Daily Community Chat Megathread

Maffioze · 2023-11-12T12:05:19+00:00

Woke up to my mom and brother yelling. Two people who are to stubborn to actually talk to eachother and instead just yell at eachother. I'm so tired of this shit.

blebbyroo · 2023-11-12T12:02:25+00:00

I’m supposed to be sleeping but can’t turn off my audio book

Damn I’m going to Be tired tomorrow

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-12T11:40:51+00:00

I would expect nothing less from a Keisha. All the kids in the black community being taken care of by some man who didn’t create them and you say this? This is rachet woman speak.

So is this type of comment allowed? Because no one seems to be addressing it.

BatemaninAccounting · 2023-11-12T11:15:11+00:00

Scott, 57, has never been married, he’s rarely mentioned a significant other during his decades in politics, and back in the ’90s he described himself as a “proud” adult virgin. So naturally, when Scott launched his presidential campaign last spring, people started speculating about his personal life (and writing think pieces on whether voters actually care about Scott’s single status, as well as what that says about us). The senator tried to shut down the chatter by alluding to a girlfriend in a May interview and then sharing a few details about his Christian, pickleball-playing partner with the Washington Post’s Ben Terris last month. This strategy backfired badly; Terris reported that even some of his oldest friends weren’t aware he was in a relationship, and Scott chatting about a woman he refused to identify raised suspicions that he had fabricated a fake lady friend for political purposes.

After some online digging, reporters identified her as Mindy Noce, a design and renovations manager for a real-estate company in Charleston and a mother of three.

Lmao Tim Scott a volcel?

Sillysheila · 2023-11-12T10:02:50+00:00

What are the worst or most awkward places to do PDAs?

I was on a nude beach and I was thinking…that is probably one of the most awkward places to do a PDA. I go to them with my partner but I never hold hands or kiss him because I’m worried it’ll look like we’re doing something weird lol

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-12T09:51:58+00:00

I should be sleeping right now. It's almost 2 AM.

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-12T09:47:16+00:00

https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-a8f8ff8b5c5d15986a59454f9d3c9dc2

Shit Like this is is way rape of young boys is taken less seriously

"Oh god, hehe what a lucky guy"

No,shut the hell up you fucking idiot

Ylduts · 2023-11-12T09:43:53+00:00

Throughout recorded history 99% of all people, men and women, have been oppressed by a select few. Can we stop perpetuating this idea that men in general are to blame?

Ylduts · 2023-11-12T08:42:07+00:00

When asked wether a tenured employee is more likely to give 100% or a performance based employee is more likely to give 100% most people have no problem saying the performance based employee is more likely. When you switch the labels to girlfriend and wife people suddenly loose their minds.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-12T07:54:55+00:00

Q4Men: How long does it take to know if you can see yourself marrying the woman you’re currently with? And is it a shorter period of time if you’re past a certain age?

Old_Speed_7861 · 2023-11-12T07:51:04+00:00

Taylor Swift is a billionaire. This proves gender pay gap does not exist. Is she going to give up her money to help others?

hannahg000 · 2023-11-12T07:42:38+00:00

i’m sharing this video because it made me cackle

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-12T07:16:05+00:00

My newest passport bro neighbor hasn’t even recovered from jet lag yet and has a date tonight with a cute girl he met last night! He’s not paying for a girl, he’s trying to figure out where to buy her some flowers, so sweet.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-12T06:59:42+00:00

Would y'all consider it cheating if your SO dances with someone else of whatever sex they're attracted to? (Facing each other, bodies touching, hands on shoulders/waist)

Personally I would say it's certainly cheating, but apparently some people disagree.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T05:22:08+00:00

I'm slowly starting to not care about socializing more and more as the days go by. Texting people back feels like a slog and a chore and the desire to make connections with new people is nonexistent. There is no drive anymore.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T05:14:14+00:00

But i hate when parents start yap yap yapping about literally nothing at all

Nate_Reborn · 2023-11-12T05:10:37+00:00

The numbers are in: Had close to 300 people show up to my Halloween Event. Other people also offered to help me keep growing the group. I’m eternally grateful. Never imagined I’d be here 9 months ago.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T05:08:08+00:00

But ngl though if there was one thing i could change about my personality i would give myself a HOT HOT temper

Like irl i literally cant express the emotion anger AT ALL im physically incapable like i physicaly cant yell, Like i start stuttering kinda, like the most i can be is passive aggressive thanks to my parents i think im emotionally repressed

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T04:57:08+00:00

Ngl i would go minimal contact with my parents in college even though theyre not even abusive and i love them i would do it out of spite tbh because they just have such a strange idea of parent/child relationships like they just act like i exist to do whatever they want/take care of them when theyre old/make them look good/parent my brothers/ like they act like i dont have emotions and wants of my own

And i hold a lott of anger towards my dad but thats a story for another day

dbz__f · 2023-11-12T04:51:13+00:00

No offense but whenever I meet a girl who’s beautiful, nice, but also perpetually single, I’m gonna assume she’s too picky and her standards are the reason she’s single.

