Daily Community Chat Megathread

Joelypoely88 · 2022-07-10T12:14:34+00:00

Do you think a woman talking about other attractive guys being interested in her, trying to make her love interest jealous to sustain her perceived desirability, is commonly effective; or the majority of the time will it turn the guy off and make him lose interest in her? If the latter, does the woman realise it can have this effect?

Spread-Em-Plz · 2022-07-10T12:03:07+00:00

Every man should learn the art of flirting with no attachment to outcome.

It teaches you a lot about yourself and women. It also gives you a pretty good idea of where you stand hotness-wise

More importantly, thinking back and laughing at your own material and wondering “How in the world did I not get slapped?” is the best thing ever

lulll · 2022-07-10T11:59:02+00:00

wow i am offended how dare these rotten bastards insult this womans butt

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-10T11:39:07+00:00

Once you step out a bit from this sub and talk to regular people, you see how insane some users are. Some of y'all don't see women as people. Take a look at that red pill tips scales back post. I'm all about self improvement and abundance mentality, but some takes are insane there.

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-10T11:33:00+00:00

About age gaps and manipulation:

People don’t know what manipulation is. Manipulation is lying to and tricking people. Having more money isn’t “manipulation”. Having the capacity to be a provider isn’t “manipulation.” Manipulation is being lying and deceptive.

An 18 year old man can manipulate an 18 year old woman. A 25 year old guy can manipulate a 25 year old woman. A 25 year old guy can manipulate a 35 year old woman. A 25 year old woman can be a manipulator.

Shit relationships come in all ages and sizes. Being significantly older than her doesn’t make you a manipulator. Once you’re 18, you’re an adult. You can drive cars, choose what job you want, choose your career and university. You can make these huge independent life decisions that determine the course of your life. If you choose to date a guy who’s significantly older than you, that’s your choice. Unless he’s lying to you or doing something deceptive, it’s not “manipulation” because you are mutually choosing to be with each other.

PeopleAreDemonic · 2022-07-10T10:54:47+00:00

I'm a dude that women have asked out for my whole life.

I hear horror stories about guys jumping through hoops to chase women, like those dudes who go down to Colombia and then get drugged and robbed.

Is it really that rare to get asked out by women, that 90% of men honestly believe you have to go really far (oftentimes literally) just for a woman?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T10:51:39+00:00

Racism is dumber than sexism

Reality is sexist, human's invented racism

jackedsoon · 2022-07-10T09:59:36+00:00

Nothing wrong w a woman liking you for money aslong as its not the only factor.

Ylduts · 2022-07-10T09:22:07+00:00

Domestic Violence

Most people seem to think that women are overwhelmingly the victims, but when you look up the stats according to the CDC

When it comes to physical violence

30.3%, or about 1 in 3 women, have been physically assaulted by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
25.7%, or about 1 in 4 men, have also experienced physical assault by a partner sometime in their life.

Emotional abuse

48.4% of women have experienced at least one form of psychological aggression by an intimate partner during their lifetime.
48.8% of men have also experienced one of these forms of psychological aggression by a partner in their lifetime.

If most support channels focus on women how are we as a society going to solve the issue when half the victims(men) are tossed aside?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T07:48:08+00:00

It's wild to me that Dan Harmon escaped MeToo shit but Louis CK didn't.

Dan Harmon made a subordinates work life horrible for not putting out

while Louis CK jerked off in front of people he gained consent from.

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-10T07:39:14+00:00

I met this fat, chain smoker who was ugly.

The dude has such a high n count....

Listening to him I was in awe....

The dude took "dating is a numbers game" to a different level.

SuspiciousArdvark · 2022-07-10T07:36:32+00:00

Someone reddit cared me

😂

Thank you for understanding my cries for help

😔

Less_Detail · 2022-07-10T07:32:19+00:00

This is one of the most horrifying threads I came across. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/vuk4ry/what\_do\_you\_want\_to\_tell\_your\_wife\_but\_it\_would/

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T07:22:37+00:00

Alpha Widowing is easy just don't provide closure ever.

it's probs why hoes hate ghosting so much

Snoo_16536 · 2022-07-10T06:52:05+00:00

When a man gets a promotion he starts thinking about giving his family a better life

When a woman gets a promotion she starts doubting if her husband is still good enough for her

Learn life!

PeopleAreDemonic · 2022-07-10T06:42:05+00:00

Everything that most normal people do is simply a cope with being relatively unattractive or even middle of the road. It's pretty funny when you actually meet a very attractive person, they generally don't really have any political views, are more objective, and kinder in general.

