Daily Community Chat Megathread

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-21T19:46:18+00:00

Why do blue pillers hate the idea of SMV? Isn't it obvious that your dating success is down to your looks, money & status? Isn't it basic common sense?

DerayRevan · 2023-09-21T19:42:36+00:00

"Lebron James ain't clutch"

He doesn't to be clutch because he better than all the clutch players except Jordan

He also has the most buzzer beaters in play-off history

Goat James is just too good

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-09-21T19:39:16+00:00

Boychild keeps bringing up weight lifting to me, and he wants to start using my 5lbs weights.

Bless him; he'll most likely be a short king, but I'll make sure he's a physically fit one.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-21T19:36:53+00:00

Ah, the smell of food. It haunts me

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-21T19:27:52+00:00

The shut up ring is a tried and true method guys have been using for years to stall and buy time when a girl wants to get married but he don’t like or love her like THAT. I read a stat one day that said 20% of proposals never lead to weddings and I believe this plays a role.

Remember being “engaged” is nothing in the grand scheme of things. Y’all are still boyfriend and girlfriend

fiftypoundpuppy · 2023-09-21T19:23:12+00:00

Women commit to Billy Beta because we couldn't get commitment from Chad, and all Chad does is pump and dump us.

Meanwhile, the bar is on the floor for men in relationships because women only have relationships... with Chads?

Something isn't adding up here. How are we all in relationships with Chads when we can't get commitment from Chad? Chad can't be in more than one place at the same time. If women are complaining about the behavior of their co-habitating partners then obviously these guys cannot be Chads.

And yet... the answer is always, somehow, "because Chad."

Katatonicsnake · 2023-09-21T19:19:38+00:00

The best things about autumn are harvesting and gathering. I have ten liters of chanterelles to prepare tomorrow, I’ve invited friends and family over next week to eat everything mushroom related. I have berries and juices ready, unfortunately cranberries might not make it before that, it’s too warm. Every woman should eat cranberries!

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-09-21T19:15:31+00:00

One thing I am going to miss about college is being around a lot of attractive women my age (23). It's prob going to be awhile before I have any interactions with women again after this semester so I just have to enjoy the platonic, small talk interactions with them while it last.

Other then that my weight loss has been going good. 20 pounds down I am feeling great. I have noticed my confidence has gone up around women.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-21T19:04:24+00:00

How some men view sex workers is how I view the military and police

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-21T19:00:21+00:00

Some people brag about their partner to others constantly, some people talk shit about their partners non stop. But you know a relationship is absolutely fucked when someone doesn’t bring up their partner up in conversation at all. Not in a good way, not in a bad way; just nothing.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-09-21T18:59:57+00:00

Why is everyone so obsessed with bouldering? I get that inside it's a lower threshold to do as you don't need a partner or someone to climb with, but then these fuckers want to do it outside too. Outside bouldering sounds like more work than outside rock climbing so why would you not just rock climb which after all is a lot more fun.

Shakturi101 · 2023-09-21T18:55:59+00:00

When I hear a woman say “the bar is so low for men,” I instantly lose a decent amount of respect for them. That statement is legitimately the most delusional thing possible for someone to say unironically in the context of modern western dating.

I legitimately wonder if they’re serious, lying to themselves, lying to us, or living on a different planet or at the bottom of the ocean.

potoricco · 2023-09-21T18:39:51+00:00

I have a crush again finally

DerayRevan · 2023-09-21T18:27:25+00:00

One point l wanna make about this whole self-improvement movement, and just filled with the idea that once you self-improve, women are just gonna be throwing themselves at you

Guys should wake up and realize reality for what it is: self-improvement ain't gonna be your success with chicks, why ?

Because guys who are getting laid the most aren't self-improving. They aren't in the gym working out 2-4 hrs or trying to make double six figures or doing any of this crap the movement says you must do

Guys who are getting laid a lot of the times are just flat-out dums who can't take themselves financially or any aspects of their lives but they still get a ton of women despite their social status

That's just the reality of things, the self-improvement grift would work better if men just did all this things for themselves because that would give you an unreal amount of confidence to accept mediocrity behavior from women actually

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-21T18:26:15+00:00

Nothing highlights that males are disgusted by their own sexuality more than when a father has a dating age teen daughter. Suddenly they think all males are dangerous pervs and male sexuality is something that needs to be closely monitored and controlled. Oh nooowww you see how manipulative and maladjusted males can be. Now you believe women and want to protect them. How convenient.

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-21T18:19:15+00:00

If you think something is okay to pursue but you genuinely don't give a single fuck if someone who wants to pursue it has a difficulty doing so, then you don't really think that thing is okay to pursue, deep down.

