Daily Community Chat Megathread

SianOiseau · 2023-10-17T16:36:48+00:00

Men proposing to have open relationships and getting butthurt later will never stop to amuse me.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T16:35:34+00:00

Average males literally have no excuses after seeing this. He is just some dude and it seems like he is not wealthy at all.

https://www.tiktok.com/@ivangtv/video/7290440273170074910?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7290964529856775713

Also, Chelsea and Alissa are actually decently attractive. In my old neighbourhood the mid, extroverted, broke guys, that were well endowed and funny created the most single moms. The guys with average income actually took the women in they impregnated.

keebydee · 2023-10-17T16:32:18+00:00

I wish I had a normal brain. Being incapable of getting into a relationship makes feel less of a person. It's hard to describe. Whenever I see my friends with their partners, I feel this gap of functionality between us. Like they are as a person are capable of being loved and I'm not. A better human. Just makes me feel below them.

GoldenHornyChicken · 2023-10-17T16:25:37+00:00

Hubby is 40yo. 5'9 and 143 lbs. Has a good job he adores. Drives a family car with a ridiculous yellow color that he bought from his dad. Can't do sport since a bad knee injury. Work from home 3days/week in order to be there for his family. Is a wonderful and dedicated father for our 1yo. Provide ~2/3 of our income, because of the disparity of our careers and the fact he's 7 years older than me. Had a receding hairline when we met, and is clearly balding now 8 years later. Is a careful and passionate lover, won't stop to play before I have an orgasm. Is constantly (?) horny, leading to us having sex 3-4 times a week.

So PPD : chad or not ?

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-17T16:10:49+00:00

Just a hot take thought. Are male complaints about female standards just hypocrisy? Any man will use whatever leverage he has to get the hottest women he can. You see that in top men.

So the complaints about female standards are maybe just the whining of those men who don't have leverage and options, but are thirsty thirsty. Give any of them a glowup somehow, and they will use their newfound leverage and optionality to maximize whatever they can get, just like women and top men.

The whining is just a function of the male SMP being far more bifurcated than the female, with all the leverage going to top men. Which is just human nature. But the low men just want everyone who has power to stop using it, even though these men would immediately use any that they gained in exactly the same way.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T16:08:49+00:00

I promised I would drop the routine. I wanted to write out a fuller post, but I just can't focus long enough to do it, so here is a brief overview, so you'll have to fill in the gaps.

1.) Meet a woman on a dating app or through DM

2.) Tell her you just broke up with your gf

3.) Lovebomb the new girl. If she doesn't respond to this, she isn't interested so move on. If she does respond to it, then carry on the love bomb stage for a couple weeks.

4.) Don't message her for 24 - 38 hours. See if she messages first. If she does, you know your in. If she doesn't, it doesn't automatically disqualify her but monitor her actions.

5.) When you do message her and you start talking again, work in that you lost your phone charger or something but not talking to her made you realize how talking to her is the highlight of your day.

6.) Carry on the love bombing stage for another week.

7.) Don't message her for 24 hours again.

8.) This time when you message her you say "we need to talk" If you're especially sadistic, you can take a half hour to respond and watch as she blows your phone up.

9.) You tell her you got back together with your ex so you can still talk to her, but it can't be sexual.

10.) next time you see her, you push for sex. When she says "but you said we shouldn't" you say something along the lines of "If this wasn't what I want, I wouldn't be doing it" and "This is my choice, I'll deal with the drama that results, you're not responsible for what I'm choosing to do."

Congrats, you just got +1 to your rotation. Repeat until satisfied.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-17T16:08:40+00:00

This hoe is becoming a housewife! 💍

I'd like to thank all the blow jobs given in alleyways and parking garages. The one night stands. The fuck buddies. The exes. The liars who broke my heart. The liars who weren't good in bed.

Because of all of them and their pumping me with cum, I found love with a Chad Alpha Wolf.

Thank you dicks! ❤️

lookingdoog · 2023-10-17T15:46:30+00:00

Hey guys this is pxtxr!cc0 alt i have been permanently suspended, totally heartbroken but I’ll be back soon with a better username bye guys

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-10-17T15:45:13+00:00

If you forced/pimped your girl to start up an OF, as a man you should be labeled a cuck.

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-17T15:43:06+00:00

https://youtube.com/shorts/B03d0I-NmGk?si=J0y_X5QiG-3UwRa_

Today I learned

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T15:39:02+00:00

I do find it ironic that so many guys will obsess over things they can’t change, but ignore the things that they can change: like being lazy, whiny, insecure, pussy-obsessed, entitled, and seeing women as objects for his personal use instead of as human beings.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-17T15:35:34+00:00

Did it even begin?

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T15:30:46+00:00

“Wait guys wait hold on…let me ask the WIFE FIRST!!” Lmao yall losers man I can’t breathe 😂😂😂😂😂😂

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-17T15:24:56+00:00

"Every generation thinks it invented sex; each generation is totally mistaken. Anything along that line today was commonplace both in Pompeii and in Victorian England; the differences lie only in the degree of the coverup - if any." - Robert A. Heinlein

What is old is new again. What is new was once old. Humans never change.

