Daily Community Chat Megathread

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2022-12-07T00:02:57+00:00

The revelation that many women are just as degenerate and weird as me has been very helpful.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-12-07T12:24:45+00:00

On the supposed idea that TRP is becoming mainstream...

Why are a lot of RedPillers happy about it?

If you truly believe that TRP is super helpful in attracting women, why would you celebrate the notion that an increasing number of men are discovering these same tactics? Wouldn't that just increase competition?

Like our boy Syndrome said, "If everyone's super...no one will be".

Caetraaa · 2022-12-07T00:11:26+00:00

Today I asked someone out and got rejected, but I'm not that sad about it, I had a nice day overall, I got a good walk in and I got some shopping done.

So far 0% of the people I've asked out have said yes but I'm hopeful I'll eventually find someone right for me.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-12-07T15:10:24+00:00

Never, EVER, date anyone with BPD.

Look at the symptoms, it's literally just a laundry list of things that make a terrible partner.

Don't do what I did. They're the absolute worst.

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T15:52:37+00:00

Dating is really horrible. I like being single, I like being in a relationship, but i fucking hate the middle bit. I'd like to just find someone with whom I can build a partnership and have kids but I am just thick as shit at socialising tbh.

Not looking for sympathy cus I got a lot going on but just wanted a vent.

italian_whip · 2022-12-08T00:17:44+00:00

My fear of intimacy is going to leave me a virgin for life. I’ve had plenty of opportunities to make “a move” on women who were obviously into me yet I can’t. I’m 21 never dated anyone. I’m not sure what it is, but I have some road block in my head when it comes to touching people in an intimate way even while blackout drunk I can’t do it. Idk been thinking about going to therapy but not sure yet

social_mule · 2022-12-08T00:01:16+00:00

So, I got Tinder Gold about a month ago, set my location to Panamá City and commenced to swiping right on everything. Now I've got slightly less than 100 matches. Granted some of them are fatties and trannies which I'll have to unmatch.

I'll be arriving in Panamá in less than 72 hours and lord willing I'll be balls deep in some age-appropriate Panamanian pussy in less than 100 hours.

FancyComfortable4678 · 2022-12-07T15:59:23+00:00

The "women complaining about men not doing their fair share of housework" is frustrating because I'm probably cleaner than 90% of the women here but that doesn't help you get into the relationship in the first place

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-07T00:34:51+00:00

Cucks can't have a good point/take about dating because they've already lost the game: CMV

Lysa_Bell · 2022-12-07T02:12:41+00:00

Lol. So gay couples always had to Google if they could go on holiday together to certain places because they might end up in jail or dead depending on the laws of the country they are going to. In the last years a lot of countries made progress on these laws that gay couples are more welcome as tourists. But now it looks like some places going hardcore in the other direction. Where for instance straight couples could end up in jail in Indonesia if they have sex or cohabiting outside of marriage.

Beautiful how the world becomes more extreme from day to day. I wonder when we see these laws implemented in the US. Just makes sense after the abortion thing.

I bet a couple of members of this subreddit would be delighted if people would get punished for having sex outside of marriage. Good news for you guys! Just move to Indonesia.

Brief_Crab_3710 · 2022-12-07T03:41:55+00:00

One RP concept that I've come to really appreciate and has helped me lately is stoicism

More men need to internalize that actually getting a woman unless you're genetically blessed is one of the hardest things in this world

Like seriously getting into an Ivy League school, medical school, speaking five languages, learning an instrument, getting As in upper division science classes at said Ivy League school, climbing one of three highest peaks in the Alps and a bunch of other shit I've done assumed to be "hard" is far easier than actually getting a woman to be attracted to me

Attraction takes two people--assuming you have reasonably maximized what you can (dress well, smell nice, groom yourself, be reasonably fit, financially well off, have some interesting experiences/hobbies, approaching women, etc) blaming yourself and having that as a weight hanging on your self esteem because some landwhale online called you a shut in loser for being a kissless dateless virgin (I am) is stupid--it may still be out of your control and that doesn't make it anyone's fault

I've seen/done/accomplished more in my 22 years of life than most Americans could in two or three lifetimes--admittedly largely due to being born to a rich family that can afford to finance traveling the world, expensive cars, adventure sports, my entire education, etc and always pushed academic focus--but still. The idea that I should let anyone besides my parents (whose commentary can be brutal) gaslight me into thinking I or any man in my position is a loser for not being able to get a date is laughable on the face of it

Sometimes you do what you can and it's still not enough because you are only 50% of the equation

That's the kind of positivity RP should gear itself towards--obviously not everyone's affirmations will be the same. Now if you ARE actually a loser (which I do not believe the majority or even close to the majority of sexless men are based on my admittedly skewed experiences) who is broke, a shut in, etc--yeah be honest about that and fix it. Both pills should agree with that

Willow-girl · 2022-12-07T05:37:15+00:00

Does anyone else make up stories in their head to amuse themselves when they're doing a boring job? I've been doing it since I was a kid ... I've probably written seven or eight novels by now, all on air as I never have time to actually put them on paper. But they make really dull jobs bearable!

