Daily Community Chat Megathread

scwizard · 2023-07-17T08:04:02+00:00

Her boyfriend had taken pictures of her in the shower without her knowing. When she wanted to break up, he threatened to post those photos somewhere, unless they finally moved in together. She told me that she had no choice, she could never go back to her family if those pics were released.

I can't wrap my head around this level of shame.

The idea that if your family sees pictures of you showering that that's the end of your relationship with them, it's just mind boggling...

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-17T07:56:09+00:00

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-17T07:45:02+00:00

There are only two things that can limit a man's sexual success:

Looks/ general attractiveness
Bad social skills (i.e. autism)

If you think you are good looking enough for a girlfriend and can't seem to find one, odds are that you're just not socializing enough.

If you are talking to women constantly but women just aren't into you, it's because you're ugly.

Other factrs can matter in extremes (for example, being homeless could affect your success). But for the most part, these are the only things that matter.

It is not your personality, your confidence, or your sense of humor 99/100 times. If your personality if good enough to make male friends, then it's good enough to get laid.

Lack of trying and lack of attractiveness are the only things stopping you.

That's it.

scwizard · 2023-07-17T07:39:42+00:00

Deep fakes ruin lives and men don't even care

My career would be destroyed if this happened. I would loose most job prospects. I would be disowned by half of my family. I would be treated poorly by future male partners.

It is a truly horrific crime.

How can the life someone's built be so fragile that a single faked video of them doing porn can ruin it?

If a video of me sucking off 20 guys was released, even if that video was real, I'd still have a job and my family would still love me.

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-17T07:35:14+00:00

It's interesting how men think women have all the control with dating when men are famously scared of commitment and don't want to be locked down. We've all heard stories of women waiting 7+ years for a man to propose.

Billsandasonom · 2023-07-17T07:17:36+00:00

I see a lot of women online say they are happily single, or that they would rather be single than settle...but honestly it's difficult to find real-life examples of single women to begin with. I know a lot of women and only like a couple who are single....and even then they just happen to be at this point in time. Honestly I don't think any woman comes to mind who is perpetually single IRL.

Since it's safe to say most of the men women are with are not Chads or their ideal man, I can only conclude that most women would not stay single if they can help it, even if they have to compromise.

Maractop · 2023-07-17T07:01:51+00:00

I feel numb all the time toward everything and everyone. The only person who makes me happy is my neice. I love her so much idek why. She cant even talk yet lol. I look forward to seeing her so much

dysonRing · 2023-07-17T06:49:36+00:00

Shared an Uber ride with three cows. They were talking shit about their battered friend (not there) and how to make her see the light about it. Main cow was going on about red flags blah blah blah. How he is verbally abusive and controlling. Then at the very end one was like "he is also physically abusive", and main whiner goes" oh yeah I remember she saying that"

Bitches be there whining and she did not even remember the real abuse? just the tripe fat friends always talk about? Like being mean and not answering texts... seriously what is the point of these cockblocking women?

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-17T05:52:20+00:00

Women here are always accusing men of going for shitty women but it seems like sometimes that’s mostly what’s available.

Almost all the decent women are taken or super hard to find because they stay indoors. You can’t just approach them in the street because they need time to get to know you.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-17T05:03:47+00:00

Q4W: how do you feel about a man offering to pick what to order for you at a restaurant

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-17T04:49:29+00:00

I generally enjoy this sub, but some of the individual users are frustrating. Woe is me self victimizing, a jealously guarded fatalism, and an absolute refusal to pick themselves up by the scruff of the neck and understand that they are not the only people in the world that matter.

baiser_vole · 2023-07-17T04:16:42+00:00

Hmm. Sooo. My boyfriend has started to care about how he looks and stuff... And damn.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-17T03:50:56+00:00

Ugh. There is nothing worse than a date that tries to push your boundaries. Why would I kiss you if I don't see a future? I'm not interested in pumping and dumping some dude because he's there and available, but not what I ultimately desire.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T03:25:26+00:00

No amount of looks will remove your real problem : Mental illness.

Correct-Warthog-9061 · 2023-07-17T03:18:23+00:00

Blackpill talking points are starting to infiltrate main stream media, popular tiktokers talking about how creepiness is only creepy if your ugly.

lolmastr13 · 2023-07-17T03:08:48+00:00

Women online make a lot more sense when you realize they’re just venting

No-Construction399 · 2023-07-17T02:36:41+00:00

i feel lied to by society and even by the red pill. just sleep around and work on yourself and wait til your older to settle down. ok well now im older and all the available girls my age most likely have at least like 5-10 d*ckyears of milage ( sorry i hope that term doesnt offend anyone). and its just like thats so not hot. the thing is i didnt even know i cared about bodycount until i was older and now i realized i care so much that i think id rather just never date again over compromise on previous sexual history. any other guys in the same situation? i kinda really wish i settled down earlier

potoricco · 2023-07-17T02:36:11+00:00

3 ppl blocked me today

PBtoast707 · 2023-07-17T02:20:24+00:00

White hispanics are the hottest kind of man and you will never be able to change my mind.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T02:08:27+00:00

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WOMEN: Stop worrying about who finds you attractive. stop worrying if you are old. Stop worrying if you’re ugly. There’s literally people that fuck animals. You are enough

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-17T01:49:06+00:00

I guess this Gold Cup thingy isn't going well, from the groans I am hearing from the living room.

