If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?

Barneysparky · 2023-02-04T01:08:46+00:00

When we practice doing something we get better at it.

A woman isn't born knowing what makes her orgasm, as we are all quite different that way.

Loose-Bet-3787 · 2023-02-04T01:25:01+00:00

A woman who knows what she wants is harder to please to a man who doesn’t know how to have good sex

Novadina · 2023-02-04T01:10:01+00:00

Nope, the opposite. The more sex I have the better it gets and the more I know what I need to get off. Also I learn more things that give me an orgasm by trying out new things.

Edit: real classy, starting a debate and then blocking me so I can’t reply…

randomreader5371 · 2023-02-04T05:49:07+00:00

I think it depends from woman to woman. But for me, I'd say yes. I've experienced different things and different sizes. With my current partner who is more average sized and vanilla, sometimes it doesn't really cut it, because I know that better sex is possible.

It's not entirely that I'm harder to please, it's just that it's become harder for me to reach the peaks of pleasure I've experienced before.

ninjette847 · 2023-02-04T03:41:25+00:00

If you practice something a lot do you get worse at it?

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-02-04T02:09:37+00:00

No, because the more sex you have, the more you know about what you like, and the more assertive you are about getting it.

ashleyrose56 · 2023-02-04T16:23:55+00:00

As a woman with an insanely high body count, I would say that yes, I'm harder to please because I know what I like and I'm not willing to put up with subpar sex without saying anything or faking an orgasm.

MIW100 · 2023-02-05T04:57:15+00:00

She'll have far more partners to compare you too and nitpick. You can please her sexually, but a relationship will end in disaster.

Affectionate_Pen_623 · 2023-02-04T02:46:13+00:00

I've slept with some real whores in my time. Pornstars, cuckold wives, hotwives, strippers. I'm talking women with partner counts in the hundreds. If anything, I found that the more experienced a woman was, the better understanding she had of what aroused her.

HOWEVER what many men get twisted is thinking that even sexually pleasing a promiscuous woman is enough. I met so many dudes when in that scene who thought they could dickmatize a taken/married woman just because he had good dick. It doesn't really happen like that.

For me, the biggest issue I had with promiscuous women was the fact sex was a way to validate their femininity. No matter how good she was piped, it would never be enough to fill the emotional and sexual void. And that goes both ways. Asking whether experienced woman are easy to please is like asking whether good pussy can lock a man down. It can't.

mcove97 · 2023-02-04T08:05:23+00:00

When you learn how to cook fine food, and get accustomed to eating your fine food.. are you pleased with someone serving you completely average food?

So yeah of course, when you know you can get better, you are not as pleased with less. No matter what it is.

neetykeeno · 2023-02-04T08:29:20+00:00

OK...I'm an actual woman. In her fifties. Has had kids. Has gone volcel.

It's easier to get me to orgasm now than it was 35 years ago...whether I'm getting myself off or being got off. I'm less "precious" about my genitals too...know exactly what they can take and what is too much.

However. Over the years I became more willing to end an encounter, a relationship, or kick someone out my bed for eating crackers...ie, indulging in irritating behaviour or behaviour that inconveniences me be it in or out of bed. Eventually I decided that men in general irritate and inconvenience me.

Young women tend to find more things irritating but are heavily into the idea this can be made to work and will put up with a lot that is profoundly unpleasing before fighting about it in earnest. They continue to invest in the relationship and encourage the man to invest too, then when they do have little choice but to speak up it's a few rounds of arguments with a man who thinks he's been building up love not irritation before they remove the source of the irritation from their lives permanently via divorce, devastating all those built up invested feelings and taking half the assets. Old women tend to speak up early and if they aren't being listened to end the relationship early.

So I suppose it depends what you mean by the word "please" in this context.

Soloandthewookiee · 2023-02-04T01:20:09+00:00

No, though she may be more unwilling to endure subpar sex.

redditmcx · 2023-02-04T04:49:56+00:00

She’s probably less patient with men that dont know how to please them

Relative_Bee8356 · 2023-02-04T05:27:10+00:00

I knew the guy I lost my virginity to was bad at sex. I could observe that he was having orgasms and I wasn't.

Now that I'm much more experienced and have had many partners I'm a lot better at communicating what I actually want. I know what works for me and feel a lot more comfortable talking about it. It's also an order of magnitude easier for me to reach orgasm than it used to be.

