marry hot men that are nice because they’re hot

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T17:16:56+00:00

Women love toxic men. Nice and well mannered dudes are boring and don’t get you wet

keebydee · 2023-07-05T17:17:23+00:00

Why is every argument Lilith cooks up always a shitshow? Lol. It must be tiring debating with her.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-07-05T17:17:51+00:00

What do you consider to be "rich"?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-05T17:24:03+00:00

Shoutout to Coretta Scott king, she was a soldier. She knew MLK was cheating on her but was like this movement is more important than my marriage. I feel like if you’re the leader of the most important civil rights movement of your generation you should be allowed to have a roster. Like if Martin Luther King can’t have side chicks, no man should

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-05T17:24:57+00:00

I feel like im the only ppd person that goes on a run everyday

WestCombSplit · 2023-07-05T17:43:29+00:00

Q4All Who in PPD has a worse view of Men, the Men in general or the Women in general?

potoricco · 2023-07-05T17:49:23+00:00

How is Jason Derulo a multiple hit wonder but still irrelevant? I can name so many hit songs by him

Swalla, wiggle, want you to want me, savage love, jalebi baby, talk dirty

But no one in history has EVER said, “I like Jason derulo’s songs”. Literally no one

potoricco · 2023-07-05T17:57:16+00:00

Worst types of weather: mismatched weather

When it’s cloudy af but still hot on a summer day (light right now) or when it’s sunny af but still cold on a winter day, When it’s sunny and raining

Just super off putting

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-05T18:13:10+00:00

Rate this guy, height is 5’9”

potoricco · 2023-07-05T18:17:07+00:00

Chipotle is awesome

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-05T19:03:27+00:00

Ladies, post a 6.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-05T19:05:31+00:00

Fat shaming is fat positive.

I wouldn't shame someone who I believed couldn't change what is being shamed.

Fat shaming is being positive about fattie woman and believing that fattie woman can do better and get to a healthy (19-21) BMI. By shaming fattie woman, you help motivate them to make a positive change in their life.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-05T19:06:05+00:00

God damn i didn’t know those little fuckers were so expensive. This couple were a French bulldog breeder. 5k for a puppy. Sheesh that is easy money.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-05T19:21:14+00:00

Die Hard terrorists in Tinder HQ on Christmas eve demanding the release of the secret 80/20 hypergamy statistics while bluepilled Tinder data scientist Bruce Willis crawls through the vents with plans to destroy the mainframe.

Main-Leek7908 · 2023-07-05T19:41:34+00:00

It seems that men’s idea of a pickme and women’s idea of a pickme are definitely not the same, and nobody can agree whether pickmes are sluts or sexually conservative…

Men: “pickmes are just women who want to put in the effort to please a partner. They’re the last remaining feminine women. They’re never single.”

Women: “pickmes are women who distance themselves from womanhood, talk shit about other women, and are doormats with no personality outside of being NLOG/trying to be attractive to men. They never get picked, either.”

jobbo321 · 2023-07-05T19:56:45+00:00

I think Sam Altman is what most women would rate as a 5. Some slightly lower, some slightly higher.

Virgens · 2023-07-05T19:56:59+00:00

Women on PPD are all like "women aren't a monolith, not all of us are into the same things"

But immediattely denounce men because "they want pure, untouched, virgin women who are sluts for them only and fuck like pornstars on the first date"

Like, girls, we aren't a monolith. Some men want virgin girlfriends, some men want sex on the first date, we are not all the same.

Maffioze · 2023-07-05T20:19:17+00:00

https://youtu.be/QQaFzA1vkIY

This song hits hard when you have been through a lot of trauma but are in a better place now.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-05T20:47:03+00:00

Q4M: How do you tell the difference between modern women and traditional women?

Because even traditional women are modern because they are from now. Family background is not a tell tail because those with strict parents normally just become smart sneaky.

It's like guys think, if she is walking in a flower field wearing a modest white dress - traditional, If she is going to the gym in workout clothes after work - modern

Even though that is all "appearance" and says nothing about the person. How do you tell who is traditional if everyone is still modern?

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-05T21:23:06+00:00

What's a foolproof way to get a guy to text you back if he hasn't all day?

BLKSKNHED · 2023-07-05T22:01:37+00:00

"Me and the boys if the group chat got leaked:💀"

is it just stolen nudes and snide remarks about girls that don't like you back? hardly FBI classified stuff and barely anything special.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-05T22:14:40+00:00

What women don’t understand

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/VjWoYS7OmTQ

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-05T22:21:58+00:00

Getting flaked or ghosted as a man is completely different than being flaked or ghosted as a woman.

She put no effort into getting her date. She could be completely herself and enjoy the conversation while he did does all the work to woo her enough to go on a date. The whole dating process is just leisurely enjoyment for women and she can easily get another date with little effort.

Meeting and talking to women requires a lot more work and is less enjoyable for men. The man has to put himself out there and hit on and get rejected by many women while putting on a rigid personality and catering to all their emotional needs and entertaining her to get a date. He has to plan the date. It is a lot of effort and mental exertion for him.

Given the differences in experience and effort, men deserve a lot more sympathy when getting rejected, ghosted or flaked than women. When a women gets ghosted, she was getting a deluge of validation, attention and entertainment with little effort. She didn't put much effort in and was getting a lot in return already.

Women deserve much less sympathy in these situations.

It is morally much worse for a woman to flake or ghost a man that it is for a man to flake or ghost a woman.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-05T09:25:39+00:00

"What do you think young men should focus on in dating"

Just sex, because your Testosterones won't shut up how amazing and necessary it is especially when your young like 17-24

Once you hit 26/27 you should consider a long-term relationship based on your rational decision and not by your dick or emotions

If those two don't work by the time you hit your 30s then just do whatever you want l guess since you'll have enough experience as an adult and your personality traits have already developed

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-05T09:16:57+00:00

If a man is a pump-and-dumper for consenting to (or promising) a relationship, having sex, and then withdrawing the relationship, is a woman a tease/jezebel for consenting to sex, engaging in sex, and then withdrawing consent (either during or after the encounter)?

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Men do not give this much grace to single moms.