BennyHillThemeStops · 2022-07-10T06:17:26+00:00

It's over for Joe Rogan bros, this whale won't date you

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-07-10T05:59:07+00:00

on the verge of dropping my sorority because recruitment is so stressful and makes me wanna kms🥲 it’s not even august and i’m already overwhelmed with the idea of having to talk to at least 100 girls in a span of four days.

SeaSquirrel · 2022-07-10T04:59:13+00:00

Im getting real tired of people implying I’m with my gf for money.

Even if its a “joke”, its like wow you really think that little of me.

Snoo_16536 · 2022-07-10T04:13:04+00:00

Find a woman that keeps:

- Your balls empty

- Your stomach full

- Your mind clear

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-10T04:01:00+00:00

I've got no problem waiting to have sex with a girl if that's what she wants, it just means I've gotta fuck other girls on the side until she's ready. I don't understand the complaining anymore. If you have the abundance mentality you're fine with waiting with her because you've already got girls willing to fuck you instantly on the side until she's ready to take that step.

Then when she's ready to commit you drop your side whores.

hari_hbp · 2022-07-10T03:59:53+00:00

Is an AWALT statement inherently bad? What if a man uses it to become a better person without hurting others?

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-10T03:50:23+00:00

For the love of God I just hope the next relationship I get into I'm not the one that gets the relationship belly.

I'm usually the one to chub out in a new relationship so hope the next time it's finally not my turn.

luliloo · 2022-07-10T03:43:49+00:00

I’ve been staying over at my guys place like 4 days a week these days.

He just told me we spent about $6k on food and drink in the last month and a half 😱 I blame inflation.

Snoo_16536 · 2022-07-10T03:05:54+00:00

I don't do ratings but fuck it, please rate this couple individually

https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=yd2VDvBA&id=C03C8BB3A95DC675ED3C13E89F128DBC0891CF71&thid=OIP.yd2VDvBAcfoB6YmecHkg7wHaL9&mediaurl=https%3a%2f%2fakns-images.eonline.com%2feol\_images%2fEntire\_Site%2f2018817%2frs\_634x1024-180917171211-634.kirsten-dunst-jesse-plemons-2018-emmy-awards-red-carpet-arrivals-couples.ct.091718.jpg&cdnurl=https%3a%2f%2fth.bing.com%2fth%2fid%2fR.c9dd950ef04071fa01e9899e707920ef%3frik%3dcc%252bRCLyNEp%252foEw%26pid%3dImgRaw%26r%3d0&exph=1024&expw=634&q=jesse+plemons+kirsten+dunst&simid=608029256235699074&FORM=IRPRST&ck=3D76FAD3F13FA4FD45B1F1E7B376BBA1&selectedIndex=33&ajaxhist=0&ajaxserp=0

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-10T03:05:38+00:00

Q4m - is your dick the same color as your skin or darker or lighter?

DragoonXFury · 2022-07-10T02:45:19+00:00

Man... I could really do with few lines of ketamine right now...

Could have made my very good night out become a great night out.

Too bad London ket is shit. The only two drugs really good in London is cocaine and weed but coke is hella expensive.

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-10T02:29:46+00:00

This Brent Faiyaz album fire I need to get a gf for this.

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-07-10T02:24:42+00:00

The girl I'm seeing has never gone clubbing and never been a big party girl, fucking hell I might have struck gold here. Casually seen too many sluts lately. Nice to have a change.

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-07-10T02:23:55+00:00

Q4me

Why am I like this?

ScarAdvanced9562 · 2022-07-10T02:11:04+00:00

who was that one user on here who was extremely submissive to her husband and would basically do all the chores, allow him to have prostitutes. I think she was german or central/eastern european.

-angels-fan- · 2022-07-10T02:05:39+00:00

I love my wife to death, but sometimes her incompetence is maddening.

Just now: "Sweetie, I need to book a plane ticket for feminist step daughter, but I don't know how. Can you help me?"

You... Don't know how to enter a first and last name, an email address and a credit card??

figuringMylife · 2022-07-10T01:58:31+00:00

do y’all believe that you search for confirmation bias in your beliefs? like intentionally seek out RP situations and naturally if you seek Stacys they’re gonna be hypergamous

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T01:37:16+00:00

Do you believe that formerly romantically unsuccesful men who turn out financially successful later on make it their mission or take joy in punishing good-looking men through various means ?