Example: I really don't care about mathematics personally, but I would still not proudly announce that I don't give a single fuck about women having a harder time pursuing a career like that. I don't think it's a bad thing, I think it's an okay thing, and so if someone wants it but struggles, that sucks. Easy.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-21T18:16:36+00:00

If you're looking for random casual sex then you compete for pussy

If you're looking for healthy monogamous LTR then you learn the mating dance and then find someone who's compatible with you without competing. People should try to be flexible but for the most part it's take it or leave it. Who you decide to spend the rest of your life with is one of the biggest decisions you'll make in your life. It'll either make your life better or miserable. You'll either die sooner or live longer. If you're fighting for a Woman (in the hopes for a LTR)............ SHE'S NOT THE ONE ^{^probably}

baiser_vole · 2023-09-21T18:09:47+00:00

I was talking with my boyfriend about our past interactions with the opposite sex. I was able to reminisce one instance of a spark.

In school when doing group projects or projects with a partner, the one who cares more oftentimes ends up doing a lot more work. My partner for the project stayed late at school working on the project with me, telling me that he should try his best to match my efforts especially knowing what I'm like as a student. I had zero feelings towards him before then, but I caught some feelings for him after that. He was a real decent guy.

old_new_age · 2023-09-21T18:02:40+00:00

while we were dating I'd been covering my ex's rent and groceries (we lived together), only for her to hop on dating apps and subsequently break up with me; now she's put her venmo in all her social media and is $3k in debt (as told by a friend of mine who still followers her). it sounds like an incel revenge story but it's just depressing

SierraMistSoda · 2023-09-21T18:01:02+00:00

Men are not working on themselves as much as women are. They are overweight, don't clean themselves properly, don't clean their personal spaces properly like car, kitchen, bathroom, bedroom. They have no advancing career goals, no desire to get married/have kids, video game dependent, nicotine dependent, maybe drug/alcohol issues, porn is a regularly consumed thing ect. How can you possibly become a "High Value Man" when you live like this??

Most women do have a job with a salary, they do have hobbies like a workout class or creating things, they keep their bodies clean with soaps, shaving, face creams/makeup, use floss ect. Health is debatable depending on the women but quite a lot of younger women do have a relatively good diet. As long as they are out of college womens spaces are clean, orderly, not gross. Women want to get married, have a family. It is a desire, but for a lot of women there are not enough men out there to make them feel safe, protected, provided for, for women to have families with them. It would like her taking on another job or feeling like her man is her first child because she has to care for him along with everything else when he does not offer her any benefits.

Men need to change their lifestyles if they want a life. If they don't if it is their own fault why they can't get a women.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-21T17:38:26+00:00

Monogamy was invented by men in almost every culture and when you break it down it makes sense.

Women and Children are consumers, they always have been, they consume more than they produce. Men without women and children attached tend to produce only enough for themselves.

Men producing only enough for themselves doesn't lead to a prosperous society that grows. That model is not sustainable, because eventually, all the men with the most resources and women will die, and his heirs will burn through the resources. That man will essentially leave a large consumer base and little to no production.

The solution was monogamy, attach a consumers (women and children) to every man. He will overproduce to provide for his wife and kids.

The model benefits women and society greatly. What we see happening today is the deregulation of the traditional monogamy paradigm for a more primitive way of mating, where the top men get all the women. interestingly enough we now see men reverting back to the original problem of producing enough for themselves again. men going their own way, less men going to college, etc.

Men without sexual access don't reach their full potential as producers. It's a fact, but we lost that message somewhere along the way.

business_explained · 2023-09-21T17:36:54+00:00

Back to reading textbooks I go.

This'll all be worth it because I'll have a big, loving family in ten years, right?

I won't work a 9 hour day and come home to an empty flat, right? It'll all turn out well.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-21T17:36:20+00:00

I intend to go live in Japan soon. I've already lived there, it was fun, very safe country (especially when compared to Brazil, lol).

However, I do wonder how difficult dating there will be.

First, there's a lot of weirdness surrounding foreigners there. Some women fetishize them, others are afraid of them. Brazilians apparently are infamous there for being sluts, something that I'm definitely not. It seems like dating as a foreigner there won't be easy. I'm also not a super tall white guy, which makes it even harder, since that's the type of foreigner that's popular with the ladies there.

Second, it seems like marriage there is very different. It seems common for women to have kids and become like a sister of their husbands, no more lovers. And there's also the cultural aspect of women taking all of the man's salary and managing the household's expenses. Oh, and cheating seems more normalized there, with many women apparently thinking it's okay for married men to go to sex workers.

Has anyone here seen a Japanese person on PPD? Would be interesting to talk about stuff like this with a Japanese person who also has a Western understanding of the pill debates.

1Here4Bach · 2023-09-21T17:19:49+00:00

If you’re low t and scared to compete just say that.

Peacesquad · 2023-09-21T16:54:09+00:00

Why do women always want a guy to pay their bills? Lmao

Peacesquad · 2023-09-21T16:53:49+00:00

It’s crazy because a lot of women feel that “if a man doesn’t pay all the bills why do I need him” until that wall hits then reality kicks in.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-09-21T16:48:25+00:00

I'm halfway through this video on youtube "Turning Boys into Men: How to master power, sex, Psychology to stop feeling...". It really resonated in me.