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-17T01:40:31+00:00

CMV: Ghosting is appropriate in certain situations, like when someone does something so bad that it doesn't even warrant a conversation or explanation, but when ghosting someone you've been seeing because you don't have the courage to break things off, that's shitty and you're shitty.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-17T01:36:13+00:00

I'm confused about how it's possible for a woman to be insecure about how she looks.

All she has to do is to have a healthy (19-21) BMI and put on a sundress or crop top and all eyes will be on her. She will be lusted after by all men. Women should understand what a healthy female body in a crop top or sundress does to men. Men will be irresistibly attracted to her and she can easily confirm that she's attractive.

meteorness123 · 2023-07-17T01:25:21+00:00

The messiah has returned.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-07-17T01:16:49+00:00

Q4A: What % of the time would you estimate that you sleep with someone on the first date if the date went well? Make this question past tense if you're currently off the market.

md8716 · 2023-07-17T00:56:35+00:00

As a girldad, I kinda empathize with young women. Because everybody is trying to get something from you. Constantly, since puberty. The problem is that the girls are often young, hormonal idiots at the peak of their attractiveness, often with low self-esteem and bad decision-making abilities.

Young dudes trying to smash, girls peer pressuring you, social media pressuring you, FOMO, predatory men, feminists telling you what you want to hear, religious sects recruiting you as a fertile brood mother, capitalism pushing you to be a career woman so they can drain your life force with a life of mindless consumerism and forever-labor.

The world just keep validating you and gassing you up, how the fuck can you trust anyone? God forbid you have low self-esteem, then the validation is like herion cause you never got it as a kid.

It seems, the only winning strategy a girl really has is to have people in her life that she can be vulnerable with and trust 100%, that have the experience to see through bullshit on her behalf and call her out if she's fucking up. And that's only if her hormones and know-it-all teenage bullshit don't get in her way.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-17T00:50:41+00:00

One of my favorite phrase on PPD is “women are people/human just like men.”

Also the same people will list and think 100s potential negative traits of men, while denying any potential negative traits of women.

Maractop · 2023-07-17T00:48:33+00:00

If every girl is different when it comes to sex what does having sex with a bunch of girls teach you? Like why do so many girls value sexual experience if nothing carries over between girls? Or is it just that they dislike guys that other girls dont want?

potoricco · 2023-07-17T00:37:44+00:00

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She’s not wrong

jobbo321 · 2023-07-17T00:36:05+00:00

Does anyone know how you can express yourself more freely when talking with strangers or co-workers?

Every time I'm in public my brain keeps telling me to act normal and don't say anything out of ordinary. I feel a physical reaction that gives signals to my brain telling me to avoid doing anything that could be seen as shameful. This leads to me supressing my emotions when talking with people. I avoid standing up for myself/others to avoid confrontation. I avoid saying certain things that could cause suspense.

A fellow student could say the most atrocious shit to me and I'd just nod. Sometimes that's the best you could do (de-escalation) but sometimes you need to defend yourself verbally and stand your ground.

In contrast, I can freely express myself around my (immediate) family. I'm much more talkative and relaxed. I don't care whether an interaction with my brothers or parents could be seen as shameful or cringe.

I just want my brain to stop telling me to avoid being cringe. I'd rather just be cringe and free. How do I achieve this?

Ok-Bee-6216 · 2023-07-17T00:35:34+00:00

you know you had too much internet when you randomly start singing

toxic gosip trainnnn 🎶🎵

because it's stuck in your head

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-17T00:27:47+00:00

Trying to take her to a nice restaurant in her area but none are >$200, first world problems i guess

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-17T00:21:36+00:00

Treating dating like it's grocery shopping is a part of why someone might struggle with it. Dating isn't picking out a person from a shelf because they fit your standards exactly. Dating is learning from someone else, having your views challenged, growing with someone, and loving someone despite their faults/weaknesses as they do for you.

potoricco · 2023-07-17T00:06:32+00:00

Someone blocked me 😔😔

What did I do

potoricco · 2023-07-16T23:58:28+00:00

I’m really getting tired of my brother’s nonstop complaining

-We stay at home = it’s too boring, I want to go outside

-We went to the amusement park = the rides are too scary, it’s hot, im tired, I want to go home

-We attend parties = doesn’t want to leave

-We go to the library = the books are boring, I don’t want to read, can we go home

-My parents put him in a summer camp where they go on field trips every Friday = The teacher makes us learn/read, it’s boring

-We go play outside = Literally does nothing and then asks to go home

IceC19 · 2023-07-16T23:57:26+00:00

The married president of a football/soccer club was caught cheating with the wife of a referee whose decisions at a final game last year annoyed him.