Aviadcool111 · 2022-07-10T01:24:52+00:00

This is a pretty good video since it shows pretty much-lookmatched couples while even having two guys who seems to be dating up and one girl dating up as well.

I'll do my own ranking of both the guys and gals and you all can do so as well if you are so incline

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbC4l5DG7s4

Sohpia 7/8 out of 10 and would date. Her boyfriend is super tall and has a conventially attractive face so I would say he is a 7/8 out of 10 and lookmatched
Vera 7 out of 10 but would not date and her boyfriend is around a 6 out of 10 but he does have some height. Slight mismatch in looks
Sky 6/10 would not date and I think he is punching slightly up like he is a 5/10 and she is a 6/10 slight missmatch in favor of the man
Ajanea 5/6 out of 10 would not date. I would say they are lookmatched he is a 5/6 out of 10 and she is as well
Jennifer 5/10wouldn not date and her boyfriend is a 7/10 inho and this she is punching ahead in purely looks

Willow-girl · 2022-07-10T01:24:34+00:00

Got paid to go on a road trip today! Drove around two counties putting up real estate signs (and stopping at every yard sale along the way). A good time was had by both. It's the most time my man and I have spent together in weeks.

Most pretentious HOA plan name: "Castlefield Woods." (Or it may have been "Castlewood Fields," I don't remember. Needless to say, there were no castles, woods or fields in view, although I suspect a few of the latter were destroyed to build yet another boring housing plan.)

Most cringeworthy HOA-plan street name: "Hardwood Drive." Snicker

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T01:21:36+00:00

I must admit that for prolonged periods of my life, I have been a stacysexual.

figuringMylife · 2022-07-10T01:12:30+00:00

do men lie about being bisexual

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T01:08:11+00:00

Question for the bros : What's more important to you. Being of help to people and them being of help to you, making a difference in the world or being attractive to (many) women ?

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-10T01:04:36+00:00

https://youtu.be/EoJjvEwWuxE this game, two people do a blind date with a button in the middle. As they get to know each other, the button randomly turns red and if one of them presses the button, the other person goes and is swapped out with a new blind date. If no one presses the button for a certain amount of time, the two win a free all expensed trip.

I think my strategy would be to try and press the button on any baddies before they could reject me and just talk to a fatty enough to win the trip. Thoughts?

Ok_Rooster2674 · 2022-07-10T01:01:16+00:00

Got laid by a looks match that’s actually in her 20s for the first time in a year. My chad-lite status has been restored!

1) does this mean I’m no longer cougar bait?

2) why am I still depressed?

growandappear · 2022-07-10T00:57:37+00:00

Watching someone try to parallel park is actually the highest comedy out there

huhwhatokok · 2022-07-10T00:40:26+00:00

Toughest fold for me in my life was with this Afro-latina girl I went on a date with. FAT ass slim waist and nerdy. I will never live it down.

WickedBiscuit · 2022-07-10T00:25:37+00:00

I’m a 5’4”M. Is this a losing battle for me? Registered nurse, two bachelors degrees, speak Spanish, gym 4x week, rock climb 2x week, have a dog, can cook, can garden, socially capable. Does the height negate all that?

Aviadcool111 · 2022-07-10T00:21:14+00:00

Describe ppd in one video I will go first

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktVhGWzvmV0

TooHornyToFap · 2022-07-10T00:17:03+00:00

fuck adeles music is so good

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-07-10T00:16:09+00:00

" Guys do not even respect women that they're not attracted to" is just female projection code for " this woman is treated like we treat the majority of guys" haha FOH

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-10T00:13:11+00:00

What are some travel destinations you don't see the appeal of? I don't see the appeal of Bangkok for me personally

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T00:04:52+00:00

Crazy/hot women are kind of addictive. It's a shame they will usually ruin your life in the long-term. But fuck me if they aren't fun. You can't really blame Johnny Depp, can you

xpinkrainbowsx · 2022-07-10T00:00:28+00:00

thinking about the time i got rejected after i sent this boy from one of my classes a meme that said “how do i say i wanna swallow your dick in a nice way?”

and they say women don’t approach men and don’t get rejected🤧 liessss

Orange_Paisley · 2022-07-09T23:57:18+00:00

Let’s say it’s 5 pm and you bought a bottle of wine at 2 and already finished it. Would you get a 2nd bottle on a Saturday night or figure you had your wine calories for the day? Asking for a friend. (Me! I’m your friend!)

shukra555 · 2022-07-09T23:46:55+00:00

TRP failed because it never took the next big step; Evol Psych -> psychoanalysis

Free game for y'all - play into a woman's desire to be a man

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-09T23:44:08+00:00

Q4w - Beards, yay or nay?