I read a thread here this morning talking about Octavia Butler, a science fiction writer that my sister-in-law mentioned previously. I've never read any of her books and it occurred to me I've never made up a science-fiction story of my own, either, so I decided to embark on one tonight while working. Here's what I came up with so far:

The tale is set on an uninhabited planet colonized by Earth ~200 years ago (long enough that no one alive now has ever been to Earth). It was settled as a slave colony intended to mine and refine a rare mineral, colloquially called Salt, that is found nowhere else but has become vital to some technology on Earth. The colonists in turn are dependent on receiving in exchange some rare earth minerals that power their technology, including their all-important Shield (more on that in a minute.)

The inhabitants of the Colony don't realize they're slaves, of course; from their perspective, they're just going about their lives. They live and work in an establishment called the City which is surrounded by an impenetrable forcefield called the Shield which they view as protecting them from some amorphous danger, although in reality is it more of a cage. All of the land within the City is held in common, although the people live in family groups and are allowed to own personal property. All enterprises are overseen by an elderly Leader and his executive council, who control everything. There is no formal religion, although the Leader is viewed by many as an omnipotent, almost godlike, figure. Generally a wise and benign presence, he has earned the trust of the people, although behind-the-scenes he has grown senile and the City is actually being run by one of his more nefarious underlings.

The people of the City have been socialized to be industrious, virtuous and compliant. They are educated to maturity, whereupon they undergo Assignment, either to higher education or manual labor, depending on their abilities and social status. Below the ranks of the Leader and his Council is a managerial class comprised of educated and/or well-connected people, then skilled workers, then ordinary laborers, who generally have grueling jobs mining or refining Salt and lead short and brutal lives. The society is pro-natalist (because the more slaves, the better, right?) and women who marry and have children (which most do ASAP) are excused from labor in the mines. A few bright women aim for managerial or professional roles but the majority are content to become wives and mothers, trying to marry as best they can in order to have comfortable lives.

People are compensated according to their rank, with higher-ranking individuals living in nicer accomodations and being granted more spending money. The currency is digital and exchanged by means of an implanted scanned chip. There is also a social credit system that rewards people who behave virtuously and punishes those who are 'disgraced.' The implanted chip also tracks movement; there are checkpoints that 'disgraced' people may not pass through to access pleasurable activities like shopping and dining. The society is in essence a police state; people live under surveillance; they're encouraged to report on associates who are not in compliance with the rules. The ultimate punishment, beyond 'disgracement,' is exile outside of the Shield. It is not regarded as a death sentence -- the planet evidently is compatible with human life -- but no one knows exactly what goes on outside of the Shield. No one has ever returned to tell the tale. A person who has been Exiled is lost to his family forever (at least so far, lol).

Life in the Colony centers around periodic visits from Earthans, which take place every seven years, based upon the amount of time it takes to travel between the planets. The arriving diplomats from Earth meet with the Leader and Council and negotiate the terms of the next exchange of the vital Salt and rare earth minerals. The delegation also includes academics, artists, actors and athletes who stage exhibits, performances and a contest akin to the Olympic games. The Festival goes on for a fortnite, with Earthans and Colonists both exhibiting the best of their arts and technology and marveling at the other's achievements. Most work (except that of hosting the Festival) is suspended and even the lower-class miners enjoy a Bacchanalian holiday.

There are signs of trouble, though; at the last Festival, several of the presentations and performances of the Earthans were dark and nihilistic, and the delegation's star athlete is rumored to have committed suicide on the eve of his return to his home planet. Officials attempted to cover up the scandal as best they could and talk of it was quickly suppressed. However, the time for the next Festival has passed without the expected arrival of the Earthans. The people have been told there were technical difficulties with the spacecraft that will soon be resolved, but there are rumors and murmurings. The laborers especially are sore at having missed their accustomed Festival. Also, behind the scenes, the technology made possible by the supplies of Earth minerals -- including the Shield -- are in danger of failure, although this, too, has been hushed up under threat of Disgracement.

Our story centers on a widowed mother and her two teenaged children (and perhaps some younger children, if they turn out to be necessary to the plot, lol). There is an old scandal in the family -- its husband/father was once a promising young academic but was part of a dissendent group that was exposed by the authorities. The ringleaders were Exiled, but the husband/father, being on the fringes, was only stripped of his high position and sentenced to work in the mines, where he died early due to a black lung-type disease common to miners.

His widow was not part of the dissident group but isn't exactly a true believer, either; her main concern in life is her children -- winning back enough social standing to ensure that her son can go to University and her daughter will make a good marriage. The son, like his father, is quite brilliant and is indeed accepted to University, the same institution where his father was a young professor decades earlier. Because his father died while he was young and had never had a chance to explain the circumstances of his Disgrace, the son is obsessed with finding out what happened to him, and tries to connect with older professors -- anyone who might have known and remembers his father -- to find out.

He discovers that his father was part of a group of Colony academics devoted to studying life on Earth, and what they learned was that the home planet was due to undergo a cataclysmic event that would end life-as-we-know-it for both societies. Both the Earthan and Colony governments were determined to suppress this awareness as it would, of course, lead to panic and perhaps the overthrow of the rulers of both planets, who hoped to enjoy their comfortable station in life for as long as possible.

