Daily Community Chat Megathread

Maffioze · 2023-11-22T22:11:43+00:00

Next week we might have our first snowfall of winter. Reminded me of this song that I think perfectly describes the vibe of snow.

https://youtu.be/mDIqaGjdE-4?si=rpvnYxD7Ar9u2-nx

keebydee · 2023-11-22T21:20:32+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cy-LjTpMeTK/?igshid=ZWI2YzEzYmMxYg==

Reels like this just piss me off, not even sad anymore. Would've been nice to have someone look past my disorders, love and help me out. Not that I needed someone to come save me or some shit like that, I helped myself just fine alone but it would've been nice.

Only if you're deemed attractive are you worthy to be loved and helped by others even if you come with bullshit like being an ex-con and an addict with a mental illness.

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-11-22T21:14:27+00:00

goplex

C'mon. Winner gets their dick sucked.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-22T20:53:55+00:00

Most of the people I know making really big amounts of money (7 figures plus) are absolute assholes. There’s a reason they have so much money and it’s not because they’re good people

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-11-22T20:53:15+00:00

Women: aww you can't get your peepee wet when you want to. It's just sex. Male sexlessness is not important or a real social issue

Also women: you're a low status virgin incel loser if you can't get sex. there is something wrong with you

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T20:46:31+00:00

U guys should play wikigames its rly fun u basically Jump thru wikipedia to get from one topic to another. Like mine was electric power transmission to seinfeld. And as u can see im in first place

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scwizard · 2023-11-22T20:41:14+00:00

Sorry man. I went through my (then) gf's phone last year, 3 days before I'd planned to propose, and I found two guys in her dms that she'd recently slept with.

I'm married to her now, and although I'm generally happy and without regret, I secretly get deeply sad about that on my own every day.

Alpha fucks beta cucks.

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T20:32:34+00:00

Am i weird or do other ppl not like doing makeup if theyre just staying home, like these days i dont rly wear makeup unless i go outside. Part of it is cuz i hate when my parents see and theyre like What did you put on your face 🫵🤣😹 every single time. Its so embarrassing

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-22T20:29:29+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxJe1Y9vPQn/?igshid=NTYzOWQzNmJjMA==

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-22T20:28:19+00:00

Bro, YouTube wants to 'save' young men from the red pill but has no problem giving a platform to music that promotes violence, drugs and degeneracy.

https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/17yzqos/pearly_thingz_fresh_n_fit_demonitized_on_youtube/

And the betas cheer on, f*cking NPCs

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T20:24:39+00:00

Something Is changing in me cuz i dont even really like candy anymore. I had a lolli pop yesterday it was too sweet it was disgusting 🤮 and i threw it away which is SO out of character bc i love candy Tbhhh

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T20:20:54+00:00

Guys just applied at chic fil a

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-22T20:14:09+00:00

Bro, she got alpha widowed-->

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/180msnl/have_you_ever_met_that_one_guy_that_just/

Slipthe · 2023-11-22T20:11:09+00:00

I need to work on my support skills.

Whenever someone has a problem, the only thing I do is offer solutions. I am very bad at encouragement, especially feigned enthusiasm. But when people are angry or depressed, I do not know what to say or how to act to make them feel better.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-11-22T20:10:32+00:00

Canada attacks USA, there’s now a causi belli for day of the rake 🇨🇦👉🗑

exponentialtaxi · 2023-11-22T20:10:00+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/s/Q8KNfZ9bUo

I'm flabbergasted that 90% of comments are saying this is ok and he should let it go 😳

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-11-22T20:09:45+00:00

Star wars is a dead franchise at the moment. This is good news in a way that the next generation of masculine males will not obsess over Stars wars' dumb alien characters, SJW tropes or the micro transaction heavy videogames.

Thank God.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-22T19:54:44+00:00

Q4guitarplayers:

How long did it take you to learn how to play the F chord solidly? I've been able to learn the other beginner chords pretty quickly, but this one is so difficult. I think I should've gone to the doctor when I fucked up my finger as a teenager. It feels odd.

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T19:47:08+00:00

Guyss im going ice skating for the veryy first time today w my friend so excited But i have to ask my older sister to send me money in exchange for real cash 😢 cz it costs $34 and ive asked my mom for money 3 times in the past 3 days i dont like it it makes me feel like a horrible daughter

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T19:44:24+00:00

ALL my fucking moneyy is Gone after i went grocery shopping 😢 Like dead have $15 in my acccc I cant hide from joblessness anymorree

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-22T19:20:07+00:00

Would taking a maiden (23F) to a Korean bakery be a bad idea for a first date? There’s this maiden I’ve been talking to from my major who agreed to hang out with me. I told her I wanted to take her out on a date and she agreed. There is a nice korean bakery I was thinking of taking her to.