DreaminInChocolate · 2023-10-17T15:07:42+00:00

I spent an hour on the phone with the police this morning after my dad got my phone number from a family member and texted me 57 times in 3 hours. It would appear that seeing me in the airport has triggered his crazy.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T14:56:18+00:00

I have invented a new dating strategy. Cuckqueanmaxxing. She will improve your appeal from 6/10 to a 7/10 by giving you social proof and you will have someone that picks up women for you, or makes it easier for you, because women won't see you as a potential serial killer no more. How do I find such women or do I have to create one by myself with manipulation tactics?

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T14:55:35+00:00

What did I miss. Give it to me raw and wet. Pause

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T14:55:24+00:00

If he has enough status resources and clout women will share the man. They ve done it for centuries. Women are designed to share men actually

happy_discus · 2023-10-17T14:54:17+00:00

Semester has begun again so it's time for more stupid question from me.

Anyway had a short but kind of unusual interaction today. It was after one of my philosophy classes. I was waiting to my only friend and one girl, I had classes last semester with, waved me so I went over and talked a bit with her mostly about us having to redo this class because its stupidly difficult. She then asked me which tutorial I will be attending (they are mandatory). I told her the one on Monday, she then told me ah okay and asked me if I could please come to the one on Wednesday. I told her I will consider it and after some really awkward, but hopefully short, silence and she and her friend left.

Edit: What does this mean? How do I proceed from here?

Ohmaygahh · 2023-10-17T14:48:20+00:00

My god, reading some of PPD's most recent posts makes me seriously question y'all's critical thinking and reading skills.

God damn on so many points. Women have truly overcomplicated the conversation about sex, love, and attraction. One thing that really stands out to me is how the women on PPD expect sexually/romantically unsuccessful men to be chill and normal after he has experienced hundreds, thousands, tens of thousands of rejections, throughout his formative life, and expect him to be relaxed and behave like "he's been there before" when a girl finally takes notice of him.

This girl no doubt will be miles ahead of him in practical and theoretical experience. The absurdity that these women have that a guy's lack of success shouldn't have a material negative impact in his behavior with women, or his internal belief system of sex and relationships. It's just so tone deaf from women, it's really aggravating coming from the alleged emotionally intelligent gender.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T14:48:03+00:00

I talked to a 5"3 recessed face indian janitor who told me he was a slayer. He told me he personalitymaxxed by showering atleast every hour, listening to Captain Marvel audiobook every day and replacing all of the meat he eats with soy.

purpledaggers · 2023-10-17T14:47:22+00:00

Lilith why are you back? Are you here to destroy the manosphere?

scwizard · 2023-10-17T14:41:22+00:00

Never in my life have I seen a bigger yikes

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1797feo/my_new_partner_41m_just_tried_to_convince_me_it/k57tv9c/?context=3

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-17T14:39:07+00:00

Tfw no clingy obsessive BPD gf who never stops thinking about you

Training-Banana-5017 · 2023-10-17T14:24:34+00:00

I don't understand how any man could willingly be in a cuck relationship with a woman. Most fetishes I can look at objectively and be like meh I guess that could be appealing to a certain group but this is the only one I draw a blank on.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T14:22:14+00:00

Do you ever feel FOMO for never banging a genetic miracle? I have been looking at Taylor Hills's and Monica Bellucci's photos for the past few nights and just looking at them makes me feel joy. I bet their scent is addictive. I promised to myself to never date violent women again, but for them I might make an exception.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T14:18:23+00:00

Guys I forgot to watch Wonder Woman this week AND didn't shower once per hour is it over?

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T14:16:21+00:00

This is a perfect example of something I notice from the incel community. I am overweight and have still been able to attract a decent number of women. I was attracted to every girl I have been involved with. To this, someone replied:

Yeah dude I am sure they were absolute winners and not bottom of the barrel hogs lmao

(Very few obese men actually fuck hot girls, stop insulting our intelligence, no one cares that you fucked ugly fatties)

But at the end of the day, what does it matter? If I have an enjoyable sex life, who cares if I'm not attracting TikTok E-Thots? This is why it is so clear that incels create their own self perpetuating misery. They often bring up the idea of a "5'4 balding indian janitor" but I think that balding indian janitor would still probably be able to find a wife, he just wouldn't be able to compete if he was stacy chasing.

Incels will unironically say getting your looksmatch doesn't count, but then say their looksmatch "dates 3 points higher" as if that doesn't mean what they think is their looksmatch is actually out of their league.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T14:13:41+00:00

Just a reminder: Most shortcels are within the average range of male height (5’6 to 5’9). Th real issue is jealousy that a sub group of tall guys (Tall Chads) are able to fuck a sub type of horny women (Height Queens) instantly.

How do I know? When you remind then that short guys do have success with women….:

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1474704915604563

……their usual reply that tall guys and women get more sex than them.

EDIT: And watch how guys accidentally prove me right.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-17T14:00:56+00:00

I will say, a man who continually gets publicly rejected is pretty much screwed unless they move to a completely different area and acquire a new friend group.

Once women get wind that a man that she knows as an acquaintance keeps getting spurned, whether she knows the reason or not, she’s not interested in anything he proposes romantically. And I don’t even think it’s necessarily about status more like women are hyper vigilant and neurotic when it comes to these things.

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-17T13:44:39+00:00

"Bro I only slayed 5 times this week. Didn't fuck at all on Tuesday or Thursday. And one of them was a double dip! So it was only 4 women.

God damn I hate being an incel."

I can't tell if these kinds of posts are legit mental patients or a seriously weird attempt to humble brag.