Yes it's 3 hours long. Halfway through I believe the conversation these two men is the 2 sides of the coin every man argues with himself internally.

For women interested in seeing the META and internal conversation man faces everyday he wakes up in life, this is it.

While I respect the Tom's position and the way he reasons, he gets exposed as being a product of his generation and belief system from a different era. My heart vibrates with the southern boy's position on sex and relationships.

Q4A: after watching, what's your takeaway?

janedoebreakin · 2023-09-21T16:31:07+00:00

I think financial subreddits have ruined my brain. Somehow every other 23 year old has a six-figure income, maxed out retirement funds, thousands in investments, and is trying to buy a $500K+ house with a garage big enough for their Tesla and Lexus GX.

It’s so crazy to me seeing people that young with such a high salary still complaining about money. It really rubs me the wrong way, and irritates my fiancé. He’s done hard work his whole life and can just now afford a little house at 41. I really think that these young people with high salaries need a reality check. They need to see how the rest of us outside the tech bubble live and be grateful for what they have.

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-21T16:23:55+00:00

QFA: Do we love less after heartbreaks?

I would think the answer would be yes, would think one would become more weary and guarded.

Basic human survival mechanism, humans are primary motivated by avoiding pain.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-21T16:04:18+00:00

Another thing I dislike along with virtue signaling is people who act is if some violent criminal who assaults another violent criminal is some kind of hero. Like, they're both the problem. I remember people trying to say the guy who killed Jeffrey Dahmer should be released despite the fact he is a murderer himself.

Similar to that is people who say, "I'm against the death penalty except for..." like if you support the death penalty in some situations then you're not against the death penalty. And if you justify violence because of some set of criteria, then you justify other people justifying violence based on their own set of criteria.

ThisBoringLife · 2023-09-21T15:36:29+00:00

Random question: For those who care for it, what are your opinions on dubbed anime? Do you prefer it to subbed anime?

hannahg000 · 2023-09-21T15:31:56+00:00

the class i’m taking about autism is so interesting that it’s making me consider working with autistic kids when i become a therapist.

but i still want to research and work with trauma and mood disorder related cases. i guess i still have a lot of time to decide on my speciality

Falling_fruit_234 · 2023-09-21T15:31:27+00:00

the real question is why is the bar so low for most men in relationships?

don't cheat..often (most women would forgive cheating once in a while)

don't need to cook

don't need to clean

don't need to be a real parent (maybe parent once a month and you're good)

don't need to fully financially contribute (pay half the bills and most women are ok)

get to hang out with your friends most weekends (moms who do this are generally considered sluts)

all you really need to do is do something nice on holidays.

richard_golbes · 2023-09-21T15:30:25+00:00

The idea that the "bar is in hell" type posts on reddit where a woman is describing her listless, unwashed, slovenly, porn-addled, irresponsible, neck-bearded, weed-brained, tooth-rotted partner is somehow a indication that she is dating "Chad" and thus letting him get away with it is so stupid.

These are average women who are posting to reddit about their average partners. Of course they are (or were) attracted to the man, but the idea that he's the Top 20% of attractiveness is ridiculous.

Very conventionally attractive men tend to be social, well-groomed, fit, active, extroverted, gainfully employed, and image-conscious. The men described in the "bar is in hell" type posts are anything but that.

potoricco · 2023-09-21T15:21:49+00:00

Most awkward moment is when teachers/whoever ask you to share a fun fact about yourself and then you have to sort through your brain thinking about things about yourself that are interesting but also socially acceptable to share with strangers

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-21T15:20:33+00:00

French Resistance should be renamed to French-Spanish resistance. The role Spanish Republican exiles played on it is Very much ignored historically.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-21T15:20:06+00:00

Interesting fact : If you look into any dictator's biography, they ALL have had a terrible childhood and usually one abusive parent.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-21T15:13:54+00:00

Something I'm really sick of is the virtue signalling that pervades every piece of digital content now. I'm watching a documentary about Larry Nassar and watched a documentary about Roman Polanski the other day and the guy has to interject his opinion. Maybe it is my autism, but if you are retelling something don't state your opinion, especially when your opinion is the commonly held one.

There are some tiktoks I've seen too of this channel that does death row inmates last meals and he always has to say how the person is awful and all this shit, but like, they murdered people, of course they're awful. We know they're awful, you don't have to confirm you also think they're awful.

SianOiseau · 2023-09-21T15:12:26+00:00

Who calls themselves nice? Among all the traits out there you're choosing the one that just gives you a "generally good" descriptor but doesn't specify much beyond it, which can say the opposite of what you've indented.

meteorness123 · 2023-09-21T15:04:51+00:00

I dont understand how parents let their children grow up in poverty. Fucking piece of shits. Get up your ass and work your ass off you piece of shit or dont reproduce.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-21T15:00:39+00:00

So 42 year old Chris Evans married a 26 year old Portuguese actress and the crotchety feminists are in an uproar with the usual accusations of him being a groomer.