Like I’m chatting with my gf’s cousin now. She’s really beautiful, she’s really nice, and she’s also successful in her career. But she’s also single and I can’t think of any reason except that she’s too picky. Like she’s pulled all the cards in her favour she just hasn’t played them. Same exact story with another one of my gf’s friends.

dbz__f · 2023-11-12T04:44:19+00:00

/u/EulenWatcher successfully bullied/guilt-tripped me into abandoning dubs on kdramas.

Hope you’re happy.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T04:22:19+00:00

Omg, guys. Men's love doesn't last forever. 😥

baiser_vole · 2023-11-12T04:14:03+00:00

I really am grateful for my future in-laws. They offered my mom to stay with them once they move back to Asia, cause they know my mom lost my dad early. They are really caring people.

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T04:08:35+00:00

My favorite dynamic in a tv show is when they have a friend group with mostly girls and then 1 guy and they always lowkey bully the guy like in derry girls or h2o mermaids probably others i forgor

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T04:05:27+00:00

I want a british accent so badd like i love england thats my TRUE true home spiritually not america

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-12T04:05:19+00:00

Just be tall bro

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T04:03:15+00:00

I dare EVERYONE on Ppd to only say smart things for 1 DAY... Difficulty 100%

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T03:53:14+00:00

Just watched 13 going on 30 i NEED the blue/green/pink dress she wore but i absolutely HATE how old movies always centered about finding a guy like i wanted to know more about how she changed from her experience like the importance of frienship or her career or her relationship with her parents but nope all of a sudden she gets feelings for the guy and then married him...Rubbish terrible message

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-12T03:50:41+00:00

I used to wish girls played video games. Now girls do play video games but modern video games are horrible.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-12T03:35:27+00:00

Good evening to everyone who:

Likes their steak medium-rare
Grew up with an almond mom or crunchy mom
Drives a black or red car, or
Puts up their Christmas decorations in November

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-12T03:30:33+00:00

"Ice Spice is hot" is a modern day Asch conformity experiment

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-12T03:29:09+00:00

male loneliness threads r so interesting bc women will straight up accuse men of wanting to get rid of women's freedoms and the majority men will just not even try to deny it... they're just like yea it's a solution!

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anyway wanted to share this it's kinda too perfect not to share. prediction and realization or something

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-12T02:51:39+00:00

If you are getting a vasectomy just because your wife/gf told you to, you are a dumbass.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-12T02:47:49+00:00

Fuck all those kids in elementary and middle school. Never invited me to a sleepover

Willow-girl · 2023-11-12T01:35:37+00:00

I don't know how I've been managing to work 40 hours a week! I had the whole week off and was busy AF. The painting projects are coming along and I should be able to wrap everything up tomorrow. My hands are getting a little better each day ... today I was able to turn doorknobs! Yay! I'll be back to digging post holes in no time, lol.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T01:05:35+00:00

Thoughts on this hairline?

MalandiBastos · 2023-11-12T01:03:42+00:00

SEA update:

Up to 11 lays now in 5 weeks. Starting to actually get tired from it. I think im going to start putting more attention to other thing like self improvement, have gotten pretty into boxing in the last few months.

Compared to the west, its far easier to smash here, but dealing with women is still quite annoying and energy/time consuming. The BS to Sex ratio is just much better to where its worth putting up with some BS, but after youve proven to yourself you can be a player, the appeal starts to die down a bit.

Just sent my main bih home after she spent the weekend again. We went out to meet and drink with my fellow western friends. Its like quite a surreal experience feeling like a top dog here even though all of us are frumpy and middle class by american standards we live like kings here. All of us dating filipinas way out of our league and living in luxury apartments in the nicest part of town. One of the guys is in his 50s dating a 22 year old.

My friend John's girlfriend is bisexual, and my bih has expressed some interest in women, and even told me she finds John's gf attractive, so we were trying to plant some seeds in her head to get her open to doing girl on girl and letting me add some other girls into the mix, like John does with his gf.

Didnt quite work out, as John and his gf got into a tiff and my bih got way too drunk off one bottle of Soju.

When we got back she spent a whole hour hysterically crying about how guys just "use women as toys and women just want love", how she thinks I dont love her, and blah blah blah. I just didnt engage her and just drowned her out while watching a longform vid on the Israel Palestine conflict whiles shes crying into my ear. Lol.

The things we do for tight young hole.

Shes fine when sober and was acting totally normal just a few hours later but im not letting her drink anymore she gets to be way too much to handle.

One last thing I wanted to add. Here in Manila basically every condo/hotel there is a front desk you must check into and check all guests into, no one can go to your room unless you do this. So the guards have all seen me bring in multiple different women a week, and they know my main bih lives with me on the weekend. Yet of course they dont say anything, infact they act quite sweet to the women. The things they must see working that desk haha. Its quite common for married men to have mistresses here as well.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-12T00:55:16+00:00

I've been more active in the dating scene recently. The past two girls I went out with both drive brand new Toyota Tacomas.

