I constantly see posts complaining about how there are “no good men”, how “all men are trash” and how all they want is a guy who will make a minimal amount of effort. If you see a post on social media where chivalry or any sort of romantic gestures are mentioned, or any discussion about men doing basic chores or making even a minimum amount of effort, women will come out of the woodwork asking “wHeRe ArE tHeSe MeN aT” 🥴

Yet all I see are hoards of men falling flat on their face to get the attention of even the most average girls, many of these guys are good looking, successful, personable from good backgrounds.

Who are these abusuve, toxic men who cheat on them or simply don’t make enough effort? If you say it’s the 80/20 rule, that these are the good looking guys who they are describing I will tell you you’re wrong, I’ve seen countless attractive girls with average/ugly guys. In fact that’s the majority of the guys they choose. So if it’s them, 1. Why are they continually choosing toxic men who aren’t even attractive and 2. Where do these guys get the confidence to behave this way?