What I don't get is that they love to pedal the false idea that the brain somehow solidifies in maturity at 25 so based on their own pseudoscience, any age after 25 should be fine.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-21T14:40:34+00:00

Oh my god... I want deviled eggs.

DuetLearner · 2023-09-21T14:39:24+00:00

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPR7Nu2ce/

How would you rank from 1-10? Would you go out on a date if she asked you out?

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-21T14:32:33+00:00

I'm tired of hating women. I'm going back to worshiping 2D women. Here is a picture of my wife.

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LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-21T10:02:42+00:00

Not first.

dbz__f · 2023-09-21T10:04:10+00:00

It’s really weird but when I eat food made by my gf it feels different, not only is it more delicious but something about it also makes me happy

hungrychick404 · 2023-09-21T10:07:14+00:00

Is anyone into vanilla sex these days? Is the internet making people kinkier or have people always been into some strange stuff?

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-09-21T10:14:42+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/Bangkok/s/J7pIFiXfQ7

Just because Bangkok has a plastic surgery clinic every 20 feet…lol. I could get “Mazda lips” tomorrow! /s

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-21T10:34:39+00:00

I was in the mood to watch a good movie with my friend, but she decided to show "Something's Gotta Give." However, I stopped watching it halfway as it felt somewhat delusional to me.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-21T10:42:24+00:00

we should only be taking in hot female refugees

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-21T10:45:28+00:00

Learning the boundaries of appropriate workplace behaivour manually myself, complimented a co-worker on her outfit, and didn't get instantly charged with sexual harassment. Tim Pool lied to me. I'm beginning to think a lot of this red pill stuff is a little overblown. Lol.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-21T11:06:56+00:00

what exactly are the qualifications to be a mod?

eye_fuck · 2023-09-21T11:34:39+00:00

One of the things that annoys me the most is when people 'misread' my mood/intention/whatever.

'Is everything okay? Don't be so sad!' Wtf I was actually chilling in very pleasant mood

My friends insecure bpd ass gf put a strain in my friendship with him by saying behind my back that "she didn't like me, when I was alone with her i trolled her/talked to her in sarcastic manner and generally show off a lot'' when I never was alone with her lol and barely troll or show off at all IRL in my eyes. Since then he started second guessing me often like

'damn that tree is sick' 'why are so sarcastic and condescending snob today' HUH I really just like the fucking tree

Im feel like I'm being gaslighted, making me second guessing am I really that bad at expressing my emotions?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-21T11:34:59+00:00

I always hated when people would shame bystanders to attacks. “Why aren’t they stepping in?” So he could potentially kill them like he’s doing to that guy? You gonna die or get seriously hurt over some random stranger?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-09-21T11:36:37+00:00

Q4All

Is not having a drivers license a deal breaker for you?

nexkell · 2023-09-21T11:38:58+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/16o20c6/any_other_female_feminists_feel_weirded_out_by/

Feminists don't like they can't control another sub to their liking and make it anti male. Even though said sub is anti male leaning anyway.

https://old.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/16ne6on/how_do_you_feel_about_discussions_on_the_crisis/

And feminists say masculinity isn't bad and toxic. Yet all those replies going off how masculinity is the issue. So much for toxic masculinity not meaning all masculinity.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-21T12:01:39+00:00

Dating apps are filled with people that love to travel, go to clubs constantly, where do you find the people that just want to snuggle and relax in the evenings and at the weekend?

Friedrich_Friedson · 2023-09-21T12:36:01+00:00

https://apnews.com/article/spain-catalan-basque-galician-languages-parliament-3209def249eabbb3a446a9de55cb3479

LETS FUCKING GOOOO!

edgyny · 2023-09-21T12:42:58+00:00

This mofo clearly thinks Taylor Swift is gonna incubate one of his spawn. I can't wait for the incoming lyric teardown.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-21T12:46:31+00:00

current mood

hannahg000 · 2023-09-21T12:51:05+00:00

current moodhttps://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT86Yk5J7/

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-21T12:52:20+00:00

It's so damn easy to get banned from r/twoxchromosomes. I couldn't even last more than one comment.

hannahg000 · 2023-09-21T12:52:33+00:00

current mood

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-09-21T12:56:33+00:00

Aggressive vs Mysterious flirting? Provided all other factors are kept constant, which do you think has a higher success rate?

My own experience (late 20s male) has been that aggressive flirting seems to work less often but when it does work, the payoff is massive. Whereas mysterious flirting produces in a lot more opportunities that usually lead to nothing. How unique is my experience?

SianOiseau · 2023-09-21T13:11:30+00:00

Due to the cold and then having to catch up with work I got cooped up in our apartment for 2 weeks now. I want to go out and enjoy the fall!