Idk what this means.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-11-12T00:45:22+00:00

accept the buddhist teachings of impermanence: everything is impermanent, even your woman's love. One day, your woman will stop loving you. Don't torture yourself by grasping onto temporary things, free yourself from them.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-11-12T00:39:48+00:00

women find it more difficult than men to accept the teachings of buddhism on impermanence because women grasp onto beliefs of eternalism: that love is eternal, that everyone will have a happy ever after forever one day, that as long as you fulfill bucket list XYZ they can love the man forever, that they are special and unique etc.

in fact, women's love, like everything else, is temporary. there is no forever after, there is no ever lasting love. everything that has a beginning, has an end. everything dies. no human or animal is special or unique. everything is fleeting and transient, nothing matters or has any meaning.

Special-Possession44 · 2023-11-12T00:37:06+00:00

women's love is temporary. scientific studies have consistently shown throughout the world, regardless of culture, that a woman's feelings for a man lasts only for an average of 7 years (the infamously named '7 year itch'):

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/202002/is-the-7-year-itch-myth-or-reality

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T00:36:22+00:00

Dont judge me but i wish i could try zaza 🍃 like one time

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-12T00:28:49+00:00

My day is absolutely ruined when my least favorite supervisor shows up. Utterly demolished.

TroidMemer · 2023-11-12T00:27:02+00:00

If men and women love each other so much, why do we always put each other down? Are we stupid???

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T00:25:17+00:00

Guyss my new phone case + screen protector + camera protector came

I reorder it every few months cz i can NOT with yellow phone cases

I like clear cases best rn but i want to go full mcbling style like gems every where and a chain

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T00:23:00+00:00

I did a back handspring kinda but it was crooked and i landed on my knees So still a long way to go

monster_lily · 2023-11-12T00:16:28+00:00

Guys i started watching top boy and the guy Jamie is soo cute i need.Now

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-12T00:07:35+00:00

I think I'm having a herpes flare up :(

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-11-11T23:53:59+00:00

About the friendzone:

If I liked a guy, and he just wanted to be friends, I would one of two things:

Continue being his friend with zero expectation of a relationship and doing my best to manage feelings of jealousy if he dates another girl
Cut him off if I feel too jealous or hurt. I wouldn’t be hostile about it. I would just politely keep my distance

I wouldn’t linger around as his friend with a growing sense of resentment or false hope. Either I would accept friendship with no relationship or I would move on.

Why is this so difficult for men?

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-11-11T23:51:24+00:00

I can feel the Marxism coming back into my soul. Probs gonna hop on leftist Twitter to read overly verbose memes

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T23:38:19+00:00

I fear the last day of hanging out with my friends. It's obviously not gonna be like this forever. Hell, probably not even the entirety of my 20s. Lost two friends in the group last year. Lost another because he moved away to live with his girlfriend. And now sometimes I'm spending Friday's alone because everyone else is choosing to hang out with their girlfriends instead or because my depression is really bad that day.

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2023-11-11T23:18:55+00:00

Loneliness from not having friends vs not a partner feel very different. How is the advice to just get friends supposed to fix the latter? Do women really perceive them as completely the same?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-11T23:14:48+00:00

Kelso: Angie’s so awesome and classy. She’s like the first page of a playboy layout, you know, before you see her cans.

Fez: Did you know that all that stuff about those girls is made up. Yeah they’re not really librarians or horse trainers or scientists. They're just whores.

baiser_vole · 2023-11-11T22:40:07+00:00

My boyfriend was listening to his friend complain about the hook up culture that he has been seeing firsthand last night. It did sound pretty bad.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T22:39:11+00:00

Have any guys here have far better experiences when it comes to older women? (Like 35 and up or women who are just not in your age range). Not romantically of course cause I don't receive that. Lol. But just in general when it comes to socializing. More nicer and they're the ones who give me compliments. Women my age though....that's a different story. 😂

Idk why this is.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-11T22:34:06+00:00

I'm a big fan of Latinas. The other night, I inadvertently stumbled upon this Mexican-American dance bar and the señoritas there were young, gorgeous, feminine, and just waiting to be approached. These ladies are much less snooty than their non-Latina counterparts, literally the first girl I talked to was willing to dance with me. Pretty good ratio in there too. All you have to do is push past the feeling of alienation being the only non-Mexican in the bar (although I'm mixed so I could probably pass for Dominican or something; might be harder for white guys, dark-skinned black guys, and Asian guys). Anyway, I'm going to brush up on my Spanish and take a trip down south some day.

purplish_possum · 2023-11-11T22:33:13+00:00

Realized I look a lot like the guitar player from one of my favorite bands. The old guy in this video. Similar facial features and head shape, similar body, same hair cut, same clothes, ... What do people think -- not bad for an old guy?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=FBfjbPAyc_g

ApprehensiveAsk3377 · 2023-11-11T22:17:14+00:00

Engineering does ruin your sex and dating life not for the reasons most would think but still don’t do it. You can read my in depth post but really try hard to not get ‘sucked into it’ throw the football into your own end zone by being an Art History major or something.

For people born outside of USA engineering is a great way to get a VISA but if you’re already born and raised here it makes no sense.

If you have to do engineering stuff move to a country where you don’t speak the language and don’t know the culture that should solve all your dating problems. Remember 90% of the engineering people are here on VISA they are learning a new language usually and a new culture be just like them.

Willow-girl · 2023-11-11T16:36:01+00:00

The luckiest woman and the most tired man in the universe are celebrating their 11th anniversary today!