I think people get confused about the difference between what an inexperienced woman will accept and what an inexperienced woman will actually enjoy. Because I do think inexperienced women are likelier to put up with ungenerous partners, but they're not going to enjoy themselves anymore than the experienced woman would. The difference is whether they blame it on their partner or whether they think that sex is just kinda disappointing for women in general.

Moneydamjan · 2023-02-04T02:43:06+00:00

yes, especially if you spend your 20's working hard so that you had enough money

CanOfWoody · 2023-02-04T02:44:42+00:00

ITT: Women saying yes but in a reframed way.

jonascf · 2023-02-04T11:36:37+00:00

The bar for what she considers good sex might be raised with time if a woman has many sexual partners.

But it might also help her understand her own body and sexuality better, making it easier for her to be turned on and thus easier to please.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-02-04T01:42:07+00:00

That's a much more complex question than one would think. But overall, I do believe that excess comparison and excess promiscuity makes it harder to connect with your partner or find them attractive. And while it may make you better at sex technically, hedonic adaption makes you less wowed and appreciative of the sexual pleasure you do get.

This is true for men and women, but more true for women for various reasons.

DryOutcome3407 · 2023-02-04T01:40:37+00:00

You can't expect to be the best fuck of someone who fucked 10 or 20 guys had so enter in the relationship knowing that, hell put yourself closer to only 5 guys and how sure you're the best of them?? Imagine you're fucking your soon to be wife and all she thinks is the ghost of past dickings.

No-Rough-7390 · 2023-02-04T03:18:23+00:00

It’s harder for them to have their best experience.

That doesn’t mean she can’t have a good one.

This is coming from the horses mouth, not a guess or assumption. I’ve seen a woman in real time leave her bf to play the field knowing she’d come back to him, and when she did it was all fucked up because the sex was just not how she remembered it. Pretty common story.

MachiNarci · 2023-02-04T01:11:59+00:00

Promiscuous women are more likely to be in failed marriages and relationships, as much research on this sub has shown.

But I think you've got the cause mixed up. There are some promiscuous women who've been desensitized to pleasure, but that's not why they're unfit for relationships: It's because they've been desensitized to bonding itself and can't form deeper connections as well as people who are reserved with their sexual/romantic prospects.

jonascf · 2023-02-04T10:37:58+00:00

Yes if you suck at sex.

Most men can not fuck. It's a fucking athletic endevour to fuck properly.

So most men can't really give more than lovemaking and a avenue for intimacy. Which is fine, for most girls, especially infatuated girls or girls that wanted the hookup to play the highschool status game. Younger girls with fewer partners are easier to excite.

Now, there is some leeway if you are hot or doing some BDSM daddy play, I mean swimmer body hot and genuinely strong dom frame. That's gonna get her wet even if you didn't touch her. And even lovemaking or dryhumping can give her enough to push her occasionally over the edge. Some women, once they got that brain tickle associated with masculine agression - can't really do without, at least they can't get good sex without that energy being present - odds are more experienced women will have this.

Some returns can be gained if you are a really really good boy, that eats that puss for a good 10+ minutes uses his fingers carefully and personalizez the experience for what the gal wants then and there. But it's not going to be sufficient for a woman that dates you for the fuck, for the injection of raw masculine agression into her life. Which is most women after they dated a wide range of men, especially older more confident women in the city that aren't looking for the "relationship guy" but a golden retriever boyfriend tongue isn't hitting all the right spots.

So - just lift:) and stop worrying about all the minute details that each woman needs. If you are a calystetics dude that doesn't feel the need to rush and bust as soon as he feels the grip(i.e. you just dropped a load that morning into your bestie) - and play around with the girl, toss her around, tease her and have fun with it... Odds are you can finish the job with 2 out of 3 women in your dating pool, in a 20 minute quicky and that goes up to 4/5 for most healthy women in a 40 minute romp. For the rest if you add some mindfuckery with dominance, sexy talk or overly intense eye contact over the course of a full night, or getaway weeken - you can deliver a satisfied return customer even if the O doesn't come. If you can't leave a mark in a full weekend, she know it's her, and not you.

SmilesRHere · 2023-02-04T23:18:00+00:00

The opposite, she is easier to please.

The more partners and experience a woman has, the more she is able to relax and enjoy the experience, she learns her body, is in tune with herself, knows how to increase her pleasure (moving and adjusting her body to enhance the angle, depth, friction etc.) and is comfortable asking for what she wants. If a less experienced guy is able to let go of his ego, she can even teach him how to be better at giving women pleasure.

So in fact the exact opposite of what some “men” fear.