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-09-21T13:17:23+00:00

So let's be honest boys, how often are we thinking of the Roman Empire? For me it is daily at this point, but usually every couple days. My lockscreen is unironically the "weak men make hard times" picture.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-09-21T13:27:34+00:00

I wish that the guys who go to third world countries to sleep with the cheapest prostitutes possible would just admit that they don’t care about ethics of paying for sex with women living in destitution or if the women are trafficked and that they just want the cheapest sex possible with the most attractive women they can find. It’s not illegal in those countries. And it makes more sense than lying and doing mental gymnastics to try to prove that you are ethical.

A guy who is ethical and cares will go to somewhere like the bunny ranch where there are cameras and sign in sheets and spend like $1,000 or more to ensure that the woman is getting paid well and isn’t destitute.

WestCombSplit · 2023-09-21T13:29:00+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/9wwmBEW2aik?si=C_o9OxjCf_xVtG6M

People shouldn't be giving out details about their sex life in their relationship without their partners consent. I could not be with a Woman that talked graphically about our sex life with her friends. There are probably a lot of Women that have talked their friends into having sex with their partner

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-21T13:39:45+00:00

Feminist logic: men are struggling because they are victims of the imaginary social structure that is supposedly beneficial only to men? I don't really understand these arguments, it's incredibly baffling to me.

Do we live in a society, or is it men vs. women? What if we just divide the planet in half and put all the men on one side, and the women on the other. Would that magically make everything good and perfect?

The thing about rights is that they also require responsibilities. Your right is someone else's responsibility. These feminists want all the rights, but none of the responsibility.

dbz__f · 2023-09-21T13:45:43+00:00

My gf is so fucking cute holy shit

I refuse to believe she’s real

FuuraKafu · 2023-09-21T13:50:29+00:00

Promiscuous women will always be seen by men with a certain degree of angst because having a lot of sex is an idea that appeals to the vast majority of men, and most of them realise fairly quickly that's something they have to give up on, precisely BECASUE women don't work that way. That's why it's a bit of a mindfuck to see women who thrive in promiscuity. Men have the capacity to get excited as fuck from an almost stranger suggestively winking at them, we are pretty easy, and that capacity of ours is UNWANTED by the world (and women), it's useless, it needs to be forgotten about. (And yes, there are some go-getter men out there who don't give a fuck which women like, but most men won't ever get to fuck around like them.)

I would argue that moulding yourself for the other side's sake is a basic aspect of existing as a man. Maybe acknowledging that would help the slut-shaming double standard, but let's be real, women don't give a single fuck about the internal workings of male sexuality, so yea. I don't really see this issue changing, but fortunately for promiscuous women it's not impossible to avoid these sorts of comments, while on the other hand they get significantly more options than their male equivalents, so they are not in that much of a bad position in the grand scheme of things.

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-21T13:50:42+00:00

Attention men: The patriarchy will be holding its daily meeting to conspire against women at 3pm today in the library. Snacks will be provided by our sponsor, the crown prince of Saudi Arabia. Please bring your pitchforks in case we decide to conduct raids the feminist hinterlands.

FernandoTatersJr · 2023-09-21T13:55:26+00:00

No one hates feminism more than women walking to work on a cold morning.

DerayRevan · 2023-09-21T14:03:17+00:00

So a lot of people have a big misconception of what PUA essentially is since l read the recent post about it

Pickup Artist is not based on guys lying to get sex, that's honestly got to be the most autistic assumption l've heard and what would you even be lying about ?

It's just having the social skills to make a woman attracted to you through the interaction, it's based on the practice of guys being social enough talking to women randomly at any random place and getting their details

That's what it was back in the mystery days, guys just going out and getting chicks at bars,clubs,venues

I know this because l was old enough to understand when the mystery method and book was popular in the mid 2000s

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-09-21T19:56:13+00:00

Wait now we’re being told that “in relationships” is implied in the phrase “the bar is so low for men.”

I wonder if blue pillers have any shame when they come up with these points…

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-21T19:57:12+00:00

One thing that Reddit taught me is how defensive people get when they see folks talking about a lifestyle that is different from theirs.

Look at this AskReddit thread (What makes being single worth it?). So many people that I assume are not single are there trying to imply that single people are unhappy. That, or trying to say that "Well, ackshually, what you're mentioning does not apply to my relationship because my wife is a saint and being with her has no downside".

Is there some buzzword for this phenomenon where people can't accept other people being happy living differently from them?

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-21T19:58:04+00:00

Can someone explain to me what a "situationship" is? Is that when Stacy joins Chad's harem hoping he'll decide she's the one, but he's happy to just keep slaying because he can?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-09-21T20:11:46+00:00

Bro, if you down vote opposing views on a debate sub, you are a certified beta clown

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-09-21T20:24:02+00:00

Thinking of an argument I got into here a while back; I thought this was a pretty uncontroversial take, but apparently not. Anyway, ahem…

CMV: Through enough physical exercise, fashion upgrades, and grooming adjustments, almost any guy considered a 4/10 can become a 6-7/10.