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-11T18:22:09+00:00

The ladies on this subreddit post and comment as if society doesn't constantly cater to their wants

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-11T15:01:33+00:00

Smh the incel oppression will never end. I got my last comment removed simply because I mentioned the fact that I’m an incel. It didn’t even espouse any blackpill beliefs. No virgins allowed, I guess.

Maffioze · 2023-11-11T17:00:52+00:00

The definition of personal responsibility people use here is really extremely unhinged and immature. It's like they never took just even 30 minutes to think about it and how you can easily accuse anyone of not taking responsibility just because they disagree with what is actually their responsibility and what isn't.

For example with the paternity conversation you have people saying men wanna avoid responsibility for accusing women of paternity fraud. But then they act like men have to take full responsibility for the response of a woman, but women don't have to take responsibility for this response in the first place? Why is this response seen as acceptable and justifiable? Why don't women have to take responsibility for such an immature response? This response creates a taboo of the topic and the result is that actual cheating women are covered by all the other women who can't handle getting their virtue questioned. Even if they didn't consciously want to do this, their emotional response towards the accusation contributes to this situation so why aren't they responsible for this?

I'm not even saying that what I'm saying is objectively true or anything. It's fine if people disagree, but people don't even ask these kinds of questions in the first place. They just screech responsibility to shame men without making any actual argument.

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-11-11T20:58:20+00:00

CMV: Being vulnerable as a man usually backfires...

Dizzirron · 2023-11-11T21:28:00+00:00

I noticed the only time mods deleted a comment they reply "No incel content" or something related. I think this rule should be revised, and it's causing people to censor themselves and dance around many issues about men. Inceldom is absolutely related to having a purple pill debate.

saulbasedman · 2023-11-11T12:20:10+00:00

Let it be known: If you were not born before the episode 'Make Love, Not Warcraft,' you lose your right to have an opinion."

thetruthishere_ · 2023-11-11T14:27:13+00:00

Have a good weekend all!

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-11T14:35:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/DCSIyW4dRR

Tldr; Women is upset and resents her boyfriend because he has his shit together and gets along with his family. I guess we are dammed and if we do damned if we don’t, also peep the little comment “liberal lifestyle” what the fuck is that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-11T19:43:03+00:00

I asked this question one time on ask woman but the femenazi moderators removed it. But I know that our democratic overlords will never do that here.

So it goes like this, how does it feel, that you can always pay with your pussy? That you can’t possibly run out of money no matter your age or location?

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-11T21:11:44+00:00

The urge to tell someone what gift you got them as soon as you get it

baiser_vole · 2023-11-11T14:39:14+00:00

Let’s just use correct vocabulary over here.

Wanting a paternity test means there is skepticism, not trust. The two words are antonyms.

Watch what they do, not what they say applies here too.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-11T15:08:29+00:00

Obtain a higher degree of facial beauty, even if you meet your end on the journey

MeanGuyNumber4 · 2023-11-11T16:21:51+00:00

What is your biggest deal breaker?

Mine is if she’s had an abortion. I’m afraid of ghosts and don’t want to fuck a haunted pussy.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T16:28:07+00:00

It’s funny seeing guys cant fathom why women dont like being accused of being lying disloyal whores with no evidence.

And these guys wonder why their experience with women have been shit. If you refuse to learn what makes most people offended, you’re not gonna do well with most people.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-11T17:24:45+00:00

There’s no upside to high n women besides the sex being better in the start which is irrelevant in an LTR.

Raven-Ray · 2023-11-11T18:35:37+00:00

Whenever I see a man call somebody an alpha or a beta I just think of the Omega-verse

DerayRevan · 2023-11-11T18:38:49+00:00

"Women want a man that needs them"

This is gotta be the funniest statement

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T21:51:17+00:00

Things are finally moving forward. Mother and I are gonna look for therapists on Monday. I hope finding one I'm compatible with won't be too hard. I feel most probably won't understand my traumas surrounding my disabilities. Therapy didn't work at all when I was kid so being left years without proper help has me a little skeptical.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-11T12:06:45+00:00

Q4W: Pumped & dumped by Chad?

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T12:08:12+00:00

Damn it, so close to being first 😞

hannahg000 · 2023-11-11T13:24:58+00:00

i really wanted to be emo in middle school. i listen to all the emo music and had all the emo feelings. but my mom wouldn’t let me dress emo. she said dressing in all black makes you look depressed. too bad that i was already depressed anyways 🙃

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-11T14:39:46+00:00

AITA for telling my husband that I’m worried he might be attracted to our daughter in the future? : AITAH (reddit.com)

Incest porn has destroyed this man's brain and possibly his marriage. Stay tuned.