The son makes contact with a dissident group still in existence that believes Earth has already (self?-) destructed. It wants to see an end to the Colony's current order, which is based on the mining of Salt and exploitation of the miners. The authorities discover the son's line of inquiry and he is apprehended and Exiled before he has a chance to share his newfound knowledge with his mother and sister.

As the story opens, the mother has redoubled her efforts to get her family out of its state of 'disgrace' in the wake of her son's Exile. The sister, a bright and resourceful girl of about 17, wants to go to University, both to escape the fate of marriage or working in the Salt mines, and in hopes of finding out what really happened to both her father and brother. Due to her mother's insistence on earning social credits, she has signed on to tutor a fellow student, a young man who is actually a dissident and is faking being dumb so that he will be assigned to the Salt mines, in hopes of spreading the word about Earth's demise and organizing an uprising among the miners. (He will serve as the girl's love interest.)

OK, that's as far as I got in my 8-hour shift mopping floors and cleaning toilets! I'm looking forward to coming up with whatever happens in the next installment.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-12-07T07:24:19+00:00

Imagine being Rose’s from Titantic’s husband. Like you live your entire lifetime together only for her to ditch you in the afterlife for some dude she knew for less than a week when she was 17…

DeepFriedhentaiMemes · 2022-12-07T11:23:13+00:00

As a general reminder magic the gathering meet ups are an awful place to try to pick girls up. They are there for war and destruction only

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2022-12-07T00:01:56+00:00

First!

Pitiful_Maiden · 2022-12-07T00:04:12+00:00

First!

thetruthishere_ · 2022-12-07T00:48:01+00:00

What are your thoughts on people that dont use much social media or any?

People think Im weird because I dont have a Fakebook, Snap, etc.

I think they are weird for thinking I am for not wanting to bother with it.

If they cant stalk your social media it means youre weird... LOL

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-07T00:57:41+00:00

todays challenge resulted in a fail. I did not get a girls number within one ski lift ride

I changed the strategy to asking if they want to do runs together and got two numbers that way though.

Snowboarding is the best place to meet women.

Mark_Freed · 2022-12-07T15:40:40+00:00

I never understood why people would subject themselves to roasting...

But now I'm so happy I kinda get it

I don't think anyone could hurt me right now 😂😂

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T15:44:37+00:00

What did I miss

baresquad · 2022-12-07T16:27:38+00:00

How do we feel about Indonesia criminalizing premarital sex?

Personally, I think it’s invasive and lame as hell.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-12-07T16:50:01+00:00

Netflix must be trying to hit their Q4 goal because it seems like Netflix only gets good content at the end of the year. So many good movies and shows on Netflix in the past few weeks.

zombiefiedgastonist · 2022-12-08T00:01:14+00:00

Ariel Helwani and Paddy Pimblett drama takes me back to high school lmao

people who say men are not gossipy and interested in drama are fucking delusional, and have clearly never spent any time in a male centric

the key difference would probably be that men are simply more confrontational, rather then behind back badmouthing they would rather say that shit to your face

Pitiful_Maiden · 2022-12-07T00:41:39+00:00

Tfw when you want to revisit a hot take from this subreddit but the user has been banned and you fear the mods may ban you.

saraimarsena · 2022-12-07T01:15:52+00:00

what’s based mean

DrinkItInMan11 · 2022-12-07T02:40:55+00:00

You can instantly tell someone's argument is going to be invalid when they start it with "I feel like"

Has me going 🤦🤦🤦

IWantTo____You · 2022-12-07T03:08:23+00:00

Q4Men: How often do you tend to take risks in every day life and how high is your risk tolerance?

e.g.: Maybe you enjoy betting at casinos every weekend, but you're not willing to put in more than what you can afford to lose. Or the opposite - it's not often you try something risky, but when you do, it's skydiving with your dog while doing cocaine off of your fellow skydiving stripper's boobs. Or something in between all those extremes.

CimZim · 2022-12-07T03:13:30+00:00

For the straight/bi women here who say that they don't typically enjoy sex with men, what actually happens when you tell him he's not doing it for ya? Like, does he just keep doing the wrong thing?

empresa_josefina · 2022-12-07T03:36:08+00:00

I got blitzed over the weekend for the USA World Cup game and had blackout sex with a lady I met at the bar. I have no recollection of meeting her and we exchanged names and personal details in the morning. Tried to have sex but I was too hung over to get erect. We cuddled and had a nice chat about music, interior decor, what books we were reading. I nursed her hangover as best as I could and she went home. I had a lovely time.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-07T03:36:34+00:00

How ugly does a woman have to be to truly struggle with dating? What bottom % of all women does her face have to be?

No woman will have problems with getting casual sex, so struggling is defined by not being able to get a relationship with a decent man.

Almost every woman can put in the minimal effort to be not fat and do their hair and makeup decently and get a decent man.

Mark_Freed · 2022-12-07T11:21:29+00:00

I swear you know that TRP is spreading when your boomer dad send you a Pearl Davis video lmao... I can't even.

Pizzashillsmom · 2022-12-07T11:37:20+00:00

Been watching the runescape documentary and I’m not sure there is a single attractive person in that video… None of the mods, none the founders, not the founder’s parents, not the couple that met in game, none of the players and none of the content creators.

