Daily Community Chat Megathread

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-21T09:34:34+00:00

https://edition.cnn.com/style/pixy-liao-extreme-relationship-selfies/index.html

I love the artsy couples…

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-21T09:21:16+00:00

Male sexuality is demonized by feminists. Feminists call men creepy for dating younger women. Homophobia is similar, insulting someone based on their sexuality. AGE GAP SHAMING NEEDS TO STOP!!!

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-21T08:43:31+00:00

What are the credentials to be mod?

I'm a regular poster and rarely leave my room. I shower every day and am less than 300 pounds but can arrange for changes if needed.

AreOut · 2023-10-21T08:15:05+00:00

we haven't had an age gap thread for a long time, what happened? :)

__PrettyBoy · 2023-10-21T07:18:06+00:00

I’m convinced women will buy anything if you can convince them it’ll make them look pretty. Snail mucin?

Fucking snail slime?!!?

Seriously??

I stg women would literally eat dog shit if it meant that it’d grow their eyelashes longer or something.

hungrychick404 · 2023-10-21T06:53:00+00:00

Some of y’all just need to go on some SSRI’s

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-21T04:51:08+00:00

Q4M: Inverted yield curve or (still) the Roman Empire? What are your random thoughts today?

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-21T04:43:29+00:00

Is sex even real? I’ve only seen it on the internet.

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scwizard · 2023-10-21T04:17:44+00:00

Middle class/rich people are kinda boring sometimes.

Ok you're from the uk, you're here in Houston for work cause oil and gas. We chat about sports a bit or something.

Sure I'm not being sexually harassed but it's still kinda zzz.

Girls never take their tops off at hotel bars.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-21T03:54:01+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/ThailandTourism/s/BtbrCJFtvB

Interesting post from Thai perspective on sex tourists, passport bros & basic assholes

scwizard · 2023-10-21T03:31:18+00:00

Lots of gay bars in the Houston area I ended up with.

I went to a supposedly not gay bar that had bras and panties hanging from the ceiling. And still the guy I was talking to said I should admit I'm gay and let him fuck my ass, because I "sound gay."

Look sorry I went to highschool in the East village but lay off.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-21T03:21:13+00:00

You know how much men would be willing to pay to sleep with a hot woman, some hot insta baddie, who also finds him attractive? Probably $500-1000+ per time.

Women are born with the privilege to be able to get that experience worth $500-1000+ with ease and for free, an infinite number of times. Women can sleep with hot men above her level who also find her attractive, by virtue of her just not being fat.

If a woman has any sex drive at all, she can satisfy herself with the luxurious experience of sleeping with someone she thinks is really hot within a few hours easily for free.

Female privilege

throwaway164_3 · 2023-10-21T03:13:42+00:00

Is anyone else enjoying that AITAH thread from today?

🍿👀

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-21T01:52:58+00:00

Blaming “capitalism” as the reason why you can’t get dates is one of the most bizarre things I’ve ever seen

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-10-21T01:52:29+00:00

Is it possible to get post nut clarity as a woman?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-21T01:51:28+00:00

Have you ever had a vegan or a vegetarian try to shame you for eating meat? Like in person

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T01:46:35+00:00

Im being 100% serious how do i become an actress? I dont have theatre experience because thats really cringe but i like singing and watching movies. I dont have nepotism or money on my side

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T01:44:13+00:00

Some People Here Need Serious Help

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-21T01:43:43+00:00

There is this guy in my one of my college classes who wants to be a chick. He’s always dressing like a girl and sometimes we have to interact for assignments and it’s just gross. He does things that creep me out big time. He has trans and lesbian pride stickers on his laptop and he stares at me a lot. It makes me so uncomfortable.

I told a man I like who comes into my work regularly since we weren’t busy and we like to chat. He said he’d come walk me from my class to my car if it would make me feel more comfortable and we could go get lunch afterwards. He was so smooth asking me out like that. So, Monday I’m having my first ever date and I’m so excited.

armpitpics · 2023-10-21T01:28:46+00:00

Capitalism is the system that upholds prostitution. Communism is the system that upholds polyamory and gay orgies. Which system should I follow if I'm interested in eating ass and licking armpits?

ratboi34 · 2023-10-21T01:04:45+00:00

There actually seems to be some evidence that younger women smell better lol. I don't know how solid the research is tho, because the study is in Japanese and apparently was just a few Japanese dudes sniffing women's clothing. Also, that doesn't solve the mystery on why women start smelling better again after they are in their 40s.

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T00:58:32+00:00

Can looking at bright laptops/phones in dark rooms fuck up peoples eyes

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T00:57:49+00:00

I ended up watching marie antoinette. Really boring but visually beautiful. Bridgerton/queen charlotte does it WAY better

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-10-21T00:34:09+00:00

Seinfeld clip: Always have to be 'on' with women

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AbUeOv882rM

grillopie · 2023-10-21T00:17:12+00:00

i think the looks megathread may have been misguided. should have been a paternity test one instead.

SuccessLate6658 · 2023-10-20T23:57:56+00:00

I’m so tired of people acting like they weight lift for health. Weight lifting does so little to improve your health you could weight lift moderately for 1 day a week and you’ve maxed out your health benefits. It also barely does anything to help you lose weight. Cardio on the other hand, almost always improves your health.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-20T23:42:54+00:00

We need your first pay cheque to go to Greece bae #fyp #queencharlotte... | get out i order you | TikTok

4SSh01e · 2023-10-20T23:12:38+00:00

I am 30 years old, here’s my vision of a good life for 30s to mid-40s (can’t plan further than that).