The word men is in quotes, because I don’t believe a guy panicked about his ability to please and satisfy a woman due to her being more experienced, is a man, mentally he’s only a step above a virgin teenager.

coupleadraynks · 2023-02-05T07:20:35+00:00

yes and thats the entire reason why we stay away from high n-count partners. i can satisfy the average women, maybe even pleasure an above average women, but if theres a type of dude out there who she is more attracted to, naturally I wont ever compare or measure up. its about chemistry, that all. if a guy is a 6 or 7 he knows damn well the other 6’s and 7s s already had Chad so I stick with 4s and 5s. it sucks and doesn’t make me happy, but its better than insecurity and living in fear of getting cheated on bc if that happens my ass is getting sent upstate.

2023-02-05T14:11:28+00:00

Yes very

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2023-02-04T02:14:16+00:00

Once you've had a orgasm ,with Good D aka great sex , it's hard to go back to the mediocre lane.
It's why so many men prefer a inexperienced woman ,that way she doesn't know how ridiculously awful he is in bed.

Once you know how your body works, makes sex better especially with a good partner.

Nihi1986 · 2023-02-04T04:59:46+00:00

She probably feels more comfortable about sex in general, which would make her easier to please. Unless of course she has had really good sex in the past and is used to that quality that now with you she's lacking🤷

Jokes aside, sex becomes progressively better with the partner as they learn what to do and what not to do with the other person. The emotional aspect plays a big role too.

My first sexual experiences with every past partner were the worst, honestly, regardless how many previous partners they had.

Radiant_Specific6542 · 2023-02-04T02:12:49+00:00

Sexually, no. However they're far less satisfied inside relationships

Hoopy223 · 2023-02-04T03:10:05+00:00

Nope. Unless they are stuck on the “one that got away” in which case they will never be happy with you no matter what you do.

Conscious_Ad_6572 · 2023-02-04T02:15:36+00:00

She becomes hardee to please with everything

y2kjanelle · 2023-02-04T04:04:04+00:00

Oh good lord. Like with anything else (research always has to be ignored so angry mouth-frothing bitter people who don’t like women can shit on them in any way possible),

People get better with experience. No, she doesn’t get harder to please, she just knows what she wants which makes it easier for her partner.

And you can do this with having lots of different partners OR with lots of experience with the same partner.

It doesn’t really matter. If you don’t want a promiscuous woman, then don’t date them and leave them alone. If you can’t get the virgin you want, be alone. At that point, you’re not good enough for anyone. You disrespect the women you don’t want and don’t meet the standards of women you do.

So be alone, get better and stop making up BS claims because you want to shit on women you don’t like.

It’s seriously that simple. I’m a woman with a lot of sexual experience and I know what I like and how to communicate it. When I was a virgin a couple years ago, I had no clue and was a lot harder to please because I had nothing to go off of. Most things hurt or were uncomfortable and I didn’t know how to make it better until I tried new things and learned.

Just like anything else. It’s not that hard to understand.

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-02-04T03:17:36+00:00

The opposite in most cases. You learn what you like and how to get their faster, what works and what doesn't work. Sometimes a partner might introduce you to something new that is remarkably effective and you hadn't considered or learned about before.

That being said women can still learn to please themselves very well being their only sexual partner, but obviously when you have extra stimulation from a second party there is a larger variety of what you can try and see if you like.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2023-02-04T03:45:11+00:00

As one of those women, I think I'm easier to please because I know exactly what I want, I know what I don't like and I don't feel like we need to try a million different things to find something that works.

And you can get better at sex even if you don't have as much experience as your partner. If they aren't a shithead, they'll be understanding and you'll work on making it really good for both of you together. Practice makes perfect.

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-02-04T03:45:51+00:00

In my experience yes, the women who had higher body counts took longer to cum or they could only cum in a certain position( usually woth toys involved). They also were the only ones who cheated on me and ironically lied about their body counts.

EugeneCezanne · 2023-02-04T04:12:27+00:00

Easier, really, in my experience. They have a better idea of what works for them and different people can achieve it.

jeanironplate · 2023-02-04T01:28:40+00:00

Men and women who have lots of sexual partners get jaded and uninterested. I knew a guy who was only 15 at the time and he had so much casual sex he said he was bored of looking at naked thong ass at the beach. It just gets boring when you do it with a bunch of different people.

Zuzutherat · 2023-02-04T02:23:48+00:00

If she’s hard to please sexually and she knows what she wants, then you’re the problem and need to focus/practice on pleasuring your partner

INFPneedshelp · 2023-02-04T03:05:27+00:00

I think the less experience she has, the harder to please she will be.