The referee is clearly more physically attractive but the club president has higher status and more money.

Cucked ref: https://images.app.goo.gl/S3JGz4FcVE9vdX4B6 https://images.app.goo.gl/qPwaCbFh1x5cXWdP9

Cheating big club president: https://images.app.goo.gl/6Bw79tRAQR9p9us76 https://images.app.goo.gl/6Kf5gDPKjrFhLY6S7

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-16T23:55:23+00:00

The “good girl” doesn’t exist, not anymore, not once you’re past your 20s. She’s either paired off by now or she has trauma issues from previous relationships. Your best chance of getting one was high school, followed by college. Once you’re out of college good luck. Even if she was a good girl in her younger years by her late 20s and especially 30s she will no longer be. You can of course do the classic RP trick of dating way below your age, but remember that women into age gaps usually aren’t your traditional good girls.

TL;DR: If you want a more traditional good girl, you have to get her while you are both young.

potoricco · 2023-07-16T23:41:13+00:00

Heartbroken about the fact that I’ll never be able to own a cat until I move out which will be in 10+ years

HazyMemory7 · 2023-07-16T23:40:45+00:00

If I had my gf a few years earlier I might have ended up be bluepilled. Sometimes you forget there are women that all of the RP ideas/commonalities men go through don't apply to, because there are so few of those sorts of women. Stuff like emotional vulnerability being a turn off, dating pricks because morality simply isnt something women prioritize, entitlement ect..

But then again finding the RP community (before the YT manosphere) changed my life for the better, so maybe I wouldnt have won her over if I was a bluepilled disney fairy tale believer

Edit: Right on queue woman at the table next to me at a restsurant is telling her friend she didnt closure with a guy she was seeing a few months she ghosted, and something else about manifesting things, cant make this shit up

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-16T23:39:52+00:00

What I find really weird is western liberals ability to understand how men not having partners can lead to problems in other parts of the World. They talk about the gender imbalance in China will leave men unpartnered and this will destabilize society there or how Polygamy in the middle east and Africa leads to extremism as some men hoard multiple wives. But once such issues come up in the West it’s somehow totally different for some reason. Here it’s just natural that men would tolerate being left without a partner because?

lookingdoog · 2023-07-16T23:34:29+00:00

Everybody wants a virgin wife or gf, nobody wants what comes with it:

Sexually repressed

Low libido

Extremely Picky

Vanilla

Awkward, shy

We are virgins for a reason. I’m not a virgin because I think I’m more virtuous than other women or because I’m religious. I’m not even trad or anything. I’m just all of the above. Tired of guys thinking I want them or that I would be a good submissive wife, lol no.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-16T23:31:21+00:00

I propose we should reclassify most normal marriages to civil unions and reserve the word “married” for people in covenant marriages. If you’re gonna call it a marriage you gotta really commit, if you don’t want to do that take the civil union route and you will still get the tax benefits and what not.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-16T23:02:06+00:00

Let’s be real ladies, marriage is not compatible for the modern women. What you guys call it a product of the patriarchy right. Women want marriage because it is validation, it is validation that a guy you like want to put a ring around your finger. Staying married is not validation. Women initiate divorce because it assert power. “I am leaving you.”

Marriage is not validation for men, sex is. When a man gets married he makes himself vulnerable. Same reason women are more selective who they sleep with, they make themselves vulnerable to that man.

Ill_Inspection5225 · 2023-07-16T22:49:35+00:00

What’s actually considered a “high” body count for men and women?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-16T22:47:06+00:00

"Helm's deep has but one weakness"

A shitty little side door that Aragorn and Gimli sneak out of with barely any locking mechanism at all.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-07-16T22:44:24+00:00

Tinder has been adding new features and probably is the best app right now.

The new Tinder premium has a good number of filters, including a filter on “Exercise.” You can select to only be shown users who answered “Everyday” “Often” “Sometimes” “Occasionally” “Never”. You can also filter by interests and select a bunch of sports.

I am familiar with Tinder/Bumble/Hinge and there’s no app that is as good for filtering out fat women. Bumble has an Exercise filter but you can only pick “Active/Sometimes/Never” and everyone picks active.

The male dating app experience is already painful due to low match rates, but it’s made even more painful by the veritable deluge of fat girls, single moms, bots, etc. Tinder’s new features help mitigate this, and the app is generally sleek (and ad-free if you pay up)

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-07-16T22:25:23+00:00

‘Cause I’m a post-wall woman

I ain’t no young tight broad

I’m just an Alpha Widowed woman

I say “betas I applaud”

And I keep my filtered pics up

on my profile all year long

And I know all the words to all those

“where’s the good men” songs

So here’s to all my sisters

Out there keeping it gaslit

Let me get a big “hell yeah”

to all the betas that you’ve tricked

Hell yeah! (hell yeah)

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-16T22:18:39+00:00

Poor people promote socialism, because all people being equally wealthy would benefit them.

Trashy women promote "all women are wonderful" because that benefits them.

