As a man, I’ve been told several times by women on dates that they didn’t like how scrawny I looked. I took that as genuine feedback to improve myself and now I’m fit and healthy looking.

I basically used my logic to realize that my underweight body was holding me back. Now I get a few hinge matches per day and usually go on 1 date every 2 weeks and 1 date every week if I’m lucky.

The people that I match with are also in good shape and on my attractiveness level around 5-6. Basically, average. Realistic.

However, I get pinged by so many overweight women. I honestly want to tell them that they should lose weight and actually work on their physical appearance instead of using filters and acting so entitled in their bio.

I’m not a feminist nor a red pill guy. But it’s crazy how deluded overweight women think they can hook up with someone who put serious effort into the gym or someone of high value.

It’s kind of how a 33m like me expects a 18f to fawn over me just because I have a job and a apartment. Im realistic to understand that they have younger guys options in their 20s who are much more virile and adventurous etc and more handsome.

Of course, the inverse for men is applied here but I’m specifically talking about overweight women.

Im not hating on overweight women. I just want to understand how we’ve culturally arrived at this point where entitlement is so skewed in women favor.