I’m not a huge fan of the 10 point scale, but it makes it easier to illustrate my point, so I’m using it.

KingOfTheIncels_ · 2023-09-21T20:45:50+00:00

In my experience mine and a lot of incels main problem is being pussies. The less I hold back; and the more risks I take the better I tend to do. I think Elliot Rodger is a good example, he sheltered himself until he had essentially seceded from the outside world.

This has sat in the back of my mind for years, but I realized I thought it because my co-worker texted me back, she's cool with direct messages. I always feared talking to girls as a kid and sheltered myself from them, and I'm not sure why.

DuetLearner · 2023-09-21T21:05:21+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/lucilleburdge/

Would you smash?

Tramelo · 2023-09-21T21:08:08+00:00

The other day I posted a joke on social media(-Are you two ladies from Scotland?- -It's Wales you idiot!- -Oh sorry. Are you two whales from Scotland?-) and one of my obese friends got offended.

It didn't even cross my mind that the joke was bodyshaming since it was about a word pun.

Now, leaving aside that the joke is dumb or the decision to post it was dumb, I can't help but think that she wouldn't have been offended if she weren't obese. I also wonder: if she were to lose weight and get in shape, would she still feel sensitive about jokes like this? Would she still feel as bad if a fat person was criticized for being fat?

See if you're obese not only you have an increased risk of health problems and are less attractive to most people, but you're also sensitive to comments regarding weight. You suffer everytime someone fit shows off or someone fat is picked on.

And this, I suppose, can apply to everything else. If you lack something, you not only experience the direct negative effects of not having that thing, but you also "feel bad about it".

So I guess one more reason to go for the things you want. Not saying that it isn't hard.

potoricco · 2023-09-21T21:11:38+00:00

I just can not do dimly lit classrooms

My freshman year i had a teacher whose room always had the lights basically 80% off with nightlights everywhere, then the teacher always spoke in this low soothing monotone voice. And sometimes he would even put on hour long YouTube videos and then later in the year would get mad at people for sleeping in class

Like dude. How do you NOT expect people to fall asleep in class? Like even though that class was easy it was still hard because I could NEVER do my work in class i would fall asleep

And now it’s the same with my health teacher. How are you gonna put people who sleep 5 hours a day in a dimly lit room and expect them to be productive. Now I’m doing more than i need to at home. Might start drinking coffee

demedermidimi · 2023-09-21T21:12:14+00:00

have you ever heard a woman complain about her husband's/boyfriends stupidity and incompetence? was he hot as fuck?

potoricco · 2023-09-21T21:12:40+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/m93p091rcopb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e9ff4da631086c6afe4a6e57075344ceb10f7701

Husbandposting again

YasuotheChosenOne · 2023-09-21T21:18:28+00:00

https://reddit.com/r/science/s/Nl2rjo1UA6

Suck it ladies! Pushing trauma/emotions deep down into the stomach FTW!

DuetLearner · 2023-09-21T21:24:21+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/uexhjhwreopb1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a458543c58140f206aa2aa6b1c372905f3035fe5

My ex was really beautiful….too bad I couldn’t keep her.

potoricco · 2023-09-21T21:46:00+00:00

I swear everyone’s got that ugly van cleef necklace/bracelet why is everyone rich except me?

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-21T21:47:42+00:00

put your pic in here. would you clap your cheeks? be honest

Swap Gender to See the Other You with AILab (wondershare.com)

potoricco · 2023-09-21T22:04:51+00:00

My parents just dont understand me at all like everytime i try to express myself or convey my emotions they turn into a lecture about something that doesnt have anything to do with what I was saying

potoricco · 2023-09-21T22:10:17+00:00

The sat is going online in 2024 haha how convenient for me

I’m gonna take it once this year though because I’m doing this thing where I take it once each year. I did it as a freshman, sophomore, now junior

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-21T22:13:27+00:00

My timeout is over!! What did I miss?

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-21T22:18:55+00:00

What’s a compromise you’re making in your current relationship? Or one you’ve made in a past relationship

demedermidimi · 2023-09-21T22:29:20+00:00

what's a female version of the beta

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-09-21T22:42:00+00:00

Even men on sex positive apps manage to make things weird. Even when there’s no pics to get creepy vibes from

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-09-21T22:45:33+00:00

You know whats funny about women in LTRs are the fact how overtly friendly they try to be. And before someone says "MaYbE tHaTs HoW sHe Is NaTuRaLLy", yes I know women are like that, I'm talking about how you're ignored by single women but those who are in an LTR are the ones who try hard to initiate a conversation with you for little or no reason.

lolmastr13 · 2023-09-21T23:02:17+00:00

Freud was right

purplish_possum · 2023-09-21T23:14:20+00:00

Just walked by a young couple holding hands in downtown Olympia. They guy was a 6'3" red haired Nordic Chad. The young woman looked like a goblin. Guess unfortunate looking young women should enroll at Evergreen State.