The stuff they make is really good while not too pricey, and there is an abundance of female staff there so I think it wouldn’t be a bad idea as in case the date goes south she’ll be surrounded by her fellow women which might make her feel more comfortable.

I plan on offering to pay for the date as I, quite frankly, am very excited and happy to be going on my first date in 3+ years with a women/maiden. If she wants to split though that’s fine.

Does this sound like a bad idea??

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-11-22T19:12:57+00:00

Ski bri (porn chick) talks about how her history negatively affected her relationship once things got serious.

Men on here say it all the time but y’all don’t listen, dudes will act chill to hit but nobody actually wants to commit to high body count ho’s

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-22T18:46:05+00:00

What pill are fuckboys? Most of these guys definitely don't match the description of chad and they really don't have any status. Most of these guys just lovebomb and cheat. Not really red pilled though. That is my problem with the red pill, it just doesn't exist to this extreme in the suburbs I grew up in.

scwizard · 2023-11-22T18:43:12+00:00

Would you date a stripper in her early 30s who's struggling financially these days due to the economy? She doesn't have children and doesn't want them. Her n count is some sex worker number, but I don't think she knows it because she's not so good with remembering things or numbers. She really likes video games, especially open world rpgs like Skyrim, as well as dungeons and dragons.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-22T18:40:49+00:00

Teezo uses the metaphor of “dogs” whilst paraphrasing the famous saying “Boys will be boys”, meaning that you can expect from boys a behavior peculiar to boys.

In the song’s context, Teezo alludes to staying out late at Delilah—the nightclub located at 7969 Santa Monica Blvd, West Hollywood, which Drake raps about throughout the track—and potentially hooking up with women other than his significant other.

Teezo asks his partner to metaphorically, and quite literally, “leave the door open” as if he were a dog so that he can return to her, as despite his urges to partake in fornication and other late-night activities with Drake and his homies, or “dogs,” he will forever belong to her.

Based

Treacle-Flimsy · 2023-11-22T18:26:54+00:00

Mods, I strongly advise you to hand out more month long ban because when you gave me one it basically proved to be nice experience overall

I guess I'm going to lay off the Reddit for a while

P.S. I'll probably come back at purge just to troll

scwizard · 2023-11-22T18:24:13+00:00

Question for single girls, if there are any.

What type of guy are you looking for? Especially in terms of the big things like age and religosity and kids from previous relationships and desire to have kids or not.

NoTea4448 · 2023-11-22T18:07:36+00:00

Q4W: Did you find your partner sexually attractive before getting to him? Or did you discover an a sense of attraction to him once you got to know him?

scwizard · 2023-11-22T18:00:27+00:00

A few months ago there was a guy who posted in AITAH (am I the a hole) asking for judgment from reddit because he dumped his girlfriend after she shared with him that she hooked up with a lot of random guys before him, but wanted to wait to have sex with him because she was so invested in the relationship she didn't want to rush into sex and screw it up. He was whining about how he was justified dumping her over this because it was so unfair she had sex with all those other guys so easily but she was making him wait for it. I was disgusted with this guy and expected a barrage of YTA (you're the a hole) posts. But of course, this is reddit, and it was actually thousands of comments and upvotes telling this guy he was in the right and this girl was the a hole for "withholding" sex from him. It was terrible to read and it made me so angry and sad.

I'm so mystified by this woman's inability to see this from the guy's point of view...

keebydee · 2023-11-22T17:55:55+00:00

I feel like the most brutal situation to be in as someone with no romantic experience is for a kid relative or something ask you for advice about relationships or stories about your dating history. In this situation, I definitely feel like I would be overwhelmed with embarrassing and try to play it off cool. Also the fact of being at this age with experience not being normal would sink in hard.

Proof that people subconsciously think being past 19 with no experience is not normal too.

-snickerss- · 2023-11-22T17:55:49+00:00

Do you believe dating apps are harming society?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-22T17:18:34+00:00

Dogs will be dogs

though we may roam

leave the door open

tonight I'm coming home

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-22T17:15:20+00:00

In the past year or so my libido has sky rocketed. It was ok before, but now I feel like a sex pest.

I'm 39, I wonder if this is my body's last call for fecundity. 🤔

ETA: I'm working the day before thanksgiving, half my team called off, all my clients are on PTO, so shit posting on PPD is where its at today.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-22T17:12:33+00:00

Getting pussy by lying or paying a prostitute or having to date way down is not the same as getting a good relationship, nor does it prove things aren't hyper-competitive.

I love that guy be telling on themselves that they’re actually talking about the below average guys but are in denial.