Siukslinis_acc · 2022-07-09T23:44:04+00:00

Day 85 of music sharing. Korpiklaani - Ennen

Patrickstarho · 2022-07-09T23:43:35+00:00

I once heard about a book written by this Chinese dude who allegedly got abducted by aliens and was brought to their home planet.

He says that on that planet everything is taken care of by AI. People have no motivation to do anything because everything has been done.

So what people do is just have sex and sell sex tapes. Because the only thing that matters is stimulation. Also it’s a good way to make money in a society where everyone has everything.

It made me wonder If that’s the route we are going. As technology advances so does sexual promiscuity right?

Also there are a lot of ufo cases where the aliens have sex with the human. The most notorious case is dubbed Angel hair because this dude got some head from an alien and his dick was covered in hair that didn’t exist on earth.

Makes you wonder

hardfine · 2022-07-09T23:43:16+00:00

Thoughts on this:

Men often conform to an ideal of masculinity that we don’t like because the consequences of non-conforming can be serious. A minority of men act as “enforcers” to punish and ostracize men who are seen as deviant. This is ironic, because the men who are labeled as “deviant” are probably the majority with the enforcers and exponents of “real” masculinity in the minority. Fear of being ostracized leads men to hide their discomfort in order to fit in with and be accepted by other men. The “enforcers” think that they speak for all men when in fact they do not.

The power and influence of the “enforcers” comes from this misunderstanding – technically called “false consensus” – that they are the majority when fact they are the minority. As long as these men and the silent majority of other men accept that the enforcers represent the kind of man that most men want to be, then they in turn will have the power to censor, ostracize, bully, and isolate men who are incorrectly perceived as not fitting in.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-09T23:40:39+00:00

The men women remember the most are likely not to be the best-looking ones. The same with the women men remember. There's something to chew on.

edgyny · 2022-07-09T23:39:07+00:00

I always forget how cute DC is. Almost makes me not hate the coasts. Time to go hit on some abortion protestors.

learn2earn89 · 2022-07-09T23:35:34+00:00

I always wonder, rejection obviously hurts for both men and women, however, let’s say you’re a man who has faced rejection from every woman you’ve asked out and suppose you find many women attractive (like many men post on here) On the other hand, let’s say you’re a woman that rarely finds any men attractive, but any of the guys you HAVE liked have never reciprocated? Do you think it’s equal pain?

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T17:00:26+00:00

The people you find on Reddit on the big normie subs are easily my least favorite group of people

GridReXX · 2022-07-10T16:55:41+00:00

i think a lot of men are lonely. i don't think they have more than superficial relationships with each other and are heavily dependent on the women in their lives, both platonic and romantic, for connection. i think they need to fix that for themselves.

A woman tweeted the above. Got 34K likes.

Shockingly, she didn’t get a lot of pushback from men, especially 27+ men. And especially men in their 30s. I think OP is in her 30s.

One guy wrote:

She ain’t wrong.

A guy in response to him wrote:

I personally love the company of women over men, mostly because they are the ones who laugh at my jokes and if you fall asleep, they WILL cover you with a blanket and make sure you’re comfortable. Dudes just don’t do that.

I know this sub skews younger and happily isolative, but for those who aren’t “happily anti-support network,” learn to build those bonds now.

It does not get easier and it seems it becomes even more isolating for men after 28ish it seems. Get ya bro gang gang up!

biggestuzifanea · 2022-07-10T14:25:26+00:00

I think heightphobic and sizephobic women are problematic

Willow-girl · 2022-07-10T14:54:00+00:00

I was in the middle of baking a cake when the man called me out to help him get a big square bale off the truck. The first bale is relatively easy, but the second has to go up a few inches to stack on top of it, and that takes some grunt work. He was prying up the bale and jamming chunks of 4x4s under it to raise it. After watching him cowboy it for a few mins, I asked, "Why don't you use the scissor jack to lift it?"

"Because you didn't think of that until just now."

(To his credit, he is one of the few men I've met who will listen to suggestions from a woman.)

The moral of the story is: A strong man will never find the easiest way to do a job. For that, you need to ask a lazy man or a weak woman, lol.