WhiskeyOnASunday93 · 2023-09-21T23:17:01+00:00

Q4M: would you rather be 5 foot 7 with an 8 inch dick or 6 foot 5 with a 3 incher?

13choppedup2chopped · 2023-09-21T23:24:50+00:00

In the past week I h e seen two posts that caught my attention. First, was one talking about how millennial dads spend much more with their kids than previous generations. I think you’re supposed to assume this is a good thing. The second is that the millennial divorce rate is very low. Like 20-25%. In both cases I wonder if the story is an optimistic one or if there’s more to it. Are more men who want kids, having kids? Or are there fewer men having kids and there are a lot of men who want kids but are too unattractive to have them? Again, are millennials getting married to better matches? Or are people too broke to divorce? Are people priced out of getting married? Are these traditional milestones only attainable for wealthy people?

You could say these stories mean there’s never been a better time to get married and have kids. But I don’t know if people believe that. Maybe the millennial doomerism that see,s to define that generation is not well founded. Maybe it is. It’s hard to know what’s what.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-21T23:26:41+00:00

Grabbing drinks with a cute "post-wall" veterinarian tomorrow. Don't worry, I'll be sure to put her in her place for daring to exist past 25. /s

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-21T23:33:13+00:00

Men should compete for women. Women should not reward underperforming men, as that hurts the future of our species.

Change my mind.

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-21T23:43:26+00:00

Seems like prostitutes dislike being called prostitutes, which is weird to me, because I thought that was a pretty neutral term. Whore, hooker etc I get, they are inherently pejorative. But prostitute?

I remember one prostitute who posts here (the one who is pretty old and is always inhaling some grade-a c*pium and bragging about how great it is to be a prostitute), who also got offended when I mentioned she was a prostitute. A curious thing, when a spade dislikes being called a spade.

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-09-21T23:48:46+00:00

Q4All: at what age do you think being a virgin is considered a red flag?

Busy_Ant_8160 · 2023-09-21T23:52:09+00:00

Do you know what makes zero sense? No fault divorce states prohibiting prenups with punitive/lifestyle clauses.

Two consenting adults should be allowed to enter into a contract that is at fault under certain predetermined circumstances, even if the default avenue for divorce is no fault.

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-22T00:27:44+00:00

What's up my fellow incels please be sure to like, subscribe, and enable notifications so you can stay up to date with the latest content.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-22T00:29:04+00:00

Looking into getting a side hustle or a 2nd job. This is the price I pay for ignoring my friend years ago when she said I should become a cam model. I don't want people I hate to have access to my nudes though.

What's a good side hustle?

potoricco · 2023-09-22T00:29:58+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/x3do02qxbppb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=93df96a59c0332f3a8f492c639045664b1052e06

America runs on MUNCHkin

potoricco · 2023-09-22T00:42:50+00:00

IT’S FINALLY GETTING COLD OMG!!!

eye_fuck · 2023-09-22T00:43:36+00:00

What's the most divisive topic on ppd?

potoricco · 2023-09-22T00:44:38+00:00

WHAT!!!

https://preview.redd.it/ce2a0qxkeppb1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9fe6158d0d065b1c8d0acb765763718f3eafdcf9

Shazamo333 · 2023-09-22T00:53:14+00:00

Idk how this wasn't a fumble lmao, threw in a random response since the match was expiring and i was about to head to bed.

But since I went for a blue pill (be genuine, even if its lame) line, it worked. If I went red pill I don't think it would have worked.

Sillysheila · 2023-09-22T00:53:46+00:00

QF ALL:

Is anyone else here a fan of the sims franchise?

I’m a long time fan since like 2000-2001. I had a family friend that let me play the first sims.

I have the second downloaded to my computer, but I’m still looking to see if I can download the first because it was pretty funny and chaotic

wheartv · 2023-09-22T01:01:14+00:00

Name almost any famous and helpful liberally minded person from history, and if they were alive today a horde of modern shit libs that don’t know shit about shit (but think they know everything because of phone and Wikipedia) would try to get them cancelled.

relish5k · 2023-09-22T01:03:02+00:00

Guys who get salty that women will screw/get in relationships with drug dealers and criminals…do you want to be with these women? Isn’t it a good thing that these women “show their cards” so you don’t have to deal with their craziness?

Or do you just want the opportunity to reject them?

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-09-22T01:23:44+00:00

Men be like "it's not hard to meet my standards. I just wish more women were able to do the basics to be able to meet them"

Women be like "I'm such a cool baddie bitch cause my standards are sky high and I only want men with the 95th percentile of genetic traits"

It's a female trait to brag about how high your standards are thinking it makes you look cool

Toxic femininity

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-22T01:23:51+00:00

It's a shame how rigid thinking keeps so many men single and lonely.