Trolinski222 · 2023-11-22T17:02:28+00:00

Test

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-22T17:01:16+00:00

are we still triggered by the phrase "toxic masculinity" here or have we reached a consensus on the definition and existence

Willow-girl · 2023-11-22T16:57:47+00:00

Hate to say it, but I'm afraid my cows might be racist. Imgur

Ohmaygahh · 2023-11-22T16:57:10+00:00

Q4M: After reexamining my swipe rules on Bumble, what are some of yours? I''ll share a few of mine:

Low effort (one photo up, no blue verification dot, all photos black and white, no bio, no work details or living in, originally from cities, different photos but all are her in the same pose) is instant left.
Stupid spellings to already established names, terribly old fashioned names, male names (Britttanie, Maude, Maureen, Traci, Toni, Chrissy)
Curious choice of photo permutations, (photos are all group shots. All women. All attractive except she's not/the least attractive in the group. <- I'm really curious about the mindset women think this is a good idea?, More than one of the same guy 1-1 in photos, power posing with a glamour shot background non ironically.
Low effort openers by women (simply Hi, or Hello.) instant left. 100% It's a waste of time.
Oversized sunnies in all images

What are some of your instant swipe left guys?

scwizard · 2023-11-22T16:53:20+00:00

Would you date a church woman who was in her 30s, who has a 6 year old daughter from her first husband, who died in a car crash, and who's just coming out of divorcing her second husband, who wasn't treating her right.

So she has an n count of 2, and doesn't believe in sex before marriage.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-22T16:33:07+00:00

I dont feel pain

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-22T16:32:21+00:00

I want to start volunteering but I’m not sure for what cause. Not with elderly or dying, that’s not for me. People say I would be good with teenagers but I’m not sure.

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-22T16:31:33+00:00

The necessity to wake up early to have sex before work reminds me of being teenagers. We used to fuck before our lectures so he'd wake up at 6 AM to come to my place.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-11-22T02:40:56+00:00

I'm surprised the phrase "it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" doesn't get mentioned here more.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-22T13:35:43+00:00

Redpillers/Blackpillers - "It's best to assume all women conform to their worst tendencies as a means of navigating sex/dating, AWALT!"

Women - "I'm going to assume all men are sexual predators until proven otherwise."

Redpillers/Blackpillers - "That's not fair!! You're generalising men!!"

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-22T15:46:56+00:00

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2023/11/22/marriage-polarization-dating-trump/

Good article. Most Gen Z liberal women don’t want Gen Z conservative men

armpitpics · 2023-11-22T00:06:27+00:00

Men hug their female friends because that's the closest thing to sex they can get from them at the moment.

I sit on my male friends' laps because that's the closest thing to sitting on their faces I can get at the moment.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-11-22T12:41:48+00:00

I'm not Blackpill. I believe that in the right environment, women could find a very high percentage of men sufficiently attractive to start considering other qualities,
But the more I think about it, the more I believe that the absolute (not relative) qualities of today's men simply put them below the minimum, primarily biological, female threshold for when sexual repulsion turns into desire.

Obesity, internet-derived pseudo autism, and a general unmanly softness render so many men just repulsive in the eye's of women's basic biology. And those eyes are somewhat merciless in the sense that women's own standards only scale down so far: It doesn't matter if she is just as obese. It doesn't matter if her own social skills are just as lacking. It doesn't matter if the state of men is not necessarily men's fault.

In such conditions, even the most based women will just say 'Well, I'm no better. I may not be able to ever get a guy better than you, either. But since the thought of being under you makes me nauseous, I'm gonna just have to stay single. No slight to you intended. Just is what it is.'

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-21T22:27:38+00:00

A Russian man who killed 4 teens got released from the prison because he agreed to participate in the war. He returned from the war now and just...lives his life.

I'm not sure how to comment it.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-11-22T15:41:21+00:00

This morning while I was in the middle of camel pose my husband walked up and put his dick in my mouth.

10/10 foreplay.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-22T15:55:20+00:00

Guy who is a 10: desirable Guy who is a 9: acceptable Guy who is an 8: debatable Guy who is a 7: meh...let's see the wallet Guy who is a 6: less than desirable Guy who is a 5: creepy Guy who is a 4: creepy Guy who is a 3: creepy Guy who is a 2: creepy Guy who is a 1: REALLY creepy

sine120 · 2023-11-21T22:47:33+00:00

Legally Blonde >> Barbie Movie

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-22T03:44:19+00:00

This religious “spice your marriage” guide is sad.

Lots of things are just being kind and present for your partner and I’m not sure how praying is supposed to spice things up. I get that if you got married before experiencing any physical intimacy, you might need some guidance there…but I’d be concerned if my partner needed a guide like that for pretty basic things.

hannahg000 · 2023-11-22T04:04:43+00:00

i wish i didn’t worry so much about how i am perceived. i can’t even send an email without ensuring that my wording isn’t coming across as too harsh or direct. it’s like i have an audience in my head judging everything i do

dbz__f · 2023-11-21T23:28:26+00:00

Women would you rather

A.