Have a small detached house with a backyard in a beautiful suburb, the backyard would have a bunch of apple trees, flower and berry bushes. The home would have an antique and minimalist decor. It will have a small office/workshop, I would also have a gaming rig with all necessary equipment for racing and flight simulators. I will also have a fancy espresso machine. I will have a small fluffy bichon frisé who I will name Max. I will have a small hatchback, something like a grey Volkswagen Golf.

Every morning I will wake up and take Max for a half hour walk. Then I will go to work and then to the gym for about 2-2.5 hrs. I will come home and have dinner and watch TV with Max. Then we go to bed and Max sleeps on his little bed next to my bed. We do this year after year and live a simple life.

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-10-20T23:07:22+00:00

I keep seeing post and comments here saying women are privilege for being able to sleep around with men and I have to ask. Do men here think it's a privilege to sleep with them?

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-20T23:01:12+00:00

How much longer till we really see the negatives of capitalism and feminism? I believe we are still in the early stages

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-20T22:53:02+00:00

Probably 1-2 years left before the internet is completely unusable. Governments will probably need to issue an online id or something to prove you're human.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-20T22:50:33+00:00

So the looks discussion is now limited to just it's own thread, that's gonna end great lmao

scwizard · 2023-10-20T22:49:22+00:00

Am I being groomed?

She is. Also she's the first one to use the term correctly on twox in a while.

scwizard · 2023-10-20T22:46:31+00:00

My boyfriend (26) and i(28) were having a conversation about single parenthood, sparked by a recent Lainy Molnair comic, when he dropped the bomb that he thought if was partially a womens fault if they ended up a single mother due to their partner leaving them, for picking a bad partner.

This.. did not go over well with me. Short of being literally psychic or clarivoyant, there isnt any way to be absolutely certain about a partners fidelity and behavior, which i told him. According to Boyfriend, "actions over time will always give them away/failing to see red flags is always a failing". I know ive been fooled by a former partner for a long time, no red flags at all.

How can women say in the same breath that it's impossible to tell and that the woman never bares responsibility, and simultaneously that yada yada is a red flag.

Like if you're going to say "not having tattoos is a red flag, it's a sign someone is right wing and controlling" then you can't simultaneously say "a woman who dates a guy with no tattoos bares no responsibility when he turns out to be secretly right wing and controlling."

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T22:27:26+00:00

Should i watch valley of the dolls, marie antoinette (sofia coppola) or gone with the wind right now

I am trying to watch more movies. i love movies, but only the ones i like. And not male movies like oppenheimer and top gun maverick

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-20T22:27:05+00:00

Imagine being a woman with basic personal hygiene and being able to get a free dinner and drinks worth $100+ at a trendy/upscale place with a decent, polite upper middle class guy who will do all the planning for the night and will entertain you, shower you with attention and validation through a few minutes of using dating apps.

Women live entirely different (privileged) lives compared to men.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-20T22:26:33+00:00

I imagine chads are like Voldemort to some guys here

Dare not speak his name

monster_lily · 2023-10-20T22:25:55+00:00

I Just tried salmon and it actually wasnt bad

Ive gone my whole life hating fish

Can we talk about the change in appetite that you get around 14-17ish because i hate things i used to like as a kid like skittles (🤢) and i love things i used to hate as a kid like fish and stuff

scwizard · 2023-10-20T22:15:13+00:00

I'm so glad I'm over the idea of "self improving" my way to getting a gf.

With it comes the idea that chroniclly single people aren't worthy of being. Screw that I'm gonna be single and play video games and materbate and live my life, and I'm still heckin cute and valid ok.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-20T21:32:23+00:00

Is it just me or do the flashy dressing popular gossipy talkative girls often end up picking introverted unemotional men who never even raise their voice. Especially if the man is an athlete or some kind of strong silent type

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-20T21:31:58+00:00

I legit would rather recommend people to just start using drugs over telling them to go to therapy. "Go to therapy. Now!" okay bro I guess I'll just get on an 8 month long waitlist only to find out they aren't a right fit, then have to wait another 8 months ad infinitum until I die. Guess I will magically make $400 extra dollars per month appear so I can afford it.

Oh yeah, and the med circus they put you on. No telling what will happen when they give you something, it might make you dissociate and eventually lose your shit in a fit of extreme rage. Or it might make you uncontrollably pass out every night at 5pm, messing up your circadian rhythm and making it a lot harder to complete school work.

Not to mention how freely they diagnose you with stuff. I've been diagnosed with like 5-6 different things, I have no clue what's going on. Which ones are real and which ones aren't? Every time I get a new provider they give me some new magical diagnosis out of a hat. Like, "we need you to try a NEW class of drugs that regular depressed people can't get!"

You are better off just eating psychedelics and praying that this time things will be different. It's a lot better than being on meds. At least something happens immediately and you don't have to wait weeks to have a huge disaster at an unpredictable time. The disaster ends in 8 hours.