Mark_Freed · 2022-12-07T12:52:19+00:00

What happened to that dude posting songs daily?

https://youtu.be/hBwSGjXCeFY?t=118 a song suggestion from me lmao

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-07T14:04:59+00:00

I had a dream last night that my parents committed me to a mental asylum, and every time I woke up from heavy sedation, physically restrained, and started asking increasingly urgent questions about what happened and why I was there, the nurse would say that I was out of control and sedate me again.

Eventually I escaped the asylum by pretending to be… well, the best I can describe it rn is like SpongeBob in that episode where he becomes “normal.” Basically pretending to be docile, pleasant, and subdued. Then I realized that my mental illness allowed me to have certain skills provided I did some things differently, and in the second half of the dream I basically had super powers and went around teaching others with the same condition how to capitalize on it.

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T14:28:44+00:00

Having trouble getting laid? Having trouble getting commitment? Go for the dumpster and find one you can tolerate. Treat it like you would an actual high value object.

LillthOfBabylon · 2022-12-07T14:52:12+00:00

I don't bother really trying to convince guys here that most women don't like hookups anymore, because it's obvious most guys in PPD know. Otherwise, a lot of guys wouldn't try to lie their way into a women’s panties if they thought hookups were that readily available.

Ohmaygahh · 2022-12-07T15:42:07+00:00

Matched with a woman I have previously matched with about 4 times before over the span of 12 years.

It's been interesting seeing her profile evolve, and this woman is so stupid, or suffers from amnesia or something, it's like 50 first dates talking txting with her. She doesn't remember we have chatted at all.

3 of the past 4 times she goes straight to "what are you looking for? " instead of asking me personal questions like " what made you move to the midwest " or "whats your favorite color/ice cream? "

I don't get women like her. Professional (she's a nurse) but immediately cares to ask that question over even seeing if there's any compatibility... what's funny is even if I were interested in something long term, her asking that straight away is a red flag for me to never commit to her.

Especially after my counter question after having answered her was " do you always date with that intention in mind? " . Her answer is no, she's had casual inbetween the time of her last no to me that "she doesn't do casual".

Girl, hate to break it to you... yes, you do casual. You asking for my commitment philosophy just sucks the joy and fun of interacting with you and turns it into a negotiation... and that's not fun at all.

Do women who ask this right off the bat seriously think being that abrasive in your intention is going to make me want to drop all my FwBs/options ?

These women need to get a grip.

Mark_Freed · 2022-12-07T16:40:47+00:00

Ahhhhh I love this girl soooooo much. I am actually ok with being friendzoned by her. 😂😂

I'm down bad guys.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-07T23:57:35+00:00

I actually agree with this

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/zf6p2x/is_having_mental_illness_or_being_neurodivergent/

Mythic-punk · 2022-12-07T23:56:19+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Clm21YvrItB/?igshid=MTg0ZDhmNDA=

flash13131313 · 2022-12-07T23:50:39+00:00

Matt Araiza 👀

Mythic-punk · 2022-12-07T23:50:13+00:00

How I'm feeling rn

I keep telling myself "I can make up for it on the final" 😭😭😭

No-Direction5209 · 2022-12-07T23:43:32+00:00

Funny how every suggestion for solving the problem with modern dating that requires women to compromise is automatically rejected out of hand.

CigarettesandAsh · 2022-12-07T23:43:24+00:00

I have to admit, I never actually tag someone's username in a comment because I know I'll screw it up and the user angles-fan will be summoned here, look around and say this pit is a cesspit and we should be ashamed of ourselves. And angles-fan would be 100% right. I can't live with that kind of brutal truth.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-07T23:36:39+00:00

It's kind of funny to me how many self proclaimed feminists will still start a lot of sentences with "a real man does..."

BN5130 · 2022-12-07T23:13:22+00:00

I am watching this Norwegian movie called “The Worst Person in the World", probably the most red pilling movie I’ve ever watched and it is completely inadvertent.

lulll · 2022-12-07T23:03:02+00:00

we need a term for these types of try hards

struggle simp? also he should replace twitter with real life

Heard_ya_were_WINNIN · 2022-12-07T23:01:09+00:00

https://twitter.com/servedfrosty/status/1600521410492997635?s=46&t=KKy0V7uph-cHPwjCRAEpvg

Lmao dropped the hammer

Philosoferking · 2022-12-07T22:52:48+00:00

I keep saying that men are still confused about what women want and I get downvoted.

So I want to know, what do men want in women, what do women want in men, and how are they different and why?

What is so obvious about what women want, that apparently everyone here sees so clearly? What is the point of this sub and the red pill, if men aren't constantly confused and searching for the answer to "what do women want?"

Everyone here knows and yet all I seem to see is confusion. If I point out the confusion suddenly I'm wrong and way off. I don't get it.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-07T22:52:03+00:00

If a company was smart, they'd use the idiocy of reddit to destroy all of their competition.

All it takes is one scripted video where someone does something bad to someone else and title it "Joe's Bowling alley owner pours cold water on homeless woman".

Bam! Joe's Bowling alley is now cancelled and possibly set ablaze by the moron reddit users that take every fucking post as gospel truth with zero due diligence. Repeat 3-4 times and you're the only bowling alley in town!