GrandBurdensomeCount · 2022-07-10T15:51:45+00:00

"Nah theres a reason women would be way more careful of who they slept with if there was a body count displayed on their head 24/7."

https://old.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/vu2w50/im_embarrassed_of_how_much_of_a_slut_i_became/ifblb31?context=8

Lmao, this dude generated so much seethe on normie reddit with that comment he was downvoted to -1000 for something that is pretty undeniably true...

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-10T18:25:55+00:00

Me: What do you do in your free time?

Her: I'm sleeping

Why are women on dating apps like this?

prettymuchredpilled · 2022-07-10T20:02:55+00:00

The gender pay gap isn't a real concern in the United States. Even high earning women have a strong preference for men who out earn them. Also, when you control for the same exact job and responsibilities the pay gap reduces to nearly zero. So now whenever I see someone complaining about the gender pay gap my brain automatically ignores the rest of what they have to say.

decoy88 · 2022-07-10T22:29:21+00:00

This subreddit is full of really dumb people that have negative critical thinking skills and laughing at them is no longer as fun.

decoy88 · 2022-07-10T13:00:29+00:00

“Women want a man that is better than her, so they want a man who is taller…”

What?

JustaGuyinFinance · 2022-07-10T17:16:13+00:00

I really admire people who create stuff. Novels, games, art, music, sculptures anything.

HighValueMoidxD · 2022-07-10T17:17:49+00:00

My mom is a very extroverted and chatty person whose social network is quite big.

Still, the only source of it are her high school friends, some women from when I was a baby and she was on parents' meetups, and coworkers. Never these stories of obscure hobbies or someone here who made friends from grocery shopping.

So I find it very hard to believe a guy from generation Z can "just go to bars" or "go for a walk in the park and talk to people" to make friends.

Desperate-Border-780 · 2022-07-10T21:45:23+00:00

Hot take: Overweight or obese people either have impulse control issues or some sort of eating disorder (usually binge eating) due to some trauma or weird attachment to food, they need CBT more than they need to be shamed online.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T13:40:22+00:00

You can't turn a ho into a housewife

Ylduts · 2022-07-10T14:05:48+00:00

Why is is that when women have options men need to rise to the occasion but when men have options they need to stop being misogynistic and focus on what’s on the inside. Men having options are more rare than women having options. Supply and demand, those men can do what they want. Get over it.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T14:06:15+00:00

Lol I love the Red Pill and everything, think it's reality but one thing I've seen preached by RP guys that I'm glad a lot of BP women reject is the notion that guys don't give a shit what you do for work.

The only women I've ever seriously considered for LTRs were in Med School or Law School.

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-10T14:39:43+00:00

The post might be sus, who knows but the idea is interesting.

It looks to me as if a man can either love or be loved. And the truth is we need both. But if I really have to choose, I choose to love. Loving someone is a beautiful thing, and being loved without loving back is useless.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/vvqmpe/i_cant_swallow_the_red_pill/

Most of the advice is fine....

stop social media or cut down, on escapism or consumerism of tv shows, porn etc.

Sure be more productive, lift, get rich, sucessful.

But to stop feeling? That is something I think TRP gets wrong, it is a misunderstanding of stoicism. It never ends well and just creates emotionally immature men

You're still very blue pill as you're focusing on your feelings. Feelings are beta. Feelings don't help anything but get you used and abused financially.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/vvqmpe/comment/iflafgd/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3

figuringMylife · 2022-07-10T15:27:54+00:00

i wish we could all come to the consensus that everyone can have whatever standards they want so we can stop having dumb standards posts about chad, fat ppl, high n count, etc etc.

you deserve to have whatever standards you want. plate whoever you want. don’t get married, no one cares.

figuringMylife · 2022-07-10T15:45:07+00:00

i know y’all got high ass standards for getting pussy and y’all are in y’all heads about dumb shit because there are short fat ugly HOBOSEXUAL men out here, just existing. knocking up multiple women, couch surfing, not doing any work NOR domestic work. just love bombing women with a little bare minimum romance then moving in with them.

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T20:13:11+00:00

lol some redditor was talking about how a 14 body count is absurdly low just admit you’re a cuck bro

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2022-07-10T20:20:40+00:00

Do you think people often trade up for hotter partners IF they still do feel physical attraction to their current partner?