And I know people will try and shit on me for this opinion, but I have been through the ringer with these people. I spent 8 years doing this shit.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T21:31:56+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/17c3sfp/men_who_have_used_a_fleshlight_is_it_worth_it/k5ob445/

I’m disgusted but impressed

butagoodpersonality · 2023-10-20T21:27:54+00:00

Any ppders live in japan? My bestie and I are planning a trip and want tips :)

ratboi34 · 2023-10-20T21:18:19+00:00

The one thing that always bothered me most about narcissistic women was, that they have less of that warm, fruity, breedable scent. They all wore really nice perfume tho.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T21:12:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/17cgia8/inside_every_woman_theres_a_hitler/

Ladies and gentlemen we’re all Nazis for not fucking ugly people or something

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-20T21:03:53+00:00

Why is milk so easy to drink? Ever notice how you never just sip on milk for a while. You usually just crush it in 30 seconds. Why is that???

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T21:03:03+00:00

I miss a certain Racoon.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T21:02:29+00:00

I love this place. I only hang out here a few times a year but the insanity is great

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-20T21:01:58+00:00

Im gonna need the mod who decided to end looks discussion to drop their pic

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-20T20:59:30+00:00

Warcraft Classic FINALLY has ICC open!!!

The nostalgia is flooding in.

Fuck you Arthas!! You gonna die, clown!!

old_new_age · 2023-10-20T20:48:30+00:00

ordered fin and min + a microneedle tool, will try to preserve my hair that's left since it looks alright buzzed, or maybe grow some back if I'm lucky. hopefully with this + gym I can be a consistent 6 until I die

Mysterious-Book5380 · 2023-10-20T20:37:45+00:00

Holy shit, is it paternity test week? Never seen a topic totally take over this sub like this before. Haven't been here long but still. It's both hilarious and morbid.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-20T20:36:57+00:00

I went to a bookstore the other day and saw this girl from behind. She was looking very fine and when she turned around she legit had one of the ugliest faces I have ever seen.That is all.

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-20T20:31:35+00:00

I'm too lazy but I would like to put together a compilation of sorts. I would look at dating related posts and compare women's comments 5 years ago to women's comments today. I'm fairly certain women became more willing to entertain biological arguments over time, at least here, and I think that could actually be highlighted this way.

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T20:30:51+00:00

I’ve not been here in a while. Is Andrew Tate still popular?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T20:27:57+00:00

His back fellas, the greatest streets rapper of all time

SUPA HOT FIRRRRRRRE

But his not rapper!!!!

princedune · 2023-10-20T20:10:33+00:00

welp as expected i ran out of people to swipe on in bumble. that makes all three of the major dating apps. I'll be swimming in matches any second now

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-20T20:04:40+00:00

My co worker (asian woman) is 28, with 3 kids, divorced (ex husband was kind of a junkie but he got better and she rushed into marriage before 1st child because family is religious) with a degree in photography (useless) and she recently disqualified a guy she met on bumble because she thought he was 1) short (hes 5’7 and shes like 5’3 LOL) and 2) not serious about getting to know her (only hit her up late night)

I love her to death. Shes a very smart girl who I have gone to for a lot of advice but my god, I wish I could re do her life. She would not have had that guys kids. She is a genuine good soul but she is going to fuck her love life

baiser_vole · 2023-10-20T20:02:04+00:00

WOOHOO no more weekly n-count discussion thread!

Thank you whoever changed it :)

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T19:56:19+00:00

My girlfriend wants us to go on this double date with her friend and boyfriend

They can leave me home because l wanna hangout with my younger cousin this weekend especially since the premiere league is back

Am NOT FUCKIN LEAVING

Maffioze · 2023-10-20T19:53:51+00:00

https://spotify.link/nGghnlYH3Db This song is a total vibe when chilling with a book.

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-10-20T19:52:42+00:00

CMV: A fat ass is equivalent to a big dick

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-20T14:01:59+00:00

Edit: I’m a loser

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Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-10-20T14:01:44+00:00

First... again 😎

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-20T14:02:49+00:00

You can absolutely break a woman's brain by not wanting sex for 2 weeks. All you have to do is not initiate and not care about sex and she'll lose her mind and you will completely have the upper hand on her.

Eventually she'll break and ask why you guys aren't having sex. Just say something like it hasn't crossed my mind or I've been busy and tired with other things.

Women are used to men and their bfs chasing them around with their tounges hanging out and totally debasing themselves. If you can turn this around on her you have all the power in the relationship. All you have to do is control your sex drive.

keebydee · 2023-10-20T14:09:01+00:00

Please tell me we're not going to have a Day 3 of paternity test talk. 😅

Master-Gene-8382 · 2023-10-20T14:11:38+00:00

Why do obvious bait/troll posts like the fat girl post from a few hours ago stay up for so long?

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-20T14:14:09+00:00

There should be a to catch a predator but just for regular guys sliding into dms of regular chicks.

You walk into the house and instead of chris hansen it's a bunch of blue hair feminist bitches.

yvaN_ehT_nioJ · 2023-10-20T14:29:12+00:00

I think I've switched my view on the issue of paternity tests. While I still think it should just be a mandatory thing done at birth, I understand expecting this to ever happen is highly unrealistic. Till such a point, a man decides to have sex with someone, decides to get married or otherwise stay in a committed relationship, decides to be a parent, and then he wants to make sure the wife/sig. other isn't cheating? That's a bit late to the game to start worrying about it.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-20T14:32:22+00:00

I still think its a red flag older teens and adults are taking real life advice from fictional stories in the media.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-20T14:52:13+00:00

Fun fact: Masculine Men open up all the time, but only to fellow problem solvers. -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/17bs94w/why_do_men_retreat_when_theyre_going_through/

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-20T14:54:12+00:00

This obsession single men have with paternity tests is so bizarre.