MoreSanitizerPls · 2023-10-17T13:44:16+00:00

Getting the weekly urge to live in a studio apartment in densely populated, crime ridden urban city with Blade Runner 2045 aesthetics and be apart of a underground net runner syndicate.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-17T13:42:40+00:00

Acquire good looks, or perish in the attempt .

AspiringMogger · 2023-10-17T13:35:04+00:00

Semi inceldom is damn near worse than full blown inceldom. I slept with 3 different women in September. One didn’t wanna see me, the other is in a relationship and is currently on a 3 month interrail trip, and the third one I thought ghosted me, but reached out today.

Man is a slave to his desires

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-17T13:33:41+00:00

Every day here and on APD I hear one version or another of this statement:

“I am a somewhat above average man! Women who are somewhat above average don’t want me! They all only want CHAD! I am stuck only with unattractive women! I am a victim and women are bad!!!!”

The “somewhat above average looking” women in question

The “somewhat above average” man in question

The “unattractive woman” in question

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-17T13:24:29+00:00

Time to have a mental breakdown 🤪

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T13:16:42+00:00

I remember about 10 years ago there was this big discussion about the cover of romance novels and what physique women liked best. I remember the feminist camp saying that those physiques are "male power fantasy" but it was never explained why those covers were designed like that when the main demographic is women.

Regardless, now that I am older and wiser I know that the ideal female physique is tall.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T13:12:43+00:00

https://x.com/levi\_pendragon/status/1714090066560397764?s=20

How nice of that Starbucks employee

AspiringMogger · 2023-10-17T13:08:41+00:00

Q4women: Thoughts on my hinge prompts:

My most irrational fear is… skinny jeans

Let’s make sure we agree that… you’re not famous if you have 3959393 unopened snaps

What if I told you… I know and always follow the sidewalk rule

MakeSmash01 · 2023-10-17T12:58:29+00:00

Do y'all drink coffee?

If so how much.

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No_Ask_2241 · 2023-10-17T11:01:00+00:00

Alas, I am first once more. So the crownless shall again be king

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T11:16:32+00:00

Q4W: Do you ever get aroused simply because you sit close to a (strange) man who you consider attractive?

If you don't ever sit close to any strange men, think back to when you were in university.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-17T11:20:15+00:00

You guys got me thinking about AI chads

CryptoThroway8205 · 2023-10-17T11:42:42+00:00

How often do you guys masturbate? I sometimes feel like this group just has a higher than average libido and problems come from that. Like I've heard on average men masturbate less than once daily. I have a high libido but that's nothing compared to guys who masturbate multiple times daily.

As for frequency, about a quarter of the men between the ages of 18 and 59 masturbated a few times per month to weekly. Roughly 20% masturbated 2 to 3 times each week. Less than 20% masturbated more than 4 times a week. Older men were more likely to report no masturbation during the previous year.

https://www.njsexualmedicine.com/blog/what-is-the-normal-frequency-of-masturbation

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-17T11:43:04+00:00

Chad is moving out of the apartment down the hall. He found a hot woman in a neighboring country apparently. He was my favorite day drinking friend - dang. 😕

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T11:49:42+00:00

Woman: I want a man that acts his age and has a hobby other than watching porn all day.

Manosphere/Incels: Women’s hypergamous nature is out of control! How do they expect me to keep up with that?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-17T12:16:31+00:00

I was watching a clip of a panel show where women were stating that if they knew their son was cheating on his GF they would tell her. Essentially what I got from that is all those women have been cheated on, they feel like his mom covered for the son and they think that’s wrong. That’s weird to me for a couple reasons

1.)A lot of mothers and parents in general, do not want to involve themsleves in the relationships of their kids which is totally understandable. Also you might be “cool” with his mom, but at the end of the day that’s her son. She’s more than likely not gonna betray him for you, you’re an outsider at the end of the day.

2.)You found out your man was cheating on you, and you STILL stayed. So I’m trying to figure out what is the difference between his mom telling you and you discovering this on his phone lol.

3.)Do you have the same policy for your daughters, if you found out she was cheating would you tell Her man? Probbaly no.

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-17T12:20:11+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/ss3j0cdh8rub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c8d93375eb127868430a395c80df61fb9abee983

Made a comment on a Bumble post about this kind of backwards logic so many women have. She made the guy who has boyfriend potential wait for sex while the old FWB, who she was only sexually interested in, gets to bang her guts out

She got her sexual fix from the guy she sexually desires while she made the “future boyfriend” court her. Good on the guy for dumping her after finding. Respect to her for being honest too

But this is EXACTLY why being “boyfriend material” is a insult in 2023 because men who are fuck buddies get all the sexual benefits without the responsibility of a relationship and having to actually care about her

If she sees you as a boyfriend, I’m sorry but that is not good

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-17T12:20:21+00:00

People documenting who is unfollowing who is really weird to me. I remember seeing an article where the headline was insert celebrity is no longer following other celebrity on IG

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T12:29:11+00:00

Can someone tell me what "longhouse" or "longhoused" means? Normally I'm up to date on internet slang but I don't get this one.

SlashCo80 · 2023-10-17T12:36:34+00:00

To those still believing that women don't care as much about looks, I invite you to take a look at the covers of women's romance novels. Nearly all of which feature some shirtless bare-chested dude with luxurious hair and bodybuilder physique.

hannahg000 · 2023-10-17T12:45:16+00:00

someone asked to follow my spotify today. and as she scrolled through my playlists, i realized how awkwardly intimate that is. you are literally seeing my soul right now. i was embarrassed 😳

MboloYaBaKali · 2023-10-17T12:52:33+00:00

Am I The Simp?