No-Direction5209 · 2022-12-07T22:33:19+00:00

I think if someone goes to therapy, and trouble dating is one of their issues, a lot of the time the therapist secretly is just trying to get the person to accept that they're a lost cause, and that's the therapist's judgement. Of course, no therapist would say that, since there's no need to go out of their way to make the client feel bad. And if the client ends up getting lucky, then that's fine.

However, the therapist is really working for everyone else, not the client: the therapist is secretly, really, working to protect everyone else from the client's unsuccessful advanced. They want the client to accept their failure in the dating market. That's a much cheaper solution for the therapist, and society, than actually doing something to help the client get what the client wants.

JiifuhTV · 2022-12-07T22:32:17+00:00

people are wylin these days smh

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2022-12-07T22:12:53+00:00

So no one was gonna tell me you can just talk to women in public and be chill and it's not gonna come off as creepy if you do it right. Damn.

Libah05 · 2022-12-07T22:02:58+00:00

I am this 🤏 close to doing steroids. It would make working out so much easier

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-07T22:00:49+00:00

I think movies and videogames have ruined so many sports for me.

Watching world class gymnasts and skiers do tricks and spins and jumps while the announcers remark how amazingly difficult these things are...

And I'm like eh, looks mediocre lol.

meteorness123 · 2022-12-07T21:43:04+00:00

Q4the bros : if you could : would you get yourself a harem ? Lets say, youre attractive, famous and powerful all together.

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-07T21:27:12+00:00

Women: Make a 40 minute video about how a 18 bf made fun of her labia

Also women: will go on to make 50 dick size jokes later on the same day

SKY_ACTIV3 · 2022-12-07T21:23:16+00:00

I am living for this “AI art is theft/not real art” debate

People finally realizing that human brain isn’t actually all that “magical” or “special” after all and we largely just respond to stimuli 🤣

The singularity is one tiny step closer, get hyped

nandor_the_relenting · 2022-12-07T21:08:30+00:00

I wonder how many single men are like me and go to work alone and eat lunch alone and go home alone and go to the gym alone and go to bed alone and I think my body has become the materialization of screaming and the pillow doesn't quite make for good cuddling but it's all I got and I guess I gave too much of myself to the women who gave me a chance but weren't particularly bothered about our breakups because why would they, they receive attention on tap from the world, why would they have poor self-esteem when the world has welcomed them so loudly but what did they do to deserve so much attention I am so lonely and they aren't any more special than I am in fact I was better at listening than either of them and if I had been born a woman and done all of the same things I would have received so much attention but how can I fix anything now I moved around when I was young and don't have any roots there's no community for me it feels like everyone else has roots and older friends and why would we become friends they have enough and I must be worthless if people have rejected me so strongly but I have always been kind and yes I'm just barfing this out in one sentence today, bite me.

Mythic-punk · 2022-12-07T20:54:41+00:00

Damn, chick who usually wears heavy make-up showed up to class with none today. Makes a big difference 😬

EmeraldsFaure · 2022-12-07T20:35:51+00:00

Q4All: Would you date someone who voluntarily confessed to cheating on their last/ past partner? For what reason would they confess this to you? Could they be playing games to test you?

lulll · 2022-12-07T20:32:50+00:00

that pornsick thread finally made me realize the women who go crazy about porn are the modern version of the temperance movement. the temperance movement was mostly women

buffin-big-bowls · 2022-12-07T20:31:48+00:00

I’ve been thinking. If all my exes were on a basketball team, I bet I could still beat them by myself.

Dunking on my exes yet again 🥴

Brief_Crab_3710 · 2022-12-07T20:07:59+00:00

Leaving for Qatar in a few hours to see the rest of the World Cup

Effectively in the best shape of my life with the most expensive wardrobe I've ever had with accessories too (400 dollar Ray bans, a Rolex, etc)

Setting a goal to double my number of approaches to date (20 currently) but really wish one of my friends could afford to come with me to give some kind of boost in confidence (I realize this is a first world problem to a T but still)

I realize Qatar and the lack of alcohol changes things but based on how wild the previous World Cups I have been to are: if I'm still a kissless dateless virgin after this I question if/when it'll ever change--not exactly consistent with my newfound commitment to stoicism but definitely consistent with my observed experiences. Granted Brazil, South Africa and Russia are not Qatar but still

One thing I don't know despite having been to all of the 8 countries left in the tournament (and I'd guess there are fans like me too from countries already eliminated) multiple times: what nationality of women should I focus on to avoid wasting my time? Ideally any impressed by money/travels/experiences/academic/professional success (American soon to be medical student can't be that bad on the global scale) and willing to overlook race (Indian). I speak Spanish and (though not as well) French if that means anything

I'm saying this as someone who has literally ever seen one Indian man/non Indian woman couple in my life lol

LTR or hookup I don't care--just trying to find every bit of extroversion I can muster up for just 10 days

Also if you're a gambler absolutely hammer Argentina/Brazil/England/Portugal this weekend. Of the World Cup matches I've attended in person, the teams I've pulled for are a whopping 0-9. Qatar being smaller than previous hosts means I can attend all 4 and see the teams I'm rooting for lose all of them

VirgoGoonfold · 2022-12-07T19:43:54+00:00

Is it unreasonable to ask women to collectively try to dial back on them being drawn to "confidence"? I fully believe confidence is the number one thing a man needs to be successful. And there is nothing "wrong" with that per se... but to this degree?