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T15:18:14+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8AcvYCD/

No but does ANYONE know why james charles had a singing/music cover phase 😹 Soooo random like just stick to makeup

DerayRevan · 2023-11-11T15:22:07+00:00

Just to answer this Q4M post

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/x2B7Pr3kSD

Truth is men sleep across and down, human males are the most overselected, meaning we don't only have sex with really unattractive women like other male animals

For many guys, they'll sleep with a unattractive woman but also sleep with a average-looking chick or sometimes a really good-looking one, some people will say it's luck but the biggest players l knew were either fat or short

karspearhollow · 2023-11-11T15:42:29+00:00

What does it mean to you to be a Purple Pill Woman?

saulbasedman · 2023-11-11T16:05:41+00:00

Tell me why
Ain't nothing but a heartache

Tell me why
Ain't nothing but a mistake
Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say
I want it that way

Sorry I was just imagining myself as a young succesful musician having the time of my life as I sing to my adoring fans. Back to rotting I go!

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T16:24:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/zk2brx/im_gonna_do_it/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

You and I will NEVER experience this.

scwizard · 2023-11-11T16:55:21+00:00

In reality they're petrified over being compared to the other guy.

I mean, they probably believe all of those things as well, but mostly it's the literal small dick energy that has them afraid of sexually experienced women.

If you're uncomfortable with an experienced gf you have small dick energy.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-11T17:13:32+00:00

Bro, proof that feminists don't understand men and even women at all-->

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17soq0i/men_who_want_a_virgin_woman_are_misogynistic/

Women themselves have a preference for sexually more experienced men on average. Most don't like having to coach or teach a guy and will instead gravitate to non virgin guys. Men have no choice but to seek less experienced women.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-11T17:32:50+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/17stfm3/tips_for_attractive_36yo_f_who_has_been_single/

I'm an attractive 36-yo woman who has been largely single her whole life - longest relationship was 5 months, long distance. I would like a partner. I've started therapy, listen to hypnoses online, have read relationship books, have taken a dating "course" etc.

Her standards:

physically attractive

emotionally sensitive, available and warm-hearted

a provider mindset and also a feminist (does not look down on women, female qualities etc. in any way)

a fundamental, deep "unspoken" understanding of one another (we just "vibe" on some level)

healthy lifestyle or accepting of healthy lifestyle in a partner (e.g. I hardly ever drink, try to eat vegan and am gluten intolerant 😅 so someone who's fine with that)

bonus: spiritually open, likes to travel (because they are both important parts of my lifestyle)

speaks English and/or German pretty fluently

very reliable, honest and trustworthy personality - clear, open-hearted, generous

AdLow_3 · 2023-11-11T17:33:43+00:00

Has anyone else noticed a disconnect between dating in the real world and what you read online?

I keep seeing "statistics" online. But when you ask people they claim to have met via mutual friends. And if it was online it is usually via instagram.

Being successful in dating as a man has nothing to do with being short or tall, ugly or handsome, ethnic or white. You just need an social circle. That is all.

Am I wrong here?

SlashCo80 · 2023-11-11T17:43:30+00:00

My Spanish friend was feeling down the other day, so I told him "El mundo." It meant the world to him.

Standard_Bug_2671 · 2023-11-11T17:50:24+00:00

insight: basically got tired of dwelling on the same bad memories and not getting any tips from other people

If I stop trying to seek authority from anyone or anything in The world and rely on myself

Then my past present and future start making a lot of sense.

Like looking at the artifacts I made in childhood, my journals or photos or music or art or games, I can also see my situation and what I was dealing with

And how under my own devices it led me here

If I admit that I’m wise enough to know what would have been better then, realize that no one else will admit that, and take it up myself, then I can be the person that I needed to be there for me, and move forward in life

One love xxx

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-11T18:24:05+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/wri3ola6hrzb1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e5693967e6efa5d37b39b39c632d1fea947291a9

sorry the empathy thread is so funny

the male loneliness situation is dire (i get no pussyyyy 😭😞😭😞😭)

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-11T19:22:56+00:00

There are some people who never get sad, never get tired, never empathize, and cannot remember being children, any decision they make is to either serve themselves or harm others. These people are aren't solitary creatures and are attracted to jobs in which they can influence the lives of others, teachers, managers and police officers.

These people are called demons.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-11T19:32:45+00:00

Female privilege is being able to exist with zero thoughts because my man will do it for me 🥰 He’ll text me at noon asking if I remembered to eat lunch, and 90% of the time I haven’t.

AverageSmashPlayer · 2023-11-11T21:43:40+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/@confidentchriss/video/7219160708318137646

Confident Chris is my favorite TikTok pickup artist. He's pretty bad at what he does, but it's never a dull moment with him.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-11T21:51:27+00:00

I’m so much like my grandmother sometimes, it’s not funny. I watched pet videos on Youtube and thought to myself “why does everyone have so much stuff and why are their homes so untidy?”

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-11T12:01:27+00:00

First

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-11T12:03:12+00:00

Second 😔

MikeArrow · 2023-11-11T12:19:12+00:00

Questions I've been musing on that I haven't felt warranted their own threads:

1) Why do I feel like women's standards are impossibly high out of reach for me to achieve, even though every other comment I read from women just says "as long as he's clean and treats me well". There's a disconnect there I just can't reconcile.

2) I worry constantly that I've irredeemably fucked myself over by not maintaining a large social circle from university onwards. I lost touch with all of the people I did know after graduation (and was never particularly close to them even when I did attend). Building a network of friends from scratch again, just seems impossible to achieve and therefore I have no mechanism to meet women regularly to even have a chance of getting to know them informally.