Electrical_Funky · 2023-02-04T03:03:28+00:00

Its moreso she likely to get bored and she used to...variety. I'll let you fill in the rest.

Imagine men who watch a ton of porn, then you tell them you can only watch one type of porn. It would work for a bit of time, but then the mind would be floating.

sharksville · 2023-02-04T04:34:00+00:00

Don’t really care because she’s worthless at that point. A car that’s had a lot of owners and driving so many hours, is it worth investing money in or does that car just become good for the scrap yard?

wejaow · 2023-02-04T01:56:14+00:00

No. These types of women are easy to please. That’s why so many men like them.

PsychologicalHand155 · 2023-02-04T03:04:54+00:00

No. I think she will know what she likes better and will be able to tell you what she likes so she would be easier to please

KissCutMe · 2023-02-04T03:48:12+00:00

Not in my experience. No.

LotBuilder · 2023-02-04T04:00:09+00:00

No, they know what works for them

Hosj_Karp · 2023-02-04T09:39:28+00:00

Easier! You learn what you like and can communicate it easily. "Sluts" are a thousand times "easier to please" than virgins.

WoodStainedGlass · 2023-02-04T11:25:36+00:00

In my single years I found that women with more experience understood their bodies and could communicate better what made them feel good.

As

Fast_Delivery9164 · 2023-02-04T01:49:39+00:00

Her pleasure receptors are blown out from the intense sex she had with a number of Chads

King-SAMO · 2023-02-04T03:11:02+00:00

Not harder to satisfy per se, but definitely less impressed when you do satisfy her.

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-02-04T01:50:00+00:00

Ima say yes. I can only imagine the dudes who have to follow my act. Luckily women want more than just good dick so fuckbuddies fall off when some other dude offers her an LTR 🤷🏾‍♂️

I also find girls who use vibrators a lot are harder to get off. Just my experience at least. I don’t like using toys in bed.

TemporalCash531 · 2023-02-04T05:34:46+00:00

Quite the opposite. It’s however unsurprising that this argument made its way through red pill philosophy.

Scarce12 · 2023-02-04T01:33:32+00:00

Well, you need to question why she had a lot of sexual partners and chose to have those experiences and what value do they add to the viability of a relationship with them, appreciating the odds are that the relationship will fail.

Steakman1 · 2023-02-04T02:10:54+00:00

I don’t think it’s a matter of “experience.” Because a woman who’s had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years a couple times a week will be more “experienced” than a woman who’s only had ONS’s with 20+ guys. The woman in the relationship will have had sex a little over 200 times and the woman who’s only had casual experiences will have only had it approximately 20-30 times depending on if they were all truly ONS’s or some hooked up a few times. There’s also the consideration that the boyfriend could’ve been great at sex and all the casual hook ups were bad at it.

That being said, I think men and women who become used to having so much variety in their sexual partners can potentially have issues not being able to have any more variety if they get into a monogamous relationship. And a person who’s put a lot of effort into just pursuing sex may have trouble overlooking a partner who isn’t amazing at sex (but not bad) but has other great relationship qualities. Having a lot of past sexual partners also means you have a lot more people to compare your current partner with. Which generally isn’t a good idea to do. But of course the same can be said about someone with past relationships and no casual flings.

belfastbiker · 2023-02-04T02:28:45+00:00

Git good dude.

7-11-21-Luck · 2023-02-04T13:46:39+00:00

In my experience no. I personally prefer women with experience over a Virgin or woman with only 1 or 2 partners. It's only harder when she's no longer into you and doesn't say anything or break it off

obviousredflag · 2023-02-04T14:03:44+00:00

No, she becomes easier to please because she knows what she wants, was exposed to a lot of different stimuli and needed to learn to communicate her needs to new partners. She learned to be adaptive to different men and find a way to her pleasure.

Don't wonder, if you are bad in bed, then she will not be pleased sexually, regardless of what she experienced before you. It's a fantasy that virgins will think you are the best because they have not had any other experience.

2023-02-04T18:12:35+00:00

No. She always liked the same things, even before she discovered them. She may just be less likely to settle for mediocre or bad sex the more partners she’s had, because she knows there is better out there. (Bad or mediocre sex isn’t pleasing to her even if she remains with a bad/mediocre sexual partner.)