Such unhinged emotional reactions to a bogeyman.

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-20T14:59:48+00:00

I dont even understand the discussion around paternity tests

Tell your wife to go take a nap and that you'll take care of the baby for a few hours (bonus points for being a good partner and letting your wife nap). Swab the baby's mouth and your own and do the test.

Get the tests results. If the baby's yours, shred the paper and shove it in your ass to hide it from your wife.

If the baby isn't yours shove the papers in your wives face and/or ass.

TermAggravating8043 · 2023-10-20T15:08:41+00:00

I’m going to throw a bone to the guys that are obsessed with paternity tests, when I got pregnant, I got a book about it but it was a humorous version of it for guys detailing the stages of pregnancy

The first chapter, had point that apparently about 90% of men when told their partners are pregnant, don’t believe it’s theirs. Not because they think their partners have cheated, but because they have such little self esteem and are so insecure about themselves, they don’t believe they could someone pregnant

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T15:08:55+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/cySO9bF

Rate him

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-20T15:11:43+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/QZUXzTwMyoQ?si=OuQrGQc-tZdpfEk7

How to spot a high N count woman

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-10-20T15:16:49+00:00

men who aren't even close to being married talking about swabbing their hypothetical kids is 🤨

don't marry a woman you don't trust and this will never be an issue. if you dont trust her swab the kid and prove your point or destroy your relationship. but really just don't marry a woman who will cheat on you?? why is it assumed she will cheat on you?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-20T15:16:56+00:00

If you are too afraid to talk about a paternity test with your woman, you have successfully been neutered

purplish_possum · 2023-10-20T15:17:15+00:00

True paternity story (one of my 2nd ex-wife's coworkers):

Lets call the couple Paul and Penny. They've been married for several years. They're both white (Paul is very white). Penny becomes pregnant -- everyone is excited. Penny delivers a healthy baby girl with dark brown skin and curly black hair. Penny tearfully admits an affair with her boss who's African American. Paul forgives her and they raise their little girl together for 12 years. Then Paul catches Penny having another affair with the Sheriff's Lieutenant who lives next door. This time they divorce. Penny moves out and their daughter stays with Paul.

keebydee · 2023-10-20T15:26:21+00:00

The vetting never stops 👁👁

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-20T15:26:51+00:00

Reading single and unwanted men saying, "the vetting never stops," will never not be funny to me.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-20T15:30:55+00:00

Said this yesterday but I'll say it again since it seems we are talking about paternity tests again:

I think women who are overreacting about the topic of paternity tests and insulting guys who wanna do it are low on emotional stability and empathy. Also it is kinda sus how against they are of paternity tests lol

keebydee · 2023-10-20T15:32:53+00:00

Trust but......verify 😉

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T15:39:06+00:00

Is there any more info on St Blackops2cel? I truly wonder if he has a girlfriend right now, or even lost his virginity for that matter. He was 26 in 2014, which means he should be 35 now.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-20T15:40:34+00:00

Just saw a TikTok of a woman posting screenshots of texts of a "guy she rejected who she talked to for one day"

Everyone is saying he is a creep, but one guy was brave enough to say "why were you talking to him at all?" and people jumped on him, but what he said was valid. They talked one day. She could have just not responded. Also, women are out here looking for validation at the expense of men's mental health. Let's call it exactly what it is. Women will go on dating apps just to see how many matches they get with no intention of actually talking to or meeting the guys, right, but on the other hand the guys are on the apps actually looking for something. But because "women are wonderful" this kind of behavior is ignored. I think a few decades from now we will look back on women's behavior and expose just how toxic it was, but right now women are a protected class.

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-20T15:40:52+00:00

MW2 > Black ops

purplish_possum · 2023-10-20T15:41:07+00:00

My paternity story:

Found it a bit odd that my youngest daughter didn't look like me or her mom (a Puerto Rican and Mexican have a little blonde girl -- to be fair she does tan very well). However, as she's grown up she looks more and more like my Irish dad (even has his somewhat odd speech pattern). I'm pretty damn sure she's mine now. As a bonus I'm now also pretty damn sure my dad was my biological dad.

itzReborn · 2023-10-20T15:41:54+00:00

I wanna complain about being a virgin but I know it’s pointless since I’m not taking the most important first step(talking to people) All the other self improvement stuff I’ve done/doing doesn’t really matter…yet

keebydee · 2023-10-20T15:43:58+00:00

I'm actually learning new things here. I didn't realize that the vetting wouldn't stop once you get into the relationship. 🤔

But does that mean I gotta be constantly analyzing my GF's behavior to see if she's not doing anything wrong? Idk, that kinda sounds annoying. 😒

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-10-20T15:46:43+00:00

All this paternity talked unlocked a memory of when I found out I was pregnant.

I cried, a lot. It wasn't out of mourning or anything, but I felt like everyone was going to be mad at me.

Which is ridiculous, because I'm a happily married women in a very stable middle class-ish life.

I liken the experience to when a woman is subjected to years of purity culture and abstinence only education gets married and is suddenly expected to be sex kitten.