Never met a woman worthy of respect saying that all women need to be respected.

Same goes for the ones saying that all women are queens, should be treated like queens... etc.

happy_discus · 2023-07-16T22:05:04+00:00

Pro tip 7: Have you tried becoming chad?

Pro tip 8: Try showering your therapist, talking to your gym and lifting your shower.

Pro tip 9: You are the hottest person alive! Approach everyone!

Pro tip 10: Try dating in a retirement home grannys are lusting for you.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-16T21:59:26+00:00

"My house is a safe place and l don't allow strangers in"

Open the door, l promise you humans aren't that bad

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-16T21:57:15+00:00

Guys who went to therapy , was it worth ? I’m not talking exclusively about dating but in terms of changing your life slightly better and being healthy

Last year i noticed some unpleasant traits about my personality and i wanted to see a therapist, my family made a big deal of it saying i’m that i’m not crazy or psychopath and I look fine , in fact they accused me for looking to try and use drugs , they suggested that i should pray to god instead , so I’m wondering did i miss anything ?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-16T21:27:33+00:00

Can everyone upvote me so I can get my karma to 50 so I can actually ask a god damned programming related question in the /r/webdev sub?

night-time_coffee · 2023-07-16T21:22:52+00:00

Is being in situationship can be considered a dating experience ?

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-16T21:16:52+00:00

Anybody else here actually try to not look attractive at all to other people? I dress in a t-shirt, shorts and sandals most of the time and my hair is either in "just took a shower" or "whatever" - mode.

I think guys who aren't looking for anyone can reasonably expect that women aren't going to approach them out in public so they should dress comfortably rather than to appeal to the general public.

What say you?

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-16T21:12:08+00:00

Ask almost any feminist that complains about the wage gap why they aren't in STEM and, without fail, they will say "oh, that stuff just doesn't interest me".

"Oh? It wasn't because of the toxic environment or because society 'told you' women couldn't do it?"

"No... I just don't like it."

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-07-16T21:01:19+00:00

What if during sex she asks you to call her mommy?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-16T20:49:55+00:00

I feel like it’s lowkey disrespectful to people in the trades that whenever someone flunks out of school or isn’t deemed “college material” to tell them just go be a welder bro. Just go be an electrician bro, just be a plumber, it’s like nah lol. They probably are gonna fail at that too.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-16T20:49:24+00:00

It's annoying how forward gay men are with their advances.

As a straight man, I have to be so much more subtle and less forward about my advances to women and most women are at least interested in men. Why do gay men get to be so forward and unapologetic when most men they are leering at or hitting on aren't even interested in them? Gay men should be much more subtle because most of the men they are leering or hitting on in public would never be interested in them because of their sexuality.

Plus gay men have it easy in dating and can easily go to a gay space or grindr and get dates and sex easily. As a straight man, your options are very limited, so you should be able to get more leeway in being forward. For gay men, hitting on random men who are likely to be straight is just one of their many dating options when they can go to a gay space and be guaranteed to be hitting on a gay man. But for a straight man, you have to hit on random women who might not be attracted to you to be able to date at all.

And don't get started about how this is how women feel about men who hit on them. No, as long he is a healthy weight man within the norm of most aspects e.g. that doesn't have a face disfigurement or too short or tall, women who aren't attracted to him just think they can do better than the men they "aren't attracted" to. If women were starved of attention or didn't think they could do better, they would become interested in the mid men who hit on them.

Straight men hitting on women is presenting women with an option that they could take if they were desperate enough. Gay men are just nuisancing straight men when they hit on them because they will never be an option for straight men. Plus it's gay to entertain and flirt with a gay man as a straight man but women can enjoy the attention and enjoy entertaining and flirting with a man while still not being interested in dating him, so even if a woman doesn't date him he's adding something to her life.

anonymous375555 · 2023-07-16T20:49:02+00:00

How to test if you have prejudice towards the opposite gender? Is there a series of tests that you can do to yourself to know and understand your prejudice beliefs?

anonymous375555 · 2023-07-16T20:47:13+00:00

Why your male friends failed school? Mine failed either because they immersed themselves excessively into video games, drugs or chasing girls. Also why didn’t you as a man go to college?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-16T20:40:50+00:00

Man I’m so hungry for nfl football season. This FanDuel year is going to be different gahdamnnit

Peacesquad · 2023-07-16T20:40:21+00:00

A woman’s peak years are 18-24. If you’re 35 and looking to get married oh boy….

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stats135 · 2023-07-16T18:05:01+00:00

Numba Won

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-16T18:06:53+00:00

One of the most annoying things is when people be like

“Yeah he/she might have lied/exaggerated things but they started an important conversation” 😆

philseven12 · 2023-07-16T18:14:40+00:00

How do i "not" attract toxic women? Since yall say that most women don't do xyz

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-16T18:18:38+00:00

What a match, 20 year old Carlos Alcaraz beat the king of tennis Novak Djokovic.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-07-16T18:21:11+00:00

Its race week for F1 fans

Intelligent-Cat9136 · 2023-07-16T18:22:45+00:00

In terms of dating, I personally think black women should stop to lie to black men and be upfront about their real preference which are white men of course.