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elsiebrant1 · 2023-02-04T01:58:25+00:00

I would say no, because you will know your body as a temple, many just do it with inertia, a minority approach it as an art

jons1976gp · 2023-02-04T02:40:10+00:00

No..

rosesonthefloor · 2023-02-04T05:33:15+00:00

Nah, it’s all pretty simple. Honestly, I’ve found that adding more toys/experience doesn’t necessarily always help.

2023-02-04T07:58:03+00:00

I can still get off with a guy doing old fashioned missionary. It's all about the mental foreplay for me.

vivvienne · 2023-02-04T08:35:03+00:00

Depends on whether she's learned to be a selfish partner or learned to reciprocate.

2023-02-04T10:04:51+00:00

You should tag this Q4W because there's a lot of men in this thread who have no idea what they're talking about.

Women with practice know what they like so they find it easier to get off. They're also more likely to communicate what they like because they're less shy about it.

blueshinx · 2023-02-04T12:07:18+00:00

Thank you for this post because I honestly can’t stop laughing at some of these replies

blueshinx · 2023-02-04T12:37:57+00:00

I think less experienced women are simply more likely to put up with bad sex, that does not mean they will be sexually satisfied. Many assume that all sex works that way and that it’s generally not sexually satisfying for most women.

onestH · 2023-02-04T13:22:28+00:00

It has the opposite effect as it facilitates learning about herself and what she gets off on. This, however, may mean that she won’t get together with someone unless she already knows that a guy is hung and makes it harder to keep her, as she knows what’s out there. The last girl I slept with has a BF with a third black belt and coach of the national team — but she wanted someone with “more testosterone” and bigger dick.

She’s not much of a catch (a 6-7/10) and I resent her bitchy attitude but sometimes a hole is better than a hand.

Agreeable_Dust2855 · 2023-02-04T14:16:44+00:00

No, the opposite.

_revelationary · 2023-02-04T14:30:15+00:00

I’ve had two sexual partners, but the longer I’ve been with my husband the quicker I can orgasm. Like others have said - the more you do something the better you know your body and what “works.” And in my experience the closer you are with your partner the better you get at telling them what helps you get there. I can’t speak to having a greater number of partners but I imagine most of that is still true.

jonniethm · 2023-02-04T15:07:10+00:00

same as men. your wants change over time.

snsjsthrowj · 2023-02-04T15:15:19+00:00

Lesbian here. Ive slept with a lot of women in my lifetime. I havent had any problems being sexually pleased by my current partner.

Throughout my experiences, Ive become good in bed and I communicate what I want.

Jeshurian77 · 2023-02-04T15:20:05+00:00

There are so many different ways to turn a woman on. The feeling of being turned on is far more addictive than the actual orgasm itself. If the orgasm was more addictive, women would stick with a vibrator but no one really wants that, some do but it's neither good nor satisfying in the long run to not be able to be pleased by your partner due to high vibrations or a death grip wank.

Once you find out what turns you on, you chase that. And because some people don't know, exploration with a few partners helps you discover what that is.

If she knows what she likes and you can't offer that, that's basically what's called sexual incompatibility and that's ok.

The last thing you want is a woman who is ok to have sex the way you like it because she doesn't really know what she likes and you don't have to make the effort because she has nothing to compare you to. Sure, it'll make you feel secure, but here's the thing...

People talk.

When you start talking to others you learn about multiple experiences and you might go back and suggest that to your partner. Eg, "Let's try anal." Your partner might say no for completely valid reasons. Same for roleplay, sex in different rooms and so on.

You don't need to have multiple partners to eventually discover that your sex life isn't that exciting, because if you listen and watch, you'll learn there's a lot going on out there that you may want to try. And if your partner isn't into exploring what you would like to explore, then in time it'll be game over.

Sadly, women aren't that great at asking for what they want in the bedroom so that's not easy to navigate. Thankfully, times are changing. In the meantime, good communication is important. Are orgasms a measure of good sex? Fuck it, I'm gonna say yes. But that's not to say a lack of orgasms in your partner is entirely your responsibility ESPECIALLY if you've been trying your best.

Sometimes lack of orgasms are a mental block and that's a whole other story...

Everyone's best bet is to do their utmost in turning their partner on as often as possible. Very rarely will experience with multiple partners mean a woman likes 100 different things, it usually means she is into a few different things done well, like good head, a position or dirty talk. No one is expected to be a porn star (and if so, gtfo unless it's your thing too.)

NotARussianBot1984 · 2023-02-04T18:36:55+00:00

No.

My girl has fucked the most men I've known, 50, and 50.girls.