I mean there is nothing wrong with physical beauty either, but women as a collective most definitely wish and encourage men to be lss hung up on that, and as a man who loves physical beauty, I think that's perfectly fair. But can't we make a similar request? Why confidence? Like why? Is it really that important? Men have much less of an issue dating someone shy and sensitive. Is that just another way men are "shallow", or what?

HazyMemory7 · 2022-12-07T19:41:02+00:00

This girl I matched with on bumble has extended her match with me two days in a row. I deadass think she doesn't realize women have to message first on bumble.

geyges1 · 2022-12-07T19:00:44+00:00

Women 2x more likely to have been treated for mental illness. 3x more likely to attempt suicide. Women consistently self report higher rates of depression, phobias, anxieties, emotional problems, and mood disorders.

Yet, I'm increasingly hearing from women that "Guys can't get laid because they have mental issues". No. Guys can't get laid because WOMEN HAVE ISSUES.

EDIT: LOL at /u/cigarettesandash blocking me a second time over this after just unblocking me yesterday. Amazing.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-07T00:44:47+00:00

Bitcoin is dead. The hype is over and it's just going to continue to fall.

LaloTwins · 2022-12-07T08:52:31+00:00

Easily the stupidest thing about Brexit apart from ruining the economy is that there’s more immigrants in the UK than there was pre Brexit

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T16:58:18+00:00

I’m guessing most men here are headed over to Indonesia soon, where their dream values of premarital sex being banned are being written into law. Nothing but LTR on the horizon. Just lots of pure virgins over there waiting for their dream man to arrive from the west to fulfill all their fantasies…

No worries about N count in Indonesia. Pack your bags boys 😂

MoreSanitizerPls · 2022-12-07T16:13:21+00:00

Being on this sub only revealed what I already observed, men only want objectively attractive girlfriends. They will settle with an average or below average woman but they want a woman that is universally believed to be good looking.

Every time below average or average men come on here and say they get women despite not being in the 20%, they always feel like they have to preface it with, “and the women I’m getting are hot too.” They say that like liking or loving a woman as ugly or as average looking as you is somehow a bad thing and deducts points off of your “manhood” score.

It’s like having an average looking or ugly girlfriend doesn’t “count” as actually having a girlfriend. “Oh you’re a 4 and have sex with your looksmatch? Doesn’t count because she’s not good looking.” The only women “who count” are attractive women. Brutal.

And it’s so deeply ingrained in their language I’m not sure they’re consciously aware that they’re trying to prove their worth to other men by expressing how they’re not actually fucking the icky, gross plain and ugly women; they’re getting the women of actual “worth”—attractive women.

FancyComfortable4678 · 2022-12-07T18:57:23+00:00

Is pedophilia genetic/hereditary? Should a pedophile choose not to have children to avoid passing it on? Is this eugenics?

Lift_and_Lurk · 2022-12-07T18:51:20+00:00

Daily update: men are both submissive yet also opportunistic, lower class but punching up for higher class women while also dumpster diving and either a highly attract man who can cheat and have multiple divorces and still get plenty of experience who ruins women for all the “good men” or a inexperienced loser who will never get a chance with women. Marriage is apparently good for men’s happiness but women are better off single but also Marta get has been declared “childish” by a man who was not only married: he used his wife’s illness as an excuse for his addiction to Benzos before going into a coma on purpose in Russia
And finally the ultimate Blac-pill is falling in love with your VR Pornstar and “making love” to it. Which leads me to believe the Blackpills are actually nothing more than dark coffee beans covered in LSD and Hash oil and consumed by some very unique individuals.

-angels-fan- · 2022-12-07T18:42:37+00:00

Which actor will never break out of their most famous role?

I think Sean Aston as Samwise.

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T18:35:32+00:00

What happened to sarkington? I miss her :./

saraimarsena · 2022-12-07T18:30:09+00:00

I find it funny how everyone seems to be convinced that they’re a good man/good woman. And yet the other side frequently complains about how hard it is to actually find good women/good men. How are all of y’all good single people missing each other 🤔 Wouldn’t that imply that a vast majority of people aren’t as good as they think they are ?

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T18:10:27+00:00

There’s no way you’re in a great relationship with a great man or woman and have a healthy life and come to this thread every single day. There no way 😂😂😂

Sucks2Suck88 · 2022-12-07T18:05:06+00:00

I’ve been married to a bisexual man for 6 years. AMA 🍷

No-Direction5209 · 2022-12-07T18:02:50+00:00

Are there any single women here trying to date men? It seems like all the women here are married and/or jaded.

lulll · 2022-12-07T17:52:24+00:00

holy shit i had no idea about this

they made a fucking anime out of lookism. thats crazy

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ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-12-07T00:12:16+00:00

Do girls just ghost without unfriending/blocking? Like does my notification just show up and she hopes I move on?

So I'm trying to understand why this girl ghosted me.

We texted for a bit and all seemed good.

She ghosted me 2 days at first then apologized she was busy. And now she's ghosted for a week.

What are your opinions on saving a nude in snapchat chat (not screenshot)?