Maffioze · 2023-11-11T12:41:37+00:00

What do people here think of Chris Williamson?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T13:14:28+00:00

If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin

This might as well say “Stop telling me my personality’s the problem. I refuse to acknowledge that.”

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-11-11T14:20:42+00:00

https://sexvalues.github.io/results.html?attract=14.3&drive=96.9&dominant=66.7&deviance=28.1&affect=12.5

Damn😅

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-11T14:45:01+00:00

The whole empathy talk is interesting because on one hand in an ideal world I’m sure it’d be great if men and women felt empathy and sympathy for each other. But in reality what would empathy do? You can have empathy for a situation but how does you having empathy actual have an impact on the person suffering (in this case suffering is lack of a maiden).

Personally I’m of the mindset that I don’t want peoples empathy when it comes to my struggles, dating or anything really. Hearing people have “empathy” for you while you are struggling doesn’t really help or motivate me to improve my situation. The shittiness and suffering of the situation is what makes me want to improve it.

So I get confused when I see post talking about “empathy” on this sub.

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T15:01:53+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8A3JP5n/

Should i watch pearl

Gladboys · 2023-11-11T15:07:39+00:00

Daily reminder the only gift you can earn and are not given on this earth is the gift of perserverance.

howdoiw0rkthisthing · 2023-11-11T15:14:41+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/s/VhoTioYn64

happy_discus · 2023-11-11T16:13:50+00:00

Confession: I really like music by Taylor swift.

Does that make me a swiftie?

I am kinda embarrassed about it.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-11T16:20:57+00:00

Female single exes are actually the worst

leosandlattes · 2023-11-11T17:03:02+00:00

Good morning to everyone who:

Has the middle names Marie, Rose, James or Christian
Likes smooth peanut butter over crunchy
Got a degree in any of the liberal arts or humanities, or
Whose sexual awakening in childhood included Shego, Raven, Ms. Bellum, Azula, or Chel

EveningEveryman · 2023-11-11T17:04:59+00:00

The fact that men have to justify why they want to have a woman is a problem.

scwizard · 2023-11-11T17:05:49+00:00

Sarah Camino had been in a relationship for two years when she found out she was pregnant. The father, whom she met while they were both working at a restaurant in Times Square, was initially excited. But he had been using drugs lately, and had been fired from his last four jobs; when she ventured that she was scared she might wind up raising the child alone, he got defensive and walked out. She and her daughter now live in Florida with her parents, and he is not a part of their lives.

The way this is phrased, they make it sound like the drugs and the getting fired from his last four jobs came up suddenly out of nowhere after she was pregnant. And not like her picker isn't broken.

Source: https://archive.ph/GpuNP

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-11T17:12:29+00:00

Best slogan in the manosphere?

Greg Doucette: "Harder than last time"

Derek MPMD: "...Sauced, yorked, diced and shredded..."

Hamza: "Do the hardwork, when you don't feel like it"

Wheat waffles: "..5$ Face rating ...."

1st man: "...we've got a bunch of physical products and supplements ...."

Fresh and Fit: "Don Dermarco

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T17:48:40+00:00

Alot of guys here are the male equivalent of the Crazy GF, especially the GFs that go “I know he’s cheating on me! I dont need evidence, I FEEL IT! It’s how Im FEELING! I saw it in a dream, so he must mean he’s cheating!”

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-11T17:54:34+00:00

Bro, doesn't understand that men have to make things sexual fast or they will get friendzoned -->

https://old.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17s34lh/how_do_i_weed_out_the_guys_that_make_things/

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T18:27:50+00:00

I can't even vent about my lack of a dating life to other autistic people without getting shit on. "Oh, it's because the way you think and behave. Not because you're autistic. I have autistic male friends who are in relationships so I don't know what you're problem is." "You can’t blame it on your Autism as there are plenty of Autistic people in successful relationships, myself and my ex boyfriends included."

They pull the stupid bullshit where they take your reddit post history as a metric for why your single just like normies. Sorry if some of us have real shit that impacts our desirability and are not self-diagnosed morons whose symptoms are boiled down to quirks as they call it. Get the fuck out of here. And of course most of it was women saying this shit to me.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T18:34:14+00:00

One thing I have learned from this subreddit is to avoid insecure men because they’re equally as fucking terrible as insecure women. I prefer being around adults that understand that their own personal problem is not society’s issue and understand what personal responsibility is.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-11T19:39:47+00:00

Q4A: How would you rate Mr Beast out of 10. Here are two pictures:

For reference, he's 25 and 6'3. ONLY take his apperance into account to rate him, not his fame / money.

Someone keep arguing with me that he is a 5/10 average guy because apparently he has an unattractive face so I need some outside opinions on this because if that motherfucker is average, then I'm a fucking 1/10

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-11-11T19:41:05+00:00

I'm struggling to come up with a gift for my dad for Christmas. Anyone know of any dad-type gadgets? He loves those.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T20:03:21+00:00

Mother and I watching a Wojak marathon right now 😁

scwizard · 2023-11-11T20:09:48+00:00

So some girls aren't having children due to climate anxiety lol

https://www.cnn.com/2023/11/11/opinions/not-having-children-lee/index.html

saulbasedman · 2023-11-11T20:23:05+00:00

I found the new most chad man to exist, Idris Elba.