Black women are OPEN to date black men. But we are not what they want. More like what they want if things go south for example.

potoricco · 2023-07-16T18:27:41+00:00

I’m a “feminist” UNTIL it comes to insects

I can’t stand them. But since the only ones who are willing to remove them in my family are male, I need men to make sure i don’t have bugs in my life

Ladies never settle for a guy that is scared of bugs just ew

dotnetguy1032 · 2023-07-16T18:27:55+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/WhitePeopleTwitter/comments/1518asc/drop_your_best_guesses/

Man... is there any world at all on Reddit where women can be shitty just because women are shitty?? Every single comment on there blames the men for being abusive assholes and ZERO about the actions of the wives.

potoricco · 2023-07-16T18:35:33+00:00

“Horrible realization about creepshots gave me that actually has me in tears It's not about sex - they have porn, they have as much fucking porn as they could possibly ask for they have bilboards and ads and primetime tv shows and hollywood movies and websites free videos magazines they have porn channels porn movies with sexy images of women they have girls on websites who are paid to webcam with them there are girls who post sexy pics of themselves online for them none of this is enough, none of this is, at the bottom of it all, what they want creepshots specifically says this isn't enough - they don't want pics of giris knowingly posing (i.e. giving consent) they want to violate, they want to rape, they want to own every woman walking down the fucking street they want your teenager daughter, they want your mom, they want you when you don't know it, when you can't say no, when you're on the bus, when you're walking down the street, when you're at the beach they get off on your violation, they want more proof that women exist for them and them alone it's sexy because it's embarrassing, humiliating: they say it themselves this is rape culture in its purest form because women saying yes on screen, women saying yes to their faces, saying yes on their computers, on their phones is not what they want that's not "hot" enough what's hot is violating your consent, what's hot is demeaning you, what's hot is owning a pice of you against your will and they won't stop until we are all pornography”

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-16T18:36:39+00:00

I've posted my picture on a few rating sites, and holistically, I'm barely scratching a 5, so I'm teetering below average. That's ok. I still think I'm charming, funny and have a great body. I'll just have to do more work in the trenches.

thewhiteknight17 · 2023-07-16T18:42:05+00:00

If you just move on with life like nothing happened after you find out that the person you truly love and you count them as the love of your life isn’t attracted to you, then is that really love?

potoricco · 2023-07-16T18:42:55+00:00

Women’s inbuilt empathy, compassion, and caring nature are now being used against us. You can now be kidnapped by getting out of your car to help a lost child.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-16T18:56:37+00:00

I'm a femcel

Have you tried online dating

I tried tinder

How many likes did you get?

several hundred, but...

Nate_Reborn · 2023-07-16T18:56:58+00:00

If there is a wall then a lot of these moms didn't get the memo because my goodness. 🔥

DerayRevan · 2023-07-16T19:24:15+00:00

"As a guy if you had to choose, would you choose to be very physically attractive or have a successful career"

Successful career

Couldn't give a shit about being very physically attractive

Since l can still get women with money or Game

So going with successful career for myself

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-07-16T19:27:25+00:00

The most beautiful women that I know are always married to men with either a lot of money or status. Some of guys are good looking but they definitely looks max with what they have. My job consisted of interacting with families of all incomes. I could usually tell who we wealthier more successful based on the women’s looks. Thoughts?

John_Oakman · 2023-07-16T19:44:16+00:00

Asking for a parental test is akin to comparing pay at the workplace: in which in a best case scenario the truth can only bring disharmony and discontent to the place and everyone involved (and in a worst case scenario only reveal the asker as overly paranoid).

Are notions of truth and justice really worth such harm?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-07-16T19:49:35+00:00

A girl I went to school with has started posting long texts about her relationship on Fb. She tells us that her man doesn’t want to get married, even though she begs him. They have three kids, and a house. She says she’s absolutely exhausted. I’m not entirely sure it’s just because of the kids.

Peacesquad · 2023-07-16T19:54:37+00:00

What did I miss

potoricco · 2023-07-16T19:54:46+00:00

Depop makeup sellers are actually the only group of people that have a 0 IQ

Like some will legit sell used makeup at the same price(and then more because you have to pay for shipping). It’s like why would any smart person buy this when you could just go to the original store and buy a NEW product for less

DerayRevan · 2023-07-16T20:35:57+00:00

But yea lot of people on this sub mix extreme Blackpill beliefs and label them as TRP

Complaining instead of talking solutions, that's Blackpill

Thinking looks are the most important, also Blackpill

While TRP is:

Men and women are different

You can still become an attractive guy in 2023

Looks aren't everything, because status,money,Game exist

butagoodpersonality · 2023-07-16T20:38:41+00:00

Girls be like “lizzo is beautiful and inspirational” but say they look like Lizzo and watch them switch up

potoricco · 2023-07-16T21:33:31+00:00

Tom Holland “taking a break” from acting after getting bent over 😹😹😹😹Now everybody knows

Trazyn_of_Infinity · 2023-07-16T21:41:19+00:00

I think the #1 most important factor in dating for straight men that the average straight woman looks for is that he isn’t autistic or has a mental disability that affects his social skills. After that is not being bald and overweight. When I remark upon this, I’m not talking about women in specific niches (like in this subreddit, lol), but just the normal distribution of women.