Husband/bf who gets loads of attention from other girls when you go out but he pushes them away and has no interest in them and only eyes for you

OR

B.

husband/bf who gets NO attention from other girls

Pretty_Drop4577 · 2023-11-21T23:54:30+00:00

The blaxk pill gets proven right every day. This dude has no status, and his net worth is measured in cigarettes and honey buns, but he still has women drooling over him. He’s also a murderer, lol.

Luciansleep · 2023-11-22T00:40:09+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately and being short as a dude is pretty exhausting.

I have to pretty much go above and beyond on everything just to get normal relationships. I’ve seen fat, unkempt but tall men having it a bit easier and it’s honest a bit depressing.

I guess it’s another reason on why I haven’t wanted to date in almost 6 months now.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-22T00:41:35+00:00

bl*ckpill dating advice is kind of wholesome in a way, don't you think?

other advice: change the kind of person you are on the inside. you are unattractive on the inside.

bl*ckpill: change the kind of person you are on the outside. your inside character is fine.

dbz__f · 2023-11-22T02:58:59+00:00

The responses to my question about women flirting with your husband are so blackpilly.

Literally no guy would like it if random guys flirted with his missus, but apparently all women prefer it if women flirt with their guy.

Don’t ever say that men and women are the same again

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-22T04:06:04+00:00

Some of the customers at my job only speak Spanish, so they speak to me in Spanish and I respond in English and somehow we understand each other. It’s pretty neat.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-22T07:23:35+00:00

Betabuxx is law.

https://www.tiktok.com/@whydontyoubitchaboutit/video/7297749568295390506?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7304181746093622816

dbz__f · 2023-11-22T08:49:19+00:00

Women be like “lmao he has a relatively mild/common fetish? He’s so porn addicted! Porn isn’t realistic!!!”

Also women: “lmao you had missionary sex? You’re basically a virgin. What do you mean you don’t go full fifty shades of grey every night with chains and handcuffs”

dishonouronmycow · 2023-11-22T14:17:50+00:00

Period hormones make zero sense why am I crying at a tiny ceramic cat he’s just a cool guy

https://preview.redd.it/da22sui9rw1c1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0118c34672865462be33602e4a0268f5c8c32a7a

ratboi34 · 2023-11-22T16:06:35+00:00

I'm deleting tiktok now, because I need to invest that time into fixing my life and learning how to crochet. I hope my brain will heal from 2 months on this demonic app. My attention span is fucked, but now I know all the zoomer trends. Any recommendations for what I could crochet first?

caption291 · 2023-11-21T22:08:23+00:00

I'd just like to say goodbye to 90% of the female posters on here before they are banned.

"3.No Contentless Rhetoric"

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-21T22:13:49+00:00

Have you ever really stopped to think that starting a family is not really your thing? Like have ever looked at your father and thought this fatherhood thing is not really your thing?

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-21T22:36:06+00:00

Would you rather be an incel with a cushy life in a first world country, or have a rich, rewarding love life as a poor person in a third world country with terrible infrastructure and social unrest?

md8716 · 2023-11-21T22:53:50+00:00

One thing I've noticed over the years in this sub is how often both men and women will suffer from a weird sexual just world fallacy. Like if you make any sort of comment not enthusiastically supporting a sex-positive modern progressive yass queen slay feminist narrative like discussing n-counts, dealbreakers, or generally any sort of standard at all they don't agree with, they will act like you'll be forever alone. At least, that's what I've seen over and over again.

Ok, for example, sometimes I say that tattoos and piercings are a dealbreaker for me. Or that I won't mess with a girl who shows her body on social media. Or that I won't accept beyond a certain n-count. Why? Doesn't matter why, or how well I explain, because the responses are inevitably that: 1) I'm a virgin/incel, and 2) I will die alone.

Now let's break this down. Why is the first inclination always to insult their ability to get sex? Ad hominem fallacy. They also suffer from a just world fallacy, that the world will justifiably punish any men who don't agree to their worldview with a lack of sex.

Throw in a projection fallacy, where they believe that all other women think the way they do (because that validates their way of thinking as "normal" -- when in reality it's simply normalization of deviance). And then to round it out, sometimes they insist that only some ultra-conservative religious prude would fit that criteria. Bam, No True Scotsman fallacy.

rip-rap-roni · 2023-11-21T23:42:21+00:00

Every rich guy I know likes Formula 1 for some reason. So I guess if you're trying to marry rich that's one thing you should look for.