Since the age of 12 or so, the oppressive messaging I received from my culture/family/etc. is that an unplanned pregnancy will RUIN MY LIFE FOREVER. Even after I'd long been married, my mom would remind me to stay on top of my BC because a child would derail my [X].

Its hard to deprogram all that shit on a dime after 15+ years of those closest to you feeding you doom and gloom.

I recall my husband's reaction was "oh shit", " are you sure", and "we'll do whatever you want". I think he got teary eyed, but he was happy. We hugged, and cried happy/anxious tears together. I can't even imagine how awful everything would have been if he then turn around and said "btw gonna need a paternity test, no no, I dont think you're cheating, but I'm a man so I just need to be super duper sure."

Like, gtfo of here with that.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T15:53:02+00:00

If I ever get kids and they're boys I'm unironically going to tell them to drink starting age 16, do weed and do stupid stuff in general. Don't get involved with crime though. Just party like crazy.

Yes it'll be riskier but the satisfaction and socialization they'll get out of it will be worth it. Also, they will not be able to see any screen beyond a TV until age 18.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-20T15:56:28+00:00

What are some of your best personal habits? Could be anything from health and fitness, to organization and cleanliness.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-20T16:07:37+00:00

okay guys here me out. a dating app that doesn't allow posting picture but only allow posting paragraphs and bio. It also doesn't allow texting, the only way of communication is on audio or camera.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T16:09:27+00:00

Sex is a biological want, not necessarily a biological need. Now I’m older than most of the kids here and I’ve gone a few years with no sex and it wasn’t great but I wasn’t depressed either, just had other shit going on in my life. If it was a need they way this generation or neutered men claims then men would’ve made a pussy bank by now, or legalized prostitution across the board in Western countries. Women would be applauded for doling out sex to the sexless men. Instead you got these motherfuckers out here crying about how unfair it is that they ain’t getting trim, how they’re be forced to GRAPE with a silent G because no one wants to fuck you or how they’re being forced to leave the country for the chance of pussy. This could’ve been the generation that actually solved the problem but instead y’all sitting here crying about it like divorced wives in a knitting class.

So sit the fuck down and shut up and grab some knitting supplies, because clearly y’all decided you wanted to be women and not men.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-10-20T16:21:34+00:00

even a pornstar can’t tell the difference between RMV and SMV

You can’t expect normal women to understand it, the delulu is strong

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T16:36:00+00:00

Ask yourself this question: If a meth head can find love then what the fuck is so wrong with you that no one wants you? If Methany and Billy Bob Trailer Park can find each other you gotta be uglier than sin, boring as static tv or your standards are so high you ideal man or woman doesn’t exist. Or you’re gay and don’t realize it yes this applies to the females too some of y’all just might be lesbians and don’t realize it.

Willow-girl · 2023-10-20T16:39:41+00:00

It appears I'm at the center of an amusing kerfluffle at work, with two factions each accusing the other of trying to get me in trouble with management over having my broken foot in a compression boot. (Years ago, a co-worker with a similar injury was forced to take a month off and burn all her leave time over it, while I'm being allowed to go on working.) Neither faction is speaking to each other at the moment, and both are warning me darkly, "Watch out, that beyatch is out to get you!"

While I find this slightly hilarious, it also leaves me longing for the old days on the dairy, where we all worked in good faith to take care of the cows we all loved. Still miss it so much!

And now I'm off to another night of the long knives ... sigh.

Jaded_Interaction162 · 2023-10-20T16:40:18+00:00

I am a deeply flawed individual, I don't want to date someone who is not deeply flawed like me. If I date someone who is too nice or too forgiving i will start to feel inferior, bad about myself and I actually would prefer to date someone even worse than me. There is something comforting about being around people who are poorly adjusted to life.

anonymous375555 · 2023-10-20T16:51:17+00:00

what is so great about waring pants that give you a wedgie.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-20T17:06:58+00:00

If you don't get atleast 6 tinder match a week, it's over. If you assume that each match has a 4% chance of fostering into a date, you need a minimum of 25 matches a month. That's just for one date. If you do it consistenly and assume an optimistic 10% chance for a relationship for each date, you could succeed within a year.

BasedMan5569 · 2023-10-20T17:10:53+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/SexOffenderSupport/comments/16lomm7/harassed/

She’s fat and married to a kiddy fucker, no big surprise there.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T17:12:12+00:00

"One thing I don’t get about this subreddit sometimes is the amount of people being afraid of being in an AF/BB relationship but then also say women should date people they aren’t attracted to, It just seems directly contradictory to me…I dunno if I believe in AF/BB but if you don’t want to be in an AF/BB why do you want women who aren’t attracted to you to date you?"

Women are attracted to both sides of the hypergamy equation l've made this point over and over again, that the BB is just as important as the AF side

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-20T17:15:34+00:00

Only in this subreddit will single moms be a red flag, but not women who are dating abusive, misogynist, jobless, drug addicts.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-10-20T17:20:57+00:00

So much of this sub seems to see dating through a hyper pessimistic lense, like many redpill sites, I've been told so many things are out of line that plainly aren't that I continue to find things that are perfectly okay.

Looking around office relationships seem to be a lot less taboo than I expected. So I'm going full Walt Disney, and I'm off to woo one of the swell dames in the ink and paint department.