Even though this is concept is probably dead in the modern era, I feel like the average autistic straight man (and when I say autistic, I don’t mean low-functioning autistic people who can’t even take of care of themselves, but what we dub as “Aspies”) would probably benefit more from just utilizing a matchmaker, but yeah, outside of certain religious communities, good luck getting that for cheap.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-17T01:29:58+00:00

women complaining about men's 'high standards' on OLD exposes the kind of woman that browses this sub

JDCAKNKADJNKJ · 2023-07-17T07:40:15+00:00

This made me sad. I don't think it's the right mindset to have.

nexkell · 2023-07-17T09:17:57+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/150us1i/boyfriend_said_he_wanted_a_break_in_our/

Yup totally healthy emotional response on her end alright. Nothing wrong with not having a discussion or anything just flat out dump him all because he wanted to focus on his career for a couple of months. And oh cherry on top is he was clearly a bad man as he wants to be a cop. And women say men are the ones who lack emotional healthy ways of responding.

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1519l11/kinks_bdsm_and_even_torture_porn_are_everywhere/

Funny how a feminist sub is anti sex.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-17T10:14:15+00:00

Why is it so hard to admit that sex, dating, relationships, and maybe just all social life stuff is massively easier for women?

dbz__f · 2023-07-17T10:24:53+00:00

Question for women: if you could make money off yourself sexually but receive absolutely no backlash or negativity from society for doing it, would you?

For example, lets say you know you could post naked pictures on onlyfans with your face blurred and make thousands of dollars, nobody would ever know it was you, but you would and you would know that you made money by selling yourself sexually.

Would you look down on yourself for doing it? Would you hate yourself or would you just see it as free money? Would you do it if there were ZERO negative consequences from it?

I'm a guy and if I could make thousands of dollars from selling anonymous dick picks, you bet I'd do it without thinking twice. Its free money. Imagine all the stuff I could buy just from dick picks and nobody would know it was me. I'd face literally zero side effects. If people ask where I got the money I could just saying gambling.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-17T10:27:31+00:00

Women's problems stem from being an object of desire, men's problem stem from being unwanted.

dbz__f · 2023-07-17T10:36:37+00:00

CMV: if you meet a woman who hates her exes, talks shit about her exes, tries to defame them and ruin their lives even after they've broken up, then NO ONE should date her, because it means she'll just do the same to him if they ever break up.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-17T11:45:57+00:00

We've all seen chadfishes, but have we ever seen a stacyfish?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-17T12:16:02+00:00

Are 5.5 inches really not enough anymore?

dbz__f · 2023-07-17T12:17:32+00:00

Which do you prefer: woman who hates her exes or woman who is still friends with her exes?

DancesWithMyr · 2023-07-17T12:27:28+00:00

Is the man in an LTR responsible for his gf/wife's level of arousal? Is it ultimately always the man's fault if he's in a sexless relationship?

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-17T12:30:27+00:00

Another game of reverse the genders:

https://np.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/151lxiq/aita_for_expecting_my_wife_to_support_my_elderly/

FuuraKafu · 2023-07-17T12:41:39+00:00

Imo cuckolding highlights very well how there is a type of dating related pain/difficulty/insecurity that women are essentially entirely spared from. Cuckolding is gendered as fuck, almost no women enjoys being cuckolded, and imo that's because it is a form of masochism (for most). Masochism is of course based on pain, and the type of pain that fuels cuckolding is the one that women don't get, and won't ever get. That's why they find it so hard to show sympathy for struggling men, it is an alien concept for them.

"Sorry, you are not good enough for penetrative sex, so I will keep your useless cock in a chastity cage while I fuck other men, ok?" The reason why this works for (masochistic) men is because this framing resonates with them. Because their value being tied to their sexual desirability is a fundamental part of their lived experiences. It cuts into them in a very real way.

Every woman knows that she could get penetrative sex from a random dude in an hour if she really wanted to, so "you are not good enough for it" is just this absurd idea to them. It resonates about as much as trying to dominate them by telling them that they are not good enough to peel a banana on a public beach. It's literal gibberish to them.

I mean, how much sympathy do you have for people who feel like a peace of shit for not being good enough to peel a banana on a public beach? How could you expect people to feel genuine sympathy for that? That's exactly how women see "not being able to get your dick wet". As a man, the closest you can ever get to a woman understanding the pain of that is by convincing her to lock you in a permanent chastity cage and fuck other men, maybe then it sinks in for them a little bit. Just maybe. Which is actually probably why cuckolding is becoming a more and more common fetish.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-07-17T12:52:18+00:00

Why is it always women getting big mad when someone doesn’t call them Dr?

potoricco · 2023-07-17T12:55:47+00:00

No one is dumber than christians/muslims who preach against moral relativism. “The Bible is the absolute word of god and standard for morales” literally what our pastor was preaching yesterday

By this logic they also have to believe that slavery, child larriage, human sacrifice, (AND ABORTION) etc are still okay by todays standards.