She's easy to please in bed, just takes effort. Hell I could make her cum the first date.

You know whom is harder? The girl that only had one bf over a decade who doesn't really like sex, I don't think I ever made her cum yet I tried.

hostility_kitty · 2023-02-04T19:38:14+00:00

Why does everyone assume that every girl had casual sex with 8 inch Chad? All of my previous partners were awkward computer science guys who have never talked to a woman before 🤣

gopher_glitz · 2023-02-04T20:43:31+00:00

Really promiscuous women that regularly drunk/drug bang strangers they met a bars are rarely sexually satisfied by these encounters.

These encounters are usually a form of self harm due to mental illness or unhealed trauma.

excusedingdong · 2023-02-04T22:11:43+00:00

She will end up pair bonding with a male s*** rather than letting her first choice discover it.

Vynxe-Vainglory · 2023-02-05T01:13:13+00:00

Depends on the variety of those experiences. If she went for the same type of guy 50 times in a row, and you're not like them; you may be very exotic indeed.

There's really very little you can do to tell whether or not this is the case. Even if she told you, you wouldn't know.

justforlulz12345 · 2023-02-05T02:03:55+00:00

If the experienced woman was genuinely into me and not just looking for a safe guy then I’d like it. Let a more experienced person guiding me through it seems hot.

montylittt · 2023-02-06T23:26:20+00:00

This whole body count thing is so misguided. One guy, who has the skills, the looks, the attitude, the strong sensuality and sexuality can - forever - be the best fkc of a girl's life.

You could be the 2nd guy she's ever been with and, if you're a lame beta in bed, she'll always be thinking of that first guy, who broke her in & took her to places she never knew existed.

If she fkd 100 lame ass limp dkc dudes before you and you've got strength, stamina, and skills - guess what she's always gonna remember you as the stallion that broke her back.

Stop being such a bunch of ninnies, talking about sh*t you have no control over AND will NEVER know. She's never gonna tell you her real body count because so many spineless guys are intimidated by a girl who's got a high count.

Every girl I'm with, I do my absolute best to be the best she ever had. If we break up, for the rest of her life, every time she's fkn some 'safe' beta she's gonna be thinking of me. That's legacy.

So stop worrying about her body count and start worrying about sht you can control - your confidence, your finances, your group of friends, your career, your sx skills for sure. Improve all that and you'll never have to worry about her leaving you or her not being completely satisfied fkng you.

It's getting them to leave that gets hard, once you've got the rest of your life dialed in.

Also, never, fkn ever, ask a girl her body count. She will not tell you the truth and it makes you look weak, timid and lacking confidence. Fkc her like she's never been fkd before and ruin her for ever being satisfied with any other guy.

If you stay together, the s*x will be absolute fire. If you break up with her, she'll always wish she was fkng you. It's you win / you win, no matter what happens.

waffleznstuff30 · 2023-02-07T06:18:12+00:00

Absolutely not.

I think it's easier. Our plumbing makes things a little complicated is to how to orgasm. Our erectile tissue is internal only a tiny nub of if is external. So trying to figure out how to work it in regards to having a partner is really complicated and figuring out how to stimulate those bits with a penis as well. Not to mention the mental part of it and mentally figuring out how to climax with another person because brain and body are ready to go but theres a disconnect. So having more experiences and understanding how your body and mind work in regards to sex is kind of important. And making sure they all kinda work together takes a lot more sexual experience. It's not gonna just happen that first time. It takes time and working with someone and once you both figure out how to make it work well congrats.

However if the tolerance for BS gets low. If you are communicating what feels good for you and you are with a man who Disregards it all and doesn't even attempt to focus on your pleasure. That's an issue.

Admirable-Panic2626 · 2023-02-07T15:11:13+00:00

It depends on the individual circumstances.

Like if she had, let's say 10 poor to mediocre hookups then she will be easy to impress.

If she had only one partner, who gave her ok to fantastic sex many times, she is going to be much harder to impress.

loverofrain777 · 2023-02-12T21:18:14+00:00

I wouldn’t necessarily say so. I think it depends on context. Who is she engaging sexual activity with? If she has significantly more experience than her partner, then maybe, but only because his technique needs some improvement.

Otherwise I’d argue no, because she has had enough experience to discover what she enjoys, what she doesn’t, and she knows what works for her.

Title	If a woman has a lot of sexual partners/experiences, does she become harder to please sexually as time goes on?
Author	teamgr377
Upvotes	41
Comments	315
Date	February 4, 2023 12:57 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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