I did something and suffered some mild embarrasment just to hear her laugh.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-10-17T12:53:19+00:00

Ah so I passed out and missed my amazon shift 🙃 what am I gonna do now lol.

Slipthe · 2023-10-17T14:27:16+00:00

Is LibsofTiktok still a thing?

sosayeth · 2023-10-17T16:54:37+00:00

Bitches will get pregnant by felons, then blame the dudes they call "lames" for it. Lololol The Dumb Sex.

FunEducation1434 · 2023-10-17T16:58:09+00:00

So I just got a new bed frame. Should I take a picture of it for tinder or just mention it in my bio?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T17:00:45+00:00

Shortcels be like: “Im not jealous! I just notice tall guys get more pussy than I do!”

lookingdoog · 2023-10-17T17:02:00+00:00

I’m buying a diary

lookingdoog · 2023-10-17T17:02:11+00:00

I am addicted to Reddit 😜😜

lookingdoog · 2023-10-17T17:05:28+00:00

Lmao I do feel bad for men because a girl was telling me about how every single boy in my program looked ugly and nerdy

DerayRevan · 2023-10-17T17:17:52+00:00

"To those still believing that women don't care as much about looks, I invite you to take a look at the covers of women's romance novels. Nearly all of which feature some shirtless bare-chested dude with luxurious hair and bodybuilder physique"

Meanwhile cough....cough, many women saying they are into dad-bots nowadays

So either someone's lying or they don't want to appear shallow

Same as being seen as gold-diggers, oh women absolutely hate that for some reason

So two things women hate being seen as

Shallow and gold-diggers

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T17:20:26+00:00

Privileged people are always experts at defending the status quo that's helping them. Their most common tactic is downplaying the differences between them and the have-nots.

sine120 · 2023-10-17T17:25:50+00:00

I always laugh when guys cope with the "AI girlfriends are right around the corner, just 5-10 more years". It'll be right on the market as soon as profitably fusion power and tesla fully-self driving does.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T17:26:17+00:00

Single moms smash only. Bitter old chicks don’t deserve a man in his peak to commit to her. It’s fair for a man in his peak to want a woman in her peak(age 18-25 universally)

CringeButCorrect · 2023-10-17T17:26:57+00:00

I've completely checked out of dating. Not worth it. I gotta do all this shit just to get with one woman? I'm good, I'm just gonna make money and chill.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T17:29:10+00:00

Women aren’t that good at mate selection. They make emotional decisions with men and can’t understand REAL red flags only dumb emotional superficial “RED FLAGS” hence why the father figure is so important in a woman’s life. Prevents sluts and bitter single mothers from existing

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T17:33:18+00:00

Women: noooo you can't just lie to women and lead them on, that is unfair.

Also women: rejecting a man who would otherwise be a perfect match because he is 5'11 and not 6' is totally rational and acceptable behavior, life isn't fair and you're not entitled to anyone's attraction.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T17:36:45+00:00

Your entire life was decided the moment your father's sperm fertilized your mother's egg.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-17T17:36:48+00:00

Bro, like I always say, avoid promiscuous women and trauma riddled ladies. It always an L for an beta willing to date them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/179gsd0/i_28f_want_to_get_over_insecurity_when_i_see_my/

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T17:39:31+00:00

23 - 27 is the real female peak. They are fully developed and confident in their sexuality. girls 18 - 21 are usually too finicky and women 28 and up though are usually too demanding. I just think it is dumb when people say men are most attracted to women aged 18 - 25. First of all an 18 year old hasn't been to college yet so likely doesn't have the worldly knowledge that a liberal arts education provides to make conversation with them interesting. Maybe the guys saying this are dullards, but I would like someone a little more well read and who appreciates the arts.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-17T17:40:51+00:00

Thank goodness for the relationship experts in this sub.

Truly. The parasocial relationships that they have created with me is fascinating.

Wow. Couldn't do it without them.

keebydee · 2023-10-17T17:42:53+00:00

Reading TwoX is a line I'll never cross. Fuck that sub. Why would I get myself upset? Lol.

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T17:45:08+00:00

I'm noticing the 2007 swishy justin bieber hair is making a comeback. I think this hairstyle worked for a lot of young men and it's very female gaze. Get in on this early.

keebydee · 2023-10-17T17:56:59+00:00

Remember guys, a woman having done sex work isn't an ick 🤭

purpledaggers · 2023-10-17T17:59:24+00:00

Q4A: West Elm Caleb and many other guys that have been leaked being on those "are we dating the same guy?" forums looks super average to me. Caleb himself is a NYC 4-5, midwestern 6-7. He isn't ugly, but he wouldn't turn the heads of any chicks walking past him either.

Peacesquad · 2023-10-17T18:03:03+00:00

Why do women IN GENERAL complain about being sexualized but in GENERAL almost always sexualize themselves in public or online for millions to see? It doesn’t make any sense right?

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-17T18:07:29+00:00

My sister-in-law has been missing me. This information came as a shock to me, because she has never liked me before. A few days ago she told my husband to ask me if I would like to go on a workshop with her.

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T18:07:51+00:00

Michael Jackson made Billie Jean at age 24.