However when you ask them about these things the answer is always some stupid variant of “things worked differently back then”

Preme2 · 2023-07-17T13:10:59+00:00

Dear Diary,

If you can afford a 9-5, do it. Im sitting in a teams meeting and one of my colleagues is spending 10 minutes complaining about labeling on a mistake she made… my goodness. This is no offense to her because I don’t need the bad karma, but the headache of doing this everyday for who knows how long is disastrous.

bitcoinisbubble · 2023-07-17T13:15:39+00:00

https://youtu.be/x3lypVnJ0HM video on dating apps

butagoodpersonality · 2023-07-17T13:33:02+00:00

Lovebombing is the new way incorrectly and overused term like gaslighting

Girls on are we dating the same guy page: “he totally love bombed me and was so into me and then he decided he wasn’t anymore-so manipulative”

Ehhhh or you know you just started a relationship and it’s fresh and you’re trying to make it work and are excited and then it slowly fades and you decide it’s not gonna work otherwise known as the honeymoon phase- this isn’t so much manipulative

True “lovebombing” I view as like when a abusive partner beats the fuck out of you then the next day they feel bad and like buy you flowers and tell you how much they love you all day

It’s just become another term lost all meaning

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-07-17T13:39:24+00:00

One meme I see on IG a lot is the one where it says

“I carried this child for 9 months and they end up looking just like their dad wtf”

Daughters? I give you that but don’t you want your son to look like his dad? Me and my brother look just like our dad. My sisters don’t look like my dad or my mom but they look like his sisters to the point where my aunt is mistaken to be their mom when they are together

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-17T13:43:14+00:00

Sarah Brady (Jonah Hill ex) posted on her insta story that her ex blocked her and she was laughing about it. I said that men will be watching this whole fiasco from her and avoid her like the plague as to not get caught up (minus pumping and dumping her if they even wanna risk that)

She has no clue that her current behavior is going to hurt her chances on finding another guy long term, if thats what she seeks. Which I think she does since her and Jonah talked about starting a family and having kids in the previously posted text messages between them

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-07-17T13:48:38+00:00

q4e how do u prefer ur love bombing

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-17T14:24:30+00:00

Do you think your parents would've been able to get together if they were both single and in their twenties in this day and age?

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-17T14:45:21+00:00

Attraction can grow and change over time.

2/3 relationships start as friendships.

source

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-07-17T14:51:39+00:00

Cant even ask a girl (who is posting her half naked body for attention) out to get food without her screenshooting it to the world. This is why men stop trying

DerayRevan · 2023-07-17T15:00:10+00:00

PPD: oh those RP guys are just bitter men who didn't get any attention from girls

Me: I just said men and women are different lol

Anyways am gonna talk about the Adam 22 situation because l keep seeing it all over social media especially Twitter were guys are like "l would never" or that guy is pounding his wife better than adam ever will

https://preview.redd.it/la3op8y4ijcb1.jpeg?width=579&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=704e252ffaa68337f3150c5d440952cfb5638025

Yea basically this

Excellent-Yam409 · 2023-07-17T15:07:30+00:00

People on average date people on the same attractiveness level as themselves

It's a myth that people only want 9s or 10s

If you think you're a 5, focus on other 5s

It only takes 1 person to love you, just like it only takes 1 employer to hire you. Brush up that resume and keep applying

baresquad · 2023-07-17T15:09:39+00:00

Is there a problem with men overestimating their attractiveness? I feel like the way women treat you is a good indicator of where you stand.

At worst, a man who’s truly average in looks is able to get attention from women in public. Whether it be smiles, glances, approached, whatever, even if sparingly. Too many men are claiming to be average then going on to claim that they’re practically invisible to women and that it’s women fault because of inflated egos etc.

Ironically, men claiming to be average could be the ones with inflated egos here. All the evidence in the world makes the case that they’re not average yet they’ll die on the hill that they are and that it’s gloom and doom for average men all while actual average me are doing just fine.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-17T15:14:25+00:00

"Do you think birth control pill has affected politics and women's mating preferences"

Birth control is basically society covering up women's reproductive choices

Because if you look at it from a evolutionary perspective

If a woman got pregnant with a mediocre guy, that was a matter of life or death for her and her offspring if that man didn't have the resources or strength to provide security

Now this introduction of the birth control pill has eliminated that

QuenchlessGato · 2023-07-17T15:19:18+00:00

What are some examples of AMALT traits and behavior?

dbz__f · 2023-07-17T15:30:58+00:00

Question for women: would you rather

A. your female friends and society all see you as drop dead gorgeous and envy you, but your boyfriend/husband sees you as mid

or

B. Your boyfriend/husband sees you as the most beautiful woman on earth, but everyone else in society sees you as ugly.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-07-17T15:33:48+00:00

Men who have a 'black box' sexuality are very unsettling to me.