My friends tell me it's a good thing to save them, and she didn't ghost me right away when I saved, but she did on the same day.

Bonus question, how do I work on my self respect to move on from this situation?

liefelijk · 2022-12-07T00:34:08+00:00

https://www.netflix.com/title/81090127

Tag yourselves - which egg are you?

UneastAji · 2022-12-07T00:47:58+00:00

Lots of normal ass PPD posts getting deleted instantly but lots of pink pill threads staying strong...

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-07T01:59:40+00:00

Ok folks I'm taking bets. Who's winning the WC final?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-07T02:22:17+00:00

Have you noticed that in popular culture the idea that men only care about looks is parroted a lot less now? Now that women care so much about looks, it's not as big of a problem.

purplish_possum · 2022-12-07T02:39:48+00:00

Question 4 Men: What is your opinion on bitter women who are virgins? Sympathetic or should they just suck it up and get over it?

purplish_possum · 2022-12-07T03:48:44+00:00

Is Trump tired of winning yet?

Katatonicsnake · 2022-12-07T04:15:39+00:00

Does oral add to an n-count?

PM_ME_ZED_BARA · 2022-12-07T04:18:32+00:00

All this discussion about how many women are turned off by bisexual men reminds me when I was tempted to tell my female friend that I, a gay guy, fucked her boyfriend before they met. I decided not to tell her because I didn’t want to be a busybody.

They are married now, so I guess the past will be buried. He was slightly feminine back then. But now he either hides that part well or he is simply no longer feminine. Maybe he was exploring his bi-curiosity side with me (and other men). Idk.

n3waccount2020 · 2022-12-07T04:52:44+00:00

anyone here listen to the Fleet Foxes?

lewdakuma · 2022-12-07T05:07:56+00:00

Q4M what do you think of women who do their eye makeup similar to this?

RIPGeorgeHarrison · 2022-12-07T05:11:36+00:00

I honestly think a lot of the women complaining they have to work while still do most of the house work are just over exaggerating, don’t realize how much their husband is actually doing around the house, or count telling him to do stuff occasionally as a terrible mental load that clearly makes his contribution not count at all.

purplish_possum · 2022-12-07T05:55:31+00:00

real men bake cakes

biggestuzifanea · 2022-12-07T06:28:01+00:00

Aba and Preach: "Men and women need each other"

Women in the comment section: " no we and and life is better without men"

These blue pillers really need to wake up

nothatyoucare · 2022-12-07T11:05:10+00:00

Got my first hate chat on Reddit which was pretty lol. I would give the deets here but it would be race baiting. I’ll just say I took up for black folks and it made some people very upset.

https://imgur.com/a/S3SMZ57

Gtedx · 2022-12-07T11:57:00+00:00

So I went to a work christmas party and ended up having sex with a coworker. Work has been super akward this week and I haven’t really spoken to her.

Any advice? Should I talk to her? Or just keep pretending like nothing happened? I suspect she might have told some people because I’ve been getting funny looks from others.

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T14:44:15+00:00

Incels don't like sex, and They are disgusted by it. This scene comes to mind.

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-07T14:51:15+00:00

Is being unvaccinated a green flag or a red flag?

Edit: covid vaccine

elephant-man- · 2022-12-07T15:06:03+00:00

I had a dream that I measured my height and was 6' 🥲

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-07T15:13:41+00:00

Honestly Republicans are so stupid.

If they just let go of the LGB hate and anti-abortion shit, they would be so much more powerful

Why are they appealing to the fundies? Like, what are they gonna do if the Republicans don't perfectly represent their views? Vote Democrat?

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T15:40:24+00:00

u/HazyMemory7 what is the reason behind the removal of u/Slyfer_Seven comment?

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T15:42:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/boxoffice/comments/zelnm1/avatar_2_stuns_press_in_rave_first_reactions/

I am expecting this to be a shit movie.

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T15:45:10+00:00

Question for all, who do you think has to compete more for a better life, more options and in general in todays world, a man or a woman? And why?

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-12-07T16:05:32+00:00

Does eating Chick-fil-A make you more homophobic?

zombiefiedgastonist · 2022-12-07T16:36:42+00:00

woke and low-T christianity will lead to a revival of Islam in the west over the next couple decades

if we want to preserve christendom in the west we need to bring back strong masculine christianity, not this pussy garbage

zombiefiedgastonist · 2022-12-07T16:37:48+00:00

“Any society that derives it's power and authority from the will of man alone lives apart from god and will crumble in the end.”

- Joshua Graham

Peacesquad · 2022-12-07T16:50:32+00:00

Question for all, who’s more likely to cause drama and conflict in an otherwise peaceful partnership, a man or a woman? And explain why

Sofia_sticated91 · 2022-12-07T17:07:19+00:00

The fuck is Indonesia thinking. Bali is a great place too

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T17:46:30+00:00

Q4A: Do I come across as feminine?

stjohnswyrt · 2022-12-07T17:42:07+00:00

I need a devil's advocate to offer me a good argument as to why the statement "laws are backed by violence" is false

SnooMaps9943 · 2022-12-07T17:41:31+00:00

Why do so many men have this weird hate boner for women who reach their late 20s, early 30s— you know, the age that most people start settling down— who want to settle down? That is a normal thing.