Jokes aside I think the redpill is it's own worst enemy, they seem more hellbent on enforcing gender seperatism than even radfems.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-20T17:31:12+00:00

Just saw my friend today. Reminds you guys are hopelessly naïve, ignorant, and out of touch with high libido peoples. Damn life is good.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-20T17:31:58+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/nsjkx97s7evb1.jpeg?width=1024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=edff9f092a2146cc569e5d6d9069b3b88a7a16e1

For my Spanish speakers

ConanTheCybrarian · 2023-10-20T17:32:18+00:00

why are 99.9% of people on here obsessed with paternity testing? I feel like I'm on Maury up in here.

abaxeron · 2023-10-20T17:37:03+00:00

Took too long to write the response to that "Men go to war" post while it was being locked. Posting here, tagging OP.

For example, women's workplace mortality combined with maternal mortality in the US in year 2020 was 1248.

Men's workplace mortality was 4377. I don't know if it includes military casualties and institutionalized population. If no, then actual disparity is even higher.

Here's your cumulative suffering.

BEFORE we include how often women have elected warmongers as supreme military commanders that they, women, have never and will never obey as front-line infantrymen. This is the opposite of what Rosika Schwimmer promised in year 1915, as WW1 was in full swing, when she said "we European women think that [female] suffrage, when it does come, will end all wars" - and lived to see how wrong she was merely 25 years later.

On the other hand, men have done everything in their meek mortal power to make childbirth safer. I was actually quite shocked that even in this traditionally female-dominated field, men made the most of breakthrough discoveries.

Yes, it's really terrible that women have to go through this pain and risk to keep our species alive. We're working right now to liberate them from it; sorry it's not ready like 300 years ago. I mean it, we're genuinely sorry. There's very few things we'd like as much as magic away the awful reality of women we love screaming in pain for several hours and occasionally requiring emergency blood transfusion.

No, men do in fact build roads, fight wars, build houses, purify water, mine fuel, produce electricity, recycle waste, and die significantly more than women of all but a handful of causes, and relative to women, more than ever in recorded history, including newborns, toddlers, and infants, especially in custody of single mothers, at ages when you can't (yet) handwave this away as a result of their own terrible life choices.

/u/lossandwichesdequeso

RahLyt · 2023-10-20T17:39:50+00:00

Honestly the more I think about it the dumber the patriarchy theories sound to me. Lol. It literally makes no sense.

It's sounds as insane to me as Tate's Matrix.

I guess it explains religion, human beings have a strong bias to create an evil and a god.

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-20T17:41:34+00:00

Is sugaring legal?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-20T17:44:12+00:00

Another day to remind you to avoid trauma riddled women -->

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/17bjdue/my_bf_asked_me_for_a_bj_while_i_was_crying/

princedune · 2023-10-20T17:47:25+00:00

i just found out my brother's relationship is an open relationship but only she gets to fuck other people not him 🤦‍♂️

at least he's seems happy i guess

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-20T17:50:17+00:00

Anyone here know anything about A/C units?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-20T17:54:34+00:00

Trust mainstream media at your own risk -->

https://twitter.com/sentdefender/status/1715339342124572745

Anti_Thing · 2023-10-20T17:56:22+00:00

Someone in the 'men go to war' thread claimed that " Nobody in modern, western democracies gets drafted." By the time I'd finished by reply the thread had been locked, but because I'd hate to see my effortposting go to waste I'll copy it here:

"Austria, Cyprus, Greece, Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania, & Switzerland actively enforce male-only conscription as we speak.

Sweden actively conscripts men & women on an equal basis.

Denmark has male conscription, The Netherlands has a gender-neutral draft, Norway has gender-neutral conscription, & the US has a male-only draft. Although none of these countries may currently force people to serve, they have the legal machinery in place to do so at a moment's notice & are always ready for it.

Using a broad definition of "modern, western democracies", Armenia, Brazil, Chile, Colombia, Israel, South Korea, Mexico, Moldova, Singapore, Taiwan, Turkey, & Ukraine currently draft men (Israel also drafts women)."

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T18:02:37+00:00

Getting married V soon. Advice for my bf from the men on the sub please?

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T18:03:52+00:00

"I do think this is semi intentional. I think the redpill buisness men have a vested interest in preventing guys from finding success or ascending. I think you see this in advice like don't talk to women about this stuff, and don't ask women out. And because this is an online thing people parrot it to others spreading the idea"

Who's saying this ?

When does TRP say don't ask out women ?

See again we wanna make this outlandish assumptions because we don't know what we are talking about

happy_discus · 2023-10-20T18:17:28+00:00

Update on the bar hopping event from yesterday. It was shit. I hated every single second of it. Still I want to thank everyone for trying to be positive. :)
The student party I attended with some girls after the bar hopping event was great.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-20T18:17:30+00:00

Seggs

Peacesquad · 2023-10-20T18:18:14+00:00

Don’t get married fellas. Akbar in this bitch I’m yelling out “ITS A TRAP!!”

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-20T18:22:53+00:00

I believe everyone that tells incels to "just shower and treat women like people" should go to a social event with a below average man just to see how badly they are treated and ignored, even if they try and have confidence and all the r-tarded platitudes bloops like to put on them.