A lot of folks here (me included) describe attraction as more as a binary thing than a sliding 1-10 scale. Hot or not

If a girl im seeing is genuinely sexy to me. And not in a she’s homely but if I strain for it she’s kinda cute but actually attractive then I can say, sincerely, that hotter/prettier girls don’t have much pull on me. Once the attraction threshold is crossed I don’t think “oh man I bet I would cum so much harder with a 9 over my 7.5 gf”

Call me a blue pill but I do believe most women about this too. That if the physical attraction is still strong with their current partner they aren’t just one 6’5 gym body gigachad away from leaving their boyfriend.

figuringMylife · 2022-07-09T23:24:41+00:00

Why even bother? Do humans have like a physiological need to be in relationships or should I just give up if every romantic relationship I've had has been miserable?

AquaChip · 2022-07-10T21:15:18+00:00

Which one of you wrote this.

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T21:26:00+00:00

God, I’m so lonely

HoholHoleHunter · 2022-07-10T23:03:47+00:00

Do women who date men who already have kids just get zero pushback whatsoever from their female friends?

That's just what I see and it's so different on the other side. It was an intervention style meeting with my very successful male friend who fucked a coworker with kids, reminding him not to "catch feelings" quite forcefully, our married friend saying "I won't let you do that man". Repeatedly telling him he's better than settling for that. I've had to personally just myself intervene with less successful male friends to lay down the line "I don't care how lonely you are we are in our early 20s, you make almost over 6 figures, and you're better than being a stepdad."

Do women never face this pushback at all? My cousin despite being very pretty and kind married a guy with 2 kids and all I ever heard was my (not her mother) aunt say some shit like "God bless her heart" very snotty like. What's the deal?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T13:05:55+00:00

I can see why purge ain't coming back

ayowai2 · 2022-07-10T13:48:47+00:00

“Charisma is the numinous aura around a narcissistic personality. It flows outward from a simplicity or unity of being and a composure and controlled vitality. There is gracious accommodation, yet commanding impersonality. Charisma is the radiance produced by the interaction of male and female elements in a gifted personality. The charismatic woman has a masculine force and severity. The charismatic man has an entrancing female beauty. Both are hot and cold, glowing with presexual self love.”

Paglia

Redpilled af and feminist who actually empowers women, if you're a woman here looking to open your mind to contrarian redpill type ideas go look into her works. Don't need to hear it from men.

ayowai2 · 2022-07-10T14:56:03+00:00

I hate how casual sex is basically off-limits to anyone who has no interest in drugs or alcohol. I can be horny and not want to scramble my brain.

EulenWatcher · 2022-07-10T18:17:28+00:00

Past research suggests that women and men alike perceive feminism and romance to be in conflict (Rudman and Fairchild, Psychol Women Q, 31:125–136, 2007). A survey of US undergraduates (N = 242) and an online survey of older US adults (N = 289) examined the accuracy of this perception. Using self-reported feminism and perceived partners’ feminism as predictors of relationship health, results revealed that having a feminist partner was linked to healthier relationships for women. Additionally, men with feminist partners reported greater relationship stability and sexual satisfaction in the online survey. Finally, there was no support for negative feminist stereotypes (i.e., that feminists are single, lesbians, or unattractive). In concert, the findings reveal that beliefs regarding the incompatibility of feminism and romance are inaccurate.

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225145092\_The\_Interpersonal\_Power\_of\_Feminism\_Is\_Feminism\_Good\_for\_Romantic\_Relationships

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T21:21:02+00:00

What do you think about older women like this.

/r/AskWomenOver30/comments/vtxdri/comment/ifa7h7c/

They notice that the men that they want go for younger women. While at the same time call these same men trash.

-angels-fan- · 2022-07-10T23:27:20+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/vvx0ag/i_think_i_scared_the_crap_out_of_this_creep_at_a/

Creepy guy keeps asking "where's your boyfriend?"

She finally answers: in the trunk of my car

She really is so proud of her witty answer! That sure scared him away!

Jesus that sub gets more cringy every day

ashpr0ulx · 2022-07-10T12:39:55+00:00

sundays are for baking and cleaning and that’s why they’re my favorite

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-07-10T14:24:03+00:00

"TRP has become xxx arghhh!!!!!"

No, TRP hasn't changed, or become anything different to what it was about.

To become red pilled, all you need is the sidebar. That hasn't changed, and neither has the essence of TRP.

It has become stagnant. New posts are rewordings of older ideas. But that's it.

A community claiming to turn men alpha inevitably attracts betas who then tell other betas there's shortcuts to it.

But the requirement to be Red Pilled hasn't changed; read. the. sidebar.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2022-07-10T16:30:35+00:00

I can't take you seriously if you have a problem with Jada Smith for "cheating" on Will (it was an open marriage) when you couldn't care less about the fact that basically every man in Hollywood cheats on their partner.