Don’t answer. I don’t want to know

Sucks2Suck88 · 2022-12-07T17:20:24+00:00

If I become a widow I’d likely remain single and make sure my finances are set so my son and daughter will have their educations covered. I feel pain in my heart for those of you that haven’t found the love of your life or a great friend with benefits, the dating world is a lake of raw sewage now. If you’re able to find someone amidst the shit, cherish them. You could also do worse, so many bitter men and women in the dating world these days who just want a partner to trauma dump on or take their bitterness out on.

UneastAji · 2022-12-07T00:05:55+00:00

If you complain you don't drown in "suitable" male attention despite you're such an educated hardworking woman with hobbies who makes her own money, it's just as pitoyable as men who complain they don't drown in pussies despite their high sex drive and unwillingness to commit.

Heard_ya_were_WINNIN · 2022-12-07T00:06:28+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ykodwj/the_hatred_that_men_have_towards_women_they_find

Do you think this post gets removed if the genders were flipped?

UneastAji · 2022-12-07T01:21:16+00:00

If you're 24 and aren't in a long relationship, fianced, or married, you're just a femcel. If you're uncapable to build your romantic and social life in parallel of your degree or career you're severely lacking and on the loser side of the population.

I'm tired of hearing ppl acting like you should think of it when you're 30. This isn't how things work, it's fine that you do what you want, just don't come pretending you're a winner with plenty of options while you clearly showed you hadn't the value to do it in parallel of the rest.

Pushing your degrees and jobs as making you high value while complaining your options are bad isn't going to convince us the market has been unfair with you on the contrary.

ExpensiveShoulder580 · 2022-12-07T01:39:54+00:00

Does sticking a finger up your butthole count as getting pegged?

Mark_Freed · 2022-12-07T11:34:23+00:00

My biggest update against black pill being true happened in a very unexpected way.

I have an extensive porn collection and have over the years neatly categorized some of my fav stars. I like asian women, latinas, caucasians, etc. So my point is at least from a media perspective I know to a fine detail what my type is. Body type, fetishes, personality, positions, etc.

So I used to have a soft spot for the black pill folks, it was obvious pretty privilege existed and that the pressure on looks was increasing with social media penetration.

But then once I started using VR porn and sex toys, over a period of time I had an epiphany. Sure I was aroused by these 10/10 girls. But then there were these videos where the porn star was totally NOT my type. I did not really find her physically attractive.

I download videos and try them out and delete them usually but sometimes I hold on to them because idk I can see the quality of the story line, it improves my collection and I can pass them to my friends when they ask me for the goodies.

Anyway back to my story. I found that when I am really immersed in the VR porn experience. I recognized that the physical beauty of the girl sorta went into the background. I was more attentive to the moans, the responses, and my belief that I was responsible for pleasuring her, that we were intimate and "connected" mattered SO MUCH MORE. When you nut in someone you love/who loves you that is the best.

I am sure you people might find it ludicrous to imagine such heavy words being used to refer to a group of pixels running around in my VR headset. But that just speaks to your lack of imagination. Finally all of reality is what we construct in our head. If you have sufficient suspension of disbelief you can really engross yourself in the porn video and believe you are connected.

Anyway my point is that, men who are disillusioned about how large of a looks bone structure, height and other immutable factors play in visceral attraction should try my method. There are many benefits to this, I am much more open to dating girls I don't find physically attractive now, I can believe I will enjoy intimacy with them.

I can also believe I can be attractive to girls even though I am not 10/10 chad.

Sorry for long post lol. I did not have time to compress it, forgive my rambling.

TLDR;

Try VR porn, specifically a great porn star who is not your "physical type".

it was Bella Rolland SLR_Originals_CanvAss_Sexhibition_2040p_16965_LR_180 which convinced me. She really is not my type. But her acting in this vid is god tier really makes you feel like you are giving her such a good fuck that she is melting in your arms.

geyges1 · 2022-12-07T13:57:48+00:00

marriage is for children thread is breathtaking

People literally think the point of marriage is tax benefits.

Did people completely lost any sense of how communities and societies are built? You may derive some secondary benefits out of a thing, but the primary purpose of a thing remains the same.

Bags are made to carry things. You can also wear them on your head in lieu of an umbrella. Doesn't change the purpose.

You can use a nail as a toothpick, you can drink distilled water, you can jerk off into a sock, and you can use condom as a hair tie.

You can do all kinds of crazy shit and derive unlimited benefits out of it; it doesn't change the purpose of what marriage is for: To raise kids.

gobblegoobleoneofus · 2022-12-07T15:13:22+00:00

CMV

All the people at the top who sold you guys on morals and ethics don't even practice it themselves.

They are laughing at you and profiting while you do "the right thing"

being a moral and ethical person just keeps you down in the lower and middle classes

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2022-12-07T00:46:16+00:00

Why do women complain about having to become housewives? Why do they act like having a corporate job is such a great opportunity? Being a housewife is an easier and more fulfilling job than a majority of corporate jobs.

Dedekind12 · 2022-12-07T14:18:56+00:00

Women are so self-centered that they don't recognize their surroundings at least the good looking ones. You pass by them and they don't recognize you. They later claim that they didn't notice you. Why are women like this?

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