This is why it's crucial to find out your kid's passion extremely early. He can either be trying to make it in his field or he can be writing comments about Michael Jackson on PPD.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-17T18:15:45+00:00

https://np.reddit.com/r/ChatGPT/comments/179vbaz/having_way_too_much_fun_with_this/

If you wanna get roasted by an AI, well now you apparently can

Slipthe · 2023-10-17T18:16:44+00:00

What kind of person deletes their social media on a yearly basis and creates a whole new account?

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-17T18:19:48+00:00

In case it's allowed, ima just share the link of my weird dark fantasy smut here called "Futanari and Succubus". Who knows, some of you might find it interesting.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/41539602/chapters/104183265

"Innocent young Chio Tanaka wakes up one day with a dick, and an extreme sexual appetite. She is now a hated futanari, aka a dick-girl. Can she survive with her new condition, or is her life doomed for good?"

DerayRevan · 2023-10-17T18:25:45+00:00

Since you can never verbally reason a woman to sleeping with you because that's what marriage guys always do when their wives ain't fucking them enough

The alternative is leading by your behavior, a woman is not gonna say anything about that even if she knows your trying to get into her pants by your behaviors

Why ?

Because players exist fellas, it's that simple

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-17T18:26:06+00:00

I really wish this sub allowed race discussion cause I would go scorched earth on the entire black american community/demographic

(Im black before I get called racist lol)

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-17T18:26:42+00:00

How much of what you read here do you think is real?

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T18:33:39+00:00

I've had a random realization. Women collectively spend billions of dollars on the beauty industry. Yet they really wear it for only 10% of men.

Insane how 10% of men are responsible for billions of dollars being spent to appease them.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-10-17T18:42:14+00:00

If anyone on a date tries to say no to the dessert menu 🚩 🚩🚩

StrikingAd8556 · 2023-10-17T18:48:40+00:00

YouTube should have made a rule to equalize sound of video. Even if they have to alter it using AI or something, like when you submit work to a film festival the expectation is that your sound doesn't exceed 12dB. It's annoying when YouTube plays a video with low sound, and then auto plays an ad that is loud af by comparison, or the person has no idea how to mix sound so the dialogue of a video is really quiet and then they put in some stock music that blows out your speakers.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-17T18:48:58+00:00

I wonder why do so many guys think women don't know why you give them attention

Because if l was a woman and a guy approached me, immediately l know what his goal is which is sex

So women why you give them attention, so the problem isn't what you want which is sex, the problem is can you be direct about it and most guys can't

Maffioze · 2023-10-17T18:59:41+00:00

Belgian chocolate is so amazing.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T19:01:49+00:00

“Did you know short men are less satisfied in life?!”

Well when one has a Napoleon Complex, he is more likely to be miserable.

Slipthe · 2023-10-17T19:04:59+00:00

Everyone who is Pro-Palestine is bitching about someone calling them anti-Semitic.

Who is calling these people anti-Semites??

Everyone thinks BOTH sides are entitled to their land, that's why no one has a solution.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T19:05:00+00:00

Is there anything like being too self aware for therapy or is that a narcissistic kind of thought? I'm not sure if it would help me, because I know my pain and it's origins. I know what I am doing wrong and I know my regrets. Weirdly, my grievances in life are not really linked to dating, but yet I'm here in order to cope. As much as I have empathy for incels and bitter women, I guess it subconsciously feels good to see people struggle with things, I used to be decent at.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T19:14:27+00:00

Imagine thinking short guys being more likely to be with fat women is some sort of problem.

Also, it proves that obsessing about height is jealousy because they want a Stacy.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-17T19:20:36+00:00

Can't understand the "i DonT wAnT a FEEmaAlE FrIeNd!" people. Even from a purely machiavellian level it's very useful if you want to meet other girls. No heavy wingman stuff either, just have her start talking to a girl you like first then you come in and she introduces you. Already pre-vetted so the chick knows you're not a complete weirdo if another girl likes your company. Works great in the clubbing scene.

WestCombSplit · 2023-10-17T19:23:58+00:00

Women prefer tall guys like Men prefer a big ass or tits or both

There, I fixed your thinking. Some guys want to respond with "hey no actually I like blah blah blah" yh well my response is that there's the female equivalent of that when it comes to height. All of your plenty of guys this or plenty of guys that....... there's the female equivalent of that in terms of height

Now I decree there shall be no more bitching and moaning about height henceforth

Holiday_Artichoke_86 · 2023-10-17T19:31:39+00:00

Is it a red flag to have female friends, as a men?

I have a best friend for about 7 years and we are really close, like we tell each other everything, we even fucked once, but now we live far away, so were dont do it anymore. do you guys think that other woman would see this as a red flag even though we are only friends?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T19:37:48+00:00

The first sign youre not talking to someone who socializes is that they think tinder can teach them about female nature.

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-17T19:41:13+00:00

What could someone with 2/10 social skills do to make himself 5/10 ?

What specific actions can someone do? Is it even possible? Have you seen someone socially awkward becoming better?

I've read somewhere (I think it was a book by Robin Dunbar) that social skills development happens during adolescence and stops by young adulthood. Do you have any counterexamples?

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-17T19:47:12+00:00

Does every one need to go for therapy first to stop making dumb choices in life?

MasterTeacher123 · 2023-10-17T19:47:35+00:00

I would comfortably place Reactionary right next to gaslighting in the ranking of words redditors commonly use it don’t know the actual definition of.

adelaidemonkie · 2023-10-17T19:54:18+00:00

Literally going to kill myself if I don’t have a baby in the next year with this guy who regularly comes to my work. He looks 35/36, he’s the perfect age for a baby.