Once again, they create their own obstacles to happiness.

eye_fuck · 2023-09-22T01:46:34+00:00

I love women

meteorness123 · 2023-09-22T02:09:47+00:00

Dating is easier than ever for men.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-22T02:49:43+00:00

What’s one of your go-to workout soundtracks? Mine is this: https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=yO-ZyGzqoRY&si=z3CVLkxmiyVzu_aX

VastlyVainVanity · 2023-09-22T02:49:55+00:00

Question for Americans: is the obesity in America skewed by age? As in, are the more obese people usually older? Or do you see lots of young fat chicks and young fat guys in the streets too?

Watching from afar, usually when I see a young American woman on some video or whatever, she's of a normal weight. But there's an obvious bias, since attractive young people will probably appear more in the stuff I see on YouTube, Instagram etc, lol.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-09-22T02:52:49+00:00

I feel like shit rn and pray the rest of yall are having a horrible day too🙏

scwizard · 2023-09-22T03:02:35+00:00

Honestly I think women should intentionally not be willing to commit easily. I'm not talking about playing hard to get; just plain being hard to get (and by get, I mean commit, cohabitate, marry) by most options as a state of being.

A woman's greatest statistical threat is her domestic partner. Pregnancy is a life changing health condition. Women wanting to be child free reduce the odds of never having to deal with an unplanned pregnancy when they have a regular male partner. Partnered women who work still end up doing more of the domestic work and have less free time.

Meanwhile partnered men live longer and look more reliable to employers and more trustworthy in their communities.

So really it makes sense for men to be the ones proving their merit for a woman to even think of cohabitation with them. Of course men should be looking for someone with the qualities they desire but there are less risks inherent for them.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-09-22T03:51:05+00:00

Some women saw me walking down the side walk and turned around, brutal 😔

crushmynutsplz · 2023-09-22T04:03:06+00:00

Is it just me or is nobody in the world more obsessed with Andrew Tate than women on reddit? Why are they obsessed with him? This guy is a doofus, just ignore him. He looks like the sort of dude who acts all tough but he's the first one to start crying when there's a thunderstorm at school and the lightning is really bright and it's scary when the thunder noises happen.

100PercentNattyBrah · 2023-09-22T04:18:13+00:00

Women have to be the worst at making insults or roasts. I just saw a video on Instagram where it went

Guys: I'm not really looking for a relationship right now

Her: Well good because you're not the type of guy I'd have a relationship with anyway.

Then you have girls in the comment going "Yeah you tell them girl! Gotta him em where it hurts!!"

No guy is going to feel insulted when you say that, he's just going to think you're a child.

4PointTakedown · 2023-09-22T04:45:27+00:00

Holy fucking shit today sucked ass. I had to go into the fucking office which I did NOT want to do . I had to eat lunch with the team then do this stupid employee signals thing then have an in person 1:1 with a big wig asshole who is in C-suite and I had to pretend I reallllllllly cared what he had to say.

And then I had to have dinner with the team from 6-8.

Only one good thing happened and that's when it all ended and me and a coworker (actually incredibly hot, long curly hair, perfect smile, just oh my god) were headed home and we had to take the bus (both live in Seattle) and we hung out on the bus and she asked me to walk her home because when we got off the bus in the city there were a bunch of goddamn crackheads at the station. So talking with her was fun and we did for a pretty long time.

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-22T04:45:55+00:00

i was watching this Tv mini series one of the major streaming service, long story short the husband cheats, she planned on killing the husband accidentally kills the mistress. In the end he is pinned for the murder. The shows justifies actual murder, he deserved because his moral failing.

‘Tells you a lot about how sick society is justifying woman action, she was wronged so she was justified enacting even worse and actual crimes.

It doesn’t bother me that me justice was not served or the ending, but the point the show tried to make which was quite clear.

hungrychick404 · 2023-09-22T05:21:56+00:00

One of the best parts about being in a relationship is that you don’t have to go on first dates anymore. That’s why polyamory will never be for me.

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-22T08:00:18+00:00

Came home from work to 10 new reddit messages. Didn't think people would get so angry at me for saying I was going back to 2D women lmao.

LillthsCrustyHitachi · 2023-09-22T09:10:14+00:00

Why did 100percentnattybrah delete their account?

business_explained · 2023-09-22T09:39:16+00:00

Never thought I'd say this but LMFAO was ahead of its time. Easy to understand why they became so big in 2011 when you compare it to songs that came out.

Or maybe I'm just saying this because I was a kid during that time and I'm looking back with nostalgia

meteorness123 · 2023-09-22T10:19:13+00:00

Is there anything worse than a woman that likes ton"travel" ?

SlashCo80 · 2023-09-22T10:45:40+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_c1cBBd_lHc

Good video on the subject of nice guys vs assholes, imo. Women don't necessarily like assholes, they just prioritize looks, income and social status over things like kindness, intelligence or loyalty. They tolerate the assholes as long as they provide the former, but won't consider a good guy who can't.

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