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-21T23:47:37+00:00

If I had a nickel for everytime a male friend told me he had feelings for me by going

“I have a crush on someone….you know her REALLY well”

I’d have 10 cents

keebydee · 2023-11-22T00:17:10+00:00

I told my mother recently about how I was sitting alone at lunch in school for years. Reason was I'm pretty sure no one is interested in talking to (at the time) a mute the entire lunch period having a boring one-sided conversation. I sat alone for as long as like K - 9th grade. She asked me how come I never told her before and that she would've done something.

I never said anything because I thought it was embarrassing to say that I'm sitting by myself at lunch everyday, basically just listening to people's conversations. But I'm actually glad that I never told her. Last thing I would've wanted was for her is to talk to some teacher and now I got some fake buddy whose been ordered to talk to me.

Fuck that man, I want to be around me because they want to not because of some order from a teacher. I fucking hate people talking to me out of pity or some teacher ordered buddy.

Sad_Top1743 · 2023-11-22T00:38:50+00:00

feminists dream of what men are attracted too lol

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-22T02:01:14+00:00

Why the fuck is food so expensive? I'm spending like 10$ on lunch every day.

meteorness123 · 2023-11-22T02:31:32+00:00

Let's say you come to the conclusion that random sex isn't good for women. You now struggle with the idea of having sex "just for fun". Especially knowing most men after you will probably not compare.

What do you do/ How would you solve this as a man?

bossman146 · 2023-11-22T02:39:51+00:00

Is it me or are less women using the “there’s someone for everybody, I see x guys all the time with wives/girlfriends” narrative. I’ve noticed more “What’s wrong with having preferences? Deal with it” kinda responses. I guess men have always been more upfront about their preferences and now the ladies are returning the favor. After all, everyone is entitled to having standards

Jasontheperson · 2023-11-22T03:19:29+00:00

Man, the nazis are really coming out of the woodwork to support Elon huh? It's crazy watching him run that app into the ground.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-11-22T04:17:09+00:00

My friend has no chin but pulls baddies because he’s funny. Guys, be funny

Blocksplain · 2023-11-22T04:40:06+00:00

Broke it off with a woman who believes so strongly that we shouldn't have to make any effort around each other to do anything, it's just the "spark" that might turn her into an affectionate person instead of a frigid reptile. That neither of us should have to "try" for anything to happen. Go eat some bricks, lady.

keebydee · 2023-11-22T07:22:14+00:00

I just got a random urge to be spooning with someone. I wish I had a GF so I could be the little spoon. Sleeping alone is getting old. 😪

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-22T07:36:52+00:00

Does anyone who believes women aren't as picky about looks as some men here make them out to be, have examples of women actually liking unconventional features in men? Like many men like women that are fat or women that are tall. But I have literally only seen like a handful of women say they like fat guy or short(or even average height) guys lol

Ok-Coat7665 · 2023-11-22T08:39:30+00:00

I think I have the most adorable, charismatic, photogenic snake in the whole world. He’s so cute and animated and friendly, always wiggling around and posing for me to take pictures. He’s a little star.

leosandlattes · 2023-11-22T15:44:23+00:00

I started collecting rare handbags with the intention of reselling them for more money, but now I don’t want to let go of them 😭😅 I don’t even use them - they’re on display in my office. What do I dooooo

leosandlattes · 2023-11-22T15:52:17+00:00

And also, good morning to everyone who:

Graduated early or very late from college
Lives in a place that receives regular snowfall
Wears glasses or contacts, or
Has ever been prescribed amphetamines

4SSh01e · 2023-11-22T22:22:56+00:00

Browsing /r/hingeapp and look at the profiles of people posting for critical reviews is kinda fun. Half of the time people are nitpicking things about profiles while ignoring the plain truth in the open, the poster is simply not an attractive prospect, it is often guys who exhibit low amount of sexual dimorphism.

I really believe that while acting all macho can be a turn off, still, a certain amount of male-female polarity has to be there for sexual attraction and for men it starts with building muscle, losing fat, and dressing well. Unless you have done that, you don't get to complain about anything else.

rutbb · 2023-11-21T22:55:35+00:00

How can one work on being interesting to girls? Like when a girl says she talked to a guy for hours and was interested in him the whole time. I haven't had many crazy experiences or anything and I tend to be more of a homebody, so I have no idea how I could go about making a woman feel anything when talking to her.

its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T23:04:23+00:00

I have green eyes cus I'm toxic

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-11-22T01:36:16+00:00

I almost didn’t swipe on a guy because he had a drink in his hand in ALL TWELVE of his profile pics and most do the pics on his insta.

Actually upon second thought the alcoholism radar was going off.

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-11-22T03:49:28+00:00

I read a study recently that trans men are starting to catch up in terms of numbers to trans women supposedly. So my question is just… where are they? I’ve met loads of trans women, but I think I’ve only met one or two trans men in my life. Is it just me? Are they just better at passing?