Critical_Lettuce2899 · 2023-10-17T19:55:05+00:00

The difference between curvy and fat for most women is down to genetics

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-10-17T19:58:22+00:00

If a woman has struggled with social anxiety and low self esteem her entire life and doesn’t get the courage to date until her 30’s, men still hate her because she is too old and unattractive for them.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T19:58:23+00:00

I am planning on making the most bluepilled post ever on why "women are always right".

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-17T20:01:26+00:00

What point are you trying to prove when you misquote a study for the 100th time?

Slipthe · 2023-10-17T20:11:52+00:00

If you were unemployed for a year, what would you do?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T20:12:44+00:00

I keep forgetting I have thicker skin than most, because adults be crying about shit I shrugged off in middle school. Baffles me constantly.

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-17T20:23:41+00:00

There is a good exercise from psychology, i think it is from Carl Jung's shadow theory. Anything you bring up from darkness to light has no power and you relieve yourself of it.

As soon as you can say it to yourself "I am secretly ashamed of________." You purge it and bring it into the sun to wither and die.

throaway2s1fsfsf4 · 2023-10-17T20:28:09+00:00

I keep forgetting I'm smarter than most, because adults be clueless about shit I already knew in middle school. Baffles me constantly.

DerayRevan · 2023-10-17T20:30:46+00:00

"What is the main reason men are single 2023"

Aren't working enough volume, that's it

Most guys are kinda forced to actually talk to women since they got work,school,shopping etc

If you ain't working enough volume you ain't gonna get enough results

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-17T20:33:21+00:00

https://preview.redd.it/b3duod9dptub1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=00115ec27741e87060303cc7abe80d17793a467e

Say it with me boys and girls:

J-A-D-E-D

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-17T20:34:13+00:00

Interesting.

When evaluating research that's about arguing whether males or females are more intelligent, both men and women expect men to say men are more intelligent and women to say women are more intelligent.

In truth, both men and women think women are more intelligent.

Women are wonderful.

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/362069361_Reactions_to_research_on_sex_differences_Effect_of_sex_favoured_researcher_sex_and_importance_of_sex-difference_domain

Katatonicsnake · 2023-10-17T20:34:38+00:00

I’m a boring person who likes museums, swimming and meal prep. I’m not good at detecting flirting. I probably wouldn’t do great on dating apps.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-17T20:36:52+00:00

My unscientific opinion based purely on observation is that women who are into extremely aggressive men have absurdly high sex drives, are into freakier masochistic shit and fuck more. A good proxy is a chick who loves getting tattoos on areas that are the most painful. Tattoo in the middle of her tits...bring a belt.

Face tats? Bring an exorcist.

YouCantHoldACandle · 2023-10-17T20:49:05+00:00

Tall skinny girls mog short thic girls and the thic girls k ow and hate it

DragoonXFury · 2023-10-17T20:52:25+00:00

Most entertaining PPD debating for me today:

Longjumping_Step_858 vs JNRoberts42

🍿 🍿 🍿

DerayRevan · 2023-10-17T20:56:09+00:00

"Is it a red flag to have female friends, as a men?"

I've way more female friends than my girlfriend with her guy friends which is none

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-17T20:58:21+00:00

Can someone explain all the varieties of flags and what they mean? Beige flag, purple flag, etc

keebydee · 2023-10-17T20:58:43+00:00

One of my biggest fears is a woman approaching me for the first time but I had to reject her because I didn't find her attractive. As much as I would love to give this woman a chance because I would find it extremely flattering, trying to force attraction won't do anybody any good. 😞

antisplatter · 2023-10-17T21:00:26+00:00

sine120 · 2023-10-17T21:02:06+00:00

I usually think tattoos are pretty trashy but I love the Yakuza style of full body art.

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-17T21:08:59+00:00

If women's and men's sexuality is different, then what is the difference between "learn to be attractive to the other gender" and "fit into this gender role"? There is no easy answer to this and never will be.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T21:12:05+00:00

Personality disorders are obviously more common in men. I wonder if there are differences in modern day western people tho. I feel like it might be the other way around. I used to do personality tests with tinder dates and they all had narcissistic, machiavellian tendencies. Are there any studies on this? Our current ideology breeds narcissism.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T21:20:11+00:00

Imagine crying “systemic discrimination” because some meanie heads hurt your feelings. 😂

Luciansleep · 2023-10-17T21:26:55+00:00

I think Lilith is on a mental breakdown again

-angels-fanatic- · 2023-10-17T21:32:22+00:00

Is there anything more cringe than a woman using the oppression of women for thousands of years as some kind of validity of her oppression?

Like, bitch, you are the most privileged demographic that has ever walked this planet! There is no part of you that is oppressed.

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T21:45:33+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/16we05b/ladies_whats_your_equivalent_of_getting/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Gotta constructionmaxx and squintmaxx.

tinasnow-poty · 2023-10-17T21:46:59+00:00

Omg a van exploded on my street. Firefighters are so hot

96tillinfinity___ · 2023-10-17T21:55:43+00:00

For the people who closely follow politics and world affairs, how close are we to World War 3?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-17T22:03:46+00:00

What's with the amount of dudes larping as women here?