DerayRevan · 2023-11-11T20:57:09+00:00

If you wanna get laid then what's your mating-strategy ?

How do you go from single,sexless,whatever to getting all the hoes in your local town or city ?

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throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-11T12:10:03+00:00

I saw Dumb Money with my gf yesterday. Having followed the whole saga on reddit together at the time, it was pretty entertaining. Tbh thinking about it, the fact that my gf was browsing wsb back then was a massive green flag lmao

I understand why the movie was such a flop though, I can't see non redditor enjoying it.

Lower-Recognition420 · 2023-11-11T12:15:01+00:00

I hate that I still remember two of my crushes birthday from elementary and middle school. Doesn't help that they both coincidentally have the same birthday too. They didn't give a shit about me but yet I still remember their stupid birthday. I remember buying one of them a gift in high school. I wish I never done that.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T13:20:05+00:00

If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin

This might as well say “Stop telling me my personality’s the problem. I refuse to acknowledge that.”

If being a virgin was the insult, then women just call him a virgin as an insult. Im going to assuming that guys know that but the incels just dont like being told theyre unlikable assholes.

Seriously, for a subreddit all about showing the differences of men and women, guys here LOVE acting like woke Karens.

Karen also like to pretend people hate them for being women (and of a certain race) when people call out her shitty ass behavior.

John_Oakman · 2023-11-11T13:42:55+00:00

On this Armistice Day, remember to thank the defense contractors & corporations for their work on the homefront.

On this Veteran's Day, remember to thank Jody for his work on the homefront.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-11T14:57:04+00:00

I am 0% gay

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T15:13:48+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8A3LW1s/

This is a really good zrgument for hypergamy dont let yourself be gaslit

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T15:30:07+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8A3DcmR/

No i thought this with one of my teachers then when i found out he had a girlfriend i literally screamed internally bc aint no way

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T16:02:58+00:00

ITS SO INSULTING WHEN PPL SEND ME TEMU LINKS

VTHokie2020 · 2023-11-11T16:22:53+00:00

I love our post-modernist sense of ethics and morality. /s

Here's a front page editorial from a premier news outlet just absolutely shitting on men.

I wonder what the reaction would be from the New York Times if you tried to triangulate the subset of men who have "drug and alcohol issues and aren't present" 🤔

Amazing how some groups are so criticizeable and others aren't. "Punching up" amirite?

Having said that, I agree with large portions of this article.

monster_lily · 2023-11-11T16:29:36+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8ATejmL/

Wait i love all their accents

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-11T17:30:16+00:00

Seriously though why are you perusing a relationship? In a clear and precise words

scwizard · 2023-11-11T17:49:21+00:00

The Yale anthropologist Marcia Inhorn’s recent book, “Motherhood on Ice: The Mating Gap and Why Women Freeze Their Eggs,” argues that educated women freeze their eggs because they’re unable to find a suitable male partner: Ms. Inhorn points to a large gap in the number of college-educated women versus college-educated men during their reproductive years — on the order of several million.

Man she's been writing a lot about it lately. I guess she's regretting not doing it since she's never going to have children now.

She has a Wikipedia page tho at least.

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/apr/23/motherhood-women-freeze-eggs-male-partners-men-fertility

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-11T17:58:03+00:00

I cleaned up in my mid 20s to early 30s. Wanna know how? Just be confident in yourself and have an actual personality.

scwizard · 2023-11-11T18:09:04+00:00

Her findings home in on the decline of men, which is a growing cause of alarm in the US, with books on the subject by Professor Scott Galloway, author of Adrift, and Jon Birger’s Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game.

So men are in decline then and it's a growing cause of alarm?

Can't really blame women for not wanting to date a gender that's in decline.

scwizard · 2023-11-11T18:11:39+00:00

Inhorn writes that closing the gap between the genders will be a “critical policy challenge in the decades ahead”. But until society “fixes men”, egg freezing will remain the best reproductive option for single women in their 30s .

Ok how do we fix men. What's that plan to reverse their decline. Give me your ideas.

iliyb · 2023-11-11T18:28:42+00:00

Q4men: if you became a woman for 24 hours how many men would you let hit to combat the male sexlensess crisis?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-11T18:33:13+00:00

Comic Book Nerd = Low value beta -->

https://old.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17sm3rc/took_this_girl_im_seeing_back_to_my_place_and_she

saulbasedman · 2023-11-11T18:51:59+00:00

Q4A:

You can relive your live (without remembering anything) with one of the following choices:

Stay a virgin until age 30 but you become a billionaire on your 30th birthday. You can do whatever you want after.
Have a normal love life but you live paycheck to paycheck forever with a low salary. There's nothing you can do to increase your net worth or salary. You will live in a poor area.

iliyb · 2023-11-11T18:56:21+00:00

women think a man is being "emotionally unavailable" the whole time his down bad in some Stacy's dm's begging for a chance 😂

DerayRevan · 2023-11-11T19:09:06+00:00

Going at the clubs with your friends is very important fellas

Because you need one to get the girls and another one guarding the drinks, that's how you've a successful night