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-22T03:51:02+00:00

In most relationships the man will find the woman more attractive than the other way round because of the difference in the range of features and body types that men and women are attracted to

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-22T03:52:47+00:00

Would anyone here name their kid Seven? George Costanza thinks Seven is a good name.

JDWhiz96 · 2023-11-22T04:19:58+00:00

I know they ain't the best live, but I'll be damned if I don't like me some good Nickelback. Man, listening to them takes me back.

CalmNeedleworker3100 · 2023-11-22T05:26:13+00:00

I was walking my dog in the neighborhood and saw a girl walking 2 dogs while looking at her phone, kinda weird. Is this something that girls do more than guys, walking while looking at their phone?

EulenWatcher · 2023-11-22T05:27:34+00:00

“5-10 minutes of sex in exchange of me putting roof over her head”.

Oh well. Maybe if he didn’t view sex as 5 minutes activity, his wife would be more willing to have it. What are 5 minutes? That’s not even foreplay.

No_Ask_2241 · 2023-11-22T05:47:11+00:00

I feel like I am becoming much more open to paying for sex now. Guess it's cause I wanna have sex atleast once

keebydee · 2023-11-22T06:09:10+00:00

At what age would you say it becomes "weird" that a person never had their first kiss and a relationship? I usually seen this question asked for virginity but never something like a first kiss.

Many_Dragonfly4154 · 2023-11-22T08:14:55+00:00

Q4M: You are 30 years old, a virgin, never kissed a girl, never even held hands with a girl. How many hookers would it take to make up for your lost years?

Maffioze · 2023-11-22T09:36:15+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/180geqh/the_field_of_psychology_has_become_totally/

Based opinion.

Katatonicsnake · 2023-11-22T12:42:52+00:00

I read a news article about the lack of sperm donors, and apparently in European Union, they can’t tell you the level of education the donor has completed (because sperm banks are not allowed to store that information), but they tell you his eye color. Odd priorities.

scwizard · 2023-11-22T15:37:57+00:00

I know there’s probably 1000 of these but I am just losing my mind. He blew through 30k in 3 months then lost his job. And instead of using the last of the money to pay rent, he bought a fucking boat.

He’s in CDL school and we are on unemployment. I watch the baby. I also cook, clean, etc. he mostly works out at home, plays COD & watches TikTok when not in school. I managed to get us rental assistance for a month + CAP for utilities. I worked out payment plans for the car note and other bills. He can’t be bothered to clean one thing or help out at all!! Wait bc he does clean up the dog’s poop. I however, feed her everyday.. make sure she has food and we have groceries. I keep track of EVERYTHING. I do laundry, dishes, organizing, everything!!! He can’t budget money. He buys liquor and cigarettes and beer nearly everyday and we are now $1000 behind in rent. With more rent due on the 1st.

Why is this such a common story? What is it about hobosexuals that make women want to have a kid with them?

FuuraKafu · 2023-11-22T16:07:39+00:00

Since insecurity, especially dating related insecurity itself is a huge turnoff for women, when they see a man went, it's really really difficult for them to not see it as like deliberate self-sabotage. Like the man is actively making himself more unattractive right then and there. It's so difficult for women to get past that.

Imagine if a woman talking about societal pressures would get physically fatter and fatter with every spoken word. I too would be like "Come on! Do you have to?"

Anti_Thing · 2023-11-22T16:08:12+00:00

I'm a 26 year old man who's never been in a relationship. I'm only interested in women who share my values & life goals (devout Christian, believes that sex outside of marriage is immoral, is willing to get married & have kids soon, &c.). I've met numerous women over the years whom I probably had a chance with, but refused to start anything with them because they didn't meet my high standards for the woman I want to make a Christian family with.

How much do you think my lack of experience hurts my chances? On the one hand, the type of women I'm compatible with appreciate a marriage-oriented virgin man. On the other hand, such lack of experience at such an advanced age seems to be inherently unattractive to women (at least according to many on PPD.)

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its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T22:00:51+00:00

keebydee · 2023-11-21T22:22:46+00:00

Who else thought women peed through their butts as a kid? 😂

its-probly-over · 2023-11-21T22:33:16+00:00

When i was in my early teenage years i had a girlfriend in school she had this oral B minty nose thing that you smell to clear your nose. After school i came round her house and she wanted to see how it would feel like to have that small thing shoved into her. Yea she was itchy and walking funny until the end of next day lol. Cant believe it now but was so dumb back then.

BasedRetainer · 2023-11-21T22:38:51+00:00

Is being skinny worse than being overweight (not fat) for men?