Tramelo · 2022-07-10T17:16:20+00:00

Is dating and relationship a secondary step to being able to have conversations with people and make friends?

1Here4Bach · 2022-07-10T18:20:11+00:00

Taylor swift, Selena Gomez and Ariana grande have all had obsessed male fans break into their homes and threaten to kill them in the last month. What is the logic behind killing someone you’re obsessed with? Male logic.

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-10T19:29:15+00:00

Q4W would you date a man who's not as intelligent as you? Not a stupid guy, just someone you're at least a little bit smarter than, you know for sure.

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T22:17:01+00:00

Am I being too harsh not dating women from single parent homes?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T22:37:41+00:00

This subreddit is full of really dumb people that have negative critical thinking skills and laughing at them is no longer as fun.

Comments like these really prove to me this is the best place to debate on reddit since everyone here feels like this about the sub

-angels-fan- · 2022-07-10T22:46:16+00:00

Who would win in a bar fight between a suspicious aardvark and a purplish possum?

TastyCucurbits · 2022-07-09T23:00:43+00:00

First, maybe?

cmchunk · 2022-07-09T23:15:26+00:00

Hot girls that want to be fucking are definitely fucking, and in greater numbers too!

throwaway838288382 · 2022-07-09T23:21:52+00:00

Inb4 ‘men don’t care what you do for a living’

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/vvb4sf/my_date_abruptly_got_up_and_left_after_i_told_him/

biggestuzifanea · 2022-07-09T23:33:35+00:00

new male birth control just dropped

zoloftabuser · 2022-07-10T13:17:23+00:00

This is so creepy!

2022-07-10T13:36:13+00:00

You can now view TRP without an account. Interesting as everyone talks about how social media giants are restricting free speech, seems like an unusual policy change here that goes against their agenda. Or knowing Reddit it's just a bug.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-10T17:38:04+00:00

Does love really exist or is it just a figment of our own imagination?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-07-10T18:49:25+00:00

What is the difference between messages and chat?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-07-10T20:10:38+00:00

I’ve become jaded and kinda sick of OLD. Not because I don’t get any matches, but a lot of the girls aren’t willing to have interesting conversation and expect me to entertain them.

Also I feel like most are just looking for hookups/casual and I’ve personally had more than my fair share of that. I’m sick of it all. Is romance dead?

smallstarseeker · 2022-07-10T20:22:26+00:00

Is there a single animal in existence that is as picky as humans?

Those birds show their colors and shit, female checks out a couple of guys and is like "you there, the guy with yellow shit on wings. Wanna smash?".

And humans are like " I need atleast a decade to find the right one, maybe two".

cruciod · 2022-07-10T20:49:57+00:00

Q4A

What is the "trashiest" archetype you live up to?

Mine is previous religious kid with overbearing parents who goes wild in college/uni :D

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T21:21:50+00:00

Feels weird to be turning 30 soon while everybody around you is getting married and dropping kids while you're not even close to that and at least 5 years away from that. One does begin to wonder if one is over the hill

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-10T22:33:30+00:00

BPD life at its finest- Wanting to say "Been there, done that" to others, but since you never did, you try to find a way to experience so you can say such. Then get upset because you're judged for doing such event when others weren't because of how long ago it had been done by them.

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smallstarseeker · 2022-07-10T12:35:41+00:00

Americans tend to date multiple people at the same time, until they decide to date exclusively. The bad side of this approach is that when people have more options they tend to become too picky.

But I'm also seeing some significant benefits of this approach.

In my culture getting to date nr2 means dating exclusively.

If I date a woman for a month and it doesn't work out. It means that I had lost one month worth of meeting and dating other women... and I'm the one who has to play the numbers game.

Being ghosted is super shitty because unless blocked one needs time to figure out he had been blocked... lost time.

If woman want's to play the looooong game, well it doesn't matter as much if I am dating multiple people at the same time.

Also if one of the dates is putting out I'm pretty much immune to the whole "inflate the price of the pussy" game.

So I think that for a guy US system is superior. I'm going to start dating multiple people at the same time.

AquaChip · 2022-07-10T12:43:35+00:00

One of my all time favorite things is listening to historical genre podcasts but when someone comes up to me and asks what I’m listening to and I say the rise and fall of the Queen Njinga of the Ndongo and Matabama empire they look at me like me crazy. 🥲

-passepar2t- · 2022-07-10T12:47:36+00:00

Does doing physically dangerous work or side activities naturally make many people think you're more manly/alpha?