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T22:06:16+00:00

The Lilith School of Arguments:

Attack strawman, conveniently leave out supporting arguments
Hyperbole combined with personal attack (It's not our fault that YOU insert hyperbole)
Red herring (Yes, but have you thought about this random group?)
Illogical victim blaming

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-17T22:15:38+00:00

How can I make my jaw like Gigachad

MyHouseOnMars- · 2023-10-17T22:24:34+00:00

I've been cursed with feelings for a guy

He's a virgin looking guy way younger than me. He has a weird face and I can't stop staring at him, god help me

He included me in his group of friends, that's probably not a good sign. I like the group, so if I make a move and things don't work out I'd have to leave everyone

see why this is a curse

ratboi34 · 2023-10-17T22:25:23+00:00

The main reason I feel bad for incels is, that it's the worst time ever to be one. Incels have always existed, but back then they could be at least sent to war and be celebrated as heroes. Also today we live in the time of the most amount of whoredom ever. Women have surpassed the horny, casual sex desiring, degenerate, sexual crime committing gender in cheating for the first time in history and they can't even get laid once. Imagine that.

ChasingThatBag666 · 2023-10-17T22:44:55+00:00

How long should I suffer with unmedicated bipolar disorder? I have tried medications but they just make my life so much worse. How many more years should I suffer.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-17T22:46:17+00:00

Full list of legitimate reasons for getting an abortion:

You got raped

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-17T22:50:01+00:00

Seventy percent of women 18-40 in a specific community have kids - but only ~thirty percent of that seventy percent are married. This essentially means there's a tiny pool of available women that didn't let the neighborhood dope boy nut in them raw.

Oh boy! I just love it when “Nice Guys Finish Last” and racism goes hand in hand.

Pizzashillsmom · 2023-10-17T22:50:13+00:00

Calling successful men high quality is misleading, highly desired is more accurate. A man can be highly desired and low quality (ie rapper).

Luciansleep · 2023-10-17T22:55:51+00:00

Ever since I got lied to about their feelings in the last two relationships I will sometimes look at their social media so I can remember that I don’t have it in me to date for a long if not permanent time.

I find it very effective

Big-Luck5139 · 2023-10-17T23:04:26+00:00

How can I stop giving off quiet kid school shooter vibes

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-17T23:06:17+00:00

Q4A: What’s your greatest weakness and/or character flaw? What are you doing to improve?

fakingandnotmakingit · 2023-10-17T23:07:38+00:00

I swear people on this sub (and I say people not men, because some women are deranged too)

This article I linked proves that women save less and so actually just want men to save them!

What's that? The link I, myself, used actually had explanations? Doesn't matter its still women's fault.

what even is the point of a cmv post?

keebydee · 2023-10-17T23:17:11+00:00

https://youtu.be/9vkumoc4yy0?si=JDcgRNiqpTnbncaT

Found a new song to relax to. Been listening to it all day. Today wasn't too bad. 🤭

saulbasedman · 2023-10-17T23:26:05+00:00

!>https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cr6XhTPAFEB/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==!<

!>https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsWg5gzJreW/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==!<

Q4w Is this natural? Semi nsfw

Nate_Reborn · 2023-10-17T23:59:26+00:00

Why would I read what the actual study says when I can blame women instead?

Make it make sense.

Ok_Bear976 · 2023-10-18T00:09:56+00:00

Im at the subway and just saw a neckbearded facecel around 6' accompanied by the baddest bitch I have ever seen. They were on the escalator and she was on the step above him and giggling and teasing him that she was taller than him (she's not) and rubbing his back and clinging by his side

ratboi34 · 2023-10-18T00:18:08+00:00

Are there legal ways to become a single dad? I'm not sure if I want a wife, but I want kids in like 8 years.

thisaccountaintrea1 · 2023-10-18T00:19:40+00:00

I’m curious about how common this behavior is, because I’ve about heard it from a couple places now: Have you ever wanted to get out of a relationship, but you didn’t want to be the one to break up, so you acted like an asshole until the other person broke up with you?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-18T00:35:26+00:00

If y'all are gonna insult single moms (and women in general) on a regular basis at least fucking spell correctly.

Comments just read ridiculous when you insult someone but can't even spell in the process.

It's 2023, your phone comes with spell check. Google is a tap away. FFS.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-18T00:43:32+00:00

My ex neighbor is coming over for dinner tonight. He’s my favorite in my scant new social circle: smart, funny & interesting. I’m psyched for the social interaction. Chad has left the building and the monk is great but we basically just chat about meditation related things.

BeReady6129 · 2023-10-18T01:29:35+00:00

Few things i am certain of you have at one point been bitten by a bug or mosquito, and i am certain at one point you have been upset or angry at another person.

You didn't blame(hopefully) the bug for bitting you, but why are you upset at another person?

They were both programmed.

Most of us see a bug as a program designed to do what what it does. The other person is no different, he is who he/she is because of reason. From his ancestor, reward+punishment as a child, to his life experience. We are all programs.

Seeing people as reason is a powerful perspective. Rather than see them through emotion and judgement.