RahLyt · 2023-10-20T18:30:25+00:00

Someone please explain patriarchy to me? What is it? Who controls it? Who benefits from it? Who does it hurt? What's is the propagation method? The only thing I know it hurts men too and if I let my hair grow a beat more I'm fighting against it.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-20T18:31:59+00:00

Still can’t believe I won’t $2k on FanDuel last night. I fell asleep during the game too lmao saints suck

supremethrone · 2023-10-20T18:34:27+00:00

Had a girl compliment my haircut, but my autism kicked in and I just pretended I didn't hear it and walked away awkwardly

Peacesquad · 2023-10-20T18:34:28+00:00

Just get a haircut you asswhole. Ugh WOMEN ARE THE LEADERS FUCK MEN UGH!!!

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-20T18:36:19+00:00

Just read a post under "AITAH" about a guy seeing a girl for 3 months without sex, and she unprompted shared with him how she enjoyed having random one night stands and fWbs.

What. a. sucker. LOL, i couldn't help but laugh/cry.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-20T18:48:12+00:00

I never understand these “Patriarchy is fake” topics being brought up. It doesnt make a person look educated when they say this. Though…..Im having a theory that I try not to say but it seems to be the case.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-20T18:50:27+00:00

Look at these two pictures:

1.) https://media.istockphoto.com/id/1171099345/photo/male-college-student-in-shared-house-bedroom-studying-sitting-at-desk.jpg

2.) https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/male-university-student-library-bored-reading-studying-exam-44951744.jpg

I don't know how to put this into words, but I will try my best. Something I notice about a lot of guys who say they struggle with women tend to dress like the first guy. Sure, they're thin, they're showered, they're wearing clean clothes, but there is nothing interesting about them. I call this the NPC style.

The second guy however is wearing a lot of visually interesting clothes. He is wearing a jean type button up with mother of pearl looking buttons, a blue knit hoodie with bold white strings, he has his hair grown out on top and is styled meticulously, despite not being able to get full beard coverage he grows out what he can and trims it short to accentuate his features. He is even wearing ear rings.

This is the importance of dressing for the female gaze. Both of these guys, if you took everything away from them, would look pretty similar, but once you add these style elements, it makes a huge difference.

So many guys fail to understand this and will just dress like nothing but thing they are well groomed because they don't smell bad.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-20T19:13:48+00:00

Wanting a woman who is not fat, who has a healthy (19-21) BMI, is not a high standard.

Even though most women are chubby or fat, it's not a comparative standard. What matters is how easy it is for a woman to individually meet the standard. It's objectively easy to be at a healthy BMI, so it's a low standard.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T19:17:02+00:00

"The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP"

Welcome to PPD

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-20T19:18:03+00:00

"Women don't think special treatment as equality lmao"

They actually do though, a master's thesis written by Amy Yeung in 2012 sought to examine people's perceptions of hostile and benevolent sexism.

It found that men who did not display "benevolent sexism" but rather treated women equally, were perceived to be more sexist, less supportive of female professionals, less of a good father and husband and more likely to perpetuate domestic violence.

Ratings of men with low benevolent sexism were considered equal to men with a high amount of hostile sexism.

The implication is as follows, that many laypeople have the perception that women should be given special treatment and they perceive hostile sexism in the absence of benevolent sexism.

In simpler terms, women view people treating them the same as they treat men, i.e. actual equality, as mistreatment, hostility and sexism.

https://uwspace.uwaterloo.ca/handle/10012/13207

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T19:28:16+00:00

This place is more bitter on Friday nights than it is usually. I wonder why.

afk_row · 2023-10-20T19:29:08+00:00

Peak ppd female moment: if you disagree with me you are stupid and not educated.

Do better

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T19:37:08+00:00

Why do women dress up for men ?

They should do it for THEMSELVES

bring back female empowerment 😫😫

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-20T19:43:05+00:00

Husband got a haircut. I’ve been trying to sell it for years, because it’s something I’ve liked on men since I was 12. One of his favorite athletes has it, my husband noticed that he has similar facial features, and finally gave in. I’ve been adoring him for hours, finally had to send him to another room.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-20T19:45:04+00:00

Today am gonna be watching Jujutsu Kaisen season 2

Can't wait to see that man Gojo

Infinite_Signal90 · 2023-10-20T19:51:01+00:00

Who was the hottest woman of the 90s?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-20T23:40:25+00:00

tiktok.com/ZMjVtHbGR/

AFBB

Willowgirl2 · 2023-10-21T00:47:12+00:00

They are both on my side! That's what makes it funny. But they each think the other is trying to do me in.

I just smile, nod and thank them for telling me.

I lowkey hate working with other people, lol.

It's not just the fact they're women either--the two maintenance men dislike each other and play petty games too. Sigh

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-21T11:07:42+00:00

Tired of Boys' Behavior : Teachers (reddit.com)

Thoughts?

hannahg000 · 2023-10-21T11:37:18+00:00

🚨news alert🚨

johnny autism is back with a new post. but it’s a post about looks so i’m not sure that it will stick around

saulbasedman · 2023-10-21T11:43:15+00:00

Christian Bale looked so damn attractive in American Psycho. Wish my jawline was as sharp as his. He always looks so sophisticated, which I guess they were going for because of his role. Meanwhile my ass looks like gay Luis with brown hair.

And yes, you may know make your high school "Bro but you sound gay!" jokes.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-21T12:26:09+00:00

"Look, the one time I slept with a guy on the first date, he called me a slut. So if I don't want to be called a slut, I have to wait.