I (20m) am 130lbs at 5'11, I would say I'm quite athletic (ran a marathon, go to the gym, ~12%bf) yet I get absolutely 0 interest from women.

Guys that are on the high end of healthy/low end of overweight (not talking about obese people, more like 170-200lbs at 5'11) seem to get a lot more interest from girls, even if they're not nearly as athletic.

Basically, is it better to be heavy/overweight as a guy than skinny?

anonymous375555 · 2023-11-21T22:44:28+00:00

So today I was over watching an exam and one of the men was accused of cheating and his paper was taken, well, usually I am cold hearted bitch when it comes to these things but the young seemed like he was about to start crying and I must say that affected me a bit.

And it got me thinking, is there a difference between seeing a man crying vs watching a woman crying , because I think men affect me more.

CompetitiveTennis112 · 2023-11-21T23:09:03+00:00

black friday deals what are you buying

I'm still trying to figure out which PC monitor on Amazon is the best get

hungrychick404 · 2023-11-21T23:12:28+00:00

I’d rather be ignored than used

Maffioze · 2023-11-21T23:23:27+00:00

Today I randomly saw my ex on social media. I was glad to see she's okay even though she abused me for years. I don't understand why a lot other people seem to permanently remain bitter about their exes even when they weren't abusive. It's pointless.

monster_lily · 2023-11-21T23:28:52+00:00

I swear if i liked girls she would 10000000000000% be my type like i dont know what it is about her i love her style personality EVERYTHING she is sooo intimidating like idk Im just in love with her. I love her i love her i love her. I want her style but it wouldnt look good on me cz u have to have an aura where u kinda scare ppl and have masculine energy

https://preview.redd.it/3ddo1m3fcs1c1.png?width=600&format=png&auto=webp&s=c489fa67b69c27028faa0186d8db8394ae7c2d18

saraimarsena · 2023-11-21T23:38:56+00:00

man, i hate it when people ask me to “open up” and “talk about what i’m thinking” for self serving reasons.

when it’s like some ego stroke for them, or some mangled attempt at closeness, but i can tell when they aren’t actually engaged or caring about what i’ve said. or they just turn around and judge me for it?

like hello if you aren’t even gonna be a good listener i’d rather not open up to you in the first place. you’re not trying to make me feel better, you’re doing it for yourself.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-11-22T01:31:16+00:00

Back to the gym - I hope I get to the point where I enjoy it. I kind of hate it at the moment.

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T01:48:24+00:00

How do u tell if someone has done drugs Like i just went on someones live on tt and i think they are tweaking like genuinely

adelaidemonkie · 2023-11-22T02:11:03+00:00

My relatives are visiting for Thanksgiving. Some of them were going to stay at an AirBnB for a couple nights, but they canceled so now they’re staying with us. I’m so pissed. My boyfriend was going to spend the night, but now I’m going to get kicked out of my room, and I don’t exactly feel like sleeping on the living room floor with my boyfriend while my old relatives get up at the ass crack of dawn.

social_mule · 2023-11-22T02:54:29+00:00

PSA: If you typed a post then removed the words like and literally from your post it would actually be more impactful.

You can thank me later.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-11-22T03:13:37+00:00

What is the corniest thing you have ever done

exponentialtaxi · 2023-11-22T05:53:12+00:00

Q4W: is gyno a guy? How do you feel about it?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-11-22T07:01:33+00:00

I feel kinda bad now

keebydee · 2023-11-22T07:54:23+00:00

Girls on me like an eebler Sucking on that dick like Keebler Snacking on the snack, I'm Welch's After I'm done eating, I'm belchin'

ratboi34 · 2023-11-22T08:12:00+00:00

Being judgemental is such a turn off. I remember being into this really pretty 27 yo chick, that looked like 20 and talking to her at a party. Then we started talking to other people and I overheard her saying how it's disgusting when people have more than 3 sexual partners in their life, to a big group of people. That made some of the chicks look uncomfortable lol. Like obviously hoes are undesirable to most men, but being judgemental like that is embarassing. Only I am allowed to be judgemental. You need to be a girl's girl and not judgemental feminist, but live like a conservative.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2023-11-22T10:15:21+00:00

For those who believe that men can't get the ick, watch this video.

https://www.reddit.com/r/me_irl/s/dHhH7XCJNp

hannahg000 · 2023-11-22T13:26:44+00:00

everyone in my family thinks my youngest brother is going to end up taller than my other brother and it’s giving him a crisis lmao

its-probly-over · 2023-11-22T13:45:58+00:00

Just been Greggs

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T13:58:28+00:00

Do u eat turkey

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T14:00:42+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvPbn5y/

No legit hate this like why cant u just stay hot forever for ME

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T14:07:11+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvPDfPk/

Nooo but i legit miss playing roblox thoo

butagoodpersonality · 2023-11-22T14:16:13+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/iw0ywz9yqw1c1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=042f62404dbf2e61fede43fcc3933a143030e2fd

Do you think this couple is looksmatched?

itzReborn · 2023-11-22T14:28:59+00:00

Has anyone actually tried going to meet ups and has success actually meeting people? This advice is given often but idk part of me feels like it’s a waste of time

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-11-22T15:09:00+00:00

What I find interesting is seeing how many guys seem to be bad judge of character when it comes to women. It makes sense why they would think that they’re going after all types of women, because they’re not actually observing different factors in mind.