Ylduts · 2022-07-10T12:59:58+00:00

18 and life to go……

Mark_Freed · 2022-07-10T15:06:33+00:00

Pain and suffering are the best teachers I know. Unforgettable lessons.

dbz19_kai · 2022-07-10T15:18:07+00:00

Which is worse: being a flat chested woman or a man with a small penis?

-angels-fan- · 2022-07-10T16:11:12+00:00

Is there a subway in Seattle?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-10T18:49:07+00:00

Q4W- Would you date a man who was significantly better looking than yourself? (As in he knows he's better looking and you know as well, it's very clear and not up for contention)

Why or why not?

Desperate-Border-780 · 2022-07-10T19:42:58+00:00

Is it possible to do an internship that requires 70 hours a week, do university coursework for my modules (40 credits ) and go to the gym at least 5 days a week? Or am I being too ambitious?

tired_hillbilly · 2022-07-10T20:12:24+00:00

“I would rather sell my fucking toenails or my used underwear or do anything else in the fucking world to make money other than sit at a fucking corporate job ever again in my entire fucking life.”

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T20:38:53+00:00

DBZ Krillin is a 10/10 why they make him so weird looking in Super smh

Also I’m watching DBZ in Japanese for the first time and it’s more enjoyable so YYH remains the only battle anime I’ve watched with a better dub than sub

TigerRude4 · 2022-07-10T21:19:18+00:00

Maybe the virgin woman on Reddit would let us gangbang her 12 on 1? This isn't a thread where I'm looking for woman who'd do this, but if there is some woman who does want this, let me know. That's the best way for me and my friends to lose our virginities, what do you guys think?

SantarpiosPizza · 2022-07-10T21:48:17+00:00

Five days out from COVID-19 and I feel fine. After the first couple of days, you won't feel too bad. It's just a bad cold. (for me personally)

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T22:36:04+00:00

Being attractive is overrated CMV

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-07-10T23:21:13+00:00

relapsed on all the drugs I wasn't supposed to do and feeling pretty good right now

meteorness123 · 2022-07-10T23:39:04+00:00

I don't consider to be men who bang tons of chick "successful with women". I consider men who are able to lead a long-term relationship and have a girl loyal to them succesful. If you consider the former success, you're still emotionally stunted. And contrary to what people say here, the former isn' t usually able to lead a relationship

smallstarseeker · 2022-07-10T16:17:48+00:00

Q4M - Woman doesn't want sex/relationship, want's to be friends.

How do you get away from this situation, smoothly?

Spinning4plates · 2022-07-10T16:43:42+00:00

I can't take you seriously if you like men with big arms but can't do 20 pull ups

Yukbghhjj · 2022-07-10T21:56:20+00:00

I could never date a bald women we gonna get made fun of for being the bald couple. This line of thinking probably why lots of fat people don’t wanna date fat people as well

Specialist-Action-33 · 2022-07-10T12:44:52+00:00

FWIW, guys who are around 27 or younger and don't want to be seen as "husband material" to women who want you after they hooked up and got tired of it one way or another, here is my advice:

Don't try to act more mature than your age. If you're 20, then act like a 20 year old. Don't try to dress mature and professional, especially if you're doing the OLD thing. There, its a high possibility you will get single moms, or women who quit drinking because they claim "its no longer needed to have fun, etc, etc..." You should try to give off the vibe that you are slighty irresponsible. Avoid being too chivalrous (show only a minimum) but don't be a jerk. And if you're introverted, try your best to be extroverted if you can. Being introverted is sort of the death kneel to being considered hookup material. Try not to put too much emphasis on being too attractive, because even quite a few ugly guys can be hookup material. If you can though, try to look older body wise (facial hair, chest hair, etc). If a girl says something along the lines of "you'll have a lot of girls after you later on in life when you're older" block her asap, because she will more than likely see you as the guy who she believes she can run to later on if her options are not as much as currently.

Tbf, there are women who don't hookup with men and only desire an LTR early on, or make a hookup manifest into an LTR. If these women are not already in some sort of a relationship then, those are the ideal types you guys should try to be with.

Source: A guy who was always considered "husband material" in his early 20's, involuntarily resulting in very little hookups due to everything mentioned above.

decoy88 · 2022-07-10T13:42:15+00:00

What is something 98% of all male redditors need to hear?

lulll · 2022-07-10T22:38:16+00:00

you, yes you. put your bra on youre indecent

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