Motherfucker, what are you hiding?

dbz__f · 2023-07-17T15:36:44+00:00

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGH WHY AREN'T I GETTING NOTIFICATIONS TO WHEN PEOPLE REPLY TO MY COMMENTS?????

/u/mrs_drgree help

ThrowAwayHuman122333 · 2023-07-17T15:48:29+00:00

Why does everyone's focus on sex seem to be centered around the woman?

I saw a post last night where a 39 year old virgin man was asking for advice about having sex for the first time with his current girlfriend.

Nearly every single reply was "be attentive to her and what she responds to" or "ask her what she likes" or "focus on the clit."

Only a few responses with a few dozen upvotes were saying "it's your first time, don't worry about her" with some replies to them being "this is bad advice. Must be a man."

Peacesquad · 2023-07-17T16:20:45+00:00

What did I miss

Peacesquad · 2023-07-17T16:23:22+00:00

Toxic guys get the most pussy

potoricco · 2023-07-17T16:26:55+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/iinr18pjxjcb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e4e98c44eac3919358d4c569666a94a4c8b554a0

The new trend, men killing their SOS

In just 1 day, I have discovered 3 recent cases

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-07-17T16:33:37+00:00

A healthy (19-21) BMI average face woman is better than a chubby beautiful face woman because the beautiful face woman already has fattie predisposition and will only get worse with age. Fat is ugly, so she'll get fat and be ugly even if the face underneath the fat is beautiful while the thin woman will age much more gracefully.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-07-17T16:37:54+00:00

No wonder some men are insecure about a woman's past. They don't want her to know that better sex is possible. There are men who listen to what their partner wants sexually, men who get off on giving her pleasure, men who are passionate lovers. They are insecure about their performance because they only care about their individual pleasure. They want their women to suffer bad sex in silence and then go do the dishes and make dinner. No wonder so many here are afraid of dead bedrooms and divorce. Women can leave bad sex, women can stop having sex, and that makes some men here very angry.

Fearless_Method_1682 · 2023-07-17T17:00:39+00:00

Snarky emojis or gifs attempting to show your disdain for, and therefore superior status to the person you're arguing with don't mean you win.

DerayRevan · 2023-07-17T17:05:46+00:00

"Well men need to step up and become better for women"

As if bruh, no man with self-respect is doing that shit

potoricco · 2023-07-17T17:22:15+00:00

What’s Your Favorite Thing About Me 😁🙏

scwizard · 2023-07-17T17:24:21+00:00

I'm totally shocked by the number of girls who say their family would disown them if deepfake porn was made of them.

Like if they absolutely refuse to consider the fact that it might not be real, it's sorta like they're hunting for an excuse to disown their daughter.

Guilty-Instruction60 · 2023-07-17T17:30:42+00:00

You can tell a lot about someones intelligence that use insecurity as an insult. Insecurity arises from what you don’t know or unknown that could hurt you. It is a survival adaptation to what you perceive that could hurt you physically or mentally.

Every human being on this planet has insecurities, no one goes through life having complete certainty.

When it comes to gender dynamic; some of the underlying reason behind it. “Am i being taken advantage of”, “am i being mislead.”

Best way to manage insecurity is understand it and accept it. And address if your actions are appropriate in dealing with it.

Wooden-World-3151 · 2023-07-17T17:59:01+00:00

You can be the most passionate, unselfish and caring lover to your girlfriend and still have some abusive asshole from her past pleasure her better lol

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-17T18:16:01+00:00

Hypothetical scenario: If someone claims to have proven P=NP and we're convinced he has because he demonstrates breaking various mainstream cryptographic protocols easily and will only show his proof if the US government publicly executes a room full of innocent people and grants him legal immunity, what will happen?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-07-17T18:18:41+00:00

Hypothetical scenario: If someone invented a mind control device, has publicly demonstrated that it works, destroyed it, and will only reveal the blueprint if the US government publicly executes a room full of innocent children, what will happen?

Peacesquad · 2023-07-17T18:23:38+00:00

Insecure!

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-17T18:28:21+00:00

Rich kids are retarded fucks that are jealous of people who are good at math.

I want every rich kid business major who graduated from phillips exeter and phillips andover academy to kill themselves and hand their trust funds over to me. I will make much better use of them.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-07-17T18:29:23+00:00

What if the bar really IS that low for men, it's just that we're not playing high jump... We're playing limbo.

Least_Volume_8591 · 2023-07-17T18:31:22+00:00

Every failure posting in this sub reddit is just some rich kid who went to Phillips Exeter and Phillips Andover academy.

I'm sorry your trust fund can't buy you love but maybe lay off of daddy's credit card for a while maybe don't take the free rent at daddy's 'portfolio' property and you will be successful for once.

Just a thought

According_Listen_897 · 2023-07-17T18:50:41+00:00

Why the hell are trans women so attractive?

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