It’s funny watching guys chase after the female equivalent of bad boys, while claiming nice guys finish last.

ratboi34 · 2023-11-22T15:29:06+00:00

You can't escape the betabuxx.

https://www.tiktok.com/@katiepatersonxxx/video/7302913532784282912

https://www.tiktok.com/@jillianwinterroth/video/7154506011120962862

https://www.tiktok.com/@birdwatchingpodcast_/video/7161501856135400746

slackforce · 2023-11-22T15:38:09+00:00

People who bear their entire set of teeth while smiling are weird and annoying. The top lip naturally curls up so seeing the top set of teeth is perfectly normal. You have to make an effort to do the same with your bottom lip.

I've also only seen guys do this. I'm not one to bet against the home team but you guys need to stop doing that. You look stupid and you are stupid.

4SSh01e · 2023-11-22T15:50:22+00:00

Does anyone recall the name of this supermodel: https://imgur.com/a/ppAVPJ4

4SSh01e · 2023-11-22T15:55:50+00:00

So I live in a corridor (Swedish version of dorm hall, except we don't have roommates and have private bed and bathroom but share kitchen and living room with 8-10 people) and my girl-friend from the corridor asked another girl from the corridor if she could set me up with her friends and the other girl, who is a hardcore party girl straight up said, that while I will be good for her friends they won't be good for me. It was a low key burn and I laughed it off.

Peacesquad · 2023-11-22T15:56:49+00:00

Women don’t handle trauma like men do. Absolutely destroys them

scwizard · 2023-11-22T16:03:30+00:00

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/22/upshot/abortion-births-bans-states.html

Abortion bans have increased fertility, according to researchers.

shmupsy · 2023-11-22T20:35:17+00:00

Short people got no reason Short people got no reason Short people got no reason To live They got little hands And little eyes And they walk around Tellin' great big lies They got little noses And tiny little teeth They wear platform shoes On their nasty little feet Well, I don't want no short people Don't want no short people Don't want no short people 'Round here Short people are just the same As you and I (A fool such as I) All men are brothers Until the day they die (It's a wonderful world) Short people got nobody Short people got nobody Short people got nobody To love They got little baby legs And they stand so low You got to pick 'em up Just to say hello They got little cars That got beep, beep, beep They got little voices Goin' peep, peep, peep They got grubby little fingers And dirty little minds They're gonna get you every time Well, I don't want no short people Don't want no short people Don't want no short people 'Round here

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-11-22T21:10:33+00:00

https://buddyboardgames.com/yahtzee?room=UHVycGxlUGlsbERlYmF0ZQ==

MouthSandTeethTongue · 2023-11-22T22:11:51+00:00

https://buddyboardgames.com/yahtzee?room=U2NlbmljLWRlc2VydC04OQ==

leosandlattes · 2023-11-22T22:39:59+00:00

High maintenance girlies 🥰💁🏻‍♀️✨

scwizard · 2023-11-22T04:56:00+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/180qpew/how_to_break_the_stigma_of_being_brought_to_a/

You need to read between the lines, but you can tell she's really bottled up sexually, and when she was having her breakdown she was acting sexually inappropriate.

It's good she's back in touch with reality but she needs to confront the reality that the animal inside her that acted up wasn't a completely unrelated person but rather a part of her.

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T14:02:35+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvPCGwq/

So canadians rly sound like that

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T14:15:35+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPRvPXcy4/

Mee after ppl here started replying to their own posts

YuYuHakusho23 · 2023-11-22T14:34:22+00:00

Not gonna lie if someone ever referred to themselves as “cis” in front of me I would just start cracking tf up right in front of their face. I understand being politically correct as to not piss off people in the workforce but I don’t know why someone would refer to themselves as “cis” opposed to just saying they are straight.

Cis sounds too much like “sis” or “cyst” .

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T01:17:38+00:00

Its legit soooo cutre when a guy is nice to kids im watching a top boy again and Jamie boo 😍 is so sweeeeeet fcnukea;sbfnkueanbwcdfil'waesnipdcnwasp Like i cant

monster_lily · 2023-11-22T01:24:31+00:00

Nooo but i would be a great motherr

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