AutomaticMeaning3844 · 2023-10-18T01:44:36+00:00

With all the buzz, I thought Ozempic was some miracle drug that burned fat. I would understand people taking it because it's hard to specifically target fat over muscle. But it looks like all it's doing is suppressing appetite for people taking it for weight loss. All it's doing is compensating for the self control people don't have.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-18T01:48:20+00:00

So resource hypergamy is declining, mostly because it has to. But if you get to a situation where women do not date up financially, are they essentially going to demand some sort of compensation for their greater reproductive costs and sexual leverage? Could we get a situation where women will start to date up in appearance across the board?
I get the feeling that a lot of women do not feel that a purely equal male partner in everything is actually a fair deal given women's greater costs. There is also the belief that male and female nature being what they are, most women will eventually end up providing more in the relationship than the man does somehow, be it childcare, emotional labor, elder care of relatives, or whatever. So maybe on some level women want compensation for that.

0DarkFlirty · 2023-10-18T02:07:43+00:00

"Desire seeks the path of desire, not the path of righteousness. It thrives not on social order but on its negation. This is one reason all religions and societies try to control, contain, limit and re-direct it." - Heartiste

keebydee · 2023-10-18T02:31:33+00:00

I wish I got flowers for once. 😞

Iakobos_Mathematikos · 2023-10-18T02:39:49+00:00

I think I need to take an extended break from this sub. I think all of the posts railing on men are starting to get to me. That one from today talking about how men don’t offer any value was the straw that broke this camel’s back.

But I’ll probably be back tomorrow since I’m lonely as fuck, and I can’t stop obsessing over things related to my loneliness.

Excellent_Badger123 · 2023-10-18T03:10:58+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LXvG0SMP7tw

Depressing or hopeful in a depressing way?

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-10-18T04:11:56+00:00

What types of men are more likely to cheat?

Gladboys · 2023-10-18T04:17:56+00:00

How often do you kick it a bit with a homeless person

WilliamWyattD · 2023-10-18T04:54:27+00:00

I like to take people's pulse on this occasionally.
So, as material NEED for a man continues to decrease, just how selective do you think women will turn out to be in a hardwired way that you can't adjust much with culture changes?
Like assuming men adapt and work as hard as women do at being attractive and productive, and work the right ways, what kind of Incel rate do we plateau at? What is normal? Is 80/20 real?

AidsVictim · 2023-10-18T05:21:07+00:00

Interesting thread about male vs female facial ratings in Italy...the basics are already known here but

1) how low women rate men is really stark here. A small minority of men even make it past the 50 (mid) mark. Most are literally 2/10 or 3/10 according to women. The best looking guys barely break a 6/10 and anything above that practically don't exist. I think you can really only end up with heavily skewed results through some kind of enculturation. Having so many men rated a 2/10 (basically deformed) doesn't even make sense.

2) Women also overrate their own looks in the same way men do, although both the tails (very low ratings and very high ratings) are larger in womens self ratings.

3) Mens ratings follow a normal distribution closer in both cases (already known from ok cupid data).

https://twitter.com/datepsych/status/1714247746935312730

Professional_Bad_282 · 2023-10-18T06:22:49+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/s/WIYgFZ834q

How common are this kind of women in your social?

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-10-18T07:28:10+00:00

Nice guys types are definitely guys with limited experience of the world but still act like wise beyond their years. I’m starting to think narcissism.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-10-18T08:23:48+00:00

Just got tatted. At age 38, I'm finally trying to thugmaxx. I guess its not too late at my age.

But for real that shit hurt like a mf. I'm laying in the chair thinking how the hell people can have their whole body tatted. Just enduring pain for 4 hours was hard enough as it is.

supremethrone · 2023-10-18T08:32:59+00:00

"sex isn't that great and is overrated" says the person having sex all the time

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-18T08:57:23+00:00

I think that women envy men's easyness on some level. Women also want to be swept off their feet, which is why they like confident go-getters. It's basically the same "foolishness" that they roll their eyes at in men, it's just significantly rarer for them.

FuuraKafu · 2023-10-18T09:13:16+00:00

In this sexlesness and people dating less phenomenon, how big a factor is women being simply uncomfortable with male nature? Eg my capacity to get excited by a sexy stranger, like that pizza delivery guy who lucks out in porn. In the past, we didn't ever have such a wide scale ideology of pathologizing that sort of stuff (men just don't have enough friends so they accidentally think they are horny because they are sexist and they see women as objects, yada yada).

We have a good amount of women here who are willing to entertain biological differences being real, but somehow this tendency isn't looked at a lot. Women should get that large swathes of people being disgusted of things about you that you consider natural or normal is kinda disheartening, so...

SerpentCypher · 2023-10-18T10:47:42+00:00

"Men bring nothing to the table anymore!"

Then you look on OLD profiles and see what women want for a guy to be "contributing something"

Tall Handsome Intelligent Outgoing Athletic Outdoorsy Laid-back Able to take charge Honest Physically strong Mentally strong Kind Funny Hardworking Ambitious Sensitive Romantic Good listener Doesn't make me do emotional labour Same political beliefs as me Wants a family Doesn't smoke Doesnt drink Short hair Muscular/In good shape Nice car Earns minimum of 100k a year Has his own boat Can fix cars Can fix computers Able to build things Knows plumbing Is a fantastic cook Will watch every bad TV show I like Won't judge me for being fat

Really Sarah? 37 and single? Never would have guessed.

That's a real list of requirements I found as well, I just put a different name.

Like what guy is a builder, plumber, electrician, chef, computer expert etc all in his spare time? Whilst also being a rich chad that OWNS HIS OWN BOAT?

Electrical_Coat_8714 · 2023-10-18T11:49:03+00:00

Women incapable of love confirmed thanks ppd

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