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-11-11T19:42:51+00:00

Been using Tinder, not really into any of these ladies but it's nice to get likes.

iliyb · 2023-11-11T19:50:01+00:00

is twink death the saddest thing ever?

https://preview.redd.it/voidp08iwrzb1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e747b99faab54a54285f7ceaa69be44b1f9f6c96

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-11T19:59:21+00:00

Imo the feminist attitude was right in a way. I really dislike anti-gender essentialism, and the whole "men are still objectively privileged" stuff, but being able to look at societal phenomenon and "pressures" and having more of a nuanced outlook, as well as the attitude of "men should educate themselves/have empathy", I think that's all perfectly reasonable... again, it's just nuanced, but yea. And so I wish for something similar for men too, that's kind of where I'm coming from.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T20:05:31+00:00

People give sympathy to lonely men……when loneliness isnt code for “CAN SOMEONE PLEASE FUCK ME?!”

HungerISanEmotion · 2023-11-11T20:22:40+00:00

Why the hell do people even need sympathy for? What do you get from people feeling bad about your problems?

I feel bad for making people feel bad, so I couldn't even talk with a therapist because I was afraid of making them feel depressed... which would depress me.

I only talk about traumas with my sister, because she lived through them too... so we can't depress each other with that shit.

The rest of it... I just throw it down the abyss at the place where my soul is supposed to be.

I'd rather make women horny then get their empathy.

scwizard · 2023-11-11T20:39:44+00:00

Women individually, some of them get to choose whether they have children or not.

Women as an aggregate do not. There will always be some women who exist outside of society who just live in some jungle somewhere who don't have any concept of birth control. Even if the population of the civilized world falls the main result will just be the uncivilized world getting proportionally larger.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-11-11T20:44:59+00:00

One of the thing that this sub made me realize is that I've probably overrated myself all my life. I always saw myself as an average 5/10 guy (I'm 5'7, white, 135 lbs, skinny fat, weak chin but otherwise normal face), but in reality I'm probably at best a 4/10 and more realistically a 3.5/10.

My gf says that I'm 5/10, but she's obviously biased since she's with me so I'm coming to terms with the fact that I'm below average haha

On the bright side, it makes me appreciate having found someone even more so there that.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-11T20:45:01+00:00

PPD Guys: Women have no empathy for men!

Also PPD Guys: What's wrong with randomly accusing women of lying about who their baby daddy is? Why should a woman dump a man that doesn't trust her to not be a cheating whore? That’s ridiculous!

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-11T21:25:13+00:00

How many women like it when their boyfriend is kind of a dick?

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-11T21:45:41+00:00

What's the female equivalent of cock blocking?

meteorness123 · 2023-11-11T21:49:39+00:00

If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-11-11T21:56:56+00:00

https://finmasters.com/average-us-salary/

The average salary of a full-time worker in the US amounts to $76,554 per year.

Full-time working women earned an average of $65,831 in 2021, 77.8% of what men earned in the same year.

https://www.forbes.com/advisor/business/average-salary-by-age/

this article spells out that the average individual (NOT HOUSEHOLD) income for an INDIVIDUAL (NOT HOUSEHOLD) in California age 25-44 is about $90k a year

Why do men get sooooooooooo angry about this? I want the average income for my state and the age group I date. Nationwide isn’t much lower either, at around $75k ish. But they swear up and down that the average American is making like $40k a year and that women are too demanding.

I make around $120k a year. I’m not remarkable nor do I have a remarkable job. I also make on the lower end of the pay scale for my career. Why do men get defensive and angry about what I consider reasonable requirements?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-11T22:09:45+00:00

I actually kind of wish women were more brutal in their rejections so it would be funnier to me.

Most women just give one word answers, talk to her friend and leave me out of their conversation or slowly fade away. One woman even told me "hope you have a good night" to try to end the conversation.

Last night I said hi to a woman and she said "no" and turned around like I was a homeless person begging and I found that hilarious honestly.

But I'm not the type of person to pursue after any signs of disinterest or discomfort, so that's why I don't get brutal rejections. Using that "social intelligence" to "not be creepy" which doesn't do shit for you as a man because almost every woman you try to talk to will be disinterested or a bit uncomfortable from the start. "Creepy" men who don't care that they are creepy probably actually do better because they persist and hit on a lot more women when they don't care if they come off as creepy.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-11T22:24:40+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hT9-RMgSQzE

afk_row · 2023-11-11T22:31:33+00:00

TIL a japanese slang. Bonkyubon, which means tiny waist, big boobs and hips.

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-12T11:47:49+00:00

What's the point of a man listening to women talking about sexualization and how dominant the male gaze is in media? What do women want men to do about it?

saraimarsena · 2023-11-11T20:26:09+00:00

there is certain days when the daily thread just gets overrun by miserable people

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The average salary of a full-time worker in the US amounts to $76,554 per year.

Full-time working women earned an average of $65,831 in 2021, 77.8% of what men earned in the same year.

this article spells out that the average individual (NOT HOUSEHOLD) income for an INDIVIDUAL (NOT HOUSEHOLD) in California age 25-44 is about $90k a year