In the meantime, you have a FWB and you have fun with him and it doesn't matter what he thinks of you because after all he's no better no worse and he's not the guy whose opinion you care about. Doesn't that make sense?"

Nope. Sorry lady, but if I'm the guy "dating" you and you are making me wait, this is straight up betrayal. While I am taking you out and wining and dining you, once I get you home safely you are calling up your booty call.

It is not a compliment that you aren't sleeping with me because you value my opinion of you, when you are fucking other men who you supposedly care less about.

Either communicate beforehand that you aren't going to be exclusive so I can get the fuck out of this situation or wait to have sex the same as I am doing.

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-10-21T12:28:49+00:00

If we are being concerned about certainty regarding paternity test then technically we need to address that some women also don’t have 100% certainty that the baby is theirs. They are only 100% certain that they had a baby and left the hospital with a baby. There’s a small chance the hospital made a mistake and mixed up the various newborns that were delivered that day and could have switched them.

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T13:02:49+00:00

I n33d to clean my room omg

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T13:05:59+00:00

I KEEP GETTING DANDRUFF PICKING VIDEOS ON MY FYP

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T13:09:55+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8kLR63U/

Apple is really peak because I literally copied this link from my phone and pasted it with my laptop

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-21T13:23:52+00:00

Drunk reddit post from SpecialistAction33....

My wife has pissed me off. I might fuck her friend out of spite...

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T13:35:18+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8kLgxaC/

I cant this is legit how millenials act 💀 who let them cook

monster_lily · 2023-10-21T13:39:02+00:00

I knew a guy like this. He seemed super super dumb but he was actually smart. Like you would tell him something and he would start giggling for no reason he acted like he was high. How does that work

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-21T14:03:48+00:00

Steven Crowder talks about how going through his divorce has put him off to ever being married again. Says he still believes marriage is important and the nucleus of a society. He feels for men that have been hit hard and had their lives upended by divorce

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-21T14:09:11+00:00

Hinge is apparently hiding the heights of shorter men. The heightism on dating apps is getting out of control

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-21T14:20:17+00:00

It's kind of insane how simce blue pilled rhetoric has been proven to not hold up to reality, PPD has slowly been enforcing more rules to uphold blue pill thinking.

"No more talk about how looks affect dating prosepcts".

Really jannies? Basic reality is incel content and against the rules now?

Changing the sub name to BluePillNoDebate when?

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-10-21T14:22:38+00:00

You always hear that men outnumber women on dating apps.

One thing I've noticed is that men cast a wide net in multiple ways, all my friends have all the apps and the women I know just have their one app whether it's hinge or bumble, they get more than enough matches on the one app so they don't feel the need to have accounts on multiple apps.

Could this be the reason why men "outnumber" women on the apps?

One man can have like 5 accounts on 5 apps. A woman will only have 1 account on 1 app.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-21T14:34:46+00:00

https://twitter.com/imbethmccoll/status/1228459983064436736

Unemployed guys fuck the most in my experience. They have the time.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-21T14:36:20+00:00

that r/teachers thread was a bunch of female teachers trying to solve a boy problem but any man that comes up and offers insight to the male mind and a solution gets downvoted.

these people are teaching your sons btw.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-21T14:37:08+00:00

This right here is why men will gladly fuck down. To women like this, a man on her level is actually beneath her. Her ego has been inflated so much that she believes the expensive make up she chooses to buy means that a man must spend a minimum of $200 on a date. She is prostituting herself without realizing it

saraimarsena · 2023-10-21T14:43:42+00:00

i am a bit confused by the new moratorium rule honestly.

TigerRude4 · 2023-10-21T14:46:58+00:00

Moratorium rule is dumb even for ppd mods standards.

Just_Natural_9027 · 2023-10-21T14:53:38+00:00

What's always shocked me is how upset people get at other's preferences. I come from a research based background so this place is fascinating. People aren't consciously choosing who they find attractive a lot of that is our biological desires. Perfect example is that OkCupid graph it clearly illustrates the Halo Effect. That people we find attractive we often put good personality traits on. You see this on weight loss subs too people are always amazed how much better they are treated once they lose weight.

All you can really do is learn the cues that the other group finds desirable and try to optimize for that. Getting mad at others preferences seems like a waste of time from a simple common sense POV. There is way too much emotion directed at things out of your control.

4SSh01e · 2023-10-21T14:55:59+00:00

I first watched this video on Youtube. https://twitter.com/i/status/1664875967993597953

Either she's a liar or a complete retard. I would wager my bet on being a liar. Imagine passing up on a guy who if you believe her is "extremely hot", "kind", "grateful", "nice" and "sweet" because she will be taller than him when she wears heels.

Now if you think about it, how inconsequential and irrelevant the heels are in a person's life, how little time you actually spend wearing heels AND being together, how profoundly your choice of partner affects your life, how you wouldn't die if you wore slightly less high heel, or if you towered your man artificially.

And you are passing up on a man because of that then how is it not completely retarded at best or a bold faced lie at worst?

I mean if I come across a woman who I think is extremely attractive and amazing person and for some weird reason I will have to let go of any specific category of clothing/footwear/accessory to be with her, I would consider it an inconsequential price to pay to be with a person I really like.

Props to the guy that he didn't try to convince her at all and saw right through her bullshit.

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